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Widening Circles
Sunday, August 12, 2018
In 1965, the Second Vatican Council of the Catholic Church issued its
historic conclusions that still stand as inspired and authoritative. In the
Council’s document Nostra Aetate (In Our Time), it specifically addressed
other world religions, naming what was good and eternal in each of them.
Followers of Hinduism are recognized as they “contemplate the divine
mystery and express it through an inexhaustible abundance of myths and
through searching philosophical inquiry.” [2]
The other author who led me deeper in Hinduism was a son of a Spanish
mother and a Hindu father, Raimon Panikkar (1918-2010). Panikkar’s
intellect and spirit astounded all who heard him or read his words.
Somehow Panikkar’s ancient roots, stellar mind, and his Christian love all
came through. He saw the Christ as the fully adequate Christian symbol for
the whole of Reality. I never felt Panikkar compromised his Christian
belief even though he was quite able and willing to use metaphors for the
same experience from Hinduism and Buddhism. In fact, it was his
Hinduism that often led Panikkar to the depths and the full believability of
his Christian experience. I would say the same for Bede Griffiths.
The great mystics tend to recognize that Whoever God Is, he or she does
not need our protection or perfect understanding. All our words, dogmas,
and rituals are like children playing in a sandbox before Infinite Mystery
and Wonderment. If anything is true, then it has always been true; and
people who sincerely search will touch upon the same truth in every age
and culture, while using different language, symbols, and rituals to point us
in the same direction. The direction is always toward more love and union
—in ever widening circles.
References:
[1] Bede Griffiths, Christ in India: Essays towards a Hindu-Christian
Dialogue (1965). See Bede Griffiths: Essential Writings, ed. Thomas Matus
(Orbis Books: 2004), 65.
Hinduism
Infinite Forms
Monday, August 13, 2018
If you have ever traveled to India, you realize that Hinduism is less a
religion and more a 5,000-year-old culture, formed by such ancient sources
as the Vedas, the Upanishads, and the Bhagavad Gita, and communicated
in thousands of other ways. Hinduism is the product of millennia of deep
self-observation, human history, a confluence of cultures, and innumerable
people seeking the Divine and seeking themselves.
Hinduism has been described as the most tolerant of the world religions.
Hinduism is much more comfortable with mystery and multiplicity than are
the three Abrahamic religions. This is symbolized by thousands of gods
and dozens of primary deities in Hindu literature and tradition.
My true being is unborn and changeless. I am the Lord who dwells in every
creature. Through the power of my own appearance, I manifest myself in
finite forms. —Bhagavad Gita 4:5-6
In the beginning was only Being; One without a second. Out of himself he
brought forth the cosmos and entered into everything in it. There is nothing
that does not come from him. Of everything he is the inmost Self. —
Chandogya Upanishad, Chapter 6, 2:2-3
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word
was God. Through him all things came to be, and not one thing had its
being but through him. . . . And the Word became flesh and dwells among
us. —John 1:1, 3, 14
From his tradition of Judaism, rabbi Rami Shapiro offers this rather simple
explanation of these profound texts: “Just as the same lump of clay can take
on infinite form and remain itself unchanged, so God takes on infinite form
while never being other than God.” [2]
References:
[1] Mirabai Starr, “Unitive Consciousness: An Eastern Perspective” (an
unpublished webcast from the Center for Action and Contemplation: 2015).
Hinduism
Each of these paths can and will lead each of us to union with Supreme
Reality, if we are fully faithful to them over time. For
example, Raja yoga focuses on the mind’s ability to discover the spiritual
world through eight sequential steps, ending in enlightenment:
Hinduism
Stages of Life
Wednesday, August 15, 2018
Beginning with Jesus’ four kinds of soil and receptivity (Matthew 13:4-9),
to John of the Cross’ “dark nights” and Teresa of Ávila’s “interior
mansions,” through the modern schemas of Jean Piaget, James Fowler,
Lawrence Kohlberg, Eric Erikson, Abraham Maslow, Carol Gilligan, and
others, each clarify that there is a clear direction and staging to maturity
and therefore to human life.
Hinduism teaches that there are four major stages of life: (1) the student,
(2) the householder, (3) the forest dweller or hermit (the “retiree” from
business as usual), and (4) the beggar or wanderer (the wise or fully
enlightened person who is not overly attached to anything and is detached
from everything and thus ready for death). I once saw these four stages
represented in four stained glass windows in a Catholic church in
Bangalore, showing how central this cultural paradigm is to the wider
Indian culture, not just practicing Hindus.
Western cultures tend to recognize and honor only the first two stages at
best. We are an adolescent culture. Seeing these missing pieces in our
societies, I helped develop men’s initiation rites and have explored later
stages of life. [1] My experience tells me that when we do not intentionally
cultivate the third and fourth stages, we lose their skills and fail to create
the elders needed to understand the first and second stages and guide us
through and beyond them.
References:
[1] See Richard Rohr, Adam’s Return: The Five Promises of Male
Initiation (The Crossroad Publishing Company: 2004) and Falling
Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life (Jossey-Bass: 2011).
Hinduism
Parts of a Whole
Several central ideas affirmed by Jesus were already formed in the ancient
Hindu Vedas, then unfolded by the Upanishads and the Bhagavad Gita.
Three of these ideas are advaita, karma, and maya.
The word advaita is loosely translated as “having no duality,” implying
that the proper or spiritual way of understanding things is outside the realm
of comparison or judgment. The contemplative mind sees things in their
unity and connection before it separates them as not completely one, but
not two either. If you first emphasize dissimilarity and distinction, it is
almost impossible to ever get back to unitive consciousness or similarity,
from which most compassion, or at least tolerance, proceeds. If you start
with advaita, you can still go back to making needed and helpful
distinctions, but now love and union is prior to knowledge and information.
That is the unique and brilliant starting place of so many Eastern religions,
as I believe it was for Jesus! Read Jesus’ words: “My Father’s sun shines
on the good and the bad; his rain falls on the just and the unjust” (Matthew
5:45); “Whatever you do to the least of these, you do to me” (Matthew
25:40). With a dualistic mind, such statements are just idealistic poetry,
which is largely how many Christians have read them.
For the Hindu, karma is the nature of the universe and moves us toward
purification of motive and honesty about why we are doing what we are
doing. Karma is an absolute law of cause and effect. What goes around
comes around—eventually! We are responsible for our own thoughts and
motives—which create the Real—and we cannot avoid the consequences.
Negative thoughts will destroy us. We are punished by our sins more than
for our sins. Goodness is its own reward now; we do not need to wait for
heaven later.
All phenomena pass themselves off as total and final in their independent
and free existence. But just wait a while, look deeper, and you will see that
all things are parts of much larger ecosystems of connection and life. In
their separateness, they will pass. Everything is qualified and provisional
and contingent on something else. The illusion of our separateness makes it
hard for us to see and seek the common good or to rest in Divine Union.
Reference:
[1] Mirabai Starr, “Unitive Consciousness: An Eastern Perspective” (an
unpublished webcast from the Center for Action and Contemplation: 2015).
Hinduism
The Vedas are the most ancient Sanskrit writings (as much as three
to four thousand years old) containing hymns, philosophy, guidance,
and rituals.
The Upanishads—which means “what is learned sitting at the feet
of”—are later (800-200 BCE), even more mystical texts which
elaborate on many of the ancient themes. There are probably thirteen
major and many minor Upanishads.
The Bhagavad Gita emerged in various translations from four
centuries before Christ to four centuries afterward. It is an extended
dialogue between Prince Arjuna, a warrior, and Lord Krishna, his
charioteer. The 700 classic verses amount to an extended
commentary on “action and contemplation.”
Krishna, like Jesus, also shows the integration of action and contemplation.
The Gita does not counsel that we all become monks or solitaries. Rather,
Lord Krishna tells Prince Arjuna that the true synthesis is found in a life-
long purification of motive, intention, and focus in our world of action. The
Gita calls the active person to a life of interiority and soul discovery. How
can we do “pure action”? Only by gradually detaching from all the fruits of
action and doing everything purely for the love of God, Lord Krishna
teaches.
Jesus says the same thing in several places (Mark 12:30, for example):
“You shall love the Lord with all your heart, with all your soul, with all
your mind, and with all your strength.” Jesus even counsels the same love
toward the neighbor (Matthew 22:39). The only way to integrate action and
contemplation is to go ahead and do your action, but every day to ask
yourself why you’re doing it. Is it to make money? Is it to have a good
reputation? Is it to keep busy? Or is it for the love of God? Then you will
discover the true Doer!
In the Gita, Prince Arjuna is the noble individual soul (“Atman”), and Lord
Krishna is the personification of the Divine (“Brahman”). Already in the
ancient Vedas, Atman and Brahman were discovered to be one, at least in a
foundational sense. This is exactly as Jesus proclaimed when he said, “I
and the Father are One” (John 10:30). Teresa of Ávila begins her journey
through The Interior Castle by proclaiming God’s castle and chosen
dwelling is precisely “the beauty and amplitude of the human soul.” [1]
This is without doubt the true Perennial Wisdom Tradition.
Reference:
[1] Teresa of Ávila, The Interior Castle, Mirabai Starr, trans. (Riverhead
Books: 2003), 36.
Hinduism
If anything is true, then it has always been true; and people who sincerely
search will touch upon the same truth in every age and culture, while using
different language, symbols, and rituals to point us in the same direction.
The direction is always toward more love and union—in ever widening
circles. (Sunday)
Practice: Pranayama
Prana as breath is inhaled into the body, carrying with it the essence of the
life. Within our being it is transformed, as well as transforming. Exhaled, it
carries our essence, our unique energetic print; it is all one breath. [1]
Sit comfortably with your feet flat on the ground and your hands relaxed on
your thighs.
Through your nose, slowly breathe in and out while partially restricting
your throat.
It may help to imagine your throat as the size of a straw. This breath creates
an audible sound, at least to you.
Put it together slowly, drawing the breath in and out of your nose.
Imagine you are on the shore. The water draws back into the ocean on the
inhalation and rolls onto the shore as you exhale. Use your breath and
limitless imagination to hear the ocean sound. [2]
References:
[1] Ginny Wholley, unpublished work, 2015. Learn more about Ginny’s
work https://www.resilientlife-yoga.com/.
[2] Ibid.
The classic Tao Te Ching . . . reveals how both action and contemplation
are paths to experiencing harmony, peace, and unity amidst diversity. It
exemplifies both the Bodhisattva’s skillful means of being there while
getting there, every single step of the way, and the sublime secret that is the
inseparability of oneness and noneness. —Lama Surya Das [1]
One reason Taoism has such durability is, paradoxically, because of its
flexible and inclusive nature. . . . The original conception of Tao [meaning
“way”] was simply the observation that reality has a certain way about it.
This “way” encompasses all of existence: life, the universe, and everything.
...
Because of the Tao’s inclusive nature, when Buddhism entered China
1,800 years ago, it found easy acceptance despite its differences from
Taoism. A sense of optimism and humor runs throughout the ancient Tao,
aptly expressed as “carefree wandering.” Buddhism, on the other hand, saw
life as ku hai, the bitter ocean, and focused on suffering. Despite this,
Chinese people regarded Buddhist teachings as simply another way to
express the Tao. . . .
The sublime peace of the Tao [is] something we can all experience by . . .
coming into accord with how things actually are—what Tibetan Buddhists
call the natural state. Rather than trying to build skyscrapers to reach
heaven and bridges to cross the raging river of samsara to reach the so-
called other shore of nirvana, we could realize that it all flows right through
us right now and there’s nowhere to go, nothing to get, and all is perfect as
it is. This deep inner knowing has a lot to do with trust and letting be; there
is nirvanic peace in things just as they are.
References:
[1] Lama Surya Das in Derek Lin, Tao Te Ching: Annotated and Explained
(Skylight Paths Publishing: 2006), vii.
[2] Derek Lin, Tao Te Ching: Annotated and Explained (Skylight Paths
Publishing: 2006), xvii-xviii, xx.
The Buddha
Monday, August 20, 2018
The Buddha was born in India about the year 560 BCE and given the name
Siddhartha. His father, the king, kept him sequestered on the palace
grounds. Siddhartha grew up, married, and had a son. Around the time of
his son’s birth, he finally went into town.
On his first visit, he saw an old person; on his second visit, he saw an ill
person; and on his third visit, he saw a dead person. He asked his guide if
these things happen to everyone. Told that they did, Siddhartha became
disillusioned and disheartened. He said to himself, “How can I live in these
conditions conducive to happiness knowing that so many of my fellow
human beings do not live in these privileged conditions? How can I be
happy knowing they are out there? And how can I myself be happy,
knowing that all these possessions and all this wealth cannot protect me
from illness, old age, and death?”
Siddhartha went into town for a fourth visit and he saw a sadhu (a
wandering ascetic monk). The monk, although dressed in rags, radiated an
inner peace not dependent upon conditions conducive to happiness.
Siddhartha felt a call in his heart for a quest to come to the understanding
of the liberation from suffering, and to come to true and abiding happiness,
for himself and others. So, around age 29, he left the palace and his family
to begin a six-year inner journey.
Then Siddhartha, utterly alone, stopped and calmed himself and looked
deeply into his situation. Stripped of all superficiality and adornment of the
extremes of wealth and poverty, his situation is our situation. He reveals us
to ourselves. He is the human being who has discovered the bankruptcy of
the ego’s agenda to come to abiding happiness. He made a vow to sit there
under a Bodhi tree until he resolved the human dilemma of suffering and
the search for inner peace and fulfillment in the midst of life as it is.
Through the night, he was tempted by the demon Mara, but he was
unshaken in his resolve.
At first light, Siddhartha turned and looked at the day star with awakened
eyes, as the Buddha—meaning “the one who is awake”—seeing life the
way it really is, free from all projections, all distortions, all delusions, all
belief systems. He saw, we might say, the boundary-less, trustworthy
nature of what is. He sat in the bliss of his enlightenment for some days.
Finally, he realized that although many would not be ready to hear his
teachings, some would. The Buddha’s first words to someone after his
enlightenment were, “In this blind world, I beat the drum of deathlessness.”
Reference:
James Finley, Jesus and Buddha: Paths to Awakening, disc 2 (Center for
Action and Contemplation: 2008), CD, DVD, MP3 download.
Here’s how James Finley describes the Four Noble Truths that the Buddha
taught and embodied for the rest of his life:
The First Truth is the truth of suffering. By suffering, the Buddha means a
pervasive discontent—that the ability to abide in inner peace and
fulfillment is elusive. There is an inescapable sense of precariousness. This
suffering is the presenting problem. The illness that the Buddha seeks to
cure is the propensity for suffering. [Note that the Buddhist approach to
healing self-inflicted suffering is very different from the common Christian
notion of heroic self-sacrifice.]
The Second Noble Truth is that there is a way of life that perpetuates
suffering. There are certain habits of the mind and heart that prolong the
very suffering from which we seek to be freed. This way of life has its
basis in wanting life to be other than the way it is. This is the diagnosis.
The Fourth Noble Truth is the Noble Eightfold Path which is the way of
life in which one is liberated from the tyranny of suffering so that one
might come to this nirvanic inner peace, the peace that passes
understanding in the midst of life as it is. What good would it do if the
Buddha just pointed out the problem and did not give us a way to be
delivered from the problem? That way is the Noble Eightfold Path. [2]
The Noble Eightfold Path includes eight “right practices”: right view, right
thinking, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right diligence, right
mindfulness, and right concentration. It is a way out of suffering, a way of
healing. As I often say, if we do not transform our pain we will most
certainly transmit it. Meditation or contemplation helps us stay on this path
and allow ourselves to be changed at the deepest levels.
References:
[1] Thich Nhat Hanh, The Heart of the Buddha’s Teaching (Broadway
Books: 1998), 129.
Unitive Consciousness
Wednesday, August 22, 2018
Knitter writes:
True, what Christians are after is different than what Buddhists are after.
For Christians, it’s identification with the Christ-Spirit. For Buddhists, it’s
realizing their Buddha-nature. And yet, both of these very different
experiences have something in common: they are unitive, non-dualistic,
mystical experiences in which we find that our own identity is somehow
joined with that which is both more than, and at the same time one with,
our identity. This is what the Buddhist practices are so good at—achieving
such unitive experiences in which the self is so transformed that it finds
itself through losing itself. [2]
Guardini says that it’s a principle of logic that A cannot be B at the same
time and in the same respect that it’s A. . . . Likewise, God is the Creator
and we are the creature. And yet, Guardini adds, “Although I am not God, I
am not other than God either.” [4] He says the direct intuitive realization
that although I am not God, I am not other than God either, fans out in all
directions. Although I am not you, I am not other than you either. Although
I am not the earth, I am not other than the earth, either. As this soaks into
me, what are the implications of this in the way I act in the world, in
relationships with other people?
References:
[1] Paul F. Knitter, Without Buddha I Could Not Be a Christian (Oneworld
Publications: 2009), 154-155.
[4] Romano Guardini, The World and the Person, trans. Stella Lange
(Regnery: 1965, ©1939), 31. Cited by James Finley, Christian Meditation
(HarperCollins: 2004), 51.
Being Peace
Thursday, August 23, 2018
Paul Knitter has been an activist for peace and justice since the 1980’s. He
is inspired by Engaged Buddhism, a term coined by Thich Nhat Hanh,
which brings insights from Buddhist practice and teaching to social,
political, environmental, and economic injustice:
Buddhists are much more concerned about waking up to our innate wisdom
and compassion (our Buddha-nature) than they are about working for
justice. If Christians insist that “if you want peace, work for justice,” the
Buddhists would counter-insist, “if you want peace, be peace.” That’s the
point Thich Nhat Hanh gently drives home in the little book . . . Being
Peace. His message is as simple and straightforward as it is sharp and
upsetting: the only way we are going to be able to create peace in the world
is if we first create (or better, find) peace in our hearts.
This Buddhist insistence on the necessary link between being peace and
making peace reflects Christian spirituality’s traditional insistence that all
our action in the world must be combined with contemplation. . . . But the
Buddhists are very clear: while both are essential, one holds a priority of
practice. If action and contemplation form a constantly moving circle in
which one feeds into the other, the entrance point for the circle is
contemplation. [1]
Knitter continues:
When we founded the Center for Action and Contemplation over thirty
years ago, we envisioned spending half our time teaching contemplation
and half teaching social justice. But for the same reasons Knitter gave, as
well as the fact that most Western people are already geared toward action
but need training in contemplation, we now spend much of our effort
teaching various approaches to contemplation, knowing that if the inner
world is authentic, an individual’s political, economic, and service attitudes
will change organically from the inside out.
References:
[1] Paul F. Knitter, Without Buddha I Could Not Be a Christian (Oneworld
Publications: 2009), 183-184.
Mindfulness
Friday, August 24, 2018
Thich Nhat Hanh, the beloved Buddhist monk, explores the meaning of the
name Buddha and applies this rich word to ordinary humans:
The appellation “Buddha” comes from the root of the verb budh—which means
to wake up, to understand, to know what is happening in a very deep way. In
knowing, understanding, and waking up to reality, there is mindfulness, because
mindfulness means seeing and knowing what is happening. [2]
I hope these meditations invite you to go deeper—beyond words and ideas about
mindfulness—to actual practice and experience. When you stay with your
practice, eventually you will realize, as Thich Nhat Hanh writes, “that our
life is the path, and we no longer rely merely on the forms of practice.” [5] I
hope you are seeing that Christianity and Buddhism are not in competition with
one another. Christians are usually talking about metaphysics (“what is”) and
Buddhists are usually talking about epistemology (“how do we know what is”).
In that sense, they offer great gifts to one another.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Thich Nhat Hanh, The Heart of the Buddha’s Teaching (Broadway Books: 1998), 102.
The classic Tao Te Ching . . . reveals how both action and contemplation are
paths to experiencing harmony, peace, and unity amidst diversity. —Lama
Surya Das (Sunday)
At first light, Siddhartha turned and looked at the day star with awakened
eyes, as the Buddha—meaning “the one who is awake”—seeing life the way it
really is, free from all projections, all distortions, all delusions, all belief
systems. He saw, we might say, the boundary-less, trustworthy nature of
what is. —James Finley (Monday)
The Third Noble Truth is that it is possible to be healed from [the propensity
for suffering] by learning to live as one with the way life is. This is the truth of
nirvana—this way of abiding peace and equanimity in the rise and fall of daily
circumstances just as they are. —James Finley (Tuesday)
1. Recognize the place of loving kindness inside yourself. It is there. Honor it,
awaken it, and actively draw upon it.
2. Drawing upon the source of loving kindness within, bring to mind someone for
whom you feel sincere goodwill and tenderness, someone you love very much. From
your source, send loving kindness toward this person and bless them.
3. Awaken loving kindness for someone who is a casual friend or associate—
someone not in your inner circle, but a bit further removed, someone you admire or
appreciate. Send love to that individual.
