Dedication

Alamerefa Egbegi

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Acknowledgement

I thank the Almighty for

the gifts He has endowed
me with and for the
courage to be who I am.

To my amazing family, I
cherish every minute
spent growing under your
guidance.

To my mentors and
friends, thank you all for
rocking my world with
your beautiful colours.

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Table of Content

Dedication 1

Acknowledgement 2

Table of Content 3

Self-Development 4

Personality, Conversations
and Friendships 15

Self-love, Self-patience
and Self-care 23

Insight is Everything 30

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Self-Development

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 Day 1

Do not stop developing

yourself just because
people are intimidated by
you.

Do one thing to add

value to your life today.

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 Day 2

With self-improvement
comes an improved sense
of self-awareness; with
awareness comes a level
of unquestioned resolve
to never act below who
you truly are within.

With self-awareness, you

become empowered
and resolute to never
seek meaning from things
that do not add value to
your intrinsic self.

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 Day 3

People and things suffer

every time you take a
leave of absence from
yourself.

Each time you act below

your capacity, someone
somewhere suffers grave
consequences.

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 Day 4

We all have different

destinations hence,
different routes. Your
friend’s route must not be
your route.

Where are you headed?

Will your actions today

take you closer to your
desired destination or
take you someplace else?

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 Day 5

Replace the pressure to

perform and impress with
deliberate actions
transporting you to the
future you want to have.

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 Day 6

Learn to give yourself a

rational reason for every
course of action you want
to take especially on the
things you want to be
successful at.

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 Day 7

Define your ‘what’,

‘when’, ‘where’, ‘why’
and ‘how’

Whilst it may be difficult to

know what you want, you
also do not want to leave
your experiences to
chance.

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 Day 8

Stay in control.

Your joy, happiness, and

peace of mind are always
under your control, it is up
to you to lose control and
relinquish that control to
someone else or some
event or thing.

Repossessing that control

once lost comes with a
high price.

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 Day 9

Think of your mind as a

throne – it is the seat of
power. Do not ever leave
that seat vacant.

Be deliberate about what

occupies your seat of
power.

Do not gamble with

intrusive thoughts. Tame
them as soon as they
make their way in.

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 Day 10

You know that picture

that keeps popping up in
your head about yourself?
Yes! That one! Hold onto it
and never lose grasp of it,
not even when all hope is
lost. Actually, that’s when
you should hold on to it
the most.

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 Personality

Conversations

Friendships

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 Day 11

Personality types –
introversion and
extroversion are over
rated. Choose to be an
interesting, fun to be with
person and just genuinely
enjoy people’s company.

The problem usually

begins with over thinking,
stop over thinking.

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 Day 12

Be conversational.

Learn conversation tips,

build a list of conversation
starters and be genuinely
open to knowing people.

Be relatable and fun to

be with.

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 Day 13

Create opportunities for

people to be kind to you
without feeling any
pressure to pay back.

Always be content with

saying ‘thank you’.

That phrase exists for a

reason.

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 Day 14

Today,

No self-doubting;

No second guessing;

No negative thoughts;

Think positive vibes and

spontaneous actions.

That’s where all the

exciting stuff happens.

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 Day 15

Everybody must not be

your friend and you do
not have to be friends
with everyone.

There is no good enough

reason to tolerate
negative or disrespectful
people.

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 Day 16

Surround yourself with

people that encourage
you to be your true self.

Any relationship that

suppresses your light is the
wrong relationship.

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 Day 17

In all thy relatability, have

unapologetic boundaries
and consequences for
when people are in a
habit of disrespecting you
or taking you for granted.

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 Self-love

Self-patience

Self-care

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 Day 18

Think of your life as a

canvas.

Your life is your canvas.

You have been given the
right to paint your canvas
with the colours you
please.

Now indulge yourself.

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 Day 19

Fall in love with yourself

and accept all of you.

Take yourself on a date,

court yourself, notice how
you have evolved from
birth and relish your own
company.

Give yourself the

permission to explore. You
are worth the risk.

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 Day 20

Rather than spending

plenty of time thinking of
all that could possibly go
wrong and how
embarrassed you might
be, choose to think
instead of all that could
possibly go right and how
exciting or overwhelming
success might be.

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 Day 21

Stop apologizing for who

you are. Help people
realize they have the
option of dealing or
leaving if they cannot
stand you.

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 Day 22

Give yourself the latitude

to be the person you
were engraved to be.

Stop apologizing for who

you are. Stop apologizing
for who you are not.

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 Day 23

No matter how hungry

you are, you cannot insist
your gas cooker cooks a
meal faster than the
required cooking time for
that meal, except you
want to eat an
undercooked meal.

Allow yourself time to

evolve – the time to serve
yourself will eventually
come.

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INSIGHT IS EVERYTHING

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 Day 24

Your experiences are a

direct reflection of how
much you know or do not
know.

It is also directly linked to

‘what’ and ‘how much’
you permit yourself to
have.

You are the product of

your beliefs.

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 Day 25

You start your journey the

minute you realize you
owe no one but yourself
any explanation.

Parents and elders are

loving and protective but
it is up to you to allow
them love you into or out
of your destiny

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 Day 26

When people care about

you, it is not exactly about
you; it is a reflection of
who they are, be humble
and appreciate it.

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 Day 27

You are special, yeah, but

not perfect.

Until you admit you are

not perfect and capable
of making mistakes, you
will shut yourself out from
experiencing genuine
growth and gratitude.

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 Day 28

When you accept that

you do not always make
the right choices, you
create room to forgive
yourself.

When you learn to forgive

yourself for your
inadequacies, it becomes
easier to forgive others.

Give yourself the gift of

forgiveness today by
forgiving someone.

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 Day 29

Train your eyes and mind

to be positive 100% of the
time. This way, when you
relate with people you
can selectively focus on
their positives and ignore
the negatives. It doesn’t
make you stupid; it makes
it easy to forgive when
someone errs. Remember,
you have your own flaws
and you err too.

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 Day 30

It is important to be with
someone that can easily
forgive you when you do
something wrong.
Someone who personally
appreciates the gift of
forgiveness and not
someone who thinks they
are flawless.

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 Day 31

Turn your fears into

excitement.

It is a choice to either be
paralyzed by fear of all
that could go wrong or
be spurred into action by
excitements of all that
could go right.

Fear breeds paralysis

while excitement breeds
action. The choice is
yours, choose wisely.

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