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He's lying...
When a man tells you he "needs some space" or he wants to "take a break..."
He's lying...
These are the two top lies a man uses to avoid moving forward with you -
In fact, most psychologists, therapists, and relationship counselors are in the dark as well...
Why is he "not ready to commit" to you? - even if the timing is obviously just right...
In this report, I'll reveal the REAL reason men won't move forward or commit...
The Obsession Switch shuts off all his excuses and makes him dive in headfirst to your relationship.
The Obsession Switch makes him focus his attention on you as if you're the only woman in the
world...
The Obsession Switch lowers his defenses and shields around his heart...
The Obsession Switch opens his heart - and lets him show you his true feelings...
The Obsession Switch makes him realize you ARE the right woman...
My name is Carlos Cavallo - and in this report, I'm going to let you in on a secret Obsession Switch...
The switch that moves any man to feel so much obsessive, passionate, crazy love for you that he will
beg you for just a few seconds of attention from you...
I'm going to show you what to do at any CRITICAL point in your relationship to save it.
You see, for too long therapists and psychologists have pointed the finger of blame at YOU -
Telling you your relationship problems are something wrong with YOU. Some unresolved "issues"
from your childhood blaming it on "trauma" - or a 'dysfunctional' family...
FINALLY - a recent discovery has at last exposed - Beyond a shadow of a doubt... the REAL reason
that men pull away from a devoted partner in a loving relationship -
And in the next few minutes, I will show you the real reason why men disappear.
Or spend time just holding you and looking deep into your eyes...
Yet for literally thousands of years this question has been on women's minds. And no one has been
able to answer it correctly...
Until now!
The question is this: Why do men come on strong, but then he grows cold and pulls away...?
Why does your relationship start out passionate and loving... full of desire and fierce emotions - only
to change - seemingly overnight...
And you know that you shouldn't push him - you should hang back and let him chase you -
BUT - if you don't say something or do something, you'll never get anywhere...
The more love you want from him, and the more love you give him, the less he gives back.
Almost as if your love is pushing him away... BUT that's not what's happening...!
True Story...
Let me introduce you to Aimee and Dan...
"Why can't I see you on Friday nights?" Aimee asks, sitting up in bed
Dan rolls his eyes and gets up... "That's my night with the guys. I've told you that over and over,
Aimee."
She bites her lip and snaps: "OK, FINE, I get it." Tears well up in her eyes, and she pull the sheets
up - feeling vulnerable..."
She squeezes her eyes to trap the tears... "Do you love me?"
She says: "Well, we've been going together for two years now..."
"Yeah, so?"
"When I talk about our future, you always change the subject."
"I can't talk about the future because I'm busy getting my career on track," Dan says. "I'm not
ready to get that serious..."
"Now it's your career! Before that it was your mother's health, before that you 'weren't ready.'
All I get is excuses... You just don't want to commit."
Now, just two weeks ago, Dan and Aimee were talking about wedding rings...
And now Aimee has to figure out how to recover - how to turn this relationship around...
Because she knows that if she doesn't do something in the next few seconds, Dan will probably
disappear from her life for good...
A man has a billion and one different things going on in his life... Stuff that takes his mind off YOU.
He's got social media to keep him in contact with old girlfriends...
And each message promises him an upgrade of every aspect of his life
New car...
New GIRLFRIEND...
The scary part is that the problem is real - and men are checking out... and it's getting nearly
impossible for women to capture his attention, much less his heart.
YOU can be the "viral" video playing in his head all day long... Awaken obsessive thoughts that he
can't get rid of...
You have to stick in his mind like an 80s pop song that he can't stop humming...
And even if he tries NOT to - he will constantly see your face and think about you!
My name is Carlos Cavallo - and I've been coaching women - and men - in relationships for over 14
years.
The reason the Obsession Switch works is because it's something every man ACHES for... more than
love, more than money, YES - even more than SEX.
And the craziest part is, this one secret emotional switch holds the key to winning a man's attention,
desire, and total commitment, but -
After coaching thousands of amazing and radiant women as a relationship coach, I've seen the
power of this Obsession Switch and the words and phrases women say to turn it ON in men.
So that SHE is the focus of a man's passion and the priority in his life...
And once you understand how the Obsession Switch works, you too will be able to make the man
you want fall into a passionate trance for you.
Or even use it on your boyfriend or husband to make him realize how lucky he is to have you in his
life.
So that he drops everything and puts you at the center - makes you the top priority.
Once this switch in his brain is flipped, his nervous system will be lit up with such an intense feeling of
desire - and fascination - that his body, heart, and head will cry out: "I need you so badly,"
I'll also show you the real life stories of women who used this same Obsession Switch to manifest
the deepest love they'd ever experienced - or imagined -
And how you can have the passionate love story you deserve in your life...
Even if he's grown distant and no longer responds to you like he once did...
And even if he's been ignoring all your texts and phone calls...
This secret Obsession Switch bypasses all of his shields and resistances - and goes straight into his
heart ...
With a simple phrase, you can inject a thought into a man's head...
And the best part is that he won't even suspect you control his Obsession Switch.
