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Najib
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Rosmah
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Birth data:
Mohd Najib
July 23, 1953
Rosmah Mansor
December 10, 1951
NUMEROLOGY ANALYSIS
The Secret To Your Inner Self
INTRODUCTION 7
LIFE PATH 8
EXPRESSION 13
HEART'S DESIRE 19
PERSONALITY 24
PERSONAL YEARS 28
PERSONAL MONTHS 36
SUMMARY
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balanced and clear as possible, and repeating certain traits
would place too much emphasis on them.
LIFE PATH
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begin. Your entire life exists as a potential that has been
prepared for. Najib, you have ultimate freedom to do with your
life as you like: To fulfill its potential completely, or to make
some smaller version of yourself. It all depends upon your
effort and commitment. You make the decisions to fulfill, to
whatever extent, the potential life that exists within you. That
is your choice. In this sense, the possible you is implicit during
the moment of your birth.
The Life Path number gives us a broad outline of the
opportunities, challenges, and lessons we will encounter in this
lifetime. Your Life path is the road you are traveling. It reveals
the opportunities and challenges you will face in life. Your Life
Path number is the single most important information available
in your Personality Chart!
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responsibilities. You are emotional and vulnerable. When hurt,
you withdraw into a cloud of silence, eventually emerging from
your reticence with jokes and laughter that cover up your true
feelings. You can become moody and cynical when depressed.
You can succumb to sarcastic remarks, which can be painful to
those around you. When used positively, your talent for self
expression can be a great inspiration force in the world,
uplifting others, and bringing much success and happiness to
you.
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on some level that you stand out. Even when you try to blend
with your environment, you often feel conspicuous, alien, and
out-of-place.
Rosmah, you are blessed with a message, or a specific role
to play in life. But you must develop yourself sufficiently to
take full advantage of that opportunity. Until that time, your
inner development takes precedence over your ability to
materialize the great undertaking you were chosen to perform.
Consequently, 11s seem to develop slowly, but they simply
have more to accomplish in their evolution than the average
person. Thus, your real success does not usually begin until
maturity, between the ages of 35 and 45, when you have
progressed further along your path.
You may often be frustrated, largely because you have
extremely high expectations of yourself. But these
expectations can be unrealistic, and can prevent you from
accomplishing anything. You can be very impractical,
envisioning a skyscraper when all that was necessary was a
two-story house.
You may also suffer from bouts of confusion and lack of
direction. This gives rise to loss of confidence and the onset of
deep depression. The cause of these emotional problems is
your lack of understanding of your own sensitivity and
potential. Your desire to achieve some great ambition is
enormous. However, a lack of confidence in your own ability to
realize this dream may cause you much frustration. You sense
the enormous potential you possess, which requires equally
enormous confidence in your ability to materialize your dream.
Confidence is the key that unlocks your potential.
On a strictly physical level, you must protect your nervous
system, which is inordinately vulnerable to stress because of
your acute sensitivity. Depression is often the result of long
periods of stress that have gone unrelieved. Seek out peaceful
and harmonious environments, relaxing music, and follow a
healthful diet in order to restore balance and peace.
As an 11 Life Path, you are a highly charged version of the 2
and possess many of the characteristics and talents of that
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number.
You can be extremely diplomatic and tactful. You are also
patient and cooperative. You work well with groups and
somehow find a way of creating harmony among diverse
opinions. You enjoy music and poetry and require a
harmonious environment. You have an eye for beauty and a
fine sense of balance and rhythm. You have healing
capabilities, especially in such fields as massage, acupuncture,
physical therapy, and counseling.
Rosmah, you are a sensitive and passionate lover; your
perceptiveness makes you aware of your partner's needs and
desires, which you are able to fulfill with almost magical
delicacy. However, when you feel you have been mistreated or
jilted, you can react with devastating power, sometimes using
personal criticisms vindictively.
You are a fine companion and possess a good sense of
humor.
When you have found your niche in life and begun to realize
your true potential, your rewards will more than compensate
for your trials earlier in life.
Najib and Rosmah, your Life Path numbers are the most
important numbers in your charts, and, as such, their
compatibility is very important to the well-being of your
relationship.
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that this has a negative effect on Rosmah. However, when
“little things” grow into big emotional issues in which even
Najib is strongly affected, Najib will respond passionately.
Najib may even lose sight of the beauty and love that is the
foundation of your relationship, letting anger and sharp verbal
skills do considerable damage. Rosmah will respond, perhaps
with a few angry words, but, more likely, by withdrawing.
