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Ultimate Orgasm
Techniques
“How To Give Your Woman Clitoral, Vaginal,
Multiple, Squirting And Anal Orgasms”
By Adam Armstrong
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Introduction....................................................................................7
Part 6: FAQ’s...................................................................................77
Summary........................................................................................87
It wasn’t easy for him to work all of this stuff out, largely because most of the
mainstream sex advice to be found in magazines, on television and on the internet
proved to be inadequate. And the stuff in so-called “scientific literature” was often no
better.
It seemed that most so-called “sex experts” skirted around the real issues for fear of
offending people, or simply because they did not really know what women wanted,
needed and craved in the bedroom and much less how to teach men the skills
required to become dynamite with women.
He is not afraid to speak his mind and at times uses some, how shall we say; colourful
language! He might challenge your beliefs and seriously make you question what
you previously thought was true about female sexuality.
But if you go with it and read, listen and watch Adam’s programs with an open mind,
you will become a better lover and enjoy a superior sex-life than you ever previously
imagined you could.
Introduction.
Hey it’s Adam Armstrong here.
And in the ‘Ultimate Orgasm Techniques’ program – you are going to discover how
to give your woman earth-shattering, body-shaking orgasms using the most
remarkable, powerful and proven sexual techniques on the planet.
To start off with, I’d like to share some orgasm statistics with you so that you
understand the type of sexual pleasure most women are used to receiving during
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sex.
Here we go…
Somewhere in the Somewhere in the region of 20-30% of women have never had an orgasm.
The second group of women is where the majority of women are at. Depending on
the statistics we look at, it is safe to say that somewhere between to 50% and 70% of
women have only ever experienced clitoral orgasms.
And finally, we get to the group of very lucky women who have experienced vaginal
orgasms. Again, different statistics tell slightly different stories, but whatever the
exact case – one thing is for sure… the percentage of women who have experienced
vaginal orgasms is pretty low (somewhere between 10% and 30%).
You should also keep in mind that many of those women who have had vaginal
orgasms do not necessarily have them regularly.
At this point I’ll also point out that vaginal orgasms lay the foundation for squirting
and multiple orgasms and to some extent – anal orgasms too.
So if you want to be a truly great lover, a guy who is capable of giving his woman
THE BEST SEX EVER – you really have to give your woman vaginal orgasms
because when you do… a whole new world of sexuality will open up for you and her
to share.
So now that you know how few women are receiving regular, incredible sexual
pleasure from their men, let’s take a look at…
On the contrary, I only deal in the truth and if I offend a few people along the way –
I’m cool with that because I know that I’ll help tons of people in the process too.
Somewhat of a contradiction,
don’t you think?
Think about it – how many people ever become outstanding at something (or even
moderately good) without some help from someone who’s already produced
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excellent results in the area they wish to excel at?
You have my total So you my friend - you have my total respect for wanting to learn how to
sexually satisfy your woman and by using the ‘Ultimate Orgasm Techniques’
respect for wanting program, you are separating yourself from the 90+% of guys who are lame in
to learn how to bed and will remain lame in bed because they are too damn stubborn to do
anything about it.
sexually satisfy
your woman... Well more fool them.
You and I - and our women - will have all the fun!
Now, let’s dig a little deeper and talk about the three things you really need
to possess in order to give any woman incredible sexual pleasure…
Secondly, you need decent knowledge of female anatomy and the best SEXUAL
TECHNIQUES on the planet.
Finally, you need to be able to take control and lead your woman. In other words,
you need to be sexually dominant in the bedroom.
The next thing I’m going to talk to you about is Sex Toys and
more specifically…
For clarification, a Dildo is a penis shaped sex toy and a vibrator is a penis shaped
sex toy that vibrates.
DUH!
Yeah, I know, pretty obvious – but I just wanted to check that we were on the same
page before I move on.
Some men think it’s a good idea to buy a dildo or vibrator to help ‘get their
women off.’
Here’s why…
The average guy is either not giving his woman orgasms or he’s only giving her
clitoral orgasms, but the fact is that all women crave vaginal orgasms (even if they
don’t say so).
So the average man brings home a dildo or vibrator (which is usually much bigger
than his own ‘little chap’) and he uses it to pleasure his woman. Now the reality is
that the sex toy probably won’t give his woman vaginal orgasms, but if it does –
that’s BAD NEWS.
“Hold on Adam, you just said vaginal orgasms were a good thing”
Yes I did, but can you imagine what the average man’s woman thinks when he’s
never given her a vaginal orgasm and then all of a sudden he does it for the first
time using a dildo or vibrator?
Ouch.
I must just state that it is unlikely that a big sex toy is going to give a woman her first
vaginal orgasm. But that doesn’t mean that ‘average guy’ with his sex toy is out of
trouble just yet.
You see, if he doesn’t give his woman vaginal orgasms during intercourse – she’s not
really fulfilled by it. I don’t care what a woman might say (in order to protect her
man’s feelings); she’s not fulfilled unless she comes during intercourse.
But, if ‘average man’ uses that big, thick sex toy to pleasure his woman – he might
end up giving her more ‘feeling downstairs’ than she is used to experiencing when
he has intercourse with her because the increased size will stretch her open a bit
more than she’s used to.
So even though the sex toy doesn’t ‘get her off’, it does make the penetration
more pleasurable.
What you can clearly see is that these kinds of sex toys (dildos and vibrators), are
rarely a good thing.
With that said, once you are regularly giving your woman vaginal orgasms during
intercourse - and you are going to find out how to do this regardless of your ‘size’ –
you can then use whatever sex toy you want because your woman will be
SEXUALLY ADDICTED to you. Guaranteed.
With all that said, let’s not jump the gun or get ahead of ourselves. Before we talk
about vaginal orgasms, let’s discuss the most basic orgasms - clitoral orgasms…
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Indeed, nothing could be further from the truth.
Clitoral Orgasms give women incredible sexual pleasure and are a great way
Clitoral Orgasms to start any sexual session.
give women The first orgasm I usually give my girlfriend during any sexual adventure that
incredible sexual I take her on is a clitoral orgasm. It’s almost become a ‘warm up’… It gets her
hot, wet and SEXUALLY EXCITED and ready for the more intense, powerful
pleasure and are a orgasms that are to come.
great way to start
With that said, there are several reasons why clitoral orgasms alone are not
any sexual session. enough to totally satisfy your woman and I’d like to share those reasons
with you right now…
For starters, once you stimulate your woman’s clitoris to the point of orgasm – it will
usually become too sensitive to touch. This makes the clitoral orgasm much like the
male orgasm – once you’ve had one, you get overly sensitive and need some time
before you can have another.
Have you ever had one of those experiences where you give your woman a
clitoral orgasm and then try to give her another and she stops you from touching
her in that spot?
Well, the reason why she stops you is because her clitoris has become hyper-
sensitive and this hyper-sensitivity is perfectly natural. You can’t do anything about it.
However, what it means is that it’s virtually impossible to give your woman
MULTIPLE ORGASMS if all you do is give her clitoral orgasms.
Now, that’s not to say that she doesn’t prefer it when you do it – but essentially you
are doing something for her that she can do herself.
And if you have intercourse with your woman and she rubs her clitoris to ‘get
herself off’ during the process – you might as well not be inside her! After-all, she
can make herself come just fine by touching her clitoris during masturbation.
You might think it’s better if you rub her clitoris during intercourse, but the reality is
again that you might as well not bother to have intercourse – you might as well just
stimulate her with your fingers.
The final thing to keep in mind about clitoral orgasms is that most women describe
them as an EXTERNAL sensation.
Again, this makes clitoral orgasms very similar to the orgasms that we men feel.
Makes sense, right?
After-all, both the clitoris and penis are on the outside of the body and women
say that the feeling as they come is focused heavily on the genitals, much like it is
for a man.
So right now, let’s discuss the two main ways that you can give your woman a
clitoral orgasm.