In fact, it doesn't really matter how "in love" or "infatuated" a man is...
If the woman in his life doesn't flip his Obsession Switch - to erase his distractions - and get him
preoccupied with thoughts of her - he'll always be distant and non-committal.
He'll always feel unfulfilled, and he will seek out the woman who does understand this secret.
However, when you know how to flip his Obsession Switch, he will devote himself passionately to
you - and ONLY you.
He'll climb mountains and cross any distance to please you and make you happy...
How is this even possible? Well, it's because his Obsession Switch is a biological program - it's buried
deep in every man's DNA!
Well, to prove it -
Because I believe that if you help two people get together - two people that were alone and lonely
before - you're doing a great thing for them. But some might not agree.
So - if you're against using 'techniques' to influence someone's feelings - you might not want to keep
reading what I'm about to show you here.
Aimee's been dating Dan for almost a year. Just two weeks ago, Dan and Aimee were talking about
wedding rings...
But suddenly Aimee realized that Dan was starting to lose interest and pull away (and) she knew she
had to act quickly to save her relationship...
Dan was a successful manager of a startup in Silicon Valley. He was smart, funny, fit, and incredibly
generous - everything Aimee wanted in a husband.
He had the ability to handle anything in a relationship - from deep conversation to emotional
vulnerability.
And they had the most mind- blowing, passionate sex she'd ever had with a guy...
The day after that big argument we just heard, Dan asked if he could stop by her place.
They'd been dating for almost 2 years, and she even had a hopeful feeling he might finally be
working up to proposing to her.
That's why what happened next flipped her life upside down.
"Aimee, you're really amazing," he said. "All of my friends tell me what a great catch you are, and I
do feel lucky to be with you..."
He went on: "You're everything I've wanted in a girlfriend, and even in a wife..."
Aimee felt like she'd just been thrown from a plane without a parachute.
She spent the next 2 hours talking to Dan - trying to find out what he was thinking and feeling...
She cried...
She begged him to tell her what to do to fix things - what was she missing?
Aimee tried to stay in touch with Dan through social media, occasional texts before bed.
She had hopes that at some point they'd be back together - that this really was just a "break."
When I met Aimee and started working with her, I didn't realize what an impact she would have on
me - or on my life's work.
In the process of working with them so closely, I had deep, intimate details of what kind of woman
stood out in a man's mind as The ONE -
The woman that he was willing to give up all other women to be with...
The amazing thing I found was that the women who made these men so eager to commit didn't have
all the "dream girl" qualities that the men said they wanted.
And yet, right after meeting these women - they were all the men could think about and talk about.
These guys were willing to do anything to make the relationship work - even including moving long
distance to be closer to her.
And I wanted to know what these women did that was so different from all the rest of the women
who were struggling to catch the man they wanted and keep his attention and desire...
If I could find the answer, I could help the women I coached to find a way into his heart - and keep
And the answer appeared - buried in the words of the countless interviews and notes.
She said she was at work, and he replied: "Okay, I'll meet you at our coffee place..."
What was so important? she wondered... and this time she really felt an aching hope tug at her
heart.
Aimee left a little early so she could grab a snack at the coffee shop before he arrived.
Dan was sitting at a table, holding hands with another woman with long black hair.
Disappointed and fearful, Aimee closed her eyes and calmed her breathing - part of her wanted to
run away in tears, but she remembered the words I had given her - and knew she had control now.
She knew it didn't matter if Dan was involved with another woman. She had something no one else
had...
Aimee sat down with Dan, mustering a quick smile and hello...
Dan launched right into how "He wasn't ready for a relationship right now..."
What Dan didn't know was that Aimee had been working with me on these "Passion Phrases" -
words that activate any man's Obsession Switch...
Aimee sat in silence for a long minute while Dan fidgeted in his chair...
Finally, Aimee just smiled at him and shrugged, stirring her coffee calmly.
"Sure," she said. "If that's what you want. But -"
"Well," he said, "I mean, I was just wondering if that's how you felt, but - uhm..."
"Maybe we should give it another shot," Dan said, reaching across and holding her hand
Aimee smiled and told him she had to get back to work, but she'd "think about it."
When she got home later that night she found Dan waiting on her doorstep in the dark.
"I got you these," he said, apologetically handing her a massive bouquet of flowers.
His eyes were red and watery - "I'm so sorry... I don't know what I was thinking - you're such a
fantastic woman to me..."
He told her that he decided Aimee was the only woman he really wanted.
Over the next week, as Aimee let Dan work his way back into her life, she tried her new phrases out
on him...
Aimee felt completely in control of her relationship for the first time in her life.
Dan was using every chance he could to win her interest and attention. He even asked her several
times "where the relationship is going..."
Aimee used my "Hoop Phrases" on him - and that was the weekend Dan showed up for their date
with a limousine, telling her she deserved a Cinderella night on the town...
And when he got down on one knee in the restaurant, with the entire staff and patrons watching -
and all the other women with envious smiles...
He even left sticky notes around the house for her every day to find with love quotes on them for
her.
