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The effects of divorce vary in different family situations such as different age, family
size, different temperament.
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● Emotionally sensitive
● Feelings of anger and irritability
● Feelings of guilt
● Loss in faith of marriages
● More likely to be risk takers
-Attend parent education programs -Seek professional help for yourself or children
Reactions: Infants
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Reactions: Toddlers
Similar reaction to younger children:
Reaction: Preschoolers
Regression to earlier forms of behaviour:
● Crying
● Clinging
● Separation anxiety
● Bed wetting
● Needing soother bottle or blanket again
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKcNyfXbQzQ
● The percentage of families going through divorce with children under the age of 18: 38%
(in 2011).
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● The Big Brother Big Sister program (for children ages 6-years-old to 13-years-old).
○ The BBBs program is a great way to create a ‘constant’ with children whose
parents are going through divorce.
● Divorce Counselling for children
○ Divorce counselling can be extremely beneficial to children as it can help them
talk, draw, and play through their feelings, by doing this the counselors can help
children process their feelings and be able to understand.
● Sports & Clubs
○ Though sports and club’s aren’t the first things we think of when we hear about
supports for children during divorce, they’re a great way for children to blow off
steam, energy, and anger that they may feel from the divorce.
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1. Be aware that the child-care center may be the most constant factor in the
child’s life. Maintain consistency in early childhood educator, settings,
expectations, and routine as much as possible.
2. Listen to the child. Be non-judgmental and help the child to express feelings
and questions openly.
3. Share developmentally appropriate information about divorce with the child.
4. Provide the child with opportunities and play experiences for self-expression
(ex. Play dough, art, physical activity, dramatic play or place to be alone)
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Reminders:
1. There are two sides to every story
2. Never take sides
3. When appropriate, provide information to parents that may help them
support the child (parenting plan, child’s friend and activities)
4. Provide list of resources for helping children cope with divorce and
custody arrangements
5. Examine own beliefs and how these beliefs translate into interactions
with children and families
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- Sing songs that talk about emotions, example: “If you’re happy and you know
it.”
- Team game, write emotions on paper and collect in a hat. On team will act out
emotions and the other team guesses.
SOCIAL
- children will create their own puppet, Have fun acting with puppets behind
a table, chair, or in a cardboard box puppet theatre. This activity will help children
practice taking turns and showing empathy
Dramatic/Pretend Play
-Let children take the lead and join in when they ask. This teaches children
empathy, being in other’s shoes and a chance to model positive relationship.
http://www.birthandbabies.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/AHS-Building-Blocks-
for-Resilience-2-to-4-Years-2019.pdf
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for-Resilience-Birth-to-2-Years-2019.pdf
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_Wvo17EOiA
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