Biwi ko nasihat

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★ Biwi Ka Shohar Ke Sath Zindagi Guzarne
Ka Tarika.-1.

1. Ye Khoob Samjh Lo Ke Shohar Or Biwi Ke Darmiyan

Ek Aisa Talluk Hai Ke
Jisme Puri Zindagi Guzarni Hoti.

Agar Dono Ka {Mel Jol} Ho Gaya To Usse Badhkar

Koi Ne'Amt Nahi.
Or Agar Khuda Na Kare Dono Me Fark Aa Gaya To
Usse Badi Koi Aafat Nahì.

Is Liye Jahan Tak Ho Sake Khawind Ke Dil Ko Khush

Rakho Aur Uski Aankh Ke Ishare Par Chala Karo,
{Iska Matlb Gumali Wagairah Bikul Bhi Nahi Hai Ye
Aapke Liye Faide Ka Jariya Ho}.

Jaisa Agar Wo Hukam Kare Ke Puri Raat Hath

Jod Kar Khadi Raho To Duniya Or Aakhirat Ki
Bhalai Usi Me Hai Ke
Duniya Ki Thodi Taklif Utha Kar Aakhirat Ki Bhalai
Or Izzat Hasil Karo.

2. Kabhi Koi Aisi Baat Na Karo Jo Uske Mizaj

Ke Khilaf Ho.
Jaisa Agar Wo Din Ko Raat Kahe To Tum Bhì Din
Ko Raat Kehne Lago.

3. Kam Samjhi Or Anjam Na Sochne Ki Wajah Se

Ba'Az Aurte Aisi Baat Kar Deti Hai Jisse Khawind Ke
Dil Me Fark Aa Jata Hai,
Kabhi Bagair Moka Zuban Chala Di.
Kabhi Ta'Na Or Burai Ki Baat Keh Dali
Or Kabhi Gussa Me Dil Dukhane Wali Baate Keh Dali Ke
Jisse Khawind Ko Sunkar Bura Lage.

Fir Jab Uska Dil Fat Jata Hai Or Usme Fark Aa Jata
Hai To Baad Me Roti Firti Hai.

Ye Khub Samjh Lo Ke Khawind Ke Dil Me Fark Aane Ke

Baad Agar Do Char Din Me Use Samjha Kar Mana Bhi
Liya To Wo Baat Nahi Rehti Jo Pehle Thi.

Fir Hazar Baat Banao ,

Maafi Mango,
Magar Pehle Jaisa Dil Saaf Tha Utni Muhabbat
Nahi Rahegi.

Jab Koi Baat Hoti Hai To Yehi Khayal Aa Jata Hai

Ke Ye Wohi Hai Ke Jisne Falane Din Aisa Keh Diya
Tha, Isliye Apne Khawind Ke Sath Bahot Sambhal
Kar Rehna Chahiye Take Khuda Or Rasul Sallallahu
Alayhi Wasallam Ko Khushi Ho Aur Tumhari Duniya Or
Aakhirat Dono Thik Ho Jaye.

Samjh Dar Aurat Ko To Kuch Batane Ki Khas

Zarurat Nahi Hoti.
Kyun Ke Wo Khud Hee Har Baat Ki Achai Burai
Ko Dekh Leti Hai.

*ͣ Next Post Jald Insha Allahͣ*

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★ *Biwi Ka Shohar Ke Sath Zindagi Guzarne
Ka Tarika.-2*

4. Khawind Ke Haisiyat Se Ziyadah Kharch

Mat Mango.

5. Jo Kuch Tumhe Mil Jaye Use Apna Ghar Samjh Kar

Chatni Roti Kha Kar Guzara Kar Lo.

6.Kabhi Koi Kapda Ya Or Koi Cheez Pasand Aa

Gaya To Agar Khawind Ke Paas Rupiya Na Ho To
Uski Mang Na Karo.
Uske Na Milne Par Afsos Na Karo Aur Use Bilkul Apne
Muh Se Dobar Na Nikalo.

Khud Socho Ke Agar Tumne Keh Diya To Tumhara

Garib Khawind Apne Dil Me Kahega Ke Use Meri
Pareshani Ka Kuch Bhi Khayal Nahi Hai Ke Bagair
Moke Mang Karti Hai,

Balke Tumhara Khawind Agar Amir Ho To Bhi Jahan

Tak Ho Sake Khud Kisi Cheez Ki Mang Na Karo.
Haan Agar Wo Tumse Puche Ke Tumhare
Liya Kya Laav?
To Us Waqt Bata Do.
Maang Karne Se Biwi Apne Khawind Ki Nazaro Me Gir
Jati Hai Or Uski Baat Be-Dam Ho Jati Hai.