Thus, a hard kernel of resentment wrapped up in confusion
and sometimes hidden from view for a long time - since
Rosmah doesn't think too clearly when emotions are in play
and tends to walk away from confrontations - may eventually
become a source of such discontent that it will take everything
Najib has to offer to bring Rosmah back.
On a more positive note, the combination of 2 and 3 is a very
passionate and strong one. So, as long as Najib keeps verbal
impulses under control, and Rosmah has enough
self-confidence to handle occasional criticisms, the
relationship has every chance of bringing lots of love and joy
to your life.
Keep in mind that beauty and love lie at the bottom of your
relationship, and that it is in your own hands to gradually
destroy or make them stronger day after day. Discuss any
issues - open and frank, but also with tact and sensitivity - as
they come up.
EXPRESSION
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constitution, the orientation or goal of your life. Some
numerologists refer to this number as the Destiny, because it
represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. You work
at fulfilling this potential every day of your life. Thus, the
Expression number reveals your inner goal, the person you aim
to be.
The Expression number reveals the talents, abilities, and
shortcomings that were with you when you entered your
human body. Your name, and the numbers derived from it,
reveals your development, as well as the talents and issues you
will be working with during this life.
For those for whom reincarnation is an accepted philosophy,
the vibration of your full name can be seen as the totality of
your personal evolution, the experiences, talents, and wisdom
accumulated over many life times. Every experience, no matter
how great or small, along this evolutionary path has influenced
your development, and brought you to your current state of
being.
The Expression is your being; the Life Path is the major
lesson you are attempting to learn this time around. Time
allows the gradual emergence of your personality. By reading
the Expression number below, you will come to understand
your basic nature and the abilities and issues inherent in your
being.
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You enjoy seeing a project through from start to finish, but
can become too narrowly focused. You put your nose to the
grindstone and have a tendency to become a workaholic.
You are driven by contempt for all that is unstable, insecure,
and unpredictable. You distrust the unconventional, preferring
instead the tried-and-the-true. But this can make your
endeavors move slowly and cause you much frustration,
especially with the apparent limitations of your resources. At
the same time, concern for the limitations of your resources
causes you to be careful and cautious, shutting you out from
possible shortcuts and creative solutions provided by more
daring people around you.
It is important that you recognize restrictions for what they
are: guiding forces that are testing and directing you toward
your goals.
Najib, your challenge is to be more imaginative and to
attract more creative people into your life who can advise and
inspire you.
In relationships, you tend to be somewhat moralistic. You
are extremely honest and sincere. You have integrity and are
trustworthy, but can also be rigid and stubborn. Don't let your
strong likes and dislikes overrule your common sense and
compassion. Be more understanding of others' shortcomings.
Because you tend to focus on details, you can fall into a rut
and become a little dull and overly serious. Often, people born
with the 4 Expression need to lighten up and have more fun.
In your conservative and careful way, you are good with
money. You are very conscious of the balance between income
and expenditures. You can limit your expenditures; saving
money is important to you.
Najib, you are a surprisingly good parent, and love to be
involved with children. Somehow, you relate a little more than
others to the innocence of children, perhaps seeing a good
deal of yourself in them. You, too, are idealistic and respect
the simplicity of children.
Many accountants, bookkeepers, government officials,
managers, and lawyers are born under the 4 Expression. You
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can be attracted to the arts and music, but will likely bring
your love of structure and order to any artistic field. Classical
music and opera are particularly appealing and inspiring for
you.
You have a keen eye for detail. You have great stamina and
can work conscientiously and persistently toward your goals.
This eventually brings you success and standing in your
community.
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of these abilities enhance your chances of success in life.
There is a tendency to be self-centered. You can be
domineering and, in the extreme, a bully. You can be highly
critical of others, complaining that people lack the industry or
determination you possess. But this lack of understanding can
alienate friends and family members from you. You must learn
to control this tendency to maintain harmony in relationships.
Once you are convinced of the inherent correctness of your
ideas, you stubbornly -- and sometimes rigidly -- defend and
propagate them.
Avoid obstinacy and antagonism. You must cultivate
balance, compassion, and perseverance.
You easily assume the role of protector. You spring into
action when leadership is needed.
Pride can be your downfall. You so powerfully identify with
your goals and ambitions that you sometimes refuse to see a
potential flaw or weakness in your well-laid plans.
Rosmah, you possess strength and determination, which,
when applied to any endeavor you are committed to, will lead
you to great success in life.
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differently, even when it is the same number. Sometimes, you
may read something that seems to directly contradict earlier
statements. Yet, if you take the time to think about them
carefully, you will probably recognize that you, as a human
being, are extremely complex and full of the same
contradictions. This is simply the way we are. You may be
organized in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another
area. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, and
direct and confrontational in another situation.
