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From One
Reader to Another
B
efore I fell in love with my hus- into his heart through them.
band, I fell in love with his books. Books bring us together, help us
When I first entered his room survive many odds and make us
years ago, I immediately knew he smarter. There’s no specific time to
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21 Ways Sugar is
September issue Making you Sick
The cover story on sugar
reveals a harsh reality—
a vast array of extremely
When New Miss Came to Teach Us harmful sugary junk food
and sugar-loaded colas
This was such a heartwarming article. Sadly, are available, quite easily,
in India, teachers are expected to be strict and off the shelf. These silent
stern with the sole aim of ‘getting the work done’. killers are being adver-
Their duty is limited to ‘explaining the lesson’ to the tised with much fanfare.
class. But what the children need is acceptance, an They contain loads and
emotionally secure space to grow, and a spark for loads of processed sugar
learning. So, to quote the author of this story, and selling them is akin
“Perhaps, we must begin with kindness.” to selling poison to the
unsuspecting consumer.
—Jayshree Thatte, Thane
It is the responsibility
Jayshree Thatte gets this month’s ‘Write & Win’ prize of `1,000. —EDs of everyone—manufac-
turers, advertising agen-
This story took me on a excited. When they cies, celebrities endorsing
trip down memory lane. came back I asked such products and, most
Nearly four decades ago, them to make a word, importantly, parents—to
I, too, was a ‘new miss’. using the leaves. spread awareness about
It was never my This moment proved the side effects of these
dream to become a to be a turning point in consumables.
teacher, but here I was, my life. We grew fond of When an epidemic like
assigned to class 1, and each other, so much so polio can be eradicated,
40 tiny kids were staring that by the time the year the right approach and
at me. I was equally ended, my students, and learning can surely ad-
puzzled about what to even their parents, did dress the multiple health
do. So I took them out not want me to leave! risks that arise as a result
to the playground and This amazing bond of high-sugar foods too.
asked them to collect still brings a wonderful —Prem Singh Mehta,
leaves. They were quite feeling today, as I sit New Delhi
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The Future of
Press Freedom
The fourth estate faces a mounting challenge,
yet thrives on the struggle
By Samit Basu
the 2019 global press freedom index leaders, mostly using technology and
ranks India as 140th among 180 coun- majoritarian values to stifle dissent,
tries in the world. This is alarming in criticism and information about govern-
itself, and even more so when you con- ment failures and excesses. The future of
sider that press freedom is inextricably press freedom is not just tied to the
linked with the functioning of demo- future of journalism, but the future of
cracy. And India is not alone in this—in democracy itself, both of which are
several countries around the world, the extremely uncertain at this time.
most startling declines in press freedom Journalism has been changing rapidly
have occurred in countries with elected over the last two decades with the
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exponential expansion of digital media, it even easier for the powerful to prevent
and this is likely to continue. We’ve seen news from reaching the public at every
major upheavals in both the format and stage of its dissemination. So while the
the essential nature of media. The biggest need for the news media to keep a check
issue has been one of control—finance on governments, businesses and reli-
models have been broken, the need to gious authorities gone rogue, will be
constantly churn out content and attract greater than ever, finding the resources
eyeballs has led to a drop in investigative to do this will only become more diffi-
stories, original research and fact-check- cult. Along with these threats, the data
ing, and in the resultant chaos, advertis- age will provide new opportunities for
ers, corporations, politicians, govern- journalism, as more things become mea-
ments and technological platforms have surable. We’re already seeing diverse
placed journalism itself under immense communities and their interests being
pressure through ceaseless attempts at represented in the news, from main-
influence, manipulation and censorship. stream journalism about neglected
Simultaneously, there have been con- groups and niche interests to new voices,
certed efforts by authority figures every- crowdsourced or public journalism. The
where to erode people’s trust in the demand for good journalism has not
media, both by subversion, proclama- gone away yet, nor is it likely to—but the
tions and the menace of fake news—an speed and flexibility required to adapt to
industry of deception and distraction this demand are already extraordinary.
created by political troll factories and The future will bring more personaliza-
compliant platforms. This is not going to tion, more cross-media consumption,
change with more technology shifts—as more experiences, challenges, points of
we move from smartphones to smart view and voices. It will also require more
scrolls, smart glasses, augmented-, vir- skills, creativity and empathy.
tual- and mixed-reality journalism and, Ultimately, journalism is not about
eventually, news fed directly to your technology or finance, but about people.
brain, the constant struggle of journalists If people can be tricked into believing
will be to retain enough freedom, finan- they don’t need a free press, or if algo-
cially, editorially and physically, to not rithm-enabled totalitarianism over-
turn into propagandists and PR engines. whelms democracy, or if humankind
News automation, which will seek to somehow loses the fundamental desire
replace the journalist entirely, is going to for liberty and choice, the future of press
make this even more complicated. freedom is indeed bleak. But the free-
The upcoming age of near-total sur- dom of the press was never easily won or
veillance is going to make finding whis- handed over; it has ever emerged out of
tleblowers and retaining anonymous struggle and evolution, both of which are
sources even harder, and will also make absolute inevitabilities in our future.
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The title of my
autobiography would be …
... The Journey Of A Comma
Amidst Full Stops
ANJALI M. NAIK, E rn akul am , Kera la
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POINTS TO PONDER
We will not let you get away with this. Right here, right
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A member of ‘Mana
Peddapuram’ exchanging
rice for plastic
GOODforNEWS
a
Better Planet
puram town in Andhra Pradesh’s East collect around 400 kgs of plastic and
Godavari district, came up with the an equal amount of rice and other
above: naresh pedireddi
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to raise the money. They had set Economics, Amartya Sen, praised
themselves the deadline of 15 October this Kolkata boy and said that he
2019 as the date for the installation, as was “very very happy and de-
the conditions would get worse with lighted” at Banerjee winning it.
the winter setting in. Their mission That sums up the sentiments of
was accomplished well in time. most Indians, we say.
—COMPILED BY V. KUMARA SWAMY
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will smile sweetly, nod One day, my physician
LIFE’S
my way, and explain, father treated himself
“We both love me.” to a plate of raw oys-
Like That —Marian Pitcher ters and offered to
share them with me.
jack ziegler/the new yorker collection
My friend took her Just as I was about to
teenage daughter to dig in, he picked up
a new doctor for a an oyster, examined
When people hear that check-up. The nurse it, and commented,
my husband and I just asked the usual ques- “They remind me of
celebrated our 60th tions, including if she infected tonsils.”
wedding anniversary, had an STD. And that’s the story
they inevitably ask us “No,” said the teen. of how he ended up
the secret to our long, “We have a Toyota.” eating the entire plate
successful marriage. In —Barbara Gavlick of oysters himself.
response, my husband Hartnett —Chris Twyeffort
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BETTER LIVING
By Ishi Khosla
P
roteins are a large group The Right Amount
of nitrogenous organic There is no change in your daily
compounds that are essential protein requirement until you are
constituents of living cells. They 60. You can continue consuming
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consist of polymers of amino acids, 0.75 gm protein per kilo of ideal body
essential for growth and repair weight. So if you are 40 and your
of tissues, and can be obtained body weight is 58 kilos, your daily
from meat, eggs, low-fat dairy and protein requirement is 43.5 gm. At
legumes. However, the perception 60, the level goes up to 1 gm per kilo
that too much protein is harmful body weight. Most Indian diets fail to
is not unfounded. Consuming provide adequate protein. The salads
a n i m a l p ro t e i n t h ro u g h and dals we eat daily do provide pro-
meats, poultry and dairy in tein, but are not consumed in suffi-
excess can lead to increased cient quantities (see box). However,
levels of cholesterol protein supplements alone may not
and saturated fats. This be the answer. Those switching to
further ups your risk of a gluten-free, soya-free diet should
cardiovascular diseases. So include legumes (chickpeas, kidney
make sure you consume your beans, peas), lentils, sprouts and
required daily allowance (RDA). nuts to get adequate protein.
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HEALTH
The Perils
of High
Blood Sugar lead to high blood pressure, blood ves-
sel damage and may cause heart dis-
Here’s why it’s important to take ease as well as affect your vision, your
control of your prediabetes kidneys and your ability to heal. The
damage to your blood vessels starts
W
hen you eat, the carbohy- well before your blood sugar reaches
drates in your food are turned the level at which type 2 diabetes is
into glucose (sugar), which diagnosed. That’s why doctors are so
circulates in your bloodstream. Insu- keen on recognizing and treating pre-
lin, a hormone that’s produced in your diabetes early—so you can stop or slow
pancreas, lets your cells absorb the glu- down problems down the road.
cose from your blood and use it for the Getting at least 30 minutes of exer-
energy they need to function. cise, eating low-cal, high-fibre nu-
If you have type 2 diabetes, your tritious foods, cutting down stress,
body doesn’t respond quite as well to sleeping well and losing weight is the
insulin, so the unused sugar builds up key to managing the condition. “Your
in your bloodstream. When you have doctor will prescribe you medicines
prediabetes, you’re not fully reacting for elevated blood glucose if the levels
to your insulin, but your blood sugar are not controlled in spite of adequate
levels aren’t as high as they would be if dietary restrictions and exercise,” says
you had full-fledged diabetes. Dr Binayak Sinha, consultant endocri-
High blood sugar is dangerous be- nologist at AMRI Hospitals, Kolkata. He
cause it harms your blood vessels by also recommends that people with pre-
lowering your level of nitric oxide, diabetes check their sugar levels once
indiapicture
which keeps blood vessels open and in three months and an HbA1C blood-
supple. The result is narrowing and sugar test every six months.
stiffening of blood vessels, which can —WITH INPUTS FROM KATHAKOLI DASGUPTA
UPDATED AND ADAPTED FROM PREVENTION INDIA © JULY 2013, LIVING MEDIA INDIA LIMITED.
