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J
ust yesterday, I identified a case that led me to modify the theory of
being a shit (OBS). I discovered that some people cover up good deeds
by calling them bad (Gilgun, 2010a). Before that, I assumed that people
cover up unkind deeds but not kind deeds. People call kind deeds bad
when they want something so much they will lie to get it, and they also
destroy the reputations of people who have done good. In this scenario, the
means justify the ends.
Today, I found a case where a man covered up his good deeds. His
apparent reason was to protect the dignity of the recipients of his good deeds.
This case led me to change the theory of OBS and event to re-consider the
name of the theory itself.
The case that led to the addition to the theory involves a man named
Samuel Stone, an owner of a chain of clothing stores.Mr. Stone put an ad in a
Canton, Ohio, USA, newspaper on December 17, 1933, the depths of the
Depression in the United States.He stated that he would give small cash
donations to families in need. He used the pseudonym of B. Virdot.
The ad also said that the donor would never reveal the names of the
people who received cash assistance. The only condition was for them to
write him a letter that described their financial situations and how they would
use the money. B. Virdot gave $5 or so to 150 people in Canton.
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The secret lasted for 75 years. Then Mr. Stone¶s grandson, Ted Gup,
discovered letters addressed to B. Virdot in one of his grandfather¶s
suitcases. Mr. Gup just published a book called @
about his
grandfather¶s generosity as detailed in the letters. The book¶s launch was in
Canton, last week, with about 400 descendents of the recipients and the one
living recipient, who is the wheelchair bound 90 year-old Helen Palm.
Ms. Palm read the letter she wrote to B. Virdot: ³I am writing this
because I need clothing. And sometimes we run out of food.´She said she
had thought about B. Virdot a lot over the years. ³I was really surprised when
I learned his real name.´
A 72 year-old man named Kenneth Richards did not know that his
mother had asked for cash assistance. When Mr. Gup contacted him, he said,
³I really didn¶t believe him because my mother just wouldn¶t ever ask
anybody for help. Here was a woman I never knew.´
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The checks enabled families to give their children gifts for the
holidays.Geraldine Hillman Fry, 85, got a doll from her mother Olive
Hillman who received $5. ³I was thrilled to get it,´ Ms. Fry said. ³It really
was the only doll that I ever had in my life. So, it meant a lot to me.´
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1.adeed
2.a desire to cover up the deed
3.a cover-up, and
4.recipient buy-in.
2.a desire to cover up the deed, with the desire related to evasion of
responsibility for an unkind deed, a desire to make a kind deed out to be a
bad deed, or a desire to protect the dignity of recipients of good deeds;
This series of theory testing shows one way of advancing theory and
knowledge-building. We do so by making some good guesses about
phenomena of interest and then testing these guesses against particular
cases.We change our guesses, which I am calling theory, to fit the cases.
It¶s trial and error with corrections to the errors, with the goals of
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This brief article has examined a case where a man committed kind
deeds and covered them up to protect the dignity of recipients. This is a much
different scenario from cases where people commit unkind deeds and cover
them and where people call kind deeds unkind deeds.
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Gilgun, Jane F. (2010a). Calling a good thing bad & a bad thing
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http://www.scribd.com/doc/41451722/Calling-a-Good-Thing-Bad-a-
Bad-Thing-Good
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