A marriage Prayer

Dear most caring, loving and understanding God, You are already aware of all my marriage
problems, worries and pain I am about to take to You in prayer right at this blessed moment.
Father God, I have tried my best and have done all that I could possibly do to try to resolve all
the issues that have led to this present status of my marriage.
At this point, there is nothing else I can do, so I surrender everything to You! I sincerely plead
for your divine intervention! Please take matters in your hands, and do what You have to do
to fix my marriage.
Forgive me for the things I have done or unconsciously done that have contributed to this present
state of my marriage. If there is anything I should have done at any point and have not done, or
should have been doing and haven't been doing, God please forgive me.
Father I know that I am far from being perfect, for this reason, I must admit that I am not
blameless. Talk to me, show me what I have to do. Give me the wisdom, knowledge and
understanding I need to play my part, day by day.
Touch the heart of my partner, and open up his/her eyes dear Lord. Talk to him/her in a special
way so that he/she may obey and be willing to meet me halfway. You know what exactly have
changed the once loving, caring and understanding person I have initially married.
The person I stood beside in your Sanctuary in holy matrimony and make my vows to remain
with for richer or poorer, and through sickness. The person I have pledged to remain with until
death.
Father God, I believe in You and so I trust in You to take care of all my marriage problems.
There is no favor too big to ask of You. I know that all I have to do when I pray, is to surrender
everything to You and just have the faith to believe You are going to help me save my marriage.
I know it has to be done your way and at a time chosen only by You -- so choose your own time
and have it your own way great, merciful Jesus. Thank You God. Amen!

Miracle Marriage Prayer To Stop Divorce

Heavenly Father,

Please renew, restore, and bring a miracle of reconciliation

to my marriage. Remove all the anger, hate, resentment,
complications and thoughts of divorce from my husband’s
mind about me. Instead soften his heart and feel it with
the love he once felt for me. Lord reveal to my husband his
sins and block all others or paths that are leading him away
from me. I know you do not believe in divorce and you do
not make mistakes on who you choose for us to marry. I
ask for my husband’s salvation, that he realize I am not the
 enemy but his wife who God selected as his mate and loves
him with all my heart. Teach my husband and I both how
to respect, appreciate, listen to each other and realize one
another’s worth in our marriage. Lord guide my husband to
you, our marriage, church, and surround him with Christian
men. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

My husband filed for divorce

My husband filed for divorce because he had another woman. I then prayed many
rosaries daily. One the Second Luminous Mystery THE WEDDING OF CANA, I asked
Jesus to heal my marriage and others marriage.

I went to the Catholic church, where we got married, sat there, and cry. I told God
that I’m so sorry I could not keep my marriage vows. Please give me a sign if He does
not want me to sign the divorce paper. I say one rosary and left the church.

After I left the church, my sister n law called me and asked me not to sign the divorce
paper. She assured me that my husband will leave the other woman and come back
to the family.

We have been back for more than four years now. We did seek Catholic priest for
marriage counseling. He is now going to church daily, confession, and doing rosary
daily.
Dear Lord, please soften my husband’s heart and enkindle back the love he once felt
for me. May he learn to forgive me and realize his own mistakes and to know how
much i love him.

In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I stand with Jesus as my side, angels with me
prepared to move upon my prayer and with the blessing and love of my Father,
Jehovah God.

The authority given to me in Luke 9:1-2 I declare the enemy, the devil and all demons
all their works and effects are hereby silenced. They have no authority now to lie to me
or any of my family members about divorce. I cancel any and all agreements that
believing their lies may have allowed influence in my life or my family’s lives.
Today, I declare the demonic must leave my home, my children and my marriage and
go directly into the pit and be bound there forever. I cancel all generational curses of
my ancestors that may have allow divorce to enter into my family line. I draw a line in
the sand now and today. From this day forward our family line, the House of
_____________(Donovan & Goodwill) is free from any evil influence, lies or past agreements
with the enemy about divorce. I slam shut any doors that were open to let evil to speak
lies to me or have any bearing or influence upon me or my family.

In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I command all evil must depart from my home, my
children and my husband and must immediately go into the pit. In the name of the Lord
Jesus Christ, there will be no replacement of evil in our lives now and forever.

And now Lord, I fill those spaces where evil tried to harm, I fill those places with your
love. I release your Holy Spirit now to come into the hearts of our home, fill every living
area with Your Presence. Open the portals of heaven and let the peace of Jesus pervade
our hearts, souls and minds. Give us joy and flood every part of our home and being
with Your love. Fill our home to be an overflowing fountain of living water. Let our
home be a safe place for anyone and everyone who crosses the threshold. Let me stand
as your son/daughter to be the person where the enemy was defeated and a new
history was determined in our family line from this day forward.

Thank you Lord. Thank you that when we pray that the demons must obey. Thank you
we have that kind of power and authority because Jesus, You died and then rose to
victory. We claim that victory over divorce for ourselves, our children and our
children’s children to a thousand generations in accordance with Your Holy Word.

Today we now celebrate as a mighty move of God has begun and we can’t wait to see
the lives and marriages you save, just because we asked. You love us that much.

We adore you. Let our worship destroy the enemy. Let our love shine as bright as the
noon day sun to our family and our neighbors. In the Most Powerful Name Above All
Names….

JESUS, AMEN!

Miracle prayer to stop divorce and restore marriage

prayer for marriage restoration

1. Lord, my wife/husband wants a divorce, I desire to save this marriage. I put this into your
hands. Intervene oh Lord!
2. Show me the error of my ways, that I may be the wife/husband that you created me to
be. Ephesians 5:25
 3. Soften my wife’s heart, oh God. That she may see your will.
4. We stand against any voices of detractors that may be plotting against our marriage in the
shadows. May the mouth of my enemies be shut.
5. Lord I ask that you would mediate between us. Where my words are not enough, where
my actions are not enough, do what only you can.
6. Father by faith, I declare that it is well with my marriage! It will live on, in Jesus’ name.

A Prayer for a Marriage Miracle

"Dear God, so much has happened (for better and for worse) since I've gotten married.
Thank you for always being present with my spouse and me through everything. We
need you, the source of all love, to help us fix the damage to our relationship that has
been caused by [mention the specific issues here].

Our marriage needs a miracle right now. I feel hurt and frustrated by what's happened,
and I confess that sometimes I doubt that our marriage can really be repaired. Please
send me and my spouse a fresh dose of hope to help us believe that our marriage can
improve. Open our hearts to you, each other, and your holy angels, so that we can fully
receive the blessings you want to send us.

Guide us step by step to help us learn how to change our attitudes and actions with
each other so that our relationship becomes stronger. Empower us through your
Spirit to forgive each other for our mistakes and to choose each new day to treat each
other with love, respect, and kindness.

Rekindle the spark of romantic attraction between us and keep the fire of our sexual
relationship burning brightly for each other (and no one else). Inspire us with fresh ideas
to express our love for each other sexually in ways that fulfill both of us. Empower us
to avoid temptations to sin in ways that can damage our sexual relationship with each
other (such as indulging in pornography or affairs). Help us focus on each other and
maintain a passionate relationship within our marriage.

Give us the wisdom we need to communicate clearly with each other and better
understand each other. Help us consistently invest time and energy into our marriage—
despite other demands like work and parenting—so that our emotional connection won't
be neglected. Surround us with caring and trustworthy people who will encourage and
support us as we work to build a better marriage. Help us both to stay focused on you
as our top priority each day. Lead us in the same direction together: closer to you.

I believe that you can choose to do anything to improve our marriage if both of us are
willing to cooperate with your work. Thank you for answering my prayer; I trust in your
complete and unconditional love for both of us and look forward to whatever miracles
you may bring into our marriage."
 How to Work with Mother Mary and Angels to Heal Relationships
Virgin Mary, Queen of Angels, Has a Mother's Heart of Love
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byWhitney Hopler
Updated April 28, 2019

There's nothing like a mother's love and guidance to heal broken relationships. The
Virgin Mary, often called Mother Mary because of her role in faiths
like Christianity and Islam as a spiritual mother to humanity, is a powerful resource to
call on when you're trying to restore estranged relationships. As Queen of Angels, Mary
can also direct angels to help you. Here's how to work with Mary and her angelic
assistants to heal relationships:

Pray about Each Broken Relationship in Your Life

Mary's main message in her many miraculous apparitions worldwide is that prayer is
important. She urges people to pray as often as they can and emphasizes the
real power that prayer has to make miracles happen.

What relationships need to be healed in your life right now?

Did you have a disagreement with a sibling who is no longer speaking to you? Has your
spouse betrayed your trust through an affair? Is one of your children not listening to
your guidance because of anger? Has a friend failed to be there for you during a crisis?

Pour out your thoughts and feelings about each of those relationships specifically in
prayer. Talk to Mary just as you would talk to a mother who listens gently and cares
intensely, since Mary is a mother for you and everyone else involved in your
relationships.

Ask Mary to Guide the Guardian Angels of Everyone Involved

One especially powerful way to clear up misunderstandings and resolve conflicts
between different people is to have their guardian angels talk about it together. Mary is
a great angelic leader who regularly guides vast amounts of angels during their
missions on earth. If you ask Mary to advise the guardian angels assigned to each
person in your relationships -- your own guardian angel, plus those who care for the
other people you're trying to relate to better -- she will direct their conversations and
coordinate spiritual efforts for healing.

Since guardian angels often help people by changing their thoughts from negative ones
to positive ones, they can take the wisdom they gain from communicating with Mary and
each other and deliver it in messages to people's minds. The guardian angels of all
involved can send steady streams of positive messages, helping you and the other
people see each other as God does: as people worthy of love and respect. The angels,
under Mary's direction, can also give you all God's perspective on the circumstances
that led your relationships to break down. They can suggest new ideas for solving the
problems between you.

Do Your Part to Follow the Guidance You've Received

Stay in touch regularly with Mary and the angels through prayer or meditation, carefully
listening to the messages you perceive. Pay attention to the inspiring messages in your
dreams, as well, because Mary or the angels may communicate through your dreams.
Ask for clarification about any information you receive that you don't understand. Then
commit to taking action on whatever you sense Mary and her angelic messengers
leading you to do.

While you can't control what other people say or do in response to the way Mary and
the angels have communicated with them, you can act on guidance yourself. You have
the power to improve any situation even if you're the only one changing, because the
changes you make transform the dynamic of every relationship of yours. At the very
least, you'll be able to experience more peace about a broken relationship and move on.
But if others change, too, you all can experience reconciliation and grow closer.

The first challenge Mary and the angels will likely urge you take is forgiving each
other for the hurts and offenses that came between you. Forgiveness is an essential
step for all of you to take to be able to successfully move closer in the relationship. Even
though it can feel difficult and even impossible to forgive when you're dealing with
wounded emotions, God will always empower you to so when you pray for help. Mary
and the angels she leads can accompany you step by step as you go through the
forgiveness process, as well.

Next steps for healing a broken relationship will depend on what needs to be done to
solve problems, set healthy boundaries, and rebuild trust between you all. The good
news is that Mary and the angels will be there for you constantly, ready to help with
whatever you need along the way. Just like a loving human mother, Mary will continue
to guide and encourage you whenever you contact her. But as your spiritual mother,
Mary will also send angels on missions of love for you and your family and friends.
A Prayer to Chamuel
Archangel Chamuel, angel of peaceful relationships, I thank God for making you such a
powerful source of help for me in my relationships with God and other people.

Please teach me how to be at peace with myself, with God, and with others. Help me to
see myself as God sees me, so I can enjoy the confidence of knowing that I'm one of
God's beloved children who has been given a good and important purpose in life. Help
me to see every other person with whom I have a relationship, from my family and
friends to my coworkers and neighbors, as God's wonderful creations, just like me.
Remind me that all people are God's wonderful creations, just like me. Remind me that
all people (even difficult people) are worthy of respect and love.

Help me experience more of God's great, unconditional love and then pass that
wonderful blessing along by serving as a channel for God's love to flow through my life
into other people's lives. Open my heart to giving and receiving love freely.

