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“There isn’t time, so brief is life, for bickering, apologies, heart burnings, callings to account.
There is only time for loving, and but an instant so to speak, for that.” (Mark Twain as cited in
Waldinger, 2016). Half of the entirety in a person’s life is spent searching for an irrational love
that would complete and make them feel whole. A love further built upon contrary to the untainted
feeling amplifies the ache of each other’s heart induced to half a lifetime fallen unto rupture.
Marriage; a contract of love, a special bond, an eternal promise. But can love still be justified if
you were to stay, where in fact it is detrimental to the physical, mental, and emotional makeup of
a person?
“When something hurts your eyes, stop looking at it. When it hurts your ears, stop listening to
it. And when it hurts your heart, stop justifying it.” (Anonymous, 2018). With the points presented
above, conflicted marriages may opt for other legal actions, but base on certain parameters set, the
most practical litigation on pressing matters that require immediate legal attention that most
importantly affects the physical, psychological, and emotional makeup of a person is divorce. And
although family relations may be affected, sustained care for the child caught in the separation
may actually improve the psychological state of the child through learning acceptance. Never
vindicate extreme physical or mental agony for the name of love, a justified love is free from any
kind of oppression.
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