WOMEN’S VIRGINITY IS NOT IMPORTANT AT ALL

Virgin? Most people would say it is someone who has never had sex before. Virginity is believed
to be really important when it is related to marriage and people will say it’s really important to
know your partner’s virginity before marrying them. Our society tends to discriminate and rejects
people who are not virgin because they think non-virgin people are not pure anymore and it is so
common for us to meet people having this way of thinking.

Firstly, replace the word ‘woman’ with ‘person’ because men and women are equal but our society
usually uses the whole concept of virginity as a way to target women and discriminate against
them. Most of the time, non-virgin is seen as a slut or whore and has to explain the entire situation
to justify why she/he would ever have sex before marriage. When someone is a virgin, s/he will
be seen as a pure person.

Regardless of whether someone still holds their “V-card” or lost it a long time ago, they should
not be ridiculed for it. They shouldn’t have to worry about other people’s opinions for their
decision to or not to have sex. Personally, I will still marry a non-virgin and I will still accept her
as my partner. For me, virginity is not a requirement for a healthy marriage but a pure heart is. It
is your intentions of the heart that will show your purity. Love doesn’t depend on your virginity.
If you suit each other, it will not be a problem anymore. That problem can’t erase your feeling to
him/her. Virginity does describe your sexual story but it doesn’t define whether s/he is a good
person or not. We have so many things to think about besides the virginity, and we have so many
other things that matter.
*Women’s virginity is valuable to society, but a men’s isn’t really worth anything.

*You can’t undo the past, but you can certainly not repeat it.

*Virginity is not equivalent to purity; there are many more important things that can
define women’s value.

*In fact, I would obviously respect such a person who is frank about her pervious
relationships before marriage. It shows her strength, as well as her tenderness to not
cheat/hurt her partner.

*I’ll marry a woman who has had sex with multiple guys, she can teach me stuff and
guide me and I’m sure I’ll need guidance. She probably might be easy going and know
males better. She might be more communicative when it comes to sex.

Don’t let virginity to dictate terms of a relationship, let it be love, after all
sex is natures call.

*We cannot control with whom we fall in love.

*If every woman or man waited for Mister or Miss right to come their way, they would
be waiting forever.

When we fall in Love, we just don’t fucking see anything, we just fall. Past would
eventually won't matter if you really are in Love with the other person.

What matters is,

 The Trust.
 The commitment.
 The bonding.
 The Love you share.
 The loyalty.
 The compromises.
 The respect.

Just because S/he had sex with someone else before you entered their life,
Tell me through which logic it is justified that S/he won’t be loyal ?

My advice=Don’t concentrate on the past, if you do so, you might ruin the present
and future.I t may sound cliche but we all know how true it is.
If the past really is bothering you, sorry either you don’t love the other person or
something is really wrong with you.

Here is where we need to reevaluate what it means when we talk about purity and
remaining pure for marriage. Virginity describes your sexual history, it doesn't define who
you are. Virginity is not a requirement for a healthy marriage but a pure heart is. Purity is
about the intentions of the heart, not your sexual status.

Sex within the safe and loving commitment of a monogamous marriage is how it was
intended to be enjoyed. That's when sex is made most meaningful. But don't let your sexual
experiences or lack thereof define you. It's all about your heart.

Why Society tends to reject people who are not virgin?

Karena mereka menganggap keperawanan itu adalah pride yang harus dijaga, `

Sometimes society tends reject the not-virgin people because

Why is it wrong?

What is wrong with people who are not virgin?

Can virginity define the “real you”?

What is so special with “being the first”?

How should we react to this issue?

Why should we accept people who are not virgin as our partner?