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Table of Contents
Introduction .................................................... 5
Step 1 – Gaining Confidence............................. 8
Step 2 – Eating For Better Sex ......................... 11
Step 3 – Masturbation .................................... 14
Step 4 – Improving Relationships ................... 17
Step 5 – Find What You Desire....................... 20
Step 6 – Experiment ...................................... 22
Step 7 – Oral Sex ............................................ 25
Step 8 – Other Forms Of Foreplay .................. 30
Step 9 – The Act Of Intercourse ..................... 33
Conclusion..................................................... 36
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Introduction
Kama Sutra is one of the most well-known books
pertaining to the history of desire, love making,
positioning and other sexual practices. The Kama Sutra
wasn’t merely a book to read but more of a way of life.
Following the Kama Sutras practices and steps led one
down a path of sexual completeness and fulfillment in
relationships. Although most of the practices are now
considered ancient, a lot of them are still used in today’s
society. Though some of the practices are dated and no
longer apply to modern day, American and European
relationships, there are plenty of different parts of the
world that still use the Kama Sutra and abide by each and
every law religiously.
Being a way of life, the Kama Sutra follows the
“Purusharthas” which is translated as “the four main goals
of life”. These four main goals are as follows:
Dharma: Virtuous living
Artha: Material Prosperity
Kama: Desire
Moksha: Liberation
These four goals are what you aim your life to be like. In
order to be fulfilled in sex, love and life, these four goals
must be abided by or pursued throughout one’s life. An old
quote from the Kama Sutra text states:
“Dharma is better than Artha, and Artha is better than
Kama. But Artha should always be first practiced by the
king for the livelihood of men is to be obtained from it
only. Again, Kama being the occupation of public women,
they should prefer it to the other two, and these are
exceptions to the general rule.”
Being that, in America and European societies, there is
more equality among men and women so the translation of
this quote would seem dated to that population, but in
other areas where women are still considered less superior
than their male counterparts, this translation might be
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more relevant. A lot can be said for the Kama Sutra text
when it comes to life. Most of us want to live a life with
fulfilled desires, prosperity, virtuous living and feeling of
liberation however, most of us fall short on almost all of
these goals for whatever reason.
It is time to start taking control of your life and your
desires because sex is more than a physical act between a
male and a female. Sex, or lovemaking, is a connection
between two people – sometimes strangers though,
preferably not. Having a fulfilling sex life can be done
while also improving almost every aspect of your life. In
order to be fulfilled in other things, we need to first accept
that we need to change our way of thinking and put
together a guideline for improvement to abide by. This
book lays out nine steps that will not only lead you to a
more fulfilling sex life, but also to a better life all around.
You are already on the right step with reading a book
pertaining to this, so you are obviously ready for a change.
It can be hard to believe that your sex life can be
improved and changed by words written in a text, but it
can. In fact, improving your sex life can be done without
help at all, but you need to know yourself 100% if you ever
expect to please someone else (inside and outside of the
bedroom). There are so many ways in which each of us are
pleased via sexually. Finding out what pleases each and
every one of us is the difficult part. The Kama Sutra states
that all of us can find pleasure and desire in one another,
but only if certain factors are taken into account.
With this book, you will be able to identify and
implement nine steps that will change the way you look at
yourself, life and sex. You will feel born again with the
willingness and want to change or start anew. Having a
great sex life isn’t just a fairytale or something you see in
movies or pornography. A great sex life is achieved by hard
work on your part and life changing practices that are kept
up with throughout your life. Nothing in life is easy and
this is no exception to that.
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Step 3 – Masturbation
Masturbating is something we humans have done from
the beginning of time. Not only is it recommended, it can
also heighten and lengthen your sexual experience if done
prior to sexual intercourse. Women naturally have a
difficult time climaxing during sexual intercourse and
sometimes masturbation is the only way in which they can
achieve an orgasm. Masturbation also helps the individual
learn about themselves and find out what they deem to be
arousing and pleasurable. It would be difficult to know
what feels good or expect someone else to make you feel
good if you have never experimented and attempted to
figure it out on your own.
Masturbation is done by men daily, which is normal.
Women tend to masturbate less frequently than men for a
variety of reasons, mainly due to lack of time to allot to the
act and lack of desire because of other things that are
weighing down the mind. The reason masturbation is so
important for a fulfilling sex life can’t be narrowed down to
one reason; there are multiple. One of these reasons is that
masturbation, as stated before, can help you learn about
yourself and explore yourself. Having the privacy and
desire to explore your own body and sexual desires is
incredibly important in developing your sexual drive.