Aimee's mom even used the "Indirect Phrases" to find herself two boyfriends in her retirement
community - both of them ten years younger!
So how did Aimee go from almost losing the relationship of a lifetime - to total commitment from
You see - After hundreds and hundreds of coaching sessions and surveys, and spending literally years
reviewing scientific papers on the psychology of desire, attraction, and commitment -
It was hidden in a study of "intrusive thoughts" - like songs you can't get out of your head no matter
how hard you try.
What I found was an Obsession Switch in the male mind that completely focuses all his passionate
desire on one woman...
Making him certain he's found his true love - and this switch is programmed right into his DNA at
birth.
You see, if a man is hesitating or not moving forward - or if he seems to run hot and cold with you,
Most women try to convince a guy that they are special together, but this is where she makes a big
mistake.
By trying to convince him or show him how "right" she is for him, she just gets more resistance and
indecision...
And then his "fear of missing out" kicks in - which makes him think that if he waits, he might find a
better woman out there...
When he's watching a game, he goes through every emotion in the book...
"It motivates us to search for the things we need, crave, and desire... generating and sustaining
curiosity...
In fact, when the Seeking System misfires, or is over-stimulated - it can lead to obsessive compulsive
Where a person has uncontrollable, reccurring thoughts and behaviors that he feels compelled to
repeat...
Create motivation...
The Seeking System works by activating a man's desire to HUNT and CHASE -
This creates a "love template" that is stamped into his nervous system - into his thoughts and even
his body...
He will actually turn away from other women because they won't match his Seeking System
anymore...
He won't believe any other woman but you could him feel this way - which is why a guy will
suddenly decide to chase and pursue you until he's won your hand...
At the same time, the Seeking System has a few other powerful side- effects on a man's brain...
It creates a "Glowing Effect" around you, which causes your positive traits to outshine everything
else, elevating you to an almost angelic status, and takes away any reason he has for holding back or
hesitating...
He'll also find an emotional dependency on your relationship that he will respect and cherish, which
makes him desperately afraid of losing you, and keeps him invested and completely devoted to you.
He'll adore you, making you feel valued, special - and cherished...
As I thought back over all my client's questions and worries, it became clear that whenever a guy
said he "wasn't ready for a relationship" or that the "timing wasn't right"
Because if the woman flipped his Obsession Switch ON - NONE of those things mattered anymore!
What was really happening was that she activated his Seeking System, this erased his doubts and
uncertainty
Once I understood what was happening, I started to map out how any woman could turn on a man's
Obsession Switch so they could have more control and less fear in their relationships...
But the reality is that we men make decisions with our emotions far more than we would ever admit
to you.
And giving a man all the things he says he wants only works on the "logical" part of his brain.
SECRET TIP : A man makes his decisions with his emotions FIRST !
Knowing the right thing to say to him - the right words and phrases - WILL flip his Obsession Switch
ON!
- while other words can draw him to you like a magnet so that you feel like the most important thing
in the world to him...
These phrases make him feel "out of control" around you - which is one of the most important
ingredients in the recipe of passionate love
If he thinks he has the upper hand and all the control over you and your relationship, he will lose the
"thrill of the hunt."
He won't feel challenged - and his Obsession Switch gets turned OFF - making his attention wander
and his eye stray.
Love-Crazy... Obsessed...
And that's why men start freaking out when they think they can't have you...
Now, since most women don't understand how to create insatiable curiosity
- or how to get a man feeling vulnerable and out- of- control without resorting to playing "mind
games."
I developed a series of phrases to flip his Obsession Switch, including Challenge Phrases which make
a man feel that exciting rush of being "out-of-control"
And Love Phrases - so he will feel a compulsive urge think to regard you with the utmost esteem,
love, and respect...
He will you honor you, admire and worship you... He will be devoted to you...
I created Connection Phrases which get him to forge an unbreakable bond with you
And even Seductive Phrases that awaken his primal sexual desire and focus it completely on you - in
a way that no other woman can...
I also created a variety of phrases that do everything from revive his interest in you, to shut down his
"bratty little boy" behavior...
And passion- priming his mind - making him fall deeper into love with you every time he thinks about
you...
And even some exclusive obsession phrases that program him to work harder and harder for your
approval, attention, and affection.
The best part is that all of these can be texted OR spoken and they work like crazy...
I shared these phrases with my personal clients to get them incredible success in their relationships.
But I started finding it harder and harder to dedicate the time to my coaching practice, and the
requests for these Passion Phrases were starting to take its toll on my professional and personal
schedule.
Passion Phrases:
Obsess His Mind, Capture His Heart!
So you can get him thinking about you every waking moment, wipe out all other women from his
mind and focus all his romantic and sexual passion onto YOU.
He will feel like he truly can't live without you - and that you two were "meant to be..."
When you use these scripts with a man, they automatically put him in seeking mode, so he fixates on
you - single-minded obsession.
Creating infatuated "though loops" about you... and they make him blind to any of your
shortcomings or flaws...
Every thought he has points his heart back to you. And he won't have any choice but to see you as
the perfect woman in his life.
Challenge Phrases that keep him working to win you over every day you're together...
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