*ͣ Next Post Jald Insha Allahͣ*

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★ *Biwi Ka Shohar Ke Sath Zindagi Guzarne
Ka Tarika.-3*

7.Kisi Baat Par Zidd Na Karo, Agar Koi Baat Tumhare

Khilaf Bhi Ho To Us Waqt Jane Do.
Fir Kisi Dusre Moka Par Munasib Tarike Se Puri Kar Lo.

8.Agar Khawind Ke Ghar Taklif Se Guzar Hota

Hai, To Kisi Ke Samne Zaban Par Na Lao, Aur
Hamesha Khushi Zahir Na Karti Raho Taake Mard
Ko Dukh Na Pahonche.
Tumhare Is Tarah Ke Bartao Se Uska Dil Tumhare
Hath Me Aa Jayega.

9. Agar Tumhare Liye Koi Aisi Cheez Laaye Jo Tumhe

Pasand Na Aaye Hamesha Us Par Khushi Zahir Karo.
Aisa Na Kaho Ke Ye Cheez Kharab Hai Aur Mujhe
Pasand Nahi Hai, Isse Uska Dil Naraz Ho Jayega.

Fir Tumhare Liye Kabhi Koi Cheez Lane Ko Uska Dil

Nahi Chahega, Aur Agar Uski Tarif Kar Ke Khushi
Se Le Liya To Uska Dil Badhega, Fir Usse Bhi Achchi
Cheez Lakar Dega.
Kabhi Gusse Me Khawind Ki Nashukri Na Karo, Aur
Ye Na Kehne Lago Ke Is Kam Nasib Ke Ghar Me Aakar
Mujhe Kya Mila? Maa Baap Ne Meri Kismat Fod Dali
Ke Aisi Aafat Me Fansa Di, Aag Me Fenk Dali, Aisi
Baato Se Dil Me Jagah Nahi Rehti.

*ͣ Next Post Jald Insha Allahͣ*

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★ *Biwi Ka Shohar Ke Sath Zindagi Guzarne
Ka Tarika.-4*

10. Aap Khud Socho Ke Khawind Ki Nashukri

Karna Kitni Buri Cheez Hai Isse Har Aurat Ko
Bachna Chahiye

Kisi Par La'Anat Karne Ka Matlab Ye Hai Ke Tum Yun

Kaho Ke Falani Par Khuda Ki Mar Ho, Us Par Khuda
Ki Fitkar, Falani Badsurat He, Uske Munh Par La'Anat
Barsati He, Ye Sab Bate Buri Hai Aur Jahanum Me
Jaane Ka Jariya Hai.

11. Khawind Ko Kisi Baat Par Gussa Aa Gaya To Aisi

Baat Na Karo Jisse Gussa Or Badh Jaye.

Har Waqt Mijaz Dekh Kar Bat Karo.

Agar Dekho Ke Is Waqt Hansi Mazak Me Khush Hai

To Hansi Mazak Karo.
Warna Usse Hansi Mazak Na Karo.

Kisi Baat Par Tumse Naraz Hokar Ruth Jaye To Tum

Bhi Munh Chada Kar Na Beth Jao.
Balki Mana Kar Ke Apni Galati Ki Maafi Mang Kar
Hath Jod Kar Jaha Tak Ho Sake Mana Lo, Chahe
Tumhari Galati Ho Ya Na Ho,

Aur Agar Khawind Ki Kabhi Galati Ho Tab Bhi Kabhi

Khud Naraz Nahi Hona Chahiye.

Balke Hath Jod Kar Apni Bhool Ki Maafi Mango Tab

Khawind Ko Ahsaas Hoga Ke Galati Meri Thi Aur Meri
Biwi Maafi Mang Rahi Hai, Isse Aapki Aur Izzat Badh
Jayegi Par Shaitan Aisa Karne Nahi Deta Hai.

*ͣ Next Post Jald Insha Allahͣ*

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★ Biwi Ka Shohar Ke Sath Zindagi Guzarne
Ka Tarika.-5.

