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Presented at the
AIIAS 16th Annual Theological Forum,
October 31 to November 2, 2013
AIIAS, Silang, Cavite, Philippines.
By
Emmanuel G M Kollie
Systematic Theology Student
Introduction
• The institution of marriage Belongs to God. It
is HOLY. However, was given to mankind: was
meant to be kept HOLY.
• Sin – in disharmony with God’s intentions.
• Its introduction left mankind with a tendency
toward wrong doings,
• distorted man dependability upon God
Introduction
• So then, how can generations defiled by the
enormity of sin venture into a holy institution?
• Why not disengaged the marital contracts if it
would lead one to lose his human dignity or
even lose faith in God?
• Well, this Holy institution still exists and still
belongs to God, and still for the happiness of
mankind.
BUT!
• Deviance from the intention of God
concerning His institution would emerge the
consequences of spiritual, and ethical
implications on the divorcé and divorcée as
well as their offspring.
– God has hatred against divorce - biblical and
ethical reality which became a burden for the
prophet Malachi.
Biblical Consideration of marriage
• Whatever these views may be, God views divorce ( )ש ַּ֗ ַלח
ַ as an act
of violence against the victim.
– It is like shooting a gun in order to destroy ones enemy.
– It is described as one rapping himself (own flesh) of continuous violence,
– Victim vulnerability is exposed; their garment of dignity, honor and security
is removed.
– They are exposed to the nakedness of self seeking, personal respect,
selfishness, and dominating spirit which leads to shame and inferiority, as it
is with Satan
"A note on the LXX of Malachi 2:16.“
Malachi 2:10-17
• For this reason the כִּֽיin the verse is taken in a
causal sense ("for") as reason to express
God’s stance on the issue of divorce
• Israel is encouraged to take heed to.
• Malachi 2 presents divorce as one of the
protests against broken faith among the
covenant people of God, thereby dealing
treacherously, faithlessly, deceitfully with one
another. Such acts are dead of spirituality
Ethical Consideration and spiritual
implication
• The ethical system of man comes into conflict
when the rules and principles he is being guided
by (biblical standards) come into conflict with
what seems to him a far greater principle.
• His interpretation of his common sense seems to
suggest that part of the anxiety-filled encounters
by mankind springs from the feeling that
somehow mankind is being pushed around by
circumstances, and that he is not responsible for
his actions, but circumstance
– June Steffensen Hagen, Ethical Reflection
Ethical Consideration and spiritual
implication
• Man sees self as a centre of judgment,
creating what seems as value to him, thereby
organizing the moral world around his
consciousness of self as his ethical
fundamentum.
– William Werpehowski, "Hearing the divine
command: realism and discernment in Barth's
ethics.“
Ethical Consideration and spiritual
implication
• Man’s obedience to a divine command such as
marriage is grounded either in accordance
with the immediate circumstances to a
morally arbitrary will or having the freedom to
do as one likes to what seems as a rational
norm to the divine command (Mt 19:8).
• Ibid, 65.
Ethical Consideration and spiritual
implication
• When these erroneous ethical system comes
into conflict with biblical values and principles,
it becomes ethically right for man to ignore
faithful response to the Word of God about
marriage.
• He rationalizes that there are circumstances in
which it is not only legitimate but obligatory
to see that one's marriage is condemned and
therefore require dissolution.
Ethical Consideration and spiritual
implication
• Most communities do not evaluate divorce as
unethical ritual practice, which places an
irregular pattern in life’s transition.
• As important as this change of social statue
may be, it takes place in privacy and in
shadows, unlike other rituals…
Ethical Consideration and spiritual
implication
• Lori Heyman Gordon and Morris Gordon assert that:
• With the exception of the legal profession, it is publicly
ignored, and the emotional and physical consequences
of the change are often denied. The shattering effects
are often privately enacted through short or long term
depression, despair, isolation, jealousy, and
vindictiveness that simmer beneath the surface of
public awareness. There is no tribunal, no clan, no
extended family that can offer needed support, help,
or even judgment when the event is shrouded in
secrecy, privacy, and denial.
Implication for considerations