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becomes overwhelming, it will almost certainly bring this
relationship to and end.
On the other hand, as long as Rosmah is able to respect Najib's
need for a secure, perhaps even predictable, lifestyle, and
Najib can understand Rosmah's need to try new avenues, take
risks, occasionally venture out into unknown territories, the
relationship can endure.
HEART'S DESIRE
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have grasped the facts of a subject, your creativity and abstract
approach lifts your thinking beyond the rudimentary to the
philosophical. You have a theoretical mind, but rather than
indulge in fantasies or idle thought, you prefer to base your
theories upon scientific facts.
Najib, you enjoy mental and physical puzzles -- figuring
them out, taking them apart, and putting them back together.
Some people may perceive you as cool or aloof. You are
somewhat introverted; you may feel slightly removed and even
a little different. The fantasy of the hermit or monk engaged
in a life of study and meditation appeals to you.
In relationships, you tend to keep things business-like and
impersonal. You prefer to talk about the facts of a given
situation, rather than the cloudier issues of emotions and
personal feelings. You distrust feelings -- both your own and
those of others. The whole emotional realm strikes you as
unreliable, and a bit unnecessary.
Najib, your inability to fully understand the emotional aspect
of life is your Achilles heel. You are so rational that the
unpredictability of the heart frightens and surprises you.
Your challenge is to trust. You need to share your heart
with someone. This is a courageous step for you, but will
result in enormous growth and satisfaction.
The advice here is to make a true connection with another
human being. Without it, you may marry out of convenience or
to fulfill social expectations, but it will not lead you out of
loneliness. The more removed you are from people, the more
you risk isolation, bitterness, and a cynical attitude toward life.
This choice represents a true crossroads in your
development. By sharing yourself with others (without
compromising your independence and need for privacy) you
can cultivate your enormous charm and share your
understanding of life. You are a natural teacher and advisor.
And the wealth of knowledge you will accumulate in life is
meant to be shared with others.
This is not to say that you must compromise on your need
for privacy or time spent alone to contemplate life. These are
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natural aspects of your personality, which are essential to your
growth. These characteristics should not be threatening to
your spouse, but must be understood as fundamental to your
being.
Najib, you are blessed with a great reserve of intuition,
which can be cultivated by regular meditation and
contemplation. Your "inner voice" is your greatest guide and
friend.
You are idealistic and have high expectations for yourself.
Learn to balance your serious nature with regular doses of fun.
Your intelligence and cultivation make you charming and
distinguished in appearance. As you get older and more
comfortable with your identity, people are naturally attracted
to you. They see your wisdom, your deep understanding of
life, and the refinement you radiate.
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boring. You are, of course, drawn to those people who, like
yourself, are original thinkers and have exciting personalities.
Rosmah, you enjoy being involved in several projects at the
same time. You need continual stimulation by the new and
fascinating. You tend to discard boring pastimes quickly.
Your love of freedom and change can have numerous
consequences. You can be irresponsible, especially when it
comes to finishing tasks. You have a hard time persevering at
a given project and bringing it to completion.
You must be careful that your love of sensory pleasure
doesn't lead you to excessive indulgence in alcohol, food, sex,
and even drugs.
Rosmah, you are a bit of a hero and want to save the world.
This causes you to make promises you often cannot keep.
Down deep, you long to please everyone, an impossible goal.
Many 5s can be emotionally superficial. They feel love
passionately, but fear making deep and lasting commitments.
As a result, they resist the depths of emotional attachments
and remain on the surface where it is safe.
You will experience many changes and unusual events, but
you learn best through experience. Therefore, your life will be
full and you will make great strides in personal growth.
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larger and more promising than the sum of their parts.
Rosmah has a quick and flexible mind spiced with a wicked,
offbeat sense of humor. The five thinks on its feet and looks
right through any attempt to disguise. Among
neuro-specialists there is a basic idea that, over the years, the
mind tends to think according to established patterns, like
water running through canyons. This may be the case with
many people, but not with those who have a five in this
position of the chart. They will never allow their minds to
shelter any repetitive, predictable patterns. Thanks to
Rosmah’s ability to juggle ideas and concepts, Rosmah will
always seem younger and remain more playful and
quick-witted long past the time other people of Rosmah’s age
group have slowed down.
Najib’s mind is also powerful. However, Najib’s mental and
spiritual faculties operate very differently from Rosmah’s.
Najib has a dry sense of humor and a more serious mind.
