CHOICES VALUES: LOVE

- What does Love look like?: Presence, support, sacrifice, encourage, affection, being
involved, smile, talking (communicate), listening, laughing, giving time

- What does it sound like?: Laughing, sincerity, crying, “No” “I got you” “What do you
need” “I believe in you”, Hard conversation

- What does it feel like?: warm, comfortable, safe, nervous, scary, understood,
acceptance, vulnerable

- What is it not?: Selfish, uncaring,

CHOICES VALUES: EQUALITY

- What does equality look like?: Sharing, teamwork, being involved, listening, mixing pot,
fairness, no one left out

- What does it sound like?: Inviting someone to join in, “Come with us”, determination,
“We can all do this”, every voice heard

- What does it feel like?: Comfortable, included, pride, unique, empowering,

- What is it not?: Self-centered, hogging everything

CHOICES VALUES: PATIENCE

- What does patience look like?: self-control, paying attention, consideration, caring,
recognition

- What does patience sound like?: Silence, gentle, keeping your cool,

- What does patience feel like?: acceptance, welcoming,

- What is it not?: Faster than everyone else, highly tempered, annoyance

CHOICES VALUES: IDENTITY

- What does identity look like?: being yourself, confidence, genuine,

- What does it sound like?: Strong, tone, unique voice

- What does it feel like?: Respect for yourself, Pride in yourself,

- What is it not?: Copying someone else, “it’s not their fault”
CHOICES VALUES: HUMILITY

- What does humility look like?: involve others, team player

- What does it sound like?: Passionate, optimism

- What does it feel like?: kind, caring, gentle, comfortable,

- What is it not?: Egotistical, I’m better than you

CHOICES VALUES: TRUST

- What does it look like?: trust falls, teamwork, falling into others arms

- What does it sound like?: Communication, “I’m here for you”

- What does it feel like?: Reliability, warm, comfortable

- What is it not?: Backstabbing, lying

CHOICES VALUES: LOYALTY

- What does loyalty look like?: Mature, responsible,

- What does it sound like?: Honesty, smiling, laughing

- What does it feel like?: Trusting, partnership, consideration

- What is it not?: Siding with someone else, backstabbing

CHOICES VALUES: FAMILY

- What does family look like?: Smiles, happy, there for each other

- What does it sound like?: Communicating, arguments, crying, laughing, hard

conversations

- What does it feel like?: Emotional, safety, comforting, helpful, home

- What is it not?: Bitter, being absent