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Lesley Gilla*
Marjolein Schaddeleeb
Phil Ramseyc
Sam Turnerd
Tom Naylore
Otago Polytechnic, Dunedin, New Zealand; c Massey University, Palmerston North
a,b,d,e
, New Zealand
Abstract
The need for developing empathy skills in the workplace continues to challenge
organizations today. Findings from earlier research highlighted the need for developing
these empathy skills. Interviews were undertaken in early 2017 with a mix of empathy
trainers and managers of organizations where empathy is signalled as a key skill. The
purpose of the inquiry was to explore their perspectives of empathy so as to discover
emerging themes that increase our understanding of empathy in the workplace, eluci-
date optimal ways for developing one’s empathy and for reducing or mitigating em-
pathy burnout. Challenges that emerged from the findings were: maintaining empathy
across professional and personal environments; generally, participants found they had
the energy for one of other, not both; caring too much; having time to empathize; man-
aging expectations; professional boundaries; empathy equality i.e. to victim and offend-
er; communicating empathy, and desensitisation. This paper explores these challenges.
Four themes emerged from the findings: interpretations of empathy, context; including
the theory of mind, empathy burnout, and strategies for developing empathy. These
themes informed the development of a Flow Model of Empathy.
Keywords
Empathy; training; emotional intelligence; theory of mind; empathy burnout
Received: 15 January 2018; Accepted: 27 February 2018; Published Online: 30 April 2018
DOI: 10.21776/ub.apmba.2018.006.03.1
(Neutens & Rubinson, 2002) that findings have been organized around
needs to be understood in a particular four key themes: (1) What empathy
context in order to establish a credible is; (2) Empathy context; (3) Empathy
interpretation (Tuckett, 2005). In an burnout; and (4) Empathy development.
effort to explore the perspective of EI
We began with the full transcript of the
trainers and organizational practitioners
interviews and highlighted key phrases
who benefit from this training, a
or words on the originals that offered
qualitative approach is appropriate.
a perspective on empathy. Several
The research used semi-structured of the researchers met together to
interviews of five managers who worked analyze these ‘highlighted’ comments.
in helping professions and five empathy This process resulted in four themes
trainers. Semi-structured interviews are emerging. Although there is a direct link
appropriate for mining the perspectives between interpretations of empathy and
of people’s experience while providing the first question (what is empathy?),
a guideline for maintaining consistency reference to describing ‘empathy’ was
(Dey, 1996). The organizations we also found throughout the interviews,
contacted spanned hospital, police, adding richness to our understanding of
correctional facility, social service empathy and justifying ‘interpretations
agency, and hospice. Ethics approval of empathy’ as an emerging theme. The
was gained from Otago Polytechnic. We four themes we discuss in this paper
conducted semi-structured interviews demonstrate a progressive element of
based around seven primary questions: empathy knowledge-building. Next, we
present the background and description
1. In your view, what is empathy? of the earlier research that informs this
2. Why is empathy training important to study.
you?
3. Why is empathy important in the Background
workplace? To begin, the concept of empathy
4. What activities/exercises do you describes a person’s ability to
employ in your training programme to “understand the feelings transmitted
help people increase their empathy? through verbal and nonverbal messages,
5. What are some of the challenges you to provide emotional support to people
have experienced in your: when needed, and to understand the
6. [Empathy training programmes? – links between others’ emotions and
Trainers] OR behavior’’ (Polychroniou, 2009, p. 345).
7. [organization? Managers] Salovey and Mayer (1990, pp. 194-
195) define empathy as the ability to
8. What have you implemented to
comprehend another’s feelings and to re-
address the challenges (at 5)
experience them oneself; a core concept
9. Something else? of emotionally intelligent behavior.
Interviews took 30-45 minutes, were Empathy refers to the ability to reach into
audio recorded, transcribed and analyzed another person’s situation to appreciate
to identify emerging themes. The what they may be thinking and feeling
who had higher levels of empathy than In social situations, people use common
their colleagues were more likely to social edict derived from previous
suffer from stress and burnout caused by experiences, to assess the situation and
their interactions with their customers; conduct themselves accordingly. Similar
particularly from people who care about to the use of empathy, the capacity to
empathy expressing it in a context where give and receive is based on previous
it is not valued by those in power. experiences (Melloni, et al., 2014).