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Prevents Falls
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previously been linked to increased risk of type 2 tual stimulation for your
diabetes. The Food Safety and Standards Authority brain. Fixing these issues
of India (FSSAI), the premier agency that sets the allows you to participate
standards for food products in the country, has also in more brain-activating
fixed the limits for pollutants in fish and fisheries pastimes, thus helping
products. The guidelines can be checked on its ward off dementia and
website www.fssai.gov.in. Alzheimer’s.
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COVER STORY
WAYS TO GET
38
SMARTER
ABOUT YOUR
BRAIN
As scientists probe the mysteries
inside our heads, their discoveries
are providing new insights into how we
can all sharpen our mental machinery
By Tina Donvito and Jenn Sinrich
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Researchers
haven't found any
correlation between
brain size and
intelligence.
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get older.” In fact, research from Har- In the same way that someone who
vard University and the Massachu- loses both hands can learn to pick
setts Institute of Technology shows things up with his or her toes, the brain
that arithmetic skills don’t peak until can ‘recruit’ different parts of itself to
age 50, and vocabulary and cumu- compensate for damaged areas when
lative intelligence (all the facts and needed, a phenomenon known as
knowledge we’ve acquired) peak even brain plasticity. For example, experi-
later, into our early 70s. ments have shown that people who
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IQ can change
throughout your life.
Some experts claim
there’s no such thing
as IQ at all.
life, more than one million new neural Your brain may account for only about
connections form every second. two per cent of your body weight, but it
O OUR BRAINS ARE SHRINKING uses approximately 20 per cent of your
Paleoanthropological research proves body’s oxygen and calorie intake.
our brains are about 10 per cent smaller OTRUE LOVE LIGHTS YOU UP
than those of Cro-Magnons, who lived Being in love isn’t an abstract emotion.
20,000 to 30,000 years ago. Scientists Your brain knows when it’s happen-
aren’t entirely sure why. One theory is ing. “In people who are romantically
that smaller brains are more efficient. in love, functional MRI brain scans can
O THE BRAIN FEELS NO PAIN ... show activity where dopamine, the
Ever wonder how brain surgeons are ‘feel-good’ neurotransmitter, is pres-
able to perform surgeries on patients ent,” says McQuiston.
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tists at the Max Planck Institute for When you think you have a ‘gut fee-
Human Development in Berlin used ling’, are you just imagining it? Turns
electrodes to record the brainwaves out, there’s something to it. According
of 16 pairs of guitarists as they played to research, hunches are the result of
the same musical sequence. Even our brains’ receiving and processing
though the two individuals in each information so fast that our conscious
pair played different parts, their brain- minds don’t even realize it.
waves synchronized. “This study sug- OSOME MENTAL DISORDERS MAY
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Dreams help us process
negative emotions.
If we don't dream,
we are left in a state
of anxiety.
parts of their brains are all associated ARE ‘AWAKE’ DURING SLEEP
with higher-level executive functions “Even when we are sleeping, areas such
such as planning, decision making and as the frontal cortex, which controls our
resisting counterproductive impulses. higher-level thinking and awareness,
Researchers are now exploring the and the somatosensory cortex, which
possibility that these disorders could allows us to sense our surroundings,
have similar causes—and treatments. are active,” says Tarawneh.
O BRAIN HEALTH MAY START
bacteria in the gut, known as the Brain activity during dreaming in-
microbiome, affect the brain. “Animal creases to a similar level as when we
studies indicate that gut bacteria may are awake, says behavioural sleep the-
affect everything—from mood to our rapist Richard Shane, PhD. That may
response to stress,” says fitness expert help you solve problems and boost
and dietician Erin Palinski-Wade. “A your ability to cope with struggles and
diet rich in prebiotics and probiotics stress. A Harvard Medical School study
may help to alter gut health to fight showed that participants who achieved
depression and anxiety.” REM sleep (when dreaming usually
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happens) were better able to detect brain that control visuospatial skills.
positive emotions in other people, Researchers are even developing
while those who did not were more video games that can modify regions
sensitive to negative emotions. The of the brain that control mood—
study’s author suggests that dreams there’s one video game designed to
help the brain process negative emo- treat depression. But be careful—video
tions safely. If we fail to dream, then we games can also be addictive because of
fail to let go of these emotions and are the structural changes they cause in the
left in a constant state of anxiety. brain’s reward system.
OGUM CHEWING OSEX
The researchers say that chewing gum Studies show that time off helps you
increases the flow of oxygen to regions be more productive. “Our brains are
of the brain responsible for attention. not machines that can work endlessly
OSOCIAL INTERACTION without a glitch,” says psychologist
A 2015 review of previously published Deborah Serani, author of Depres-
research showed that less frequent sion in Later Life and a professor at
social interaction was associated with Adelphi University, New York. Down-
a higher incidence of new cases of time “allows the regulatory systems of
dementia. Volunteering, visiting with your brain to chill out,” she says.
friends and family and staying active in OMEDITATION
social groups can help keep your brain “Brain-mapping studies show that
healthy as you age. meditation reduces anxiety, depression
OVIDEO GAMES and stress,” Serani says. “Meditation
A recent review of research found that also sharpens attention and improves
gamers show improvements in the cognitive functioning.” One study
brain regions involved in attention. showed that a long-term meditation
There’s also evidence that playing practice can help save your grey mat-
video games can increase the size ter from atrophying with age, perhaps
and efficiency of the regions of the because it stimulates the formation
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Love literally
lights up your brain,
flooding it with the
‘feel-good’ substance
called dopamine.
ing brain circuits, slowing down age- In one study of adults ages 65 and
ing and boosting brain-friendly chemi- older, those who exercised four times
cals. “Moreover, it reduces stress and a week cut the risk of dementia in
improves memory, alertness and half, compared with those who either
attention. It also makes you more em- weren’t active at all or were active
pathetic towards your colleagues and only one day a week. Plus, “exercise at
peers,” says Doraiswamy. He also high- every age has been shown to improve
lights a trailblazing study led by The memory, concentration, and other
Chopra Center at Southern California, cognitive functions,” says Palinski-
where a group of individuals who were Wade. This appears to be linked to an
meditating were put through a series of increase in circulation, bringing oxy-
tests to study the impacts at a cellular gen and nutrients to the brain while
level—the study showed that medita- also helping remove waste.
tion profoundly changes the expression “Exercise does amazing things for
of genes and improves many aspects of your brain and protects you from
mental well-being. various diseases,” Doraiswamy says.
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in older adults,” she says. It’s not because drinking kills large
numbers of brain cells, as is commonly
THINGS THAT ARE BAD believed. Rather, alcohol significantly
FOR YOUR BRAIN diminishes the production of new cells.
OSLEEP DEPRIVATION A 30-year-long study from the United
In repeated studies of participants who Kingdom found that having as few as
went 24 hours without sleep, “cognitive two to three drinks per day does long-
functioning and response speed were term damage to your brainpower.
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The brain can
‘recruit’ different parts
of itself to compensate
for damaged areas
when needed.
OSUGAR
Brain scans of people with common mi- other,” causing you to take longer to do
graines or migraines with aura (symp- each one. Multitasking reduces crea-
toms that occur before the onset of the tivity, increases errors, lowers your
headache) found that they were 34 to ability to focus on what is most impor-
68 per cent more likely to experience tant and increases problems with sleep,
white-matter brain lesions than those stress and memory, she says.
who did not have migraines, according OOBESITY
to researchers from the University of “Have you ever wondered about the
Copenhagen. Some tiny brain lesions connection between obesity and
are nothing to worry about, but others the brain? When you’re obese, your
may be associated with multiple sclero- metabolic system is irregular and
sis, stroke, tumours and other diseases. research suggests that the higher your
OMULTITASKING weight, the smaller the size of the
“Multitasking hijacks your frontal memory centres of the brain. Newer
lobes, the brain’s higher-order thinking studies also say that there may be a
centre,” says Sandra Bond Chapman, correlation between obesity and your
PhD, the founder and chief director of risk of future brain conditions such
the Center for Brain Health at the Uni- as stroke and Alzheimer’s disease. So
versity of Texas at Dallas. “You think make sure your body weight and BMI
you are doing two or more tasks at the are in the healthy range. If not, consult
same time, but your brain is actually a physician,” says Doraiswamy.
switching rapidly from one task to the —WITH INPUTS FROM MOHINI MEHROTRA
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CHILDREN’S DAY SPECIAL
EXTRAORDINARY
CHILDREN By Team RD
For 12-year-old Camelia Kathy Kharbyngar, it was just another quiet evening
at home in Shillong, Meghalaya on 6 July 2017. She was in her room studying,
when she heard her aunt calling from outside. “Fire!” The inferno first started
at their neighbour P. Kharmalki’s house and soon spread to theirs. Her parents
were away at work at the time.
Camelia ran while calling out to her brother, who was also inside. “The fire
was spreading and he didn’t respond, so I ran in,” she says, recalling the events
of that day. Her brother, who is mentally challenged, is five years older than
her. “He didn’t know what to do and was scared when the fire spread,” she says.
Camelia swung into action and carried her brother out on her shoulders while the
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school principal in class five. She dove entrance exams and does extra reading
into the subject, seeking help from her on space as well.
brother and idol, A. K. N. S. Mukundh Nidhi dreams of being a cosmologist
Bhushan. “Creating the designs was one day, and believes that education
certainly time-consuming, but very in- “should break boundaries rather than
teresting as well,” she says, “Research is creating them. I aspire to create a more
never a waste of time because it gives reason- and science-oriented society,
me a chance to learn more and be able and emphasize on the scientific aspect
to come up with my own theories.” of saving the Earth,” she says. Her ad-
Ever assiduous, Nidhi starts her day at vice to youngsters: Know what you’re
5:30 a.m. for study daily, goes to school best at, work on it and be unique.
and special classes for her engineering By Vanya Lochan
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WORKING
CLASS
WRITERS by V. Kumara Swamy
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P H OTO G R A P H BY J E E VA C H A N D R A K U M A R
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Coimbatore-based auto
driver M. Chandrakumar
has authored several books.