The first way is using your fingers and the second way is by giving her ORAL SEX…
If your woman was to lie on your bed, on her back, with her legs open and you were
to stand between her legs (looking directly at her genitals), her clitoris would be
located just above the vagina.
This image will help you to visualize exactly where the clitoris is:
Mons Publs
Clitoral Hood
Clitoris
Labia Majora
Urethra
Labia Minora
Vestibule
(entrance to
the Vagina)
Perineum
Please note that the vagina is the actual hole itself and not a generic name for the
entire female genitalia, although it is often misused in this way.
When your woman is highly aroused, her clitoris will become firm and easy to locate.
The clitoris actually contains erectile tissue - just like the penis – which explains why it
stiffens up when a woman is sexually aroused.
You need to be aware that the clitoris is covered by the clitoral hood and some
women respond best if you gently pull the hood back and directly stimulate the
clitoris, whilst others find this too intense and prefer stimulation of the clitoral hood as
opposed to the exposed tip of the clitoris itself.
With regards to clitoral stimulation, there are three basic things you need to be
aware of…
Many men think they are doing well if they just find their women’s clitoris, but if
they don’t pay attention to pressure, speed and motion – they may do more harm
than good.
You see, some women like a lot of pressure, while others like less.
Some women like a faster speed of movement and others like a slower tempo.
And motion refers to specific styles of movement or techniques that you are using and
it’s your job as a guy to find out what technique your woman responds best too.
If you focus on those three things, you will be doing enough to get most
women off.
Find a pressure she likes; always starting out gently and then gradually increasing.
Find a speed of movement she likes; starting out slowly and gradually
getting faster.
And find a motion she responds best too – maybe she likes having her clitoris rubbed
from side to side, or perhaps she prefers it stimulated up and down. If you watch
women masturbate, many of them actually rub their clitorises in a circular motion –
which is something else you can try.
• As she gets more ‘turned on’ she’ll probably enjoy more pressure
• As she gets more ‘turned on’ she’ll probably enjoy more speed
The reason why I said probably is because every woman is different and you still need
to patiently figure out EXACTLY what your woman likes best.
With all that said, there are two very powerful, very specific sexual techniques
that I’m now going to share with you for giving your woman a clitoral orgasm
using your fingers.
Unlike most men, these guys clearly give a damn about pleasing women and I’m
certainly very glad that they shared this technique. And once you use it with your
woman – I’m sure you will be too.
Despite the power of The Welcomed Method I’ve never seen it mentioned in any
mainstream sex advice. Not once in a single magazine article, television or radio
program. So it’s fair to say that very few women have ever had the pleasure of their
man using The Welcomed Method on them; which is a shame because it works
incredibly well.
However, you should look on the bright side and realize that because very few
women have ever experienced it – when you use it on your woman… you’ll totally
blow her mind.
Nice.
The whole technique involves stimulating the tip of your woman’s clitoris at the one
o’clock position using the tip of your index finger on your right hand.
The one o’clock position is based on you looking directly at her clitoris while
standing between her legs. (However, you won’t be standing between her legs
when you use this technique).
What you want to do is to have your woman lie on her back with her legs open.
Next, lubricate the index finger of your right hand using good quality lubrication. I
like to use ID Millennium because you tend to only have to apply it once – it doesn’t
dry out half way through, unlike many lubricants. Click here to grab a tube now.
Silicone-based
lube maintains its The use of lubrication is essential to increase your woman’s pleasure and avoid
slipperiness
throughout your causing her any pain.
session and
doesn’t go dry half Once you have your woman on her back with her legs open and you have
way through
lubricated the index finger of your right hand, you need to lay on your woman’s left
side, perpendicular to her.
Next, put your left thumb on her perineum and apply moderate pressure.
The perineum is the small area of skin between her vagina and anus.
Now, put your right hand on top of your woman’s patch (or where her patch would be if she’s shaved
or waxed). Then very lightly put the tip of your right index finger on her clitoris and start rubbing it at
the one o’clock position.
The strokes you use need to be about half an inch long and at a rate of 2 per second.
Keep doing this light movement over and over again. Your woman will very quickly feel incredible
sexual pleasure and get to the point just before orgasm.
And/or…
Her desire to orgasm won’t go away and she’ll remain on the verge
of coming, experiencing total bliss, for quite some time.
Left thumb
on perineum
When you feel the time is right, you should lead her through the orgasm by saying
something like this:
“Come hard”
You basically use your middle and index fingers of either your left or right hand to
move your woman’s clitoral hood up and down over her clitoris.
Once you have lubricated your fingers, you need to part your woman’s labia
with your fingers (the labia are the lips of her vagina).
Once you’ve parted her labia you can then apply inward pressure with your
middle and index fingers and gently squeeze the clitoral hood.
From this position, just move the clitoral hood up and down.
As ever, you must find a pressure and speed of movement that your
woman likes and when you do – keep going and you can expect her to
have a powerful orgasm. Of course – if you talk dirty to her as you use the
technique, that’s even better.
Now let’s move on and look at how to give your woman mind-blowing
ORAL SEX…
If there’s one thing that ruins oral sex for a woman, it’s when a man goes down on
her and shows no enthusiasm or passion. In other words, he gives off the vibe that
he’d rather be doing anything other than giving her oral sex.
When a man gives a woman unenthusiastic, passionless oral sex, not only does it
lessen the enjoyment for the woman – it can also make her feel uneasy or self-
conscious about her vagina.
As ridiculous as it sounds, I’ve had a few men email me and ask what they should do
because they don’t like the smell of their woman’s vagina!
“Every great lover gets off on the smell of his woman’s intimate parts”
With that said, a woman’s smell ‘downstairs’ can be affected by what she eats and
drinks, just like a man’s semen can be affected in the same way. So it is possible that
certain women might be less than great tasting down there because of poor
nutritional choices.
But seriously, any guys who claim to ‘hate the taste of pussy,’ need to seriously
question their true desire to please women.
So the first rule of giving your woman GREAT ORAL SEX is to be enthusiastic and
show some passion.
Make some noise while you are at it too because this will really turn your woman on. I
know you can’t talk dirty while giving your woman oral sex, but that doesn’t mean
you should be silent.
The second rule of giving your woman great oral sex is to avoid going straight for
her clitoris before she is really wet and turned on.
Instead, you should get your woman extremely sexually excited before you lick
her clitoris.
Let me give you a few examples that you can use for yourself:
When you are kissing your woman and she is getting excited, put your hand
between her legs on her panties and then turn her head to one side and say this
in her ear:
This line drives women crazy and gets them thinking about the oral sex you
are going to give them
Another great way to tease your woman and build anticipation is to lick all the
way up her left leg (so that your tongue nearly touches her genitals, but not
quite). Then lick all the way back down again.
Run this cycle a few times, breathing onto her vagina through her panties in
between licking her legs. Do this slowly; take your time (make her wait) and she
will very quickly start to BEG YOU for more.
Obviously, when she begs you – you TEASE HER some more ;)
Brilliant.
When you have your woman’s panties off and she can’t wait to feel your
tongue on her wetness – you still don’t have to lick her clitoris straight away.
And then, when she’s practically ready to explode – you can start licking
her clitoris.
(Or you can tease her a little more, depending on what mood you’re in).
Do you now see what I mean when I say TEASE your woman and build ANTICIPATION?
Try some or all of these techniques for yourself and you’ll be amazed by how well
they work.
Moving on, let’s take a look at how to actually lick your woman’s clitoris to give her a
powerful orgasm…
You know that oral sex technique where a guy supposedly traces the letters of the
alphabet on his woman’s clitoris with his tongue?
It’s nonsense.
I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to be reciting the alphabet to myself while
I’m giving my woman oral pleasure! It’s just not cool and I’ve never heard a single
woman say they get off on it.
You can lick your woman’s clitoris from side to side or up and down.