Guide me as I try to resolve conflicts with other people. Show me what mistakes I've
made that have contributed to disharmony in my relationships, and reveal what steps I
can take to repair the damage that my mistakes have caused. Give me the compassion
I need for others who have also made mistakes so I can heal from anger toward them
and be motivated to work together with them to find solutions for the problems that have
come between us.

Deliver the strength I need to forgive people who have hurt or offended me and to
apologize to people whom I have hurt or offended. Give me the wisdom I need to set
appropriate boundaries to guard my heart moving forward. If it's possible to reconcile
with someone I've had a broken relationship with, guide us both to navigate the steps to
reconciliation well.

Send me the courage I need to take the risks necessary to build meaningful
connections with others. Remind me that even though I can't always trust others, I can
always trust God, and God wants me to keep my heart open to the love he wants me to
experience every day. Don't let me close my heart off from what's best for me because
I've been hurt in the past. Encourage me to trust God in fresh ways every day, and rely
on God, the source of all true love, to keep my heart open.

Help me find and nurture healthy romantic love. Purify my thoughts and feelings so I
can make pure choices in my romantic life. If I want to get married, help me discover a
husband or wife who's a good match for me and develop a healthy, holy, and happy
marriage. May my beloved and I use our love for the greater good, creating a wonderful
legacy of love that makes the world a better place because of our relationship.

Inspire and empower me to love everyone who I'm close to wholeheartedly, without
holding anything back. Encourage me regularly to make my relationships with them a
high priority in my life. Whenever they need my time and attention, help me to sacrifice
lesser pursuits so I can be there for them.

May I enjoy peaceful relationships, with your help, every day that God gives me from
now on. Amen.

7. Praising God and praying His will for your spouse is guaranteed to be your most
rewarding work as his wife. With these five powerful prayers, you will be arming
your marriage with God’s Word and investing in his role as your spiritual leader.

8. Satisfaction in God Alone

9. I praise You, the God of all wisdom for husbands. Thank You, God, for knowing the
longings of my husband’s heart far better than I do. You know why he hungers for
______ and ______. You know how these yearnings affect his decisions and how
those decisions affect our marriage.
10. You are the God who satisfies the longing soul. You fill the hungry soul with good
things. Here is _____’s heart and soul, Lord. I lift him up to You and ask You to fill
him with the good You know He needs (Psalm 107:9; Matthew 6:8).
11. The world offers _____ so many things to temporarily satisfy his needs. Temptations
abound, but You are his shield and his defender. Please train him to resist the devil
(Psalm 28:7; Psalm 59:9; James 4:7).
12. I celebrate that You triumph over every one of Satan’s schemes and the scars he has
left on my husband’s heart. You are Jehovah Rapha, _____’s Healer. You are the
restorer of his soul. Let the balm of Your perfect love and mercy touch the brokenness
of his heart (Genesis 50:20; Exodus 15:26; Psalm 23:3; Jeremiah 17:14).
13. You joined Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego in the fiery furnace, and when they
came out unharmed, they didn’t even smell like smoke. Use their courage to inspire
____ to fear You only. I trust You to give him rest and satisfaction while protecting
him from harm (Daniel 3:8–30; Proverbs 19:23).

14. A Man of Your Word

15. Father, Your Word amazes me. The world is looking for the next “perfect” solution to
their problems, and You are always offering it through Your Word. You sent Your
Word to deliver, nourish, and counsel us. My heart’s desire is for ______ to feast on
Your Word and find It immensely satisfying (Psalm 107:20; Proverbs 3:8; Psalm
119:24; 103).
16. With Your Word as His source of wisdom, I will rest secure in his leadership of our
home. I trust Your Word to fill ____ with the insight he will need for our relationship,
his work, and so much more (Ephesians 1:8,17; James 1:5).
17. Your Word will unite his heart to Yours. His oneness with You will lead his pursuit
of oneness with me. Your ways will become His ways. Your faithfulness to me will
become His faithfulness to me (1 Corinthians 6:17; Mark 10:8; Galatians 5:23).
18. Send him an abundance of confidants whose faith in You is bold and courageous. Let
them be men who do not lean on their own understanding, but always acknowledge
You and Your Word (Psalm 119:63; Proverbs 28:1; 3:5–6).

19. Humility: The Courage to Admit His Need of God

20. Thank You, Father for the gift of Jesus and His perfect example of humility. Jesus
displayed His love for us with great humility and submissiveness to You. He denied
Himself the comforts of heaven to save us. He chose to experience temptations,
mockery, rejection, and even death. He rated our needs higher than His own.
21. You require _______ to love me as Christ loved the church. With great love for ____,
I’m asking You to empower him to do this (Ephesians 5:25).
22. You know the pressure _____ feels to be successful and strong. You know how he is
influenced to be self-reliant. You understand his fears and insecurities. He is simply
human and at risk of denying his need for You, God. I do not want to see him destroy
his life or our marriage because of pride (Proverbs 18:12).
23. I bring ____ to You, the river of life, and ask You to anoint him with a supernatural
portion of Christ’s humility. With it he will be a ready recipient of Your grace. He
will be free to boast about his weaknesses to You and wait for You to satisfy his
needs with Your strength (Psalm 36:8; James 4:6; 2 Corinthians 11:30, 12:9–10).
24. You’ve promised that humility is rewarded with riches, honor, and life. Those are
gifts I want for my husband, Lord. Help him to let go of any pride and false humility
so that he can enjoy the abundant life Jesus died to give him (Proverbs 22:4; John
10:10).

25. Your Praise on His Lips

26. There is no one who compares to You, Lord. You are worthy of our spellbound
attention (1 Samuel 2:2; Psalm 16:8).
27. Give ______ eyes to see that You deserve the highest praise. Let him personally
experience Your grandeur and strength. Let him live with great conviction that Jesus
has authority over all things on earth and in the spiritual realm (Psalm
145:3; Ephesians 1:22).
28. You inhabit the praises of Your people, and I want ____ to enjoy the comfort and
power of Your presence every moment. So, Father, please grant him an irrevocable
gift of praising You. Let Your Spirit continually offer up a sacrifice of praise through
_____ so that his lips always acknowledge Your name (Psalm 22:3; Philippians
2:10; Hebrews 13:15)
 29. Teach him to praise You in his lowest moments. Train him to exalt Your name during
the trials and before the victories. Let his faith in You lead him courageously into our
own promised land despite the ominous giants of fear and doubt. Use the psalmists to
mentor him in lifting His head to praise Your faithfulness despite his present burdens
(1 Corinthians 15:57; 2 Chronicles 20; Numbers 13–14; Psalm 43:5).

30. Transform His Wife

31. You have promised _____ that a wife is a good gift from you. I want to be an
excellent wife to my husband, one who consistently brings him honor (Proverbs
18:22, 12:4).
32. You know every one of my weaknesses and how they are impacting my role as
____’s helpmate. Lead me, Lord, to recognize the ungodliness hiding in my will, my
expectations, and how I express my emotions. I want to surrender them to You for
healing. Show me where I am investing my attention in things that will deteriorate my
relationship with _____ (2 Corinthians 12:9–10; Luke 12:2; 2 Corinthians
4:18; Ephesians 1:8,17).
33. Let the power of Your Word transform my motives. Coach me relentlessly to be a
wife who respects her husband in word and deed. Cause Your tenderness, gentleness,
kindness, and humility to become my own (Romans 12:2; Ephesians 5:22–
24; Colossians 3:12).
34. I want to be a content wife who does not harass my husband with quarrels and
fretfulness. Please use me to create a peaceful home for him. Use me to encourage
him, bear his burdens, and reflect Your extravagant love for him (Hebrews
13:5; Philippians 4:11–12; 2 Thessalonians 3:16; 1 Thessalonians 5:11; Galatians
6:2; Ephesians 3:18–19).
35. May our souls feast on only on You (Psalm 63:5).
36. I pray these things with complete confidence in Jesus and Your Spirit at work in our
marriage. Amen.

Spiritual Warfare and How to Pray for Your Husband

The following list is designed to pray one request per day, thus enabling you to pray through it each
month. Pray…
1. That he would totally submit himself to the Lordship of Jesus Christ.
2. That he would love the Lord with all of his heart, soul, and strength.

3. That he would be a man of wisdom, viewing himself, me as his wife, our children, others,
and circumstances the way God does.
4. That he would grow in brokenness of spirit and humility, longing for God to reveal areas of needed
growth.

5. That his heart would hunger and thirst for a closer, intimate relationship with God.
6. That he would understand that though he is a husband and father, he is a man under authority,
respecting his authorities, as he desires his family to honour him.
7. That he would give first priority to spending time with the Lord every day in Bible reading,
mediation, and prayer, and that it would be a source of encouragement and strength to him.
8. That he would realise his position of victory and power in Jesus Christ, casting down imaginations,
and bringing every thought into captivity.

9. That he would experience God’s perfect sacrificial love for him and because of that
knowledge, love and cherish me, his wife, so that our marriage would clearly typify Christ’s
love for the Church.
10. That he would be committed to and experience moral freedom, making a covenant to not look
upon strange women to lust after them, and setting nothing immoral before his eyes.

11. That he would fully accept the way God has made him and me, understanding our
differences as male and female, and enabling us to reach out to each other unselfishly.
12. That he would continue to grow in the skill of intimate, honest communication, reaching out to me
in sensitive understanding, allowing a greater oneness of spirit between us.

13. That he would be committed to making his marriage a priority, delighting in me as a

woman, spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
14. That he would be filled with wisdom to be the loving, wise, sensitive spiritual leader of our home.

15. That he would (continue to) make it a priority to lead our family in a regular devotional
time.
16. That he would be a wise protector, shielding his family from the onslaughts of Satan and the
world.

17. That he would value and understand each of our children’s needs and strengths, being
and doing all he can for their spiritual and emotional growth.
18. That he would know how to express his love and acceptance to each of our children, alert for
opportunities to praise and affirm them, and be enabled to meaningfully communicate with them.

19. That he would make it a priority to spend quantity and quality time with our children.
20. That he would be a loving, consistent disciplinarian of our children, not provoking them to anger.

21. That he would grow in meekness, not given to anger, but when failing be given the grace
to humbly ask to be forgiven.
22. That he would trust the Lord for the spacing and number of children in our family.

23. That he would make wise financial decisions, being committed to tithing our income, and
remembering that God is the ultimate Provider for our family.
24. That God would protect and guard him from spiritual, emotional, and physical danger.

25. That he would be blessed with good health and strength.

26. That he would have a life purpose bigger than his occupation, keeping the vision of service and
missions before his eyes.

27. That he would use his job to encourage and share his faith in a dynamic way with others.
28. That he would not compare himself with others, being concerned of God’s evaluation of him.