4. Now send loving kindness to someone about whom you feel neutral or
indifferent—for example, a gas station attendant or a cashier. Send your blessing to
this person.
5. Think of someone who has hurt you, who has talked evil of you, whom you find
it difficult to like or you don’t enjoy being around. Bless them; send this would-be
enemy your love.
6. Bring all of the first five individuals into the stream of flowing love, including
yourself. Hold them here for a few moments.
7. Finally, extend this love to embrace all beings in the universe. It is one piece of
love, one love toward all, regardless of religion, race, culture, or likability.
This practice can help you know—in your mind, heart, and body—that love is
not determined by the worthiness of the object. Love is determined by the giver
of the love. These steps can be repeated for the other three limitless qualities.
Remember, spiritual gifts increase with use. Love, compassion, joy, and
equanimity will grow as you let them flow. You are simply an instrument, a
conduit for the inflow and outflow of the gifts of the Spirit. You are “inter-
being.”
James Finley and Richard Rohr, Jesus and Buddha: Paths to Awakening (Center for Action
and Contemplation: 2008), CD, DVD, MP3 download
Derek Lin, Tao Te Ching: Annotated and Explained (Skylight Paths Publishing: 2006)
Week Thirty-five
Judaism
Hasidism
Friday, August 31, 2018
The Baal Shem Tov (1698-1760)—Master of the Good Name—was the founder
of a Jewish religious movement called Hasidism that began in the eighteenth
century. The “Besht” (acronym for Baal Shem Tov) was ecstatically in love
with God. He reminds me a bit of my own spiritual father, St. Francis of Assisi
(1182-1226). Like Francis—who was simply following Jesus, who was
following the Hebrew Scriptures which always showed a bias toward the
bottom—the Baal Shem Tov began a grassroots movement of joyful love and
service that appealed to ordinary people, not only to a scholarly elite.
In his book, Hasidic Tales: Annotated and Explained, Rabbi Rami Shapiro
explains this stream of Judaism:
The ancient Rabbis taught, “God desires the heart.” They themselves, however,
seem to have preferred the head. Judaism has struggled through the ages to find
a balance between heartfelt yearning for God and the intellectual mastery of
God’s Word. Generally speaking, it was the head that won out. Yet when things
got too heady, the pendulum would swing in favor of the heart. The eighteenth-
century Jewish revivalist movement called Hasidism was one of these heart
swings. . . . The goal [of Hasidic disciples] was d’veikus, or union with God.
The essential message and practice of early Hasidism are simple. The message: .
. . “the whole earth is full of God’s glory” (Isaiah 6:3). The practice: . . . “I place
God before me always” (Psalm 16:8). Understand these and you understand
Hasidism.
. . . Hasidism tries to wake the wave up to being the ocean. Awakening to your
true nature is what it is to “place God before you always.” Everywhere you look
you see God, not as an abstract spirit but as the True Being of all beings.
The Besht believed that God was everywhere and could be found by anyone
whose heart was open, simple, and pure. At a time when Judaism was focused
on a scholar elite, he reached out to the masses with a Judaism rich in
compassion, devotion, and hope. His inner circle of disciples took his teachings
out into the larger world, creating a global movement that continues to this day.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Rami Shapiro, Hasidic Tales: Annotated and Explained (Jewish Lights Publishing: 2004,
2013), xxvii-xxviii, xxix, xxxii, xxxiv.
Week Thirty-six
Early Christianity
If we look closely at the evolution of religion over time, we see that there has
been gradual growth toward the goal of union with God. Religions continue to
change, “transcending and including,” as Ken Wilber says, learning from old
ways and opening to new. Christianity is no different from other religions in this
regard. Over the next few weeks I will focus on people and communities within
Christianity who were somehow transformed and “got it” at a mature level for
their time in history.
Christianity first emerged not as a new religion, but as a reform and sect of
Judaism within Judea and the Mediterranean. Wherever Paul, Peter, and other
early missionaries traveled, they formed small communities of believers in “The
Way,” a movement that emphasized Jesus’ teachings, death, and resurrection as
the path to transformation. Gradually the movement grew and took on a life of
its own, welcoming non-Jews as well as Jews, becoming more inclusive and
grace-oriented, until it eventually called itself “catholic” or universal. By 80 CE,
there were Christians as far away as India and France.
The “Early Church” period (the five hundred or so years following Jesus’
resurrection) was a time of dramatic change in culture, politics, and economy.
All these changes affected the development of the fledgling religion, shaping
liturgy, rituals, and theology. Historian Diana Butler Bass writes, “for all the
complexity of primitive Christianity, a startling idea runs through early records
of faith: Christianity seems to have succeeded because it transformed the lives of
people in a chaotic world.” [1] During this time, Christianity was not so much
about doctrines or eternal salvation, but about how to live a better life here and
now, within the “Reign of God.”
From the perspective of occupying Roman powers, the Christian sect was radical
because it encouraged alternative behaviors that were both attractive to those at
the bottom and threatening to the worldview of empire. Rather than acquiring
wealth, this new sect shared possessions equally. Followers of The Way lived
together with people of different ethnicities and social classes rather than
following classist and cultural norms.
Through these meditations, I will try to reclaim some of the forgotten pieces of
the Christian tradition for our wholeness and blessing, hopefully bringing us
closer to what it means to be created in the image and likeness of God. Not
knowing this early heritage will allow us to cling to superficial Christian
distinctions that emerged much later, and largely as historical accidents.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Diana Butler Bass, A People’s History of Christianity: The Other Side of the Story
(HarperOne: 2009), 26.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, “Desert Christianity and the Eastern Fathers of the Church,”
The Mendicant, vol. 5, no. 2 (Center for Action and Contemplation: April 2015), 1.
Image credit: Saint Catherine's Monastery (detail), built between 548-565 near the town of
Saint Catherine, the Sinai Peninsula, Egypt.
Week Thirty-six
Early Christianity
A Changing Religion
Monday, September 3, 2018
Much of what Jesus taught seems to have been followed closely during the first
several hundred years after his death and resurrection. As long as Jesus’
followers were on the bottom and the edge of empire, as long as they shared the
rejected and betrayed status of Jesus, they could grasp his teaching more
readily. Values like nonparticipation in war, simple living, inclusivity, and love
of enemies could be more easily understood when Christians were gathering
secretly in the catacombs, when their faith was untouched by empire,
rationalization, and compromise.
The last great formal persecution of Christians in the Roman Empire ended in
311 CE. In 313, Constantine (c. 272-337) legalized Christianity. It became the
official religion of the Roman Empire in 380. After this structural change,
Christianity increasingly accepted, and even defended, the dominant social
order, especially concerning money and war. Morality became individualized
and largely focused on sexuality. The church slowly lost its free and alternative
vantage point. Texts written in the hundred years preceding 313 show it was
unthinkable that a Christian would fight in the army, as the army was killing
Christians. By the year 400, the entire army had become Christian, and they
were now killing the “pagans.”
Before 313, the church was on the bottom of society, which is the privileged
vantage point for understanding the liberating power of Gospel for both the
individual and for society. Within the space of a few decades, the church moved
from the bottom to the top, literally from the catacombs to the basilicas. The
Roman basilicas were large buildings for court and other public assembly, and
they became Christian worship spaces.
When the Christian church became the established religion of the empire, it
started reading the Gospel from the position of maintaining power and social
order instead of experiencing the profound power of powerlessness that Jesus
revealed. In a sense, Christianity almost became a different religion!
The failing Roman Empire needed an emperor, and Jesus was used to fill the
power gap. In effect, we Christians took Jesus out of the Trinity and made him
into God on a throne. An imperial system needs law and order and clear
belonging systems more than it wants mercy, meekness, or transformation.
Much of Jesus’ teaching about simple living, nonviolence, inclusivity, and love
of enemies became incomprehensible. Relationship—the shape of God as Trinity
—was no longer as important. Christianity’s view of God changed: the Father
became angry and distant, Jesus was reduced to an organizing principle, and for
all practical and dynamic purposes, the Holy Spirit was forgotten.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Didache 4:8. See Tony Jones, The Teaching of the Twelve: Believing and Practicing the
Primitive Christianity of the Ancient Didache Community (Paraclete Press: 2009), 23.
More about the Didache is available at
http://www.earlychristianwritings.com/didache.html.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Dancing Standing Still: Healing the World from a Place of
Prayer (Paulist Press: 2014), 48-51; and
Things Hidden: Scripture as Spirituality (Franciscan Media: 2008), 100.
Image credit: Saint Catherine's Monastery (detail), built between 548-565 near the town of
Saint Catherine, the Sinai Peninsula, Egypt.
Early Christianity
From the beginning, Jesus’s ministry modeled the interplay between prophetic
utterance, public theology, and intense spiritual renewal. He launches his three-
year ministry from the desert wilderness, a place that will be the home of latter-
day desert mothers and fathers. After an intense time of fasting, testing, and
submission to the leading of the Holy Spirit, Jesus returns ready to fulfill his
calling. These rhythms of activism and contemplation, engagement and
withdrawal resonate throughout his life.
As for the early church, its origins are steeped in the intimacy of close
communal groups in house churches and catacombs. During the first century,
Paul refers to the knowledge of God as an understanding that exceeds rational
and objective thought. This knowledge can be experienced as presence. The
prophets and wisdom literature celebrate the accessibility of this presence and
extol the mysteries of the human/divine relationship. Theological
contemplation usually assumes the tangible reality of God’s love, our
shortcomings, and the inexplicable possibility of reunion. Accordingly,
relationship is a primary goal of Christian life.
When Christianity began, it was small and intense, communal and set apart,
until it found favor with the state. Those adherents who witnessed Rome’s
public affirmation of Christianity in the fourth century realized that the
contemplative aspects of the faith could not be nurtured under the largesse of
the state. And so, in the fifth century, monasticism flourished in the [African
and Middle Eastern] desert as Christian converts retreated for respite and
spiritual clarity. Although the desert mothers and fathers sought harsh and
isolated sites, they soon found that they were not alone. The decision to retreat
drew others to them. Communities formed as city dwellers came out to seek
advice and solace. The historical model of contemplation offers the rhythm of
retreat and return. It was in the wilderness that African contemplatives carved
out unique spiritual boundaries.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Early Christianity
For too long, little or no honor has been paid to those who have laid the
foundations in Africa for the preservation of Christianity throughout the
world. . . . [T]he roots and headwaters for this monastic flourishing had their
source in African soil. Unfortunately, black saints have been depicted as white
and African bishops have been portrayed as Europeans. The remembrance
and acknowledgment of our historic spiritual foundations is long overdue. —
Paisius Altschul [1]
African participants in the early church remained in the shadows of the main
theological discourse despite the scholarship of Tertullian [c. 155-c. 240],
Augustine [354-430], Cyprian [c. 200-258], and others of African descent who
were instrumental in the expansion and theological grounding of the early
church. Although initially the spread of Islam limited the expansion of North
African Christian practices to sub-Saharan Africa, the trajectories of today’s
Christian contemplative practices can be traced to early Christian communities
in the Middle East and Africa.
If the desert is a place of renewal, transformation, and freedom, and if the heat
and isolation served as a nurturing incubator for nascent monastic movements,
one wonders if a desert experience is necessary to reclaim this legacy.
One need not wonder long when there are so many deserts within reach.
Today’s wilderness can be found in bustling suburban and urban centers, on
death row, in homeless shelters in the middle of the night, in the eyes of a
hospice patient, and in the desperation of AIDS orphans in Africa and around
the world. Perhaps these are the postmodern desert mothers and fathers.
Perhaps contemplative spaces can be found wherever people skirt the margins
of inclusion. Perhaps those whom we value least have the most to teach.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Paisius Altschul, “African Monasticism: Its Influence on the Rest of the World,” An
Unbroken Circle: Linking Ancient African Christianity to the African-American
Experience, ed. Paisius Altshul (Brotherhood of St. Moses the Black: 1997), 42.
[2] Laura Swan, The Forgotten Desert Mothers: Sayings, Lives, and Stories of Early
Christian Women (Paulist Press: 2001), 168.
Image credit: Saint Catherine's Monastery (detail), built between 548-565 near the town of
Saint Catherine, the Sinai Peninsula, Egypt.
Early Christianity
A brother was restless in the community and often moved to anger. So he said:
“I will go, and live somewhere by myself. And since I shall be able to talk or
listen to no one, I shall be tranquil, and my passionate anger will cease.” He
went out and lived alone in a cave. But one day he filled his jug with water and
put it on the ground. It happened suddenly to fall over. He filled it again, and
again it fell. And this happened a third time. And in a rage he snatched up the
jug and broke it. Returning to his right mind, he knew that the demon of anger
had mocked him, and he said: “Here am I by myself, and he has beaten me. I
will return to the community. Wherever you live, you need effort and patience
and above all God's help.” —Story of a desert father [1]
As the Christian church moved from bottom to top, protected and pampered by
the Roman Empire, people like Anthony of the Desert (c. 250-c. 356), John
Cassian (c. 360-c. 435), Evagrius Ponticus (c. 345-399), Syncletica (c. 270-c.
350) and other early Christians went off to the deserts of Egypt, Palestine, and
Syria to find spiritual freedom, live out Jesus’ teachings, and continue growing
in the Spirit. It was in these deserts that a different mind
called contemplation was taught.
As an alternative to empire and its economy, these men and women emphasized
lifestyle practice, psychologically astute methods of prayer, and a very simple
spirituality of transformation into Christ. The desert communities grew out of
informal gatherings of monks or nuns, functioning much like families. A good
number also became hermits to mine the deep mystery of their inner
experience. This movement paralleled the monastic pattern in Hinduism and
Buddhism.
The desert tradition preceded the emergence of systematic theology and formal
doctrine. Christian faith was first a lifestyle before it was a belief system. Since
the desert dwellers were often formally uneducated, they told stories, much like
Jesus did, to teach about essential issues of ego, love, virtue, surrender, peace,
divine union, and inner freedom.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Western Asceticism, ed., trans. Owen Chadwick (Westminster John Knox Press: 2006,
©1958), 92.
[2] Thomas Merton, The Wisdom of the Desert (New Directions: 1960), 5-6.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Dancing Standing Still: Healing the World from a Place of
Prayer (Paulist Press: 2014), 51; and
“Desert Christianity and the Eastern Fathers of the Church,” The Mendicant, vol. 5, no. 2
(Center for Action and Contemplation: April 2015), 1.
Image credit: Saint Catherine's Monastery (detail), built between 548-565 near the town of
Saint Catherine, the Sinai Peninsula, Egypt.
Early Christianity
Practical Prayer
Friday, September 7, 2018
In the same way as the early church, the desert Christians were deeply
committed to Jesus’ teachings and lived practice. Withdrawal to the wilderness
—whether into close-knit communities or solitude—was only for the sake of
deeper encounter and presence.
Diana Butler Bass describes the natural flow from prayer to active love:
[Jesus’ invitation to] “Come follow me” was intimately bound up with the
practice of prayer. For prayer connects us with God and others, “part of this
enterprise of learning to love.” Prayer is much more than a technique, and early
Christians left us no definitive how-to manual on prayer. Rather, the desert
fathers and mothers believed that prayer was a disposition of wholeness, so that
“prayer and our life must be all of a piece.” They approached prayer, as early
church scholar Roberta Bondi notes, as a practical twofold process: first, of
“thinking and reflecting,” or “pondering” what it means to love others; and
second, as the “development and practice of loving ways of being.” [1] In other
words, these ancients taught that prayer was participation in God’s love, the
activity that takes us out of ourselves, . . . and conforms us to the path of Christ.”
[2]
The desert fathers and mothers—abbas and ammas—learned to be sparing and
intentional with their words and to preach more through their lifestyle than
through sermons. There were few “doctrines” to prove at this time in
Christianity, only an inner life to be experienced. Abba Isidore of Pelusia (5th
century) said, “To live without speaking is better than to speak without living.
For the former who lives rightly does good even by his silence but the latter does
no good even when he speaks. When words and life correspond to one another
they are together the whole of philosophy.” [3]
An old abba was asked what was necessary to do to be saved. He was sitting
making rope. Without glancing up, he said, “You’re looking at it.” Just as so
many of the mystics have taught us, doing what you’re doing with presence and
intention is prayer. As other spiritual teachers have taught in many forms,
“When we walk, we walk; when we chop wood, we chop wood; when we sleep,
we sleep.” As you know, this is much harder than it first seems.
Belden Lane helps clear away any romanticism we might associate with desert
spirituality:
[The] desert is, preeminently, a place to die. Anyone retreating to an Egyptian or
Judean monastery, hoping to escape the tensions of city life, found little comfort
among the likes of an Anthony or a Sabas. The desert offered no private
therapeutic place for solace and rejuvenation. One was more likely to be carried
out feet first than to be restored unchanged to the life one had left. [4]
In the tradition of Moses and Jesus, the Christians who wandered into the
desert entered a wild, fierce, unknown place where they would encounter both
“demons” and “angels” (Mark 1:13)—their own shadowy selves which contained
both good and bad. Belden Lane writes: “Amma Syncletica refused to let anyone
deceive herself by imagining that retreat to a desert monastery meant the
guarantee of freedom from the world. The hardest world to leave, she knew, is
the one within the heart.” [5]
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Roberta C. Bondi, To Pray and to Love (Fortress Press: 1991), 12-13, 14.
[2] Diana Butler Bass, A People’s History of Christianity: The Other Side of the Story
(HarperOne: 2009), 48.
[3] The Sayings of the Desert Fathers: The Alphabetical Collection, trans. Benedicta Ward
(Cistercian Publications: 1975), 84.
[4] Belden Lane, The Solace of Fierce Landscapes: Exploring Desert and Mountain
Spirituality (Oxford University Press: 1998), 165.
Image credit: Saint Catherine's Monastery (detail), built between 548-565 near the town of
Saint Catherine, the Sinai Peninsula, Egypt.
Early Christianity
The very things the early Christians emphasized—such as the prayer of quiet,
the Trinity, divinization, universal restoration, and the importance of practice—
have been neglected, to our own detriment. (Sunday)
When the Christian church became the established religion of the empire, it
started reading the Gospel from the position of maintaining power and social
order instead of experiencing the profound power of powerlessness that Jesus
revealed. In a sense, Christianity almost became a different religion! (Monday)
As an alternative to empire and its economy, the desert mothers and fathers
emphasized lifestyle practice, psychologically astute methods of prayer, and a
very simple spirituality of transformation into Christ. (Thursday)
The desert fathers and mothers believed that prayer was a disposition of
wholeness, so that “prayer and our life must be all of a piece.” —Diana Butler
Bass (Friday)
Abba Poemen said, “Teach your mouth to say what is in your heart.” [1] Many of
the desert fathers and mothers, as well as the collected texts of the Philokalia in
the Eastern Orthodox tradition, have described prayer as bringing your thinking
down into your heart. It always seemed like soft piety to me until someone
taught me how to do it, and I learned the immense benefits of the prayer of the
heart. As a Catholic, I was often puzzled by the continued return to heart
imagery, such as Jesus pointing to his “Sacred Heart” and Mary pointing to her
“Immaculate Heart.” I often wonder what people actually do with these images.
Are they mere sentiment? Are they objects of worship or objects of
transformation? You must return their gaze and invitation for a long time to get
the transformative message and healing. Such images keep recurring only
because they are speaking something important from the unconscious, maybe
even something necessary for the soul’s emergence.
Love lives and thrives in the heart space. It has kept me from wanting to hurt
people who have hurt me. It keeps me every day from obsessive, repetitive, or
compulsive head games. It can make the difference between being happy and
being miserable and negative. Could this be what we are really doing when we
say we are praying for someone? Yes, we are holding them in our heart space.
Do this in an almost physical sense, and you will see how calmly and quickly it
works.
Next time a resentment, negativity, or irritation comes into your mind, and you
want to play it out or attach to it, move that thought or person literally into
your heart space. Dualistic commentaries are lodged in your head; but in your
heart, you can surround this negative thought with silence. There it is
surrounded with blood, which will often feel warm like coals. In this place, it is
almost impossible to comment, judge, create story lines, or remain antagonistic.
You are in a place that does not create or feed on contraries but is the natural
organ of life, embodiment, and love. Now the Sacred Heart and the Immaculate
Heart have been transferred to you. They are pointing for you to join them
there. The “sacred heart” is then your heart too.
[1] The Sayings of the Desert Fathers: The Alphabetical Collection, trans. Benedicta Ward
(Cistercian Publications: 1975), 159.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self (Jossey-
Bass: 2013), Appendix D.
Image credit: Saint Catherine's Monastery (detail), built between 548-565 near the town of
Saint Catherine, the Sinai Peninsula, Egypt.
