Get ready for 12 smart psychological tips everyone should know.

You don't necessarily have to be an expert in psychology to understand what's going

on in people's heads and use it to your advantage.

There are some psychological tips that work on a subconscious level.

That help you win another person's trust, get somebody's approval and relax when
you're stressed out.
In today's article im sharing 12 tips that will work every time and can help you
out in any situation.

So, if you're ready to get

what you want in life with some help from psychology, then hit that thumbs up
button

Counting down from number twelve.

# 12
When a group of people are laughing, each person looks at the individual he or she
likes the most.
After a good joke or in the middle of an interesting discussion, every person
instinctively looks at the person they like
the most

. This is because they want to make sure that the object of their desires approves
of and shares their sense of humor.
So in order to find out everything about a group
of friends get a few really good jokes ready and watch everybody like a hawk.

Your observations might turn out really surprising!

# 11
chew on something when you're nervous. Before an important conversation, a public
speech, or another event that makes you nervous, you should try to choose some gum
or even
eat something. Study at Tokyo medical and dental university concluded that the
chewing motion greatly reduces feelings of anxiety.
The
thing is that nobody eats when they're in danger so while you're chewing your brain
thinks it's safe to relaxsends a signal that relieves tension and helps calm you
down. You're basically tricking your
own brain. The same tokyo research explains that some ancient Mayans and greeks

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who used to chew on tree resin were less ants than their peers who didn't share
this habit

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Oh, maybe this is where the expression "She really chewed him out" came from

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wow that would make her a stressed out cannibal. Okay, maybe
not

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number ten

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Staring can help you get any information you need.

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If you don't like the answer someone has
given you, or it seems they're not telling you the whole story

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Just keep staring at them.

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In this situation, the silence will be so unbearable
that they'll be ready to tell you anything just to end it

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After all, the purpose of a stare is persuasion

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Try it out and see if it works.
If you're successful give us a thumbs up

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Hey, my dog uses that on me all the time

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number nine

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Imagine that
your future employer is a good friend of yours.

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To avoid getting the jitters during an oral exam or a job interview

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Imagine that the person
in front of you is a friend you haven't seen in ages

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This will help calm you down really quickly and answering the person's questions
will be much easier

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Another point to keep in mind why not consider the possibility that the interviewer
is as nervous as you are

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You never know?

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Maybe
it's their first hiring interview or their first exam as a teacher, and if you come
in with a smile

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You'll not only feel more confident yourself, but put them at ease
too

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number eight if you have to work with people a lot, put a mirror behind you

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If you have to talk to a lot of people at work hang a small mirror
behind your desk

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You'll be surprised that many people will be more polite and ready to meet you
halfway in negotiations

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This is because nobody
likes to see themselves angry or annoyed

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Cool is that and the most important thing is that these psychological tips work.

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By the way, we have a
lot more videos that reveal the secrets of human psychology

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Check out the links at the top of the screen once you've watched this video till
the end

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number seven if you think someone is looking at you, just yawn.

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oddly enough, yawning is like the common call

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there's even a phenomenon called "
contagious yawning"

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It's typical for humans and chimpanzees to yawn when they see, hear, or just think
about yawning

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some individuals are less
influenced by others yawns, but

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out of 328 participants of a study conducted at the Duke University School of
Medicine

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222 yawn while watching a
video of people yawning.

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are you yawning right now just hearing about for those

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hmm yeah that works

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So it's more likely
than not you'll be able to use yawning to see who's watching you

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o figure it out, just yawn, and look around. In most cases the person who is
staring at you will yawn, too

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Not only that but if you do this when the Sun comes up you can yawn at dawn

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Thank you very much
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number six if you want to break up a fight
get something to eat and stand between people who are fighting

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This is called the snack man effect really

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the story goes that one day a fight broke out
on a New York subway train

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a woman attacked a man who she claimed had been following her

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in the middle of the fight, another man got up and stepped
between them.

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He stood there for some time just nonchalantly

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snacking on his Pringles

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Miraculously the fighting passengers
chilled out and peace was restored

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The hero of the day was dubbed the snack man and became internet famous

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There's a simple psychological explanation for
what happened that day

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Eating is associated with relaxation and being calm.

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the probability of a person attacking someone who is eating is very low

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So the conflict resolves itself in no time

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number 5 if you want to get rid of something, just hand it to someone while talking
to them

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Imagine you're
moving boxes or picking up around the house if you need a helping hand but no one
is offering

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Just ask someone nearby a personal question or their opinion on something

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When
the person is answering the question their brain is so busy formulating thoughts
that all other actions switch to autopilot

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in this situation your conversation partner will take whatever you give them
without even thinking

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I can't wait to try that one

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number 4 if you want to easily become friends with someone just ask them for a
favor

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It
doesn't have to be a huge favor

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Just something simple: passing the sauce, a napkin, a sheet of paper or even asking
for some advice

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The person who's doing the favor will think they like you

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because they're doing something for you, however trivial it may be

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here's what one woman says: "well, I never really liked the guy until one day

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He
asked me to lend him 20 bucks. I then thought he considered me a close enough

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Maybe even a friend to help him and voila! I started to like him."

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number
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schedule important meetings for the beginning or the end of the day.

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people remember things best when they happen at the beginning and the end of the
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Everything in between is a blur

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That's why we recommend sending up important meetings for these times of the day

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if you
have a job interview, try to be either the first or the last candidate

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Another trick to make participants attend and be punctual

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is to specify a weird time
in duration for the meeting

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It's called the Swiss train's approach

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if a person sees a meeting from 922 to 946 on their schedule,

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they're more likely to be on time and things will stick to the agenda more
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number two

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Pay attention to the direction of feet while talking to other
people

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Now, people's feet can help you understand their true feelings in a conversation

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If you come to them and they turn their body to you

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But not their feet it means they're not interested in talking to you

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Also, if the tips of their shoes are facing a different direction it means they
want to get away as soon
as possible

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Or it could mean that they had their hips replaced and somehow the doctor screwed
it up.

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not likely, but I'm just saying

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and number 1

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Copying other people's body language will help you win their trust

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Repeating somebody's gestures posture or facial expressions can
help you win their trust

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the person doesn't consciously realize that they see themselves in you because of
the familiar gestures and

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Let's be frank most people
like themselves
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The most important thing here is to not overdo it.

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for instance, if they pick their nose, don't mirror that one

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use
common sense

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Also, so that people see that you're paying attention

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Smile when you're listening to their good news and frown at the mention of bad
events in their
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got it

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Another great technique to win trust is a sincere smile

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When your smile isn't forced, your mood improves you start to
exude warmth and people feel it

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hey are you the one that takes advantage of these subconscious tricks?

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Which one is your favorite? tell us in the comment section
below!

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