Here’s the thing though – once you find a motion (side-to-side or up-and-down), a
speed of movement and an amount of pressure that your woman is responding
really well too… keep doing it until she has an orgasm.
Do not constantly change what you are doing as this can cause your woman to
lose the ‘build up’ and you’ll have to start back at the beginning.
The only thing you might want to change as she builds towards her orgasm is to
slightly increase the speed and pressure of your movements. But be careful with this
because as I’ve said – if you change too much, you’ll probably make her lose the
feeling and you’ll have to start again.
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you can also try a technique where you suck her clitoris into your mouth and hum as
you are sucking.
It sounds a little complicated but it’s actually very easy to do and many
Always start out women absolutely love this.
gently and
gradually increase The only thing to be careful of is how hard you suck her clitoris. Always start
out gently and gradually increase the pressure until you find a point where
the pressure until you are really ‘getting her off.’
you find a point
As you are sucking and humming on her clitoris, the one thing you have to
where you are be aware of is your BREATHING because it can become tricky to suck, hum
really ‘getting and breathe at the same time!
her off.’ Here’s how to do it:
Doing those two simple things means you can keep giving her pleasure, without
having to pause to breathe.
I know many men think the idea of stimulating their woman’s anus with their tongue
is disgusting.
However, the FACT is that the anus has a lot of nerve endings and is a very sensitive
part of the body. So even though not many women will admit (in public) to enjoying
rimming – the reality is that most women love it if it’s done well.
Obviously you want to choose when to rim your woman carefully. After a shower or
bath is the most appropriate time.
Then it’s just a case of lightly stimulating your woman’s anus with your tongue.
You can stimulate her clitoris with your finger as you rim her and give her a
powerful orgasm.
If you keep licking her right up to the point of orgasm and carry on licking her anus
during orgasm you’ll not only make her come – you’ll also get her to associate
MASSIVE PLEASURE to you touching her ass (and you’ll find out why this is so
important in the section on anal orgasms).
• After giving your woman a clitoral orgasm, her clitoris will almost certainly
become ‘hyper-sensitive’, meaning that if you want to give her multiple
orgasms – you’ll need to give her other types of orgasm
• You can give your woman clitoral orgasms using your fingers or tongue
• Don’t touch your woman’s clitoris until you have gotten her hot, wet and really
turned on
• Always be aware of the pressure, speed and motion of your movements as you
are touching your woman’s clitoris
• Once you find a pressure, speed and motion she enjoys – keep doing it until
she has the orgasm. Don’t keep changing what you are doing
The reality is that due to the hyper-sensitivity that most women experience in the
clitoris after having a clitoral orgasm – the majority of women are only ever going to
have one clitoral orgasm per sex session.
For the record – I’ve only ever met one woman who was able to have regular
multiple clitoral orgasms. And she still preferred multiple vaginal orgasms.
Can you imagine how much more fun these women are having than the regular
woman who has to put up with her man either:
Or…
Needless to say, it’s the women who become vaginally orgasmic who end up
sexually addicted to the men who can give them this type of pleasure. So if you
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want your woman to be sexually addicted to YOU – you HAVE TO get the vaginal
orgasms working.
the pressure until NOTE: Every woman can have a vaginal orgasm, provided she has a brain and a
you find a point vagina – so no excuses.
where you are As men, I feel it is our duty in the bedroom to give our women vaginal
really ‘getting orgasms and that’s what I’m going to teach you how to do in this section.
her off.’ So pay close attention because the orgasm techniques and information that
follow have the power to instantly and dramatically improve your sex-life.
• Trim your finger nails short and file them so that they are very smooth. Never
put a sharp/jagged finger nail inside your woman for obvious reasons
• Use plenty of lubrication. If in doubt, it’s better to use a little more than you
think as opposed to too little
• Never put something inside your woman’s ass and then back into her vagina as
this can cause her to get infections (this last point will become relevant later in
the book)
• If you lift weights and/or do a physical/manual job, chances are that you’ll have
callouses on your hands. And whilst callouses are Mother Nature’s way of
protecting your hands – women aren’t too keen on them.
• At least once a week, use a pumice stone to file down your callouses and make
them as smooth as possible. The best time to do this is after a hot shower or
bath, when your skin is at its softest.
•By the way – Coconut Oil is also great for cooking and for
lubrication in the bedroom! It’s highly versatile.
Make sense?
Don’t be in a rush to find it because it’s better that you take your time and stimulate
the right area and give your woman an orgasm than it is to rush and mess it up.
Remember, the G-Spot is going to be somewhere between one and two inches
inside the vagina (approximately half the length of your middle finger).
As you start to see that your woman is enjoying it, you can gradually increase the
pressure. Be aware that some women enjoy A LOT of pressure when you are using
this technique. It’s not like touching the clitoris – where most women enjoy
somewhat gentler pressure.
Chances are she’ll probably start to make some noise as you are stimulating her G-
Spot and then you’ll know you are hitting her with a perfect amount of pressure. At
this point, just keep going and she’ll have a powerful vaginal orgasm.
As she nears orgasm you can increase the pressure and speed of your movements
slightly, but it’s not usually necessary and if you change what you are doing too
much – you can throw your woman off and do more harm than good.
So that’s the first type of vaginal orgasm that you can give your woman…
In addition to the basic middle finger, ‘come hither’ technique I just described – you
can vary it like this:
• Use your middle finger and index finger (be careful with this one and always
start out with just the middle finger)
• Use a rubbing motion instead of a ‘come hither’ motion. This is a fairly subtle
difference because essentially both techniques involve applying moderate to
very firm pressure on the g-spot. But this variation is worth keeping in mind
because I have found some women respond better to it than the standard
‘come hither’ motion
With all that said, I’m now going to share an even more powerful sexual technique
with you that I’ve found works for virtually every emotionally healthy woman.
It’s called The A-Spot Method and if you do it right – you should end up giving your
woman the most powerful vaginal orgasms she’ll ever likely experience. Knowing this
technique really separates the men from the boys. So read on carefully and be sure
to try this out with your woman as soon as possible.
I’ve used it to give many women their first ever vaginal orgasm. I’ve had women cry
tears of joy after such an experience. Vaginal orgasms are truly life-changing for a
woman.
Crazy, eh?
Anyway, in all probability, when you use this technique on any woman – chances are
that no previous man will have used it on her and therefore… you’ll totally blow her
mind.
Making a woman say ‘You’re the best I’ve ever had’ becomes remarkably easy to
pull-off once you use the A-Spot method.
I think you get the message – this technique is THE REAL DEAL.
Now insert your very well lubricated middle finger (of either hand) inside her vagina
with your palm facing up.
Needless to say – she was a very fit and active girl who hit the gym several
times a week.
Whatever you do, prepare for your wrist and hand to get tired, especially if you give
your woman several A-Spot orgasms one after another (which you’ll find is pretty
easy to do once you begin using the technique).
However, being A REAL MAN – you won’t even think about stopping because your
wrist and hand are tired, will you? My advice is to ignore your pain because:
And…
Your woman’s screams and orgasms are more than worth it, right?
With that said, some women don’t respond favorably to it at all, so always be
in tune with your woman’s ‘sexual signals’ when you are experimenting with a
new technique.
Remember – the goal is to give your woman incredible sexual pleasure, not to blindly
use any and every sex technique you read about. A great lover knows that every
woman is different and that must always to taken into consideration in the bedroom.
With that said, here’s the technique:
Instead of penetrating your woman’s vagina as deeply as you can and stimulating
her front wall with your middle finger, for this technique you stimulate the BACK
WALL of her vagina.