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Laxman Rao’s dream of becoming
a writer came true , but he
continues to sell tea in Delhi.
has come their way, somewhat, but novel Nayi Duniya Ki Nayi Kahani in
they have remained grounded, carry- 1979. But he couldn’t find a publisher.
ing on with their mundane jobs. After “How could a person doing menial
all, where is the option? jobs be a writer?” they asked. But Rao
did not give up. He self-published this
Writer–Dreamer book from his savings. “I thought my
book would become a classic—nothing
Like Chandrakumar, Lax- of the sort happened. But that didn’t
man Rao also left home, in stop me from carrying on,” he says.
Amaravati, Maharashtra, way He set up a tea stall under a tree,
back in 1975. But unlike the right in front of Delhi’s Hindi Bhavan,
man from Coimbatore, Rao’s sometime in the ’90s. Rao completed
aim was fairly clear. “My fa- his graduation when he was in his 50s
vourite Hindi novelist was and did his post-graduation in his 60s.
Gulshan Nanda. I wanted to write Twenty-five books later, he continues
like him, become famous and earn to sell tea and his books from the
money,” says Rao stirring tea on a ker- same spot. Rao claims that selling tea
chandradeep kumar/india today
osene stove in front of him. Delhi was was his main source of income until
the place to be, to become a novelist, around five years ago. “I am 67 now
he believed. “I could study only until and my sons tell me that I should stop
class 10, but becoming a writer was an selling tea. Writing has brought me
obsession,” he says. While working as a fame, but this stall is my identity,” Rao
daily wage labourer and later as a seller says, as he poses for a photo with an
of bidis and cigarettes, to make his ends admirer who has come to introduce
meet, Rao managed to write his first his newly-wed wife to him.
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She continued to work as a domes- Rajbir Singh has
penned a book
tic help for several more years after based on his
which she started to work with NGOs conversations
in Mumbai and Kolkata. She is cur- with the people
rently in Kolkata working with sex travelling in
his rickshaw.
workers and their children. “I have
written some more books and I am
ready with two more manuscripts
about the life and struggles of sex
workers and their children,” she says.
Halder says that she has found her
calling and hopes to continue—and
inspire others.
Life on a Rickshaw
Like the rest of the authors
here, grinding poverty also
f o rc e d A m r i t s a r- b a s e d
r i cks haw -pu l l e r R aj b i r
Singh to drop out of school.
“I was in class 10 when my
father fell so badly ill that
we could no longer afford school,” suggested that he should write
says Singh, 42. He did not know that about his passengers. There was no
his writing was worth anything, until looking back, thereafter. Two years
he wrote a letter to a newspaper. ago, he published his own book
It was in response to a television Rickshaw Tey Chaldi Zindagi (Life
programme in which a well-to-do on a Rickshaw). “People from around
group of Sikhs was being felicitated the country and the world have
as the “real upholders” of the faith. travelled in my rickshaw. The book is
Singh wrote back a sharp missive, about the conversations I’ve had with
saying that every honest Sikh, no them,” he says. The book has gone
matter how poor, was an upholder of for two reprints already within a span
the faith. He had identified himself of two years.
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Shafi Cherumavilayi
is a master translator,
who works as a
labourer for a living.
rickshaw to this day, had tears of joy. so far. Did he not look for an easier
That was enough for me,” he says. j o b ? “ No b o d y o f f e re d m e o n e
and working as a labourer is the
Blue-collar Translator only thing I have done for almost
30 years now,” he says.
It was while working in “I love it when my translated works
a tea stall in Bengaluru win awards. I am really pleased when
that the Kannur-based someone like Perumal Murugan
Shafi Cherumavilayi, 57, praises my translations—what more
discovered his love for do I need?” Cherumavilayi asks. He
Tamil. “That was in the emphasizes that his needs are limited.
mid-’80s. I picked Tamil, A school dropout, he has been too
as most of our customers were busy with his translation work to think
labourers from Tamil Nadu,” he says. of either writing a book of his own or
A Malayalee, Cherumavilayi slowly getting a formal degree.
fell in love with the language and its The satisfaction of seeing their
literature. Thirty-five years later, he names on their published works is
has translated many popular Tamil probably the greatest motivating
books into Malayalam and has even factor for these extraordinary authors.
won three awards. Meanwhile, he In their heart of hearts they would
also works as a daily wage labourer, probably like to take up writing full
to earn a living. Cherumavilayi has time—only if there was another less
translated the works of Perumal taxing way of making their ends meet.
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BOOKS SPECIAL
‘WHY
I WRITE’
Authors share with us the real reasons they
are compelled to put pen to paper
TA SL I MA NA SRE EN
Physician, human-rights activist and
award-winning author
I have been a reader since childhood. I read
storybooks hidden under my textbooks in our
Mymensingh home. My brother published little
magazines, in which I was first published at the
age of 13. My notebook of poems turned out to
be an object of curiosity for my elders. Later,
my writing appeared in the national press of
Bangladesh and I wrote columns on gender
equality, founded a cultural organization
and a wall magazine. I was a poet mainly,
but wrote my first fiction, inspired by the
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Books Special
writing—this persists even today. short stories, novels, essays and other
I regard writing as an intimate friend. literary forms. They give me the feeling
I love writing poetry, as it is a of flying in a wide open sky. I seek out
concise device to express my feelings. poetry over and over again to befriend
The satisfaction I get from finishing a loneliness. To this day, I find no other
poem is an unparalleled experience. form more concise.
Following this, I trained myself to write — TRANSLATED FROM THE TAMIL BY RAM SARANGAN
DEV IKA
R ANGACHAR I
Award-winning children’s-book
writer and author of the White
Ravens-nominated Queen of Ice
I started writing as a consequence of
my love for reading and the world of
books. Initially, I wrote realistic fiction
for children, but now my focus is on
historical fiction for young adults, fea-
turing remarkable women from India’s
past whom I uncover in the course of
my academic research. These figures
are largely unknown due to the gender
bias that exists in the writing of history.
Each book is a challenge, not textbooks convey. I cannot afford to be
just because my audience is highly complacent but have to keep raising
discerning but also because it has the bar with every new work. What
to be readable and engaging. I need keeps me going, though, is the positive
to prove to my readers that history response from my readers and their
is not boring or remote, which is eagerness for more. Writing is a truly
the overwhelming impression that gratifying experience!
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K. R . M EE RA
2015 Sahitya Akademi
award-winner for the
Malayalam classic Aarachar
Why I write is partly physiological,
partly psychological. Writing takes
place in my mind, even if I am not
putting it down on paper. It’s as if
there’s a magical candle inside me
which catches fire unexpectedly,
melting and burning in pain—all
the while also giving off a light in
which I see the world and myself
and even the candle within me.
There are several reasons for me
to publish what I write. One is that
I can ‘rewrite’ my own life, giving it I am doing my best to fulfil what
a newer, nobler meaning. Another is women of previous generations
to take revenge on life for all the junk had set in motion: to document our
it has buried me under; I can recycle history of emotional evolution for
and transform it into things of beauty. future women to take note and make
But most importantly, by publishing, the world a better place.
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AMI SH TR IPAT HI
Bestselling author of the Shiva trilogy
I was always a voracious reader, but I never thought I’d
be a writer. I had written no fictional work—not even
short stories—before my first book, The Immortals of
Meluha. And now I have written seven reasonably long
books! I think authors write about what they know best.
My grandfather was a pandit in Kashi and my parents were
deeply pious. I read a lot of books dealing with spirituality
as well as our ancient [religious] texts. Naturally, the
ideas for my stories tend to originate in this genre.
What keeps me going? Well, what can stop me? I
get to do something I love, and I actually get paid
for it. Could anything be better?
R A NA SAF V I
Historian, columnist, translator
and author
I have always been fascinated by
our heritage and monuments. On a
trip to one such historical site, I felt
that they were speaking to me and
beckoning me to tell their story. It may
sound fanciful, but at the age of 56, I
decided to start writing and become
their voice. It has now become my
passion. Documenting our incredible
heritage via its monuments, food, as though I’m racing against time—
clothes and history is what makes me pushing my physical boundaries and
push myself to the utmost limit. I have trying to pack in more into each hour.
had wonderful experiences during my But it is a great feeling when I realize
trips to historical cities and desolate that I am playing a part in creating
monuments, but have also faced some awareness about our heritage. This
heartbreaks at their pathetic upkeep whole experience completes me.
and encroachment in such sites. — WITH INPUTS FROM ISHANI NANDI AND
I started out late, and at times, I feel SANGHAMITRA CHAKRABORTY
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DRAMA IN REAL LIFE
THE
Dog Walker WHO
Disappeared
Annette with
some of her
‘regulars’,
including Chloe,
her own border
collie (top row,
second from
right)
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She had three dogs with her: Roxy shot from her left armpit all the way
the boxer, Bubba, a mix of poodle and down to her calf and she wondered,
pug, and Chloe, her own black-and- dizzily, if she’d cracked a rib. She
white border collie. When the four slowly and carefully stood up, and got
of them came across a fallen tree— back onto the trail.
its trunk, thick as a barrel, stretch- Looking around past Roxy and
ing over an expanse of soggy moss a Chloe, unleashed at her side, Annette
metre below—Poitras clambered up realized that 13-year-old Bubba had
to cross over it. That morning, after a bolted. She didn’t know what time it
walk in the rain, she had exchanged was or how long she’d been knocked
out, but daylight was already disap-
pearing, and the temperature, only
SHE DIDN’T KNOW seven degrees Celsius, was starting to
HOW LONG SHE’D BEEN fall. But she knew she needed to find
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(approximately 32 kilometres east
of Vancouver) for decades. Annette
had been employed as a cashier at a
local Safeway grocery store and Marcel
worked for the company’s IT depart-
ment. Annette had retired a couple
of years earlier and started a dog-
walking business.