Najib seeks answers to life’s major questions and often spends
time staring into some inner space, searching for insight and
understanding. Probably not closely connected to organized
religion, Najib - nonetheless or because of this - has a strong
sense of the reality of the God force. For Najib, the mystery of
life is not just some unattainable abstract concept - it is a
reality. It is a major source of inspiration and a force that
influences Najib’s daily life. The seven is the most spiritual of
all numbers, but it is rarely found among those who have
simply accepted their local religious presence. The seven asks
too many questions and takes the spiritual much too serious to
take anything at face value.
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in abstract concepts and philosophies, while Najib may not be
able to accept the fact that for Rosmah the experience of life is
more important than trying to analyze it. However, the seven
and the five have such a powerful positive influence on each
other that this disagreement rarely appears when a seven and
a five form a partnership. Rosmah keeps Najib loose and able
to enjoy life also from a simpler, more direct perspective, while
Najib is able to show Rosmah how a deep, serious search of
understanding can be immensely gratifying. Frequently,
partnerships based on the five and the seven are intellectually
and spiritually dynamic and last for a very long time.
PERSONALITY
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Najib, you radiate understanding and compassion. People
sense your warmth and fairness. For this reason, you attract
many people who are in need of comfort, including the
disadvantaged. People tend to come to you to unload their
burdens. You inspire confidence.
You have a fine sense of justice. You do everything in your
power to keep the harmony and are even willing to sacrifice
your personal desires for the good of others.
You can take this too far, however, sometimes playing the
role of the martyr. You have to guard against being taken
advantage of. You are not always a very good judge of
character. You tend to see the best in others.
You also can become too involved in the lives of others, to
your own detriment. (This aspect can be balanced by other
numbers in your chart.)
You are hospitable and domestic. You love children and are
a good parent. You are romantic, faithful and very protective.
You are artistic. You love music, flowers and gardening.
You are a natural interior designer. You have an excellent
sense of color and taste.
Najib, you are more concerned with the content of your
personality than your appearance, which causes you to be less
conscious of the style of your clothes. You are more interested
in comfort and the utility of clothing than the statement it
makes.
Six Personality Numbers are exceedingly generous. You are
not particularly logical when it comes to finances.
You are very vulnerable to praise and criticism. You tend to
worry a lot, causing stomach problems.
People see you as a maternal or paternal figure. They want
to relax in your presence and unburden themselves. You are
the safe port in the crowd.
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gatherings with your fresh and original ideas. Your
conversation tends to be sprinkled with novelty and wit.
You have a quick tongue and charisma. You are probably an
excellent salesman. There is a lot of nervous energy within
you looking for an outlet.
You love your freedom and you see this life as an ongoing
adventure. You are upbeat and optimistic. This is infectious
for those you meet. As a result, you inspire others.
You have a strong and attractive body, with good muscle
tone. Your movements are supple, graceful, and athletic.
Rosmah, your bane is that you love to indulge your senses
with food and drink and can easily gain weight. You have an
appetite for anything that stimulates the senses -- sex, food,
alcohol, and drugs. Discipline is a necessity for you. The
negative side of a 5 Personality Number can give rise to an
addictive personality.
You like to dress fashionably and can get away with more
colorful clothes. However, you should be aware of the value of
quality and the power of modesty.
You are a little irresponsible and quick in satisfying your
sensual urges. You are attractive and that, coupled with your
innate ability to promote yourself, makes it easy for you to
satisfy your desire for new and exciting relationships.
You have a kind of swashbuckling personality. People see
you as the adventurer that you are. They expect the
unexpected from you, and when they don't you often surprise
them.
You have a quick and eclectic mind. You attract information
from all directions, but you can be a bit superficial, skimming
over the surface of a wide diversity of subjects. This may
cause you to be a bit of a dilettante. You can get away with it
much of the time, but for your own success and happiness,
you should try to ground knowledge and deepen your
understanding.
Rosmah, your versatility and adaptability make you capable
of getting the most out of virtually every opportunity in life.
You decide quickly on a course of action and your timing is
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usually good. You radiate with the potential for success, which
attracts others who can further you along your path.
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is much more substance to Rosmah than Rosmah initially
revealed. Najib found out that Rosmah, in spite of a reluctance
to commit, is extremely loyal and trustworthy. The popular
notion that people who change so easily and adapt to new
circumstances quickly may not be so strong in their
commitment is proven wrong when applied to the five. In fact,
Rosmah is less likely to cheat than most people. On the other
hand, Najib can become a source of frustration and jealousy
for Rosmah because Najib gives love freely and generously. In
order to keep harmony, Rosmah needs to understand that this
is simply Najib’s nature. Najib is quick with hugs and shows of
care and love to other people, but this should not be a reason
for Rosmah not to trust Najib, or to be jealous. Najib simply
has a lot of love to give. Teaching, healing, and counseling -
even if they are not part of Najib’s career - are major
ingredients in the makeup of a six, and Najib needs avenues to
express them.