• Have your woman assume the ‘doggy-style’ position (get her on her hands and
knees with her back arched and her butt in the air. If she wants, she can rest on
her forearms, instead of her hands)
• Now insert your middle finger into her vagina as deeply as you can with your
palm facing upwards
• Use the same ‘come hither’ motion and if she likes it – use a lot of pressure and
proceed to orgasm (for many women, this technique produces a similar feeling
to having anal sex because you are applying pressure to the thin wall that
separates her vagina and anus)
The only drawback to this variation of the A-Spot method is that some women like
an area stimulated that is further in than you are likely to reach with your middle
finger (but more on that in the next section).
For some women, this third variation is the most powerful. Try talking dirty to her
and spanking her as you do it and you may very well see what I mean.
My advice to you is to try all the variations of the A-Spot method and find which one
works best for your woman. You’ll more than likely find she likes all three – so switch
them up and don’t always do the same thing.
Doing the exact same thing over and over again in the bedroom is a recipe for
predictability and ultimately - boredom. And when a woman finds the sex boring –
she’ll stop wanting it. Period.
Ouch.
The secret is to do something different every time you ‘get it on’ with your woman.
That way, things stay interesting and exciting and never become boring and
predictable.
Well, if you can’t get in deep enough with your finger – there is a SEX TOY that can
get the job done.
Now, don’t race out to buy that overly large and thick dildo like most guys do.
What you want is a fairly long and thin dildo with a curved tip.
Have your woman get on all fours and then insert the dildo inside her with
the curved end facing the back wall of her vagina. (It goes without saying
that the dildo must be well lubricated, regardless of how wet your woman
already is).
Now move the dildo up and down (not in and out) so that the curved end goes into
the back wall of her vagina over and over again. You’ll have to experiment to find out
exactly how far in produces the best results, but suffice to say – it’s probably going
to be somewhere a little further in than you could get your middle finger.
When you find the right spot and apply a pressure your woman responds well too –
they’ll be only one outcome…
You now know several powerful techniques for giving your woman vaginal orgasms.
You can use the G-spot Technique and the four variations of The A-Spot Method
that I shared with you (three requiring the use of your fingers and one the use of the
sex toy).
And don’t forget – you can tweak the fingering techniques that I’ve shared with you
by switching from one finger to two and changing from a ‘come hither’ motion to a
rubbing motion.
With a little thought and imagination you can come up with many different ways to
give your woman vaginal orgasms.
• Then lie in between her legs and start to lick her clitoris
• Next, as she gets really into it – insert your middle finger into her vagina and
start to stimulate her G-Spot using the ‘come hither’ motion
NOTE: you can also vary the technique by starting off with G-Spot (or A-Spot) stimulation
and then adding clitoral stimulation.
Not surprisingly, the results are powerful and you can expect your woman to come
very hard when you give her this type of sexual pleasure.
One important thing to remember is to get both sex techniques working separately
before you progress to combining them.
The reason why I say this is because you want to make sure you are giving your
woman vaginal orgasms. To do this you must use the G-Spot (or A-Spot Method).
If you lick her clitoris and massage her G-Spot having never given her a vaginal
orgasm before, you will probably end up just giving her a clitoral orgasm while you
have your fingers inside her.
That’s why I placed The Combination Orgasm after clitoral and vaginal orgasms in
the ‘Ultimate Orgasm Techniques’ program…
Get the basics working and then feel free to try The Combination Orgasm technique
out with your woman – she’ll absolutely love it. I promise.
Now that you know how to ‘get your woman off’ using several powerful ORAL and
FINGERING techniques, let’s take your ‘bedroom game’ to the next level and talk
about vaginal orgasms during intercourse…
However, simply giving your woman mind-blowing orgasms is NOT the end of the
journey. It’s not sexual MASTERY.
“
Here’s why…
Let’s say you start off a sexual session by giving your woman a clitoral
Simply giving orgasm and you do so by giving her OUTSTANDING oral sex.
your woman mind-
Then you give her two A-Spot orgasms using your fingers.
blowing orgasms
is NOT the end Then you have intercourse and you come but she doesn’t.
of the journey.
QUESTION: Which was more pleasurable for her – the foreplay or the
It’s not sexual intercourse?
MASTERY.
If you said ‘the foreplay’ – you answered correctly.
After-all, you ‘got her off’ three times before you penetrated her with your ‘tool’ but
zero times during intercourse.
Ideally you want to take your woman on sexual adventures where they start off really
well and end brilliantly.
But in the above example it started off really well (because you gave her three
orgasms during foreplay) but then things didn’t progress because you had
intercourse with her and didn’t make her come once.
Don’t get me wrong – to give your woman three orgasms during foreplay is
AWESOME. It’s way way better than the average guy will ever do.
But if you want to totally blow your woman’s mind and give her the kind of sex that
makes her brag to her friends about how great you are in bed and makes her wet
Said differently, if you give your woman orgasms during foreplay – you really should
be looking to follow that up during intercourse.
As we previously said, you don’t want to rely on rubbing your woman’s clitoris to
‘get her off’ during intercourse.
I mean think about it – is it really that satisfying to have to rub her clitoris while you
do her from behind?
The alternative being to thrust in and out of her from behind and make her orgasm
without touching her clitoris. That’s an example of a vaginal orgasm during
intercourse.
Now, what the hell do I mean when I say that you ‘awaken’ her vagina?
Well, when I say that you ‘awaken’ her vagina I mean you make her FEEL MORE.
Basically, her vagina becomes more sensitive.
Once she feels a lot more sensitivity in her vagina, she starts to feel a lot more
sensation during intercourse.
BINGO.
Now it’s relatively easy to make your woman have vaginal orgasms during
intercourse. The truth is that the A-Spot method did most of the work for you.
With that said, there are some other sex techniques you can use to make it even
easier to give your woman vaginal orgasms during intercourse.
For starters, you must know your sexual positions and think about where your
woman’s most sensitive areas are inside her vagina.
For example, if you take a thin pillow and place it under your woman’s lower back in
the missionary position – you make it easier to stimulate her G-Spot and A-Spot
during intercourse.
The end result – it’s a great sex position for giving your woman vaginal orgasms
during intercourse.
IMPORTANT NOTE: who said size matters? The G-Spot is only one to two inches inside
your woman and the A-Spot can be reached with your middle finger! Clearly, size isn’t an
issue once you get vaginal orgasms working.
Another example of a great sex position is doggy-style. This is especially true if your
woman likes the variation of the A-Spot method where you stimulate the BACK
WALL of her vagina. And if your erection curves slightly upwards as well – you will
find this a very rewarding position for ‘getting your woman off’ during intercourse.
In fact, some women become so sensitive after being exposed to the A-Spot
method several times – they can come with only the smallest amount of penetration.
I dated one woman who would come 9 times out of 10 almost immediately as soon
as I put my ‘tool’ inside her.
And the best part of that was – she’d never had a vaginal orgasm before she met
“
me. Then, within a couple of weeks of using the A-Spot method, she started
experiencing clitoral orgasms, A-Spot orgasms, multiple orgasms and she became a
squirter too.
Within a couple of And none of this happened because I have any kind of super human
powers. Just sound sexual beliefs, a strong ‘bedroom personality’ and good
weeks of using the knowledge of female anatomy and the sex techniques I’m sharing with you
A-Spot method, here.
she started Compare what you’ve just learned to the average man who endlessly
experiencing pounds away at his woman and doesn’t make her come. Or she rubs her
clitoral orgasms, clitoris to ‘get herself off’, or he rubs it for her.
A-Spot orgasms, Whichever way you look at it, it’s pretty darn obvious… vaginal orgasms are
multiple orgasms where the party is at.
and she became a With all that said, there is something else I have to share with you about
squirter too. vaginal orgasms during intercourse and it’s called Taoist Thrusting…
As an added bonus – Taoist Thrusting is also a great way to help you LAST LONGER.
This might be one of the coolest sex techniques ever – it helps you to ‘get your
woman off’ and makes it easier for you to last longer.