Around noon, she loaded Roxy,
Chloe and Bubba into the car. She
called out, “Have a good afternoon!”
to Marcel and closed the front door
behind her. Before long, she pulled up
at a parking lot off the side of a hydro
access road on Eagle Mountain, which
was zigzagged by informal trails made
by mountain bikers. Annette hadn’t
told anyone where she was going. She
didn’t think she needed to—she was
Eagle Mountain is covered with dense
planning to be gone only an hour. She
forest and a myriad of trails.
let the dogs out and began to walk.
through the forest along which electri-
S
haken and bleary-eyed from cal transmission towers descend the
her fall, Annette began search- mountain—she could find her way
ing for her tiny charge. “Bubba!” out. I’ve got to find the power line,
she yelled into the trees. “Bubba!” she thought.
She knew the dog had wandered into She climbed over felled trees and
the woods, so she left the trail, and through marshes, branches and
bushwhacking through the brush, thorns cutting her legs so badly they
continued shouting his name. She bled. Still no power lines criss-cross-
was disoriented, her head was throb- ing the sky. When it finally occurred
bing, and the sky was nearly dark. to Annette to reach into the pocket of
photo by marilee lamarque
Below the thick canopy of branches, her raincoat for her phone, she came
the forest was even darker, and before up empty—it must have fallen out af-
long she’d lost track of what direction ter her tumble. In the throes of what
she’d initially come from, or even how felt like delirium, the woman began to
much time had passed. But she knew panic. She wasn’t prepared to spend
that if she could find the mountain’s a night outside on the mountain.
hydro right-of-way—the cleared path What am I going to do, she thought.
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Dwarfed by the mighty tree trunks, Eagle Mountain that his hear t
Annette began to cry. dropped: the van. He climbed out of
the car and walked over to the now
Marcel Poitras didn’t know where pitch-black trailhead, calling for Poi-
his wife had gone walking, but he tras and whistling for the dogs. Noth-
wasn’t too worried when she hadn’t ing. Just after 6:30 p.m., he dialled 911.
returned by mid-afternoon. “Hey,
how’s it going?” he texted her. When An alert went out : missing dog
she didn’t respond, he called, letting walker, 56, female. “That should be
it ring until her voicemail message pretty easy,” said Aidon Pyne, a local
kicked in. She might be dropping off search-and-rescue [ SAR ] volunteer.
Roxy and Bubba or getting a few gro- “She probably has a twisted ankle
ceries, he guessed. off the side of the trail.” As a crew
assembled in the parking lot near the
mountain, the search slowly got into
AS THE WIND PICKED UP gear. The 20 SAR volunteers figured
AND IT STARTED TO RAIN that after a couple of hours of yelling
A
often took the dogs. t the same time the search-
He didn’t see her van parked in the ers were calling it quits for the
lot, so he drove to her friend Fran’s evening, Annette was slumped,
house. Nothing. For nearly an hour, shivering, exhausted and dehydrated,
he drove the dark suburban streets, against a fallen tree. The rain was
checking one spot after another, keep- relentless, and the temperature had
ing his and Annette’s daughter, Gabri- dropped as low as it would get all
elle, updated on the search. It wasn’t night, just one degree above freezing.
until his headlights swung around When the morning light finally pene-
the curve of the hydro access road on trated the forest, Annette felt like she
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hadn’t slept at all. She dragged herself dehydrated as she was would have
to her feet, shivering and soaked, her caused serious confusion
blond hair slick against her head. Still Annette didn’t know it, but she was
determined to find Bubba, she ignored walking deeper into the woods. The
the shooting pain in her back. Roxy dogs followed closely, shivering from
and Chloe, who’d stayed by her side all the cold. They hadn’t passed a stream
night, looked at her quizzically. Mar- or anything that looked edible, and
cel’s going to find me, Annette thought. in spite of her hunger and thirst, she
He knows which mountains I usually hadn’t thought to follow the dogs’
walk. He’s going to find me. “Bubba!” lead and drink water from puddles
she called out. or leaves.
She’d been walking dogs in the area Suddenly, Annette made out the
for more than two years, always bring- buzz of helicopters overhead—they
ing a kit that included a whistle, some were looking for her! She grabbed a
munchies, a dog bowl, an extra piece long stick from the forest floor, tied
of clothing and a bear bell tucked into her pink rain jacket to one end and
a fanny pack. But on November 20, she began to wave her makeshift flag. But
didn’t bring it with her; with the el- her wild flapping was no match for the
derly Bubba tagging along, she didn’t thick and furious rain. The helicopters
think the walk would last more than moved on.
20 minutes. By 6 p.m., almost a full day after
Suddenly, as if reading her mind, Annette was first reported missing by
the puggle came running through the her husband, 50 defeated searchers
trees. “Finally!” Annette hollered. But streamed back into the parking lot.
her temporary burst of gratitude at They’d scoured 15 square kilometres
seeing Bubba was tempered by the for more than 12 hours in unrelent-
task at hand: getting herself, and the ing rain and biting wind. The helicop-
dogs, off the mountain alive—even as ters, which had been sweeping the
the wind picked up, the air pressure air for hours, had turned up nothing.
dropped, and the rain began lashing But with the weather turning against
down harder. them, they had no choice but to halt
Tree after tree looked the same, the the search for the evening.
ground matted with seemingly iden- Marcel reluctantly went home. He’d
tical remains of sodden old growth. been awake since the previous eve-
At this point, a confluence of factors ning, and, after spiralling through a se-
would have been conspiring to rob An- ries of panicked thoughts about what
nette of whatever lucidity remained: his life would be like without his wife,
the pain from her fall, the cold, the he finally fell into a restless sleep.
fear, the exhaustion. And being as On the mountain, Annette was
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he next morning, the rain had three times on his whistle—and im-
turned to a misty drizzle, and the mediately the team heard the faint but
sun had started to poke through unmistakable sound of barking dogs.
the clouds. The dogs chewed on sticks Aidon and Darren shot each other
and licked their fur, eager for water wide-eyed looks. “Hold the team,”
and warmth. Annette was too weak said Darren as he moved toward the
to stand. “Please find me,” she whis- barking. Darren’s whistle sounded so
pered, as a helicopter flew overhead. quiet Annette thought she was hear-
Aidon arrived on site at 6 a.m. The ing things. But Roxy began to bark, and
turn in the weather—and a huge surge then she heard the whistle again.
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“Hello?” Annette yelled. “Hello! I’m She was loaded onto a spine board
over here!” and secured with webbing and straps.
Within minutes, Darren was with Before a technician clipped her board
her. Over his radio, he broadcast to the longline cable that would draw
“I am with the subject,” to the team, her up out of the forest, Annette
who screamed with joy. Within five looked at Aidon. He’d been cracking
minutes, they’d descended upon her jokes the entire time, and now, her
like muddy angels. Annette had been senses returning, Annette tried one of
found, deep in the bush, a kilometre her own: “Sorry if my breath smells,”
and a half from where she’d fallen, and she said, to laughter from the group.
only 200 meters from a stream. At a nearby golf club, which had
As rescuers questioned her about her been turned into the rescue command
injuries and took her vitals, all Annette centre, Marcel sat surrounded by fam-
could think about was the dogs. “They ily and friends. An RCMP corporal
have to go first,” she told Aidon, who walked up to him and quietly took him
grinned but shook his head. Annette aside. As Marcel listened to the officer
was so cold and dehydrated that at first tell him his wife was alive, he began to
he couldn’t find a pulse. “I’m still alive,” cry, flashing a thumbs up to the group.
she assured him weakly. “All of my dark thoughts disappeared.”
Her clothes, stiff and waterlogged, The crowd at the command centre
had to be cut from her body, after cheered as rescuers carried Annette
which the team bundled her into a from the helicopter and into a wait-
small waterproof shelter. Aidon be- ing ambulance. After Aidon handed
gan clearing trees to give more space off the three dogs to their respec-
for the rescue helicopter. After half tive owners, he paused to take in the
an hour of warming and rehydra- jubilant mood as volunteers, fam-
tion, Annette had improved enough ily members and concerned citizens
to be moved. exchanged hugs and high-fives.
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HEALTH
Help
for
Brittle
Bones
Osteoporosis needn’t be a dire diagnosis.
Here are some steps you can take to
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It turned out Neelam had a long web of cells that break down and are
histor y that contributed to the replenished with new ones, just like
incident. Her mother had suffered the cells in other parts of our bodies.
from Parkinson’s disease, osteoporosis But, sometimes, the spaces in that
and osteoarthritis, putting Neelam at honeycomb-like structure become
risk for bone, joint and neurological too great when new bone cells are not
disorders. She had also experienced replenished, making our bones even
debilitating foot pain after a more fragile and brittle. The point
hysterectomy done in her 30s, and a at which bone density becomes low
fracture when she slipped and fell in enough to be considered a serious
the bathroom at age 50. condition is called osteoporosis. It
Like Neelam, many people leads to weakness of the skeleton
with a family history of frac- and increased risk of fractures,
tures and breaks tend to view particularly of the spine,
them as isolated events, wrist, hip, pelvis and upper
but it’s likely that such epi- arm, sometimes with fatal
sodes indicate a deeper, consequences.
more insidious, problem— According to the Interna-
weak bones caused by a large tional Osteoporosis Founda-
variety of factors including poor diet, tion, one out of eight men and one
lack of exercise, menopause, age and out of three women suffer from os-
even side effects of medication. teoporosis in India, making it one
of the most affected countries in the
WHAT IS OSTEOPOROSIS? world. Compared with most western
The term osteoporosis means, liter- countries, where peak incidence of
ally, ‘porous bone’. The inside of our osteoporosis occurs among people
bones resembles a honeycomb, a 70 to 80 years old, India sees the same
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affliction in people 10 to 20 years
younger. This is already visible in the
rising number of fractures among
people aged 45 and older, particularly
hip fractures—the incidence ratio
being one woman to a man.