29. That he would view the irritations of family life, occupation, and all of life’s trials as God’s
best tools to build and refine his character, and be given the grace to delight in the Lord
when the stresses of life increases.
30. That he would experience purpose in life and enjoy God’s smile of approval as he lays down his
life for his family and others.
A Prayer for Your Husband’s Mind
Dear Jesus, our thoughts can be deceptive, most often put there when we let our feelings
reign. But You know and discern the thoughts and intents of our hearts. (Hebrews 4:12)
Do not let my husband walk in ways that are not good, or pursue his own thoughts and
imaginations (Is. 65:2) Instead make him wise and discerning with a mind like Christs
(1Cor.2:16), weighing his thoughts with the truth of Your word.
Father, we know those who live according to sinful nature have their minds set on what
nature desires. (Ro.8:5) We know evil minded people didn’t think it worthwhile to retain
knowledge of You. Therefore, You gave them over to a depraved mind and they were
filled with wickedness. They became senseless, faithless, heartless and ruthless people.
(Ro.1:28-31) I stand in faith praying You will not give my husband over to depraved
thoughts which will result in all kinds of diseases of the mind. You have not given my
husband a spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind. (2Tim1:7)
I pray my husband will not be conformed to any pattern of this world, but be
transformed by the renewing of his mind (Ro12:2) Taking captive every thought and
making it obedient to You (2Cor.10:5) so that he will be able to test and approve what is
your good and perfect will in all circumstances. (Ro.12:2)
Lord, I place my husband before You knowing You will make him new in his thoughts.
Convict him and enable him to stand against the wiles of the devil when an attack is
made upon his mind. Help him to stand strong, being clear minded and self-controlled
so He can hear You when he prays. (1Pet.4:7) May he think on things that are true,
noble, right, pure, lovely – whatever is admirable or praiseworthy, so that the peace of
God which surpasses all understanding will be able to further guard his heart and his
mind in Christ Jesus. (Phil. 4:8,7) Amen.
A Prayer for Your Husband to have a Right Attitude
Father, thank you that You gave my husband a sound mind. (2Tim.1:7) Our attitudes are
birthed by incorrect thoughts. Keep giving my husband the desire to prepare his mind
for action, (1Pet.1:13) so that when the enemy comes to tempt, he can rightly discern
good from evil, truth from lies, life from death. Through his prepared mind he will then
be able to control his attitude.
Father, I pray You will remind him often to humble himself before You as Jesus did,
taking on the nature of a servant, willing to serve in love those around him. (Phil.2:5-8)
Remind him to be obedient to Your Word, ready to whatever is good, to slander no one,
to be peaceable and considerate in all that he does, showing true humility toward all
people. (Titus3:1)
Let him not think of himself more highly than he ought to, letting pride and self
righteousness reign, but to think of himself with sober judgement. (Romans12:3) Teach
him to honor others before himself, always being devoted to those around him with
brotherly love. (Romans12:10)
Lord, I pray that he will never lack zeal to do what is pleasing to You, always displaying
humility, so that he can say “I will walk in my house with blameless heart.” (Ps.101:2)
Give him a new heart and put a new spirit in him. Remove from any attitude that is
unloving, indifferent, selfish, proud or bitter. In its place, restore genuine love and
concern for those around him. Put Your Spirit in him and move him to follow Your will
and Your ways. (Ez.36:26-27) In Jesus’ name. Amen.
“Rid yourselves of all the offences you have committed
and get a new heart and a new spirit.”
A Prayer for Your Husband to walk in Honesty
Father, we know You do not lie, but hate all things deceitful. Anyone who practices
deceit will not dwell in Your house. No one who speaks falsely will be able to stand
before. (Ps.101:7) I pray You will far remove from my husband any lying are deceiving
way.
Father, make my husband a man who hates lies as much as You do. It is one of the seven
abominations and will not go unpunished. (Pr.6:16) Give my husband the wisdom to
always speak honestly and sincerely. May he keep his oath even when it hurts. (Ps.15:4)
Such a man will gain honor and respect. Teach him to let his ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes’ and his ‘No’
be ‘No’. (Matt.5:37)
I pray also, he would be a man honest in all his dealings. You, oh Lord, detest differing
weights and dishonest scales. (Pr.20:23) Plant my husband in uprightness, so that no
one can find fault in his dealings.
Father, words and deeds are done, reflecting the condition of a man’s heart. May the
intentions of my husband’s heart not be ones of deceit or schemes of ill gain. Rather, I
pray that the words of his mouth and the meditation of his heart would be pleasing to in
Your sight. (Ps.19:14) May he always keep growing in You, striving to live and speak
honestly. (Zeph.3:13) In Jesus’ name. Amen.
A Prayer for Your Husband’s Integrity
Dear Jesus, thank You for the perfect example of a life of integrity. You said no wrong
and did no wrong, doing everything with a sincere love for mankind and humble
obedience to Your Father. I pray You will reveal Your goodness to my husband and give
him the desire to follow Your footsteps. Give him a heart that is sincere, hating what is
evil, clinging to what is good. (Romans12:9)
Father, many are the plans of a mans heart. I pray the plans of my husband’s heart will
be noble ones. Plans that will not bring scorn upon his name. If the plans of his heart do
not fit into Your will or do not line up with Your word, do not let them come about. Keep
from doing anything that will lead to a guilty conscience. May integrity and uprightness
protect him. (Ps.25:21) Always doing what is good, being serious, and having sound
speech that cannot be condemned. (Titus2:7-8)
Test him, O Lord, and try him. Examine the his heart and mind. Lead him in the way of
truth and light. (Ps.26:2-3) I pray he will be worthy of being honored as a capable man,
one who fears You, is trustworthy and hates dishonest gain. (Ex.18:21) When he is
tempted to do something not glorifying to You, help him stand strong in his faith,
knowing he who has clean hands and a pure heart will one day stand in Your presence.
(Ps.24:3-4)
I pray my husband will be one who says as Job did, “till I die, I will not deny my
integrity.” (Job27:5) letting his integrity guide him (Pr.11:3) and be the deciding factor
in all his ways. May he lead a blameless life, standing on level ground, praising the Lord.
(Ps.26:11,12) In Jesus’ name. Amen
A Prayer for Your Husband’s Spiritual Leadership
Father, I praise You for the great wisdom You have given my husband through Your
word. Teach him to love Your word. Then establish it upon his heart and mind so that he
will always be reminded of the way he should direct and encourage his family and
others. Lead him in the way that is truly life, so that he will be able to lead his children in
the same way. (Deut.11:18-21)
Where spiritual leadership was not modeled to him, teach him from Your word. Provide
other godly role models for him to fashion his life after. Teach him that true leadership
is pure and kind, not harsh or demanding. True leadership will not try to ‘lord it over’ or
force his will onto those around him. Whoever wants to become great among people
must be a servant or helper first. We see this in Christ’s example, Who came to serve and
give his life up for others. (Mark10:42-45)
Father, strengthen my husband’s faith so that he can lead diligently. Help him hold on
to his courage and hope, so he can continue being a temple for You. (Heb.3:6) Keep him
rooted and built up in Christ, overflowing with thankfulness. Teach him to weigh all
matters carefully so he won’t be taken captive through hollow or deceptive
philosophy. Help him discern between the vain, human traditions and principles of the
world and the correct teachings of Christ. (Col.2:6-8)
Father, I pray my husband would stand and lead strong and in the power of Your might.
The fear of You, Lord, leads to life. Do not let him stray. Should he grow slack, pursue
hard after him. Do not let him wane in his faith. May he always be prepared to do what
is right in Your eyes.
It is right in Your eyes for a father to impress on his children the words and commands
You have spoken and written to us. Do not let him be intimidated by the call You have
given him as a parent and spiritual leader of his home to talk about Your Word to his
children. Rather, give my husband the courage and ability to talk about them sitting at
home, walking along the road, lying down or getting up. (Deut.6:6-7, 11:18-21) May Your
ways and what is edifying to growth be what first comes out of his mouth, training and
leading his children and marriage in the way that is right. (Pr.22:6, Eph.6:4) In Jesus’
precious name. Amen.

40 Prayers to Pray Over Your Husband

1. A Prayer for You, His Wife

A Prayer for Myself as A Wife

Father God, thank You for how far You have brought us. You have proven to be faithful,
ever present and good. Oh, so good. My heart overflows with praise and thanksgiving for
You.
Reflecting on these past years, I am convicted that I haven’t always been the wife You
designed me to be or the wife my husband needs. I confess the times I have been
disrespectful in words, attitudes and deeds. I see them as You do: sin. Remove any
bitterness, selfishness and impatience from my heart. In its place plant
ready forgiveness, patience and the willingness to bear all things.
Make me kind, Lord. Make me gentle and good, keeping the words
of my mouth and the meditation of my heart pleasing to You,(Ps.19:14) for out of the
overflow of the heart the mouth speaks.(Luke 6:45)
Make me faithful, Father. Not only in body, but also in word and deed. Make me the
kind of wife my husband knows will not do or say anything to degrade or devalue him no
matter how I may feel. Renew my mind so that I can judge my words and actions based
on Your truth and not just on my feelings. Let my husband know that I will bring him
good and not evil all the days of my life.(Pr. 31:11) I know my first and foremost ministry
is to my husband. Remind me of this often throughout the day, seeking ways to bless my
husband with my body, words and actions.
Transform me, Lord. Remind me to not expect my husband to fill me in ways only You
can. Help me lay all expectations at Your feet. Help me accept him the way he is and not
try to change him into what I want him to be. At the same time, I release him to You to
mold and shape and grow into the man You created him to be: a man so much greater
than I could ever hope to make him.
Father, daily work in me to become the wife of my husband’s dreams. One he can love
easily, trust fully, laugh with, cry with and grow old with. Make me new; totally
transformed, fitting perfectly into the plan You have for his life and our marriage. Amen.

How to become a more enjoyable wife

1. The first thing God laid on my heart was that I needed to forgive my husband
more freely.
“Bear with one another and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another.
Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Colossians 3:13
I don’t do so well with forgiving. My husband didn’t deserve it.
But I did.
I deserved to be set free of the pain that was allowing me to form grudges and
become a bitter, angry person.
I deserved to be set free of the bondage that gave me a free ticket to less joy.
Dragging grievances and grudges along, ready to throw them at my husband
whenever he needed to be reminded of his humanity, was tiring. Exhausting, in
fact.
Letting go of those things little by little, relieved my own heart first. Then it
released my husband from the pressure and fear of never measuring up to my
expectations.
Forgiveness lightened the load of our marriage and allowed us to let our guard
down a bit more and we learned to enjoy life with each other.

2. The next thing God had me consider was to live in the present day.
“Do not say, “Why were the old days better than these?” For it is not wise to ask such
things.” Ecclesiastes 7:10
“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.” Isaiah 43:18
Dwell is an interesting word. It means to live in, or make one’s home in a certain
place.
What we dwell upon, soon becomes our mind’s home. Our mind’s home soon
becomes evident in our words and actions.
Two reasons it is unwise to dwell on the past are;
(a) when we long for the ‘good old days’ over our current day, we become
regretful and discontent,
(b) dwelling on past wrongs develops bitterness toward one another.
3. Then, God showed me that He has given each of us a controllable mind.
Not only are we encouraged to be transformed by the renewing of our minds, but
we are also given the power to choose what we think.
Putting purposeful thinking into practice, deliberately choosing to think on
things that are true, honorable and right. (Philippians 4:8), is very wise and
liberating.
We become more gracious and understanding when we direct our thinking.
Forgiveness becomes much more practical. Life, in general, becomes much more
worthwhile and liveable.
God doesn’t intend for us to go about our lives sad faced or downcast. He wants
us to enjoy life. Ecclesiastes 9:9 says “Enjoy life with your wife[spouse], whom you
love”.(brackets mine)
More importantly, our goal should be to become the spouse whom life can be
enjoyed with.
Trading in self inclined thoughts and attitudes for more Christ-like ones will
result in just that; an enjoyable wife, a compliment to the marriage union.
Such a woman is truly a joy to be around.
The choice is ours.
2. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Walk

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Walk

Father, guide my husband’s steps to walk in truth. Give him the courage to turn to right
paths that lead to You and are led by You. May he be a man who has “learned to acclaim
You, who walk in the light of Your presence” (Ps. 89:15)
Father, I know You count blessed “the man who does not walk in the counsel of the
wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers.” (Ps 1:1) Convict and
guide my husband away from any counsel that is not of You. Let him not take part in the
activities of evil doers, but rather have the courage to walk away from temptations.
Lord, we know “He who walks with wise grows wise” (Pr.13:20) Send my husband along
paths that lead to relationships that help him grow wise, humble and stronger in You. I
lift him to You to shape him into a man who will learn do what You require of him; “to
act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly” with You. (Micah 6:8)
Lord, Your commands are not grievous. You command us to walk in love. (2 John 6)
Give my husband a heart gentle and loving to all he meets today. May he walk honestly
and humbly, having a clear vision of the path You would have him go. Grant him clarity
and courage when You instruct him in his paths. Father, you move the hearts of kings,
so You will also move the heart of my husband to walk and lead rightly and lovingly.
Encourage my husband to walk in truth and to do so quickly. Teach Him to seek Your
guidance first and early, knowing You will never mislead. May he abide in Your
tabernacle and dwell on Your holy hill as he “walks uprightly and works righteousness
and speaks truth in his heart.” (Ps. 15:1-2)
May he always walk worthy of the calling of which he is
called, with all lowliness and gentleness, with long-suffering,
bearing with all people in love. (Eph. 4:1-2) Amen.
3. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Work
Do no overwork to be rich;
4.
5. because of your own understanding,

6. cease!

