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The document provides advice on self-improvement and relationships. It suggests focusing on developing yourself by asking who you want to become, setting goals, and improving incrementally over time. For relationships, it recommends understanding human psychology, managing your time well, communicating effectively, and finding the right partner who shares your values. The overall message is to take control of your life, pursue success through work and learning, and build genuine connections with others.
The document provides advice on self-improvement and relationships. It suggests focusing on developing yourself by asking who you want to become, setting goals, and improving incrementally over time. For relationships, it recommends understanding human psychology, managing your time well, communicating effectively, and finding the right partner who shares your values. The overall message is to take control of your life, pursue success through work and learning, and build genuine connections with others.
The document provides advice on self-improvement and relationships. It suggests focusing on developing yourself by asking who you want to become, setting goals, and improving incrementally over time. For relationships, it recommends understanding human psychology, managing your time well, communicating effectively, and finding the right partner who shares your values. The overall message is to take control of your life, pursue success through work and learning, and build genuine connections with others.
1) 3 most important questions to always ask yourself:
What kind of man am I?
What kind of life do I want to lead? What kind of women would be the right companion for me? 2) The fast track to success is to go out and hustle your ass off making up for lost time. Go out solo to learn fast for the first few months. 3) Always worry about only the next one step at a time (baby step). 4) Game is basically getting out of your own way in order to achieve success. 5) To get higher status people in your life you need to make time for them by cutting out the lower status people from your life. 6) 3 important points for game: Have good boundaries – do not compromise them and don’t be afraid to stand up for your boundaries Be more polarizing – say what you want to say regardless of the reaction Killer instincts – know exactly what is the right time/opportunity to make a move without hesitation. 7) Stay true to your values 8) Take control of your life, don’t be lazy. 9) Be willing to use the time and energy in order to get results 10) Derek’s 3 law of game: Pragmatic psychologist (understand it) for yourself and for others (basically understand human psychology) Be a better economist in terms of time management Be a great communicationalist and 11) You don’t have to be 10 times better than you are, just 10 percent better than you are. 12) Value education, have a good wok ethic, think for yourself, be able to tolerate social pressure in order to do the right thing 13) Have discipline and willpower (also have some motivation but the other 2 are more important) 14) Screen hard and do not be afraid to leave in 2 minutes with a girl you know nothing is going to happen with (my personal note – this should only be done by advanced guys as I can tell from experience beginners will use this as an excuse to pre-eject if they even get the slightest of discomfort). 15) Talk about shit your exited about and don’t worry about others reactions. 16) The best way to get the things you want in this world is to actually deserve it 17) Remember one day you are going to die and so value every second of your time. 18) Have a lot of real world/reference experience. 19) Understand the difference between cause and effect relationships, live at the effect. 20) You have to be a tribal person (value your group over everyone else) but be part of the right tribe. 21) Pickup helps you deal with evolution and shows you where you are on the scale (in terms of value) every day 22) Always think about how can you get what you want in life and how can you be more useful to others. 23) Do things that you have to do at the time you have to do it whether you want it or not. 24) Think about the things that you’re doing and think about whether they make you a champion or an average person and always do things that make you a champion. 25) Don’t be afraid of negative/uncomfortable emotions/feelings and just embrace them and do the right things. 26) Always think about how I can make the best use of my time. 27) Keep learning new things everyday 28) Always have the best knowledge and take action on that 29) Chase success not validation 30) Stay in set and push till the end rather than leaving after taking a number. 31) Communicate your cool things in a non-braggy but cool way. 32) Keep building your value until you die but also learn how to market it in the right way. 33) Screen in terms of physical attraction, but also in terms of whether you actually will be hanging out with this person or will just be babysitting them. 34) Being unfiltered and fully authentic loses you a lot of opportunities but gains you ones that matter 35) Get away from people who aren’t part of your target market 36)Stand out in a positive way to your target market 37) Cultural calibration matters but human evolution from caveman times matter more, especially if you make it safe and subtle for them and make them feel like they are not going to be judged. 38) Attractive traits - protection, access to resources, happy, confident, abundance of resources, emotional connection, social status, comfortable, a person who can say and do whatever he wants, good health 39)Eye contact, vocal tonality, body language, gesturing, leading 40) A woman cannot deceive her DNA so game based on her primary desires from caveman times not on what she says (focus on what she does instead). 41)Focus on entertaining yourself, talk about the things you like 42) Not everybody will like you, find people you like, be useful to them and let them decide whether they like you or not. 43)Screen hard and find the right people instead of changing others 44)Define your life, goals, values and be congruent to that and then find someone who is drawn to it from her core. 45) Be a good marketer and let others know what it would be like to be with you from early on 46) Books – business, psychology, negotiation, history, biographies, philosophy, book recommended- evolution of desire, how I found freedom in an unfree world. 47) Always pay the price to have your own freedom and then move on. 48) Any question asked to a women will mostly be no since they are so indecisive about their life and don’t need to handle your decisions for them, so lead instead, tell don’t ask. 49) The currency of nightclubs is emotions. Feel good emotions and it will transfer onto her. 50) Anger, anxiety, depression (stay away from these emotions in the club, instead be fun, carefree, passionate) 51) Once she is completely bought in (hooked), treat her as if she’s already banging you, have a good time and at the end leave with her as if it’s naturally happening. 52) Look at people the successful people are looking up to and model those people instead of the ones everyone is looking up to (ex Jordan Pearson instead of a celeb) 53) Girls will always try to test you to see if you are the most alpha guy by testing you against other guys. 54) Its better to be a naturally attractive/high status guy than to use gimmicks/tricks.