Says Dr Rajesh Malhotra, president
of the Indian Orthopaedic Association
and head of the department of ortho-
paedics at Delhi’s All India Institute of
Medical Sciences, “There are no large
Indian studies to confirm these num-
bers but, by and large, it is a fact that
Indians, especially women, have poor
bone health during old age due to
rampant vitamin-D deficiency, malnu-
trition, multiple co-existing diseases,
frailty and poor mobility. Also, Asia
alone will have the largest number of
osteoporotic and related fractures in
the world by 2030.”
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Sen, a 46-year-old Delhi-based mar-
ket-research professional and cyclist,
who was only 30 when she was bat-
tling lupus, a serious auto-immune
disease and going through chemo-
therapy for her illness. Her rheumatol-
ogist suggested she get a bone-density
test to detect possible weakening of
her bones, and, sure enough, the re-
sults revealed that Shravani had in-
deed developed osteoporosis, putting
her at an increased risk for fractures.
In cases where osteoporosis is
brought on as a result of medication,
the healing process can begin once
the drugs are discontinued, Hulse
says, but, in general, he advises
“increased physical activity, such as
brisk walking in sunlight (needed for
vitamin-D production in the body),
is one of the most important lifestyle
modifications that can prevent this
condition.” Exercise slows bone loss
and reduces the risk of a fall. Strength
training with elastic exercise bands,
SIDE EFFECTS OF DRUGS
weight machines or small free weights PRESCRIBED FOR CERTAIN
can improve both bone and muscle. ILLNESSES CAN RAISE
Nutrition, too, plays an important
role in prevention. A 2017 study in the
YOUR RISK OF DEVELOPING
Journal of Bone and Mineral Research OSTEOPOROSIS.
states that an anti-inflammatory diet
(high in fruits, veggies, wholegrains the body utilize calcium. Avoid bone
and fish) was shown to preserve toxins such as colas, alcohol and
bone density and reduce the risk of tobacco.” Also, since a person with
hip fractures. Malhotra recommends an osteoporotic fracture is two to
one should “build peak bone mass five times more likely to get another
in the early years of life through fracture and the risk multiplies
exercise and a generous intake of further with increasing numbers,
calcium and vitamin D, which helps “Fall prevention is an absolutely
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dog folks are supposed
to beware of?” he asks
LAUGHTER
The best Medicine
the store owner.
“Yep, that’s him,”
the owner says.
“He doesn’t look
dangerous to me.
Why would you post
that sign?”
“Because,” says the
owner, “before I posted
that sign, people kept
tripping over him.”
—petcentral.chewy.com
Librarian/humorist
Roz Warren took to
Facebook to ask her
librarian friends a ques-
tion: If they died and
were sent to Hades,
which they discovered
had just one book avail-
As the customer ap- DOG! He carefully en- able to read, what
proaches the general ters the store, but once would it be? Here’s
store, he notices this inside all he sees is a fat the literature worthy
large sign on the door: old hound asleep on of Satan’s bookshelf:
DANGER! BEWARE OF the floor. “Is that the Ê“The manual to our
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KINDNESS OF STRANGERS
STRANDED
IN SRINAGAR
Stuck in a city on the verge of lockdown, two tourists
have only one chance to get home
By Kartik Gera
AS TOLD to Ishani Nandi
Illustration by Siddhant Jumde
T
hrilled … over the moon ... Nishwan’s wedding, so there was no
how else would you feel when question about it—we had to be there.
you find out one of your best We landed at Srinagar’s Sheikh
friends is getting married? The ul-Alam airport around 11 a.m. on
day Nishwan told me they’d set a 2 August. The airport was packed and
date, glowing with happiness and a face- busy, but without chaos. Soon we were
splitting grin, I started looking up tickets at the baggage carousel—Charvi was
from Delhi for my wife Charvi and I. on her phone informing our families
An August wedding in Kashmir was about our safe landing when she came
sure to be a beautiful affair. I’d visited across a news item online—the Amar-
Nishwan’s home in Rawalpora, Srinagar nath Yatra (a popular pilgrimage) was
once before but this would be Charvi’s cancelled due to a terror alert. All visi-
first trip and I was eager to show her tors and pilgrims were to leave Kash-
around. We were a bit concerned about mir immediately. No wonder there are
travelling to a place where violence and so many people huddled around there,
unrest were not uncommon, but it was I thought, catching sight of a bunch
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of tourists lined up at a kiosk set up to of Article 370”, “ … no, no, they would
handle queries about the, now nixed, never do that. It’s too big …”, “ … the
event. We also noticed a large group of protests will be massive …” Someone
soldiers, around 200 of them, waiting at mentioned that they had just returned
the next carousel and a military aero- from the pharmacy, having bought
plane that Charvi looked up and found a month’s supply of his mother’s
to be a C-17 Globemaster airlifter. I felt a medication. Everyone was weighed
ripple of discomfort, but reminded my- down by signs of the gathering storm.
self of the obvious—this could well be
B
commonplace here. y the next day, speculation was rife
and information poured in from
T
he friend who came to pick us up different quarters. ATMs were out
reassured us that alerts like these of cash, petrol pumps were dry or re-
were indeed not uncommon. In fusing service. That afternoon, Charvi
any case, we were headed to a secure proposed that we cut our trip short.
place, away from the city. His calm Our families felt the same way. But
demeanour and the sight of the local ticket prices for flights on the follow-
people going about their day as usual ing day had skyrocketed: The one-way
quelled the butterflies I felt in the pit of fare for a single seat to Delhi started
my stomach. Charvi was less convinced at `17,000. But since we had planned
though. Closer to our destination, she for a longer trip, we got cheaper tickets
pointed out a few locals carrying large to Goa, instead.
loads of vegetables, egg crates and Once our flight was booked, we re-
other food supplies. laxed a bit and focused on the last day
Meeting Nishwan’s family knocked of the wedding celebrations, eager to
us out of our worried stupor. Between spend as much time as possible with
the wedding regalia, family festivities Nishwan and his family before we left
and upbeat music, we soon shrugged the following day. We even set out to
off the stress and were swept up in the see a bit of the city. Our taxi driver ad-
celebrations. Yet, I could not shake vised us on areas to avoid, but, while
off the worry within that had gripped we felt safe with him, it was unnerving
me earlier. I tried to stay cheerful, to see the empty roads and dozens of
not wanting my paranoia to ruin the trucks filled with CRPF soldiers pass-
mood, but it was hard. Snatches of ing by. We also heard about the Parlia-
overheard conversations among the ment session scheduled in Delhi on
guests snapped me back to the turmoil 5 August, the morning of our flight.
building outside the happy bubble Over the next few hours, things only
we were in—“ … something major is grew more dire. Around 9:30 p.m., inter-
about to happen …”, “ … revokement net services stopped one by one; then
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Kindness of Strangers
I
hired the night before was nowhere to t was only once we reached the airport
be found. We had no way to reach out that it fully dawned on us—no way
to him. With fuel stations dry, Nishwan would we have made it past the four
couldn’t drop us to the airport either. security blockades, multiple ID checks,
We simply had to catch this flight. Three a litany of enquiries and full-body scans
of us set out in different directions to of our car, and caught our flight, had
find a ride, but to no avail. Time was this gentleman turned us away. Over the
running out so we approached Ali, next few days, as reports of the city-wide
the young security guard at the Airbnb lockdown and turmoil began to emerge,
where we stayed. He was fast asleep we felt nothing but gratitude for the be-
but groggily responded to our knocking nevolence of the two ordinary citizens
and offered to head out to search for who had every reason to refuse assis-
a car. As we watched Ali get on his bi- tance to complete strangers, but chose
cycle and slowly pedal his way through to jump in and help instead.
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Windswept
Beauty By Nellie Hermann
from THE NEW YORK TIMES
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TRAVEL
J
ust a few days into my trip Before I arrived in Shetland, as the
to the Shetland Islands, the islands are called, the only thing I really
Scottish subarctic archipelago knew about the place was that it is the
across the sea from Norway, birthplace of Fair Isle knitting, a tech-
I found myself on the top of nique of colourwork recognizable in
a cliff face, peering through traditional sweaters. What I found was
the fog at a huge rock in the North a place with a complex history beyond
Atlantic Ocean. The rock was topped that of the knitting industry, difficult to
with the Muckle Flugga lighthouse, get to, but well worth the journey.
built in 1854, a mind-boggling feat as
T
the rock’s cliff face juts straight up out here are about 100 islands
of the roiling sea. in Shetland, though only 15 are
At this most northerly inhabited inhabited. To get to mainland
point in the UK, I felt a profound sense Shetland, one either takes an overnight
that I was very far from home. ferry or a small plane from one of Scot-
I had disembarked to this spot from a land’s main cities to Lerwick, the hub of
bus at the top of the tiny island of Unst, the festival and the islands’ only town,
the most northern and rocky of the with a population of about 7,500. I took
Shetland Islands, with a population of the ferry, a memorable roller-coaster
about 500. On the bus with me was a experience on the heaving sea that I’m
group of mostly women from all over not sure I want to experience again.