7. ….For riches certainly make themselves wings;

8. they fly away like an eagle toward heaven.

9. ~Proverbs 23:4-5~
10.
11.
12. for the lazy:
13.
14. “If a man is lazy, the rafters sag;
15. if his hands are idle, the house leaks.”

16. ~Ecclesiastes 10:18~

17.

18. “The sluggard’s craving will be the death of him,

19. because his hands refuse to work.”

20. ~Proverbs 21:25~

 22. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Work
23. Father, bless my husband’s work. Help him find the perfect balance between
working too hard provide for his family, and not being disciplined enough to take
on his responsibility as provider of his home. On one hand, working too hard will
result in burn out and neglect of his family, while on the other hand, being lazy
will result in the ruin of himself and his family. I pray you will teach him the
importance of balance between work and rest. I pray he will make it his ambition
to lead a quiet and simple life so that his daily work may win the respect of
outsiders. May he work with his own hands so that he will not grow dependent on
anybody. (1 Thess. 4:11-12)
24. Lord, lead him to the work You would have him do. May he bring You into every
aspect of his work. Where there is anything not glorifying to You, convict him and
then supply him the courage to make the necessary changes. May he commit to
you whatever he does, so his plans may succeed. (Pr. 16:3) May he “be strong and
courageous, and do the work.” May he not be afraid or discouraged, knowing You,
the Lord God, are with him. You will not fail or forsake him. (1 Chr.28:20) May
he do whatever You have him do with all his heart, as working for Yo and not for
man. (Col.3:23)
25. Give my husband a sense of fulfillment from his work. One that can only come
from being in complete submission to Your will. I know so much of who a man is,
is tied up in his work. Where he is not in Your will lead Him to better. Help him
to see past the dollar signs and rest secure in knowing that what You would have
him do will provide over and abundantly beyond what he could ever imagine for
his family. Give him peace and clear direction of Your plan for his life’s work.
“Nothing is better for a man than to enjoy his work, because that is his lot.”
(Ecc.3:22)
26. Father, I pray the people You bring into my husbands path through his work, will
be of good reputation and report. Guide him away from anyone or anything that
could harm his very livelihood. You guide the hearts of kings like a stream,
(Pr.21:1) so I know You are capable of steering my husband away from bad
business deals. May the people he works with be people of integrity, honesty and
right standing with You, Father, always encouraging and strengthening
my husband’s walk with You.
27. Help me, also, encourage my husband in whatever You would have him do, not
coming in the way of Your will. Give me words that will strengthen his courage to
stand for You, saying what he needs to hear when he needs to hear it and not
what I think he needs to hear, when I think he needs to hear them. Help me
accept his work, knowing You are in control and will not bring us to ruin. You
have promised hope and a future for us and our family; to prosper us and not to
harm us. (Jer.29:11) I firmly hold on to that promise. May the words I speak
affirm what he has already heard from You, always encouraging, never
condemning.
28. Lead him, guide him and direct him, then surround him, encourage him and
enable him to do his life’s work humbly, willingly and thoroughly. Amen.
4. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Talk
 He who guards his mouth

and his tongue

keeps himself from calamity.”
~Proverbs 21:23~

“The heart of the righteous weighs it’s answers,

but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil.”

~Proverbs 15:28~
A Prayer for Your Husband’s Words and Speech
Father, words are powerful. They carry life and death, blessing and curses, peace or
dissension.
We know “out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” (Matt. 12:34) Make my
husbands heart pure so that what comes out of his mouth is edifying to You.
Do not let unwholesome talk come out of his mouth, but only what is helpful for
building others up according to their needs. (Eph.4:29) Your Word has told us that there
is more hope for a fool than a man who is hasty with his words. (Pr.29:20) So, when he
feels like spewing out words that are not edifying to others, nudge his conscience. Halt
the words before they ever reach his mind. Give him a gentle and patient spirit so that it
will become natural to him to speak kindly.
Grow the desire in him to clearly think through his words before his speaks them. I
command all negative thoughts away from his mind that could result in unwholesome
talk to others or about others. I take a stand against all evil spirits that encourage
cussing, harsh words, uncaring words or indifferent words. You have instructed us
to rid ourselves of “anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language” (Col.3:8) May he
avoid godless chatter, knowing that doing so will only lead to more ungodliness. (2
Tim.2:16)
Instead of obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, convict him to speak in thanksgiving.
(Eph.5:4) let his conversation always be full of grace, seasoned with salt, always knowing how to
answer everyone according to Your word. (Col. 4:6)

May my husband’s words and the meditation of his heart be ever pleasing to You.
(Ps.19:14) Amen.
5. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Faith

According to your faith

it will be done to you.”
~Mathew 9:29~
“without faith it is impossible to please God,
because anyone who comes to Him
must believe that He exists and that
He rewards those who earnestly
seek Him.”
~Hebrews 11:6~
 A Prayer for Your Husband’s Faith
Father, give my husband an extra measure of faith today. My
husband knows You exist, so strengthen him so that he will earnestly seek You in all
does.
May his faith not rest on man’s wisdom but in Your great
power. (1Cor.2:5) May He turn to You in all he does, knowing You will reward
those who earnestly seek You. What is wise in man’s eyes is not wise in
Yours. Give him the faith to seek You first and then added faith to stand firmly upon
Your promises, fully
persuaded that You have the power to do
exactly what you have said You will. (Romans 4:21)
May he reflect on what You have already done, not forgetting Your great faithfulness to
him. Through the promises You have kept may a greater trust be established in him.
When he asks anything in Your name help him not doubt
You. (James1:6-7) Where there may be a tinge of doubt, further strengthen His belief
in Your power, Your ways, Your ability and Your promises.
You are forever good and faithful, Jesus. As the Author and Prince of
Peace, grant my husband measures of it that passes all understanding when he does
anything that requires belief in You.
May he not waver through unbelief regarding any of Your
promises, but be strengthened in his faith and give all the
glory to You. (Romans 4:20) May my husband’s faith filled life bring him to stand
before You and courageously say “I
have fought the good fight, I have
finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2Tim.4:7) In Jesus’ Name.
Amen
6. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Mind

All day long I have held out My hands

to an obstinate people,
who walk in ways not good,
pursuing their own imaginations”
~Isaiah 65:2~

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Mind

Dear Jesus, our thoughts can be deceptive, most often put there when we let our feelings
reign. But You know and discern the thoughts and intents of our hearts. (Hebrews 4:12)
Do not let my husband walk in ways that are not good, or pursue his own thoughts and
imaginations (Is. 65:2) Instead make him wise and discerning with a mind like Christs
(1Cor.2:16), weighing his thoughts with the truth of Your word.
Father, we know those who live according to sinful nature have their minds set on what
nature desires. (Ro.8:5) We know evil minded people didn’t think it worthwhile to retain
knowledge of You. Therefore, You gave them over to a depraved mind and they were
filled with wickedness. They became senseless, faithless, heartless and ruthless people.
(Ro.1:28-31) I stand in faith praying You will not give my husband over to depraved
thoughts which will result in all kinds of diseases of the mind. You have not given my
husband a spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind. (2Tim1:7)
I pray my husband will not be conformed to any pattern of this world, but be
transformed by the renewing of his mind (Ro12:2) Taking captive every thought and
making it obedient to You (2Cor.10:5) so that he will be able to test and approve what is
your good and perfect will in all circumstances. (Ro.12:2)
Lord, I place my husband before You knowing You will make him new in his thoughts.
Convict him and enable him to stand against the wiles of the devil when an attack is
made upon his mind. Help him to stand strong, being clear minded and self-controlled
so He can hear You when he prays. (1Pet.4:7) May he think on things that are true,
noble, right, pure, lovely – whatever is admirable or praiseworthy, so that the peace of
God which surpasses all understanding will be able to further guard his heart and his
mind in Christ Jesus. (Phil. 4:8,7) Amen.
7. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Attitude
 “Your attitude
should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:
who…made Himself nothing,
taking on the very nature of a servant…
He humbled himself.”
~Philippians 2:5-8~
A Prayer for Your Husband to have a Right Attitude
Father, thank you that You gave my husband a sound mind. (2Tim.1:7) Our attitudes are
birthed by incorrect thoughts. Keep giving my husband the desire to prepare his mind
for action, (1Pet.1:13) so that when the enemy comes to tempt, he can rightly discern
good from evil, truth from lies, life from death. Through his prepared mind he will then
be able to control his attitude.
Father, I pray You will remind him often to humble himself before You as Jesus did,
taking on the nature of a servant, willing to serve in love those around him. (Phil.2:5-8)
Remind him to be obedient to Your Word, ready to whatever is good, to slander no one,
to be peaceable and considerate in all that he does, showing true humility toward all
people. (Titus3:1)
Let him not think of himself more highly than he ought to, letting pride and self
righteousness reign, but to think of himself with sober judgement. (Romans12:3) Teach
him to honor others before himself, always being devoted to those around him with
brotherly love. (Romans12:10)
Lord, I pray that he will never lack zeal to do what is pleasing to You, always displaying
humility, so that he can say “I will walk in my house with blameless heart.” (Ps.101:2)
Give him a new heart and put a new spirit in him. Remove from any attitude that is
unloving, indifferent, selfish, proud or bitter. In its place, restore genuine love and
concern for those around him. Put Your Spirit in him and move him to follow Your will
and Your ways. (Ez.36:26-27) In Jesus’ name. Amen.
“Rid yourselves of all the offences you have committed
 and get a new heart and a new spirit.”
8. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Choices

The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord;

He directs it like a watercourse wherever He pleases.”
~Proverbs 21:1~
A Prayer for Your Husband to Make Good Choices
Father, once again I praise You that You have given my husband a sound mind.
(1Pet.1:13) One that is capable of making wise choices based on Your word. You have
said “I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life so that
you and your children may live, and that you may love the Lord your God, listen to Him
and hold fast to Him.” (Deut.30:19-20)
Father, I know You will move my husband’s heart to choose life and blessing every
single day. I know You will move his heart to choose Your instruction, knowledge and
wisdom instead of earthly riches and selfish gain. (Pr.8:10)
Help him see plainly the way you would have him lead his family and live his life, so that
he can choose wisely in all the things he does. Help him rise above present
circumstances and see with an eternal perspective, so he can make choices based on
Your will.
When he makes a choice not glorifying to You, nudge his conscience to repentance. May
he not be so proud that he will not listen to advice, but may he accept sound counsel and
instruction so that in the end he will be wise. (Pr.19:20) All a man’s ways seem right to
him, but, You Lord, weigh the heart. (Pr.21:2) Show my husband where he is trusting
too much in his own ability to make choices and then clearly confirm choices You want
him to make.
Lord, I pray you will protect him from unhealthy pressures and expectancies of this
world, that will drive him to make choices that will ruin first his mind, body and soul
and then his marriage and family. Direct his heart to choose to say “no”, to unhealthy
relationships, harmful business deals and selfish desires. Give him the courage to make
choices in wisdom so he may be kept safe.(P.28:26) May he boldly rise up and say, “as
for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” (Josh.24:15) In Jesus precious name.
Amen.
“Listen to advice and accept instruction
and in the end you will be wise.
Many are the plans in a man’s heart,
but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.”
~Proverbs 19:20-21~
9. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Finances