Clarke (2006) suggested one’s capacity
for empathy varies between organizations
Empathy Context
in different industries, such as people
The particular context that empathy working in services sectors, where they
is demonstrated (or expected to be de- must show empathy as part of their
monstrated) might further clarify peop- role, and people in administrative roles
le’s ability to empathize. According to where empathy is not at the forefront of
Head (2016), there is a politics of em- their day-to-day operations. However,
pathy, where the capacity of one’s em- Bernhardt and Singer (2012) state that
pathy and the ability to show empathy individuals should tread with caution
towards others, varies depending on the when entering social situations with
situation and context. For example, the pre-conceived notions of the interaction.
empathy one shows towards a colleague Each interaction may be different
in a workplace setting, differs from the and yield vastly different outcomes
level of empathy shown towards a loved compared to previous experiences. One
.one at home unique interaction does not necessarily
reflect how other situations may evolve.
I guess I’m talking about family and
Therefore, it is not always certain how
stuff like that, where I’m maybe not
one will receive empathy.
as [empathic]. If I was dealing with
someone from work, a victim at work Coulter and Coulter (2002) discussed
that said the same thing, I’d probably be the correlation between the length of
more empathetic towards the person at service an individual has contributed to
work. their organization, and their capacity to
There is a range of meanings that are be empathic. Depending on the industry,
attributed to empathy, that differs a longer service record may result in
depending on the current conditions. A an increase or decrease in empathy.
study conducted by Melloni, Lopez, and Similarly, Parra (2013) stated that a
Ibanez (2014) revealed there are socio- particular context may differ in the
political conditions where the position eyes of someone with a different level
and stature of an individual, may block of experience, due to their experiences
the ability to empathize with someone at lending them a different point of view.
a different or lower level. Furthermore, For example, someone working in a
Kennedy and Adolphs (2012) suggest public service role may experience a
the regional context for an individual wide range of situations where they
also plays an important role in emotional must be empathic towards their clients
expression and empathy towards others. for 8-10 hours a day. As a result, they
may become clinical in their advice and So I think the stereotypes, the black
recommendations, and more cynical humor, the cynicism, we do find that if
when discussing situations with their you’ve worked with us for a long time,
colleagues. Luchner and Tantleff-Dunn it’s easy to fall into that kind of trap […]
(2016) suggest this is an example of how and become experienced and deal with
people use a higher level of cognitive things a little more clinically.
empathy while demonstrating little
A study conducted by Martinovski,
emotional empathy. One participant
Traum, and Marsella (2007) found that
described this scenario:
employees are predisposed to a certain
Sometimes, if staff has been here a long work ethic based on their previous
time, they slip into their [task] role, experiences and context. Personal
rather than genuinely caring. context has a strong ability to affect
how an individual engages with their
Compassion or emotional fatigue might colleagues, as well as their ability
describe an individual’s high level of to interpret empathy. Like any other
cognitive empathy to understand the communicative act, empathy can be
emotions and mental states of others given and received, but it is subject to
but lacks the capacity to address these the perceptions of both parties and may
observations with emotion (Kinnick, be accepted or rejected. Employees
Krugman, & Cameron, 1996). Employees that are experienced in their role may
with a long service record (though not become clinical as a result. They may be
exclusively) are likely to experience more inclined to reject empathy towards
compassion fatigue, particularly them or show lower levels of empathy
those working in helping industries. towards others (Martinovski, et al.,
Employees conveying a high level of 2007; Parra, 2013).
empathy are also liable to experience
emotional fatigue, as they are putting Theory of Mind
more emphasis on other’s emotions and
mental state, and becoming less mindful Declerck and Bogaert (2008) describe
of one’s emotions and self-preservation the theory of mind (ToM) as the ability
(Kinnick, et al., 1996; Miller, Considine, to take on another person’s perspective
& Garner, 2007). As well as considering and attribute mental states to others, as
the situations of others, it is important well as oneself. An individual with this
to be mindful of one’s own personal ability is enabled to understand and
context and avoiding falling into the trap perceive someone’s intentions, beliefs
that is compassion fatigue. or desires. Gick and Gick (2001) further
explain that ToM is the acknowledgment
…for example, my sisters a nurse, and and acceptance that others may
we always laugh, and sort of joke about understand, and grasp concepts in a way
the fact that she thinks I’m a bit harsh, that is better than you. ToM operates
and I think she’s a bit emotional, and that as a mechanism that is widely used in
might be because of what our different social situations. It fuels interactive
roles encompass. emotions such as empathy and rapport,
which enables the user to accurately
differently to others. Becoming mindful refuel one’s own emotional tank. There
of different contexts in which people is no doubt that empathetic employees
operate, and one’s own context based are vital to all organizations, and not
on experiences is of great importance to just to the traditional caring professions.
