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Take advantage of five things before five others happen: your youth before you grow old;
your health before you fall sick; your money before you become poor; your leisure before
you become busy; and your life before you die. [The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon
him, said this according to Amr ibn Maymun as recorded by Tirmizi]
ﺷﺒﺎﺑﻚ ﻗﺒﻞ ﻫﺮﻣﻚ وﺻﺤﺘﻚ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺳﻘﻤﻚ وﻏﻨﺎك ﻗﺒﻞ ﻓﻘﺮك وﻓﺮاﻏﻚ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺷﻐﻠﻚ وﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ: « اﻏﺘﻨﻢ ﺧﻤﺴﺎ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺧﻤﺲ
»ﻗﺒﻞ ﻣﻮﺗﻚ
رواه اﻟﺘﺮﻣﺬي
Umar Ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) said: Hold yourself accountable before you are
held accountable and weigh your deeds before they are weighed for you.
A few weeks ago, we advised Muslims to plan ahead for Ramadan. Now that the blessed month is
over, it's time to set our sights on planning again. This time, it's to keep those good Ramadan habits
we picked up and to develop more in the next 12 months.
To do that, we've got to take stock of where we are and think about new habits to develop.
During Ramadan, we had one month to try to establish resolutions and habits we hope to keep. But if
we want to continue those habits, we need to take a careful look at ourselves and evaluate where
we've been, where we want to go and how to get there, Insha Allah.
The planning until next Ramadan has to be done NOW. There is no time to wait.
This is a sample self-evaluation form you can use to assess your present state in different aspects of
life and how you can improve on the good.
-How often did you remember and thank Allah in times of happiness and joy?
-How did you react to difficulties and tests Allah placed in your life? Were you patient or impatient?
-Did your understanding of and commitment to Allah deepen with knowledge and practice this year?
-How often did you remember Allah on a daily basis? How can I incorporate Zikr into my life?
-How often did you "talk" to Allah through Dua, apart from when you wanted something?
-How often did you turn to Allah in times of anxiety, need and difficulty?
-What can you do on a daily and weekly basis to increase your remembrance and commitment to
Allah?
-How can you memorize relevant Duas from the Quran and Ahadith to remember Allah at all times?
-Did you read Quran with meaning and understanding this past year on a daily basis?
-What are 10 new things that you learned about Islam this past year which you did not know before?
-Did you seek knowledge only for Allah's sake, or was there another reason?
-What 10 aspects of Islam would you like to know about by next Ramadan which you do not know
about right now?
-How many Islamic books did you read this past year?
-What way of learning suits you best (i.e. oral, visual, written)?
Your prayers
-Did you pray on time at school or at work, or did you make up the prayers when you got home?
-Are you praying correctly, or just assuming the way you pray is correct?
-Have you approached prayer with anticipation, love and fear of Allah, or with a reluctance and dread,
hoping to just get it over with?
-Have you made dua for your neighbors and friends at job?
-Is your relationship with your family for the pleasure of Allah?
-(If living together), do you have meaningful conversation with them daily?
-Have you forgiven them for any hurt they may have caused you?
-Have you sought their forgiveness for mistakes you have made that hurt them?
-In the last year, what five things have you done to bring them closer to Allah?
-Have you given them gifts on Eid and tried to get together with them?
-If they have passed away, when did you pray for them?
-Have you learned about Islam together by attending a regular Islamic activity?
-How have you tried to make Islam part of your lives as a couple and family?
-Has there been verbal, emotional or physical abuse in the relationship? If so, why and what can be
done about it?
-Is there a silent grudge that needs to be discussed and cleared away?
-Have you forgiven each other and sought forgiveness from each other for past mistakes?
-How often have you spent leisure time alone together in the past year?
-Has your Iman (faith) in Allah and Islam grown through your relationship this past year?
-How would you feel about your relationship if you are in your spouse's place?
-What five things have you done to bring them kids closer to Allah?
-How much have you invested in their Islamic education, both financially and in terms of your time?
-On a scale of one to five, with five being the highest, how well do you think you know your children?
-What is going on in their lives in school, extracurricular activities, social activities, etc.?
-How many fun activities have you engaged in with them over the year?
-Have you helped introduce them to good Muslim kids their age that they can be friends with?
-Has there been verbal, emotional or physical abuse in the relationship? If so, why and what can be
done about it?
-Have you sought their forgiveness for mistakes you have made that hurt them?
-Do you know what kind of environment they are growing up in?
-Do you know what their favorite television shows, writers, video games, toys etc. are?
-How often do you take them to Islamic activities (i.e. dinners, camps, conferences, seminars, etc.)?
-Are they likely to talk to you or would they prefer to talk to your spouse when they need to?
How is your relationship with relatives (i.e. brothers and sisters, etc.)
-Do you visit each other at least once a year (if you're not living close by)
-Have you forgiven them for any past hurts and errors?
-Have you sought their forgiveness for mistakes you have made that hurt them?
-Have you helped them with Halal needs (i.e. financial help)?
-Is your income (i.e. job) Halal? If you're not sure, who can you consult about this?
-How often and how much (approximately) did you spend in charity?
-What kinds of things, people, and causes did you spend on this year?
-Did you make a will to make sure that your property and belongings are divided Islamically after you
die?
-What are the top five worthy causes to give to next year?
-What have you done to support Muslim businesses in the last year?
-Do you regularly pray extra prayers to worship Allah with heart and body?
-If not, what kind of career change can you make that will provide you with a Halal income while using
your skills for the sake of Allah?
-If your job is Halal, have you tried to improve productivity and dedication to your career?
-How can you use your career to improve your relationship with Allah, benefit the Ummah, and
humanity?
-What are the Halal means (i.e. interest-free loans) available to further your education?
-If a student, is your field of study; one that will bring you closer to Allah?
-How will your field of study benefit Muslims and humanity in general?
-What additional programs or courses should you take to improve your level of education?
-Do you have a daily or weekly to do list, which lists all of the tasks you need to complete?
-What would be an example of a day in your life where time was well spent?
-How much free time did you have on average per week this year?
-Do you spend more time watching tv or talking to your spouse and children?
-Have you volunteered for any soup kitchen, thrift store or similar project?
-What are three worthy projects you can devote your time to in your community for the sake of Allah?
Dawa
-How much time have you spent conveying the message of Islam to others?
-Have you prayed for those Muslims who do not pray and fast?
-Have you visited your friends and relatives who are away from Islam?
-Is there a phone tree in your community so that you can easily inform other Muslims about events
and issues of concern?
-How often have you had a conversation about Islam with neighbors, classmates or co-workers?
-Have you given any Islamic literature to a non-Muslim this past year?
-Have you followed up with non-Muslims who may have expressed an interest in Islam to you?
-Have you volunteered your time for your Masjid or Muslim school?
-Since September 11, has your Masjid reached out to the local neighborhood with the message of
Islam through sympathy and good communication?
-Have you helped your mosque organize an open house to share Islam with the local neighborhood?
-Does your city's Muslim community have a united council or federation? If so, is your Masjid a part of
it?
-What are five things you can do to make your Masjid more connected with the rest of your city's
Muslim community?
-Have you developed any skills which a Muslim organization like the Masjid can use?
These are some questions which we came up with. They may or may not apply to you. Only you know
yourself better, after Allah. So ask yourself all the questions which you want to ask, all the right
questions. And then do these three things:
• Seek Allah's forgiveness for each and every sin and your shortcomings
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