PreDivorce Strategy Made Simple [THE 12 CRITICAL QUESTIONS]

PRIVATE COACHING
QUESTIONNAIRE
The coaching relationship is a private, trust-based relationship that is grounded in honesty, integrity, and empathy.
It’s important to understand the important distinction that comes with pre-divorce strategy.

What is Pre-Divorce Strategy?

Pre-divorce strategy involves the creation and execution of a pre-divorce plan, a detailed, whole-life embodiment of
intentions, steps, and courses of action a person or couple can take as they consider whether to divorce or stay
together.

What does Pre-Divorce Coaching involve?

Pre-Divorce coaching is both a practical and spiritual experience. It combines three core foundations of practice:
1) Pre-Divorce Strategy: scenario and life planning in the pre-divorce process.
2) Numerology: “the science of information about life through numbers.” (Glynis McCants) By knowing a
client’s life path, attitude, birth day, soul, and personality number, coaching allows one to look at whether
spousal numbers conflict or align. Further, we work on how to alter communication patterns and cycles by
paying closer attention to what personal month, year, and day a client is in.
3) Archetypes: Originated from the work of Dr. Carl Jung and further clarified by the work of medical intuitive
Caroline Myss, all private coaching involves a serious consideration of the archetypes clients play out and the
sacred contracts made between spouses through these archetypes.
As a pre-divorce strategist, I help clients craft a pre-divorce plan that works for their particular situation. The goal is
not to get divorced; the goal is not to stay together. The goal, in working one-on-one with a client, is to build a
deeper knowing of which path to take by identifying the spiritual, psychological and life path you’re on and how to
consciously choose a different, more life-affirming path.

Prior to taking on a client for a one hour session, I require the following:
1) Potential clients fill out the private coaching questionnaire
2) Potential clients join me for a FREE 30 minute numerology reading/pre-divorce consultation
3) Once accepted as a client, the client pays the coaching fee (for whatever package is chosen) upfront via
PayPal on the website
The one hour coaching session is 60 minutes of exploring numerology, archetypal patterns and developing pre-
divorce strategies. Clients come out of this one session with a clear idea of who they are, what they want, and what
steps they’ll need to take to get there. The point of pre-divorce strategy is this: stay ready so you don’t have to get
ready.

Let’s begin…

Kassandra Bibas

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DIRECTIONS: In a quiet, private place, respond to the following questions. Email your responses (in the body of the
email) to Kassandra Vaughn at kvaughn@predivorcestrategy.com. Be open, be truthful and say exactly what you
feel in your responses. None of this information will be shared with anyone. All responses are kept confidential.

1) What is your birth day? (Please be sure to provide month, day, and year)
2) What is your spouse’s birthday (Please be sure to provide month, day, and year)
3) Which of the following best describes your marriage (highlight in red)?
 Happily married * unhappily married
 He/she looked good on paper *I’m tired
 one sided marriage * boring marriage
 financially broke marriage *I settled for this person
 He/she doesn’t love me *We’re staying together for the kids
4) How long have you been married?
5) In your marriage, where are you and your spouse alike (and get along)? Where are you different (and have
your conflicts)?
6) Are there patterns of behavior that, thinking back, you find repeat themselves in all your relationships?
Really think about this (ex: playing the victim, having a knight in shining armor to save you, being the person
who’s always saving other people, people peaser, overly judgmental, always teaching people, continuous
sabatoge of relationships, etc.).
7) What is your religious/spiritual background or upbringing?
8) Where do you believe people go after they die (heaven or hell, reincarnation, etc.)?
9) How do you think your religious/spiritual background has impacted your views on relationships and
marriage?
10) When was the first time you thought about getting divorced? What experience or circumstance triggered
this thought?
11) Do you feel like you married the person who IS right for you or do you feel like you married the person who
was right at the time? Please explain why you feel this way.
12) Is there any emotional, verbal, or physical abuse involved in your relationship? If so, please describe.
13) How often do you and your spouse fight about money? What are the top 3 money issues you fight about?
14) Are you currently working? Who manages the money in your household?
15) Are you financially making it or are you living from paycheck to paycheck?
16) What are your top 3 concerns about getting a divorce?
17) If you could work out the marriage, would you stay? Why or why not?
18) If you were to win $1,000,000 today, would you get a divorce or share your winnings with your spouse? Why
or why not?
19) Why did you get married?
20) What are the reasons why you’re thinking about divorce?
21) If your spouse left you today, what would you do to maintain your lifestyle?
22) Do you have children? If so, how are they being impacted by the current state of your marriage? What are
your concerns for them?
23) What role do in-laws or other family members play in your marital problems?
24) Is there any infidelity going on (or has there been in the past) in your marriage? If so, please describe how
this has impacted and is continuing to affect your marriage?
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25) Are you in love with your spouse? Why or why not?
26) Do you respect your spouse? Why or why not?
27) Do you love yourself? Why or why not?
28) What do you hope to gain from this pre-divorce coaching session?

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