Nice :)
Taoist Thrusting requires a specific combination of short and deep strokes that looks
like this:
• 6 short, 4 deep
• 5 short, 5 deep
• 4 short, 6 deep
• 3 short, 7 deep
• 2 short, 8 deep
• 1 short, 9 deep
At this point you’ve completed one cycle and you then start over with 9 short and 1
deep, 8 short, 2 deep and so on.
Here are a few things to keep in mind when using this technique:
• The short strokes should be 1 to 2 inches inside your woman’s vagina (perfect
for hitting her G-Spot)
• The strokes do not need to be fast – just aim to keep a steady rhythm
You might think that sounds ridiculous but I told a close friend about this technique
and he said it didn’t work.
Knowing this technique DOES work I delved a little deeper by asking him some
probing questions and it turned out he’d been ‘counting his strokes’ out loud.
Listen up.
It doesn’t matter if you accidently do 8 short strokes when it should have been 9 or
2 deep when it should have been 1. Just try to stick to the pattern and for God’s sake
don’t count out loud.
The next thing we are going to talk about is one of my favourite topics concerning
female sexual pleasure – Squirting Orgasms…
But you don’t just have to take my word for it. Consider this email I recently received
from a very happy reader called Joe:
It was fantastic for both of us... Now let’s bust a myth about female
sexuality relating to ‘squirting’…
You are a legend, thank you so much. You added a
When a woman ejaculates, it is NOT
whole new flavor to my 5 year old relationship. Thanks for
urine (contrary to what many men and
my new found joy I'm so happy and so is my girlfriend!
some women who are new to squirting
Joe believe).
The answer is that it is clear, water like liquid that comes from her Skene glands.
The fact of the matter is that it is physiologically impossible for a woman to urinate
when she is highly aroused. This is in much the same way that it is impossible for a
man to urinate when he has an erection.
Now, there is an obstacle that you will more than likely have to overcome if you want
your woman to have squirting orgasms. The obstacle is all to do with the fact that
when she is about to squirt, she will feel the need to PEE.
Boom.
At this point, virtually every woman will prevent herself from squirting. In her mind,
she is of course - preventing herself from urinating.
“How do you get her to overcome this fear of urinating and get her to squirt?”
The answer is that there are a few things you need to do:
Always get your woman to go to the bathroom and empty her bladder before you
have sex. This way she’ll be more relaxed
Next, explain to your woman that when she feels that need to pee just before she
has an orgasm, she is in fact feeling the need to ejaculate. Tell her that she is
preventing herself from squirting. I do not advise you to have this conversation
during sex because your woman is running totally on ‘emotion’ during sex
and is not thinking ‘logically.’ So talk to her about it at a time when you are
not ‘getting it on’
What you must get her to do when she feels the urge to squirt
during sex is to ‘push the feeling out.’ When I say that you must tell
her to ‘to push the feeling out’, I mean that she must relax her PC
Muscles (the muscles that she uses to stop herself going to the
toilet). These same PC Muscles that stop her peeing are the ones
that stop her ejaculating during sex. So you must get her to relax
those PC Muscles and push
The reality is that you and your woman may not be successful straight away,
but just keep reassuring her that it is perfectly natural to squirt and that when
she does – her sexual pleasure and the power of her orgasms will greatly
increase.
The first time your woman squirts, it may only be a small amount of liquid, but this
may increase as she learns to ‘push the feeling out.’ Some women only ever squirt a
little, but I have known women who can squirt the entire length of the bed!
Many women are worried about making the bed all wet. If your woman expresses
this concern to you, you must make sure she knows that you’ll find it exciting and
that it’s ok for her to make the bed wet. (You can also try putting a towel down to
absorb the moisture. This tactic makes it much easier for many women to relax,
push and squirt).
The best techniques for giving your woman her first squirting orgasm are the G-Spot
and A-Spot techniques I have previously talked to you about.
You can experiment with both and as you do – be aware that you should talk your
woman through the entire experience and lead her at all times.
Even if you’ve never made a woman squirt before, act with confidence and don’t let
anything phase you – this way your woman will take you seriously and follow what
you tell her to do.
Here’s an example of how you can go about trying to give your woman a squirting
orgasm…
Then take her to the bedroom, get her sexually aroused, wet and horny and give her
a clitoral orgasm.
Next, have her lie on her back and then start to stimulate her A-Spot. Tell her that
you are going to make her squirt.
Ask her to tell you when she starts to feel the urge to pee.
And you just keep going like this until she has a squirting orgasm.
I cannot emphasize enough the point that you must be in control, DOMINANT and
believable because this is the only way that you’ll get your woman to fully trust you
and follow your lead.
She had no idea that she was in fact preventing herself from experiencing incredible
squirting vaginal orgasms.
Furthermore, she’s probably discussed this situation with her girlfriends (most, if not
all of whom won’t have ever squirted) and they’ll all have agreed that they felt the
urge to ‘pee’ during sex and had to regularly prevent it.
Of course, you now know that your woman and her girlfriends have, for years, been
stopping themselves from ejaculating and preventing themselves from experiencing
truly mind-blowing squirting vaginal orgasms.
The interesting thing is that many women can have an orgasm from the G-Spot and
A-Spot methods and still prevent the squirting from happening, whereas some
women will simply not respond well to the techniques and they’ll have no kind of
vaginal orgasm whatsoever.
It is my experience that every emotionally healthy woman will have powerful vaginal
orgasms if you use the techniques as described. Then you just have to train her to
squirt.
NOTE: some women will just embrace the idea of squirting and they’ll ‘let go and push’
without you having to say anything. But such women are rare.
In contrast, the women who respond badly to the A-Spot technique are almost
always women who have some kind of emotional issue going on and a lack of self-
esteem. Until these women sort out their emotional issues they are unlikely to
experience vaginal orgasms.
There is just one more thing that you need to know regarding squirting orgasms and
that thing is Kegel Exercises…
When I say ‘increase her ability to squirt’, I mean she’ll ejaculate more fluid and push
it further. And usually, the more fluid she ejaculates, the more pleasurable she will
find the orgasm.
You have to emphasize the fact that Kegel exercises will result in more pleasurable
orgasms for your woman, otherwise she won’t do them regularly.
First, explain to your woman that the PC muscles are the muscles that she uses to
stop herself peeing.
Then get her to isolate those muscles. In other words, get her to tense the muscles
she would tense to stop herself peeing – without tensing any other muscles.
The best way to get her to tense and relax her PC muscles is to have her do so
when she has a full bladder and goes to pee. To stop her pee mid-blow she’ll have
to contract her PC muscles. To start peeing again – she’ll have to relax them.
Bingo.
You just taught her how to control these important muscles in just a few seconds.
Once she has control, she can begin doing Kegel exercises on a daily basis.
NOTE: She doesn’t need to do them whilst on the toilet. She can in fact practice her
Kegel Exercises anywhere.
When she starts begins practising, she can begin with a 3 second contraction of her
PC muscles, followed by a 3 second relaxation of those muscles. Then she can do 4
more repetitions.
I’d get her to do just that each day, on week one. Then progress to 2 sets of 5 reps
on week two and 3 sets of 5 reps on week three.
From here, the progression is to hold the muscle contractions for longer.
Oh and by the way – if you want a stronger, longer-lasting erection – you should do
daily Kegel Exercises too.
So far, we’ve discussed many techniques regarding the vagina and clitoris. We’ve
talked about stimulating your woman’s clitoris with your fingers and via oral sex.
We’ve also talked about G-Spot vaginal orgasms and various different ways to give
your woman A-Spot vaginal orgasms.
We’ve also covered how to easily give your woman multiple orgasms, simply by
getting the vaginal orgasms working. And we’ve most recently discussed squirting
orgasms.
Right now, we’re going to move on and talk about a kind of orgasm that is perhaps
the most powerful of all…
I have no idea what percentage of women have experienced anal orgasms, but it’s
safe to say that it’s very low. We are definitely talking less than 1% and maybe less
than 0.1%. That last figure would be just 1 in a 1000 women by the way.
