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Sean Gorban
Table of Contents
Introduction.................................................................................................................................................... 2
The Right Knowledge Is Power ................................................................................................................. 2
The Choice is Yours .................................................................................................................................. 4
Chapter 1....................................................................................................................................................... 6
Physical Appearance ................................................................................................................................ 6
Chapter 2..................................................................................................................................................... 11
A Woman’s Emotions .............................................................................................................................. 11
Chapter 3..................................................................................................................................................... 13
Women Look Up To Men ........................................................................................................................ 13
Remain Strong for Her ............................................................................................................................ 14
Chapter 4..................................................................................................................................................... 15
Psychological Domination ....................................................................................................................... 15
More Inner Freedom = More Sex ............................................................................................................ 17
Chapter 5..................................................................................................................................................... 19
The Man Must Lead ................................................................................................................................ 19
How Guys Lose From the Beginning ...................................................................................................... 21
Always Expect Being Tested................................................................................................................... 22
Chapter 6..................................................................................................................................................... 24
The Tests Women Give You (Shit Tests) ............................................................................................... 24
Worst Thing You Can Say to a Woman .................................................................................................. 26
Chapter 7..................................................................................................................................................... 28
Own Yourself and Your Actions .............................................................................................................. 28
Chapter 8..................................................................................................................................................... 30
Polarizing Women ................................................................................................................................... 30
Don’t Take Too Long ............................................................................................................................... 31
Chapter 9..................................................................................................................................................... 33
Dealing with Rejection............................................................................................................................. 33
A Lesson I Learned ................................................................................................................................. 33
Chapter 10................................................................................................................................................... 36
Some Final Thoughts .............................................................................................................................. 36
Attraction Man
Introduction
good info, the truth is that not many of them present the
knowledge in a simple and easy way for men to understand.
Rather than making it simple and easy, they try to add so much
filler content. It drifts away from the truth.
Here is an example of how simple things work better. Remember
when Apple first released their IPOD MP3 player?
One of the major reasons why it was so successful was because
of its simplistic design. People do not want things to be
complicated.
Nature is not complicated.
Deep down simple things which are easy to understand, usually
work the best.
Steve Jobs understood this:
Simple things are more powerful.
They are more useful than a whole bunch of other things getting
in the way.
This is one of the reasons why this book is so powerful. I want to
give you an easy way to understand what actually makes a
woman attracted to you - at the root level.
As you apply the teachings in this book to your own life, keep
reminding yourself to stay focused in the “original” concept of
what this book is trying to teach you. Success will be guaranteed
if you can do that.
Chapter 1
Physical Appearance
The first thing you need to get in order is your physical looks. This
simply means to become the best version of you.
Nobody is perfect, and nobody is expecting you to be a male
supermodel. However, that should not be an excuse to not focus
on physical appearance.
Let me tell you the truth, physical looks do matter to a certain
point, and whoever is telling you it doesn’t is simply lying to you.
They matter in the sense that it makes it easier. It gives you a
head start. You don’t need to work as hard.
Everyone can maximize their physical appearance. It is not as
hard as people make it seem.
You can become better looking, so don’t make excuses.
If you really want to be successful with women, then you need to
look at it from all angles.
Here are 4 powerful ways that you can improve your looks and
become physically more attractive to women.
1. Get In Your Ideal Weight Range.
You would be surprised how this thing alone can make you more
successful with women.
When you get in your ideal weight for your frame, you look a lot
more attractive. You will look proportional, and clothes will look
much better on you.
One reason why male models look good is because they are in
their ideal weight range. This is a must. If they don’t they can’t
even be models. That is how effective this is.
This also makes their faces more symmetrical.
Go online and research your ideal weight for your height and
bone frame. Then make sure you diet, or gain weight to fit in that
range.
Don’t forget. Everyone falls into a different body frame (small,
medium, large).
Two different guys with the same height might be different frame
sizes. They could be the same weight and one of them will look
fatter than the other.
Get in your ideal weight for your height and frame.
2. Posture
The right posture is very important. Walk with your back straight
and shoulders slightly back.
Don’t walk with your feet so far away from each other.
Imagine a there is a straight line in front of you, and each step
that you take, both your feet should almost be touching the
imaginary line. Your feet will be close to each other.
Don’t be afraid to take up space wherever you are.
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Never feel shy or have body language that shows you are
intimidated.
And after gaining confidence this will happen anyway – you will
feel much more relaxed in social situations.
