Vin DiCarlo DiClassified Drills

D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D
DiClassified
Drills
The DiClassified Drills

Underground Training Manual
Vin DiCarlo
Warm Dominance Drills p9
1.Eye Contact
2.Positive Visualisation
3.Acknowledge Flow
4.Aikido Spin
Opening Drills pl6
1.Punchy Questions
2.Question + Compliance
3.Question + Compliance + Mini Cold Read
4.Question + Compliance + Mini Cold Read + Isolate
Intrigue Drills p23
1.Hooks(Missing Information)
2.Cold Reads
3.Hedge your bets
Leader Drills p30
1.Question - Mini Isolate

2.Compliment - Kino
3.Kino - Meet Friends (Isolate)
Thread Management Drills p38
1.Simple Thread Flow

2.The Negotiator
Role Playing Drill p35
1.(a)Daddy Daughter
l.(b)Old Flame
1.(c)Teacher - Student
l.(d) Vacation
Credibility Drills p45
1.Friends Stories (Statement - Related Story)

2.Qualification - Compliment
3.Problem - Reframe
DiCarlo Escalation Drills p50
1.Incidental - Overt Class 1

Follow-Up Drills (Logistics) p61
1.Getting Phone Number

2.Getting Day 2
Logistics Drills p66
1.Changing Venues (Lets Go!)

2.Isolation
Escalation Ramp Drill p93
1.Memorization of Ramp
Advanced Cold Reading p71
1.Pace and Lead

2.Coversational Cold Read
3.Magic Mirror
4.Derren Brown Mentalism
Sexual Tension Drills p73
1.Sensual Language
2.Double Entendres
Compliance Drills p83
1.Dirty Compliance (Re-Frame)

2.Imaginary Compliance
Reality Replacement Drills p96
1.Compliance Levels
2.The Virtual/Imaginary Ladder
D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D
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Contents
1. Welcome to DiClassified Drills .......4

Copyright Notice: 2. The Attraction Hierarchy 7
3. W a r m Dominance Drills 9
All unauthorized duplication, distribu- 4. Starting Conversations with Groups 14
5. Opening Drills 16
tion, manufacturing, selling or modifi- 6. Intrigue Drills 23
cation is a violation of U.S. Copyright 7. Leadership Drills .....30
8. Role Playing Drills 35
and is punishable to the fullest extent of 9. Managing Conversational Threads 38
the law. 10. Credibility Drills 45
11. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder 50
12. Follow-up Drills 61
13. Logistics Drills 66
14. Advanced Cold Reading Drills 71
15. Sexual Tension Drills 78
16. Compliance Drills 83
17. Escalation Ramp 87
18. Ramp Drill 93
19. Reality Replacement Drills 96
20. A Quick Word From Vin 99
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DiClassified DRILLS — DiClassified DRILLS
Welcome to DiClassified Drills! Welcome to DiClassified Drills, Cont.

The purpose of this program is to instill the deep belief within you that Everyone has a threshold of how much social "input" or information
pick-up is easy. they can process at a given time. This places restrictions and blind
spots on their social interactions.
I will do that by removing the mysticism and hocus pocus from pick-up.
The drills will push to your threshold, and then way beyond it.
The belief or feeling that pick-up is hard, difficult or complicated is an You can think of as working out your mental muscles. By doing this
illusion. over and over a variety of different ways, your entire personality will
evolve.
If you prefer to keep things simple in life, this can be the only guide
you'll ever need. Don't worry though, you won't lose your core identity. This process
simply allows your true nature to s h i n e through, uninhibi-
So prepare for an experience. Take good notes. Write down your re- ted. You will lose a lot of your old dysfunctional behaviors that kept
alizations. Participate FULLY. you from reaching your goals in this area of your life.
This is not just designed to help you out a little bit with your social life— 2. Internalization of the DiClassified System and with it, a
this is hardcore pick-up training. deep k n o w i n g n e s s that attraction is a p r o c e s s . Many guys
believe that attraction is either there or it isn't. Many successful
You're not here to hear me lecture for 7 hours a day and then watch me naturals simply believe that with them, it's always there.
talk to girls at night. You're here to rewire your automatic re-
s p o n s e s and change your entire m e n t a l strategy. While it is true, a woman can be attracted or not, it is also true that
attraction is a process that anyone can lead anyone else through.
I can do this because I have built this bootcamp structure on a gradient People have built in responses. Some of your current auto-
of increasing difficulty. That is, every one of the 36+ drills in this pro- matic responses may be limiting you in ways you don't
gram is built on a foundation of everything that has c o m e before. yet even realize.
You will take two major concepts away from this weekend: All women also have these automatic responses. Your job is to learn
and practice a set of cognitive tools that you can use to learn to lead
1. A drastic i m p r o v e m e n t of your social intelligence. Compe- these responses in predictable ways. For once, you will be creating
tence in social intelligence can be defined as the intelligence that attraction on purpose.
lies behind group interactions and behaviors. Any intelligence is not
something you are born with, but rather something that can be de- Please keep this booklet safe, and private. If you are going to share your
veloped. experience, I prefer that you only share this experience with no more
than 3 of your closest friends. That way we can all enjoy the "elite" or
"underground" nature of the bootcamp. Here's to your success, Vin
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The Attraction Hierarchy

The hierarchy consists of five levels of conditions that dic-
tate whether sexual attraction will be present or not.
Each one is dependent on the earlier ones. So in other

words, the lower levels serve as a necessary foundation on
which the higher levels may build.
Drillset Sequence #1 For example, Level 3: Connection, does not function as at-
tractive unless both Level l: Warm Dominance and Level 2:
Intrigue are both present.
You Need to Establish a The Hierarchy is as follows:
Strong Internal Frame Level 1: Warm Dominance
Level 2: Intrigue
Level 3: Connection
Level 4: Credibility
Level 5: Leadership
These levels will be drilled to the point of internalization in

order to construct a personality which is naturally attrac-
tive.
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DiClassified DRILLS —-——- DiClassified DRILLS
W a r m Dominance W a r m Dominance Drills

It means: To Possess a steadfast emotional state that is Drill #1: Face to Face Encounter
completely independent of transitory social interactions.
Purpose: To get comfortable emotionally with another
In other words, your livelihood, your energy and your hap- person who you do not yet know.
piness is completely independent of the girl you are talking
to, or her friends, or other people in the vicinity. Application: Sit across from your partner and hold eye
contact without flinching, looking away, laughing or fidget-
If you have ever acted differently around a girl because you ing.
were attracted to her, you did NOT possess warm domi-
nance. This should be done for about 5 minutes.
If you were upset or thrown off balance because a girl was- Drill #2: Encounter plus Visualization
n't attracted to you, you did NOT possess warm dominance.
Purpose: To be able to see the abilities in other people,
The key is to draw your energy from things in your life which in turn creates those abilities in yourself.
OUTSIDE of meeting women.
Application: Sit across from your partner and while hold-
Meeting women should be a fun activity that you do, not a ing eye contact, visualize that person having success with
need to be fulfilled. women. (Having conversations, getting phone numbers,
women pleasantly involved in the interactions)
Drill back and forth for 2-3 minutes. After the drill you
may debrief and share what you visualized.
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W a r m Dominance Drills, Cont. W a r m Dominance Drills, Cont.