Whoever loves money

never has money enough;
whoever loves wealth
is never satisfied with his income.”
~Ecclesiastes 5:10~
A Prayer for Your Husband’s Finances
Dear Jesus, thank You that You have provided a job for my husband that secures
financial income. Through his work You have always provided enough. Sometimes just
enough, most times more than enough. Always, enough.
I pray my husband will choose wisely how to spend the riches You have blessed him
with. Show him where one expenditure needs to be eliminated or is unnecessary, so that
finances will be freed up to pay or spend in necessary things. May he spend his riches
with great understanding and foresight so that he and his family will not perish.
(Ps.49:20)
Convict him to be faithful with the money You have given him, so that he can continue
reaping Your blessings. Remind him to first bring the whole tithe into the storehouse,
before he spends Your money. You have promised that when we are faithful in returning
to You what You ask, You will throw open the floodgates and pour out so much blessing
that we will not have room enough for it all. (Mal.3:10)
Father, create in my husband an honest heart when it comes to getting money. I pray You
will far remove any thought or way that will lead to extortion, stealing or dishonest
financial gain in anyway. (Pr.62:10) May he never bring punishment upon his own head or
his family by being eager to get rich. (Pr.28:20) Remove from him any tendency to always
be greedy for gain and replace it with contentment and satisfaction in what You have
provided. You, Father, have provided well and have promised to bless him with Your favor.
Lord, I pray You will always provide enough, but never so much that he will become
reckless in his spending. May he always know that You are the Provider and Giver of
every dollar, dime and cent. And, while You are faithful to the faithful, and his finances
ever increase or remain stable, may he never set his heart on them,(Pr.62:10) but rather
count his wealth in things that can’t be bought. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
10. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Heart

The heart is deceitful above all things

and beyond cure.
Who can understand it?”
~Jeremiah 17:9~
“As water reflects a face,
so a man’s heart reflects the man.”
~Proverbs 27:19~
A Prayer for Your Husband’s Heart
Father, thank You that You have given my husband a heart that is teachable. Even when
he is unwillingly to change his views or ways, You have not given him a heart of stone,
but of flesh, and You, O Lord, have abilities beyond measure to soften his heart, making
it pliable to Your will and Your ways. Create in my husband a new heart and a steadfast
spirit. (Ps.51:10)
Teach him Your way so that he will walk in Your truth. Give him an undivided heart; not
entertaining both good and evil. (Ps.86:11) A good man brings good things out of the
goodness of his heart, and the evil man evil things out of his heart.(Luke 6:45) Let my
husband stand firmly and correctly in goodness.
You have said,”I, the Lord, search the heart and examine the mind, to reward a man
according to his conduct, according to what his deeds deserve.” (Jer.17:9-10) Search his
heart, Sweet Jesus. Ever so gently, search his heart. Test him and know his thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in him. Convict him in any areas where he needs to
grow more gentle, loving, kind, humble or repentant. Guide him into Your everlasting
way.(Ps.139:23-24)
When You test him and the road gets hard, don’t let his heart be troubled.”Prove
Yourself to him so his trust in You may be established,further purifying his heart
by faith. (John 14:1; Acts 15:9)
May those who scorn Your name or are far from You, see the good in my husband by his
acts of humble service, making You appealing to all. May he find honor and respect in
his life, his work, and his relationships. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
11. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Spiritual Hearing

The heart of the discerning

acquires knowledge;
the ears of the wise seek it out.”
~Proverbs 18:15~
A Prayer for Your Husband’s Spiritual Hearing
Father, I praise You for the infinite wisdom You alone possess. I thank You that You
willingly pour it out to those who ask. (James 1)
Today I pray my husband will not only ask for and seek wisdom, but that he may be able
to hear it clearly and correctly; to have his ears opened, always eager to hear Your word.
May he never be as those who hear Your word but never put them into practice.
(Ez.33:30-31) You, Jesus, have said, “But everyone who hears these words of mine and
does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand.”
(Matt.7:26) You have not given my husband ears that cannot be opened or a heart that
cannot be molded and taught. Remove all foolishness and self centered tendencies so
that he may be able to discern what is Your wisdom from the wisdom as the world sees
it.
Father, open his ears to all good instruction, knowledge, and all sound teaching. Open
his ears also to words of rebuke, correction and chastisement. While hearing such words
are never easy they are necessary for growth. Give him wise discernment as he considers
the words. Make all that is from you like an ornament of fine gold to his listening ear.
(Pr.25:12)
May all sound teaching fall on the good soil of his heart, so he may hear Your words,
accept Your words and produce an abundant crop with his good life. (Mark 4:20) May
he not only be a listener of Your word but a hearer and doer of them as well. In Jesus’
precious name, Amen.
12. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Spiritual Eyes

The eye is the lamp of the body.

If your eyes are good,
your whole body will be full of light.
If your eyes are bad,
your whole body will be full of darkness.”
~Matthew 6:22-23~

Do you pray for your husband’s spiritual eyes; the way he sees and understands the
things of the Lord?
This prayer for asks that God would move your husband to keep himself of pure intent,
able to recognize things that are glorifying to God, and that he will not defile his body,
the temple of the Lord.
A Prayer for Your Husband’s Spiritual Eyes
Father, we know our eyes are the lamp of our bodies. With them we either introduce
light or dark, good or evil into our hearts. (Matt.6:22-23) Give my husband the courage
to guard himself from evil. Far remove from him any addictions to vile images or lusts.
Convict him and move him to get rid of any idols he may be holding on to, not defiling
himself. May he not be as some who did not obey Your command to remove images and
idols. To those You said You would pour our Your wrath and spend Your anger on them.
(Ez.20:7-8) Do not pour out Your anger on my husband.
Lord, we know You are too pure to look on evil; You cannot tolerate wrong. (Hab.1:13)
However, I pray You will be patient with my husband in the work of guarding his eyes,
yet never letting him become comfortable and complacent in this work. Let him be ever
growing, ever learning to see as You do: purely and rightly.
Jesus, You said, “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” (Matt.5:8) I pray
also that the eyes of his heart may be enlightened in order that he may know the hope to
which You have called him. May he see the riches of Your glorious inheritance and Your
incomparably great power, and may it move him to further seek to guard and purify his
eyes, the lamp of his body. (Eph.1:18-19) I pray this in Jesus’ name, Amen.

13. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Feet

“Lord, who may dwell in Your sanctuary?

Who may live on Your holy hill?
He whose walk is blameless…”
~Psalm 15:1-2~
A Prayer that God would Guide Your Husband’s Paths
Father, today I pray for my husband to not stray from Your path. Thank You for the
ways You have guided his steps thus far. I pray you will continue leading him in the way
of righteousness so he may dwell in Your great sanctuary and live on Your holy hill.
I know all a man’s ways are in full view of You, oh Lord and You examine all paths.
(Pr.5:21) Make the path my husband walks be straight and sure. Teach him to walk level
paths with sure feet, taking only ways that are firm; Your ways, Father. You have made
him strong and stouthearted. Help him keep his feet from following any evil walk, not
swerving to the right or the left. (Pr.4:25-27)
Father, strengthen my husbands resolve to seek wisdom from Your word; the very lamp
to our feet and the light for our path. (Ps.119:105) He who is wise walks with wise,
Father. Help him find godly men who will encourage him to keep walking in the ways
that are good.
At the end of his long life, may he look back and praising You, say, “I have kept my feet
from every evil path so that I might obey Your word. I have not departed from Your
laws, for You Yourself have taught me” I pray You will continue teaching him to
understand Your precepts, and that he will hate every wrong path. (Ps.119:101-104)
Guard my husband’s paths. Keep his feet from any evil path or any wicked intentions of
others. May he run with swift feet to all that is good and right and just. In Jesus’ Name.
Amen.

14. A Prayer for Your Marriage

A Scripture-based Prayer for Your Marriage

Jesus, thank You for the perfect picture of marriage You give to us through Your
relationship with the church. Help us replicate that model in ways glorifying to You.
Let us love one another,”making every effort to do what leads to peace and the mutual
edification” (Romans 14:19) building each other up.
Father, don’t let us grow apart, or become comfortable in going our own ways, but bring
unity between us so that we can be in agreement about everything, (Amos 3:3) being
like-minded toward one another, according to You. (Romans 15:5) Join us perfectly
together in the same mind and in the same judgement. (1 Cor. 1:10)
Lord, I pray our commitment to You and to each other will grow stronger every day,
binding together a tie that is not easily broken. Teach us to “be kind to one another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave” us. (Eph. 4:32)
“Let us not grow weary while doing good” to each other, “for in due season we shall reap
if we do not loose heart.” (Gal 6:9)
Lord, I pray You will not bring anything that will harm or destroy our marriage, but only
what will grow us together stronger and more glorifying to You. Keep us from seeking
our own desires or be enticed by evil plans of others. Let nothing come into
our hearts, minds and actions that could threaten our marriage. I take a stand against
the devils schemes to divide us with lusts of the eyes, or flesh. Unite us, Father. Give us
one mind and one spirit.
We know that “two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor.
For if they fall, one will lift up his companion” (Ecc. 4:9) Make our marriage be a
blessing to us. Help us find fulfillment, meaning, purpose, and growth in our
commitment to each other. Help us recognize bitterness, jealousy, irritation at their very
roots. Do not let us become divided in our hearts, minds and marriage.
Protect us, Father, ever strengthening our commitment to each other and You. In Jesus’
name. Amen.
15. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Fatherhood
16. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Obedience

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Obedience to the Lord

Dear Jesus, You are a gentle presence. You are kind, patient and loving, yet You are
sovereign and cannot tolerate the sin of disobedience. Prove Yourself trustworthy to my
husband. Prove your unconditional love that he may willingly and without hesitation
love to obey Your commands.
Lord, we know You test us to find out whether we love You with all our heart and
soul. (Deut.13:3-4) Gently test my husband. Do not overwhelm him. Give him trials, but
while going through them give him the peace that passes all understanding so that he
may know without a doubt that You, O Lord ,will never leave him nor forsake him,
making the burdens bearable and obedience a joy. Then in due time, honor him because
he showed You that he loves You by obeying Your commands. (2John6)
When the way gets long and hard, give him the courage he needs to stand strong and say
“I will obey my God’s teaching.” Preserve his life according to Your love as he obeys the
statutes of Your mouth. (Ps.119:88) I pray he will not grow angry at You or weary of
Your will, rebelling against You. I pray he will fully rely on You in every circumstance
with an unwavering trust, knowing You are right and good and just in all things.
Even before the trials come, prepare him. Ever increase his faith by proving Your love to
him daily. Help him discern wisely each choice he makes. May he walk in obedience to
Your will and Your way, so that he and his family will not experience unnecessary pain
and destruction. I pray he will obey the commands and decrees You have written in Your
word and that he will turn to You with all his heart and with all his soul, so that You will
delight in him and make him prosperous. (Deut. 30:9-10)
May his example of humble obedience direct the course of his children’s lives and many
generations after them. Today, move his heart to obedience. Today, freshen his resolve
anew. You are God. You are not mocked. Mold my husband’s heart into an obedient one.
In Jesus’ precious name. Amen.

17. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Love

A Prayer for Your Husband to Grow in Christ-like Love

Father, You love us more than we could ever fathom. You are who You are, and You, oh
Lord, are the epiphany of love. You gave Your perfect son, Who then lived a life of love
and gave Himself up for us. I praise You for Your great and perfect example of love: to
do for others what they don’t deserve. To love others the way they need to be loved and
not how they deserve to be loved. I pray today You will put such a love into my husbands
heart.
You have given my husband a heart of flesh, a teachable spirit. Teach him how to love
unselfishly and without expecting anything in return. Teach him not to seek his own
good or have ulterior motives when he serves others, but to be genuinely concerned
about the well-being of others. (Phil.2:4) Teach him a Christ-like love which is patient
and kind, not envying, boastful, proud, rude or easily angered. (1Cor.13:4-8)
Father, love must be sincere. I pray my husband will do nothing out of selfish ambition
or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than himself. (Phil.2:3) Help him
lay down his will and plans when it is edifying to others to do so. Help him to see that in
humbling himself, he is not giving up or being shamed, but rather in he will receive a
greater reward in the future.
When dealing with his children, help him to display unconditional love. When parenting
is tough, give him wisdom and understanding, modeling Christ-like love to his children,
making You appealing and approachable to them.
As the leader of our marriage, help him to display love to me. Help us each be selfless,
giving more than we takes. Help my husband see my requests as needs not demands.
Father, soften his heart toward me and our children as he gives himself up for us.(
Eph.5:25,28,29)
Help him trust You with what he can’t control. May he not condemn others when they
don’t see things the way he does. Remind him often to love his neighbor as
himself. (Matt.23:37-38)May he live in a way that outsiders may see You through his
loving humble acts of service.
May he learn to love You with all his heart, all his soul and all his mind. Remind him
often that neither life nor death, neither angles nor demons, neither the present nor the
future, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to
separate him from Your great love. (Romans 8:38-39) Let him rest secure in that
promise. In Jesus’ precious Name. Amen.
18. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Joy

A Prayer that Your Husband will Live in Joy

Father, You are the Author and Perfecter, the beginning and the end. You make all
things and You make all things new. Today, renew a steadfast spirit in my husband. One
that will not waver when trials are ablaze. One that is accepting of whatever You bring
for the refining of his soul.
Father, when anxiety is great within him, may Your consolation bring him
joy. (Ps.94:19) Do not let him be so distraught and burdened that he cannot find
gladness of heart. Teach him that where You are, there is joy. Let him rest knowing You
bring nothing that will harm or destroy Your faithful ones.
Teach him to see trials for what they are; the testing of his faith. May knowing that You
want to know that he is faithful give him greater joy to endure the refining You do. Then
when he has endured, complete his joy as he looks back and sees growth and maturity in
himself. (James1:2-4) May he rejoice in You, Lord, because You have proven to be his
strength, and enabled him to go through the heights and storms of life. (Hab.3:18-19)
When life is good and easy for a time, help him see it as a gift from You. A period of
resting and rejuvenating. Help him not take it for granted but to be joyful and thankful,
ever preparing his heart and mind with Your word. May he not slack in growing up in
Your wisdom, ever seeking You.
Make him glad with Your presence. May he always trust in You, no matter the storm or
season he faces. May he find strength in Your unfailing love and not be shaken, (Ps.21:6-
7) but be a man who finds joy in the calm, the mundane, the trial, on the long roads, and
always experiencing the greater joy that can only come from You. Ever shine Your face
upon him. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

19. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Peace

A Prayer for Your Husband to find Peace

Dear Jesus, in you we are promised peace. In that promise and the knowledge that You
overcame the world, we take heart. (John 16:33) In You, we able to have peace at all
times and in every way.(2Thess.3:16)
When the road is rocky and darts of the evil one are being fired from all directions, help
my husband see that holding on to his faith, keeping his mind steadfast on You, will
keep him in perfect peace. (Is.26:3) Help him hold on to Your promises so he may be
kept from stumbling and falling to temptations of the mind & soul like despair,
hopelessness, depression, slacking or distrust in You.

Father, help him not be anxious about anything, but in everything, make his requests
known to You through prayer and petition. Let him rest in knowing that You are not
slack in Your promises. Guard his heart and his mind. (Phil.4:6-7) Establish a firm
belief in him that You Yourself are his one and only source of peace. (Eph.2:14) Your
ways will never fail him. May he rest knowing that following Your way will always lead
him to serenity of heart and mind.
Father, move my husband’s heart to also promote peace in all he does. Remind him to
not be quick to argue or seek revenge. It is to a man’s honor to avoid strife, but every
fool is quick to quarrel. (Pr.20:3) You have not made my husband to be a fool, but a man
of courageous faith. Help him be kind, patient and loving, making ever effort to do what
leads to peace and the mutual edification of those around him. (Romans 14:19) When he
experiences difficulties with other people, remind him to not do or say anything out
anger, frustration or revenge, escalating the situation and giving others doubt of his
salvation and Your goodness. May his gentle peaceable ways help others see You. In
Jesus’ name. Amen.
20. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Patience

A Prayer for Your Husband to Grow in Patience

Father,thank You for being a patient God. Thank You that Your mercies are never
ending.
I pray You will give my husband a heart that is patient and understanding. One that will
bear with others. Convict him to release any impatience, grudges, anger, jealousy or
harsh words, so he will not stir up dissension. In its place teach him to be completely
humble and gentle, being patient, bearing with other’s in love.(Eph.4:2)
Your word tells us a man’s wisdom gives him great patience and that it is to his glory to
overlook an offense.(Pr.19:11) Grant him wisdom and discernment so he will be able to
see all situations as opportunities to cultivate patience.
When people get difficult or plans don’t hold out as expected, give him an accepting
attitude. Help him see that Your will is never wrong and that the testing of his faith will
include the testing of his patience. Help him clothe himself with kindness and
compassion, (Col.3:12-13) putting others needs before his own.
Father, help him choose patience with his children. When they are tired or difficult,
parenting gets tough. Help him be long suffering, realizing they are in need of being
heard and loved. Before he speaks harsh words, remind him how You bear with him and
are patient with him. Give him Your patient heart toward his children, wife, co-workers,
friends, neighbors and all other relations.
Fill my husband with the knowledge of Your will through wisdom and understanding. I
pray that he will live a life worthy of You and may please You in every way: bearing fruit
in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power
according to Your glorious might so that he will have great endurance and
patient. (Col.1:9-11) In Jesus’ precious name. Amen.
21. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Kindness

A Prayer for Your Husband to Grow in Kindness

Father, You are kind. Your mercies are never ending. Your kindness reaches even to the
ungrateful and wicked. Because of that we are led to repentance. Thank You for Your
great kindness toward us.
Through Your mercies, teach my husband to be kind to others as you have been kind to
him. Your word tells us that as Your servants, growing to become Your workmen, we
must not quarrel, but be kind to everyone. (2Tim.2:24)
Do a good work in my husband. Teach him to be kind to others, love his enemies and do
good to them without expecting anything in return. (Luke6:35) Give him wisdom and
strength to never pay back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to all people.
(1Thess.5:15)

Father, I pray You would move my husbands heart to get rid of all bitterness, rage,
anger, brawling, slander and every other form of malice. I pray he would let kindness
rule his words and actions, doing nothing he will later regret. Instead, may he renounce
sin by doing what is right so that he may prosper in all areas of his life. (Daniel 4:27) I
pray he will not have ulterior motives for being kind, or resentful in his kindness, but
rather, do good with a pure heart. (Pr.11:17) May the benefits he sees be peace of mind
and good reputation.
Father, kind actions being with kind thoughts. Renew my husbands mind. Give him
greater discernment. Guard his mind so that he will think only on good and
praiseworthy things, resulting in kind thoughts toward others, which will encourage his
words and actions to be kind. Lord, today move my husband to be a kind man. In Jesus’
Name. Amen.
22. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Goodness

A Prayer for Your Husband to Grow in Goodness

Dear Jesus, thank You for the good You have shown my husband throughout his life.
The times You kept him from making bad choices, the times You intervened to save His
life, soul and reputation. Keep proving Your goodness to him. Let him see that the good
that has come to him is not of his own doing, but from You, through the good and
obedient ways he has chosen.
Jesus, You said there is only One who is good and that if we want to enter the way that is
life, we must obey His commands. (Matt.19:17) Your Father, the One who is only good,
says this, “Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the
good way is and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls”. (Jer.6:16) Move my
husband to ask where the good way is, the wisdom to see it, and the courage to walk in
it.
Father, I pray my huband will not be selfish in his motives, but that he would from a
pure heart, seek the good of all others around him,(1Cor.10:24) establishing mutual
edification, so that even pagans can see Your goodness through him. (1Peter2:12) Love
must be sincere. Refine him more and more each day. Give him Your heart toward all
others, forgiving quickly and bearing with others patiently.
Father, let him not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time You promise he will
reap a harvest if he doesn’t give up. (Gal.6:9-10) Teach him to seek good at all times so
that he will be led in a way that reaps goodwill. (Pr.11;27) Lord, bad company corrupts
good character. (1Cor.15:33) Remove any relations that may in any way corrupt his
goodness. Give him the courage to stand for what is good and right in Your eyes. Lead
him to other good men, who love You and seek You first, so that he may be encouraged
to walk in ways that encourage goodness.
Father, I pray You will give him wisdom and discernment to always choose and hold on
to what is good (1 Thessalonians 5:21). In Jesus’ name. Amen.

23. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Faithfulness

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Faithfulness

Father, thank You that You are forever faithful. Today I pray You will again prove Your
great faithfulness to my husband.
Lord, you promise to preserve the faithful (Ps.31:22) not letting them come to ruin.
Today, teach my husband to be faithful. Teach him to be a man of courage,standing for
what is good and right in Your eyes. Help him stand against the enemy’s schemes. I pray
he will be on his guard against anything that would ruin his reputation or the trust of
those around him.
Jesus, thank You for Your faithfulness, even to the cross. You have proven to our Rock.
All Your ways are perfect and just. You are the faithful God who does no wrong.
(Ps.86:15) I pray You would give my husband abundant desire to desire purity and
trustworthiness, so that his ways will always prove faithful.
Father, I lift our marriage before You. Remove any temptations that will lead to
impurity, adultery, or loss of trust. Make him a man pure in thought and deed, always
faithful to Your word. May he lead a life holy and blameless before You and men. Make
righteousness be his belt and faithfulness the sash around his waist. (Is.11:5)
Father, you have said anyone who has been trusted with something, must then prove
himself faithful. (1Cor.4:2) Father, make my husband a man who proves himself faithful
in the small things and the things unseen, so that he can then be trusted with greater
things. Help him always hold fast to the ways that are good and right, establishing
himself as a man worthy of his calling. Grow his love for You to be greater than his love
for me or anything else on this earth. In that way he will become a man faithful in the
marriage covenant and faithful in all his ways. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

24. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Self-control

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Self-Control

Father God, I come before You, thankful for this man You have put in my life. This man
You have called me to love, honor and help. I thank You that You made him a man able
to discern right from wrong, good from evil. You have given him the power and ability to
say “No” to temptations. I praise You that You keep renewing his mind, enlightening
him, showing him Your will and Your way.
Father, as the leader of our marriage and family, I pray he would be a workman worthy
of what You have called him to do. Remove any traits that are overbearing or quick
tempered, may he not be given to drunkenness, violence or pursue dishonest gain. In
their place, restore hospitality, make him good, upright, holy and disciplined. Help him
hold firm to Your trustworthy way. (Titus1:7-9)
Lord, we know our enemy, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion looking for
someone to devour. (2Peter5:8) Today, I stand against his wicked schemes to make my
husband fall. Make my husband, strong and in the power of Your might, able to resist
evil plans of the enemy.
May he not be as some who sleep, spiritually speaking, but may he be alert and self-
controlled, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a
helmet. (1Thess.5:6-8) As he comes to know Your will and Your ways more each day,
add to that knowledge, perseverance to keep doing what is good and right, so that he will
not become ineffective and unproductive in his faith. (read 2Pet.1:5-8)
Jesus, You are the perfect example of a man clear minded and self-control. Teach my
husband to be the same; temperate, worthy of respect, sound in faith, love and
endurance, doing what is good, showing integrity in all he does and says. May those who
oppose him be ashamed because they can find nothing bad to say about him. Through
Your great grace teach him to reject ungodliness and worldly passions, and to clothe
himself with self-control, living an upright and godly life. (Titus2:2,6,11-12) In Jesus’
name. Amen.
25. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Wisdom