the world, all of us attendees of Shet- Mystery writer Ann Cleeves has
land Wool Week, hailed through the set a series of murder mysteries on
world’s knitting grapevine as the mecca Shetland, which were made into an
of all knitting and textile festivals. excellent BBC series, Shetland. One
To get to this spot, the bus had can easily see why: Driving around
driven us up the length of the ‘main- the tiny islands is an experience in
land’, the largest of the populated
islands, crossed on a ferry to the
smaller island of Yell, then driven up
YOU SNAKE DOWN
ONE-WAY ROADS
photo. previous spread: ©istock
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The cliffs of Hermaness are home
to colonies of nesting seabirds.
moodiness—you snake down one-way didn’t hear the loud howl of wind all
roads through pockets of houses and night long. At one point, someone
grazing sheep, the seething ocean on asked a local farmer whether the wind
one side or the other of you. kept up all year long. “Wind?” he said
Often when you curve around a incredulously. “This is nothing! It’s
bend in the road, the view before you been calm ever since you came!”
is breathtaking. If you are driving a car,
T
you have to be careful not to drive off he wind is a large part of life on
the road. Cliffs drop precipitously just the islands: As winter approaches,
feet from the pavement; inlets have everything that might blow away
choppy waves (and, in summer, killer is removed from yards—wheelbarrows,
whales that pick off sleepy seals), enor- lawnmowers, wooden benches. When
mous rocks jut up from the ocean just the lighthouse keeper still lived at the
off the coast, and everywhere, roofs and Eshaness lighthouse on the north-west
boats and houses are painted cheerful of the main island, our guide told us,
colours that burst against the overcast he chained his car to the cliff to make
photo: ©shutterstock
sky. I had watched the BBC series, but sure it didn’t blow away.
even such a well-crafted show is no In the winter, there is less than six
substitute for being there. One cannot hours of daylight and in the summer,
experience the Shetland wind through less than six hours of darkness; the
one’s television. I was there for a week, wind, I was told, is constant no matter
and there was only one night that I the time of year, though at certain times
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(Left) Lerwick, the islands’ only town, has about
7,500 residents. (Right) A 16th-century castle in
Scalloway, once Shetland’s capital
V
isitors are drawn to the Shet- and more than 75 per cent of Scotland’s
lands by archaeology (there are mussels are produced there. But since
ancient sites scattered all over the medieval period, the textile indus-
the islands), by geology (the islands sit try has been an important element of
atop a network of tectonic plates and Shetland’s economy.
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Local sheep on the islands produce KNITTERS IN
long soft fibres that make Shetland
wool unique. The islands’ women
SHETLAND ARE
spun the wool and knitted garments CELEBRATED FOR
that were then sold abroad. Today, knit- THEIR VISION
ters in Shetland are celebrated for their AND SKILL.
vision and skill; frequent signs on the
road advertise local designers whose
homes double as shops.
T
he main action at the time of
my visit was Wool Week. The
resurgence of interest in knitting A day tour of the main island in-
around the world has made knitting cluded a stop at Ollaberry Hall on the
festivals increasingly popular; tickets western shore, where a table more
for classes at festivals in Edinburgh than eight feet long boasted plate after
[in Scotland] or Iceland, for example, plate of handmade cakes and cookies
photos: ©shutterstock x2
sell out within hours. In Shetland, (‘homebakes’) and local women served
Wool Week is vast and diverse. us tea. This spread accompanied an
The nine-day programme features exhibit of lace shawls knitted with
myriad classes and exhibitions, tours, cobweb-thin yarn, so thin the whole
gatherings, teas and lectures on nearly shawl could pass through a wedding
all the islands; on one day, I counted ring. It feels as if every local person
54 different offerings. who has anything to do with textiles or
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Knitters unwind in
the education centre
in Sumburgh Head
Lighthouse.
wool is featured in some way. This in- street addresses, so one has to know
cludes Oliver Henry, the wool-sorter at the landmarks one is looking for or
Jamieson & Smith, one of the two lar- pray that your smartphone map app
gest purveyors of Shetland wool, who recognizes what you are searching for.
gives a talk about the job of sorting and Ronnie decried the phasing out
grading wool, and Wilma Malcolmson, of native sheep on Shetland. Of
who makes the knitwear worn by the about 1,50,000 sheep on the islands
detective on Shetland. She teaches a (compared to 22,000 people), fewer
class on knitting with multiple colours. than 30,000 are native, though they are
Even Hazel Tindall, the world’s fastest adapted to thrive on the islands.
knitter—262 stitches every three min- Most native sheep are black, brown
photo: andy haslam for the new york times
utes, I was told—teaches a few classes. or grey, and for many years, only white
wool has been worth any money
A
highlight of my week was a because it can be more easily dyed.
visit to Uradale Farm, one of six Asked whether he saw any change,
organic farms on the islands, Ronnie spoke about Wool Week
where Ronnie Eunson gave us a tour creating interest in native wool. “You’re
of his property. It sits high on a hill standing here, that’s the change,”
overlooking many rolling acres and he said. Before Wool Week started
the sea. The view was staggering and 10 years ago, he said, the situation
the sheep unimpressed. Getting there seemed quite desperate.
was a bit of a challenge—as with most In 2018, nearly 700 people—an
everywhere on the islands, there are no increase of 100 over the previous
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TRAVEL TIPS
getting there: Regular flights to
the Shetland Islands are available
from India. Routes involve stops at
Edinburgh, Aberdeen or London and
then switching over to a regional
airline (see loganair.co.uk) to
Sumburgh Airport. An overnight
ferry runs from Aberdeen to Lerwick
daily (see northlinkferries.co.uk).
lodging: Virdafjell B&B,
Gulberwick, double rooms from
£40 (`3,471) per person,
+44 1595 694336;
Kveldsro House Hotel in central local produce and seafood,
Lerwick, double rooms from £118 fjaracoffee.com;
(`10,239), shetlandhotels.com;
Frankie’s Fish & Chips, Brae,
Baltasound Hotel, Unst, bills itself offers a wide variety of fish,
as the northernmost hotel in the scallops and mussels, as well
UK; rooms from £125 (`10,847), as tours of the Shetland fishing
baltasoundhotel.co.uk. industry, frankiesfishandchips.com.
dining: Fjarå Café Bar, Lerwick, more information: shetland.org
offers sweeping views of Lerwick
Bay and a menu that highlights —Peter Dockrill
year—made the trip to the festival, pri- doesn’t want to get too positive.
marily from Europe, the United States The Shetland knitting industry still
and Canada, but also from farther-flung faces high demand for inexpensive,
places such as Australia, Japan, Egypt, mass-produced white wool, and a
Indonesia and Israel. small market for handmade goods.
Where is all of this attention coming But standing on the shores of
from? The BBC series has helped, as Shetland, a knitter can’t help but feel
map: wikipedia
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BONUS READ
By Marc McEvoy
photo: national library of australia
A
khaki felt army cap has sat on a bookshelf in my home
in Sydney for nine years. Two metal press-studs secure the
brim, and the five-pointed, red communist star graces the front.
The crown has the faint odour of human sweat. It is a partizanka,
a cap worn by Yugoslav Partisan soldiers in Croatia and
western Bosnia during World War II. The partizanka is
something of a collector’s piece, as few like it remain. For me, it represents
a promise I need to fulfil.
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A Great Adventure
Six weeks after Ern turned 20, on POW camp in Austria. After two years,
28 March 1940, he enlisted in the along with fellow Australian Sergeant
Second Australian Imperial Force. Arnold ‘Allan’ Berry, and New Zea-
This apprentice butcher from lander Private Eric Baty, he escaped
Drouin, in rural Victoria, had very from an Arbeitskommando (prison
little life experience behind him, but farm camp) near Graz and spent two
the Army deployed him to Libya to months on a desperate flight through
protect the besieged port of Tobruk. first Austria, and then Slovenia, Croa-
He arrived in May 1941. “It was a tia and Bosnia.
case of keeping ’em out. Don’t let Ern shared these wartime
’em in, that’s it. Fight for your life,” experiences in 2009 in his memoir
he said later. Dangerous Days: A Digger’s Great
Escape, which he co-wrote with
*Boris Puks is called Puks Boris in Ernest author Kim Kelly. I first met Ern at
Brough’s book, Dangerous Days. the Sydney office of HarperCollins,
former Yugoslavia for the United None of that compares to Ern’s war
Nations as a press and information experiences, whose courage earned
officer and had travelled throughout him the Military Medal. But I could
Croatia and Bosnia, and knew understand why returned soldiers
the areas the three escapees had suffer from post-traumatic stress
journeyed through, a route that disorder (PTSD).
included the Croatian towns of War occupied only a few years of
Varaždin, Ivanec and Kalnik, the Ern’s young life but his scars have
capital Zagreb and Banja Luka in the never truly faded—it was hard not
Serb region of Bosnia. to notice his shaking left hand, the
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nerves damaged by shell shock. Yet 24, Ern, together with Allan and
he often insists he was not afraid in Eric, escaped the prison farm camp.
battle. “I wasn’t very frightened of Armed with only a tiny compass and
anything,” he tells me. “I think it’s a stolen map, the three men had
because I had a flash of blood from planned to flee through Slovenia to
my mother that I did not fear for the Adriatic coast and from there
anything.” Ern reckons he inherited hitch a boat ride to Italy.
the fighting resilience of his mother’s But after days on the run in south-
cousin, Captain Albert Jacka, a World eastern Austria, hiding in lofts and
War I Gallipoli veteran who earned a ditches, the men were starving and
Victoria Cross. suffering from hypothermia. Lying
down back-to-belly, they tried to
A Compass and a Map stay warm during the nights, but
The chill of winter still hung in the always woke feeling so cold it was
air when, in April 1944, now aged difficult to speak. Late one inky black
night, ignoring their aching
bodies, they were forced to
AUSTRIA cross the freezing Drava River—
Graz
H U N G A RY which bordered Slovenia—now
Varaždin swollen from melting snow. Ern
S LO V E N I A and Allan couldn’t swim, so it
Zagreb
was the New Zealander, Eric,
C R O AT I A who took charge of the dan-
Venice
gerous river crossing.
