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Chapter 14: Reducing Interpersonal Stress 287
You’re asked to donate money to a charity that you feel has merit, but you
have decided that it’s not one that you want to add to your give-to list. The
fund-raiser is well-meaning but persistent. Using the broken record approach
seems a little harsh. You opt for fogging:
Though it may sound much like the broken record strategy, it is a softer
interaction. You are actively listening to the other person, paraphrasing or
feeding back some of what he is saying. You appreciate his point of view, and
you may in fact be quite sympathetic, but you still want to stick to your guns.
It’s the perfect technique when you’re solicited for donations, membership
on committees, volunteer positions, or reasonable favors that you want to
decline.
Stay calm
When you’re seething and little puffs of smoke are coming out of your ears,
the chances of effectively reacting to a difficult situation are not the best.
Your first strategy should be to get yourself into a more composed, relaxed
state. By relaxing your body at the first hint of conflict, you give yourself the
best chance of responding well in a difficult situation. Some simple breath-
ing exercises (see Chapter 4) should do the trick. I like using some Rapid
Relaxation exercises in these situations. The following is what you can do to
stay calm:
Inhale deeply through your nostrils, and at the same time press together
your thumb and forefinger on one hand. Hold that breath for four or
five seconds and then exhale fully through your slightly parted lips. As
you’re exhaling, let go of the tension in your hand and let a wave of sooth-
ing relaxation spread from the top of your head to the tip of your toes.
Repeat one or two times until your body feels more relaxed.