It is important that Rosmah keeps that in mind and does not
let misplaced jealousy come between them.
The most difficult challenge Najib may have to overcome is to
accept the fact that Rosmah is certainly a social animal. For
Rosmah to be happy, Rosmah must live a dynamic life; full of
impulsive decisions, changes, social activities and travel. With
some exaggeration, you might say that Najib loves the home
while Rosmah loves the pub. Keeping that in mind, you will
both need to offer your partner a lifestyle that is in harmony
with what you want for yourself.
PERSONAL YEARS
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complete Epicycle. Each Epicycle reveals the progression or
evolution of a specific part of your growth. Najib, your
progress along this Epicycle can be seen very logically, from
the infancy or beginning of a growth period in your life, to the
conclusion or culmination of that process. The 1 personal year
indicates your first steps in a new direction. The years that
follow indicate your progress along this path, concluding with
your 9 Personal Year, which completes the cycle. Below is a
description of your current Personal Year. It indicates where
you are on the 9 year Epicycle.
The Personal Years form the building steps that mark your
progress through life.
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year that you may find yourself wondering what you did to
deserve this.
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Compatibility is as important with the cycles as it is with
character traits. It is possible for a relationship between two
people with otherwise very compatible charts to break down as
a result of encountering one or more incompatible cycles.
However, it is much easier to overcome or avoid possible
pitfalls resulting from incompatible cycles than from
incompatible personality traits.
Najib, during this time you may feel left behind, perhaps
forgotten and ignored. Of course, this is not really the case. It
is just that Rosmah is focused on getting things done, reaching
goals, and taking advantage of opportunities, while you, Najib,
are drawn to examining your own life, where you are going,
and even why you are doing the things you do. Najib and
Rosmah, the fact that your needs and your ambitions are going
in different directions does not make this a compatible
combination of cycles. Rosmah is out there, full of plans and
visions, while Najib is turning inward.
You may find it difficult to communicate, to find common
ground, and to get excited about each other’s interests.
This is a time, Rosmah, when you should not try too hard to
get Najib involved with something that interests you. And vice
versa. This is a time to keep things simple, and the secret to
go through it successfully is to love each other, but don’t try to
share everything you are doing.
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understand and in doing so we find ourselves "in the flow" and
there is no more need to try and struggle upstream. So this
year you will have an opportunity to involve yourself fully in
work and material growth and bring home the rewards, at the
same time a certain detachment is also necessary, for you and
for the experience you have because it is not the reward that
brings you happiness but your experience of life, which is why
before the rewarding eight year you have had such opportunity
for growth during the soul-searching of a seven year. Give in
to your ambitions, you will find yourself more clear and
focused and able to pursue and reach your goals. Najib, your
power is visible and strong, mental creativity is high, vision
and intuition will guide you, and at the same time you are
more efficient and focused. There can be loss, serious loss,
bankruptcy and failure, because always the rewards are directly
proportionate to your effort and motivation, however you know
the effort you put out and you know your motivations, so there
must be no room for fear and doubt, only for success and
winning and this year will undoubtedly turn out to be a very
satisfying year.
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better understood and dealt with. Be social and
communicative, enjoy music and other arts. Rosmah, your
creativity is higher than usual. There can be some difficulties
this year due to your desire to face obstacles and overcome
them, decisions have to be taken and courage and strength
may be severely tested several times, this is not going to be an
easy year all the time but you will feel relieved and on the brink
of a positive breakthrough by the end of this year. This is the
end of a nine year epicycle and will you will feel many times
the excitement of a new and promising era when optimism is
your friend but you will also experience the fear of letting go,
however the more you let go the more room there is to be
filled during the next epicycle.
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hundred and eighty degrees opposite, Najib and Rosmah, you
have probably learned to adjust to each other’s needs. This
ability to surrender some of your own needs to those of your
partner is the most important key to making your relationship
a long and happy union.
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Be ready for major changes. Rosmah, you will be inspired to
start new projects or enterprises. You will feel a strong
forward push toward new goals.
This is a time for vision and planning. Share your dream
with others; make plans, get the necessary support, but, above
all, rely on yourself as the driving force. Be decisive!