All this will happen naturally once you get full self confidence. This
is the goal of this book – to give you real self confidence from the
inside out.
But until then you will need to pay extra attention to yourself, so
you re-program your whole vibe.
There will come a time where you are so comfortable with all this
that it will be automatic. You will naturally respond and react to
the world with full confidence – you will respond like an alpha
male should.
Shaved heads usually look better than going bald. And if you are
in your ideal weight (like I was saying before) it can actually look
amazing.
Bald heads are not bad, they just look worse if you are
overweight, and don’t have style.
You can look great with a shaved head and a little tan. If you are
within your ideal body weight range and dress nice, you will be
considered good looking to most girls.
If you can’t find something then don’t buy it. Never buy a piece of
clothing if you don’t really think it fits nice on you.
Only by an item of clothing if it feels good and you are happy with
it.
Like the example I gave earlier – just because it looks good on
someone else, does not mean it will look good on you.
Everyone has a different persona, hair color, skin color, and vibe.
Find the right style for you, and keep it simple.
These are 4 very powerful ways to improve your looks. If you
improve in them you will stand from other guys.
Now that we got this out of the way, we can move into the
psychology of attraction in the coming chapters.
Chapter 2
A Woman’s Emotions
delicate things without any primal sexual needs. If only you knew
that even women don’t think this way themselves!
Chapter 3
Chapter 4
Psychological Domination
Remember when I told you that women are highly emotional and
psychological beings? This means that you need to cause
attraction through their emotions.
How do you do that?
You have to be very dominant psychologically. This will turn them
on and make them attracted to you. I will show you how to
accomplish this.
A major characteristic of psychological dominance is that tough
situations or uncomfortable situations can’t bother you.
You are so comfortable in your own skin that your inner world can
never be shaken. Some people refer to this as “maintaining
frame”.
Whatever you want to call it, it doesn’t matter. Simply remember
that:
Your threshold for uncomfortable things needs to be way
above a woman’s level.
This is what really makes her sexually attracted to you. I call this
Inner Freedom and here is an example to show you.
You may have heard the saying:
“Men need to approach women first”
Or
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The more Inner Freedom you have the easier it is to get women, it
is as simple as that.
The less Inner Freedom you have, the more they lose attraction
for you.
And this is not only about women, even other men respect men
who have more Inner Freedom than them (Inner Freedom and
leadership are closely tied together and I will explain this more
later)
You may have heard some men who are successful with women
say:
“It doesn’t even matter what I say anymore, I can pick up any
chick...”
And they are right. You see, the girl is not concerned so much
about the words that are coming out of your mouth. She is waiting
to sense your Inner Freedom, and once she can feel it is when
you can have her.
This is one of the reasons many “pick up artist” books can’t really
help guys. It fails to teach them what is really happening behind
the scenes to cause attraction.
No matter what lines you use, how you dress, what kind of car
you drive – if you don’t have more Inner Freedom than the girl,
she will never be really attracted to you.
And even if she sleeps with you by accident or it was just your
lucky day, she will feel like shit about it.
Anybody can get laid sometimes by just being in the right place at
the right time. But this is not what you want.
You want to know exactly why she had sex with you, and you
want to be consistent in your results. This is how you keep
building your confidence and becoming more and more
successful with women.
You show her that you are more dominant than her, and have the
balls to do whatever you want (approaching her is one example).
This is what psychological domination is at its core: doing
something she can’t do or not doing something she must.
Chapter 5
Women will lose attraction for you if you leave the decision
making up to them. They might sometimes make it seem like they
want to make decisions, but this is false! This is just a test, don’t
be fooled easily.
They are just testing you again to see how strong you are in
keeping your manly role. So remember this other secret right
here:
Women are always testing you to see if you can keep your
manly role (even if they don’t realize it)...
And as long as you keep passing the “tests”, she will keep her
legs open for you. It really is as simple as that.
The opposite is true as well, the more tests you start to fail, her
legs will start to close for you.
The test starts as soon as she becomes aware of your existence,
and it never ends until you start to fail the tests and she loses all
attraction for you and interaction or relationship is over.
The problem is that most men don’t even know they are being
tested and they fail very fast. They fail so fast that there isn’t even
a chance for attraction to begin.
Here are some more examples of guys losing tests right from the
beginning:
She was looking at you, and wanted you to come and talk to her,
but you didn’t....fail
You were too scared to keep eye contact with her...fail.
