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1. In part, the increase can be attributed to the inclusion of same-sex couples within this category for the first time. However, there has been
a consistent trend toward greater numbers of people cohabiting since figures were first collected in 1981 (Melton 1992; Statistics New
Zealand 1998).
2. In line with Foucault's ([ 1978] 1990) contention that discourses are tactically polyvalent, I argue that cohabitation is neither inherently
progressive nor oppressive. The same can be said about the discourse of marriage. Instead, cohabitation and marriage provide different
avenues for managing our relational lives, each of which results in some unexpected and contradictory outcomes. It is the deployment of
cohabitation rather than marriage that I am interested in here.
3. The men I spoke with also expressed an interest in producing relationships that departed from the gendered norms of traditional marriage,
although some of their reasons for so doing differed from those expressed by the women in this study. For example, many of the men
rejected the prescribed gender roles of traditional marriage as a way of establishing themselves as unconventional actors. (For a full
discussion of this point, see Elizabeth 1997.)
4. 1 use foucauldian, rather than Foucauldian, to indicate that although Foucault's writings have
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been an important source of some of the ideas with which I and other feminists work, they have also undergone substantial modification.
5. The discourse of cultural feminism is based on this kind of reevaluation.
6. Once again, it is important to take note of the tactical polyvalence of discourses. The success with which cohabitation can be deployed by
women to create egalitarian relationships is context dependent. Male partners of heterosexual women form a crucial element of this context,
hence, their inclusion within this study. The questions that need to be asked are as follows: Who deploys it, with what ends in mind, and to
what effect on whom? It is important to remember that the establishment of apparently gender-neutral practices is not inherently liberatory
for women: Such practices may have been installed against her will and, in this instance, represent an exercise of power by him.
7. Counterdiscourses, as I use the term, construct new and distinctive subject positions and practices.
8. Elsewhere, I have explored other aspects of the discursive construction of marriage by the cohabitants with whom I spoke (see Elizabeth
1997).
9, In fact, there is no equivalent word in our language for those who have been cohabiting and who have subsequently split.
10. A De Facto Relationships (Property) Bill is currently under review.
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11. This point is pursued in depth in Elizabeth (1997).
12. Although several women I spoke with claimed to be in committed relationships prior to having their first children, another woman
indicated that having a child produced a level of commitment that had not existed previously.
13. Other cohabitants suggested that owning a house together was also a marker of commitment.
14. Disciplinary power is that form of power that uses techniques of observation and/or measurement to produce subjects who can be
governed both by themselves and by others (Foucault [1975] 1979, 1982). The first requirement of a disciplinary system is the
establishment of a social norm, or standard, that acts as the point of comparison (Foucault [ 1975] 1979; Fraser 1989); the second
requirement of a disciplinary system is a mechanism to enable people's behaviors to be monitored.
15. The assumption that it is men, rather than women, who are resisting marriage was not borne out by this study. With a few exceptions,
the women with whom I spoke were vocal in their rejection of marriage. However, this gendered reading of cohabitants' positions with
respect to marriage is in keeping with what Duncombe and Marsden (1993, 1995) argue is a gendered pattern of emotional involvement
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in relationships. What remains to be explored is the part this notion plays in the negotiations that take place between heterosexual couples.
16. In terms of this research, it is interesting to note that once again a branch of the state categorizes people according to formal marital
status and not according to whether they are cohabiting. Thus, births to couples who cohabit are included within the ex-nuptial count. Yet,
some of the "married births" may be to women who are not cohabiting with husbands or who are cohabiting with men who are not their
husbands.
17. The panopticon is composed of a system of back-lit cells that surround a centralized watchtower.
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The occupants of the cells are clearly visible to the guard in the watchtower but cannot determine when they are actually being observed. A
power relationship is thus formed based on the unidirectional nature of the gaze between the guard and the cell inhabitants. Fearing their
constant surveillance, the occupants of the cells subject themselves to surveillance, obviating the need for more overt forms of intervention
in their lives. Hence, we have the self-policing subject, the subject who abandons previously held positions as he or she takes up
subjectivities that conform to others' expectations, thereby avoiding the negative sanctions that follow from external sources of surveillance.
18. Barbara also "appears to be married" when traveling with Matthew in India and other Asian countries.
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[Author note]
VIVIENNE ELIZABETH
Public Health Promotion, Auckland Healthcare
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Vivienne Elizabeth is the research coordinator for From Abuse to Family Strength, aproject that analyzes women's accounts of separating
from abusive parmers. Her doctorate critically examined the use of cohabitation to negotiate various aspects of heterosexual coupledom.
She is interested in working at the intersection of the sociology of personal relationships and the sociology of gender.