You are starting a new nine year Epicycle. Everything you do
now will affect your future. Do not hold back the inner force of
creation. Be direct, daring, and bold.
You will have more confidence and determination this year,
particularly in comparison with last year, which was a time of
letting go. This year represents a time of birth. It's a time to
take charge and to apply yourself to your dream.
This is also a good time to make the personal changes you
have long wanted to make: Start a diet and/or an exercise
program, or begin a new course of study.
There may be some emotional turmoil, especially in the first
two or three months. It takes a while to get the ball rolling.
There are many changes you must make and much work to be
done.
Be open-minded, organized, and focused. Avoid
distractions and procrastination.
Rosmah, you are at a crossroads. You will need courage and
a clear head to stay on the right track.
This is a year of opportunities.
The key months in your year ahead are March, in which you
are able to lay the foundation to your plans; April, in which
changes take place such as a change of residence or career;
July and August mark a time in which you will see the fruits of
your labors begin to take place; October represents a major
turn in events, often fraught with emotional turmoil; the fall
marks a coalescing of your plans into more concrete form.
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your commitment to your heart will be able to save your
relationship. This is such a time. You will experience turmoil,
major disagreements, and arguments intense enough that they
will make you feel that your partner is no longer the nice
person you once knew. This is due to a shift in the cycles that
causes an otherwise comfortable and compatible gap of one -
in place for eight years - to suddenly multiply and, almost
overnight, increase eight-fold for this one cycle. In addition,
this is an emotionally vulnerable time for Najib, exactly when
Rosmah is less sensitive than usual.
There are few, if any, combinations of cycles as difficult and
challenging as this one, but with some conscious effort and a
dedication to your heart, the relationship will survive and,
because of it, become stronger.
For Rosmah, the most important piece of advice is to give Najib
plenty of attention, be very sensitive to mood swings, and
provide support, even if you feel that Najib is overly emotional.
For Najib, the best advice is not to take emotions too seriously.
As you have read in the description of your nine-year cycle,
you are going through a lot of changes, which require of
surrender and acceptance, giving rise to a tendency to get
melodramatic and emotional.
Only your hearts can save the day. So, don’t listen to your
minds. No matter how much sense the mind seems to make, it
doesn’t have anywhere near the understanding that the heart
carries.
PERSONAL MONTHS
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matters is favorable.
Your attention is focused on long-term planning. You have
good ideas that may well turn into an additional source of
income later this year (during or around October). You also
become interested in new avenues of thought or spiritual
paths, which will inspire you to study or read.
This month's emphasize is on long-term goals.
Friends and relatives feel that you are a little distant, and
may get on your case in the hope that you will spend more
time with them.
Romance is not particularly important. If you are involved
with someone, feelings deepen and the bond becomes
stronger.
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momentum, and your personal power increases.
Romantic and love-relationships experience some stresses.
Rosmah, you are somewhat distant and aloof, which may make
your partner feel left out. Spend some time reassuring your
mate.
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For Rosmah, this is a time when everything feels shaky and
insecure. Rosmah needs Najib right now. Rosmah needs the
human contact, the commitment and the security Najib has to
offer more than during most cycles. With Najib’s focus on the
world outside the relationship, and Rosmah needing Najib’s
attention more than usual, it takes conscious effort from both
of you to prevent disappointments and perhaps even
resentment from overshadowing your relationship during this
time.
Najib, pay attention to Rosmah. You too, will experience a
time when nothing will seem secure and solid. In fact, your
next cycle will bring some of that and you will need Rosmah’s
hand then.
Due to the fact that your cycles always tend to be almost one
hundred and eighty degrees opposite, Najib and Rosmah, you
have probably learned to adjust to each other’s needs. This
ability to surrender some of your own needs to those of your
partner is the most important key to making your relationship
a long and happy union.
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more than once. You have strong idealistic, humanitarian, and
spiritual feelings and may want to become more involved in
some practical endeavors concerning one or more of these
areas of life. However, you will probably postpone any active
involvement for the time being, because you feel the time is
not right.
Most important this month, is your enhanced clarity in all
matters concerning your life and the direction it is taking.
It is a time of re-assessment of your values and priorities
and the influence of this month will be felt for a long time to
come.
The practical aspects of career, business, relationships, and
romance are all on the back-burner, but the inner-changes
that take place represent a much larger step forward than you
will probably realize at this time.
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metaphor: February reveals the carrot -- the prize you can
obtain -- but it also shows the pitfalls and dangers; in short,
the stick.
Relationships are favorable in all areas of your life.
