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THE IRONY OF LOVE I

One of the tiny ironies of love is that it is mostly not tangible and substantial, although its powers
can work out many tangible and substantial things. Still, because it is mostly not tangible and
substantial, that is why it cannot be trusted even beyond its testedness. The above is the reason
why such acts have failed on its own and even failed a lot of people who had so much trusted and
depended on it and would fail as many as that would rely on it.

THE TRAGEDY OF LOVE

Just like the irony of love and any intangible thing, there is nothing as tragedic as such things,
something you can hold is a substance in trust on hold is a substance, little wonder insanity,
heartbreak, misery and long ranging confusion has resulted from the tragedy of such acts called
love beyond the moment any severe upset and frustration it easily lands many into. The tragedy
of intangible things is often inevitable but most disastrous to those who are lost in it and takes
little or no caution to their lives and safety.

Love is a wide ocean swum by many with little or no caution which turns out deadly when we
sink.

THE IRONY OF LOVE II

Like a rat race which often hardly ends in a deadlock so also is the quest and pursuit for love in
life in that oftentimes the right people are mindfully chasing after the wrong people while the
wrong people chase wither after the wrong or wrongest people, while hardly do the right person
meet the right person without tragedy. It has been like a real life rat race where contentment is
hardly reached at once without over turn in that good people easily love and are willing to die for
the wrong people while the wrong people are either easily fortunate to end and wreck the good
people or are wrecked by the wrongest of their class ever. It has been like a rebellious war of
nemesis in which everyone has a take of the flesh of pain.

BUT WHO GETS IT RIGHT IN LOVE?

The race and quest for and of love in life are constant and inevitable. It is like the breath of life
that hardly breaks or ends, which is why its casualty has been like the deadly traffic that never
fails to Jam. It even jams faster and in chains constantly than the automobile, but like cautions
couls be taken to prevent such.

Patience, understanding, comparison and justification is what the right endpoint of true, perfect
and ideal love demands over time yes, over time I said because there is nothing like either ideal
love or heavenly love amongst humans that a non-perfect and ideal love can be made seemingly
one over time. Yes, without patience, deception into perpetual regret is inevitable in the decisive
choice of love, while with no good inner of experience perfect understanding may not be drawn
or justified. Comparison is vital to the good decisions into our choices and desired while
justification by experience helps us in making the right choice with little or no regret in life.
THE BLIND LOVE & ITS CONSEQUENCES

Many times it has been said that love is blind. Still, while many have little or no understanding of
it, …….. had wanted to ask how but while they are carried away by its euphoria, they only ended
up in the tragedy of its experience even yet to know now.

We must know that there are two most powerful deadly forces of convictions in life and they are:
the divine inputted conviction in a man and the strong conviction of love. Yes, they are two most
powerfully conflicting to each other in that the power of love convinces a man up to what the
power of God could convince a man even to the point of a man giving his life – what a great
power and force.

Love and its power is the only force which can take a man’s conviction against his confusion so
much that even when he is dying, he feels a sense of loss and regret looking at his wife against a
great future and destiny. Every true and powerful sense of love has such force which is most
confounded with jealousy whether good, bad, hopeful or hopeless kind of love.

I think that it takes extra grace of God to change a man from his very choice of love which is
against the will of God to the original will of God after the passionate choice of a man’s love.
Little wonder Samson had to die for Delilah. Such is like telling a man to kill his choice of
passion and start developing a passion against his choice of joy, passion and will.

The vital question should be on why a person should be asked to give up on his choiceful passion
of love, the consequences of such and how one can make a better life beyond the unforeseen?
Well, it could be said that divinity sees ahead of the days of men and could possibly see and
know what could befall a person even the best of the compatible and/or incompatible, fortunes
for destiny which different people carries. The consequences of misappropriate and incompatible
fortunes and misfortunes for destiny has always resulted in the dooms of misfortune, lack of
breakthrough and even anti-progressive challenges, heartbreaks, disappointments of expectations
and misfortunes.

The above are the circle of doom which inseparable individual in such love suffers. Such is the
cross of consequences which are mostly binding on such mistaken choices by nature.