Drill # 3 : Acknowledge-Flow Drill # 4 : Aikido Spin
Purpose: To be able to keep your attention flowing despite Purpose: To be able to interpret any negative remarks or
a person's non-compliance. tests as positive indicators of interest.
Application: Application:
1. Sit across from your partner, holding eye contact. 1. Sit across from your partner, holding eye contact.
2. Partner uses stock "woman tests" to try to reject you. 2. Partner insults and belittles you verbally.
3. You must move on using stock acknowledgements. 3. Each time you receive an insult, you must interpret it as
positive, and react to it with enthusiasm.
Do not react negatively, laugh or otherwise try to make your
partner feel bad. Drill as if it's an actual conversation with a woman.
W o m a n tests: Example:
I don't like that shirt.
Why are you talking to me? Partner: This might not be the club for you, maybe you
I only talk to good looking guys. should try the gay bar down the street.
Buy me a drink.
We're having a private conversation. You: I know aren't gay bars awesome! One time a bunch of
us went, and my female friends absolutely loved the fact
Acknowledgements: that they weren't getting hit on continuously. Anyway have
• Cool. Check this out.... you ever sang karaoke?
• That's great. And...
• Awesome. By the way... This should be done back and forth for 15 minutes.
This drill should be done until you can comfortably move

on quickly and without any negativity.
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Drillset #1 Notes:
Drillset Sequence #2
You Need to be Able to

Start Conversations with
Groups, Take Control
and Manage the Group
Dynamic
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Starting Conversations with Groups The Easiest Way to Open

When approaching a group of people it's important to be The fastest, easiest way to open a group is with short, punchy
aware of a three different factors: questions.
Your Energy. I prefer NOT to use stories as openers. If you rely on a story
for the first 30 seconds, how are you going to make it
Friendly, warm and assertive. Open with a big smile, and through 4 hours of natural interaction?
approach them confidently. Do not hesitate or show any
signs of insecurity. Use Short Questions.
Good Questions:
Your Presence.
1. Hooks. Why are Manhattan girls so friendly? Why are
Speak loud enough so that the whole group can hear you. women so possessive?
Stand up straight and have relaxed body language. Make 2. Humor. Who invited the physics'club? (If there's a
eye contact with everyone in the group. group of nerds nearby)
3. Accusations. Are you wearing socks? (If she has white,
non-distinct shoes on) Are those bracelets (If she's wear-
Your Conversational Content. ing huge hoop earrings)
4. Controversial. Should Paris go to Jail? Do you guys be-
Should be kept light, positive and somewhat relevant. Top- lieve in psychics?
ics that work well are your immediate surroundings, fashion
and cities. Bad Questions:
Note: Opening is easy. Many people lose confidence in 1. Tourist Frame: Do you guys know any good bars?
their material. But it is that very loss of confidence which is What time is it?
harmful to the interaction. Have confidence in your mate- 2. Rapport Seeking: What is your name? Where are you
rial, and anything can work. from?
3. Supplicative: Can I buy you a drink? Are you a model?
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Opening Drills Opening Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Punchy Questions Drill #2: Compliance Escalation
Purpose: To build confidence in opening with short, Purpose: To set a strong precedent of leadership, by using
punchy questions. a quick, and easy compliance request.
Application: Approach the group and spontaneously ask a Application: Approach the group with a punchy question.
question. Immediately follow it up with an easy compliance request.
The request may or may not be related to the initial ques-
Don't worry if you use a "bad" question at first, we will re- tion, it does not matter.
peat the process over and over quickly to build your sponta-
neity. Easy Compliance Requests:
Approach the group, with awareness of your energy, pres- Hold my drink one sec.
ence and conversational content. Launch into your ques- Here, turn around, let me see.
tion. The goal is to deliver your question, and have everyone Let me see your hand.
in the group hear and understand it. Wave to my friend over there.
If anyone in the group objects to your energy or presence, Also, rapport seeking questions can now be effec-
you must try again. The objector should give one point of tive since they will be delivered through the right
feedback, and allow you to try again. frame:
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You must get universal affinity from everyone in the entire What's your name?
group. Drill until you can achieve this consistently. Where are you guys from?
Who's the leader here?
Reminder: The four types of good questions are hooks,
humor, accusations and controversy.
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Opening Drills, Cont. Opening Drills, Cont.

Drill #3: Mini-Cold Reads Drill #4: Leadership
Purpose: To generate fast intrigue by playfully making Purpose: To incorporate active escalation into your inter-
snap judgments on girls within the group. actions. Instead of waiting around hoping something hap-
pens, you make it happen.
Application: Approach the group with a punchy question.
Immediately follow it up with an easy compliance request. Application: Leading with the sequence created from the
previous 3 drills, this time, use the leadership momentum
After getting a positive response to either your punchy you create to mini-isolate yourself with an individual of
question or compliance request, use a mini-cold-read on your choice within the group.
anyone in the group.
Example:
It does not have to be related to either of the previous two
bits, and can in fact be directed toward anyone in the group. You: Who invited the physics club? (Laughter)
Examples: You: Come over here. (Girl comes over)
You're trouble You: It was you, wasn't it? I can tell. You're a recovering
Girls like you get away with murder nerd... Aren't you... (Girl: Why do you think that?)
You're a recovering nerd, aren't you
This girl has good taste in fashion, I'm giving her a job You: It's ok I won't tell anyone. I was a nerd once too, here,
I can tell that you're intuitive let's share some equations. (Mini—Isolation) (Be sure not to
You're a shy girl—but when you're with the right people, say this too seriously, she should know you are kidding,
watch out but it will definitely disarm the rest of her group)
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Drillset #2 Notes:
You Need to Hook FAST

and Get Her Chasing You
Immediately
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Intrigue Intrigue Drills, Cont.