Co-workers show support, friends tell you how much they
admire you, relatives make it clear they have confidence in you,
and your lover makes you feel you deserve the best.
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doesn’t have anywhere near the understanding that the heart
carries.
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inspire them to do things your way. You are tactful and
sensitive, yet also driven and motivated. You find better ways
to handle challenging situations.
Later this month, you gain respect and recognition and will
find yourself taking on a leadership role. Your authority is
impressive because you balance force and strength with
diplomacy and tact.
Romance is favorable and, if you are single, you may meet
someone through work or a business meeting who will touch
your heart.
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of the emotional subtleties that lie beneath the surfaces. You
take nothing for granted. Your wisdom and diplomacy will
surprise people and prevent several situations from becoming
explosive.
Relationships with both subordinates and higher-ups will
improve. You receive support and are well-spoken of. Your
intuition is keen; rely on it, and respect any premonitions you
may have. Someone you meet sparks your interest, but you
may find that the person is unstable and fragile. You play the
role of teacher and counselor in this relationship.
Najib, your understanding and intuition also offer you the
means to heal formerly difficult relationships this month.
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ruin your ambition. This is a time to reach out, not to
suppress.
Romance and relationships continue to be favorable. Social
events bring new people. Rosmah, your self-expression and
sense of humor improve, and it is easy to make new friends
during this time.
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daydream, and share those feelings and thoughts with
someone you trust. Your need for others heightens.
You sense changes on the horizon, but feel you are in limbo,
waiting for events to provide a new direction. Seek the advice,
perspective, and insight of others.
You continue to make a good impression on those you work
with, but not because of enhanced sensitivity and awareness,
as was the case in April, but because of your ability to express
yourself well and motivate others to see things your way. Be
careful not to become manipulative.
This is a "lucky" month. You're in the right place at the right
time and coincidences will occur in your favor. You are more
attractive to the opposite sex then usual and may receive some
interesting proposals.
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Your Personal Month's compatibility for May 2011 is 3 and 4
Najib and Rosmah, this is a time when your cycles are pushing
you in opposite directions. Actually, this is often the case in
your relationship and does not per se reflect a lack of
compatibility. For Najib, this is a time to relax and smell the
roses, while Rosmah needs to keep focused and maintain a
high level of effort. It is important that you don’t try to change
each other’s natural inclination to follow the demands of your
respective cycles. Rosmah needs to accept the fact that Najib
is not as disciplined and ambitious as usual, while Najib should
not try to talk Rosmah into taking it easy.
Contrary to what one might expect, as a rule of thumb, cycles
with a gap of one point, such as three and four or four and
five, although moving in different directions, are not per se
incompatible. In fact, they often complement each other. Only
when couples try too hard to influence each other’s lives do
these cycles cause stress and unhappiness.
Najib should be allowed to back off a little from the daily grind,
while Rosmah should be supported and encouraged
throughout this rather demanding period.
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sense your preoccupation with work and details, and need you
to reach out to them.
Najib and Rosmah, this is a time during which you are under
very different influences. It is a time of focus, effort, and
sometimes frustration and stagnation for Najib, and a time of
change, excitement, and dynamic energy for Rosmah.
As a result, Rosmah is in a position to help Najib to keep
moving forward and not get too frustrated by the demands of
this cycle, and Najib will be able to function somewhat like an
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anchor for Rosmah. Rosmah can certainly use the stable
influence of Najib during this hectic and unpredictable time.
The most positive effect of this combination of cycles is that
their combined forces almost always deliver progress and
decisiveness. By the end of this cycle, you will realize that you
will have established new goals, and a clearer horizon will
make it much easier for you to see where you want to go next.
A negative effect you should be aware of is that you may find
yourselves moving in such different directions that, at times,
you will feel like strangers. Share your feelings and ideas as
much as possible and reach out to each other. Physical
closeness and sharing things you both enjoy will help you keep
connected on all other levels.
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and irresponsibility. Moderation, again, is the key.
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things that matter most. Najib’s attention is focused away; on
work, career, travel and so forth.
These cycles are as opposite as two cycles can be, yet they are
not incompatible. Within a relationship, these influences
complement and balance each other. However, if they get too
inner-twined, they will turn on each other and anger and
blame are the most likely result. It is important, now more
than at almost any other time, Najib and Rosmah, that you
don’t try to influence each other too much. Live and let live is
the slogan for this month. You probably have realized by now
that, more often than not, you are experiencing very different
cycles. This is an important aspect of your relationship not
limited to this particular cycle. It will always be that way. You
should accept the fact that you tend to be influenced by very
different energies most of your lives. Therefore, you may just
want to make the concept of live and let live a family slogan --
for life.
