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are calling for action to stop other pupils being attacked.

It is two years since MPs recommended a range of measures, after the BBC revealed New laws try to avoid this situation
more than 5,000 sexual offences at schools in three years.

Ministers say they recognise that peer-on-peer abuse can devastate victims.
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New guidelines for England's schools this month set out their legal duty to protect
children from such abuse.

The women wrote a letter to the BBC, which began: "We are two mothers. Each of us
has a daughter who has been raped by a boy from their school."

In an interview last year one of the women, the mother of "Bella", described how her
daughter had been repeatedly sexually assaulted at the age of six by boys using their
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The mother says she is clear that what happened is the physical and psychological
equivalent of rape for her daughter.

Speaking anonymously, she said her daughter was "a shell of who she used to be".

"They destroyed her spirit. They destroyed who she was."

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Now, along with the mother of another girl - who was also sexually assaulted at school,
she says they are frustrated that more has not been done to prevent further attacks.

They say they are "exhausted" by trying to persuade government officials to listen and
also to implement in full the recommendations of the report by the Women and
Equalities Select Committee.

The mothers' letter to the BBC continued: "We have learned that it is difficult for most
people to talk about child abuse when the person committing the abuse is also a child.
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"We have learned that when your child is raped by another child there is little or no
support available. Social services offer nothing. The waiting lists for support from
charities are hugely long." How safe are my savings after the
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The are concerned that little appears to be changing on the ground and want to see
some specific steps taken including:

step-by-step guidance for primary school head teachers on how to deal with
allegations of peer-on-peer abuse where it involves children under the criminal age of
responsibility of 10 years old

mandatory training for teachers of up to half a day a year on safeguarding against

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clear guidelines on managing the transition from primary to secondary school in these
cases, so children who have been the victims of sexual violence are given priority in
admissions to avoid being in the same school.

central collection of data of sexual assaults in schools including peer-on-peer

Peer-on-peer abuse under-recognised

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In a speech this week, the Children and Families Minister, Nadhim Zahawi, said he 'Chainsaw attack won't stop me
recognised the seriousness of peer-on-peer abuse. doing what I love'

"We know that it can remain under-recognised by professionals working with children
and under-reported by children themselves."

This month's new guidelines for schools in England set out their legal duty to keep
children safe, including from sexual violence.

They also say whatever the response it should be on the "the principle that sexual
violence and sexual harassment is never acceptable and will not be tolerated". The artist who uses his body to
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Andrew Lord, from Leigh Day solicitors, is advising a number of families seeking redress
after sexual assaults on their children at school.

He says more have come forward about incidents involving younger children.

"What's really clear is there are still massive inconsistencies in how schools respond to
these situations, especially primary schools."

In a statement, Mr Zahawi said that all schools and colleges had to follow the guidelines
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He added that schools and colleges "should be prepared to put in long-term support for
victims" and that relationships education, in all primary schools, and relationships and
sex education, in all secondary schools, would be made compulsory. Elsewhere on the BBC

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