It means: To withhold your power on some level, whether it Drill #1: Hooks
means holding back information, compliance or direct indi-
cations of your interest. Purpose: To learn standard hooks that can be used to get a
woman curious about you, and trying to find out more in-
Intrigue can also be described as a negative compliance ra- formation. These are good early on in the interaction.
tio. This means that the girl is working harder in the inter-
action than you are. Application: Begin by starting out with a standard hook
from the list below. Your partner will then pick up on the
For example—early in an approach— you need to demon- implied question, and try to get a logical answer to it. You
strate that you know more about her than she knows about respond immediately with a line from below, or one you
you. made up. The line must not give away the logical answer to
the question.
She should be physically turned more toward you than you
toward her.
Standard Hooks: (Unanswered question in italics)
Later on, she should be talking more than you are, and you
should be more relaxed than her. • Why are X girls so friendly? (X=locality)
On a date, she should travel further than you do to meet • Where are you from?
her.
• You're not going to believe this... but...Mars.
Maintaining this balance is the key to creating a
vacuum that continues to pull her toward you. • Is it true what they say about X girls?
• What do they say?

• Come here... Closer... Closer... that you're extremely gul-
lible.
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Intrigue Drills, Cont.

• Do you always act like this when you go out?
Drill #2: Cold Reads
• Act like what?
• Ask so many questions... Purpose: To amplify intrigue by demonstrating that you
have some secret knowledge about them. This in turn
• Do you know who you remind me of? Never makes them even more curious about you.
mind.
Application: Use the standard cold reads from the list be-
• Who do I remind you of? low. After you can deliver all three without reading off the
• In about 2 minutes my friend will get here... and he'll tell page, (they don't have to be word for word) in an authentic
you the answer. manner, create an original read based on something you be-
lieve may be true about your partner.
Drill until your response is immediate, with no hesitation
and you feel comfortable with leaving unanswered ques- Standard Cold Reads:
tions. • A lot of guys think you're aloof and distant, and they
don't realize that it's just a shield, and they never really
give you a second chance. And one of the things that
makes you most happy is to show your real self to some-
one.
• I get the sense that people around you and the circum-
stances of your life right now expects you to act like a
grown up adult, but deep down, you're still just a little
girl with little girl dreams and little girl wishes.
• Even though you're aware of what your friends think,

you're happiest when you can experience the freedom of
making your own decisions, and doing what you really
want to do.
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Intrigue Drills, Cont. Drillset #3 Notes:

Drill #3: Hedge Your Bets
Purpose: To calibrate your compliments by making them

conditional and thus, retaining your power.
Application: During conversation, give your partner a

compliment, but then hedge it, in other words, make it con-
ditional and much less flattering.
Examples:
• You're a lot of fun. Especially for a blonde.
• I could really see myself hanging out with you—now and

then.
• I'd really like to buy you a drink, in a couple hours.
• Your fashion is amazing, in the lighting in this bar.
• We HAVE to hang out, once I get to know you.
• You come across extremely intelligent, for a girl I met in

a club.
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D I C A R L OD I C L A S S I F I E D D I C A R L O D I C L A S S I F I E D
Leadership
It means: The state of being in control of the social situation
and producing certain outcomes through perceiving and ex-
ploiting windows of opportunity.
Once you have fulfilled the previous four levels of the hier-
Drillset Sequence #4 archy, the game is simply a matter of using leadership to
escalate larger and larger levels of compliance.
It is not just important to spotting windows—it is also im-

You Need to Accurately portant to be able to interpret events as windows. Because
so many people have such a weak grasp of reality, they look
Recognize and Capitalize to others for interpretation.
on Open Windows The more you practice these drills, the more certain you be-
come, and the more often you will create a reality that
of Opportunity works in your favor. More people will follow you.
The other half of the equation is having the proper tools to

escalate in these windows. We will drill a number of these
tools so you become comfortable in various situations.
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Leadership Drills Leadership Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Question -> Mini Isolate Drill #2: Compliment -> Kino
Purpose: If a girl asks you a personal question, she is most Purpose: If a girl gives you a compliment, she is putting
likely interested. The purpose is to train you to react posi- herself on the line. It is a big window she is opening for you.
tively with a simple mini-isolation the first time a girl dis- You should reciprocate it with a simple kino escalation.
plays strong interest by asking a question.
Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner
Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point
have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point your partner gives you a compliment which may be physical
your partner asks you a question that displays a genuine in- or based on information given in the conversation. (Side
terest. You react by stepping to the side and pulling your note: Most girls will give a physical compliment because
partners attention toward you, as you answer the question. that's all they know.)
You do not have to move your partner any distance, you are
simply changing their orientation away from the group and You will react by pulling your partner closer (with your arm
toward you. on the opposite waist) while anchoring your hips together ,
as you either reciprocate the compliment or amplify it by
Drill back and forth for 10 minutes. It is important that asking questions like "Really? Why do you think that?" with
you only mini-isolate when the question is enthusiastic and a positive vibe.
genuine. Do not respond if the partner asks the question in
a bored manner or is looking away, etc. Drill back and forth for 10 minutes or until the move is
natural.
Example:
Example:
Partner: You're a musician? What instrument do you
play? Partner: You have really nice eyes.
You: (Pulling your partner's attention to the side) Well I've You: (Pulling your partner close) Thanks, I think you're
been playing guitar for 10 years. But it wasn't always easy... really attractive too. And you've got such a great energy.
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Leadership Drills, Cont. Drillset #4 Notes:

Drill #3: Kino -> Meet Friends
Purpose: When a woman starts touching you, or recipro-

cating your kino, it's not only a huge indication of interest,
but it can also be dangerous if her friends are around. When
this happens, you must take the lead and relocate her.
Application: Partner picks a topic. You and your partner

have a simple conversation on that topic. At some point
your partner grabs your hand.
At this point you say "You know what? My friends would

love you. Let's go meet them." If she is in a group, turn to
the group and say "Guys, I'm stealing your friend for a mo-
ment, we'll be right back."
Drill back and forth for 10 minutes.
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Role-playing Drill
Drill #1: Role-playing
Purpose: To create a fantasy scenario by using playful dia-

logue. The fantasy allows her to disengage her logical mind
and bypass socially programmed objections.
Application: Partner picks a role-playing theme from the

Drillset Sequence #5 list below, and you playfully talk to your partner as if you
are in that role. Keep the dialogue consistent with the role.
Drill back and forth until you feel comfortable with each of
You Need to Step Outside the 4 themes.
the Context of a Pick-up Daddy-Daughter:
There's a lot of strangers around here, so stay close and hold my hand.
by Creating Alternate If you're a good girl later, I'm going to take you for some ice cream.
Scenarios with Role- Old L o v e r s R e u n i t e d :

