The Background of Fellatio and also Foreplay

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According to current press reports, Americans are having oral sex at amazingly more
youthful ages-- and with increasing nonchalance. (Note: Oral sex here refers solely to
fellatio.) Foreplay precedes and frequently replaces sexual intercourse because it's
perceived to be noncommittal, quick and safe. For some kids it's a cool thing to do; for others
it's a cheap adventure. Raised in a culture in which speed is valued, kids, not surprisingly,
seek instant gratification through oral sex (the girl by immediately pleasing the young boy, the
boy by relaxing and enjoying the trip). A relatively facile command over the sexual landscape
of one's partner is achieved without the encumbrances of clothing, coitus and the rest of the
messy organisation. The blow job is, in essence, the new joystick of teen sexuality.

In short, if we are to believe today's sociologists and culture mavens, oral sex has actually
become ordinary. However the increased banality of the blow job is difficult. When I was a
teenager, in the bad-taste, disco-fangled '70s, fellatio was something you graduated into.
Rooted in the excellent American sport of baseball, the sexual metaphors of my generation
put fellatio someplace after home base, way off in the distant plains of the outfield. In truth,
avoiding all the bases and going directly to fellatio was the sort of crowning achievement
scheduled only for racy, borderline lawbreakers, who enjoyed a host of licentious and
forbidden activities that made them stars in the firmament of teen recklessness.
The first blow task I ever offered (after methodically searching my method past all the bases)
was an act of faith. After lastly figuring out how to manually handle my partner's odd vestigial
organ-- how to brandish, manipulate and handle his swollen, tumescent pink love shaft-- I
now had the complicated job of needing to find out how to handle it orally. Lick? Suck? Use
your hands? If just the how-to books that exist today existed back then.

" Put both hands into the L position around the base of the shaft," says "Sex Tips for Straight
Women From a Gay Man." "Lick the entire pointer and then utilize your tongue to lick up and
down the sides. Covering your teeth with your lips, and keeping your mouth taut, move the
head inside and lick the sensitive area below with both the idea and flat part of your tongue ...
continue down the shaft as far as you can enter one fell swoop." And on it goes. It includes
ideas on interests like dick whipping, hummers and tinglers, plus guidance on how to
breathe. (Men may fear the spacious tunnel that causes the primordial soup of the womb,
however females run the risk of death by gagging.).
Plainly even the most extensive bout of coitus fades in comparison with the intimacy of
fellatio, a minimum of for the one providing it: nesting one's face in the musty, doughy pelt of
your partner's loins; bringing the full blast of your tongue, lips, teeth (indeed, your entire face)
to bear on the swollen, supplicant shaft; coaxing the salty swell of seed-bearing spermatozoa
growing from deep within the susceptible, fuzz-laced scrotum; and, lastly, partaking in the
supreme exchange of bodily fluids. (For what could be more carnal and, well, in your face
than swallowing sperm?) All this is much more complicated than the simple act of coitus,
where the crucial fits in the ignition and things basically just happen. Fellatio is tough labor, in
every sense of the word.