They stripped naked and tied
Banja
Luka their clothes with bootlaces to
a makeshift raft. Trouble struck
an hour into crossing what they
BOSNIA
thought was a 15-metre span of
the river, when they discovered
they were in a section that had
been widened by a weir [dam].
I TA LY Allan developed a cramp while
Ern, trying desperately to stay
afloat by doggy-paddling, was
Bari showing worrying signs of shock.
Eric swam ahead to check how far
they had to go before returning
to help his struggling mates. “We
nearly came undone that night,” Ern were part of the Yugoslav communist
says. As if the cold wasn’t enough, the resistance led by Josip Broz, known as
raft began to come apart and they lost ‘Tito’. Made up of Bosnians, Croatians,
most of their meagre supplies. Serbians and Slovenes, the resistance
Dragging the disintegrating raft included women and fought both
behind him, Eric saved the two the Nazis and the Ustashi, the ultra-
from perishing in the freezing water nationalists who ran Croatia. The
photo courtesy of ernest brough
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20 prisoners, one of whom was a Par- of Banja Luka in Bosnia, from where
tisan’s brother. He was furious with they were eventually evacuated on an
his brother for siding with the enemy, American DC-3 to Bari in Italy. When
so he jumped on his feet, breaking they arrived in Bari they were all skin
bones. Appalled, Eric went to inter- and bones.
vene but Ern stopped him, clamping
a hand over his friend’s mouth and A Story Revealed
urging him to keep out of it. Ern offered me Puks’s cap during our
Ern and his mates befriended Boris first interview in 2009. I had seen a
Puks, a 21-year-old Partisan and for- photograph of it in his book and was
mer University of Zagreb student. In taken by its historical significance.
Boris, Ern found someone who liked I knew that he treasured the parti-
to talk about the war and who liked zanka cap and had proudly showed it
to postulate about what the future to mates at his local RSL club.
might bring. “He was a nice guy,” Ern Ern appreciated my knowledge of
writes in his book. “One day, he gave the place where he spent the final
me his Partisan cap as a gift.” months of World War II. “I reckon
After 62 days on the run, the you can use it more than me, now,”
escapees reached the Serbian town he said. I was reluctant to accept Ern’s
cherished cap, but he sent it to me
soon afterwards.
Ern was given this partizanka as a Now, nine years later, I hoped to
symbol of friendship by a young return the cap to Ern and see about
Partisan, Boris Puks, in Croatia in 1944.
giving it to the Australian War Memo-
rial. I call the phone number in Gee-
long that I’d dialled years earlier. After
a few rings, a man answers. It’s Ern,
who confirms he is very much alive.
We arrange for me to interview him
two days later. Not long after, Lizzie
Campbell, Ern’s carer, calls me to
check who I am. Ern has no problem
remembering the cap, but he can’t re-
member giving it to me. These days,
Lizzie explains, such memories can
photos: istock
elude him.
When I call him back as planned,
Ern has had time to flick through his
book. Details of his time in Tobruk
and Croatia are clearer. “How the hell something and you shove it aside.”
did we ever get through it?” he asks More questions about the cap
me in a wavering voice. eventually jog his memory. “I used
While in Tobruk, fear wasn’t part of to put a big white turkey feather in
Ern’s thinking. “A lot of them used to it,” he says with a laugh.
sweat it out,” he recalls. “They had a After the war, Ern returned to
terrible time. I didn’t care. I was walk- country Victoria and resumed work
ing around as if I owned the place.” as a butcher. They were difficult
photos: australian war memorial
When I press him for more infor- times. Shell-shocked and damaged,
mation about the cap and Boris Puks, adjusting to peacetime wasn’t easy.
his memory is sketchy. Ern remem- He felt “wild on the inside” and, at
bers that the cap belonged to Puks, times, resorted to fighting and drin-
that he was a Croatian Partisan and king. “Allan, Eric and I had lived like
that Puks gave him the cap as a ges- dogs,” he writes in Dangerous Days.
ture of thanks. That’s where it stops. “Every day had been a dangerous
“No, I don’t remember,” he tells day, every shadow a possible preda-
me. “When you’re young, you learn tor. We survived on instinct, so it was
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always going to be difficult to slip still has that sparkle in his eyes
back into a civilized world.” and an easy laugh.
Getting the images of war out of In the Commemorative Courtyard
his head was hard and Ern believes before the Pool of Reflection,
he suffered from PTSD . He tells surrounded by the Roll of Honour
me about a time on a train to Mel- commemorating the more than
bourne when he attacked a man who 1,02,000 Australians who have died
had tried to scrounge the last of his in war, Sergeant Ernest James Brough
tobacco. It took four other men to re- of the 2nd/32nd Infantry Battalion
strain him. He was also plagued by presented the cap to Brendan Nelson,
nightmares and one time woke to find the director of the Australian War
himself trying to throttle his beloved Memorial. “People will look at the
wife, Edna May. cap and realize that a Partisan risked
Puks wrote to Ern several times and his own life and safety to help this
was interested in emigrating to Aus- Australian escape,” Nelson says. “And
tralia, but Puks was a communist, so at the end he gave his cap to Ern. It
the authorities kept an eye on the let-
ters Ern received, placing him under “PEOPLE WILL LOOK AT
surveillance for six years. Anti-com-
munist sentiment was strong at the THE CAP AND REALIZE
time. When Ern discovered his move- THAT A PARTISAN
ments were being monitored, he was RISKED HIS LIFE AND
outraged but realized it was safer to SAFETY TO HELP THIS
end their correspondence.
AUSTRALIAN ESCAPE.”
A Promise Fulfilled
Ever aware of my promise, I call
the Australian War Memorial in
Canberra to ask about donating
the cap to its collection. They are
keenly interested in Ern’s story—and will make people ask, ‘Why did he do
the rare artefact—so they decide to that?’ Thanks to this simple gesture,
fly Ern and Lizzie to Canberra and the memorial now has an important
appropriately recognize his donation. artefact that tells Ern’s inspirational
On 6 February this year [2018], on story of survival and mateship.”
a hot, dry Canberra morning, I ar- Across the courtyard, a group
rived at the Australian War Memorial of 18 soldiers are practising a
ready to hand over the cap to Ern. drill. Nelson calls them over and
Frailer than when we last met, he introduces them to Ern, the former
POW and Rat of Tobruk. Each one It took Ern more than 60 years to
eagerly approaches the old man bring himself to write about his war
to shake his hand. It is a moving experiences. He comes from a genera-
moment. Young soldiers paying tion who were taught to be stoic but
respect to a frail, decorated war hero reticent in the face of misfortune.
from their own defence history. Writer Kim Kelly worked closely
Ern visited Eric Baty in New Zea- with Ern, talking with him every day
photos: australian war memorial
land 46 years after their escape. They for a month to research his memoir.
talked about the time the Partisan at- She found that he did not want to
tacked his brother and how Ern had talk about what happened when he
stopped Eric from getting involved. returned to Australia. “The idea of
“Eric thanked me for saving his life PTSD was not talked about in his day,”
that time,” Ern told me in 2009. “They she explains. “They used alcohol in-
would have shot him for sure. But I stead. Today, he is clear-sighted about
said, ‘No, Eric, it’s me who must thank it and believes returned soldiers
you for saving my life in the river.’” need a story debrief about their war
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Ern standing in the commemorative area at the Australian War
Memorial in Canberra
experiences, such as writing it down 81. Ern was so grateful for the treat-
or speaking into a microphone.” ment she received at Melbourne’s St
It helped Ern to be able to tell his Vincent’s Hospital that he sold his
war story. “He believed going to war land and donated $3,00,000 towards
was important and why Australia buying an echocardiograph machine.
went to war was important, but Ern “I keep saying to him that he
is still anti-war,” says Kim. “He thinks has to get to 100,” says Lizzie. He is
war makes no sense.” Ern remains now the last surviving Rat of Tobruk
photo: australian war memorial
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CULTURESCAPE
Books, Arts and Entertainment
Drawing on
the Personal
Unlike her previous films,
The Sky Is Pink is not linked
to director Shonali Bose’s
own life
by Anna M. M. Vetticad
‘‘
You went to the US for a PhD.
How did filmmaking happen?
When my mother died tragically dur-
ing my final year of history honours at
Miranda House, Delhi, I just needed to
leave India. I wanted to teach history,
but I had the option to pursue politi-
cal science at Columbia University, so I
went there instead. However, I quit af-
ter my Master’s there, not making use
of the PhD scholarship I had earned,
because I was sickened by their almost
colonial approach to India, which was
my area of interest. While exploring ca-
reer options, I applied for film school
and got into the University of Califor- Does the mother-daughter relation-
nia, Los Angeles. When I made my ship recur in your films because you
first student film, I felt in my bones were close to your mother?
that this was my calling. She was the centre of my life and
the wound from her loss was mas-
Margarita With A Straw’s protagonist sive. When I made my first film Amu,
has cerebral palsy and is bisexual. I had not fully recovered from it. I
What is your personal connection subconsciously did it as a mother-
with her? daughter film because of my close-
My cousin Malini Chib was born with ness with her and later with my sons.
cerebral palsy. We grew up like sisters I wrote Margarita soon after my son
and did everything together. So from Ishan passed away. Although in the
childhood, I didn’t think there was any- movie, it is the mother who dies,
thing a person with a disability couldn’t I also process the loss of my son
do. Years later, when I asked her what through the film. By the time I made
she wanted for her 40th birthday, she The Sky Is Pink, I had processed all my
said, “I just wanna have sex.” That’s wounds. This time I was intellectually
when it hit me. I hadn’t thought about and creatively interested in death. For
my sister’s sexuality or that physical the first time, it was not directly linked
need. But when I started writing Mar- to my own life.
garita, I looked within. I am bisexual,
so I borrowed heavily from myself for Can one ever recover from a beloved
the story. parent’s death?