Joan Chittister, In God’s Holy Light: Wisdom from the Desert Monastics (Franciscan
Media: 2015)
Belden Lane, The Solace of Fierce Landscapes: Exploring Desert and Mountain
Spirituality (Oxford University Press: 1998)
Richard Rohr, Dancing Standing Still: Healing the World from a Place of Prayer (Paulist
Press: 2014)
The Sayings of the Desert Fathers: The Alphabetical Collection, trans. Benedicta Ward
(Cistercian Publications: 1975)
Laura Swan, The Forgotten Desert Mothers: Sayings, Lives, and Stories of Early Christian
Women (Paulist Press: 2001)
Love
We cannot attain the presence of God because we’re already in the presence of
God. What’s absent is awareness. Little do we realize that God’s love is
maintaining us in existence with every breath we take. As we take another, it
means that God is choosing us now and now and now and now. We have
nothing to attain or even learn. We do, however, need to unlearn some things.
To become aware of God’s loving presence in our lives, we must accept that
human culture is in a mass hypnotic trance. We’re sleepwalkers. All great
religious teachers have recognized that we human beings do not naturally see;
we have to be taught how to see. Jesus says further, “If your eye is healthy, your
whole body is full of light” (Luke 11:34). Religion is meant to teach us how to see
and be present to reality. That’s why the Buddha and Jesus say with one voice,
“Be awake.” Jesus talks about “staying watchful” (Matthew 25:13; Luke 12:37;
Mark 13: 33-37), and “Buddha” means “I am awake” in Sanskrit.
Prayer is not primarily saying words or thinking thoughts. It is, rather, a stance.
It’s a way of living in the Presence, living in awareness of the Presence, and even
enjoying the Presence. The contemplative is not just aware of God’s Loving
Presence, but trusts, allows, and delights in it.
Faith in God is not just faith to believe in spiritual ideas. It’s to have confidence
in Love itself. It’s to have confidence in reality itself. At its core, reality is okay.
God is in it. God is revealed in all things, even through the tragic and sad, as
the revolutionary doctrine of the cross reveals!
All spiritual disciplines have one purpose: to get rid of illusions so we can be
more fully present to what is. These disciplines exist so that we can see what is,
see who we are, and see what is happening. What is is love, so much so that
even the tragic will be used for purposes of transformation into love. It is God,
who is love, giving away God every moment as the reality of our life. Who we are
is love, because we are created in God’s image. What is happening is God living
in us, with us, and through us as our unique manifestation of love. And each one
of us is a bit different because the forms of love are infinite.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Albert Einstein, Condolence letter to Norman Salit (March 4, 1950). Reprinted in The
New York Times, March 29, 1972, https://www.nytimes.com/1972/03/29/archives/the-
einstein-papers-a-man-of-many-parts-the-einstein-papers-man-of.html.
Adapted from Richard Rohr: Essential Teachings on Love, ed. Joelle Chase and Judy
Traeger (Orbis Books: 2018), 12, 25.
Week Forty-three
Suffering
Man suffers most through his fears of suffering. —Etty Hillesum [1]
Over the next couple days, James Finley shares insights on suffering drawn
from Jesus’ example and teaching.
I would like to reflect on the role of Jesus as the one whose very presence is
incarnational testimony of how to approach our life and the ways we suffer. In
the Christian tradition, the cross is right at the center of this great mystery.
Jesus is the archetypal master teacher, who reveals his teaching through the
very concreteness of his life. What is it that allows Jesus to face all kinds of
suffering, including his own, and how can we follow him?
We might start this way: In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus sweat blood
because he was afraid (Luke 22:44). It is possible that he was infinitely more
afraid than we could ever be. But the difference is: Jesus was not afraid of being
afraid, because he knew it was just fear. So why are we so afraid of fear? We are
afraid of fear because we believe that it has the power to name who we are, and
it fills us with shame. We feel ashamed that we're going around as a fearful
person, and so we pretend that we're not afraid. We try our best to find our own
way out of feeling afraid, but this is our dilemma, our stuck place, that Jesus
wants us to be liberated from. But we cannot do it on our own.
When we start on our path, our hope is that we will be liberated from fear in
light of the mystery of Christ. Certainly, this includes doing our best to be as safe
as we can be and to help others do the same. And when scary things are
happening, it always includes doing our best to find our way to safer places and
to help others do the same. But as for the fear that remains, Jesus invites us to
discover that our fear is woven into God’s own life, whose life is mysteriously
woven into all the scary things that can and do happen to us as human beings
together on this earth. This is liberation from fear in the midst of a fearful
situation.
As we long for and work toward this kind of liberation, it is important not to
romanticize a person’s fear and painful experience by speaking in spiritual
terms that can leave the person who is hurting feeling unseen and unmet. At a
very basic level, any real response to suffering must always include letting the
hurting person know sincerely, “I am so sorry you are having to go through this
painful experience. What can I do that might possibly be helpful?”
Here we might also turn to our teacher Jesus who was not one who had risen
above human frailty; to the contrary, he discovered directly through his
presence that inexhaustible compassion and love flow through human frailty.
Our practice is to become present to that infinite flow of compassion and love
and bring it to bear in a tender-hearted and sincere manner in our very presence
to the painful situation. We do this knowing that God is sustaining and guiding
us all in unexplainable ways that are not dependent on how the painful situation
might turn out.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Etty Hillesum, Diary entry (September 30, 1942). See An Interrupted Life: The Diaries,
1941–1943 and Letters from Westerbork, trans. Arnold J. Pomerans (Henry Holt and
Company: 1996), 220.
Adapted from James Finley, Thomas Merton's Path to the Palace of Nowhere, disc 5
(Sounds True: 2004), CD.
Image Credit: Jonah and the Whale (detail), by Pieter Lastman, 1621. Kunstpalast Museum,
Düsseldorf, Germany.
Suffering
Freedom from Fear
Thursday, October 25, 2018
Man suffers most through his fears of suffering. —Etty Hillesum [1]
Over the next couple days, James Finley shares insights on suffering drawn
from Jesus’ example and teaching.
I would like to reflect on the role of Jesus as the one whose very presence is
incarnational testimony of how to approach our life and the ways we suffer. In
the Christian tradition, the cross is right at the center of this great mystery.
Jesus is the archetypal master teacher, who reveals his teaching through the
very concreteness of his life. What is it that allows Jesus to face all kinds of
suffering, including his own, and how can we follow him?
When we start on our path, our hope is that we will be liberated from
fear in light of the mystery of Christ. Certainly, this includes doing
our best to be as safe as we can be and to help others do the same.
And when scary things are happening, it always includes doing our
best to find our way to safer places and to help others do the same.
But as for the fear that remains, Jesus invites us to discover that our
fear is woven into God’s own life, whose life is mysteriously woven
into all the scary things that can and do happen to us as human
beings together on this earth. This is liberation from fear in the
midst of a fearful situation.
As we long for and work toward this kind of liberation, it is important not to
romanticize a person’s fear and painful experience by speaking in spiritual
terms that can leave the person who is hurting feeling unseen and unmet. At a
very basic level, any real response to suffering must always include letting the
hurting person know sincerely, “I am so sorry you are having to go through this
painful experience. What can I do that might possibly be helpful?”
Here we might also turn to our teacher Jesus who was not one who
had risen above human frailty; to the contrary, he discovered
directly through his presence that inexhaustible compassion and
love flow through human frailty. Our practice is to become present
to that infinite flow of compassion and love and bring it to bear in a
tender-hearted and sincere manner in our very presence to the
painful situation. We do this knowing that God is sustaining and
guiding us all in unexplainable ways that are not dependent on how
the painful situation might turn out.
Suffering
Wounded Healers
Friday, October 26, 2018
Only people who have suffered in some way can usually save
anybody else—exactly as the Twelve-Step program illustrates. They
alone have the space and the capacity for the other. Deep
communion and compassion are formed much more by shared pain
than by shared pleasure. Jesus told Peter, “You must be ground like
wheat, and once you have recovered, then you can turn and help the
brothers” (see Luke 22:31-32). In general, you can lead people on the
spiritual journey as far as you have gone. Transformed people
transform people. When you can be healed yourself and not just talk
about healing, you are, as Henri Nouwen said, a “wounded healer”—
which is probably the only kind of healer!
James Finley shares insights drawn from Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’ work with the
dying:
Those who come to acceptance in death don’t look up at you from their
deathbeds to say how happy they are in the ways we typically speak of
happiness. For those who come to acceptance in death pass beyond the dualism
of happiness and sadness as emotional states that depend on conditions that are
conducive to happiness. Those who come to acceptance in death have about
them a certain transparent childlike quality, an uncanny peace. It's a peace not
of this world. For in accepting their seemingly unacceptable situation, they are
transformed in ways that leave us feeling strangely touched and privileged to be
in their presence. Being in their presence can open up in us a deep sense of how
invincibly precious we are in the midst of our fragility.
This experience of being with those who have come to an acceptance in death
can help us renew our ongoing efforts to learn from God how to die to the last
traces of clinging to anything less or other than God’s sustaining love. For
insofar as we learn from God how to die to all that is less than or other than
God’s love as our sole security and identity, it just might be possible that when
the moment of our death finally comes, nothing will happen. For in some deep,
unexplainable way we will have already crossed over into the deathless love of
God. [1]
We can see Etty Hillesum’s work to find this kind of acceptance in letters she
wrote from the Westerbork transit camp:
This is something people refuse to admit to themselves: at a given point you can
no longer do, but can only be and accept. [2]
Such peace allowed Hillesum to serve and love her fellow humans, even when,
as she wrote, they “don’t give you much occasion to love them.” She discovered
“there is no causal connection between people’s behavior and the love you feel
for them. Love for one’s fellow man is like an elemental glow that sustains you.”
[3]
Finally, on a card that she threw out of the train on her way to Auschwitz, Etty
wrote:
In the end, the departure came without warning. On sudden special orders from
The Hague. We left the camp singing, Father and Mother firmly and calmly,
Mischa, too. We shall be traveling for three days. Thank you for all your
kindness and care. [4]
Hard to believe these could be her last written words. Where does such
generosity of spirit come from? From God, only from an Infinite God and an
Infinite Source of Love.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] James Finley, Thomas Merton's Path to the Palace of Nowhere, disc 5 (Sounds True:
2004), CD.
[2] Etty Hillesum, Letter (July 10, 1943). See An Interrupted Life: The Diaries, 1941–1943
and Letters from Westerbork, trans. Arnold J. Pomerans (Henry Holt and Company: 1996),
314.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, A Spring Within Us: A Book of Daily Meditations (CAC
Publishing: 2016), 123.
Image Credit: Jonah and the Whale (detail), by Pieter Lastman, 1621. Kunstpalast Museum,
Düsseldorf, Germany.
Suffering
Redemptive Suffering
Monday, October 22, 2018
The “cross,” rightly understood, always reveals various kinds of resurrection. It’s
as if God were holding up the crucifixion as a cosmic object lesson, saying: “I
know this is what you’re experiencing. Don’t run from it. Learn from it, as I did.
Hang there for a while, as I did. It will be your teacher. Rather than losing life,
you will be gaining a larger life. It is the way through.”
The mystery of the cross has the power to teach us that our suffering is not our
own and my life is not about “me”; instead, we are actually living inside of a
larger force field of life and death. One moves from “me” to “us” inside of this
field of deep inner experience. This is the gateway to compassion, and thus
redemption. When I can see and accept my suffering as a common participation
with Jesus and all humanity, I am somehow “saved” and I become “whole in
him” (see Colossians 2:9–10). I fully admit this is often hard to do when we are
still in the midst of our suffering, and we just want to be delivered from it.
Hopefully, a time will come when the life of Christ will be so triumphant in us
that we care more about others than our own selves, or, better, when there is no
longer such a sharp distinction between my self and other selves. More than
anything else, conversion is a reconstituted sense of the self. As Paul stated, “I
have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in
me; and the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved
me and gave himself for me” (Galatians 2:20).
Rather than going into hiding, Etty Hillesum spent her last weeks of freedom
supporting people who were facing deportation to Auschwitz. In her diaries she
wrote:
I am not afraid to look suffering straight in the eyes. And at the end of each day,
there was always the feeling: I love people so much. Never any bitterness about
what was done to them, but always love for those who knew how to bear so
much although nothing had prepared them for such burdens. [1]
. . . [A]ll we can manage these days and also all that really matters: that we
safeguard that little piece of You, God, in ourselves. And perhaps in others as
well. Alas, there doesn’t seem to be much You Yourself can do about our
circumstances, about our lives. Neither do I hold You responsible. You cannot
help us, but we must help You and defend Your dwelling place inside us to the
last. [3]
Ultimately, we have just one moral duty: to reclaim large areas of peace in
ourselves, more and more peace, and to reflect it toward others. And the more
peace there is in us, the more peace there will also be in our troubled world. [4]
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Etty Hillesum, Diary entry (October 8, 1942). See An Interrupted Life: The Diaries,
1941–1943 and Letters from Westerbork, trans. Arnold J. Pomerans (Henry Holt and
Company: 1996), 227.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, A Spring Within Us: A Book of Daily Meditations (CAC
Publishing: 2016), 122.
Image Credit: Jonah and the Whale (detail), by Pieter Lastman, 1621. Kunstpalast Museum,
Düsseldorf, Germany.
Suffering
Traumatization of Spirituality
Tuesday, October 23, 2018
James Finley, one of my fellow faculty members at the Center for Action and
Contemplation, is a clinical psychologist. He speaks expertly—from a
professional, personal, and mystical perspective—on suffering and healing.
Here Jim explains how Spanish mystic John of the Cross (1542–1591) allowed
trauma to transform him.
John of the Cross was invited by Teresa of Ávila (1515–1582) to join her in
reforming the Carmelite Order by returning to a renewed fidelity to prayer,
simplicity, and poverty. The priests of the order did not take kindly to the
suggestion that they needed reform and demanded that John stop his
involvement. John said that he would not stop because he discerned in his heart
that God was calling him to continue with this work. The priests responded in a
very harsh manner, capturing him and putting him in a small dark prison cell
with little protection from the elements. John was imprisoned for nine months.
During that time, on a number of occasions, he would be taken out of his cell,
stripped to the waist, and whipped.
John felt lost. It wasn’t just because of the severity of his imprisonment. This
was the Church! The priests who were mistreating him were people he had
emulated. John went through what we could call the traumatization of
spirituality, which can be described as a kind of dark night of faith in which we
lose experiential access to God’s sustaining presence in the midst of our
struggles. [I, Richard, imagine many are going through a similar experience
as we learn about the Catholic Church’s extensive cover-up of sexual abuse.]
For John of the Cross, his suffering opened up onto something unexpected.
John discovered that although it was true that he could not find refuge from
suffering when he was in his prison cell, he also discovered that the suffering he
had to endure had no refuge from God’s love that could take the suffering away,
but rather permeated the suffering through and through and through and
through and through. Love protects us from nothing, even as it unexplainably
sustains us in all things. Access to this love is not limited by our finite ideas of
what it is or what it should be. Rather, this love overwhelms our abilities to
comprehend it, as it so unexplainably sustains us and continues to draw us to
itself in all that life might send our way.
This is why John of the Cross encourages us not to lose heart when we are
passing through our own hardships, but rather to have faith in knowing and
trusting that no matter what might be happening and no matter how painful it
might be, God is sustaining us in ways we cannot and do not need to
understand. John encourages us that in learning to be patiently transformed in
this dark night we come to discover within ourselves, just when everything
seems to be lost, that we are being unexplainably sustained by the presence of
God that will never lose us. As this painful yet transformative process continues
to play itself out in our lives, we can and will discover we are finding our way to
the peace of God that surpasses understanding.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Adapted from James Finley, Intimacy: The Divine Ambush, disc 3 (Center for Action and
Contemplation: 2013), CD, MP3 download.
Image Credit: Jonah and the Whale (detail), by Pieter Lastman, 1621. Kunstpalast Museum,
Düsseldorf, Germany.
Suffering
Invincible Preciousness
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
My colleague James Finley is someone who incarnates the truth that the
suffering we carry is our solidarity with the one, universal longing of all
humanity, and thus it can teach us great compassion and patience with both
ourselves and others. Here he shares the intimate truth of his own suffering. I
invite you to witness Jim’s experience (and perhaps your own trauma) with
tenderness and love:
Mysticism doesn’t really come into its own and isn’t really incarnational unless
it becomes integrated into the sometimes-painful realities of our daily lives. I
think I relate so deeply to Christian mystic John of the Cross who wrote
soulfully about a kind of dark night of faith because I was raised in a home with
a lot of trauma—physical, sexual, and emotional abuse—and I was very
fragmented by all of it. I graduated from high school, ran away from home,
became a monk, and joined a monastery.
When I entered the monastery, I thought I had left the trauma behind me. I was
in this silent cloister, with Thomas Merton for my spiritual director. I was
walking around reading John of the Cross, and I felt like I had it made, really.
And then I was sexually abused by one of the monks, my confessor. It
completely shattered me. I never thought it was possible. I didn’t see it coming.
I decompensated and became extremely dissociative. All the stuff that I lived
with growing up came out as feelings of fear and confusion over which I seemed
to have no control. There was no refuge for me. I didn’t tell anyone what had
happened. I just left. I started a new life as a way to bury all the pain and move
on.
Years later, I found myself in therapy and all hell broke loose. But
with prayer and gentle pacing, I learned to see, feel, accept, and find
my way through the long-term internalized effects of the trauma I
had to endure in my childhood and adolescence. It was in this
process that I came upon what I call the axial moment in which our
most intimate experience of who we are turns, as on a hidden axis of
love, down through the pain into a qualitatively richer, more
vulnerable place. It is in the midst of this turning that we discover
the qualitatively richer, more vulnerable place is actually the abyss-
like, loving presence of God, welling up and giving itself in and as the
intimate interiority of our healing journey. When we risk sharing what
hurts the most in the presence of someone who will not invade us or abandon
us, we unexpectedly come upon within ourselves what Jesus called the pearl of
great price: the invincible preciousness of our self in our fragility.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Adapted from James Finley, Intimacy: The Divine Ambush, disc 3 (Center for Action and
Contemplation: 2013), CD, MP3 download; and Transforming Trauma: A Seven-Step
Process for Spiritual Healing, with Caroline Myss (Sounds True: 2009), CD, MP3
download.
Image Credit: Jonah and the Whale (detail), by Pieter Lastman, 1621. Kunstpalast Museum,
Düsseldorf, Germany.
Suffering
The genius of Jesus’ ministry is that he reveals that God uses tragedy, suffering,
pain, betrayal, and death itself (all of which are normally inevitable), not to
punish us but, in fact, to bring us to God and to our True Self, which are
frequently a simultaneous discovery. (Sunday)
The mystery of the cross has the power to teach us that our suffering is not our
own and my life is not about “me” but we are actually living inside of a larger
force field of life and death. One moves from “me” to “us” inside of this field of
deep inner experience. (Monday)
Although it is true that there is no refuge from suffering; it’s also true that
suffering has no refuge from love that permeates it through and through and
through and through and through. Love protects us from nothing, even as it
unexplainably sustains us in all things. —James Finley (Tuesday)
We can learn to sink the taproot of our heart into that invincible love and
draw out from it resources of courage, patience, and tenderness to touch the
hurting places with love, so they might dissolve in love until only love is left.
This is Christ’s presence in the world. —James Finley (Wednesday)
Our practice is to become present to that infinite flow of compassion and love
and bring it to bear in a tender-hearted and sincere manner in our very
presence to the painful situation. We do this knowing that God is sustaining
and guiding us all in unexplainable ways that are not dependent on how the
painful situation might turn out. —James Finley (Thursday)
In general, you can lead people on the spiritual journey as far as you have gone.
Transformed people transform people. When you can be healed yourself and not
just talk about healing, you are, as Henri Nouwen said, a “wounded healer.”
(Friday)
This past week in our daily meditations we have been talking about suffering.
Through practice we can discover that God is present with us in our suffering,
permeating it with love and compassion and sustaining us in ways we cannot
understand. God’s presence in our suffering means that our suffering, fear, or
shame do not have the power to name who we are. God’s love names us as
infinitely precious in our vulnerability.
James Finley, one of our core faculty members, and Alana Levandoski, a
Living School alum, collaborated on a beautiful musical experience that can
lead us through our suffering to discover our preciousness. Listen to their
words and music and open your heart to taking the first step, to learn how to
be “vulnerable and safe at the same time” in the heartfelt presence of a
trustworthy guide.
I don’t know where to start.
Or how to bare this heart.
But I fear I’ve become what’s been done to me.
Move slowly, move slowly,
move slowly into deep water.
You are safe with me,
no longer thrown out to sea.
Now it’s time to breathe.
James Finley and Alana Levandoski, Sanctuary: Exploring the Healing Path (Cantus
Productions: 2016), CD. Used with permission. Visit alanalevandoski.com to learn more
about Alana and her work.
Image Credit: Jonah and the Whale (detail), by Pieter Lastman, 1621. Kunstpalast Museum,
Düsseldorf, Germany.