She was joking (teasing you) with you, and you took it
seriously...fail
She said something stupid (and knows it), but you didn’t say
anything about it. You didn’t have any standards for yourself...fail
again.
You gave up too easy....fail
There are so much more examples. If you think back to your
interactions with women maybe you will discover them for
yourself.
What do all these things prove?
That your threshold for uncomfortable things is lower than hers.
Remember, that women are attracted to guys who have a high
threshold for “uncomfortable” things. They like guys with Inner
Freedom.
So as long as you can understand this one concept you will be
successful with women. Yes, it is that simple. Attraction is not
complicated. You just need to know what actually causes it.
Even if you think you are not being tested, automatically suppose
that you are. This will guarantee that you are always in your
manly role and being a leader. Because remember, even women
don’t always consciously know that they are testing you. It is a
natural thing they do to see which guys have more Inner Freedom
than them. They need to find out if the man they are talking to is
really a strong alpha man, or weaker beta male (a man that is
even lower than her).
And let me say this now, even your mother or sisters and even
your grandmother will test you. Every woman will test you. Even if
they don’t know it, they are testing you. This is just the natural
way of a women and a man.
Women want to see if you are a leader, so you have to show
them.
Become a man, and become a leader now. You will see for
yourself how much life will open up to you.
Remember this right here: As a man, this world is testing you
every moment to see if you are really a strong man (leader), or a
weak one (can’t be leader). The choice is up to you. If you show
the world (women) that you are strong, the world (women) will
open up to you and give you what you want.
Chapter 6
These are also known as Shit Tests, but I just call them tests. It
doesn’t matter what you call them because the purpose of it is the
same:
She wants to test for 3 things:
1. Your Inner Freedom
3. How Manly Are You
3. Are You A Leader?
And if you understand by now, all these things really mean the
same thing. She is testing you to see how strong you are and if
she can like you.
Here are some examples:
She makes fun of you or is rude to you. Remember that she is
doing this only to test you. She doesn’t really hate you, she only
hates that you are a weak man.
She wants to see if you get emotional about this or if this shakes
your Inner Freedom If even for 1 second she senses that you got
affected by her, she will lose attraction for you.
Make sure that you remain calm, never get into argument with
her.
Some good ways to pass this test is to laugh, ignore her, or start
talking about something else. Basically keep doing what you are
doing. Never ever become sad or emotional because of her
testing you.
The main point to pass shit tests is to always react in a way that
shows you are stronger than her (mentally).
For example, she tells a joke about you or makes fun of you, you
laugh too and agree its funny, then say something about her.
Nothing can contain you. Nothing can trap you. Nothing can make
you feel low.
One of easiest way to pass shit test is to simply me a “mirror”.
Whatever she does to you, you can agree, and do it better than
her.
Eventually she will see your strength and Inner Freedom and she
will be attracted to you.
Once you understand these key concepts you will naturally know
how to interact with women and pass ALL their tests.
You only need one weapon to pass these tests. And that weapon
is having more Inner Freedom than anyone else.
The absolute worst thing you can do is to tell her “I don’t know,
what do you think”?
Don’t ever throw the decision back on her.
It will make her lose attraction for you. You make a decision and
she can follow you. This will make her look at you in a better way.
Now, here is the tricky part. Sometimes even after the first test,
she will test you again to make sure you are really a leader.
So here is an example:
Her: Should we leave the party now?
You: “Yeah it’s getting boring here now, let’s go”
Her (re-test): “are you sure?”
You: “Yeah, I’m getting hungry, let’s go eat”
Can you see how in that example the guy took full control, and
finished the test.
Chapter 7
Chapter 8
Polarizing Women
This chapter is very powerful. This thing you learn here alone will
make you so much more successful with women. So what does
polarize mean here? It means that from the start of meeting a
woman, you make it obvious that you are interested in her. From
there she will either like you or not.
You have to make it known to her that you are a leader and willing
to risk it in order to find out how receptive she is of you. Never
stay in the middle with a woman, especially at the start. She
needs to know where you stand with her. You either lose her, or
you keep the interaction going.
This doesn’t mean that you walk up to a woman and tell her you
want to have sex with her – Although even that is better than
being a nice guy. It doesn’t mean that you stare at her like a creep
for 5 minutes.
What it means is that you show or “hint” from the beginning that
you want her sexually, without actually saying it.
Automatically this will make you stand out from most other guys
because usually guys hide their true intentions with women. They
end up staying in the “friend zone” with them, and the woman
never feels attracted to the man.
Chapter 9
Chapter 10