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Wisdom and

Insight
Father, You alone are completely wise. You have promised to give wisdom where it is
asked. (James1:5). Today I ask that you give my husband immeasurable wisdom.
The very beginning of wisdom is fearing You and hating evil. (Ps.111:10) Give my
husband a heart that can discern. Help him understand Your Word so he may have great
understanding and continue growing in wisdom. You have instructed us to not just
listen to Your word, but to do as it says. (James 1:22) Today, I pray You would impart
wisdom to my husband so that he may know what is Your good and perfect will.
Father, I pray you will teach my husband to not be wise in his own eyes doing what he
wants, when he wants, and how he wants, but always seeking You first, wanting to
please You above man. Doing this will bring health and nourishment to his body. (Pr3:7-
8)
Father, we know wisdom is found in those who take advice and accept
instruction. (Pr.13:10, 19:20) Make my husband one who accepts advice. Do not let him
be so set in his ways that he will scoff in the face of another who meant no ill will.
Rather, let him thoughtfully and patiently consider their words. Let him not become
angry and defensive, speaking harsh words that prove his heart is set in his ways. Gently
impart wisdom to him, revealing truth. Then help him accept the advice or instruction
that has been revealed to him.
Father, deepen my husband’s desire to grow in Your Word, for it has been said, the Holy
Scriptures are able to make us wise. (2Tim.3:15) To grow his desire to be in Your word,
place godly men and role models to walk with through life.
Father, thank You that you have given my husband a sound mind and teachable heart.
Today I ask again that You would impart great wisdom to him, so that he and his
children may live. Help him be strong, and show himself a man, observing what You
require. (1Kings2:2-4) And we know what You require is for us to act justly, love mercy
and to walk humbly before You, our infallible Lord. (Micah6:8) In Jesus’ name. Amen

26. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Integrity

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Integrity

Dear Jesus, thank You for the perfect example of a life of integrity. You said no wrong
and did no wrong, doing everything with a sincere love for mankind and humble
obedience to Your Father. I pray You will reveal Your goodness to my husband and give
him the desire to follow Your footsteps. Give him a heart that is sincere, hating what is
evil, clinging to what is good. (Romans12:9)
Father, many are the plans of a mans heart. I pray the plans of my husband’s heart will
be noble ones. Plans that will not bring scorn upon his name. If the plans of his heart do
not fit into Your will or do not line up with Your word, do not let them come about. Keep
from doing anything that will lead to a guilty conscience. May integrity and uprightness
protect him. (Ps.25:21) Always doing what is good, being serious, and having sound
speech that cannot be condemned. (Titus2:7-8)
Test him, O Lord, and try him. Examine the his heart and mind. Lead him in the way of
truth and light. (Ps.26:2-3) I pray he will be worthy of being honored as a capable man,
one who fears You, is trustworthy and hates dishonest gain. (Ex.18:21) When he is
tempted to do something not glorifying to You, help him stand strong in his faith,
knowing he who has clean hands and a pure heart will one day stand in Your presence.
(Ps.24:3-4)
I pray my husband will be one who says as Job did, “till I die, I will not deny my
integrity.” (Job27:5) letting his integrity guide him (Pr.11:3) and be the deciding factor
in all his ways. May he lead a blameless life, standing on level ground, praising the Lord.
(Ps.26:11,12) In Jesus’ name. Amen
27. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Honesty
A Prayer for Your Husband to walk in Honesty
Father, we know You do not lie, but hate all things deceitful. Anyone who practices
deceit will not dwell in Your house. No one who speaks falsely will be able to stand
before. (Ps.101:7) I pray You will far remove from my husband any lying are deceiving
way.
Father, make my husband a man who hates lies as much as You do. It is one of the seven
abominations and will not go unpunished. (Pr.6:16) Give my husband the wisdom to
always speak honestly and sincerely. May he keep his oath even when it hurts. (Ps.15:4)
Such a man will gain honor and respect. Teach him to let his ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes’ and his ‘No’
be ‘No’. (Matt.5:37)
I pray also, he would be a man honest in all his dealings. You, oh Lord, detest differing
weights and dishonest scales. (Pr.20:23) Plant my husband in uprightness, so that no
one can find fault in his dealings.
Father, words and deeds are done, reflecting the condition of a man’s heart. May the
intentions of my husband’s heart not be ones of deceit or schemes of ill gain. Rather, I
pray that the words of his mouth and the meditation of his heart would be pleasing to in
Your sight. (Ps.19:14) May he always keep growing in You, striving to live and speak
honestly. (Zeph.3:13) In Jesus’ name. Amen.

29. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Spiritual Leadership

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Spiritual Leadership

Father, I praise You for the great wisdom You have given my husband through Your
word. Teach him to love Your word. Then establish it upon his heart and mind so that he
will always be reminded of the way he should direct and encourage his family and
others. Lead him in the way that is truly life, so that he will be able to lead his children in
the same way. (Deut.11:18-21)
Where spiritual leadership was not modeled to him, teach him from Your word. Provide
other godly role models for him to fashion his life after. Teach him that true leadership
is pure and kind, not harsh or demanding. True leadership will not try to ‘lord it over’ or
force his will onto those around him. Whoever wants to become great among people
must be a servant or helper first. We see this in Christ’s example, Who came to serve and
give his life up for others. (Mark10:42-45)

Father, strengthen my husband’s faith so that he can lead diligently. Help him hold on
to his courage and hope, so he can continue being a temple for You. (Heb.3:6) Keep him
rooted and built up in Christ, overflowing with thankfulness. Teach him to weigh all
matters carefully so he won’t be taken captive through hollow or deceptive
philosophy. Help him discern between the vain, human traditions and principles of the
world and the correct teachings of Christ. (Col.2:6-8)
Father, I pray my husband would stand and lead strong and in the power of Your might.
The fear of You, Lord, leads to life. Do not let him stray. Should he grow slack, pursue
hard after him. Do not let him wane in his faith. May he always be prepared to do what
is right in Your eyes.
It is right in Your eyes for a father to impress on his children the words and commands
You have spoken and written to us. Do not let him be intimidated by the call You have
given him as a parent and spiritual leader of his home to talk about Your Word to his
children. Rather, give my husband the courage and ability to talk about them sitting at
home, walking along the road, lying down or getting up. (Deut.6:6-7, 11:18-21) May Your
ways and what is edifying to growth be what first comes out of his mouth, training and
leading his children and marriage in the way that is right. (Pr.22:6, Eph.6:4) In Jesus’
precious name. Amen.
30. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Trust

A Prayer that Your Husband will Trust the Lord

Father, we know Your ways are only good. Your ways are perfect, Your Word is flawless
and You promise to be a shield to those who trust in You. (2Sam.22:31)
Father, I pray my husband would be dealt an extra measure of trust. Show him
throughout the day that he can trust You with whatever comes. Give him a peace beyond
understanding so he can rest in knowing all will be as it should be in Your eyes. Where
there is even a small measure of distrust, doubt or trepidation, remind him that You
have proven Yourself faithful since the beginning of time and promise to be faithful and
trustworthy to all eternity.
Father, when my husband makes plans that go wrong or don’t hold out, do not let him
become discouraged. Remind him that this is only for a season, and that when he stands
firmly on Your foundation, You will greatly reward him. Many are the woes of the
wicked, but Your unfailing love surrounds those who trust in You. (Ps.32:10) Many can
be the plans of a mans heart but Your will, oh Lord, that will prevail. (Pr.19:21) Let my
husband rest securely in those promises, knowing that Your thoughts and Your ways
are above all others and You cannot allow what is not fitting to your great plan. (Is.55:8-
9)
Father, I praise You that You have given my husband a sound mind and teachable spirit.
Now and often, teach and speak to my husband through Your word and Spirit. Do not
snatch the word of truth from him, so that he can’t put his trust in You. (Ps.119:43)
Neither let him be a fool who trusts in himself, but establish him as a man who walks in
wisdom, his confidence secured in You. (Pr.28:26, Jer.17:7) In Jesus’ name. Amen.
31. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Health

A Scripture Prayer for Your Husband’s Health

Father, You are Healer. You know our bodies better than we do. You know our spirit
best because it is from You. I pray that my husband’s body will be kept in perfect
harmony, working together and functioning the way You designed it to.
Father, further on that note, we know we are to take care of our bodies, for they are the
temple of the Holy Spirit. (1Cor.3:16-17) I pray You would convict him to make healthy
eating choices, not consuming anything that would harm or inhibit him from doing the
work You have called him to do. Help him understand that he was bought with a price
and he should honor You with his body. (1Cor.6:19-20) I pray he would not fall to the
temptation of food addictions or any other harmful addictions that are not honoring to
You, but in view of Your great mercy, offer his body as a living sacrifice, holy and
pleasing to You. (Romans12:1)
Father, I pray also for his spiritual health. Urge him to obedience regarding being in
Your word, learning more of You and growing closer to You, becoming more like Jesus.
Do not let him forget Your teaching, but convict him to store your commands in his
heart, for they will prolong his life and bring him prosperity. (Pr.3:1-2) Let him not be
wise as the world considers wise. I pray he will seek first to fear You and shun evil for
that will bring health to his body and nourishment to his bones. (Pr.3:7-8) Give him
wisdom and the knowledge to understand that his first duty on this earth is to obey You
and glorify You. (Ecc.12:13) Keep him in perfect health so he may carry out Your will for
his life.
I pray that he may enjoy good health and that all may go well with him all the days of his
life as his soul also continues growing well. (3John1:2) At the end of his
long, obedient and good life, I pray he will be able to cross over into Your great presence
gently, easily, peacefully and joyfully. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
32. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Life Example

A Prayer that Your Husband’s Life Example

Dear Jesus, You have set a perfect example for us to follow. One of love, kindness and
humble obedience. Give my husband a desire to fashion his life after Yours, doing
nothing out of vain conceit, but considering others better than himself. (Phil.2:3)
Remind him often that he has little eyes watching him, looking up to him for guidance.
Outside his home, remind him worldly eyes are watching and needing an example of
pure and un-defiled love for mankind.
Father, give him strength and courage to do his best to set a good example, proving
himself a man worthy of his calling. Teach him that setting a good example includes
watching the words he speaks, avoiding godless chatter and having nothing to do with
foolish arguments. Teach him that a man of good character sets a good example when he
refuses to quarrel and instead build others up. (2Tim2:15-16,22-24)
Father, I pray my husband will also set a worthy example by the way he conducts
himself. Remove any tendencies to be quick-tempered for we know a man of quick
temper does foolish things. (Pr.14:17) Do not let him be foolish. Remove any
drunkenness, violence or dishonesty. In their place teach him to be hospitable, have a
love for good, portray self-control uprightness, holiness and discipline. Help him live a
blameless life, setting an example worthy of following. (Titus1:7)
Father, where he has been a bad example, give him courage to repent and do better.
Where a godly life has not been exemplified to him, help him rise above and not fall into
generations traps. Place godly men in his life for him to follow and be encouraged by.
Where he is unsure what is the best thing to do, move his heart to dig into Your word,
the perfect example for his life. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
32. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Friends

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Friends

Dear Jesus, You are our one forever faithful Friend. You are the One Who sticks closer
than a brother. (Pr18:24) But, You did not intend a man to walk this earth alone and
without friends in visible flesh and form. You have encouraged us to walk with the good
and the upright so that we might not grow weary in well doing, or grow weak and
complacent in our faith. So, Father, today I pray my husband’s friends will be those who
are wise and gentle. Friends who, as iron sharpens iron, sharpen him and encourage
him in his faith. (Pr.27:17) May he always be cautious in friendships (Pr.12:26), not
choosing company that would lead him down a path that is not good. (Pr.16:28-29)
Father, I pray You would remove any interest he might have in pursuing the activities
and ways of ungodly friends. Give him wisdom to see where he may need to discontinue
a friendship that is not up-building to his character. Do not let him make friends with a
hot-tempered man, lest he learn to do thee same. (Pr.22:24-25) Give him the knowledge
to know he needs to avoid any man who talks too much, for such a person is prone to
gossip and is not trustworthy. (Pr.20:19)
Father, I pray, also my husband would be a man who attracts godly friends. Remind him
to be a man who listens before speaking, being more interested in others than himself,
helping others before helping himself, doing for others before doing for himself, and not
expecting from others what he doesn’t expect from himself. Encourage him to be a
friend like Jesus, being a man of integrity, not easily swayed by men and paying no
attention to their rank or name. (Mark12:14) for when he is such a man, he will also find
such men to walk along side him. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
33. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Repentance