empathize with others. Two participants However, high levels of empathy can
commented on the importance of be hard to maintain (Hojat, 2009) and
maintaining professional boundaries. researchers have explored the subject
of empathy burnout, or compassion
I’m quite clear on my boundaries. It’s fatigue, and have found that this is an
not like you get a kick out of finding out issue for organizations whose employees
everybody’s personal business, because are dealing with high-stress situations
I’ve got plenty of exciting things to be or are dealing with difficult people or
doing in life, and fill it up with. I don’t people with high needs. Figley (1995)
have to go mining. But it’s just when it described it as when we…
becomes an issue – in the workplace, or
in your friends or something like that. …have not been directly exposed to the
There is a politics of empathy, those trauma scene, but we hear the story told
with little power, are typically excepted with such intensity, or we hear similar
to sense the feeling of those who hold stories so often, or we have the gift and
power, while those in power feel less curse of extreme empathy and we suffer.
obligation to be sensitive in return. We feel the feelings of our clients. We
experience their fears. We dream their
In summary, participant responses dreams. Eventually, we lose a certain
confirm the theoretical understanding spark of optimism, humor, and hope. We
of empathy in various contexts as tire. We aren’t sick, but we aren’t our-
previously described by Martinovski, selves (p.13).
et al. (2007) and Melloni, et al.
(2014). Empathy operates in different According to Maslach and Jackson
ways depending on the context of the (1981), the definition of burnout is “a
setting, and individual positions and syndrome of emotional exhaustion
experiences. It is important to note, that and cynicism that occurs frequently
there is no perfect way to engage with among individuals who do ‘people-
each situation. Becoming mindful of and work’ of some kind” (p.99). This
accepting that everyone is different, and view is reinforced by Johnson (2013)
the way in which they engage the world who believes that trying to deal
varies, enables individuals to approach empathetically with people all the time
interactions in an open way. leads to the empathizer being worn out
and likely to suffer from burnout. As one
Empathy Burnout participant said:
Empathy burnout also referred to as I needed a break from the [work]
‘compassion fatigue’ describes the environment – I’m still on that break –
emotional exhaustion of someone who over a year now – in a less demanding
is relied on to constantly show empathy department.
without the opportunity or resources to
Remen (1996) aptly points out that “the Research carried out by Hojat (2009)
expectation that we can be immersed showed that although empathy levels
in suffering and loss daily and not remained constant through the first
be touched by it is as unrealistic as two years of their subjects’ medical
expecting to be able to walk on water training, by the third year their empathy
without getting wet. This sort of denial levels had declined significantly. The
is no small matter” (p. 52). reasons for this decline were varied and
complex and included time pressure,
Dealing with the general public a lack of role models, a high volume
constantly means, to a certain extent of materials to learn, and patient and
you get a bit desensitized to it, or maybe environmental factors. Neumann, et
compartmentalize the investigations (i.e. al. (2011) found that empathy levels
sexual assaults). I think [the situations] in medical students declined as they
take a toll on staff…you get to a point progressed through their studies, and
where you ‘hit the wall’. they believed the decline was due to the
The type of work that we do develops distress experienced by the students. In
our empathy – constantly sharing in this case, distress included factors such
people’s bad situations, in itself, creates as depression, diminished quality of life,
an empathic response; however, that can burnout, and a low sense of well-being.
be tiring too. Newton, Barber, Clardy, Cleveland,
Helping (or caring) professions are filled and O’Sullivan (2008) also noted the
with people who are emotionally burned decline in medical students’ empathy as
out (Johnson, 2013). The medical they progressed through medical school.
profession has been the subject of much In particular, there was a noticeable
research on burnout as both students decline once students entered their
and qualified doctors learn to deal with first clinical year (year 3). This decline
situations and people that require a high in empathy might be seen as a coping
level of empathy. Mother Teresa was mechanism although it was of concern,
familiar with compassion fatigue when given the importance of a patient’s
working in particularly demanding need for an empathetic caregiver. In
circumstances, stipulating her nuns contrast, Quince, et al. (2016) found in
must take a full year off after 4-5 years their study of four English and one New
of service (Newmeyer, et al., 2014). Zealand medical schools that there was
no decline in empathy levels at the end
Our work…weighs people down after a of the undergraduates’ study, though
while; it’s the cumulative effect of that. they wondered how empathy could
And then tomorrow there’s another best be supported through the pressures
murder… of starting out in medical practice.
We get to see what family violence looks We suggest that empathy should be
like from a child’s perspective, but we constantly reinforced through students’
still have to translate it into what can we education. Paro, et al. (2014) noted that
do for this individual, the perpetrator – burnout and a low perception of quality
to get them to stop. So we are translating of life seemed to be a factor in lower
empathy into something else all the time. levels of empathy in medical students.
These factors appear to have initiated around to a family to tell them a loved
students to reflect and look inwards, and one has died. The experience teaches
not outwards to others. It is important for empathy.
medical schools to support measures that
Another participant pointed out the need
improve students’ well-being, especially
to manage one’s empathy:
at critical times such as initial clinical
training (Paro, et al., 2010). Their focus There is empathy, and then there are
is on their studies and situation, i.e., people who become the fireman (sic) or
self-absorbed and so a focus on others, the superhero and do everything as well.
such as empathy requires, did not occur.