Whatever the exact number (and we’ll never accurately know – for obvious reasons)
… anal orgasms are ‘the real deal.’
Before we delve right in and talk about the technique you can use to give your
woman an anal orgasm, we need to discuss ‘anal play’ in general.
The fact of the matter is that many men would like to have anal fun with their
women and ultimately – they’d like to have anal intercourse. Unfortunately, most of
the men who would like their women to give them full access to their ass – have no
idea how to go about making this happen.
Next, he thinks the most logical thing to do is to ask his woman for anal sex. At this
point, most women will say “NO.”
So the average guy keeps asking and asking and asking and in the end it seems like
he’s begging his woman. In fact, he is begging her. Not cool.
Don’t try to bully your woman into anal sex by asking/begging her over and over
again because it simply won’t produce satisfying results for you or her.
If the average man doesn’t go down the asking/begging route – he usually resorts
to ‘accidently’ slipping it in his woman’s back door during intercourse. This is a
disaster for the following reason…
We’ve now discussed the two ways most guys try to get their women to have
anal sex:
Neither work well and I’m recommending that you never go there.
With that crap out of the way, we’re now going to discuss the real man’s approach to
getting his woman to BEG him for anal sex.
“YES,” I’m being totally serious – I’m going to teach you how to get your woman to
BEG YOU for ANAL SEX.
While all the other guys are asking, begging and whining to their women in pathetic
attempts to get them to give them anal sex – you are going to smoothly turn your
woman onto the idea of anal sex and make her beg you for it.
We’ll begin by taking a look at how most women view anal sex…
Always keep in mind the fact that women love naughty, dirty sex and that they love
to do taboo things in the bedroom.
And anal sex is about as naughty, dirty and taboo as it gets. Therefore, most women
would like to try anal sex under the right circumstances. Note that I said ‘under the
right circumstances.’
Oh and by the way – just because women don’t often openly say that they want to
try anal sex or like the thought of it… that doesn’t mean they don’t want it.
In public, women might say that anal sex is not of interest to them or that it disgusts
them. The reality is that they are saying these things to avoid being seen as dirty or
slutty.
But in the bedroom, behind closed doors, with their men – women want to get
slutty.
The real reason most women don’t grab their men by the hand and ask them to take
them up the ass is because of FEAR.
“Yeah, I’d love to try anal because it’s really dirty and naughty”
And that’s enough to stop most women from trying anal. And guys who ask/beg or
slip it in by ‘accident’ are not helping to get rid of the woman’s fear of pain relating
to anal sex.
The truth is that if you want to get your woman to beg you for anal sex, you need
to help her overcome her fear of pain during anal sex and get her to replace that
fear of pain with MASSIVE PLEASURE.
Once you have gotten your woman to associate massive pleasure to having you
touch her ass – she will be happy for you to have as much anal play as you want.
Giving her an anal orgasm is the ultimate anal pleasure you can give her. However,
depending on how open your woman is to anal play – you may have to take a few
days or a couple of weeks to get her to the point where you can give her her first
anal orgasm.
The reason for this is because the technique for giving her an anal orgasm requires
you to have your finger in her ass. And if you’ve never done that to her before,
there’s some smaller steps you need to take first.
The rule for introducing anal play into your relationship is at first to only touch
your woman’s anus when she is very close to having an orgasm and during the
orgasm itself.
In other words, you’ve done something to eliminate some of the fear of PAIN she
had regarding anal play.
The second time you touch her ass, insert the tip of one of your fingers into her anus
when she is very close to coming and during orgasm. When I say the ‘tip’ of one of
your fingers, I mean up to the first knuckle and no further.
At this point you’ve now got your woman to start to link anal penetration and sexual
pleasure together.
The next step is to insert more and more of your finger into her ass when you are
giving her oral sex.
At this point you have successfully got your woman to enjoy the feeling of having
your whole finger in her ass as she has an orgasm (and you get to enjoy the feeling
of her anus contracting around your finger as she comes).
Important Point: when a woman has an orgasm, her anus will involuntarily contract. If it
doesn’t contract – she isn’t having an orgasm. Now you know how to tell a REAL orgasm
from a FAKED orgasm.
Be sure to take things slowly and if you need to - repeat a step to avoid pushing her
too far too soon.
Remember – you must avoid causing her pain at all costs, even if it means taking
things very slowly. Think ‘baby steps’, not ‘giant steps.’
In the missionary position, reach under her leg and use your index or middle finger.
Whatever route you go down – oral sex, doggie-style or missionary – get her to the
point where you have your entire finger up her ass as she climaxes and then
Click here to see a butt progress to the next step in the process…
plug that I recommend
you use on your woman For this step, you’ll need to buy a small butt plug.
WARNING: Do not attempt this technique until you have followed all the previous
steps in this section on ANAL ORGASMS.
If you have done all those steps, go ahead and blow your woman’s mind like this…
Start off by getting her really turned on, wet, sexually excited and well –
you get the idea.
Then give her a clitoral orgasm and at least one vaginal orgasm.
Now have her lie on her back with her legs open.
Then take your middle finger and insert it into her ass with your palm facing
upwards. (Obviously your finger needs to be very well lubricated).
It won’t be as obvious as when your finger is inside her vagina because you now
have to find her G-Spot through the wall that separates her vagina and anus, but be
patient and you’ll find it.
Remember – the G-Spot is just one to two inches inside the vagina on the front
wall. Once you have it, use the same ‘come hither’ motion that you would use to
give your woman a regular G-Spot vaginal orgasm and keep going until you make
her climax.
I’ve known several women to turn around immediately after having an anal orgasm
in the way that I have just described and quite literally BEG for anal sex and this is
not surprising when you think about it, IF you follow all the steps I’ve laid out for you.
The bottom line is that you have totally destroyed your woman’s PAIN
association relating to anal sex and you’ve replaced them with nothing but
thoughts of PLEASURE.
So that’s how you get your woman to not only give you her ass – but actually really
want you to take it.
Many porn actresses are using anal numbing creams when they are shooting their
scenes. And whilst this allows the guy to easily penetrate her anus, it has some lousy
consequences:
• She can’t feel anything, so anal orgasms certainly aren’t going to happen
• Because she can’t feel anything, the male porn star may be causing her
damage and she’ll only find out once the cream’s ‘numbing powers’ wear off
and she’s left with a very sore ass
• I’ve read stories of adult porn actresses having to wear nappies because they
have had too much aggressive anal sex
Clearly these are not things you want to put your woman through! It goes without
saying that I DON’T recommend anal numbing creams or sprays.
The truth is that what you see in porn is pretty much the EXACT opposite of what
I’m teaching you…
I’m teaching you how to give your woman mind-blowing pleasure. In contrast, the
porn industry is often exploiting women in any way they can, just to please the sad
idiot watching at home with his pants round his ankles, wishing he had a REAL
woman to ‘get naughty’ with.
• Don’t do it ALL THE TIME because if you do – your woman might end up
with problems
• When you insert your erection into her ass, do so very slowly and allow her to get
used to the feeling
• Once you’re all the way in, pause for a few seconds – enjoy the feeling – and allow
her to get used to the sensation
• Then start to move slowly at first and pick up the pace with caution
• If she asks you to STOP, do so – otherwise you’ll undo all the hard work you’ve
done to expertly get to the point where she wants anal sex
• If you ever pull your penis (or finger) out of your woman’s ass and notice a little
fecal matter – DO NOT make her feel bad about it because if you do, you’ll ruin her
confidence and lessen her desire for anal play. If it happens – and it might – be cool
about it and handle it in a mature way
Haha.
Nice.
Pay attention, because they don’t teach you this ANYWHERE else…
The truth is that once you give your woman anal orgasms using your fingers, you’ve
done 90% of the hard work because you’ve now gotten her to associate massive
pleasure to you touching her ass.