For men, masturbation can be done by experimenting
with different stroking techniques, fondling the testicles
and stroking the prostate from various angles. Some men
have very sensitive testicles and prefer not to have them
touched during sex and oral sex – knowing this will save
you from stress during the heat of the moment. For
women, knowing your limits and what feels good is
important. Some women have larger clitorises than others
and some women prefer the focus to not be solely on the
clitoris because this can be overwhelming. Some women
can only fit one finger into their vagina whereas other
women can fit an entire fist.
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Step 4 – Improving
Relationships
This step may seem a bit strange, but attempting to
have a fulfilling sex life can’t be done if your life isn’t on
the road to fulfillment. Improving every aspect of your life
is critical in gaining and maintaining a healthy and
satisfying sex life; relationships included. When we talk of
relationships, this doesn’t necessarily mean sexually based
relationships exclusively. All of your relationships in your
life need to be improved. Any bridges that you burned,
grudges you are holding, people you haven’t forgiven or
you have been ignoring for whatever reason – any
relationship that is holding tension in your life, needs to be
addressed.
It may seem trivial but this step is more important than
individuals realize because humans are social animals.
Being a social animal means our wellbeing is determined
by having people around us and engaging in social
activities and interactions. Having negative relationships
not only hurts the relationships experiencing negativity,
but it also affects you as a human being more deeply than
you realize. With each angry and stress filled emotion,
different hormones are released. Being angry with
someone or annoyed with someone is actually unhealthy;
feeling these emotions is unnecessary and avoidable.
If you find that you can’t help being annoyed or angry
with certain individuals, try to determine why it is that you
feel that way. Is it jealousy, lack of respect, envy? We can
hate people because we want to be like them, but this only
harms us more in the long run. Women tend to compare
themselves with other women most of the time, without
even realizing it. Comparing yourself to someone else is
setting yourself up to be disappointed because no two
individuals are made the same – and some things can’t be
changed. When women compare themselves to other
women, they focus more on their own flaws. Every woman
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Step 6 – Experiment
This step is incredibly important, especially for couples
who are serious and are looking for some excitement in the
bedroom. Experimentation can be done during
intercourse, foreplay and/or masturbation. What is
interesting about experimentation in sex is that it’s
different for each individual. One person might consider
anal sex experimentation whereas the other individual sees
role playing as experimentation.
The importance of experimentation is not only to bring
more fulfillment into your sex life but also to bring more
excitement. It can be exciting to see what fantasies your
partner enjoys and learning this will bring you both closer
to one another. Several examples of experimentation can
be as follows; say, trying new sexual positions to enhance
pleasure, bringing toys into the bedroom or attempting
anal sex. As with any types of experimentation, it is
important to make sure both individuals are
understanding and willing to participate. Experimentation
should never be done if one of the individuals is
uncomfortable doing so.
For example, experimentation with anal sex should only
be done if both parties are ok with it. Although anal sex
can be highly pleasurable for both individuals, it also
comes with a great deal of risks for both parties involved.
Men are at risk for diseases if protection is not used and
women are even more at risk for diseases and injury to the
rectum and colon if the male is not gentle or the proper
amount of lubrication is not used. Speaking of lubrication,
there are many different types of lubrication that couples
can experiment with to get different effects and feelings.
There are certain lubricants that have an inviting or
arousing smell, while others are mild to unscented. There
are also lubricants that create different sensations such as
warming and cooling, some create an interesting effect
when combined to together. Experimenting with different
types of lubrication is a safe and fun way to add something
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to tell you what kind of pleasure they feel. The fact from
which this becomes evident is, that males, when engaged
in coition, cease of themselves after emission, but it is not
so with females.”
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can “grab the bull by the horns” and try out a bunch of new
sexual positions at once.
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Conclusion
Finding and maintaining a fulfilling sexual life can be
difficult and overwhelming but it is possible if you follow
the steps outlined in this book. The Kama Sutra is
historically known for being all encompassing and
accurate in terms of what men and women want inside and
outside of the bedroom; whether or not this still reflects
modern day, American beliefs has yet to be confirmed,
though a lot of its contents still ring true today. With this
book, you should not only be able to begin your path
toward sexual fulfillment, but be able to create an outline
or a guide to help you along the way and to keep track of
the measures you have taken towards your change. In this
book we discussed the importance of step 1: gaining
confidence, and how important confidence is to gaining a
fulfilling sex life. If you don’t have confidence in yourself
and your own ability to please, you can’t expect to satisfy
your partner. Confidence is important in finding the
fulfillment you seek and the sex life you desire.
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Step 5 goes over your desires and how to find out what
exactly you desire. The Kama Sutra states that we are in
control of what we desire whereas nowadays we believe
that desire will come to us when we find the right person.
Regardless of what we believe, we need to know what we
desire out of a relationship sexually. If you desire to have
sexual intercourse daily whereas your partner prefers once
or twice a week, these desires need to be communicated of
the relationship is doomed from the start.
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