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Repentance

Father, thank You for Your great mercy. You have shown You are a forgiving God to all
generations. You are gracious and compassionate, slow to anger, abounding in
love.(Neh.9:17) You have promised that when Your people turn from their sin and seek
Your face You will hear them and will be faithful and just to forgive them their
sins.(2Chr.7:14, 1John1:9)
Father, I pray You will give my husband a heart for repentance. Give him the courage to
admit any wrong he has done. Convict him early and convict him often. Give him an
open and teachable heart with an ongoing, ever strengthening desire to what is good and
pleasing in Your eyes. Where conviction has taken place, further move him to humble
repentance, seeing his sin as You do and fully renouncing its hold on his life.
Father, in his humility give him Your peace, knowing he is fully forgiven and can walk
unashamedly in front of You. That You have removed his sin as far as the east is from
the west. That You are the one who blots out his transgressions and will remember them
no more. (Is.43:25)
Father, I praise You again for Your great mercy. As You have forgiven my husband of
any confessed sin, also give him a heart to forgive others as You have forgiven him. Help
him see any bitterness or unforgiveness in his heart as sin. Teach him gently that he
must forgive in order to be forgiven; that You forgive with the same measure he
forgives. (Matt6:14-15)
Strengthen him, be his rock when its hard to see past the pain, the unfairness, or the
human tendency to seek revenge. Soften his heart toward anyone who treats him poorly,
bearing with everyone in love. (Col.3:13) In Jesus’ name. Amen.
34. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Protection

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Protection

Father, I thank You for the promises You give throughout the Bible to keep Your
children safe. To give us a refuge, to be our strength and strengthener. Thank You that
You will never leave us nor forsake us and to be gracious to us all the days of our lives.
Father, protect my husband in all the ways he walks; watch over his coming and
going (Ps.121:8) guiding him away from any harmful situations. Protect him from
traveling accidents, work accidents, sicknesses, debilitating diseases of the body or
mind. Protect him from violence and the people who do it. I stand in the gap on behalf
of my husband, (Ez.22:30-31) asking that You place your mighty hand of protection
around him in every way he goes.
Lord, I know that Your arm is not too short that You cannot save, (Is.58:1) so preserve
the life of my husband so that he might grow old to watch his children’s children grow. I
entrust him to You, fully convinced that You are able to protect him this day and every
day of his life. (2Tim.1:12)
Father, when his heart is burdened and his spirit weary, the world seems dark all
around, remind him that You are his shield, his deliverer, his rock. Remind him that You
are his firm foundation, cornerstone and stronghold. (2Sam.22:1-4) Protect him from
any attacks the enemy plans to make on his mind, diverting the fiery darts that get sent
his way. You will not fail him, for You will not reject your people; You will never forsake
Your inheritance. (Ps. 94:14) In Jesus’ precious name. Amen.
35. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Courage

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Courage

Father, thank You for assuring us of Your never ending presence. Thank You that You
will never leave us nor forsake us, but will be with us to guide us, direct us, comfort
usand strengthen us. I pray that You will give my husband an extra measure of this
assurance today.
Help him be on his guard, standing firm in his faith, being a man of courage,
(1Cor.16:13) so that when he is tempted he will be able to endure the temptation and
emerge victorious. Father, You have not given him a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of
power, of love and of self-discipline. Do not let him be ashamed to testify of You by
choosing to do what is right. (2Tim.1:7-8)
Father, when he deals with difficult people, help him not be intimidated by them.
Instead, make him strong and courageous, not fearing or being in dread of them.
Remind him often that it is You who goes with him and You will never leave him or
forsake him. (Deut.31:6) Help him not be frightened in any way by those who oppose
him, for this will be a sign to them that their way is not good and will bring them to
justice, but my husband will be preserved and will prosper. (Phil.1:28)

When he is caught in difficult situations where he has to make hard decisions, make him
a strong, courageous man who isn’t afraid of doing what is right. Help him trust in You
with all his heart and lean not on his own understanding, but always acknowledge You
first. (Pr.3:4-5) May he understand that Your ways and Your thoughts are much higher
than his, that You understand everything perfectly and that Your way is only good, right
and perfect.
Father, when his good deeds go unnoticed or seem minuscule, do not let him grow
discouraged. Instead, make him strong and courageous, willing to do the work for You.
Remind him that You are always beside him, that You notice, You know, You reward
Your faithful servant. (1Chr.28:20)
One more time, Father, make him a man of courage and not of timidity, willing to go the
extra mile, do the extra deed, be the extra good. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

36. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Humility

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Humility

Father, we know You hate the proud and love the humble. You have instructed us to not
think of ourselves more highly than we ought to, but to think of ourselves with sober
judgment. (Romans12:3) Make my husband a man who doesn’t think himself better
than those around him. Give him a heart willing to honor others above himself. Let him
serve others without ulterior motives, selfish ambitions or vain conceit, but rather be
humbly and graciously willing to be a servant to others. (Phil.2:3-4)
Father, make my husband careful of the words he speaks. You do not find boasting good
or of any worth. (1Cor.5-6) Your word tells us that whoever exalts himself will be
humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted. (Matt.23:12) Do not let my
husband be a man brought to destruction, shame or disgrace due to boastful words,
selfish actions or a proud heart. Let other men praise him and not himself. (Pr.27:2) Let
other men honor him and not himself.

Father, You have promised to supply a humble man with wealth, honor, life
and wisdom. (Pr.22:4; 11:2) So develop in him a heart that is not proud and eyes that are
not haughty. (Ps.131:1) Teach him even as he sleeps,(Ps.16:7) to be obedient, ready to do
whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, showing true
humility to all men. (Titus3:1-2)
Teach him also, to not concern himself with things that seem great and wonderful on
this earth, but instead, to still and quiet his soul before You and put his hope in You both
now and forevermore. (Ps.131:1-3) In Jesus’ name. Amen.
37. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Emotions

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Emotions

Father, thank You that You have given my husband a sound mind and teachable heart.
You are the great Instructor. I pray You would instruct my husband regarding his
emotions, letting him know that its OK to feel and its OK to express. Free him to be able
to express his emotions in healthy ways and not bottle them up inside. Let him not be
ashamed to show sorrow. Help him also smile and laugh, so he isn’t always weighted
down by seriousness.
I pray You would far remove any diseases of the mind or unhealthy emotional behaviors
like anger, depression, indifference, fear, hopelessness or suicidal thoughts. Deliver him
from any negative ways of thinking. Help him not be anxious about anything, but in
everything give thanks. (Phil.4:6-7)
When he feels depressed, remind him to call upon Your name and You will give him
peace that passes all understanding. You will supply him with great joy in Your
presence. Redeem his soul, spare him from sinking into despair. (Ps.30:3)

When he is angry or frustrated give him the wisdom and strength to control his words
and actions. Do not let him be controlled by anger, or fits of rage. Instead renew in him a
gentle, understanding spirit.
I pray he would not be a jealous man who is always seeking but never finding; always
wanting and lacking contentment. Jealousy itself develops greed and frustration. Pour
into his heart thanksgiving and appreciation for what he has been given.
Father, anoint him with Your oil of joy, (Is.61:3) renewing him, strengthening him and
empowering him against any effects negative emotions bring. In Jesus’ name. Amen
37. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Habits

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Habits

Father, You have sent Your Holy Spirit to live in us. Our very bodies are His temple. I
pray my husband will let nothing consume his body, mind or time that would destroy
him. For you have said, he who destroys Your temple You will destroy also. (1Cor.3:16-
17)
I pray he will not be addicted to any food or substance that is harmful to his health, not
participating in drunkenness or gluttony. I pray he will not be tempted to sin against his
body, Your temple, by using and participating in pornography, sexual immorality, orgies
or the like. Keep his mind pure. Do not let him fall into the habitual ways of thinking
that come from jealousy, anger, witchcraft, idolatry, or dissensions. Remove any
tendencies to gratify the flesh or seek self satisfaction. (Gal.5:19-21) Do not let him be a
man mastered by sinful desires. (2Pet.2:19) Instead establish in him a clean heart with
motives matched by the will and strength to stand against the enemies temptations.

I stand humbly before You, Lord, asking that You keep my husband from willful sin. Do
not let him be ruled by his flesh. (Ps.19:13) Surround him with Your mighty protection.
Lift him when he stumbles, carry him when he is weak. Strengthen him when he is
tempted, convict him to persevere in what he knows is good, for this will establish a
greater faith in him. (James1) Remind him to be careful how he lives- not as unwise but
as wise, making the best choice in every situation. (Eph.5:15) After he has
persevered, may he praise You knowing he can do all things through Your Son who gives
him strength. (Phil.4:13) In Jesus’ precious name. Amen.
39. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Past

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Past

Dear Jesus, You are our Healer. Thank You that You are able to set us free from all
things past and present. You heal the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds.
(Pr.147:3) You have made a way for us to experience true freedom, and for that, I
humbly thank You.
Bind up my husbands wounds, Jesus. Soothe his heart. Pour grace and mercy into him
so that he can forgive those who have hurt him. While it may be hard to forget what has
been done to him, or what hasn’t been done for him, I pray he would not lose heart, but
be renewed day by day. May he see that his troubles on earth are but momentary, so he
can fix his eyes on You and cling tightly to Your great promises. (2Cor.4:16-18)
Father, You have told us to let go of former things and not dwell on the
past. (Is.43:16,18-19) I pray my husband will not live in the past, or let it dictate him
in any way. Instead, heighten his ability to do better for his children than was done for
him. Strengthen him to stand against any generational sins that may be holding onto
him.

Lord, help him see that You have a great and wonderful plan for him and all generations
following him. Show him that he is the one You are calling to set a new direction, a new
and worthy heritage for his descendants; that You are capable of renewing all things,
establishing a way through the desert of generational bandage and making streams of
life flow through wastelands of sin and pain. I stand against any powers and
principalities of darkness that have been making him believe otherwise, and proclaim
my husband is an over-comer and though thousands fall around him, he will not be
shaken.
Father, I pray that through his complete deliverance, he would grow to have an
appreciation for his past. Match and multiply the days of his gladness in proportion to
his affliction. (Ps.90:15) May his past serve only as a reminder of what he has overcome,
and result in great praise to You for his healing and growth. May only peace, joy,
thankfulness and greater faith come from the pain he has endured. In Jesus’ name.
Amen.
“do not lose heart….
For our light and momentary troubles
are achieving for us an eternal glory
that far outweighs then all.
So we fix our eyes
not on what is seen,
but on what is unseen.”
~2 Corinthians 4:16-17~
40. A Prayer for Your Husband’s Future

A Prayer for Your Husband’s Future

Father, thank You for this man You have set in my life to lead me and our family. I pray
you will give him a clear vision of what Your plan is for him. I pray that he will not
pursue things of his own will but seek You first in all things, so he can lead us in the way
that is good, right and beneficial to each member of our family.
Instruct him, Lord, even as he sleeps in the way You would have him go. Stay at his right
hand so he will not be shaken. (Ps.16:7) You have promised to give to each person that
which he has done. I pray my husband will be a man who persistently seeks to do good
so that he may inherit eternal life. (Romans2:6-7)
Father, surround him with Your mighty wings, illuminate the path You would have him
walk, strengthen him to march courageously onward, whether the storm is favorable or
unfavorable, always willing to obey You. May he make his plans by seeking advice from
You or sound counsel from godly men. (Pr.20:18) I pray he would always be careful to
live uprightly and act wisely, never letting an opportunity to bring glory to You go to
waste. (Eph.5:15-16)
Lead him ever in the way that is right, so that it may go well with him, his marriage, and
his descendants. In Jesus’ precious name. Amen.
“Whether it be favorable or unfavorable,
we will obey the Lord our God,…
so that it may go well with us”
~ Jeremiah 42:6 ~