Ten thousand per cent. In fact, a child’s
How did you hear of Aisha Chaud- death is much bigger because it’s un-
hary, the child in The Sky Is Pink? natural for a parent to see their child
Aisha Chaudhary had seen the trailer go. But no matter how deep the pain,
of Margarita 30 times and told her if you process your feelings, you will
parents she hoped to live to see the transcend them.
film. She died two weeks later. When
Margarita released in theatres, her You were open about being bisexual
parents, Aditi and Niren Chaudhary even when same-sex relations were
watched the film and learnt from the criminalized in India. How come?
‘dedication’ that I too had lost a child. I’ve never been afraid to speak out on
Perhaps they felt safer approaching a anything. The fact that it was
filmmaker who understood loss, so criminalized made me talk about it
’’
Aditi contacted me and asked if I’d even more. Even if I were straight, I
make a film on Aisha. I chose to make would say I’m gay just to stand
a film on the parents instead. in solidarity.
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Books
2019: How Modi Won India by Rajdeep Sardesai,
HarperCollins India
Veteran journalist
Rajdeep Sardesai
looks back at the Scope Out
2019 general elections Ghalib: A Thousand
that resulted in the Desires (Penguin):
BJP-led NDA returning Writer Raza Mir por-
to power. Reliving trays Mirza Ghalib as
the twists and turns an outspoken genius
in India’s political and game-changer
in this book.
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landscape between
BJP’s first victory in
2014 and its sweeping Accidental Magic
triumph in 2019, (HarperCollins India):
Sardesai attempts landmark 2019 verdict Keshava Guha’s debut
to analyze and make is likely to determine novel tells the story of
sense of the ever- the destiny of ‘new four people, whose
changing contours India’. The book lives are brought
and characteristics offers some detailed together by the magic
of an ever-changing and brilliant insights of Harry Potter.
India, its politics and into the constantly-
newsmakers. There’s unfolding story of A Life in the World
no denying that the our democracy. (HarperCollins India):
This book features a
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abated despite reformed laws. Socie- academic Chandan
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Any job is a
I used to be able to
pull all-nighters but
Sleep dream job if you
fall asleep in
now I can barely
pull all-dayers. Depraved meetings.
— @somaddysmith
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ME & MY SHELF
Beware of Pity The Count of Monte Cristo photo courtesy: samhita chakraborty
BY STEFAN ZWEIG, BY ALEXANDRE DUMAS, Rupa Publi-
Pushkin Press, `588 cations, `295
This book is a This is a masterpiece. It’s too long by
marvellous combi- modern standards, of course. If Dumas
nation of writing and was around today, he’d write books of
storytelling. Zweig 400 pages. With no television, no other
was one of the most distraction, he wrote books of 1,500
successful authors in pages. And the staggering thing is that
the world in 1938, and then went out he wrote The Count of Monte Cristo and
of print, and has now come back to The Three Musketeers in the same year!
be a bestseller again. You couldn’t do that today!
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THE
GENIUS
SECTION
8 Pages to sharpen
Your Mind
JUST PRETEND!
Thinking you aren’t gifted may be what’s
blocking your inner artist
I
want to ask you a favour. on one’s behaviour. The authors,
I have a pair of pants. Tell me: educational psychologists Denis Du-
How many different ways can I mas and Kevin Dunbar, divided their
put a pair of pants to use? college-student subjects into three
Now imagine you’re an groups, instructing the members of
architect. Same question. one to think of themselves as ‘eccen-
Now imagine you’re Cher. Bill tric poets’ and the members of another
Gates. A scuba diver. A medieval to imagine they were ‘rigid librarians’
knight. You still have the pants. What (the third group was the control). The
alternative uses come to mind? researchers then presented all the
What you just practised—the participants with 10 ordinary objects,
conscious act of ‘wearing’ another including a fork, a carrot and a pair
self—is an exercise that, according to of pants, and asked them to come up
psychiatrist Srini Pillay, MD, is essen- with as many different uses as possible
tial to being creative. for each one. Those who were asked
One great irony about our collec-
tive obsession with creativity is that
we tend to frame it in uncreative IGNORE ADVICE TO
ways. That is to say, most of us marry BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.
creativity to our concept of self :
Either we’re ‘creative’ or we aren’t,
INSTEAD, BELIEVE YOU
without much of a middle ground. ARE SOMEONE ELSE.
“I’m just not a creative person!” a
frustrated student might say in art
class, while another might blame her to imagine themselves as eccentric
talent at painting for her difficulties poets came up with the widest range
in math, deflecting with a comment of ideas, whereas those in the rigid-
such as, “I’m very right-brained.” librarian group had the fewest. Mean-
Dr Pillay, a tech entrepreneur and while, the researchers found only small
an assistant professor at Harvard Uni- differences in students’ creativity levels
versity, has spent a good chunk of his across academic majors. In fact, the
career subverting these ideas. He be- physics majors inhabiting the personas
lieves that the key to unlocking your of eccentric poets came up with more
creative potential is to defy the clichéd ideas than the art majors did.
advice that urges you to ‘believe in These results, write Dumas and
yourself’. In fact, you should do the op- Dunbar, suggest that creativity is not
posite: Believe you are someone else. an individual trait but a “malleable
Dr Pillay points to a 2016 study de- product of context and perspective.”
monstrating the impact of stereotypes Everyone can be creative, as long as
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by Alex Verman
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BRAINTEASERS
1 1 2 1 2 2 2 1
Treasures 1
Moderately difficult Can you locate 1
12 hidden treasures in the empty
cells of this grid? The numbers outside 2
indicate how many treasures there 1
are in each row or column. Each arrow
points directly toward one or more of 1
the treasures—and does not share a cell
2
with one. An arrow may be immediately
next to a treasure it points to, or it may 2
be farther away. Not every treasure will
2
necessarily have an arrow pointing to it.
Enigma
75
Times Square
16 Difficult Fill in each cell with a digit from 1 through
9. Each number outside the grid is the product
90 of the digits in its row or column. Important: The
number 1 will appear exactly once in each row and
81 column. Other numbers can be repeated, and not
every digit from 1 through 9 will be used. Can you
108 100 27 30 complete the grid?
Capital Idea
Moderately difficult Below is a list of national
capitals as their names are rendered in official
languages of their respective countries (without
accents). There’s a way to enter six of them into
the grid, one per row or column, so that they
intersect like a crossword. They must be entered
left to right or top to bottom, without skipping
squares. Each capital city must intersect with three
others. Not every square needs to have a letter in
it. Can you fill in the six cities? One letter has been
placed to get you started.
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BRAINTEASERS
ANSWERS SUDOKU
M B O
nine numbers (1-9) without 6 5 4 7 8 3 2 1 9
J A K A R T A repeating any of them; 3 8 2 1 5 9 4 7 6
L M T 1 7 9 4 6 2 8 3 5
T A R AWA
)each of the outlined 3 x 3
8 9 3 2 7 1 6 5 4
B K W
B O G O T A 5 2 7 6 4 8 1 9 3
boxes has all nine numbers, 4 6 1 3 9 5 7 8 2
none repeated.
c soldiers’ rations.
WORD POWER 10. ballistic adj.
(buh-'lih-stik)
a underwater.
These words are military-inspired, but can be used b of projectiles.
in civilian life too. March to page 130 for answers. c explosive.
11. cadet n.
By Emily Cox and Henry Rathvon (kuh-'det)
a code breaker.
1. confederate n. a retired pilot. b officer in training.
(kuhn-'feh-duh-ruht) b warship. c female colonel.
a ally. c armoured car. 12. fusillade n.
b rebel. 6. garrison n. ('few-suh-lahd)
c drill sergeant. ('gar-ih-suhn) a outburst of shots.
2. armistice n. a military post. b plane’s engine.
('ar-mih-stihss) b surrender. c minor conflict.
a call to arms. c medal of honour. 13. bulwark n.
b land battle. 7. amphibious adj. ('bull-werk)
c truce. (am-'fih-bee-uhss) a battering ram.
3. flotilla n. a peace-seeking. b cyberattack.
(floh-'tih-luh) b international. c defensive wall.
a naval unit. c fit for sea or land. 14. rapprochement n.
b raid. 8. clandestine adj. (ra-prohsh-'mon)
c front lines. (klan-'deh-stihn) a violent disagreement.
4. détente n. a secret. b hand-to-hand combat.
(day-'tawnt) b tribal. c cordial relations.
a bomb shelter. c criminal. 15. infantry n.
b easing of tensions. 9. artillery n. ('in-fan-tree)
c surprise attack. (ar-'tih-luh-ree) a foot soldiers.
5. corvette n. a declaration of war. b recruits.
(kor-'vet) b weapons. c type of cannon.
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AS KIDS SEE IT
When our son Taiga was My dad’s friend, who’s always get what you
three, my husband was a dentist, was talking want’.” Once his mother
working a night shift. about his experiences wanted him to pick up
During the day, if we in dental school. He his toys. He asked me,
were at home, Taiga mentioned that he’d “Dad, who says you
knew we needed to be taken philosophy, but my can’t always get what you
quiet because Daddy six-year-old ears heard want?” “Mick Jagger.” “I’ll
was sleeping. We read “flossophy”. tell mom,” he answered.
a lot of books about So I asked him if he’d —RYAN MILLER
animals and nature. also taken brushophy.
After a couple of nights —EMILY ADAMS
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