ASK DR.

ZAKIR NAIK

(Q). My name is Sameer, I am a student � I would like to ask this question. You
have put up an� there is an upper limit in Islam for women, for man to marry four
wives - But why did the Prophet Mohammed (Peace by upon him), have eleven wives -
and there is an insinuation, that he was hyper sexual?

(Dr.Zakir) The brother has asked the question that, since Islam allows the maximum
of four wives, how come Prophet Muhammed had eleven wives. I do agree with the
brother, the Qur�an mentions in Surah Nisa, Chapter 4, Verse No. 3, that you can
maximum have 4 wives. But there is another Verse in Surah Ahzab, Ch. 33, Verse 52,
which says that... �O Prophet you cannot marry more women, neither can you exchange
any other women for the present one, even if their beauty attracts you, except what
your right hand possesses. This Verse of the Qur�an, Surah Ahzab, Ch. 33, Verse No.
52, gives the permission to the Prophet, to keep all his wives, but at the same
time, cannot marry any other women, except which your right hand possesses. If you
analyse why Prophet Muhammed was not allowed to marry more wives - and besides
that, he could not neither divorce them, because there is one more Verse in the
Qur�an, which says that� �As for the wives of the Prophet, whether they are
divorced or whether they become widows, no person can marry them, because they are
Um-ul Mominin� they are the Mothers of the believers�. So since no one could marry
the wives of the Prophet, but natural �the Prophet could not divorce them also.

And if you analyse, that all the eleven marriages which the Prophet did� all were
either for social reform or for political reason - Were not to please his sex. The
first marriage that he did, was with Bibi Khatija, (May Allah be pleased with her).
She was at the age of 40,when he was only 25 - And she was a widow twice. Imagine,
if he married for sex, why would he marry a woman who was fifteen years elder to
him, and who was a widow twice. And if you analyse, till the time Bibi Khatija (May
Allah be pleased with her)� till the time she was alive, Prophet Muhammed did not
take any other wives.

When he was the age of 50, Bibi Khatija (May Allah be pleased with her), she
expired. Only between the age of 53 to 56, did Prophet take all the other
wives.Imagine� if the Prophet was hyper sexu�al, he would have married at a young
age. Science tells us� �The older the man gets, the less sexual he gets�. It is an
insinuation, on the Prophet. Only 2 of his marriages were normal - that with Bibi
Khatija, and that with Bibi Ayesha, (May Allah be pleased with them both). All the
other marriages were due to circumstances� either of a social reform, or a
political gain. If you analyse all, only 2 wives were below the age of 36 - All the
other wives were between the age of 36 and 50 - You can give instances� each
marriage had some reason. For example Bibi Johariya, who was from the Banu-Mustalik
tribe� which was very powerful tribe, and which was at logger heads with Islam -
After a certain time, they were suppressed by the Islamic Army, and later on, the
Prophet married her. And after he married her, the companions said��How can we keep
as captives, the relatives of the Prophet� - And they freed those people�and after
that, both these tribes became friendly. There are examples, when he married Bibi
Maimoona (May Allah be pleased with her), who was the sister of the wife of the
chief of the tribe of Najad, which killed 70 Muslim, men of the Islamic deputation.
After Mo�hammed (May peace be upon him)� when he married her, they accepted Medina
as their leader�ship, and they accepted Prophet as their leader. All the� all the
marriages which he did, had some political reason or social reform.

He married Umme Habiba, who was the daughter of the Chief of Mecca, Abu-Sufiyan -
but natural this marriage played a great importance in the conquest of Mecca. Other
example like Bibi Safiya (May Al�lah be pleased with her), she was the daughter of
a powerful Jewish leader - After this, the Jewish became very friendly to the
Muslims. If you see, all the marriages had some social reforms - he married the
daughter of Hazrat Ummer, Hafsa (May Allah be pleased with her), to get closer
relationship between the companions. As a social reform, he married a lady who was
divorced�the first cousin Zainab - After she was divorced, he married her. All the
marriages have some political reason or social reform - So all his marriages were
based, to improve the community and to better rela�tionships - It was not for sex.
Hope that answers the question.