12. Khoob Samjh Lo Ke Miya Biwi Ka Milap Sirf

Muhabbat Se Nahi Hota.
Balke Muhabbat Ke Sath Khawind Ka Adab
Bhi Zaruri Hai,
Khawind Ko Apne Barabar Samjhna Bahot Badi Bhul
Hai, Kyu Ki Isse Uska Adab Dil Se Nikal Jata Hai.
13. Khawind Se Hargiz Apni Koi Khidmat Na Lo.Agar
Wo Kisi Waqt Muhabbat Se Tumhare Hath Pair Ya Sar
Dabane Lage To Tum Esa Na Karne Do.
Bhala Socho To Sahi Ke Agar Tumhara Bhai Aisa
Tumhari Bhabhi Ke Saath Kare To Kya Tumko Gawara
Hoga? Tab Tu Tum Kahogi Ye Joruka Gulam Hai,

Fir Shohar Ka Martaba To Bhai Se Ziyadah Hai.

Uthne Bethne Me ,
Baatchit Karne Me ,
Garz Har Baat Me Adab Tameez Ka Khayaal Rakho.
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*Aurato Ko Nasihat➪ Post No.74*

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★ *Biwi Ka Shohar Ke Sath Zindagi Guzarne

Ka Tarika.-6*

14. Tumhara Khawind Jab Kabhi Gulf Country Se

Aaye To Uska Mijaz Pucho,
Aur Khairiyat Pucho Ke Wahan Par Aap Kis Tarah
Rahe?Aap Ko Koi Taklif To Nahi Hui,

Aur Sabse Pehle Unko Khana Nikal Kar Saath Baitha

Ka Pyar Se Khilao Ho Sake Tu Ek Do Lukma Apne
Hath Se Bhi Khila Do,

Aur Khana Kahne Ke Baad Sab Se Pehle Paani Ka

Lota Le Kar Unke Hath Dhulao,
Or Jo Kuch Ho Sake Jaise Meethai Wagairah Unke
Samne Rakh Do.

Jab Wo Kha Pee Kar Let Jaye To Unke Hath Pair Pakad
Lo, Aur Unse Ye Kaho Ke Laaiye Aap Ka Badan Daba
Du, Aap Safar Ki Wajah Se Thak Gaye Honge.

Aur Agar Garmi Ka Mosam Ho To Pankhe Se Hawa

Karne Khadi Ho Jao.

Yaani Uski Rahat Or Aaram Ki Baate Karo.

Usse Rupiye Paise Ki Baat Hargiz Na Karo Ke Hamare

Liye Kya Cheez Laaye?
Kitna Rupiya Laaye?

Ye Bhi Na Karo Ke Uski Jeb Tatolne Lago Yani

Check Karne Lago.Aur Uske Batve Ki Talashi
Lene Lago.Rupiya Ka Batwa Kaha Hai? Dekhe
Kitna Rupiya Hai?

Jab Wo Khud De To Le Lo,Ye Hisab Na Pucho Ke

Salary To Bahot Hai, Aur
Tum Bahot Kharch Kar Dalte Ho,
Itna Rupiya Kaha Kharch Kiya,Kya Kar Dala?

Kabhi Khushi Ke Waqt Salika Ke Sath Baato Baato Me

Puchlo To Khair,Iska Koi Haraj Nahi.
*ͣ Next Post Jald Insha Allahͣ*

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★
Ghar: *Biwi Ka Shohar Ke Sath Zindagi
Guzarne Ka Tarika.-7*

15. Agar Khawind Ke Maa Baap Zinda Ho Or Ruypiye

Paise Sab Unhi Ko Dete Ho,
Tumhare Hath Par Na Dete Ho To Kuch Bura Na Mano,

Balke Agar Tumko De Tab Bhi Aqal Ki Baat Ye Hai Ke

Tum Apne Hath Me Na Lo.
Aur Ye Kaho Ke Unhi Ko Dijiye, Isse Saas Sasur Ke Dil
Me Tumhare Liye Pyaar Paida Hoga.

Jab Tak Saas Sasur Zinda Rahe Unki Khidmat

Or Tabedari Ko Apna Farz Samjho Aur Ussi Me
Apni Izzat Samjho.

Aur Saas Nanad Se Alag Ho Kar Rehne Ki Hargiz

Fikar Na Karo Ke Saas Nanad Se Bigad Ho Jane
Ki Yahi Jad Hoti Hai.

Khud Socho Ke Maa Baap Ne Use Paala , Parvarish

Kiya , Or Budhape Is Ummid Par Uski Shadi Biyah Ki
Ke Humko Aaram Mile Aur Jab Bahu Aayi To Hee Ye
Sochne Lagi Ki Miya Aaj Hee Se Maa Baap Ko Chor De.

Fir Jab Khawind Ke Maa Baap Ko Maalum Hota Hai

Ke Ye Hamare Bete Ko Humse Alag Karna Chahati
Hai Fir Fasad Felta Hai Ghar Me Isliye Saas Sasaur
Ke Sath Mil Jul Kar Raho.

