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DDLG has a lot of different shades from the most hardcore to the
most vanilla.
Daddy Dom takes the role of the caregiver, the one who
dominates and disciplines the little.
Little Girl takes the role of the child-like, sweet girl and regresses
in the age. The age can vary from baby who wears the diapers or
a young teenage girl.
Little Girl is a submissive, she takes a role of silly, bratty girl, who
likes to cuddle, play with toys, follow the rules, break them, be
punished and so on. (though it can also work other way around
with dominatrix).
She gives the control to Daddy and trusts he will do what’s best
for her.
The age-play usually has set times for it, and people refer to it as
“Little Space”.
Little space serves as a temporary escape from day-to-day adult
responsibilities, stress and boredom.
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What is it really?
Is it a kink?
Is it BDSM?
Is it romantic? Is it sexual?
It's sooooo confusing, isn't it?
Plus, some people get confused it with BDSM taboo stuff or even
incest...
...
Anyhoo...
Before I went into DDLG, learning more about sex and BDSM, my
sexual relationships with my girl was going downturn.
Those shades are also the main reason why it's so so tough to
understand the Daddy Dom, Little Girl play.
If you check BDSM books, some authors list over 8 different types
of Daddy Doms.
The dynamic is the same as DDLG, just ABDL play always start
when the diaper is being worn.
It’s like a diaper little space serving as clear beginning and clear
end.
Example: Daddy orders Little to put on her pull-up for the night
and the rest of the evening. This indicates that Daddy is ready to
play and feels like Little needs some care from him.
CGL — Caregiver / Little
CGL means the same as DDLG.
Little is the one who regresses in age and plays a role of a little
submissive child ( can be male/female).
Little Space is the term used to describe the mindset that Little
enters when she thinks and acts younger than she is. It can
involve both Daddy Dom and Little Girl, but it can also include just
the Little. “Entering the little space” means slipping into the child-
like mindset.
For example, Little can just say, “I’m going to my little space. I’ll
go draw, color the book or organise a tea party with my stuffies.”
If both Daddy Dom and Little play it, then it would involve Daddy
Dom taking care of Little, ordering her to do some chores, but
mostly it’s about taking care of his Little.
Note: For simplicity reasons in article I'll say Daddy Dom, but it
can also mean Mommy Domme. Same way I'll say Little Girl, but it
can also mean Little Boy.
But even more often the dominant is called - DOM for short and
Submissive is called - SUB for short.
Oh, and I should mention also: Top and Bottom, which some
people use.
Top is Dominant.
Bottom is Submissive.
Dominance and Submission may include ageplay, but it’s more
general term to indicate how one person takes Dominant role and
other obeys.
The reason why Dom & Sub play is so popular is because for
passionate love life you MUST have polarity.
You need a clear leader and a clear follower. It’s the basis of
sexuality - most woman are attracted to alpha males and most
men are attracted to submissive women they can care for and
ravage.
On other side, we crave variety. If you’ve had sex with the same
partner the same way for years, you’ll eventually get less and less
interested in sexual intercourse.
Prostate milking anyone?
Kinks, BDSM, DDLG are answer to this.
When you introduce new plays, new sensations, new accessories,
new places or even new partners to your sex life - it comes back
to life!
You could also try public sex, tantric sex, vibrating panties in
public...etc.
And I always say that sex toys are the easiest way to add to
variety.
Plus, exploring deeper realms of sexual play increases intimacy
and connection.
Let’s say you are playing DDLG, you’re a little girl, you did
something that’s bad for you and your Daddy Dom knows it.
It’s a painful ritual that drives the message. It will release the
emotions that you have been suppressing - you may cry.
While there are many ways to sexual bliss, people practice kink in
order to get that natural high.
When that balance is not met, passion dies and often people seek
their needs outside of the relationship or they just settle unhappy
with porn… or erotica.
Those little things add variety in relationships and are the little
moments that you will come to cherish.
So don't be surprised to find out that you have been playing some
kind of DDLG already!
But now…
If you want, you can take it to the whooooole new level! Just
keep readin'!
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You can set rules for Little Girl only or maybe Daddy Dom needs
to comply with some of them too, up to you.
Daddy Dom agrees to take care for the Little and commits to treat
Little accordingly — teach, reward, punish and nurture.
Daddy Dom makes his desires and commands clear at all times.
He disciplines the Little Girl only out of the desire to better her, but
never out of anger or frustration.
Little Girl agrees to obey the Daddy’s rules to the best of her
ability.
Little Girl will inform the Daddy of all her desires and perceived
needs recognising that Daddy is the better judge of how and if
these should be satisfied.
In regard of treats and screen time, Little gives up all the rights for
her own gratification and passes them up to Daddy Dom.
DDLG Punishments, Discipline and Humiliation
Even if these words might sound scary, don't worry. It's not about
actually hurting anyone — it's a play.
The attraction to this kinky side is because they love the feeling of
not being in control (or opposite…love to dominate).
The first times will be awkward like with everything you do for the
first time.
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look like, this map will help!
There are 3 ways that can help enter into Little Space:
1. Through objects, outfits, accessories (example: when in diaper -
that’s the little space)
2. Through immersive roleplay and specific scenes
3. Through hypnosis or guided meditation
#4 - It happens naturally, there are no set scenes, Little just
naturally enters the Little space and it just happens. This is the
best way, but may not happen initially.
Other objects could be: blankie, sippy cup, baby key chain toy,
onesies, pacifiers, school uniform.
But not to worry, at the end of the article there is the whole
section on DDLG accessories and outfits
Like rope bondage, deepthroating, nipple clamps, cock cages (if the
woman is dominating one) … fisting… etc.
Daddy Dom: "You're MINE."
If you’re starting out then make sure you at least try some
spanking and bondage with silk tie… and play with it at least a
little bit!
But you should already have more than enough ideas to try DDLG
in your relationships
#3 - DDLG Aftercare & Debrief
Lastly I wanted to discuss aftercare (like you would do after
squirting experience) which is the BDSM term for taking emotional
and physical care over your partner after the scene is completed.
Aftercare’s purpose is to help you and your partner to recover
after an intense BDSM play or sex session.
If your DDLG play is fun or relaxing, you might not see the point in
aftercare, but still I would really recommend you look at DDLG
play as 3 stages: - agreement, little space play, aftercare.
Aftercare is useful because it helps you both get back into the real
world and a special ritual for ending the play can make the whole
play far more satisfying.
Instead of being upset that the play is over you will be still looking
forward to your aftercare.
It’s better to do something adult, that eases you back to the real-
life - like have a cup of tea, change to adult clothes and have a
conversation.
Debrief is a great time for this because you’re not yet back in your
logical mind space, your mood is elevated and memories fresh.
Just make sure there is a clear conclusion to play - like say, thank
you, hug your partner.
Once you join these communities you're really feel like you
belong!
First of all, the best communities, the best managed seemed to be
on Reddit.
You can find the cutest pages to funny sexual meme ones. But
overall DDLG quotes and memes is a great source of ideas to do
or things to say in DDLG play
I did my best to filter through the fluff and find the best and highest
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Now, finally this is the holy grail of misc accessories starting from
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I told you, you can explore all 3 depths of DDLG play and maybe,
just maybe this could be your introduction to BDSM as well!
This play is super fun and if you give it a chance, you'll never will
need to complain about your sex life and relationships going
stagnant!
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