John of the Cross, Dark Night of the Soul, trans. Mirabai Starr (Riverhead Books: 2002)
James Finley, Intimacy: The Divine Ambush (Center for Action and Contemplation: 2013),
CD, MP3 download
James Finley, Thomas Merton's Path to the Palace of Nowhere (Sounds True: 2004), CD
James Finley, Transforming Trauma: A Seven-Step Process for Spiritual Healing, with
Caroline Myss (Sounds True: 2009), CD, MP3 download
Etty Hillesum, An Interrupted Life: The Diaries, 1941–1943 and Letters from Westerbork,
trans. Arnold J. Pomerans (Henry Holt and Company: 1996)
Richard Rohr, A Spring Within Us: A Book of Daily Meditations (CAC Publishing: 2016)
Week Forty-four
Love
We can’t risk walking around with a negative, resentful, gossipy, critical mind,
because then we won’t be in our true force field. We won’t be usable instruments
for God. That’s why Jesus commanded us to love. It’s that urgent. It’s that
crucial.
True religion is radical; it cuts to the root (radix is Latin for root). It moves us
beyond our “private I” and into the full reality of we. Jesus seems to be saying in
the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7) that our inner attitudes and states are
the real sources of our problems. We need to root out the problems at that
deepest interior level. Jesus says not only that we must not kill, but that we must
not even harbor hateful anger. He clearly begins with the necessity of a “pure
heart” (Matthew 5:8) and knows that the outer behavior will follow. Too often
we force the outward response, while the inward intent remains like a cancer.
If we walk around with hatred all day, morally we’re just as much killers as the
one who pulls the trigger. We can’t live that way and not be destroyed from
within. Yet, for some reason, many Christians have thought it acceptable to
think and feel hatred, negativity, and fear. The evil and genocide of both World
War I and World War II were the result of decades of negative, resentful, and
paranoid thinking and feeling among even good Christian people.
Jesus tells us not to harbor hateful anger or call people names in our hearts like
“fool” or “worthless person” (Matthew 5:22). If we’re walking around all day
thinking, “What idiots!” we’re living out of death, not life. If that’s what we think
and feel, that’s what we will be—death energy instead of life force. We cannot
afford even inner disconnection from love. How we live in our hearts is our real
and deepest truth.
In Matthew 5:44, Jesus insists that we love our enemies and pray for those who
persecute us. Once we recognize that whatever we do in conscious, loving union
with Reality is prayer, we can better understand what Paul means when he says,
“Pray unceasingly” (1 Thessalonians 5:17). If prayer is merely words or
recitations, such constant prayer is impossible in any practical sense.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Adapted from Richard Rohr: Essential Teachings on Love, ed. Joelle Chase and Judy
Traeger (Orbis Books: 2018), 157.
Week Forty-six
The fact that life and death are “not two” is extremely difficult to grasp, not
because it is so complex, but because it is so simple. —Ken Wilber [1]
We miss the unity of life and death at the very point where our ordinary mind
begins to think about it. —Kathleen Dowling Singh [2]
Death—whether one of many deaths to the false self or our physical dying—is
simply returning to our spacious Ground of Being, to our foundation in Love.
Kathleen Singh again:
Love is the natural condition of our being, revealed when all else is
relinquished, when one has already moved into transpersonal levels of
identification and awareness. Love is simply an open state with no boundaries
and, as such, is a most inclusive level of consciousness. Love is a quality of the
Ground of Being itself. In this regard and at this juncture in the dying process,
love can be seen as the final element of life-in-form and the gateway to the
formless. [5]
Nearing Death
Monday, November 12, 2018
I realized that what I had been witnessing in the process of dying was grace, all
around, shimmering and penetrating. I began, with newly opened eyes, to
observe the subtlety of this grace and to observe the qualities of grace in those
nearing death. I became aware that all of the observed qualities of the Nearing
Death Experience point to the fact that there is profound psychoalchemy
occurring here, a passage to deeper being. As I worked with dying people from
all walks of life and at many different levels of spiritual evolution, normative
patterns of change, of transformations in consciousness, became apparent.
I have come to believe that the time of dying effects a transformation from
perceived tragedy to experienced grace. Beyond that, I think this transformation
is a universal process. Although relatively unexamined, the Nearing Death
Experience has profound implications. Dying offers the possibility of entering
the radiance, the vastness, of our Essential Nature, at least for a few precious
moments. . . .
The Nearing Death Experience implies a natural and conscious remerging with
the Ground of Being from which we have all once unconsciously emerged. A
transformation occurs from the point of terror at the contemplation of the loss
of our separate, personal self to a merging into the deep, nurturing, ineffable
experience of Unity.
My experience is that most people who are dying have no conscious desire for
transcendence; most of us do not live at the level of depth where such a longing
is a conscious priority. And, yet, everyone does seem to enter a transcendent
and transformed level of consciousness in the Nearing Death Experience. . . . It
is rather profound and encouraging to contemplate these indications that the
life and death of a human being is so exquisitely calibrated as to automatically
produce union with Spirit.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Kathleen Dowling Singh, The Grace in Dying: A Message of Hope, Comfort, and Spiritual
Transformation (HarperOne: 2000), 14, 15. Emphasis mine.
The first split is very understandable. We split ourselves from other selves. We
see mom and dad and other family members over there, and we’re over here.
We start looking out at life with ourselves as the center point. It’s the beginning
of egocentricity. My ego is the center; what I like, what I want, what I need is
what matters. Please know that the ego is not bad; it is just not all. The
development of a healthy, strong ego is important to human growth.
The second split divides life from death. It comes when we first experience the
death of someone we know, perhaps a beloved pet or grandparent. The ego
begins differentiating those who are alive and those who are gone. We may then
spend our whole life trying to avoid any kind of death, including anything that’s
negative, uncomfortable, difficult, unfamiliar, dangerous, or demanding. But at
some point, we’ll discover that life and death, negative and positive, are part of
the same unavoidable reality. Everything is living and dying simultaneously.
The third split separates mind from body and soul. In the West, we typically
give the mind priority and come to identify strongly with our thoughts. As
Descartes said, “I think, therefore I am.” By the age of seven most of us “think
we are our thinking” and it’s our thinking that largely defines us. This is the lie
that meditation helps us unravel.
The fourth split is the acceptable self from the unacceptable self. We split from
our shadow self and pretend to be our idealized self, or what others say we
should be. The shadow self contains not only the qualities of which we’re
ashamed but also the positive and beautiful traits we’ve forgotten or fear (our
“golden” shadow, as some call it).
Each of these splits from reality makes any experience of God or our True Self
largely impossible. Spiritual practices and the process of dying are both about
overcoming these four splits. Kathleen Dowling Singh observed:
The Path of Return involves the healing of previously created dualities [or splits]
—in reverse order. . . . The mental ego is humblingly and disturbingly divested
of its false sense of being and stripped of its illusions. The sense of self, quite
often kicking and screaming, begins its return to the underlying Ground of
Being, its own Essential Nature. [1]
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Kathleen Dowling Singh, The Grace in Dying: A Message of Hope, Comfort, and
Spiritual Transformation (HarperOne: 2000), 73, 75.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Franciscan Mysticism: I AM That which I Am Seeking disc 4
(Center for Action and Contemplation: 2012), CD, MP3 download; and
Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self ((Jossey-Bass: 2013), 29.
My words for the thread that Stafford speaks of are the True Self. Your True Self
is who you are, and always have been, created in the image and likeness of God
who is love (1 John 4:8, 16). Love is both who you are and who you are still
becoming, like a sunflower seed that becomes its own sunflower. Most of human
history has called the True Self your “soul” or your participation in the eternal
life of God.
The great surprise and irony is that “you,” or who you think you are, have
nothing to do with your True Self’s original creation, and you can never get rid
of it. It’s sort of disempowering and utterly empowering at the same time, isn’t
it? All you can do is nurture your True Self, which is saying quite a lot. It is love
becoming love in this unique form called “me.”
The dying process at every stage of life is a natural opportunity to let go of the
small, separate self and return to the fullness of True Self. Kathleen Dowling
Singh, who spent hundreds of hours contemplatively ministering to dying
people, wrote:
As we return and/or are returned to our Original Nature, virtues that we have
acquired, usually through deliberate cultivation, flow naturally as water from a
spring. The qualities of loving-kindness, compassion, presence, centeredness,
spaciousness, mercy, and confidence all radiate naturally forth from our
transformed being as we come closer to death. . . . Many a time I have seen the
dying comfort those in pain around them. . . .
Love appears to be the last connection the dying have with the world of form.
We become expressive vehicles for the power of the Ground of Being [i.e., God],
inhabited and vitalized by far greater Being. . . . The Ground of Being is, in a
very real sense, Love. As we merge with it, self-consciousness and all questions
of self-worth and previous psychological issues of lovability spontaneously melt.
Love simultaneously pours into and pours out of us. . . .
With this basic change in identity, in the sense of who we are, death is no longer
seen through the peephole of the mental ego. It ceases being a frightening
enemy, a defeat, an unfortunate error in the universe and becomes, instead, an
incredible moment of growth and transformation. It is a graduation into a
previously unimaginable scale of being. [2]
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Do Not Be Afraid
Friday, November 16, 2018
I am aware of the phrase “true self” occurring only once in the Bible. Paul used
the words to describe what he was desperately trying to locate in the midst of
some major trials with his false self. He wrote of it in a telling way: “When I act
against my own will, then it is not my true self doing it, but sin which lives in
me” (Romans 7:20, Jerusalem Bible). Somehow, he knew there was a part of
him that was authentic, steadfast, and true to its God-given and loving nature.
Paul then contrasted the true self with what we are calling the false self and he
called “sin” (7:14-25). It is the self that is always passing away. This is our cozy
image of ourselves as individual and autonomous, as separate from God and
everyone and everything else. When this “separate” self is all we think we are, no
wonder we are afraid of dying. Because this is all we know and have—if we have
not discovered our soul, that is. The false self is terrified of death because it
knows the mental construct that it calls “myself” is indeed passing away because
it is merely self-constructed and fragile. The false self has no substance, no
permanence, no vitality, only various forms of immediate gratification.
Whenever we are fearing death, whether physical death or the loss of some egoic
attachment, we are in our false self at that moment. The false self is not really
bad or evil, but just inadequate to the big questions of love, death, suffering,
God, or infinity. God allows and uses all our diversionary tactics to get us to
move toward our full and final destination, which is divine union—and thus
wholeness. That is how perfect and patient divine love is: Nothing is wasted;
even our mistakes are the raw material to turn us back into love.
The True Self will surely have doubts about the unknown. But the True Self is
the Risen Christ in you, and hence, it is not afraid of death. It has already been
to hell and back. The Risen Christ in us knows that it will never lose anything
real by dying. This is the necessary suffering of walking the full human path.
That is what Jesus did and why we are invited to “reproduce the pattern of his
death,” each in our own way, so that we can also take our place in the “force
field” of God’s universal resurrection (see Philippians 3:10-11 and Acts 3:21).
In Thich Nhat Hanh’s words, “Enlightenment for a wave is the moment the
wave realizes that it is water. At that moment, all fear of death disappears.” [1]
So do not be afraid. Death to false self and the end of human life is simply a
return to our Ground of Being, to God, to Love. Life doesn’t truly end; it simply
changes form and continues evolving into ever new shapes and beauty.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Thich Nhat Hanh, Living Buddha, Living Christ (Riverhead Books: 1995), 138.
[2] Stephen and Ondrea Levine, Who Dies?: An Investigation of Conscious Living and
Conscious Dying (Anchor Books: 1989, ©1982), 194.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self (Jossey-
Bass: 2013), 142-144.
Death—whether one of many deaths to the false self or our physical dying—is
simply returning to our spacious Ground of Being, to our foundation in Love.
(Sunday)
Twice a year we pause the Daily Meditations to ask for your support. When I
founded the Center for Action and Contemplation in 1987—and even when we
began sending my Daily Meditations in 2007—I never imagined how this work
would evolve and grow, thanks to our donors’ generosity. (Tuesday)
Life and death, negative and positive are part of the same unavoidable reality.
Everything is living and dying simultaneously. (Wednesday)
Your True Self is who you are, and always have been, created in the image and
likeness of God who is love. Love is both who you are and who you are still
becoming. (Thursday)
The True Self is the Risen Christ in you, and hence, it is not afraid of death. It
has already been to hell and back. (Friday)
Thomas Keating with Carl J. Arico, The Gift of Life: Death & Dying, Life & Living
(Contemplative Outreach, Ltd.: 2013)
Stephen and Ondrea Levine, Who Dies?: An Investigation of Conscious Living and
Conscious Dying (Anchor Books: 1989, ©1982)
Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self (Jossey-Bass: 2013)
Kathleen Dowling Singh, The Grace in Dying: A Message of Hope, Comfort, and Spiritual
Transformation (HarperOne: 2000)
My friend and brilliant translator of many mystics, Mirabai Starr, who lives
nearby in Taos, New Mexico, has encountered numerous deaths and losses,
each cultivating in her a deeper spiritual practice and longing for God. But the
death of her fourteen-year-old daughter, Jenny, in a car crash was “an
avalanche,” Starr writes, “annihilating everything in its path”:
Suddenly, the sacred fire I have been chasing all my life engulfed me. I was
plunged into the abyss, instantaneously dropped into the vast stillness and
pulsing silence at which all my favorite mystics hint. So shattered I could not see
my own hand in front of my face, I was suspended in the invisible arms of a
Love I had only dreamed of. Immolated, I found myself resting in fire.
Drowning, I surrendered, and discovered I could breathe under water.
So this was the state of profound suchness I had been searching for during all
those years of contemplative practice. This was the holy longing the saints had
been talking about in poems that had broken my heart again and again. This
was the sacred emptiness that put that small smile on the face of the great sages.
And I hated it. I didn’t want vastness of being. I wanted my baby back.
But I discovered that there was nowhere to hide when radical sorrow unraveled
the fabric of my life. I could rage against the terrible unknown—and I did, for I
am human and have this vulnerable body, passionate heart, and complicated
mind—or I could turn toward the cup, bow to the Cupbearer, and say, “Yes.”
I didn’t do it right away, nor was I able to sustain it when I did manage a breath
of surrender. But gradually I learned to soften into the pain and yield to my
suffering. In the process, compassion for all suffering beings began
unexpectedly to swell in my heart. I became acutely aware of my connectedness
to mothers everywhere who had lost children, who were, at this very moment,
hearing the impossible news that their child had died. . . . .
Grief strips us. According to the mystics, this is good news. Because it is only
when we are naked that we can have union with the Beloved. We can cultivate
spiritual disciplines designed to dismantle our identity so that we have hope of
merging with the Divine. Or someone we love very much may die, and we may
find ourselves catapulted into the emptiness we had been striving for. Even as
we cry out in the anguish of loss, the boundless love of the Holy One comes
pouring into the shattered container of our hearts. This replenishing of our
emptiness is a mystery, it is grace, and it is built into the human
condition.
Few among us would ever opt for the narrow gate of grief, even if it were
guaranteed to lead us to God. But if our most profound losses—the death of a
loved one, the ending of a marriage or a career, catastrophic disease or
alienation from community—bring us to our knees before that threshold, we
might as well enter. The Beloved might be waiting in the next room.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Mirabai Starr, God of Love: A Guide to the Heart of Judaism, Christianity and Islam
(Monkfish Book Publishing Company: 2012), 63-65.
Image credit: Autumn Leaves (detail), Koan, 2018.
Returning Home
Tuesday, November 20, 2018
I ask . . . that they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in
You. . . . I in them and You in Me, that they may be perfected in unity. . . .
Father, I desire that they also, whom You have given Me, be with Me where I
am. . . . —John 17:20-24
Two dear friends, Fathers Thomas Keating (1923–2018) and Joseph Boyle
(1941–2018), lived many years in community at St. Benedict’s Monastery in
Snowmass, Colorado, where they welcomed guests for contemplative retreats. A
couple years ago, Lucette Verboven interviewed both of them. She asked Father
Joseph if he expected at death to be transformed:
Yes, I expect death to be a transition. I think it is a movement into a space that is
not limited by our body and our senses that are quite limited now. I like the
phrase in St. Paul, that we will “see God face to face” [1 Corinthians 13:12] and
we’ll relate to people and the beauty of who they are without the ego-agendas we
have right now.
I see [life after death] as infinite love, as if the whole atmosphere of heaven is
filled with God as a kind of vibration going through us. I think that we are going
to see and know each other in God, whatever that word means. It strikes me as a
homecoming, us returning home to where we come from. . . and all of our
brothers and sisters are coming home as well. . . . I certainly have a very deep
hope that it is a transition into an incredible related life. [1]
Similarly, Keating wrote:
Death is only a part of the process of living. If the Communion of Saints has
become real for us, then every funeral is a celebration of eternal life. That is the
great insight of the Mass of the Resurrection, the new funeral rite. Death is not
an occasion only for sorrow, but an occasion of rejoicing that our friends or
relatives have moved to a deeper level of union and that we will be with them
again. [2]
We are all always connected to God and each other and every living being. Most
of us just don’t realize it. Jesus prays that we could see things in their unity and
wholeness.
Either we learn how to live in communion with others, or, quite simply, we’re
not ready for heaven and are already in hell. We have been invited—even now,
even today, even this moment—to live in the Communion of Saints, in the
Presence, in the Body, in the Life of the eternal and eternally Risen Christ.
There is only One Love that will lead and carry us across when we
die. If we are already at home with Love here, we will quite readily
move into heaven, Love’s eternal home. Death is not a changing of
worlds, as most imagine, as much as the walls of this world infinitely
expanding.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Thomas Keating and Joseph Boyle with Lucette Verboven, World Without End
(Bloomsbury: 2017), 147-148.
[2] Thomas Keating, Fruits and Gifts of the Spirit (Lantern Books: 2007), 89.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, “Seeing Is Not Always Recognizing,” homily, May 8, 2016,
https://cac.org/seeing-not-always-recognizing/; and
Eager to Love: The Alternative Way of Francis of Assisi (Franciscan Media: 2014), 206-
207.
Just as we have borne the image of the earthy one, we shall also bear the
image of the heavenly one. . . . Behold, I tell you a mystery. We shall not all fall
asleep, but we will all be changed, in an instant, in the blink of an eye, at the
last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised incorruptible,
and we shall be changed. For that which is corruptible must clothe itself with
incorruptibility, and that which is mortal must clothe itself with immortality.
—1 Corinthians 15:49, 51-53
The idea that something is dying needs to be investigated to see what it is. It is
not we who are really dying but only the false self that is experiencing the end of
its illusory view of life—our personal, homemade self, which has been the object
of our efforts and is secretly present in virtually all of our good deeds.
What’s dying is not the deepest self, but our dependence and over-identification
with the mental ego and its projects, and our cultural conditioning and over-
identification with it, including our roles in life.
From this perspective, the dying process is the culmination or the peak of the
whole development of the spiritual journey, in which total surrender to God
involves the gift of life itself, as we know it.
For that reason it’s not really death, but life reaching out to a fullness that we
can’t imagine from this side of the dying process.
So death is . . . the final completion of this process of becoming fully alive and
manifesting the triumph of the grace of God in us. [1]
Death could be looked upon as the birth canal into eternal life. A little confining
and scary, maybe, yet it’s the passage into a vastly fuller life. Eternal life means
perfect happiness without space or time limitations. It is spaciousness itself. You
begin to taste it in deep contemplative prayer. You realize that you don’t give it
to yourself; it’s already within you. [2]
Our new body will be spiritualized and not limited to its present physical
presence and limitations. One aspect of creation is that, once you have been
born into this world, you never die because, as the Hindu religions teach, each
of us possesses deep within us an inalienable spark of divine love. [The Song of
Songs says that love is stronger than death (8:6).] That spark is the same energy
that created the Big Bang. . . . [3]
Nothing is more certain than death. It can’t simply be a disaster. It’s rather a
transition like all the other transitions and developments of human
consciousness all the way up to unity with Ultimate Reality. The latter involves
freedom from the senses and our thinking processes; in other words, entering
into the simplicity of the divine energy that pours itself out into the world
through continuing creation. The divine energy sustains us with immense love
and patience through all the stages of consciousness. [4]
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Thomas Keating with Carl J. Arico, The Gift of Life: Death & Dying, Life & Living
Companion Book (Contemplative Outreach, Ltd.: 2013), 12-13,
https://www.contemplativeoutreach.org/product/gift-life-%E2%80%93-death-dying-life-
living-companion-book.
[2] Thomas Keating, From the Mind to the Heart (Temple Rock Company: 2017). Pages are
not numbered. Available from https://www.contemplativeoutreach.org/product/thomas-
keating-mind-heart.
[3] Thomas Keating and Joseph Boyle with Lucette Verboven, World Without End
(Bloomsbury: 2017), 83.
In one way or another, almost all religions say that you must die before you
die, and then you will know what dying means—and what it does not mean!
Your usual viewing platform is utterly inadequate to see what is real. It is largely
useless to talk about the very ground of your being, your True Self, or your
deepest soul until you have made real contact with these at least once. That
demands dying to the old viewing platform of the mental ego and the false self.