Some people stated they saved their
If people are too caught up in their own “best empathy for work” because they
world there’s not a capacity to connect were paid to be empathic, but felt their
with others. ‘empathy tank’ was drained, so when
When you do become emotionally they got home, they were less empathic.
involved, you build defenses to protect
I felt like I lacked empathy at home; I
yourself. And that stops empathy running
could give it at work, but I couldn’t
its proper course.
give it at home. I needed a break from
In contrast, a study of fifty-two the [work] environment – I’m still on
Australian Bachelor of Midwifery that break – over a year now – in a less
students (McKenna, et al., 2011) found demanding department.
that students’ empathy rose consistently
Some of the strategies that people used
and substantially with each year of their
to sustain their empathy was taking a
undergraduate program which they
break, black humor, and talking to each
attributed to the notion that midwifery is
other (as they experienced similar events
different to other medical professions in
on the job).
that childbirth is usually a happy time for
families. Though they acknowledge that While we don’t train specifically in
midwives face the same difficulties and empathy, we do focus a lot on wellness.
challenges as other health professionals, They can just take a long weekend; we
the authors make the observation that say, ‘you need a block of time; take it
midwives are working with healthy off’. We do a lot of resilience work.
women rather than ‘sick’ women. Sometimes we vent; sometimes we
While compassion fatigue might be use black humor…and sometimes it
considered the ‘cost of caring’ (Figley, helps keep people sane. It’s a coping
1995) it should not be assumed that mechanism.
empathy burnout is acceptable outcome Get past responding to people always
employees and volunteers in caring/ with an answer and a perspective. Learn
helping, first responder or counseling to slow down the conversation and ask
organizations. questions [which] shows a level of ‘I’m
interested in your point of view; I’m
It’s very hard to potentially train open to hearing another perspective’.
someone about how to deal with going
People having access to more of a diverse 3) offers a model that can guide those
workplace (their stories across genders) designing empathy training. Burnout
increases empathy in our workplace. occurs when the empathy ‘stock’ gets
In summary, comments from the critically low and people lose the ability
participants have added richness to the to re-stock as shown in Figure 1.
model. The revised diagram (see Figure
Figure 3. Critical Levels of Empathy Depletion using the Empathy Flow Model
(2015) states that “Neither empathy people’s exposure to high stress induc-
nor listening is givens; both are skills ing and empathy-draining events and
and competencies that organizations provide respite through organizational
can develop within their individual strategies and self-care opportunities.
members and organizational cultures” (p The implementation of strategies men-
18). Gentry, et al. (2007) argues active tioned earlier would be most effective
listening enables managers to be more before symptoms of empathy fatigue are
empathic which in turn improves their experienced.
effectiveness and performance.
Empathy is a very sought-after human
Strategies for dealing with and/or quality that needs to be applied in
preventing empathy burnout include such measure so that the giver and the
assigning shorter stints where high receiver are fulfilled. However, attention
demands are made on one’s empathy, must be paid to maintain a balance
in “recognition of their heightened between flow-in and flow-out. The
potential for burn-out or compassion Empathy Flow Model provides a useful
fatigue” (Adams, 2007, p. 6). Work-life paradigm for appreciating the need to
balance, education, work interventions make time to re-fill a person’s empathy
(support groups and interventions) reserves by increasing elements that
spiritual support and self-care and self- boost emotional energy, while also
efficacious opportunities are some of the paying attention to elements that deplete
ways that people who are experiencing one’s emotional energy. Given that these
empathy burnout can be restored. elements are likely to be individualized,
Webb (2014) found that the creation the role of empathy training solutions
of a “Spiritual Formation Group” for has also been considered. The Empathy
hospice workers was similar to groups Flow Model and empathy development
described in research undertaken by ideas offer pathways that make
Running, Tolle, and Girard (2018) and emotional energy available so as to offer
(Castle & Phillips, 2003). The purpose empathy to others on an ongoing basis,
of these groups was to give hospice care while still maintaining one’s emotional
professionals a platform to express their equilibrium.
grief toward the loss of their patients
Notes on Contributors
and to provide mutual support (Webb,
2014). These hospice workers articulat- Lesley Gill is a Principal Lecturer
ed that participating in this group helped at Otago Polytechnic, New Zealand.
to decrease the risk of compassion fa- Lesley has a keen interest in professional
tigue and burnout. Debriefing sessions development training, with an emphasis
were also valuable for disaster relief on Emotional Intelligence, Human
volunteers (Adams, 2007). Resource Management, and Leadership.
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