This is wonderful. This bar reminds me of our first date. Ah, Paris was
wonderful, so many cute little cafes and shops. We almost went broke
Playing and other Playful with all the shopping you did!
Devices Teacher-Student:
Now pay attention. I'm going to teach you something very important.
You only got a A- on your last test, but if you work a little harder this
semester, I think you might get an A.
Vacation:
I'm so glad we decided to come to X-City this year honey. So many
things to see, and we can leave all of our cares behind. No work, kids or
dishes to do!
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Drillset #5 Notes:
To Succeed with Women,,

you Must be an Excellent
Conversationalist
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Managing Conversational Threads Threads, Cont.
Have you ever been in a conversation with a person—and Let's list the topics:
were overwhelmed with topics that you wanted to talk about.
It was almost if every new topic reminded you of three other • Last year • Rooftop
things that you wanted to communicate with this person. • Girl • New York City
• Hotel • First date
That's the vibe you're going for in pick-up. Not only does it
allow her to go into "fate" mode, but it also serves as a con- Now, in order to keep the next thread relevant, it should in-
venient distraction to your escalations. clude one of those 6 topics.
This next section is all about managing conversations. You Any of the following threads could follow as a socially intel-
could literally spend a month on this topic alone. ligent response:
What is a Thread? Last Year:
A thread is nothing more than a piece of communication. It Wow, last year must have been crazy for you. Actually it
is a single idea. By calling it a thread it allows us to give it was pretty good for me. I really figured but what I want to
structure, and understand it's function more easily. Take for do with my life...
example...
Girl:
"Last year I took a girl to a hotel rooftop in New Do you take all the girls you date to places like that? Wow.
York City as a first date. She freaked out." If I know most girls, they would either freak out or love you
for that.
This can be broken down like this:
Hotel:
"[Last year] I took a [girl] to a [hotel] [rooftop] in Was it a nice hotel? I hope it was. Cockroaches on the first
[New York City] as a [first date]. She [freaked out]." date aren't going to win you any points.
Where each major topic in the thread is encapsulated in [].
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Thread Management Drills Thread Management Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Simple Thread Follow Drill #2: The Negotiator
Purpose: Get comfortable carrying on a conversation in- Purpose: To be comfortable steering the conversation to
definitely, without routines. achieve any desired outcome you wish.
Application: You and your partner will generate threads Application: You and your partner will generate threads
as in the previous example. Use statements rather than as in the previous drill. However, this time, you will use the
questions, and try to provide multiple topics in your thread list of "good topics" and "bad topics" below.
so that your partner has a few different directions to pro-
ceed. Your partner starts by creating a thread on a neutral topic.
You will try to talk about every topic on the "good" list,
Drill until you feel you can carry on a conversation about while avoiding topics on the "bad" list.
any topic as long as you like.
As the conversation progresses, the partner makes it more
and more challenging by attempting to throw "bad" topics
into the mix.
Drill until you feel comfortable that you can control the
flow and direction of any conversation.
Good Bad
• European Vacation • Teenage Pregnancy
• Childhood Dreams • Sex with Sluts
• Your Best Friend • Breast Cancer
• Current Pop Music • Your Porn Collection
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Drillset #6 Notes:
You Need to Establish

Credibility a n d Become
Real Person to Her
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Credibility Credibility Drills

Credibility is what allows a woman to trust you. Drill #1: 'Club Guy Annihilator'
It has 3 main levels. First, she should feel that you are safe Purpose: To show her that you are a real person, and step
and trustworthy. This is needed for her to feel safe sleeping out of the 'club guy' persona.
with you.
Application: Partner picks a topic, and makes a statement
Secondly, she should feel a bit connected to you. You should on that topic. You should relate that to that topic by sharing
have some amount of commonality, and share the same a story of one of your friends or family members, referring
awareness of life, especially 'social' themes. to them by their first name.
Even demonstrating that you perceive similar obstacles in Drill back and forth for 5 minutes.
life will help you create this. If not, she may feel that you are
too good for her and likely to abandon her. Example:
You need this for her to continue sleeping with you or to Partner: Yeah I'm going to school for marketing.
start a relationship with you. The key to maintaining the
type of relationship you want is to be absolutely congruent You: Really? I love marketing. It's totally not what I went
to the things you talked about to build credibility in the to school for though. It's strange. So many people end up
first place. doing something completely different than what they went
to school for. I have this friend Mike for example. He went
Thirdly you should be able to give her direction. By first un- to school for philosophy but ended up working at his fam-
derstanding her reality, and then showing enough compe- ily's restaurant.
tence to change her reality, you will be able to exert great
influence in her life.
This is the level of credibility that will get her to change her
existing life plans or drop her boyfriend to be with you.
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Credibility Drills, Cont. Credibility Drills, Cont.

Drill #2: Beauty is Only Skin Deep Drill #3: The Limiter
Purpose: To demonstrate that you genuinely like her as a Purpose: To demonstrate that you not only understand
person, and aren't just trying to get in her pants. her self-imposed limitations, but you also offer a way out,
and a new way of thinking about things.
Application: Partner picks a topic, and makes a statement
about that topic. You ask a question to coax your partner to Application: Partner picks a topic, and shows uncertainty
reveal something about himself. Once your partner does, or a lack of confidence on that topic. You show empathy,
you are going to take a genuine interest in whatever he has show her that you understand her problem. Then you show
revealed, and give him a compliment for it. her a new perspective or way of looking at the problem that
makes it less scary.
Drill back and forth for 5 minutes. It is important that you
show a marked increase in your interest level after the Drill back and forth for 10 minutes. It is important that
partner reveals his information. you do not offer advice or a solution to the problem. You
are simply showing her how to see the problem in a less
Example: threatening way.
Partner: I like coming here after work. Example:
P a r t n e r : I am taking psychology class right now., but I'm thinking

You: Oh yeah? What do you do for work? about dropping it. It's really hard.
Partner: I'm a veterinarian. You: Yeah I totally understand. It's such an abstract science, and so
complicated. At the same time though, it's really just describing things
that everyone experiences all the time. And when you start to relate
You: Really? That's great. I bet you're really compassion- things you're learning to your own thought processes or people you
ate. Wow, I'm envious. That's great you get to do something know, the subject becomes a lot more familiar.
in life you're very passionate about.
You: (Incorrect) You should study more. When I was in school I would
study 5 hours every night.
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Drillset #7 Notes:
If You Don't Know How to