There is just no way around that. If you do make contact, you forever know that
something is there that can be talked about, relied upon, and deeply trusted.
You move from religion as mere belief to religion as a new kind of knowing.
Kathleen Dowling Singh explains why we must die before we die: “The ordinary
mind and its delusions die in the Nearing Death Experience. As death carries us
off, it is impossible to any longer pretend that who we are is our ego. The ego is
transformed in the very carrying off.” [1]
Who lives? The God Self that has always lived, but now includes you.
Note that it’s a what that dies, and a who that lives!
Once you know that life and death are not two but are part of a whole, you will
begin to view reality in a holistic, undivided way, and that will be the change
that changes everything. This is nondual consciousness. No one can teach you
this. Even Jesus had to walk it on his own, which is the only meaning of God
“requiring” his death of him. Jesus calls this goal the “destiny” of the “Human
One” (Mark 8:31), and he seems to know that he is a stand-in for all of us (Mark
10:39)—much more than he ever walks around saying, “I am God”! The only
person Jesus ever calls a “devil” is Peter when he, the so-called “infallible”
first pope, tries to oppose Jesus’ central message of death and
resurrection (Matthew 16:23).
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self (Jossey-
Bass: 2013), 59-60, 62, 66, 81.
Life-Death-Life
Friday, November 23, 2018
The whole process of living, dying, and then living again starts with
YHWH “breathing into clay,” which becomes “a living being” called Adam (“of
the earth”; see Genesis 2:7). Breath and what appears to be mere dirt become
human (the word “human” comes from the Latin humus). Matter and spirit are
bound together; divine and mortal interpenetrate and manifest one another.
The Formless One forever takes on form as “Adam and Eve” (and in Jesus “the
new Adam”), and then takes us back to the Formless One, once again, as each
form painfully surrenders the small self that it has been for a while. Jesus
says, “I am returning to take you with me, so that where I am you also may be”
(John 14:3). Resurrection is simply incarnation taken to its logical
conclusion: what starts in God ends in God—who is eternal.
Buddhists are looking at the same Mystery from a different angle when they say,
“Form is emptiness, and emptiness is form,” and then all forms eventually
return to formlessness (spirit or “emptiness”) once again. Christians call it
incarnation > death > resurrection > ascension. This is about all of us, including
all of creation—not just Jesus—coming forth as individuals and then going back
to God, into the Ground of All Being. That cyclical wholeness should make us
unafraid of death and thus able to fully appreciate life.
The Risen Christ represents the final and full state of every True Self: God-in-
you who is able to see and honor God-everywhere-beyond-you too! In other
words, Christ is more than anything else a “holon”—a scientific term for
something that is simultaneously a whole by itself and yet a part of a larger
whole, too. Jesus is telling us that we are all holons! We all participate in the
one single life of God.
“To God, all people are in fact alive,” as Jesus put it (Luke 20:38). We are just in
different stages of that aliveness—one of which we experience as dying.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self (Jossey-
Bass: 2013), 81-84.
As I’ve come to understand that life “composts” and “seeds” us as autumn does
the earth, I’ve seen how possibility gets planted in us even in the hardest of
times. —Parker Palmer (Sunday)
I see [life after death] as infinite love, as if the whole atmosphere of heaven is
filled with God as a kind of vibration going through us. It strikes me as a
homecoming, us returning home to where we come from. —Joseph
Boyle (Tuesday)
The dying process is the culmination or the peak of the whole development of
the spiritual journey, in which total surrender to God involves the gift of life
itself. It’s not really death, but life reaching out to a fullness that we can’t
imagine from this side of the dying process. —Thomas Keating (Wednesday)
Some form of death—psychological, spiritual, relational, or physical—is the only
way we will loosen our ties to our small and separate false self. Only then does it
return in a new shape which we might call the Risen Christ, the soul, or the True
Self. (Thursday)
The word yoga comes from the Sanskrit for “to yoke”—to join or unite. The
intentional movement, breath, and relaxation within yoga provides an
opportunity to welcome the seeming contradictions of our life. Muscles are
engaged and the body releases into deeper stretches. The mind is both
concentrated and stilled. Within vinyasa the body flows through a series of
poses, such as Sun Salutation (Surya Namaskara), and then finally rests in
Corpse Pose (Savasana).
If you are not familiar with yoga, consider joining a class in your area or find a
short video online to lead you through the poses and breaths of Sun Salutations.
If you already have a yoga practice, reflect on the wholeness of life and death as
you go through the familiar movements.
As you salute the sun, bend and bow in gratitude for the life force that flows
freely in you without your striving or control, yet invites your complete
participation.
As you inhale and exhale through each of the bends and lunges, challenge
yourself to breathe deeper, to stretch more fully, and let this practice be easy,
natural, without effort or strain.
As you lie on your back and let each muscle in your body—from toes to the top
of your head—relax and sink into the ground, remember that you will die, but
there is nothing to fear. Not even death can separate you from Love, and from
death comes Life. Rest in this awareness.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, A Spring Within Us: A Book of Daily Meditations (CAC
Publishing: 2016), 136-137.
Thomas Keating with Carl J. Arico, The Gift of Life: Death & Dying, Life & Living
Companion Book (Contemplative Outreach, Ltd.: 2013)
Parker Palmer, On the Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity and Getting Old (Berrett-
Koehler Publishers, Inc.: 2018)
Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self (Jossey-Bass: 2013)
Inseparable
Thursday, February 28, 2019
And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither
death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our
worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from
God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing
in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is
revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord. —Romans 8:38-39, New Living Translation
Did you ever notice that Jesus tells the disciples to proclaim the Good News to
“all creation” or “every creature” (Mark 16:15), and not just to humans? Paul
affirms that he has done this very thing when he says, “Never let yourself drift
away from the hope promised by the Good News, which has been preached to
every creature under heaven, and of which I, Paul, have become the servant”
(Colossians 1:23). Did he really talk to and convince “every creature under
heaven” in his short lifetime? Surely not, but Paul knew that he had announced
to the world the deepest philosophical ground of things by saying that it all was
in Christ—and he daringly believed that this truth would eventually stick and
succeed.
I have never been separate from God, nor can I be, except in my mind. I would
love for you to bring this realization to loving consciousness! In fact, why not
stop reading now and just breathe and let it sink in? It is crucial that you know
this experientially and at a cellular level—which is, in fact, a real way of knowing
just as much as rational knowing. Its primary characteristic is that it is nondual
and thus an open-ended consciousness, which does not close down so quickly
and so definitively as dualistic thought does.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, The Universal Christ: How a Forgotten Reality Can Change
Everything We See, Hope For, and Believe (Convergent: 2019), 44-45.
Image credit: St. Paul Preaching in Athens (detail), Raphael, 1515, Victoria and Albert
Museum, London, England.
Week Fifty
Contemplation
Centering Prayer
Wednesday, December 12, 2018
Centering Prayer is based on the wisdom saying of Jesus in the Sermon on the
Mount (Matthew 6:6): “If you want to pray, enter your inner room, close the
door and pray to your Father in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will
reward you.” Notice that “Father” refers to a personal relationship, whether you
call it father, mother, brother, soul-friend, spouse or anything else.
The first step in Centering Prayer is to enter your inner room, which is
symbolized by the heart in most traditions; that is, your innermost self beyond
the senses and beyond thinking. . . .
Second, “close the door,” symbolizing your intention of letting go of all thoughts,
preoccupations, memories and plans during this time. As soon as you are
overtaken by thoughts, which is inevitable in the beginning, return to your
original intention to let go of all thinking. You can do this in a very simple and
extremely gently way, like saying a sacred word briefly, noticing your breath, or
turning to God with a brief glance of faith in His presence.
Finally, you pray in secret to the Father who speaks to you beyond words and
who invites you to ever deeper silence. . . .
The steps I have just mentioned are guidelines. Instead of using a word or
noticing your breath, you can also use a sacred image to return to. These
symbols do not establish you in interior silence; they simply reaffirm your
original intention to be in God’s presence and to be open to the divine action. . . .
The fruit of this prayer is not something you produce. You simply reduce the
obstacles by providing an interior environment in which the Spirit can speak
without words in the inmost depths of your being.
As you practice Centering Prayer, you begin to experience the value of inner
silence, which reveals the true self. The presence of God can also be experienced
through the love of nature, deep friendship, conjugal love, generous service of
others, or the discoveries of genuine science. There are many roads leading to
the awakening of the original endowment that God has given every human
being, of which the gift of contemplation is one. Contemplation . . . is a gift that
has already been given. You have got it! What you have to do is to allow it to
awaken within you. [2]
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Thomas Keating, Open Mind, Open Heart, 20th anniversary edition
(Bloomsbury: 2006), 175.
[2] Thomas Keating and Joseph Boyle with Lucette Verboven, World Without End
(Bloomsbury: 2017), 29-31.
Contemplation
The Unconscious
Friday, December 14, 2018
Feast Day of St. John of the Cross
Both Jesus and Paul love to use the subtle metaphor of leaven or yeast. Paul says
that we should “Throw out the old yeast and make ourselves into a totally new
batch of bread” (see 1 Corinthians 5:7). He seems to equate the old yeast with
our predisposition toward negativity and contentiousness, which we must bring
to consciousness or it will control us from a hidden place.
Prayer should not be too rational, social, verbal, linear, or transactional. It must
be more mysterious, inner, dialogical, receptive, and pervasive. Silence, symbol,
poetry, music, movement, and sacrament are much more helpful than mere
words.
When you meditate consistently, a sense of your autonomy and private self-
importance—what you think of as your “self”—falls away, little by little, as
unnecessary, unimportant, and even unhelpful. The imperial “I,” the self that
you likely think of as your only self, reveals itself as largely a creation of your
mind.
In meditation, you move from ego consciousness to soul awareness, from being
fear-driven to being love-drawn. That’s it in a few words!
Of course, you can only do this if Someone Else is holding you, taking away your
fear, doing the knowing, and satisfying your desire for a Great Lover. If you can
allow that Someone Else to have their way with you, you will live with a new
vitality, a natural gracefulness, and inside of a Flow that you did not create. It is
actually the Life of the Trinity, spinning and flowing through you.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Just This (CAC Publishing: 2017), 61-62, 66-67.
Contemplation
A Revolutionary Matter
Monday, December 17, 2018
Contemplation is radical in that it goes to “the root” (radix) of all our problems.
Contemplation is the heart of the matter because it changes consciousness and
thus transforms how we enter into communion with God, with ourselves, with
the moment. Without the contemplative mind, all our talk about and action for
social change and justice can actually do more harm than good. In working for
social change, we all get angry, disillusioned, alienated, and hurt. We make
mistakes, we don’t agree with others, we discover that change takes longer than
we’d hoped and the solution isn’t as simple as we’d imagined. I have seen far too
many give up, grow bitter, or just nurse a quiet cynicism when they can’t hold
disappointment with a contemplative, nondual consciousness. Action needs to
be accompanied by contemplation for us to stay on the journey for the long haul.
Otherwise, we’re just constantly searching for victims and perpetrators, and
eventually we start playing the victim or perpetrator ourselves.
Contemplation is not a new idea; it’s one of the treasures of our Christian
tradition. Jesus himself modeled this way of praying and being. It was taught
systematically in monasteries for centuries, for example, by Francisco de Osuna
(1492–1540), a Spanish Franciscan friar, whose writing liberated Teresa of
Ávila. The desert mothers and fathers in Egypt, Syria, Palestine, and Cappadocia
understood and cultivated it for centuries. While systematic contemplative
teaching was largely lost for the last 500 years, today interfaith and inter-
denominational interest in contemplation continues to grow all over the world.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Beverly Lanzetta, The Monk Within: Embracing a Sacred Way of Life (Blue Sapphire
Books: 2018), 51-52.
Contemplation
Perceiving Reality
Tuesday, December 18, 2018
All forms of contemplation share the same goal: to help us see through the
deceptions of self and world in order to get in touch with what Howard
Thurman called “the sound of the genuine” within us and around us.
Contemplation does not need to be defined in terms of particular practices,
such as meditation, yoga, tai chi, or lectio divina. Instead, it can be defined by
its function: contemplation is any way one has of penetrating illusion and
touching reality. —Parker Palmer [1]
The German mystic Meister Eckhart (1260–1328) said, “Let us pray to God
that we may be free of God that we may gain the truth. . . .” [2] There is no
concept of God that can contain God. As Saint Augustine (354–430) preached,
“If you comprehend it, it is not God.” [3] Thomas Keating described how
contemplation evolves our perception of reality and God:
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Parker Palmer, On the Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity and Getting Old (Berrett-
Koehler Publishers, Inc.: 2018), 57.
[2] Meister Eckhart, Beati Pauperes Spiritu, Sermon on Matthew 5:3. See The Complete
Mystical Works of Meister Eckhart, tr. and ed. Maurice O’C. Walshe (The Crossroad
Publishing Company: 2009), 422.
[3] Augustine of Hippo, Sermon 117:5 on John 1:1. Original text: “Si enim comprehendis,
non est Deus.”
[4] Thomas Keating, From the Mind to the Heart (Temple Rock Company: 2017), pages are
unnumbered.
Contemplation
Sustaining Awareness
Thursday, December 20, 2018
And this is what has happened to us many times: we are graced with moments
of spontaneous meditative experience of God’s presence in the midst of our
daily living, only to go on as if no awakening had been granted. . . . But not
quite. For the coming and going of our moments of awakening began to graze
our hearts with longing. This is what makes us seekers of the inner way—this
longing, in which we find ourselves going about with a certain holy discontent, a
holy restlessness, a kind of homesickness. . . .
Perhaps by trial and error, with no one to guide us, we find our own way to
respond to the unconsummated longings of our awakened heart. We, in effect,
discover our own personal ways to meditate. By meditation I mean, in this
context, any act habitually entered into with our whole heart as a way of
awakening and sustaining a more interior meditative awareness of the
present moment. The meditation practice we might find ourselves gravitating
toward could be baking bread, tending the roses, or taking long, slow walks to
no place in particular. Or we might find ourselves being interiorly drawn to
painting or to reading or writing poetry or listening to certain kinds of music.
Our meditation practice may be that of being alone, truly alone, without any
addictive props or escapes. Or our practice may be that of being with the person
in whose presence we awakened to what is most real and vital in our life. . . . We
cannot explain it, but when we give ourselves over to these simple acts, we are
taken to a deeper place. We become once again more grounded and settled in a
meditative awareness of the depth of the life we are living.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
Contemplation
Kenosis: Letting Go
Friday, December 21, 2018
Over the past two weeks I’ve shared how contemplation is a way (or many
ways) of opening our hearts, minds, and bodies to God’s presence. It helps us
recognize and surrender our egoic, small self and live into our True Self, made
in the image and likeness of God.
Cynthia Bourgeault, one of CAC’s core faculty members, describes the power of
contemplative practices such as Centering Prayer to instill in us the mind of
Christ.
Saint Paul explains this principle by way of his beautiful hymn in Philippians
2:6-11, prefacing his comments by saying, “Let the same mind be in you that was
in Christ Jesus”:
Though his state was that of God,
yet he did not deem equality with God
something he should cling to.
The phrase “emptied himself” in line 4 is the English translation of the Greek
verb kenosein, which is where the word kenosis comes from. In context, you’ll
see exactly what it means: it’s the opposite of the word “cling” in line 3. Jesus is
practicing gentle release. And he continues to practice it in every moment of his
life, as the next verse of the hymn makes clear:
He being known as one of us
humbled himself obedient unto death,
even death on a cross.
How beautifully simple—the path of Jesus hidden right there in plain sight!
While some Christians are still reluctant to think of Jesus as teaching a path
(isn’t it enough simply to be the Son of God?), in fact, the Gospels themselves
make clear that he is specifically inviting us to this journey and modeling how to
do it. Once you see this, it’s the touchstone throughout all his teaching: Let go!
Don’t cling! Don’t hoard! Don’t assert your importance! Don’t fret. “Do not be
afraid, little flock, it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom!”
(Luke 12:32).
And it’s this same core gesture we practice in Centering Prayer: thought by
thought by thought. You could really summarize Centering Prayer as kenosis in
meditation form.
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Barbara A. Holmes, Joy Unspeakable: Contemplative Practices of the Black Church,
2nd edition (Fortress Press: 2017), 3.
Adapted from Cynthia Bourgeault, The Heart of Centering Prayer: Nondual Christianity
in Theory and Practice (Shambhala: 2016), 33-34.
Contemplation
Contemplation is radical in that it goes to the root (radix) of all our problems.
Contemplation is the heart of the matter because it changes consciousness and
thus transforms how we enter into communion with God, with ourselves, with
the moment. (Monday)
Contemplation is any way one has of penetrating illusion and touching reality.
—Parker Palmer (Tuesday)
[Centering down] is not an escape from the din of daily life; rather, it requires
full entry into the fray but on different terms. . . . Always, contemplation
requires attentiveness to the Spirit of God. —Barbara A. Holmes (Wednesday)
In other words, your mind, heart, soul, and senses are open and
receptive to the moment, just as it is. That allows you to say, “Just
this,” and love things in themselves, as themselves, and by
themselves, regardless of how they benefit or make demands on you.
Is there any other way to really love anything?
The mystics of all the world’s great religions understood that what I call the
“calculative” or dualistic mind cannot access God. Contemplative consciousness
leads to compassion and loving, which is the way to God. Here’s how the
Muslim mystic Shams-ud-din Mohammed Hafiz (1320–1389) put it:
Pulling out the chair
Beneath your mind
And watching you fall upon God—
There is nothing else for Hafiz to do
That is any fun in this world! [1]
[1] Daniel Ladinsky, inspired by Hafiz, “Laughter,” I Heard God Laughing: Poems of Hope
and Joy (Penguin: 2006), 65. Used with permission.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Just This (CAC Publishing: 2017), 29-30; and Contemplation
and Action: An Informal Session of Questions, Responses and Teachings, disc 2 (Center for
Action and Contemplation: 2009), MP3 download.
Cynthia Bourgeault, The Heart of Centering Prayer: Nondual Christianity in Theory and
Practice (Shambhala: 2016)
Barbara A. Holmes, Joy Unspeakable: Contemplative Practices of the Black Church, 2nd
edition (Fortress Press: 2017)
Thomas Keating, From the Mind to the Heart (Temple Rock Company: 2017)
Richard Rohr and Laurence Freeman, Transforming the World through Contemplative
Prayer (Center for Action and Contemplation: 2013), CD, MP3 download
Week Fifty
Contemplation
The Unconscious
Friday, December 14, 2018
Feast Day of St. John of the Cross
Both Jesus and Paul love to use the subtle metaphor of leaven or yeast. Paul says
that we should “Throw out the old yeast and make ourselves into a totally new
batch of bread” (see 1 Corinthians 5:7). He seems to equate the old yeast with
our predisposition toward negativity and contentiousness, which we must bring
to consciousness or it will control us from a hidden place.
I would like to suggest these passages tell us that leaven or yeast is a metaphor
for things hidden in the unconscious, which will have a lasting effect on us if we
do not bring them to consciousness. Carl Jung seemed to think that ninety
percent of our energy—good and bad—resides in the unconscious, over which
we have little direct control or accountability.
Prayer should not be too rational, social, verbal, linear, or transactional. It must
be more mysterious, inner, dialogical, receptive, and pervasive. Silence, symbol,
poetry, music, movement, and sacrament are much more helpful than mere
words.
Of course, you can only do this if Someone Else is holding you, taking away your
fear, doing the knowing, and satisfying your desire for a Great Lover. If you can
allow that Someone Else to have their way with you, you will live with a new
vitality, a natural gracefulness, and inside of a Flow that you did not create. It is
actually the Life of the Trinity, spinning and flowing through you.
Long ago, St. Hildegard of Bingen (1098-1179), named a Doctor of the Church in
2012, communicated creation spirituality through music, art, poetry, medicine,
gardening, and reflections on nature. She wrote in her famous book, Scivias:
You understand so little of what is around you because you do not use what is
within you. [1]
Indeed, for Hildegard nature was a mirror for the soul and for God. This
mirroring changes how we see and experience reality. Later, Bonaventure (1217-
1274) wrote: “In the soul’s journey to God we must present to ourselves the
whole material world as the first mirror through which we may pass over to the
Supreme [Artisan].” [4] The Dominican Meister Eckhart (1260-1327) said the
same: “If humankind could have known God without the world, God would
never have created the world.” [5]
Nature is not a mere scenic backdrop so humans can take over the stage.
Creation is in fact a full participant in human transformation, since the outer
world is absolutely needed to mirror the true inner world. There are not just two
sacraments, or even seven; the whole world is a sacrament!
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[3] Hildegard of Bingen’s Book of Divine Works, with Letters and Songs, ed. Matthew Fox
(Santa Fe, NM: Bear & Co., 1987), 128.
[4] Bonaventure, Bonaventure: The Soul’s Journey to God, I, 9, trans. Ewert Cousins (New
York: Paulist Press, 1978), 63. Emphasis added.