But, as you probably have also realized by now, although the
influence of your personal cycles always tend to place you at
opposite ends of the spectrum, it also means that you
complement each other very well and make a great team when
you put your minds to it. In particular when it comes to
showing a single front to the outside world.
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have. Maintain balance. The people close to you need
attention and you should be there for them.
Your spouse or romantic partner requires much of you this
month, too, and your relationship with deepen as a result.
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On one hand, the influences of the six and the seven
complement each other very well. On the other, they create
such different needs you may find that there is little common
ground between the two of you. You may find that you
disagree on just about everything; how to spend your vacation,
what kind of car to buy, which of your friends to invite, and so
forth. Najib is reaching out to people, Rosmah is avoiding
them. Najib is more extrovert than usual, Rosmah is seeking
peace and quiet.
A positive influence during this time is found in the fact Najib
more tolerant and giving, willing to sacrifice here and there to
accommodate Rosmah. This is an important and much needed
factor to make this a harmonious time. Rosmah is not very
patient right now and doesn’t want to be bothered.
Najib, it is important to remember that if Rosmah seems a bit
cool and distant, this has nothing to do with the relationship.
Rosmah is doing some soul searching and needs to be given
some space and distance. Rosmah, it is crucial not to forget
Najib and not to get lost within yourself to the extent of
ignoring the world around you. Pay attention to those you care
about, Rosmah. Your relationship with your friends, your
family and with Najib will last a lot longer than this period of
self-examination and spiritual exploration.
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occupy your mind.
You are mentally sharp and flexible, and you easily keep up
with any demands that come your way. Najib, your career,
finances, and other mundane aspects of your life occupy a
relatively smaller place in your life, this month. Without
avoiding your duties, you can let these areas take care of
themselves until early next month.
Your friends and family are less demanding.
Romantic ties can be surprisingly strong, however. You
have a real desire to share your innermost feelings with the
person you are attracted to, revealing a side of yourself that
has not been available in such intimacy before.
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You need to rely on your own strength and feel confident
that you have a certain amount of control over your own
future. You should relax and let things develop at their own
pace.
Social events are highly favorable and there will be ample
opportunity for that.
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relating to career and finances.
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attention to romance or personal relationships of any kind,
unless it's to test the strength of the relationship.
You may be a little judgmental and self-righteous and will
need to guard yourself against this sort of thing.
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Najib, November is a 9 Personal Month in a 7 Personal Year.
Your heightened inner awareness and the long inner
growth-process you've been working on this year now reach a
kind of completion this month in the form of realizations and
insights that in turn improve your self-confidence and faith in
the future.
At the same time, this is a period marked by emotional ups
and downs as you are releasing old concepts, responsibilities,
and relationships that you've outgrown.
You are doing some inner-house cleaning which reflects in
work as well as personal life.
Your career may seem somewhat stagnant. You are looking
for new opportunities and challenges, but not much will be
forthcoming until late this month or early next month. Najib,
you should take it slow; perhaps even take some time off for
rest.
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Rosmah, your Personal Month for November 2011 is 1
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causes an otherwise comfortable and compatible gap of one -
in place for eight years - to suddenly multiply and, almost
overnight, increase eight-fold for this one cycle. In addition,
this is an emotionally vulnerable time for Najib, exactly when
Rosmah is less sensitive than usual.
There are few, if any, combinations of cycles as difficult and
challenging as this one, but with some conscious effort and a
dedication to your heart, the relationship will survive and,
because of it, become stronger.
For Rosmah, the most important piece of advice is to give Najib
plenty of attention, be very sensitive to mood swings, and
provide support, even if you feel that Najib is overly emotional.
For Najib, the best advice is not to take emotions too seriously.
As you have read in the description of your nine-year cycle,
you are going through a lot of changes, which require of
surrender and acceptance, giving rise to a tendency to get
melodramatic and emotional.
Only your hearts can save the day. So, don’t listen to your
minds. No matter how much sense the mind seems to make, it
doesn’t have anywhere near the understanding that the heart
carries.
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If you are single, romance may become an important
ingredient of this month's experience. Najib, you may meet
someone new and this person will be an intellectual and
spiritual challenge.
The attraction will be based less on physical appearance
than on curiosity: there are profound differences between you
in point of view and lifestyle, which is fascinating on some
level. You learn from this person and, like looking into a
mirror, you discover a lot about yourself and the changes that
have taken place on a very deep level during the course of this
year.
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Your Personal Month's compatibility for December 2011 is 1
and 2
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