There is no doubt that love is one of the strongest basic necessities after food and water which
has made it so memorable that a person can easily forgive he or she who denies him or her food
or water but hardly can forget to forgive who hates him or denies him or her love. Such is the
supernatural power of love. Still, such powers are so tragedic that lack of the knowledge of how
to handle rejections has always left many depressed. There are many reasons why people
strongly make choices and reject the choices of love of which one of such strong reasons are tied
to destiny because some and most of the choices of people and things we make in life mostly
ends to form what becomes of us in life for or as destiny, especially with people. Little wonder,
many people are as care in choice-making of who to love and move along with in life, as to the
food they eat, even rejecting people so sharp and harshly like a poison which could either make
or mar their precious expected destiny.

Yes, people have been take in the capacity which they are as the potential f the structures of our
destiny all because every person possesses fortunes and misfortunes which manifest in life as the
structure of human destiny either individually or blending with people.

WHAT TO UNDERSTAND IN CHOICES OF LOVE FOR A DESTINY

We must understand beyond the pains of our rejections for love over our hopefully expected
destiny with anyone that each life carries equal fortunes and misfortunes which most result to a
definite tale of one’s sum of living after choices as destiny. Each life both to the loved and
rejected have equal capacity for the outcome of a destiny and whether we choose or reject. It
mostly does not choose the outcome of what we have been destined to be in the potential of
fortunes and misfortunes which we carry.

KNOWING THE WISE WAY OF LIFE IV

It is of wisdom is known that no one is more important in life than the other as far as life is a
personal thing and destiny also a personal world because we are equal in all potential and
important in all equality that no one and his fortune could make or mar another man’s destiny.

The above is the therapy to reject …….. that he who either accepts or rejects you is in no way
better or greater than you, while the outcome of your acceptance and union in partnership or
rejection are equal and opposite to the outcome of your lives which becomes your destiny.

While growing up, I had witnessed many acceptances expected to turn to greater life of destiny
which never did or lasted, while some rejections had suffered early hopelessness but finally
made it to greater unexpected destiny.

…………. Had rejected an offer of his girl who everything could attest to their natural love for
destiny all because he had claimed she was unsubmissive. And thereafter he headed for another
elegant lady in whom he had claimed to have got all he needed: beauty, elegance and humility.
But unfortunately, while his hope ended so quick his ex rejected love had got her way with many
days. The above may have sounded of nemesis and judgemental choices turned destiny, leaving
us with a question if we all will never die someday? Definitely we shall all die but dying out of
rejection before one’s time is seemingly a choice made in foolishness.

The choice of love and who to love is a choice made in and for destiny, while it is of wisdom to
know that whether rejected or accepted in life, it has little or nothing to change of what becomes
our destiny.
THE BOTTOM LINE V

The bottom line is that there is no choice made in life amongst people in comparison to others is
worth frustrating us to end our lives before our time because our destiny has little or nothing to
do with who accepted or rejected us in life, going by the fact that each life carries equal fortunes
and misfortunes to give birth to a potential destiny. The choices of people are more or less
insubstantial to what we make out of life in between the equal time of life we share. It means that
with or without the people what we individually choose to make out of life and the way we go
about them with or without people is what majorly determines what we make out of life.

THE NUMBER ONE PRINCIPLE IN LIFE

Self-determination is one undefeatable principle in life and life’s affairs without people. Yes,
whether solitude or ……. socialism cum relationship of life, we must know that each comes with
its tragedic challenges and misfortunes, often in testing challenge of who we are and more of
what we have with which to make out the best of life beyond people. People can disappoint us in
between times that we had expected working alone, while we may often be challenged not to
beat a given imagination while working alone without people. But in between the above two
dilemmas is the need and play of what we can make out of life on our own. Yes, we can achieve
a lot with people and their support but we can achieve the bedrock of confidence with which to
beat the challenge of life, with or without people.

Such confidence is the ultimate virtue to be upheld and sustain across the influences of people
and the confronting challenges of life. Self confidence is inevitable to individual success and
victory in and across the challenges of life. Such saves us in times of the depressing times of
rejection and helps us build the unbeatable confidence at all time of challenge both across time,
people, circumstance, conditions, situations and necessities.

RELATIONSHIP

Although man is a highly solitude achiever but a social being by act and nature that makes
relationship inevitable is the best ways of a man’s life.

Relationship is the relativity…

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