[5] Meister Eckhart, The Complete Mystical Works of Meister Eckhart, ed. Maurice
O’Connell Walshe, rev. Bernard McGinn (New York: The Crossroad Publishing Company,
2009), 275.
Adapted from Richard Rohr with John Feister, Hope Against Darkness: The Transforming
Vision of Saint Francis in an Age of Anxiety (Franciscan Media: 2001), 135; and
unpublished “Rhine” talks (2015).
This is what I call “an identity transplant,” or as Paul describes it, “I live no
longer, not I, but Christ lives in me” (Galatians 2:20). Your life is no longer
about you. You are about Life! This unitive encounter is the “cure” for our
inherent selfishness and separateness.
A.A. is careful to point out that this “spiritual experience” is not always
“sudden and spectacular” as it was in Bill Wilson’s case. “Most of our
experiences are what the psychologist William James calls the
‘educational variety,’ because they develop slowly over a period of
time. . . . With few exceptions, our members find that [over time] they
have tapped an unexpected inner resource which they presently
identify with their own conception of a Power greater than
themselves.” [4]
Gateway to Silence:
Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy, Lord have mercy.
References:
[1] “J,” A Simple Program: A Contemporary Translation of the Book
“Alcoholics Anonymous” (Hyperion: 1996), 40.
Jung: Week 1
This week and next I will explore how Swiss psychotherapist Carl Gustav Jung (1875-
1961) has contributed to my wisdom lineage. Some people do not like the fact that I
quote Jung at all. I don’t agree with every word he’s ever written, but he gives us more
than enough wisdom to trust him. I must admit that Jung has had much influence on me.
I first read his work when I was in college, and again and again he would offer concepts
that I knew were true. At the time, I didn’t have the education to intellectually justify it;
I just knew intuitively that he was largely right. Jung brought together de facto theology
with very good psychology. He surely is no enemy of religion, as some imagine. When
asked at the end of his life if he “believed” in God, Jung said, “I could not say I believe.
I know! I have had the experience of being gripped by something that is stronger than
myself, something that people call God.” I’m convinced he was a mystic because he
insisted on actual inner experience of outer dogmas and doctrines, and that’s what
mystics always emphasize. [1]
In our Living School, we are teaching the perennial tradition, which in effect was
affirmed by many of the broad minded documents of the Second Vatican Council in the
1960s. [3] The perennial tradition teaches us to recognize and honor the revelation of
God in all the world traditions and peoples. It emphasizes the recurring themes in all of
the world’s religions and philosophies that each say in their own way [4]:
Carl Jung simply calls this the inner God archetype, the “whole-making instinct” which
drives and stirs every soul to become what it is, and become all that it is. Only the
words and symbols are different. Christians would call this whole-making instinct the
indwelling Holy Spirit “who teaches you all things and reminds you of all things” (John
14:26). We will develop this more tomorrow.
Jung: Week 1
Inner Authority
Wednesday, October 7, 2015
I think Carl Jung is one of the best friends of religion in the past
century, yet most Christians have either ignored him or criticized him.
Jung says, for example, “The main interest of my work is not
concerned with the treatment of neurosis, but instead with an
approach to the numinous [Transcendent God experience]. The
approach to the numinous is the real therapy, and inasmuch as you
attain to numinous experience, you are released from the curse of
pathology. Even the very disease takes on a numinous character!” [1]
I know many people think that Jung was not a “believer” and others feel
that he is saying that the human psyche itself is “God.” These views come
from an oversimplified reading of Jung’s work. He did say that the
human psyche was the mediation point, and that if God wants to speak
to you, God has to speak in words that are first going to feel like your
own thoughts. Of course he is right! How else could God speak to you?
You have to be taught to honor, allow, give authority to, and recognize
that sometimes your thoughts are God’s thoughts. This is the major
fruit of training in the contemplative mind. The dualistic or non-
contemplative mind cannot imagine how both could be true at the same
time. The contemplative mind sees things in wholes and not in divided
parts.
Jung wouldn’t have fit the bill for the classic Catholic definition of a saint.
He had a number of affairs and for a little while flirted with Nazism. He
had a mixed past—don’t we all?—yet his very mistakes usually led him
back to his depths and to his groundbreaking understanding of the shadow
self that lurks in our personal unconscious and is then projected outward
onto others. This is what Jesus had described as having a log in our own
eye, but being preoccupied with the splinter in other peoples’ eyes
(Matthew 7:3-5), or “The lamp of the body is the eye” (Matthew 6:22). The
face we turn toward our own unconscious is the face we turn toward the
world. People who accept themselves accept others. People who hate
themselves hate others. And it is only the Divine Light which gives us
freedom and permission to go “all the way down” into our depths. Without
it, we do not have the necessary courage.
By examining his own depths, Jung was able to find an inner authority that
he could trust, a voice larger than his own—and yet it was his own voice
too. Jung sought to bring back balance to the Church’s over-reliance upon
external authority—Scripture for Protestants, popes and priests for
Catholics. Rather than top-down, outside-in religion, Jung taught people to
experience the Christian symbols from the inside out. He wanted us to
recognize that there are numinous voices in our deepest depths. Jung
believed that if one did not have deep contact with one’s in-depth self, one
could not know God. I would add that knowing a loving God gives you full
freedom to love and accept every part of yourself. If one does not allow the
Whole-Making Image (“God”) to freely operate, one finds it almost
impossible to totally know, accept, and forgive oneself. We are indeed
saved by mercy.
If you think that’s just modern pop psychology, then read Teresa of
Ávila’s Interior Castle. To describe the dwelling place of God in this
creation, she says “I myself can come up with nothing as magnificent as the
beauty and amplitude of a soul!” [2] If it were not a 16 th century Spanish
Doctor of the Church making this statement, you might not dare to believe
such good psychological news. (When the Roman Catholic Church
proclaims someone a Doctor it means the Church sees their spiritual
teaching as “entirely reliable.”)
Gateway to Silence:
God-in-me sees God.
References:
[1] C. G. Jung, Letters I, August 31, 1945.
[2] Teresa of Ávila, translated by Mirabai Starr, The Interior
Castle (Riverhead Books: 2004), 36.
Adapted from Richard Rohr’s unpublished “Rhine River” talks (2015).
Heaven Now
James Finley, one of the Center for Action and Contemplation’s core faculty
members, was a spiritual directee of Thomas Merton (1915–1968) at the Abbey
of Gethsemani. Drawing from this experience and his own insights as a
student of the mystics and a clinical psychologist, Finley helps us get a glimpse
of heaven.
When Merton told me that “one thing for sure about heaven is that there is not
going to be much of you there,” he was, I think, referring to the mystery that
even now we are in God’s kingdom. And that even now we can begin to realize it
if we but die to egocentric self-seeking and seek God’s will with a pure heart.
There is nowhere to go. There is nothing to do. God is upon and within us. In
the midst of our humble duties, our poor, weak selves, our simple being who we
are, we can say with Jacob with overwhelming gratitude: “Truly this is the house
of God and the gate of heaven and I knew it not” [see Genesis 28:16-17]. [2]
Gateway to Presence:
If you want to go deeper with today’s meditation, take note of what word or
phrase stands out to you. Come back to that word or phrase throughout the
day, being present to its impact and invitation.
[1] Thomas Merton, What Are These Wounds? The Life of a Cistercian Mystic, Saint
Lutgarde of Aywières (Bruce: 1950), 14.
[2] James Finley, Merton’s Palace of Nowhere: A Search for God Through Awareness of
the True Self (Ave Maria Press:1978, 1983), 112-113. Learn more from James Finley at
jamesfinley.org.
Image credit: La Sieste (detail), Paul Gauguin, 1892–1894, Metropolitan Museum of Art,
New York, New York.
Heaven Now
You’re choosing your destiny right now. Do you want to live in love and
communion? Or do you want to live in constant opposition to others and life
itself? (Sunday)
Union is not a place we go to later—if we are good; union is the place from
which we come, the place from which we’re called to live now. (Monday)
If authentic God-experience first makes you overcome the primary split between
yourself and the Divine, then it should also overcome the split between yourself
and the rest of creation. (Wednesday)
The death of our physical form is not the death of our individual personhood.
Our personhood remains alive and well, “hidden with Christ in God” (to use
Paul’s beautiful phrase in Colossians 3:3) and here and now we can draw
strength from it (and [Christ]) to live our temporal lives with all the fullness of
eternity. —Cynthia Bourgeault (Friday)
Jesus tells his disciples, “Be awake. Be alert. . . . You do not know when the Lord
of the house is coming, whether in the evening, at midnight, at cock crow, or in
the morning” (see Mark 13:33-35). Jesus is not threatening, “You’d better do it
right, or I’m going to get you.” He’s talking about the forever, eternal
coming of Christ now . . . and now . . . and now. God’s judgment is
always redemption. Christ is always coming. God is always present.
It’s we who fall asleep.
Be ready. Be present to God in the here and now, the ordinary, the
interruptions. Being fully present to the soul of all things will allow
you to say, “This is good. This is enough. In fact, this is all I need.”
You are now situated in the One Loving Gaze that unites all things in universal
attraction and appreciation. We are practicing for heaven. Why wait for
heaven when you can enjoy the Divine Flow in every moment, in
everyone?
[1] Josh Radnor, “Saluting the Divinity in You,” “Anger,” Oneing, vol. 6, no. 1 (Center for
Action and Contemplation: 2018), 47, 50.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Just This (Center for Action and Contemplation: 2017), 16, 18,
37-38.
Image credit: La Sieste (detail), Paul Gauguin, 1892–1894, Metropolitan Museum of Art,
New York, New York.
Cynthia Bourgeault, The Wisdom Jesus: Transforming Heart and Mind—A New
Perspective on Christ and His Message (Shambhala: 2008)
James Finley, Merton’s Palace of Nowhere: A Search for God Through Awareness of the
True Self (Ave Maria Press: 1978, 1983)
Richard Rohr, A Spring Within Us: A Book of Daily Meditations (CAC Publishing: 2016)
Richard Rohr: Essential Teachings on Love, eds. Joelle Chase and Judy Traeger (Orbis
Books: 2018)
Meeting Christ Within Us
God With Us
If God’s Spirit has truly joined our spirit, then we have every reason to trust the
deepest movements of our natures. This trust becomes a key for all spirituality.
The goal of Christian spirituality is to recognize and respond to the continual
interior movements of the Spirit, for the Spirit will always lead us toward
greater union with Christ and greater love and service of God and others. —
Richard Hauser [1]
The West—and the United States in particular—is fascinated with forms. We like
impermanent things, maybe because they can’t nail us down to anything solid or
lasting, and we float in an ephemeral and transient world of argumentative
ideas. But this preference isn’t bearing substantial fruit. This culture seems to be
creating people who are very unsure of themselves, who are grasping in every
direction for a momentary sense of identity or importance.
The goal is to get people to a deeper level, to the unified field, or what I like to
call “nondual thinking,” where God alone can hold the contradictions together.
What kind of God would only push from without and never draw from within?
Yet this is precisely the one-sided God that many Christians were offered and
that much of the world has now rejected. God unfolds our personhood from
within through a constant increase in freedom—even freedom to fail. Love
cannot happen in any other way. This is why Paul shouts in Galatians, “For
freedom Christ has set us free!” (5:1).
God loves you by becoming you, taking your side in the inner dialogue of self-
accusation and defense. God loves you by turning your mistakes into grace, by
constantly giving you back to yourself in a larger shape. God stands with you,
not against you, whenever you are tempted to shame or self-hatred. If your
authority figures resorted to threat and punishment, it can be hard to feel or
trust this inner give and take. Remember, the only thing that separates you from
God is the thought that you are separate from God!
References:
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Dancing Standing Still: Healing the World from a
Place of Prayer (Paulist Press: 2014), 10, 11; and
The Universal Christ: How a Forgotten Reality Can Change Everything We See,
Hope For, and Believe (Convergent: 2019), 79-80.
Image credit: Knot the One, by Karen Jacobs, 1993. Used with permission of the
artist.
Inspiration for this week’s banner image: Christ’s soul and our soul are like an
everlasting knot. The deeper we move in our own being, the closer we come to
Christ. And the closer we come to Christ’s soul, the nearer we move to the heart
of one another. —John Philip Newell, explaining the teachings of Julian of
Norwich
God Speaks
In a time when everything was being swept away, when “the whole world is
becoming a giant concentration camp,” [Etty Hillesum] felt one must hold fast
to what endures—the encounter with God at the depths of one’s own soul and in
other people. —Robert Ellsberg [1]
But think about it: If the incarnation is true, then of course God
speaks to us through our own thoughts! When accusers called Joan
of Arc (1412–1431) the victim of her own imagination, she is
frequently credited with this brilliant reply: “How else would God
speak to me?”
Late in his life, Jung wrote, “In my case Pilgrim’s Progress consisted in my
having to climb down a thousand ladders until I could reach out my hand to the
little clod of earth that I am.” [2] Jung, a supposed unbeliever, knew that any
authentic God experience takes a lot of humble, honest, and patient seeking.
References:
[1] Robert Ellsberg, All Saints: Daily Reflections on Saints, Prophets, and
Witnesses for Our Time (The Crossroad Publishing Company: 1998, ©1997),
521.
[2] From a letter to a pupil (April 9, 1959). See C. G. Jung Letters, Vol. 1: 1906-
1950, selected and edited by Gerhard Adler (Routledge: 2015, ©1973), 19, n. 8.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, The Universal Christ: How a Forgotten Reality Can
Change Everything We See, Hope For, and Believe (Convergent: 2019), 85-87.
Meeting Christ Within Us
Among human beings, who knows what pertains to a person except the spirit of
the person that is within? Similarly, no one knows what pertains to God except
the Spirit of God. We have not received the spirit of the world but the Spirit that
is from God, so that we may understand the things freely given us by God. And
we speak about them not with words taught by human wisdom, but with words
taught by the Spirit, describing spiritual realities in spiritual terms. —1
Corinthians 2:11-13
If you can trust and listen to your inner divine image, your whole-making
instinct, or your True Self, you will act from your best, largest, kindest, most
inclusive self. I would also like to add “your most compassionately dissatisfied
self” because the soul’s journey invites us to infinite depth that we can never
fully plumb!
Rather than consuming spiritual gifts for yourself alone, you must receive all
words of God so that you can speak them to others tenderly and with subtlety. If
any thought feels too harsh, shaming, or diminishing of yourself or others, it is
not likely the voice of God but the ego. Why do humans so often presume the
exact opposite—that shaming voices are always from God and graced voices are
always the imagination? That is a self-defeating (“demonic”?) path.
If something comes toward you with grace and can pass through you and toward
others with grace, you can trust it as the voice of God. One holy man who
recently came to visit me put it this way: “We must listen to what is supporting
us. We must listen to what is encouraging us. We must listen to what is urging
us. We must listen to what is alive in us.” I personally was so trained not to trust
those voices that I often did not hear the voice of God speaking to me, or what
Abraham Lincoln called the “better angels of our nature.”
Yes, a narcissistic person can misuse such advice, but someone genuinely living
in love will flourish inside such a dialogue. That is the risk that God takes—and
we must take—for the sake of a fruitful relationship with God. It takes so much
courage and humility to trust the voice of God within. Mary personifies such
trust in her momentous and free “Let it be” to the Archangel Gabriel (Luke
1:38). Don’t you suppose that Gabriel sounded just like her own mind? She
never talks about such an angel again.
We must learn how to recognize the positive flow and to distinguish it from the
negative resistance within ourselves. It takes years of practice. If a voice comes
from accusation and leads to accusation, it is quite simply the voice of the
“Accuser,” which is the literal meaning of the biblical word “Satan.” Shaming,
accusing, or blaming is simply not how God talks. God is supremely nonviolent.
God only cajoles, softens, and invites us into an always bigger field and it is
always a unified field.
Reference:
Adapted from Richard Rohr, The Universal Christ: How a Forgotten Reality
Can Change Everything We See, Hope For, and Believe (Convergent: 2019), 87,
88-89.
Image credit: Knot the One, by Karen Jacobs, 1993. Used with permission of the
artist.
Inspiration for this week’s banner image: Christ’s soul and our soul are like an
everlasting knot. The deeper we move in our own being, the closer we come to
Christ. And the closer we come to Christ’s soul, the nearer we move to the heart
of one another. —John Philip Newell, explaining the teachings of Julian of
Norwich
For example, insisting on a literal belief in the virgin birth of Jesus is very good
theological symbolism, but unless it translates into a spirituality of interior
poverty, readiness to conceive, and human vulnerability, it is largely a “mere
lesson memorized” as Isaiah puts it (29:13). It “saves” no one. Likewise, an
intellectual belief that Jesus rose from the dead is a good start, but until you are
struck by the realization that the crucified and risen Jesus is a parable about the
journey of all humans, and even the universe, it is a rather harmless—if not
harmful—belief that will leave you and the world largely unchanged.
Many Westerners today are now reacquiring and accessing more of the skills we
need to go into the depths of things—and to find God’s Spirit there. Whether
they come through contemplation, psychology, spiritual direction, shadow work,
the Enneagram, Myers-Briggs typology, grief and bereavement work, or other
models such as Integral Theory or wilderness experience [1], these tools help us
to examine and to trust interiority and depth.
One of the most profound spiritual experiences of my life came in 1984 during a
journaling retreat in Ohio led by the psychotherapist Ira Progoff (1921–1998).
[2] Dr. Progoff guided us as we wrote privately for several days on some very
human and ordinary questions. I remember first dialoguing with my own body,
dialoguing with roads not taken, dialoguing with concrete memories and
persons, dialoguing with my own past decisions, and on and on.
I learned that if the quiet space, the questions themselves, and blank pages had
not been put in front of me, I may never have known what was lying within me.
Progoff helped me and many others access slow tears and fast prayers, and
ultimately intense happiness and gratitude, as I discovered depths within myself
that I never knew were there. I still reread some of what I wrote over forty years
ago for encouragement and healing. And it all came from within me!
Today we are recovering freedom and permission and the tools to move toward
depth. What a shame it would be if we did not use them. The best way out is if
we have first gone in. The only way we can trust up is if we have gone down.
That has been the underlying assumption of male initiation rites since ancient
times but, today, such inner journeys and basic initiation experiences are often
considered peripheral to “true religion.”
References:
[1] See, for example, Illuman, Outward Bound, Bill Plotkin’s Animas Valley
Institute, New Warrior Training.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, The Universal Christ: How a Forgotten Reality Can
Change Everything We See, Hope For, and Believe (Convergent: 2019), 114-115.
Image credit: Knot the One, by Karen Jacobs, 1993. Used with permission of the
artist.
Inspiration for this week’s banner image: Christ’s soul and our soul are like an
everlasting knot. The deeper we move in our own being, the closer we come to
Christ. And the closer we come to Christ’s soul, the nearer we move to the heart
of one another. —John Philip Newell, explaining the teachings of Julian of
Norwich
Find your delight in the Lord who will give you your heart’s desire. —Psalm 37:4
She says that Christ is the one who connects us to the “great root” of our
being. . . . [1] “God is our mother as truly as God is our father,” she says. [2] We
come from the Womb of the Eternal. We are not simply made by God; we are
made “of God.” [3] So we encounter the energy of God in our true depths. And
we will know the One from whom we have come only to the extent that we know
ourselves. God is the “ground” of life. [4] So it is to the very essence of our being
that we look for God. . . .
God “is in everything,” writes Julian. [5] God is “nature’s substance,” the very
essence of life. [6] So she speaks of “smelling” God, of “swallowing” God in the
waters and juices of the earth, of “feeling” God in the human body and the body
of creation. [7] . . . Grace is given to save our nature, not to save us from our
nature. It is given to free us from the unnaturalness of what we have become
and done to one another and to the earth. Grace is given, she says, “to bring
nature back to that blessed point from which it came, namely God.” [8] It is
given that we may hear again the deepest sounds within us.
What Julian hears is that “we are all one.” [9] We have come from God as one,
and to God we shall return as one. And any true well-being in our lives will be
found not in isolation but in relation. She uses the image of the knot . . . to
portray the strands of time and eternity intertwined, of the human and the
creaturely inseparably interrelated, of the one and the many forever married.
Christ’s soul and our soul are like an everlasting knot. The deeper we move in
our own being, the closer we come to Christ. And the closer we come to Christ’s
soul, the nearer we move to the heart of one another. In Christ, we hear not
foreign sounds but the deepest intimations of the human and the divine
intertwined.
And for Julian, the key to hearing what is at the heart of the human soul is to
listen to our deepest longings, for “the desire of the soul,” she says, “is the desire
of God.” [10] Of course, many of our desires have become infected or overlaid by
confusions and distortions, but at the root of our being is the sacred longing for
union. It is to this deepest root that Christ leads us. Our soul is made “of God,”
as Julian says, so it is grounded in the desires of God. And at the heart of these
holy desires is what Julian calls “love-longing.” [11] It is the most sacred and the
most natural of yearnings. The deeper we move within the human soul, the
closer we come to this divine yearning. And the nearer we come to our true self,
“the greater will be our longing.” [12]
References:
[6] Chapter 56 (long text). See Showings, trans. Edmund Colledge and James
Walsh (Paulist Press: 1978), 290.
