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Ms. Fillman
12 December 2018
About 1 in 59 children is diagnosed with autism, and 3.5 million Americans currently live
with the disorder (Facts and Statistics). In the book Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by
Jonathan Safran Foer, which is about a nine-year-old boy named Oskar struggling to deal with
the death of his father, the main character exhibits traits indicative of being on the spectrum.
Autism spectrum disorder, or ASD, is an umbrella term for several developmental conditions
that result in impaired social skills. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental
maintaining, and understanding relationships.” This can present itself in behavioral patterns such
resistance to change, a fixated, unusually intense interest on a specific subject or thing, and
repetitive movements or habits (Diagnostic Criteria for 299.00 Autism Spectrum Disorder).
Autism comes in many different forms and severities, and no two people with autism have the
same symptoms, which is why it is known as a spectrum disorder (Autism Spectrum Disorder).
Autism affects the way the character Oskar Schell, as well as other people on the spectrum,
experience the world through struggles with mental health, social difficulties, and the grieving
process.
Autism spectrum disorder is a mental disability, and it can negatively affect how people
are able to live their lives. Sensory overload, intense emotions, and an inability to express oneself
in a way that will be understood or accepted by neurotypicals can be distressing for autistic
people, and they often have trouble regulating their feelings and behavior (Rudy). People with
autism often have trouble making eye contact, reading or expressing body language, and
understanding the subtleties of social cues. This can make it easy for them to feel isolated. A
woman with autism described her struggles with this, saying: “Everything was so simple for
other people, everything they understood so easily, that I couldn’t...grasp or do. I just didn’t
understand what was wrong with me” (What Women with Autism Want You to Know). Autism
also frequently coincides with other disorders or mental health issues, such as depression and
anxiety. This is true in Oskar’s case. When Oskar gets anxious, he compares his brain to beavers’
teeth: “if they didn’t constantly file them down...their teeth would start to grow into their own
faces, which would kill them. That’s how my brain was” (Safran Foer 36). Oskar experiences
anxiety surrounding heights, elevators, the subway, Muslim people, and more. He deals with
depression, which he describes as having heavy boots. Oskar also has insomnia, joining the up to
83% of children with ASD who have sleep disorders (Jeste). These mental disorders have had a
negative impact on the way Oskar deals with the world around him.
Oskar exhibits behaviors and difficulty in social situations indicative of ASD, although it
is never explicitly mentioned in the book. Oskar has trouble dealing with change, and he has
repetitive behavioral and thinking patterns typical of someone on the spectrum. When he
receives a signed T-shirt from Ringo Starr, he says “unfortunately, it wasn’t white, so I couldn’t
wear it” (Safran Foer 40). Oskar’s insistence on only wearing white clothing is an example of his
reliance on routine. While he does not have many problems with reading others’ emotions or
body language, Oskar does have some issues with understanding and adapting to social
environments and contexts. When he is in a limousine on the way to his father’s funeral, he says,
“Even though I was trying hard for it not to, it was annoying me how Grandma kept touching
me, so I climbed into the front seat and poked the driver’s shoulder until he gave me some
attention” (4). This demonstrates both Oskar’s involuntary sensitivity to touch and his tendency
to behave in a way that is inappropriate for the situation. Stemming from difficulties with
socialization, some people with autism may not be able to understand figures of speech (Autism
Spectrum Disorder). Oskar’s mom describes Oskar’s father as someone who “sometimes missed
the forest for the trees,” to which Oskar responds, “What forest?” (Safran Foer 43). Oskar, like
many other autistic people, has problems with relating to and understanding the social world.
Autism affects the way people cope with and process emotions of grief and isolation,
which can be seen in Oskar’s situation. Stimming, or self-stimulatory behavior, is one way that
autistic people calm themselves down. This can be through a repetitive motion, such as rocking
or hand flapping, or a repetitive sound, such as repeating words or phrases (Rudy). One of
Oskar’s stims is the sound of his tambourine. When he is feeling depressed or anxious, he finds
that it “sometimes helps to play a good beat” (Safran Foer 2). Another example of this is Oskar’s
habit of hurting himself when his emotions get too intense and difficult to deal with. After falling
from a chair in his father’s closet, Oskar hears his mom and her friend Ron laughing obliviously
in the other room. He says, “Even though I knew I shouldn’t, I gave myself a bruise” (37).
According to Autism Speaks, “Nearly 28 percent of 8-year-olds with ASD have self-injurious
behaviors.” Oskar is around the same age, meaning that he is among many other autistic children
who have harmful stims. According to the Indiana Resource Center for Autism, all children with
autism “grieve in their own unique way.” Oskar describes his grief to a psychiatrist, saying “I’m
constantly emotional...It’s extremely hard for me to go to school. I also can’t sleep over at
friends’ apartments, because I get panicky about being away from Mom. I’m not very good with
people” (Safran Foer 201). Many autistic children dealing with loss become anxious and
experience heavy and often confusing emotions (Wheeler). Oskar’s struggles with depression,
anxiety, and insomnia are caused or at the very least amplified by the intense grief he feels after
Overall, people with autism have a different way of viewing and experiencing the world.
This can affect, to varying degrees, their mental health, social interactions, and grieving
processes.