Touch W o m e n in a Way
that Turns t h e m On, You
will be Nothing More than
J u s t a Friend
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The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is a step-by step for- Incidental Class l Examples:
mula, followed by a number of laws which govern it's use for
maximum effect. • Hand shaking
• Arm brushing
It is designed to provide a smooth escalation, contain- • Light touching on her arm to emphasize your points
ing no significant jumps that may cause a woman to object. • Anchoring her arm near elbow to hold her close as you
At the same time, the DEL contains no extraneous steps talk
which are non-essential to the seduction process. This re- • Standing next to her with your arm touching hers
sults in a FAST escalation sequence which is compatible with • High Fives
a variety of verbal structures, and has been field tested and
perfected by myself, Vincent DiCarlo, in hundreds of trials. • Palm Reading
1. Eye Contact a n d Initial Conversation 3. Overt Class l
There is an unmistakable recurring pattern through-

Eye contact is the first step, It's use shows social out the DEL: incidential kino, followed by overt kino. Overt
awareness and always improves your chances of starting a means open to view or knowledge; not concealed or secret.
conversation. Start your conversational game shortly after
eye contact.
While incidental kino is usually done in a context
which masks your intention, overt kino is not. The inciden-
2. Incidental Class l
tal kino which precedes it creates the familiarity necessary
for the overt kino to be accepted. The duration of overt kino
The first class of incidental kino involves the arms should be anywhere from 5-10 seconds.
and hands. Shaking hands, tapping people on the shoulder
and brushing arms are all very common things that we do on Overt Class 1 Examples:
a daily basis. Done in an incidental manner, i.e. occurring
merely by chance or without intention or calculation, it is
extremely effective at building initial comfort. • Holding hands
• Arm in arm escorting
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4. Incidental Class 2
DiCarlo Escalation Drills
Class 2 kino involves any contact which takes place
Drill #1: Incidental to Overt Class 1 on her torso or legs. This is slightly more intimate than class
1, but does not include erogenous zones such as her breasts,
Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from crotch or inner thighs. Those areas are not paid any direct
incidental class l kino to overt class 1 kino. attention until the escalation ramp - to be defined later.
Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational Incidental Class 2 Examples:
threads back and forth with your partner. Integrate incidental
class l kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After 3 occur- • Standing very close with your legs touching hers
rences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 1 kino. • Sitting close together with your legs touching hers
• Lightly and incidentally brushing her abdomen with
Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt
kino, your hands while talking
• Briefly touching her back with your palm while
speaking as if you are pulling her in to hear you better
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5. Overt Class 2 DiCarlo Escalation Drills

Overt class 2 kino is usually done while sitting down. Drill #2: Incidental to Overt Class 2
It's not necessary, but definitely a smart place to make the
transition to sitting down. This class of kino should be done Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from
in a protective, almost romantic manner. incidental class 2 kino to overt class 2 kino.
Overt Class 2 Examples: Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational
threads back and forth with your partner. Integrate inciden-
• Frontal Hugging (done best as a positive reaction to tal class 2 kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After 3
her compliance) occurrences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 2 kino.
• Escorting her through the bar with your hand on her
lower back Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt
• Sitting next to her and placing her leg over yours kino.
• Holding her abdomen on the side while sitting down
and talking
• Placing her hand on your thigh
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6. Incidental Class 3 Overt Class 3 Examples:
Her hair, face and neck are the regions included in • Placing her head to rest on your shoulder
class 3. Many guys make the common mistake of touching • Moving your face into her neck and smelling her
these areas too soon, with a girl they first met. • Lightly stroking her face with your finger, close in,
looking into her eyes
Girls are surprisingly protective of their hair, face • Running your fingers through her hair, close in, look-
and neck placing these relatively high on the ladder. An- ing into her eyes
other common mistake is that more experienced guys will • Holding her behind the neck with your palm to the
generally skip this step altogether, only to face last minute side of her neck, looking into her eyes
resistance later on.
Incidental Class 3 Examples:
• Brushing (or pretending to brush) something off of

her face
• Talking very closely with your face touching hers be-
cause the environment is extremely loud
• Touching an interesting necklace she's wearing,
meanwhile allowing your fingers to lightly caress her
neck
• Playfully pinching her cheeks
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DiCarlo Escalation Drills Drillset #8 Notes:
Drill #3: Incidental to Overt Class 3
Purpose: To build the ability to seamlessly transition from

incidental class 3 kino to overt class 3 kino.
Application: Create an ongoing topic of conversational

threads back and forth with your partner. Integrate inciden-
tal class 3 kino, simultaneous with the conversation. After 3
occurrences of incidental kino, initiate overt class 3 kino.
Drill until your partner feels comfortable with your overt

kino.
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Follow-up Drills
Drill #1: Getting a Phone Number
Purpose: To create a chain of agreement combined with a

technically smooth number close.
Drillset Sequence #9 Application: Your partner will start a random thread. At

some point you will get the topic on one of your hobbies.
Once your partner displays interest in that, you will provide
an opportunity for him to be involved, and get the phone
You Need to Have number as a minor logistical detail.
Powerful Tools for Phone, Drill back and forth until you feel you can get anyone's
phone number with ease.
Email, Texting and Other Partner: Me and my friends usually only come here on the weekends.
Forms of "Follow Up" You: Me too. I'm usually too involved with the theatre during the week.
Game Partner: What do you do in the theatre?
You: I'm the production manager. We do some amazing shows. You

should check us out sometime.
Partner: Sure that sounds cool.
You: Great, I'll give you a call then.
Partner: Ok.
You: Ok... (Take out your phone for the exchange)
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Follow-up Drills Drillset #9 Notes:
Drill #2: Mock Phone Conversation
Purpose: To create the proper frame for all future interac-

tions in the very first phone call.
Application: Your partner will start a random thread. At

some point you will suggest meeting up—on your terms. Im-
mediately after introducing the meet, make it conditional by
requesting additional compliance.
Drill back and forth until you are comfortable with having
the meet on your terms.
Partner: I have lived in this city for all of my life.
You: You know, I was really thinking about that, and I came up with a
great idea for a really special experience for the two of us.
Partner: Oh really?
You: Yeah. But you have do to do a few different things. First, you have
to bring your camera. Second, bring a bathing suit. You probably won't
need it, but just in case. Thirdly, meet me at the Platinum hotel. What
time can you make it?
Partner: Hmm ok. I can make it at 7 O'clock.
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Making Logistics W o r k
Logistics: The overall management of the way resources are
moved to the areas where they are required.
In the case of pick-up, however, however we'll replace the

word "resources" to "women". Logistics is best described as .
Drillset Sequence #10 coordinating movement from one venue to another until
you end up in isolation where sex can take place.
It's always best to take a pick-up as far as possible on the