[7] Chapter 43 (long text). See Revelation of Divine Love, Spearing, 104.
John Philip Newell, Christ of the Celts: The Healing of Creation (Jossey-Bass:
2008), 67-69.
Image credit: Knot the One, by Karen Jacobs, 1993. Used with permission of the
artist.
Inspiration for this week’s banner image: Christ’s soul and our soul are like an
everlasting knot. The deeper we move in our own being, the closer we come to
Christ. And the closer we come to Christ’s soul, the nearer we move to the heart
of one another. —John Philip Newell, explaining the teachings of Julian of
Norwich
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God’s Temple
Phileena Heuertz is a dear friend, member of our Board of Directors, and co-
founder of Gravity, a center for contemplative activism. In this excerpt from her
book Mindful Silence she reflects on the gift of contemplation.
Kataphatic prayer comes from the Greek kataphatikos, which in essence means
“with images or concepts.” . . . This kind of prayer utilizes our faculties for
reason, imagination, feelings, and will. We use words, images, and feelings to
communicate with the divine. In this sense, God is mediated through our
mental and affective capacities.
Apophatic prayer comes from the Greek apophatikos, which essentially means
“without images or concepts.” This kind of prayer lets go of reason, imagination,
feelings, and will. And in this way, our encounter with God is unmediated. It is a
naked mode of prayer—being to being or essence to essence without filtration
through the thinking or affective mind. . . .
Apophatic prayer is rooted in the doctrine of the divine indwelling (Luke 17:21;
John 7:38, 14:3; Romans 8:10-11; 1 Corinthians 6:15-20; Galatians 2:20). While
God is transcendent, God is also immanent, and chooses to dwell within us.
Contemplative spirituality helps us realize God’s presence within us.
The word contemplative derives from a root that means to set aside a place of
worship or to reserve a cleared space in front of an altar. In Hebrew and
Christian Scriptures, a contemplative stance is obvious. The Israelites cleared
space for worship with the Ark of the Covenant and finally with their temple.
Jesus honored the temple worship of his Jewish tradition but also tried to
enlighten his people to realize that sacred buildings, rituals, and rules are meant
to bring us into the awareness of the divine presence in us and in all of those
around us.
Jesus drew our attention to the doctrine of the divine indwelling in a radical
declaration that he himself was the temple (John 2:19). . . . Paul elaborates on
Jesus’ teaching of the doctrine of divine indwelling by declaring that not just
Jesus’ but our body too is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19).
How marvelous! The Creator of the universe resides within our being.
But unfortunately, we’re not very well acquainted with God-within. We’ve
mastered the theology of God’s transcendence but have failed to embrace God’s
immanence. There’s a part of us that doubts our deep connection to this divine
love. Contemplative spirituality helps us overcome this disconnect. It’s one
thing to have a “personal relationship” with the transcendent Jesus [or Christ]—
much like a relationship with a friend or lover. It’s quite another thing to
become one with Jesus, by growing familiar with his immanence (John 17:21).
It’s from this oneness that enduring love of God and neighbor is possible.
Reference:
Image credit: Knot the One, by Karen Jacobs, 1993. Used with permission of the
artist.
Inspiration for this week’s banner image: Christ’s soul and our soul are like an
everlasting knot. The deeper we move in our own being, the closer we come to
Christ. And the closer we come to Christ’s soul, the nearer we move to the heart
of one another. —John Philip Newell, explaining the teachings of Julian of
Norwich
The Head Center
Tuesday, March 10, 2020
My friend and Enneagram teacher Russ Hudson describes the
Head Center, the final Intelligence Center of the Enneagram, in his
own unique and “heady” way:
Some of the Eastern religions, particularly Buddhism, did a very
thorough investigation of the nature of the Head Center. That’s one
of the reasons I think Thomas Merton was drawn to studying certain
things about Buddhist practice. What [Eastern traditions] all agree
on is the true nature of Mind is complete stillness, silence, and
spaciousness. Boundless stillness, peace, clarity, forever and ever,
amen. So I would say that the Head Center gives us the possibility of
sensing, recognizing the Eternal Presence that’s right here in the
midst of phenomena. . . .
Fives, Sixes, and Sevens cannot get their minds to simmer down.
This is a problem because the quiet mind allows us to feel
profoundly supported: inner knowing and guidance arise from the
quiet mind and give us confidence to act in the world. [2]
When you know this Presence directly, you experience it as the
ground of everything and especially the ground of you. And when
you know that, you know that what you are is just an expression of
that, and the core of what you are cannot be harmed or taken
away. . . . That presence is the Divine Presence. And it’s not a rumor!
It’s not something you have to believe in. . . .
Just land where you are, open to the stillness, and know that what
you seek is already here, holding everything you do every step of the
way, guiding you, supporting you, in you, around you. You can’t lose
it! And it is never failing you.
[The Five, Six, and Seven] in essence are trying to get back to or find
this sense of ground, direction, and guidance. That’s what we’re
looking for in this triad.
[The Body types] were the “I don’t want to be messed with” types.
[The] Heart types were the “See me the way I want to be seen types.”
[The Head types] are the “What can I trust?” types. In other words,
I’m looking for something to be that orientation, ground, and
guidance, which is utterly trustworthy. [3] None of us are the whole
Body of Christ, but we each offer part of the Great Gift of God.
When we try to live in solidarity with the pain of the world—and do not spend
our lives running from it—we will encounter various forms of “crucifixion.” Pain
The soul must walk through such suffering to go higher, further, deeper, or
longer. The saints variously called such suffering deaths, nights, darkness,
hidden because God alone can see it and steer it for our good. If we
try too hard to understand it, we will stop the process or steer it in
and conflicting intentions everywhere. Jesus hangs right there amid them, not
even perfectly balancing them, but just holding them (see Ephesians 2:13–22).
This deserves a major “Wow!” because mere philosophy or even proper theology
The virtue of hope, with great irony, is the fruit of a learned capacity to suffer
wisely, calmly, and generously. The ego demands successes to survive; the soul
needs only meaning to thrive. Somehow hope provides its own kind of meaning,
The Gospel gives our suffering both personal and cosmic meaning by connecting
our pain to the pain of others and, finally, by connecting us to the very pain of
God. Did you ever think of God as suffering? Most people don’t—but Jesus came
6:10) every time we can allow, receive, and forgive the conflicts of
the moment. Such acceptance allows us to sit in some degree of
God alone, it seems to me, can hold together all the seeming opposites and
contradictions of life. In
and with God, we can do the same. But we are not the Doer.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Just This (CAC Publishing: 2017), 83–85.
Image credit: Wheat Field With Crows (detail), Vincent van Gogh, 1890, Van Gogh
Museum, Amsterdam, Netherlands.
MysticalHope
for long without some sliver of hope or meaning. However, it is worth asking
ourselves about where our hope lies. My friend and colleague Cynthia
things will get better in the future” and mystical hope “that is a complete
reversal of our usual way of looking at things. Beneath the ‘upbeat’ kind of
hope that parts the seas and pulls rabbits out of hats, this other hope weaves
We might make the following observations about this other kind of hope, which
and conditions.
[It] is all too easy to understate and miss that hope is not intended to
the call to become a vessel, to become a chalice into which this divine energy can
We ourselves are not the source of that hope; we do not manufacture it. But the
much so that in fact it might be more accurate to say we dwell within it. . . .
The good news is that this deeper current does exist and you actually can find it.
up and over the mountain to the sources of hope in the headwaters of the
Christian Mystery. This journey to the wellsprings of hope is not something that
will change your life in the short range, in the externals. Rather, it is something
that will change your innermost way of seeing. From there, inevitably, the
The journey to the wellsprings of hope is really a journey toward the center,
toward the innermost ground of our being where we meet and are met by God.
The Universal Pattern
Both St. Francis of Assisi (1182–1226) and St. Clare (1194–1253) let
doing so they came to know who they really were in God—and thus
various forms of poverty. The small self does not surrender without
all of humanity finally dwells anyway. They voluntarily leapt into the
very fire from which most of us are trying to escape, with total trust
that Jesus’ way of the cross could not, and would not, be the wrong
path.
By God’s grace, they believed that they could trust the eventual
passing of all things, and where they were passing to. They did not
find God in the center of our lives and the bitter will become sweet
[as when Francis kissed the leper]; however, if we stay on the plain
of mediocrity then the bitter may remain bitter. To trust in the power of
way to becoming prayer because it is the way to freedom in God. For prayer,
that deep relationship of God breathing in us, requires change and conversion.
And where there is change, there is the letting go of the old and the giving birth
to the new. To pray is to be open to the new, to the future in God. The way to life
passes through change and ultimately the change from death to life. Prayer is
the way to life because in prayer we are invited to change and to grow in love.
[1]”
I find myself in prayer much of the time right now, not simply because of the
limitations of our current circumstances, but because I want to be a witness to
such divine freedom. I believe it is this kind of prayer that may keep us from
thought to many) and instead praying for the courage to “change and grow in
love.” Such courage is surely what we and the world truly need.
I feel a deep solidarity with individuals throughout the world who are wrestling
with health issues. In 2016, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer and
underwent a complete prostatectomy. The wisdom lessons that God offered me
before, during, and after the surgery were pretty much constant. The
experiences were initially disempowering, sometimes scary in their immediacy,
and only in hindsight were they in any way empowering. Prayer was both
constant and impossible for much of this period.
About ten days after the surgery, during my attempt at some spiritual reading, I
opened the Bible to an obscure passage in the Book of Exodus. Moses asks
YHWH to “Show me your glory” (33:18), and YHWH shows it in a most unusual
way: “I shall place you in the cleft of the rock and shield you with my hand until
I have passed by. Then I shall take my hand away, and you will see my backside,
but my face will not be seen” (33:22–23). In several sermons, I have used that
verse to teach that our knowledge of God is indirect at best, and none of our
knowledge is fully face-to-face. God is always and forever Mystery. All we see is
the “backside” of God.
During that time, it was not the indirectness that hit me in this passage, but the
directness! My best spiritual knowing almost always occurs after the fact, in the
remembering—not seen “until God has passed by.” I realized that in the
moments of diagnosis, doctor’s warnings, waiting, delays, and the surgery itself,
I was as fragile, scared, and insecure as anybody would be. If I could stay with
the full narrative all the way into and through, only afterward could I invariably
see, trust, and enjoy the wonderful works of God (mirabilia Dei).
Part Two
Click here to watch a special video or listen to the audio of Richard Rohr
introducing Holy Week and this week's Daily Meditation theme on "Reality
Initiating Us," addressing our current global crisis as a collective initiation
experience which we are all undergoing.
Life is hard, and yet Jesus says, “My yoke is easy and my burden is light”
(Matthew 11:28).
It is hard to bear God—but it is even harder not to bear God. The pain
one brings upon oneself by living outside of evident reality is a
greater and longer-lasting pain than the brief pain of facing it head
on. Enlightened people invariably describe the spiritual experience
of God as resting, peace, delight, and even ecstasy.
If our religion has no deep joy and no inherent contentment about it,
then it is not the real thing. If our religion is primarily fear of self,
the world, and God; if it is primarily focused on meeting religious
duties and obligations, then it is indeed a hard yoke and heavy
burden. I’d go so far as to say that it’s hardly worthwhile. I think the
promise from Jesus that his burden is easy and light seeks to
reassure us that rigid and humorless religion is not his way and
certainly not the only way.
It is God within us that loves God, so seek joy in God and peace within; seek to
rest in the good, the true, and the beautiful. It is the only resting place that also
allows us to bear the darkness. Hard and soft, difficult and easy, pain and
ecstasy do not eliminate one another, but actually allow each other. They bow
back and forth like dancers, although it is harder to bow to pain and to failure. If
you look deeply inside every success, there are already seeds and signs of limits;
if you look inside every failure, there are also seeds and signs of opportunity.
Who among us has not been able to eventually recognize the silver lining in the
darkest of life’s clouds? You would think the universal pattern of death and life,
the lesson of the Gospel and Jesus’ life would be utterly clear to me by now, yet I
still fight and repress my would-be resurrections, even if just in my own mind.
For some reason, we give and get our energy from dark clouds much more than
silver linings. True joy is harder to access and even harder to hold onto than
anger or fear. When I walk my dog Opie and look at the beautiful cottonwood
trees in my yard, God helps me experience rest and peace.
It is true that you are not in control, for “can any of you, for all your
worrying, add a single moment to your span of life?” (Luke 12:25-
26).
Jesus surely had a dozen good reasons why he should not have had to die so
young, so unsuccessful at that point, and the Son of God besides! By becoming
the Passover Lamb, plus the foot-washing servant, Jesus makes God’s revelation
human, personal, clear and quite concrete. Jesus is handed over to the religious
and political powers-that-be, and we must be handed over to God from our
power, privilege, and need for control. Otherwise, we will never grow up, or
participate in the Mystery of God and Love. It really is about “passing over” to a
deeper faith and life.
Reality Initiating Us:
Part Two
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introducing Holy Week and this week's Daily Meditation theme on "Reality
Initiating Us," addressing our current global crisis as a collective initiation
experience which we are all undergoing.
It is true that your life is not about you; rather, “your life is hidden with Christ in
God. He is your life, and when he is revealed, you will be revealed in all your
glory with him” (Colossians 3:4).
Once our soul comes to its True Self, it can amazingly let go and be almost
anything except selfish or separate. The True Self does not cling or grasp. It has
already achieved its purpose by being more than by any specific doing of this or
that. Finally, we have become a human being instead of a human doing. This is
what we are practicing when we sit in contemplative prayer: we are practicing
under-doing and assured failure, which radically rearranges our inner hardware
after a while. And yet even in our pursuit of the True Self, we must be careful
not to reject the parts of ourselves that are not there yet. The most courageous
thing we will ever do is probably to accept that we are who we are. As Henri
Nouwen once shared with me personally, he believed that original sin could only
be described as “humanity’s endless capacity for self-rejection.”
All the truly transformed people I have ever met are characterized by
what I would call radical humility. They are deeply convinced that
they are drawing from another source; they are simply an
instrument. Their genius is not their own; it is borrowed. They end
up doing generative and expansive things precisely because they do
not take first or final responsibility for their gift; they don’t worry
too much about their failures, nor do they need to promote
themselves. Their life is not their own, yet at some level they know that it has
been given to them as a sacred trust. Such people just live in gratitude and
confidence and try to let the flow continue through them. They know that love
can be repaid by love alone.
In this time of crisis, we must commit to a posture of prayer and heart that
opens us to deep trust and connection with God. Only then can we hold the
reality of what is happening—both the tragic and the transformative. I am
finding myself turning more often in these days to the simple Christian prayer of
“Lord, have mercy.” From our place of humility, God can work through
us to help our loved ones, neighbors and the most vulnerable. As
Francis of Assisi said to us right before he died in 1226, “I have done
what was mine to do. Now you must do what is yours to do.” [1]
Part Two
Click here to watch a special video or listen to the audio of Richard Rohr
introducing Holy Week and this week's Daily Meditation theme on "Reality
Initiating Us," addressing our current global crisis as a collective initiation
experience which we are all undergoing.
You are not important, and yet Jesus says, “Rejoice because your name is
written in heaven” (Luke 10:20).
We need a still point in this twirling world of images and feelings, especially in a
time such as ours. If we are tethered at some center point, it is amazing how far
out we can fly and not get lost. The True Self, "our name in heaven," is
our participation in the great “I Am.” It is what Peter daringly calls
the “ability to share the divine nature” (2 Peter 1:4). This True Self is
characterized by contentment, an abiding low-level peace and
happiness. Every now and then it even becomes pure joy.
Part Two
Life is hard, and yet Jesus says, “My yoke is easy and my burden is
light” (Matthew 11:28).
It is hard to bear God—but it is even harder not to bear God. The pain
one brings upon oneself by living outside of evident reality is a
greater and longer-lasting pain than the brief pain of facing it head
on. Enlightened people invariably describe the spiritual experience
of God as resting, peace, delight, and even ecstasy.
If our religion has no deep joy and no inherent contentment about it,
then it is not the real thing. If our religion is primarily fear of self,
the world, and God; if it is primarily focused on meeting religious
duties and obligations, then it is indeed a hard yoke and heavy
burden. I’d go so far as to say that it’s hardly worthwhile. I think the promise
from Jesus that his burden is easy and light seeks to reassure us that rigid and
humorless religion is not his way and certainly not the only way.
It is God within us that loves God, so seek joy in God and peace within; seek to
rest in the good, the true, and the beautiful. It is the only resting place that also
allows us to bear the darkness. Hard and soft, difficult and easy, pain and
ecstasy do not eliminate one another, but actually allow each other. They bow
back and forth like dancers, although it is harder to bow to pain and to failure. If
you look deeply inside every success, there are already seeds and signs of limits;
if you look inside every failure, there are also seeds and signs of opportunity.
Who among us has not been able to eventually recognize the silver lining in the
darkest of life’s clouds? You would think the universal pattern of death and life,
the lesson of the Gospel and Jesus’ life would be utterly clear to me by now, yet I
still fight and repress my would-be resurrections, even if just in my own mind.
For some reason, we give and get our energy from dark clouds much more than
silver linings. True joy is harder to access and even harder to hold onto than
anger or fear. When I walk my dog Opie and look at the beautiful
cottonwood trees in my yard, God helps me experience rest and
peace.
Palm Sunday
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who is your life appears, then you too will appear with him in glory. —
Colossians 3:3-4
one common denominator: in some sense, they have all died before they died.
They have followed in the self-emptying steps of Jesus, a path from death to life
that Christians from all over the world celebrate this week.
At some point, such people were led to the edge of their private resources, and
that breakdown, which surely felt like dying, led them into a larger life. They
broke through in what felt like breaking down. Instead of avoiding a personal
death or raging at it, they went through a death of their old, small self and came
out the other side knowing that death could no longer hurt them. This process of
the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus is the preeminent example of this
pattern. Following Jesus, we need to trust the down, and God will
take care of the up. Although even there, we still must offer our yes.
If the five truths of initiation from last week seemed demanding or negative, I
want to also name the energizing source that makes them possible and that
wonderful,” the collective beauty and security that healthy people live within, no
matter what words they use for it. Some have called the lessons “the five positive
and gives us ongoing new birth and beginnings. It is our matrix for
life, our underlying worldview, and the energy field that keeps us
Perhaps such people are “the two or three” gathered in Jesus’ name
(Matthew 18:20).
believe because others have told us to. These five messages, which
will form the basis of the Daily Meditations this week, can be
light (Matthew 11:28).
2. It is true that you are not important, and yet do you not know that
3. It is true that your life is not about you, and yet I live now not my
own life, but the life of Christ who lives in me (Galatians 2:20).
4. It is true that you are not in control, and yet can any of you, for all
12:26).
life. . . can ever come between us and the love of God (Romans 8:38-
39).
Tessa Bielecki is a Christian hermit in the tradition of the Desert Mothers and
Fathers. Co-founder of the Spiritual Life Institute, she was a Carmelite monk
and Mother Abbess for almost 40 years, establishing experimental monastic
communities of men and women in Arizona, Colorado, Nova Scotia, and
Ireland. She has written extensively on the life, spirituality, and enduring
legacy of Teresa of Ávila. Bielecki writes that Teresa has much to teach us
about suffering:
For over forty years, [Teresa] never spent a single day without physical pain. For
most of her life she suffered such nausea that she vomited daily and couldn’t eat
until noon. She suffered the little illnesses that afflict us all—colds, headaches,
stomachaches, toothaches, and flus. But she also suffered from high fevers,
fainting spells, heart trouble, neuritis, tinnitus, her maimed left arm, a three-
year paralysis, severe convulsions, a four-day coma, and the influenza that
almost killed her in 1580, aged her terribly, and left her palsied for the last two
years of her life. . . .
Through this, as in all else, Teresa learned how to let go of her own will and
trust in God. She vehemently asserts that we must “determine once and for all
to swallow death and the lack of health,” or there will be no hope for us. [Italics
mine.] [1]
In a letter to the convent at Seville that she had founded, Teresa writes:
And in a letter to one of her spiritual directors, the Dominican Father Gracián,
she reflects:
One must not think that a person who is suffering is not praying. He is offering
up his sufferings to God, and many a time he is praying much more truly than
one who goes away by himself and meditates his head off, and, if he has
squeezed out a few tears, thinks that is prayer. [3]
Richard again: Suffering, of course, can lead us in one of two directions. It can
make us very bitter and close us down, or it can make us wise, compassionate,
and utterly open. Our hearts open either because they have been softened, or
perhaps because suffering makes us feel like we have nothing more to lose. It
often takes us to the edge of our inner resources where we “fall into the hands
of the living God” (Hebrews 10:31).