Some women might find it relatively easy to orgasm via anal intercourse, if
their men followed all the previous steps including giving her anal orgasms
with his fingers.
However, there is something you can do to ‘help her on her way’ and cause her to
have literally mind-blowing anal orgasms during intercourse:
Now I know this isn’t a program on DIRTY TALK, but I’m going to give you an
example of how to use dirty talk as you give your woman anal intercourse. I like to
over-deliver ;)
Here goes:
YOU: “You love it when I fuck your ass, don’t you baby?”
HER: “Yes”
YOU: “You love to do as you’re told and cum when I tell you too, don’t
you baby?”
And if you time your words correctly and deliver them in a commanding,
authoritative way – that’s EXACTLY what she’ll do.
Quite possibly.
Or maybe the holy grail is MULTIPLE anal orgasms during intercourse. That’s
possible too – using precisely what I’ve taught you in Ultimate Orgasm Techniques.
• Until you have given your woman her first anal orgasm, only touch her ass
when she is close to coming and during her orgasms
• Start off by touching her anus with your just the end of your finger. Then move
on to penetrating her ass with your finger tip, half your finger and then your
whole finger
• Next, use a butt plug (somewhere in between the size of your finger and your
penis)
• Then give her an anal orgasm using the technique described in this chapter
• At this point your woman will either beg you for anal sex or will at the very
least be willing to try it
• Always keep in mind that women do want to try anal sex, they just worry it
might hurt. As an expert lover, your job is to rid your woman of the thoughts
she has of anal sex and pain and slowly get her to replace them with thoughts
of anal sex and pleasure
• If at any point you sense your woman is not enjoying what you are doing, take
a step back and proceed at a slower pace. There should be no rush. When you
rush and push too far too fast – you run the risk of turning your woman off the
idea of anal play forever. Remember – expert lovers are always patient… only
fools try and rush their women
• Finally, never put anything that’s been in her ass, back in her vagina (until you
have thoroughly washed it)
Right now you know all that you need to know about clitoral, vaginal, multiple,
squirting and anal orgasms. But I’m not done yet. I still have to teach you how to get
the most out of all these techniques.
But don’t worry – you don’t have to use them all at once.
The orgasm techniques provided in this program have been presented to you in a
logical order.
For example, we started off by looking at clitoral orgasms because these are the
easiest and most basic type of orgasm to give your woman.
Then we moved on to look at vaginal orgasms (both G-Spot and A-Spot) because
they enable your woman to experience a deeper level of sexual pleasure and
MULTIPLE orgasms.
NOTE: In popular
men’s and women’s
magazines, multiple
orgasms are often
referred to as if they are
a total mystery. But
there’s nothing
mysterious about them.
Just get the vaginal
orgasms working and,
BOOM – multiple
orgasms become
the ‘norm.’
First, get clitoral orgasms working using your fingers and oral sex.
Then get vaginal orgasms working during intercourse and finally – look to get your
woman squirting and having anal orgasms.
In my program Dirty
Talk Phrases program I
give you examples of The other thing you might be wondering is:
dozens of tried and
tested dirty talk phrases “Where exactly does dirty talk fit into all of this?”
that you can take and
use ‘as your own.’ The answer is…
Check that out by
clicking here Everywhere.
• Then give her two vaginal orgasms using the G-Spot or A-Spot fingering
techniques
Can you imagine how SEXUALLY SATISFIED your woman will be if you give
her that type of pleasure every time you ‘get it on’ with her?
Most guys are struggling to find their women’s clitorises, let alone know
what to do with it when they find it.
Yet when you apply what you’ve discovered in the Ultimate Orgasm
Techniques program, you’ll start to see the clitoral orgasm as just a ‘warm
up.’
Of course, you don’t always have to follow the approach I laid out above.
For example, sometimes you and your woman might want to have a ‘quickie’ -
and there’s nothing wrong with that… quickie’s can be a ton of fun.
And what that means is that you will be able to have a quickie with your
woman and have a clear conscience. You’ll come and she’ll come too (maybe
more than once).
Yes, some women say that they don’t need to orgasm to have great sex – but these
are women who’ve almost certainly never had a vaginal orgasm and therefore don’t
know what great sex is. And most of the time – when women say that they don’t
need orgasms to have great sex – they’re just saying it to protect their man’s feelings.
The bottom line is that if you want to give your woman great sex… you must give her
vaginal orgasms.
Some of these guys don’t even realize it’s lame sex and others don’t give a damn.
But the truth is that the guys giving their women lame sex will pay a huge price.
For starters, they’ll never experience the satisfaction and sense of achievement that
comes from giving their women incredible sexual pleasure. Such men would
probably rather watch football or drink beer until they can no longer stand up
straight.
Secondly, high value, emotionally healthy women will not stand for lame sex forever
and such women will often cheat to GET BETTER SEX.
At this point, the guys on the receiving end of being cheated on usually say their
women are ‘bitches’ or use some other degrading term to describe them.
• He didn’t perform and meet her needs in the bedroom, so she found another
guy who could meet her needs. Simple as that
Anyway, given that you are reading this book it’s obvious to me that you are serious
about sexually satisfying your woman and giving her incredible sexual pleasure.
• Your woman will want to have MORE SEX. In other words, her sex-drive will
increase. It is my experience than when a guy gives his woman regular vaginal
orgasms, his woman’s sex-drive will be at least as high as his own and if not
higher. So no more ‘dry-spells’ in your relationship
• She will become more vocal during sex. She’ll scream louder (a by-product of
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experiencing vaginal orgasms) and she might even join in with the dirty talk
She’ll go out of her way to please you. Again, once you start giving her
regular vaginal orgasms you’ll notice that your woman will start to give
When the sex is good, you everything you want during sex. I have a concept that explains why
it tends to draw to this happens.
people closer The concept says that “Women are creatures of Sexual Reciprocation.”
together and make
Now, what do I mean when I say that “women are creatures of
them more grateful sexual reciprocation?
for having each other
Well, when I say that women are creatures of sexual reciprocation, I mean
in their lives that they give back as good as they get in the bedroom. So if you give
your woman incredible pleasure, she’ll go out of her way to give you
incredible sexual pleasure too.
NOTE: This does not work the other way round. You have to give your woman really great
sex and then she’ll start giving you better blow jobs, hand jobs, anal sex and whatever else
you want in bed. This happens every time
• When you give your woman great sex, including regular vaginal orgasms – you
will also notice that your relationship outside the bedroom will likely improve
as well. When the sex is good, it tends to draw to people closer together and
make them more grateful for having each other in their lives
You now know exactly how to give your woman the best orgasms of her life…
Don’t worry, the next section covers some common problems and how to overcome
them…
Q:
My woman enjoys it
when I use The A-
Spot Method, but
I’ve never done it
for long enough to
give her an orgasm
because my wrist
and forearm get
too tired and I have
to stop. Is there
another option?
You need to MAN UP. Admitting
that your wrist ache is preventing
you from giving your woman a
vaginal orgasm is like admitting
you are afraid of the dark.
However, you must stay positive and realize that if she has a brain and a vagina –
she has the ability to have an orgasm. All you have to do is find the right strategy.
That strategy must not make a big deal out of the situation. If you do make a big
deal out of the situation, you will just reinforce her belief that she can’t orgasm.
Take her to the bedroom and relax her. Light some candles and give her massage.
Just get her really used to associating your touch with her feeling GOOD.
Providing you give her a half decent massage and she is attracted to you, she is
going to get wet as you are massaging her.
When you know she is wet, get her to turn over onto her back and use The
Welcomed Method on her (see Part 1: How To Give Your Woman Clitoral Orgasms).
As you use The Welcomed Method, do not mention anything to do with orgasms.
Just tell her to relax and enjoy the feelings you are giving her. You have to teach her
to relax and associate your actions in the bedroom with sexual pleasure.