You Need to Create first day / night you meet a woman, but if there are circum-
stances which restrict either your or her freedom, then it's
Effective Dating Scenar- best to take a number and resume another time.
ios, i.e. Design Emotional It is also important to note also that in the end, all restric-
tions are emotional.
Experiences that Lead a Even if she has to go to school, work, or even meet her
W o m a n to Your Desired friend it is still an emotional restriction. She misses work ->
She gets fired -> Short on money and has to find more work
Outcome (emotional upset.)
So the better you get at game, the more these restrictions

disappear.
This section will deal with venue changing considerations as

well as how to get phone numbers and schedule dates.
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Logistics Drills, Cont. Logistics Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Changing Venues Drill #2: Isolation
Purpose: To use powerful leadership and assumption to Purpose: To use intrigue and curiosity to pre-empt and
get a person to accompany you to the next venue. overcome any possible uncertainty about being alone with
you.
Application: Use the scripts below to suggest going to an-
other venue. Application: Your partner will read down the list of isola-
tion windows. You will respond without hesitation, with an
Start leading your partner confidently as you say the script. answer that builds intrigue. Start by using the structures
Be fully assumptive, and truly believe your partner wants to below, and then create your own.
join you.
Drill until you can create intrigue structures on the fly
Your partner will pass / fail you on your confidence, and without any hesitation. This is a speed drill.
how enthusiastic he feels about going with you.
Isolation W i n d o w s :
• Where are we going?
Drill back and forth until your delivery is confident and • Why do we have to stop at your place?
assumptive, and your partner wants to join you. • I have to get up early in the morning for work.
• What do you want to do now?
You: I'm hungry. Let's go to the diner and grab something Intrigue Structures:
to eat.
I guess you can come inside, but only for a little bit. But you have to
promise not to laugh at my place, ok?
You: I'm having a great time. Let's go window shopping
downtown. I'm staying with my friend Rob. You're not going to believe how nice his
place is. Oh I have a special surprise for you too.
You: I'm in the mood for coffee. Let's go to Starbucks.
Cool. We'll have to make it fast then, you're not going to believe it when
you see this video I have.
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Drillset #10 Notes:
You can Demonstrate

Cold-reading Abilities
Bordering on the Realm
of Psychic Meanwhile
Building a Profound
.,
Connection with a
Woman
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Advanced Cold Reading

Advanced Cold Reading Drills
Cold Reading is a skill of making a "read" on a person with
little to no prior information. Drill #1: Pace and Lead
It is how psychics make a living. Basically you are telling a Purpose: To shape her reality by showing a strong under-
person something that they think you couldn't possibly standing of it.
know—unless you were their best friend.
Application: When the mind hears two true things in a
Cold reading does many things, all beneficial for pick-up: row, it will automatically accept the third thing a true with-
out objection. Sitting across from each other, you are going
• It establishes you as an authority to make two plain observations, followed by an implication
• It demonstrates an understanding of her world that follows from the observations.
• It creates intrigue, because you know more about her
than she knows about you Drill back and forth for 5 minutes.
• It allows you to shape her behavior in any way you
choose Example:
• It creates the feeling of an "instant connection"
• It supports the fate / destiny theme that women love Your partner is sitting across from you, upright,
looking you in the eyes. You may say:
The truth is, there isn't anything special or mystical about
this and it can be learned very easily. "You're sitting across from me, looking me in the eyes, and I
can tell you're ready to get started with the drill."
A good cold read both makes sense, and generally can be
true for any person who hears it. They are even more effec- Notice the first two were plain observations, and the third is
tive when the person hearing it either: only implied.
1. Sees internal or external evidence to support it
2. Is told by an authority
3. Wants to believe it
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Advanced Cold Reading Drills, Cont. Advanced Cold Reading Drills, Cont.
Drill # 2 : Conversational Cold Read Drill # 3 : Magic Mirror
Purpose: To make a complimentary generalization based Purpose: To give her a compliment that exactly matches
on information learned in conversation. her ideal self image.
Application: Start a conversation back and forth by gener- Application: Start a conversation back and forth by gener-
ating threads. After 3 or 4 threads pass, you make a cold ating threads. At some point your partner will try to express
read based on that information. who he is by putting his best foot forward. It may be
through a story or through sharing his dreams or making a
Drill back and forth until you feel comfortable with the self-statement. At this point you will simply give it back to
structure of a cold read. him in your own words.
Example: Drill back and forth until you can deliver the compliment
Partner: "I think that white shoes should never be worn transparently.
with black leather belts."
Example:
You: "Yeah I agree. Shirts, on the other hand can usually be
any color regardless of your belt." Partner: "I'm studying to be a nurse. I like to see that my
work is appreciated and I really like helping people."
Partner: "My favorite shirt is white. That way I can wear it
with whatever other colors I have on." You: "Yeah I could tell when I met you that you're a people
person. You want to help but at the same time it can be
You: "You seem to pay a lot of attention to your appear- overwhelming when people depend on you so much.
ance. You're the type of person who wants to be perceived There's not many women out there that actually have the
in a positive way and because of that you've developed a strength to do what you do. "
really keen awareness of fashion. You really know what
you like."
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Advanced Cold Reading Drills, Cont. Drillset #11 Notes:

Drill #4: Derren Brown Style Mentalism
Purpose: To create an emotional state where she feels as

though whatever cold read you use is completely psychic.
Application:
1. Establish yourself as the authority by leading the inter-

action, and getting rapport by pacing reality.
2. Ask if anyone has ever said anything to him in the past
that was really convincing, or it was something he
wanted to believe.
3. Coax your partner into an emotionally suggestible state
by asking him to imagine that time.
4. While you're coming up with the read, tell your partner
to "Hear me say the line".
5. Deliver a cold read that both sounds good and is gener-
ally true for everyone.
Drill back and forth until you feel you can deliver a cold
read very convincingly.
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Connection
Connection means that you are showing a promise of some-
thing that is directly valuable to a woman.
To most women, pleasant conversation and attention is

enough. To women with a very high sexual awareness, how-
ever, they are looking for "sexual value".
Sexual value resides in this level of the hierarchy. To women
who respond to this, it is a great accelerant in pick-up.
You can Gain Such If you find a girl is not responsive to sexual tension (i.e. doesn't
Incredible Command respond to your sexual language or kinesthetic advances) it
usually means she needs to trust you before responding in that
Over Sexual Tension that manner. Skip to Level 4: Credibility in this case.
the Interaction can be Sexual tension is produced not only in your vibe, but also by
your language.
Turned Sexual on a Dime Once you have levels 1 and 2 present, your use of sexual lan-
guage will produce a highly aroused state in her. It is usually a
good idea to only do this when you are l-on-1 on with the girl.
The purpose is to drill the different types of language until you

can use it freely without coming across as weird or creepy.
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Sexual Tension Drills Sexual Tension Drills, Cont.