*Next Post Jald Insha Allah*

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Zindagi Guzarne Ka Tarika.-8*

16. Apna Mamla Shuru Se Adab Lihaz Ka Rakho.

Choto Par Maherbani ,
Bado Ka Adab Kiya Karo
Or Apni Koi Cheez Yahan Wahan Jagah Padi Na Rehne
Do Ke Falan Usko Uthaye.

17 Jo Kaam Saas Or Nande Karti Hai Tum Uske Karne

Se Sharam Na Karo.
Tum Khud Bagair Kahe Unse Le Lo Or Kar Do.Isse
Sasural Walo Ke Dilo Me Tumhari Muhabbat
Paida Ho Jayegi.

18. Jab Do Aadmi Chupke Chupke Baate Karte Ho

To Alag Ho Jao.Or Iskì Khoj Na Lagao Ke Aapas Me
Kya Baate Ho Rahi Thi.
Aur Khwah- Ma-Khwah Ye Bhi Khayal Na Karo Ke
Kuch Mere Baare Me Hee Bate Hogi.

*ͣ Next Post Jald Insha Allahͣ*

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★*Biwi Ka Shohar Ke Sath Zindagi Guzarne
Ka Tarika.-9*

19. Ye Bhi Zarur Khayal Rakho Ke Sasural Me

Be Dili Se Mat Raho.
Agarche Ye Naya Ghar Hai
Naye Log Hone Ki Wajah Se Dil Nahi Lagta Hai, Lekin
Dil Ko Samjhana Chahiye
Na Ke Waha Rone Beth Jao, Jab Dekho To Bethi Ro
Rahi Hai, Aur Aisa Bhi Na Ho Ab Kuch Din Hee Hua Hai
Wapas Ghar Jaane Ko Bol Rahi Ho,

20. Baat Karne Me Khayal Rakho Naa Ke Itna Bak

Bak Kare Ke Sabko Bura Lage,
Na Itni Kam Ke Baar Baar Ghar Wale Bole Beti
Jara Muh Tu Kholo, Ye Bhi Bura Hai Or Gurur
Samjha Jata Hai.

21. Agar Sasural Me Koi Baat Nagawar Or Buri Lage To

Maike Me Aakar Chugli Na Karo, Sasural Ki Zara Zara
Si Baat Aakar Maa Se Kehna Or Maa Ko Khud Sasural
Ki Baate Khod Khod Kar Puchna Badi Buri Baat Hai,
Isse Aapas Me Ladai Jhagde Hote Hai, Iske Siva Or
Koi Faidah Nahi Hoga.

Zara Zara Se Shohar Par Ilzaam Na Lagao Ke Tum

Falani Ke Sath Bahot Hansa Karte Ho..Wahan
Ziyadah Kyun Jaya Karte Ho? Wahan Bethe
Kya Karte Ho?

Kyun Ke Usme Mard Agar Bekusur Ho To Tumhi Socho

Ke Usko Kitna Bura Lagega.
Or Agar Sach Much Uski Aadat Hee Kharab Hai To
Ye Khayal Karo Ke Tumhare Gussa Karne Se Ya
Koi Dabav Dal Kar Zabardasti Karne Se Tumhara
Hee Nuksaan Hai, Apni Taraf Se Dil Mela Karna Ho
To Kar Lo.Lekin Kya Aisa Gussa Karne Se Kya Aisi
Buri Aadat Jaati Hai?

Aadat Chudana Ho To Akalmandi Se Raho,

Tanhai Me Chup Ke Chupke Samjhao

Agar Samjhane Se Aur Gairat Dilane Se Bhi Aadat

Na Chute To Khair !

Sabr Kar Ke Bethi Raho,

Logo Ke Samne Gaati Na Raho
Or Usko Badname Or Ruswa Na Karo.

Tez Ho Kar Usko Na Dabao, Kyun Ke Is Tarah Se

Zid Ziyadah Badh Jati Hai.Or Gussa Me Aakar
Shohar Wo Kaam Aur Ziyadah Karne Lagta Hai Jo
Biwi Ko Pasand Nahi,

Agar Tum Jyada Gusse Se Usko Ruswa Karogi To

Jitna Tumse Bolna Tha, Ab Utna Bhi Na Bolega.Fir
Us Waqt Roti Firegi.

į *_Alhamdu-Lillah Ye Parts Muqammal Hua_* į

Last modified: 18 Mar 2018