It may take you more than one attempt but I’m quite sure you’ll succeed with this
approach.
Most guys make a mess of things by focusing on the orgasm instead of the
experience of pleasure and all this does is give the woman performance anxiety.
Do the opposite, take your time and get her to relax and you’ll be the first guy to
give her the big “O.”
Next, realize that the vast majority of women are not interested in penis size. Yes,
there will always be a few ‘Size Queens’ out there but most women do not fall into
that camp.
And using the techniques in the Ultimate Orgasm Techniques program, you can give
your woman mind-blowing orgasms using only your middle finger (see the G-Spot
and A-Spot vaginal orgasm techniques in Part 2.).
So tell me – if you can give your woman vaginal orgasms using only your middle
finger… is ‘size’ really an issue?
No it’s not.
Get the clitoral orgasms working with your woman. Then give her vaginal orgasms
and then get the vaginal orgasms working during intercourse.
And do not tell me your penis is not big enough to give her vaginal orgasms during
intercourse because the G-spot is only one to two inches inside her and the A-Spot
is only a fingers length inside her.
Also note that when you ‘awaken’ her vagina using The A-Spot Method she will
become a lot more sensitive during intercourse, making it much easier to give your
woman vaginal orgasms during intercourse.
The worst thing you can do is get depressed about the size of your penis because
it’ll destroy your sexual confidence and if there’s one thing women really do like in
the bedroom – it’s a man with sexual confidence.
True sexual confidence comes from knowing you can give your woman mind-
blowing orgasms any time and any place and your ability to do that has nothing to
do with your size.
Put yourself in your woman’s shoes for just a second and imagine what she’ll
think when you take five minutes out from foreplay to go put your rubber penis
extender on.
When you come back with your ‘new penis’ she is going to lose all respect for you.
In her eyes, every ounce of manliness and masculinity you had just disappeared
because you basically just admitted that you are not proud of your penis.
Use what you’ve got ‘down there’, be proud of it and use the techniques in this
program. Then you’ll soon realize that ‘size’ is not the issue and all you really need to
give your woman THE BEST SEX EVER are sound sexual beliefs, basic knowledge of
female anatomy, some great sexual techniques, the ability to be dominant in the
bedroom and a little dirty talk.
Q:
I’ve been using The A-Spot Technique for some
time with my woman and she loves it. She has
powerful orgasms when I use it and she has
started to come during intercourse as well. My
question is – why hasn’t she squirted yet?
First of all – you’re doing a great job.
If you are giving her A-Spot vaginal orgasms and vaginal orgasms during
intercourse, you are giving her what most men will never give their women…
GREAT SEX.
I do not have all the answers regarding female ejaculation and I can only share with
you experiences from my own private life and that of my clients.
Just remember that she has to ‘push’ the feeling out when she feels the urge to pee
during sex. That’s really the urge to ejaculate. If she holds it back – she won’t squirt.
Whatever happens – you’re doing a great job. Vaginal orgasms are where the
party is at.
With that said, you can increase the likelihood of making your woman squirt by
getting her to do Kegel Exercises (see Part 4 on Squirting Orgasms).
Q:
I’ve been with my wife for 3 years. We used to
have sex pretty much every day, but for the past
year or so, I’m lucky if I get it once a week. How
can I get more sex?
The reason why your relationship with your woman is becoming more and more
sexless is because you are too SELFISH.
I recommend that you evaluate your approach before you really mess things up and
she cheats on you or leaves you.
To get your woman to want to have sex more frequently, you have to give her
GREAT SEX.
Lots of orgasms.
This way you show her that you care about her sexual pleasure and she’ll soon start
wanting to have sex again. When it comes to sex – you have to give in order to get.
Q:
I cheated on my woman and she found out. Since
then nothing’s been right. She’s not as into the
sex and it’s happening less and less frequently.
Any advice?
My parents brought me up well and my Mum always said to never cheat on a
woman. She said that if you don’t want to be with somebody anymore – you should
be honest and leave them and then find somebody else.
You see, to have a really great sexual relationship, there needs to be mutual respect.
You need to respect your woman and she needs to respect you.
You also need trust – both outside the bedroom and inside it.
Unfortunately, you’ve messed up and you’ve damaged the trust your woman had
for you. She’s also lost respect for you.
Things will probably never be the same for you and your woman. You have two
options – either put the time in and see if you can make it something like it used to
be (you’ll have to try and gain back her trust and her respect).
Or…
Q:
woman and she loved it. It’s amazing. She’s
started having multiple orgasms every time we
have sex and our relationship is better than ever.
There’s just one small problem – she’s often sore
the next day, (after I’ve used the a-spot method).
Why is this?
The vagina is a sensitive part of a woman’s body and the A-Spot method requires
fairly intense pressure. Sometimes it is possible to do it a little too hard and make a
woman sore.
Once a woman gets used to the feeling of having vaginal orgasms via the A-Spot
method – she usually doesn’t need quite as much pressure to ‘get her off’ anymore.
So experiment with a little less pressure and a little more lubrication. Also make sure
she is extremely turned on before you use the technique.
• You must respect your woman and she must respect you. If she doesn’t take
you seriously outside the bedroom, she won’t take you seriously inside the
bedroom
• You have to talk with authority and believability. If your woman senses that
you are nervous as you talk dirty, she won’t enjoy it
• The more sexually excited she is, the more ‘hard-core’ your dirty talk can be
• Finally, remember that the longer you’ve known a woman and the better the
sex you are giving her, the dirtier you can talk to her in the bedroom. You have
to earn the right to talk really dirty to your woman
Combine dirty talk with the techniques in Ultimate Orgasm Techniques for
maximum effect
Q:
You talk about having respect for women but
then you tell guys it’s okay to make women give
them blow jobs and anal sex. That’s not being
respectful to women. Why are you pretending
you are something you’re not?
Everything in context my friend; everything in context.
When did I ever say to make a woman give you a blow job or anal sex?
The answer is NEVER.
I teach men to behave in a way that virtually guarantees that their women will want
to give them blow jobs, anal sex and get really naughty in the bedroom.
I teach men to respect women outside the bedroom, treat them well and develop a
deep and meaningful connection with them.
Then I teach them to give women what they want in the bedroom, which is naughty,
dirty sex with a ton of orgasms!
When a man does this, he is giving his woman the best of both worlds. If you want a
happy, fulfilling, wildly sexual relationship – there is no other option.
If you’re really ‘nice’ outside the bedroom but a wimp within it – your woman will
leave you or cheat, or at the very least be unhappy.
On the other hand, if you give your woman good sex but treat her like crap
outside the bedroom, the result will be the same - she’ll leave or cheat, or at the
very least be unhappy.
Here’s how:
When she orgasms for REAL, her anus will involuntarily contract. If she’s ‘faking it’,
her anus won’t contract.
So when she is having the ‘orgasm’, gently place the tip of your finger on her anus
and she if it contracts.
Remember – the sex is only fulfilling for your woman if she has real orgasms and
plenty of them.
Use this PDF as a reference book that you can dip into and out of whenever
you need it.
• Vaginal orgasms are a ‘game-changer.’ First, make them happen with your
fingers and then get them working during intercourse and then one thing and
only one thing will happen… your woman will become sexually ADDICTED
to you
• Multiple orgasms – viewed as such a mystery by most men and women – are
remarkably simple to make a reality for your woman. Just get the vaginal
orgasms working and the multiple will follow because unlike the clitoris –
which becomes hyper-sensitive post orgasm – the vagina suffers no such issues
• The same techniques you use to make the vaginal orgasms happen for your
woman can also be used to make her SQUIRT. Squirting will increase the
pleasure she experiences when she climaxes
• Anal orgasms are probably the most powerful orgasms of all. First get them
working with your fingers and then make them happen during intercourse.
Do that – and you’re close to SEXUAL MASTERY
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Adam Armstrong
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