Drill #1: Sensual Language Drill #2: Double Entendres
Purpose: To be comfortable using vivid and descriptive Purpose: To be able to project double meaning through
language while talking about commonplace topics. language. One meaning innocent and the other sexual.
Application: Pick any topic. Talk to your partner about Application: Pick any topic. Talk to your partner about
the topic, meanwhile using words from the below list of sen- the topic, meanwhile using phrases from the list below.
sual words.
Drill until delivery is normal — without laughing, fidgeting
Drill until delivery is normal — without laughing, fidgeting or over emphasis.
or over emphasis.
Naked Member Longing Fast I'm done

Appetite Entrance Uninhibited
Bare Melt Plunge
Close Comes from the same
Urge Desire Slip Wet place
Stiff Thrill Slide How you feel You come
Caress Erect Tight How you feel inside from a good place
Supple Flush Buried inside
Ride Hard Tease
You are quick You get me
Come Tender Naughty It's hard for you My head is pounding
Pleasure Moist Forbidden You are getting close My head is throbbing
Flowing Stroke Raw You're a fast girl My head is banging so
Whisper Finger Penetrate
Hole Ease into Aching I like it when a girl is Hard
Wet Thrust Erupt open You got me
Firm Release Straddle It's too late
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Drillset #12 Notes:

You can Master with
Complete Facility t h e
Entire Set of Techniques
Collectively Known as
''Vin's Bag of Dirty
Tricks''
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— — DiClassified DRILLS DiClassified DRILLS
Understanding Compliance Compliance Drills

Compliance means: The act of conforming, acquiescing, or Drill #1: Dirty Compliance
yielding.
Purpose: To get a woman comfortable with putting effort
In other words, whenever you get a woman following your into the interaction, based on a simple reframe of the situa-
lead, and conforming to your requests, you have her com- tion.
pliance.
Application: Your partner will talk about doing some kind
Compliance is very important for maintaining the attraction of work, such as cleaning his home, or shopping for groceries
you have built, or making it more real. or shopping for an item. At this point you will reframe the
work he has done for himself as work for you.
It's easy to put a woman in a good state, and have her at-
tracted to you, but unless you get her to actually act on that Drill back and forth for 5 minutes.
attraction, you have something that is very transient.
Example:
When you use attraction to get compliance or escalate in
other ways, a woman will have something more real to look Partner: I spent all day shopping for groceries and putting
back at to realize just how much she really likes you. them away.
The following chapter is various tactics to not only directly You: That's really sweet, but you didn't have to go through
get compliance through leadership, but also psychological all that trouble for me, we can simply go out to eat.
methods of getting her more likely to comply with your ri-
diculous requests.
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Compliance Drills, Cont.

Drillset #13 Notes:
Drill # 2 : Virtual Compliance
P u r p o s e : To get a woman comfortable with putting effort

into the interaction, based on compliance in an imaginary
scenario.
Application: Your partner will choose one of the four role-

playing themes. While role-playing along with the theme,
create an imaginary situation where your partner has put
work into something in your favor.
Drill back and forth for 5 minutes.
Daddy-Daughter:
Thanks so much sweetie for being a good girl and cleaning up your room
for me. Because of that, I'm going to take you to the movies tonight.
Old Lovers Reunited:

So nice being together with you again my dear. And yes, I have saved all
of the love letters you have written me over the years. And I've kept them
in a pink box underneath my bed. There must be a hundred!
Teacher-Student:
Your extra credit assignment was excellent. You not only followed all the
directions, but you also did all the research for the bonus points! Looks
like you'll be getting an A after all.
Vacation:
I couldn't ask for a better wife. All the time you spent planning this vaca-
tion has paid off. And booking the flights and hotels... I'm in heaven. I
can't wait to see what you have planned for tomorrow!
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Escalation Ramp
While the above steps from 1-7 may take anywhere
from 30 minutes to 4 hours, the escalation ramp described
on the following pages is very rapid. The duration of the
ramp should be about 5-15 minutes. Start the ramp very
quickly once you have complete isolation in a sex location.
Drillset Sequence #14 8. Kissing

Start kissing from a very close proximity. Don't come
diving in lips first from three feet away. Ideally you should
You will Learn How to already be in a suitable position for kissing before you try. If
you have overt class 3 kino taken care of, you're probably in
Escalate Directly to Sex the right spot.
in the Most Efficient, A technique for building sexual tension - move

closely in, slowly as if you might kiss her, and then move
Smooth Way with NO away and start talking about something else. This will build
the tension and she will wonder when you're going to actu-
Last Minute Resistance ally kiss her.
(LMR) A technique to initiate kissing - try placing your fin-

ger just underneath her chin and pulling her mouth towards
yours.
Kissing should be light and short at first. You should

be the one to pull away first. Don't use too much tongue at
first, just use it to tease her, and build anticipation.
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9. Kissing Her Neck 12. Kissing her Body-

Once you have kissed her for a bit, move down to her Having her shirt pulled up affords the opportunity of
neck. Kiss it gently, while holding her close to you. moving downwards to kiss and caress the bare flesh of her
abdomen. Start kissing her there, along the sides, and move
Depending on how rough you want to set the mood, feel upwards.
free to throw in some gentle biting too.
Touching and kissing the breasts is optional. It is not
10. Touching the Bare Skin of Her Back necessary, and in some cases can be detrimental to your
progress. There are some women who have a negative an-
Once you have established kissing both on her mouth chor to their breasts.
and neck, move your hands to her waist and underneath her
shirt. Continue to hold her close to you, now with your Inch toward their breasts and feel her reaction. If she
hands directly on her back. becomes increasingly turned on, then go for it. If she starts
to close down, skip the breasts until you are already having
11. Stomach to Stomach sex.
Now that you have established touching her skin, be- 13. Incidentally Stimulate Vagina
low her shirt, simply move your hand to the front, and lift
her shirt, exposing only her stomach. At the same time lift While you are kissing her body, you can position
your shirt as well so that your abdomen is in direct contact yourself between her legs and use your midsection to rub
with hers. against her vagina. If you are kissing her mouth you can po-
sition your thigh to stimulate her vagina.
It seems innocent, but will meanwhile trigger intense
sexual feelings inside of her. The only time she feels contact You can also be kissing her body and reach between
like that is usually when she's naked and having sex. her legs and plant your hand on the bed below her. Then
use your forearm to stimulate her vagina. The key here is
that because you aren't using your hand or fingers, she has
no basis for objection.
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14. Direct Vaginal Stimulation from Behind (Inside 15. Direct Vaginal Stimulation in Front
Panties)
Get her heated up by fingering her, and then when
Once you have really amped her up by incidentally once she is sufficiently turned on, undo the front of her
rubbing her vagina, move your hand around to the back and pants with your other hand.
slip it inside her panties and touch her naked ass.
You can use the Situationally Relevant phrase "My
Next move your hand all the way down and reach her hand is being crushed" as you do it, although it's usually not
vagina. Start first by touching the area around it. Then pro- necessary. Since she is engaged by the fact that you are fin-
ceed to finger her from behind. Women never expect to gering her, she will rarely object to your simultaneous un-
have it happen this way. Trying to reach your hand down doing of her pants. You may also have her undo her pants,
the front of her pants will often be resisted, but from the by saying "Unbutton your pants." as you are fingering her.
rear is unexpected and effective.
Moving to the front, you'll be able to get more pene-
If she is wearing a skirt or dress, you will instead move your tration with your fingers, and get her to the point where she
hand up the back of her leg, and reach her vagina that way. is practically begging for sex. Use a firm "come-hither" mo-
Finger her and then proceed directly to step 16. tion pulling forward on the front vaginal wall and stimulat-
ing her g-spot.
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Escalation Ramp Drill

16. Remove Her Pants, Sex
Drill #1: Ramp Memorization
The idea is to get her so heated up by fingering her,
that she makes a commitment to sex, verbally or physically. Purpose: To internalize the ordered steps of the escalation
ladder ramp so it flows easily when it comes time.
There are a few ways to go about this. Firstly, it is
very important that you don't stop fingering her before her Application: Stand in front of the rest of the participants
pants are off. Too many times a guy will stop fingering her, and recite the steps of the ramp, in order.
and then try to take off her pants, only to get more resis-
tance. Ramp:
While fingering her you can say "Do you want me in- 1. Kissing
side you?" Which will usually get a "Yes." response. At that 2. Kissing the Neck
point you say "Ok, take off your pants." and continue to fin- 3. Hands on Her Back, Under Shirt
ger her until her panties are off, and she's ready to go. 4. Stomach to Stomach
5. Kissing Stomach
Another option is to skip the question and directly 6. Incidental Vaginal Stimulation (arms, legs, chest)
tell her to take off her pants. Usually with your fingers busy 7. Hand Down Back of Pants, Fingering
at work, she will be more than compliant. 8. Hand Down Front of Pants, Fingering
9. Remove Pants, Sex.
Another technique is to ask her "Do you want me to
get a condom?" In 90% of all girls you ask this, they will say Verbal Techniques for Step 9:
"Yes." Not because they are saying they want sex, but be-
cause they want to appear safe and level headed. • Do you want me to get a condom?
• Do you want me inside of you?
You will interpret this as the permission to get a condom • Take off your pants.
and have sex with her, and it will most likely be met without
opposition.
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Drillset #14 Notes:
You can Suck a Woman

into Your Reality So Deep
that Her World will
Literally Revolve
Around You
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Reality Replacement Drills Reality Replacement Drills

Drill #1: Compliance Levels Drill #2: The Virtual Ladder
Purpose: Drop hints about what compliance you would Purpose: To learn a mind-numbingly effective technique
like her to perform. Instead of coming outright and asking for escalation which seems to have the added effect of mak-
for something, demonstrate a need for it in a very indirect ing girls fall in love VERY quickly.
manner.
Application: Perform a virtual-ladder escalation on your
Application: Considering your main passion of life, take a partner that is relevant to your city.
few minutes and describe five different ways a woman can
contribute to that passion. Then put them in order from the Drill until you can consistently perform a virtual ladder.
least to greatest amount of compliance.
Example:
At this point, you will take turns making requests for these When I go back to New York City you have to visit me. First, we'd walk
levels. Use direct requests for small levels and indirect for down 5th avenue and I'd hold your hand like this (hold her hand). And
large. we'd look at all the expensive clothing we can't afford ;)
Drill until you can tastefully and skillfully make compli- Then we'd go to the top of the Empire state building and we'd look over
the side and I'd hold you like this (hold her from behind) Are you scared
ance requests. of heights?
Small Requests:
• Sweetie, go ahead and pick me up some vegetables from the store, And if it was winter time, we'd go ice skating at Rockefeller center. Can
that way we can have a side dish with our steaks. you skate? Ok you can teach me - (hold hands skating gestures)
• You've got awesome taste in music, baby. You have to make a mix
CD for me. Then you'd come to my place (if in hotel) Then we'd go back to our hotel
Large Requests: room with SEPARATE BEDS (if in your place), and we'd relax together.
• My friend Joe just got some really cool shoes. He looks really great
with them. I think they're awesome. If you were lucky I'd give you one of my FAMOUS massages. I would sit
• If only I had a new set of golf clubs, it would be so much more en- you down over here (sit her down on the bed) then lie down and I would
joyable. And just think, the two of us could spend a beautiful day massage you like this. (Just get your partner to sit down)
together golfing on our favorite course.
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A Quick Word From Vin
Dear Participant,
You made it! Congratulations, it was a lot of
hard work.
This is only the beginning. You now know what

it takes to become truly successful in all of your social
interactions.
So in the future, if you ever feel like you need to

brush up, grab a friend, this booklet, and drill away!
If you have any questions, please visit my web-

site at http://www.vindicarlo.com/forums.
I'll see you there, and good luck!
Vin
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The DiClassified Drills

Opening Drills pl6

Intrigue Drills p23

Leader Drills p30

1.Question - Mini Isolate

Thread Management Drills p38

1.Simple Thread Flow

Role Playing Drill p35

Credibility Drills p45

1.Friends Stories (Statement - Related Story)

DiCarlo Escalation Drills p50

1.Incidental - Overt Class 1

1.Getting Phone Number

Logistics Drills p66

1.Changing Venues (Lets Go!)

Escalation Ramp Drill p93

Advanced Cold Reading p71

1.Pace and Lead

Sexual Tension Drills p73

Compliance Drills p83

1.Dirty Compliance (Re-Frame)

Reality Replacement Drills p96

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1. Welcome to DiClassified Drills .......4

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Welcome to DiClassified Drills! Welcome to DiClassified Drills, Cont.

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The Attraction Hierarchy

Each one is dependent on the earlier ones. So in other

These levels will be drilled to the point of internalization in

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W a r m Dominance W a r m Dominance Drills

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W a r m Dominance Drills, Cont. W a r m Dominance Drills, Cont.

This drill should be done until you can comfortably move

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You Need to be Able to

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Starting Conversations with Groups The Easiest Way to Open

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Opening Drills Opening Drills, Cont.

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Opening Drills, Cont. Opening Drills, Cont.

Examples: You: Come over here. (Girl comes over)

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You Need to Hook FAST

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Intrigue Intrigue Drills, Cont.

• What do they say?

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Intrigue Drills, Cont.