Let us all pray for the grace of this second path of softening and opening.
Poet, pastor, mystic, John [of the Cross] is first a witness to the impact of God in
his life. He has taken the risk of surrender, and can speak with the authority of
one who has been there. He testifies to a God who, precisely, is pressing in to
meet, to change, and to fill us in our deepest need. . . . Love changes people, and
John’s witness to God’s love may help us to trust and to be brave.
A generous God is fine when things are running smoothly. But what [about]
when they are not and darkness is invading? What [about] when trusted
patterns have broken down, or we feel too far gone to bother even trying? We
dwell at outer limits, and some events in life—loss, failure, stress, sin—remind
us of the threat of chaos.
That is where John of the Cross stands: at the threshold of uncertainty; and he
assures us that what dwells beyond is not simply chaos. The darkness bears the
Spirit of God, who broods over the waters of death and has power to work a
resurrection. . . . In our darkness, he finds Jesus’s darkness; and what he echoes
is the impact of Easter. . . .
Night: we cannot stop it, or hasten it; it just comes, and it teaches us every
twenty-four hours that we are not in complete control. John does seem to think
there is something important here. Others speak of growth, suffering,
purification, but ‘we are calling’ it ‘night’; [1] calling it ‘“dark night," very
appropriately’ [2] . . . .
John’s Toledo imprisonment and escape gave to the symbol ‘night’ its full
weight. . . . [For him] the symbol is able to carry humanity’s pain, able to hold
even such a sense of alienation from God that the inner self feels dismantled. . . .
That is the resonance of the symbol for John. Night signifies that which comes
upon us and takes us out of our own control; it announces that as the place of
resurrection. A God who heals in darkness—this is John’s word of hope in a
destabilised [sic.] world.
We have all experienced some form of “night” in our lives, of lack of control
and certainty. But we are also fortunate to have wise and good guides like
John of the Cross to accompany us, reminding us that we are not abandoned
by God in those times, but loved more deeply than we can imagine all the way
through them.
The Presence of Spirit
Many things can bring us to the “threshold” of our ordinary ways of thinking
and behaving, but even good rituals are merely “stand-ins” until Reality itself,
often in the form of great love or great suffering, steps in and changes us
forever. My friend Paula D’Arcy, with whom I have taught many times over
the years, lost her husband and young daughter in a tragic car accident while
she was pregnant with their second child. This story from Paula reveals how
liminal moments can occur at any time.
It was such an innocent and common thing—a child’s garment. Yet even as it
broke my heart, that dress became an opening; the soft cotton tore at me from
within and began to empty me.
You are not the only heartbroken parent in the world, it said. The pain of loss
is not yours alone. Disappointment is the human condition. I continued to stare
at the cotton and lace, but something had shifted. The dress was somehow
connecting me to the texture and mystery of greater things . . .
Without fully understanding why, I began to soften. I saw life’s contour, its
density and its brilliance, just as it is, nothing more. . . . I saw how I’d been
caught in a script of my own creation and . . . was totally caught up in my own
world—my emotions, my wants, and my needs. . . . Now it was simply my time—
my turn to know the darkness and discover whether or not I was brave enough
to accept the human journey and find a way through. . . .
I slowly began to see that within the cells of every living thing is the
same essence—the presence of spirit. The heart of our journey is to
awaken to this spirit within. . . .
Hardly anything turns out the way you expected it to, and you’re
frequently ready to write life off as too paradoxical and too difficult
to endure. Then some indescribable light fights its way through the
impenetrable dark—an unpredictable, unimportant, runaway
moment that lights up everything you’ve been unable to see until
then. That light removes all the shoulds and oughts, all the illusions
about fairness. You enter liminal space . . . In that space you take
your first script [or what I call your false or separate self], the one
that weighs five hundred pounds, the script that was cutting into
your heart all along, bleeding you to death but you didn’t realize the
wound or its seriousness—and you simply let it go.
Dark Liminality
Tuesday, April 28, 2020
There are likely few situations with the power to reliably propel us beyond the
threshold of everyday existence and into the realm of the liminal than the way of
the despair of receiving a diagnosis of a serious, life-threatening illness. It can
feel like being hit by a brick or like being hurled into the dark abyss. Once there,
the territory can be utterly disorienting and terribly frightening. . . .
Few know how to enter the liminal space where their loved one or patient has
been forced to go, let alone how to be there should they be brave enough to dare
to enter. We are uncomfortable in these kinds of liminal spaces because it is
strange and unfamiliar territory, woven with the difficult feelings we’ve been
taught to suppress by medicating them away, by bypassing them through
platitudes . . . or denying them all together. . . .
The art of spiritual companionship through the realm of the liminal can be
learned, whether we are accompanying others or attending to our own souls.
The first step requires trusting that, in the course of time, the very healing we
seek can emerge by our journeying through liminal space, listening attentively
to what the liminal seeks to tell us.
Sheryl Fullerton, an editor and author with whom I have worked for many
years, received a cancer diagnosis two years ago which required a difficult
surgery. Like many individuals who are on earnest spiritual journeys, she
allowed the painful and challenging experience to transform and guide her to
greater wisdom.
When we find ourselves in liminal space, does it matter whether we are pushed
or whether we jump? Either way, we are not where or what we were before, nor
do we know how or where we will land in our new reality. We are, as the
disoriented. The old touchstones, habits, and comforts are now past, the future
through it quickly, with as little distress as possible, even though that is not
likely. . . .
But what if we can choose to experience this liminal space and time, this
the realm of the Holy Spirit, our comforter, who does not take away the vastness
and possibility of this opened-up threshold time, but invites us to lay down our
fears and discomfort to see what else is there, hard as that may be. . . .
One transformation in this liminal time of cancer treatment and recovery was
weakness, not shameful, but the source of what would allow me to survive and,
Liminal Space
I imagine that even if you’ve never heard the word liminal before, you likely
have a sense of what I’m talking about. It would be difficult to exist in this time
of global crisis and not feel caught between at least two worlds—the one we
knew and the one to come. Our consciousness and that of future generations has
been changed. We cannot put the genie back in the bottle.
After decades of observation, I can honestly say that the United States is a
ritually starved culture. We are too easily satisfied with making a sign of the
cross or blowing out candles on our birthday cake. True rituals create liminal
space (from the Latin word limen, meaning threshold). We need them to help us
consciously spend time at the thresholds of our lives.
Sadly, our Christian churches often fail to create such liminal space through
authentic ritual. Perhaps that is one of many reasons people are leaving
churches in the West. You could even say today that the institutions of
Christianity themselves exist in liminal space. Author and pastor Brandan
Robertson examines the threshold moment of our current religious institutions:
We are entering a truly liminal space where, for a multitude of reasons, many
are leaving the ways they’ve historically worshiped and entering into uncharted
territory. On one hand, this is an exciting time in religious history, as we
participate in radical and fundamental reforms of our institutions. On the other
hand, this process can cause great anxiety for those of us who have devoted our
lives to teaching, practicing, and guiding others in a particular spiritual or
religious tradition. . . .
Not one of us has a reliable crystal ball. We don’t know what lies
ahead in this uncertain moment in history. Yet we know we are
called into relationship, with our Creator and with each other. It is
through liminal space that we may taste—however briefly —
experiences of divine union, recognizing the radical oneness we all
enjoy with everything—simply by being born.
An Embarrassing Silence
Monday, January 6, 2020
In contemplative practice, the Holy Spirit frees us from taking sides and
allows us to remain content long enough to let it teach, broaden, and enrich
us in the partial darkness of every situation. We need to practice for many
years and make many mistakes in the meantime to learn how to do this.
Paul rather beautifully describes this kind of thinking: “Pray with gratitude
and the peace of Christ, which is beyond knowledge or understanding
(what I would call “the making of distinctions”), will guard both your mind
and your heart in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7). Teachers of
contemplation show us how to stand guard and not let our emotions and
obsessive thoughts control us.
When we’re thinking nondualistically, with this guarded mind and heart,
we will feel powerless for a moment, stunned into an embarrassing and
welcoming silence. Then we will discover what is ours to do.
References:
[1] Barbara A. Holmes, Joy Unspeakable: Contemplative Practices of the Black
Church, 2nd edition (Fortress Press: 2017), 20-22.
In the light of eternity, we’re here for a very short time, really. We’re here for
one thing, ultimately: to learn how to love, because God is love. Love is our
origin, love is our ground, and love is our destiny. —James Finley
What is the practice that matters now? A practice is any act habitually entered
into with our whole heart that takes us to the deeper place. Some of these
practices, we might not think of as prayer and meditation: tending the roses, a
long, slow walk to no place in particular, a quiet moment at day's end, being
vulnerable in the presence of that person in whose presence we're taken to the
deeper place, the pause between two lines of a poem. There are these acts that
reground us in the depth dimensions of our life that matter most; so if we're
faithful to our practice, our practice will be faithful to us. . . .
As we sit this way, suffering arises. The suffering then might be our anxiety and
concerns today, for ourselves, for our loved ones, for the world. As we sit in the
midst of the arising of the anxiety, when we inhale, we inhale this love of God
loving us through and through, anxiety and all, finding no hindrance in our
anxiety, loving us so unexplainably forever. Then when we exhale, we exhale
ourselves in love, anxiety and all, to the love that loves us. This requires gentle
perseverance, because anxiety arises again. It doesn't automatically go away. We
sit with it, we lean into it again, and we hold fast to this love that sustains us in
the midst of things. It is in this way, little by little, that we come to understand
the unsubstantiality of everything but love. Love and love alone has the
authority to name who we are.
This practice, then, experientially grounds us in this love wisdom. This love
wisdom—grounded in practice—empowers us to go out and share this with
other people in the circumstances in which we find ourselves.
Week Thirty-one
Matthew Fox has studied, written, and taught on theology and the mystics for
decades. In one of his books on Meister Eckhart, Fox writes:
In the soul, Eckhart maintains, there is “something like a spark of divine nature,
a divine light, a ray, an imprinted picture of the divine nature.” [1] . . . But we
have to make contact with this divine spark by emptying ourselves or letting go.
And then we will know the unity that already exists. [2]
Mysticism begins when we start to make room for a completely new experience
of God as immanent, present here and now, with and within all of us. God isn’t
only transcendent, “out there,” and separate from me. Augustine of Hippo
(354–430) wrote that God is “more intimate to me than I am to myself.” [4] St.
Catherine of Genoa (1447–1510) said, “My me is God: nor do I know my
selfhood except in God.” [5] Like all mystics, they overcame the gap, and we can
too. When God is no longer out there or over there, we have begun the mystical
journey. It’s not simply that we have a new relationship with God. It’s as though
we have a whole new God!
That's what Meister Eckhart meant when he said, “Let us pray to God that we
may be free of God.” [6] That’s not sacrilege; that’s a beautifully humble prayer
because we know that our present notion of God is never all God is. As
Augustine boldly stated, “Si enim comprehendis, non est Deus” (“If we
comprehend it, it is not God”). [7] Our present experience is never enough, but
it is gratefully where we begin, and these mystics teach us that we grow with
each experience of God.
The thing that we have to face is that life is as simple as this. We are living in a
world that is absolutely transparent and God is shining through it all the time.
This is not just a fable or a nice story, it is true. —Thomas Merton
I learned the terms “True Self” and “false self” from Thomas Merton (1915‒
1968). These are words he used to clarify Jesus’ teaching of dying to self or
“losing ourselves to find ourselves” (see Mark 8:35). Merton rightly recognized
that it was not the body that had to “die” but the “false self” that we do not need
anyway. The false self—or what I am calling lately the “separate self,”
disconnected from Divine Love—is simply a substitute for our deepest truth. It
is a useful and even needed part of ourselves, but it is not all of us; the danger is
when we think we are only our small or separate self. Our attachment to the
false self must die to allow the True Self—our basic and unchangeable identity in
God—to live fully and freely.
Thomas Merton said that the True Self should not be thought of as anything
different than life itself—but not my little life—the Big Life. [1] Franciscan
philosopher John Duns Scotus (c. 1266‒1308) said that the human person is not
different or separate from Being itself. This is not the little being that you and I
get attached to and take too seriously, but Universal Being, “the One in whom
we live, and move, and have our being,” as Paul put it to the Athenians (Acts
17:28). We Franciscans call this “the univocity of all being” (speaking of all
beings with one consistent voice), “that all may be one” (John 17:21).
When you’ve gotten too comfortable with your separate self and you call it Life,
you will get trapped at that level. You will hold onto it for dear life—because
that’s the only life you think you have! Unless someone tells you about the
Bigger Life, or you’ve had a conscious connection with the deepest ground of
your being, there’s no way you’re going to let go of your separate self. But your
attachment to that separate self must “die” or “the single grain of wheat remains
just a single grain” (John 12:24).
Your True Self is Life and Being and Love. Love is what you were made for and
love is who you are. When you live outside of Love, you are not living from your
true Being or with full consciousness. The Song of Songs says that “Love is
strong as Death. . . . The flash of it is a flash of fire, a flame of YHWH” (8:6,
Jerusalem Bible). Your True Self is a little tiny flame of this Universal Reality
that is Life itself, Consciousness itself, Being itself, Love itself, Light and Fire
itself, God’s very self.
Today we begin with Thomas Merton’s classic description of the True Self as
written following his “conversion” at Fourth and Walnut in Louisville. [1] It is so
inspired; I want to quote it at length:
At the center of our being is a point of nothingness which is untouched by sin
and by illusion, a point of pure truth, a point or spark which belongs entirely to
God, which is never at our disposal, from which God disposes of our lives, which
is inaccessible to the fantasies of our own mind or the brutalities of our own will.
This little point of nothingness and of absolute poverty is the pure glory of God
in us. It is so to speak [God’s] name written in us, as our poverty, as our
indigence, as our dependence, as our [birthright]. It is like a pure diamond,
blazing with the invisible light of heaven. It is in everybody, and if we could see
it we would see these billions of points of light coming together in the face and
blaze of a sun that would make all the darkness and cruelty of life vanish
completely. . . . I have no program for this seeing. It is only given. But the gate of
heaven is everywhere. [2]
Most people spend their entire lives living up to the mental self-images of who
they think they are, instead of living in the primal “I” that is already good in
God’s eyes. But all I can “pay back” to God or others or myself is who I really
am. This is what Merton is describing above. It’s a place of utter simplicity.
Perhaps we don’t want to go back there because it is too simple and almost too
natural. It feels utterly unadorned. There’s nothing to congratulate myself for. I
can’t prove any worth, much less superiority. There I am naked and poor. After
years of posturing and projecting, it will at first feel like nothing.
But when we are nothing, we are in a fine position to receive everything from
God. As Merton says above, our point of nothingness is “the pure glory of God in
us.” If we look at the great religious traditions, we see they all use similar words
to point in the same direction. The Franciscan word is “poverty.” The Carmelite
word is nada or “nothingness.” The Buddhists speak of “emptiness.” Jesus
speaks of being “poor in spirit” in his very first beatitude (Matthew 5:3).
A Zen master would call the True Self “the face we had before we were born.”
Paul would call it who we are “in Christ, hidden in God” (Colossians 3:3). It is
who we are before we’ve done anything right or anything wrong, before we even
have a conscious thought about who we are. Thinking creates the separate self,
the ego self, the insecure self. The God-given contemplative mind, on the other
hand, recognizes the God Self, the Christ Self, the True Self of abundance and
deep inner security.
[2] Thomas Merton, Conjectures of a Guilty Bystander (Doubleday & Company: ©1965,
1966), 142.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Everything Belongs: The Gift of Contemplative Prayer
(Crossroad Publishing: 1999, 2003), 76‒78.
In the following text Merton makes clear that the self-proclaimed autonomy of
the false self is but an illusion. . . .
This is the man I want myself to be but who cannot exist, because God does not
know anything about him. And to be unknown of God is altogether too much
privacy.
My false and private self is the one who wants to exist outside the
reach of God’s will and God’s love—outside of reality and outside of
life. And such a self cannot help but be an illusion.
We are not very good at recognizing illusions, least of all the ones we
cherish about ourselves—the ones we are born with and which feed
the roots of sin. For most of the people in the world, there is no
greater subjective reality than this false self of theirs, which cannot
exist. A life devoted to the cult of this shadow is what is called a life
of sin. [1] . . .
All sin starts from the assumption that my false self, the self that
exists only in my own egocentric desires, is the fundamental reality
of life to which everything else in the universe is ordered. Thus I use
up my life in the desire for pleasures and the thirst for experiences,
for power, honor, knowledge and love, to clothe this false self and
construct its nothingness into something objectively real. And I wind
experiences around myself and cover myself with pleasures and
glory like bandages in order to make myself perceptible to myself
and to the world, as if I were an invisible body that could only
become visible when something visible covered its surface. [2]
[1] Thomas Merton, New Seeds of Contemplation (New Directions Paperbook: 2007,
©1961), 34.
James Finley, Merton’s Palace of Nowhere: A Search for God through Awareness of the
True Self (Ave Maria Press: 1978), 33, 35, 36.
Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self (Jossey-Bass: 2013), 36.
For a deeper exploration of Thomas Merton’s teachings, tune into James Finley’s podcast,
“Turning to the Mystics,” produced by the CAC.
Our separate self is who we think we are, but our thinking does not make it true.
It is a social and mental construct that gets us started on life’s journey. It is a set
of agreements between us as individuals and our parents, families, school
friends, partner or spouse, culture, and religion. It is our “container.” It is
largely defined in distinction from others, precisely as our separate and unique
self. It is probably necessary to get started, but it becomes problematic when we
stop there and spend the rest of our lives promoting and protecting it. This
small and separate self is merely our launching pad: our appearance, education,
job, money, success, and so on. These are the trappings of ego that help us get
through an ordinary day.
Please understand that the separate self is not bad or inherently deceitful. It is
actually quite good and necessary as far as it goes; it just does not go far enough.
Too often, it poses and substitutes for the real thing and pretends to be more
than it is. The separate self is bogus more than bad. We need the temporary
costumes of our egoic selves to get started, but they show their limitations when
they stay around too long.
When we are able to move beyond our separate self, it will feel as if we lost
nothing important at all. Of course, if we don’t know that there is
anything “beyond” the separate self, the transition will probably feel
like dying. Only after we have fallen into the True Self, will we be
able to say with the mystic Rumi (1207‒1273), “What have I ever lost
by dying?” [1] We have discovered true freedom and liberation.
When we are connected to the Whole, we no longer need to protect
or defend the smaller parts. We are connected to something
inexhaustible and unhurtable. The True Self cannot be hurt. I said
that at the National AIDS Conference one time, and it was one of the most
healing lines for that crowd. I got letters for months afterward; they realized the
“True You” is indestructible. All our hurts and feelings of being offended come
from our separate selves.
If we do not let go of our separate self/false self at the right time and in the right
way, we remain stuck, trapped, and addicted. (The traditional word for that was
sin.) Unfortunately, many people reach old age still entrenched in their egoic
operating system. Only our True Self lives forever and is truly free in this world.
[1] Rumi, “Tell Me, What Have I Lost?” in The Winged Energy of Delight: Selected
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self (Jossey-
Bass: 2013), 27‒29, 36; and
Separateness Is Suffering
Thursday, September 3, 2020
The idea of the two “selves” within every individual—the True Self and the
separate self—is a part of the perennial wisdom and a pathway for
transformation in most faith traditions. I share the thoughts of two writers, a
rabbi and a Sufi Shaikh (elder), on why this teaching is so central to mature
spirituality.
These are key reasons that the Center for Action and Contemplation
is dedicated to reinvigorating the teaching of Christian
contemplation. The consistent practice of contemplation helps to
uncover our true reality, essential Self, or fundamental “I.”
Unfortunately, separateness is the chosen stance of the small self which has a
hard time living in unity and love with the diverse manifestations of this One
Reality (i.e., ourselves, other people, and everything else). The small self takes
one side or the other in order to feel secure. It frames reality in a binary way: for
me or against me, totally right or totally wrong, my group’s or another group’s
opinion—all dualistic formulations.
That is the best the small egotistical self can do, yet it is not anywhere close to
adequate. It might be an early level of intelligence, but it is not mature wisdom.
The small self is still objectively in union with God, it just does not know it,
enjoy it, or draw upon it. Jesus asked, “Is it not written in your own law, ‘You
are gods’?” (John 10:34). But for most of us, this objective divine image has not
yet become the subjective likeness (Genesis 1:26‒27). Our life’s goal is to
illustrate both the image and the likeness of God by living in conscious loving
union with God. It is a moment by moment choice and surrender.
[1] Rami Shapiro, Perennial Wisdom for the Spiritually Independent: Sacred Teachings—
[2] Kabir Edmund Helminski, Living Presence: A Sufi Way to Mindfulness & the Essential
Self (Jeremy P. Tarcher/Putnam: 1992), 6.
Richard Rohr, Eager to Love: The Alternative Way of Francis of Assisi (Franciscan Media:
2014), 70.
Virtually all the great spiritual traditions of the world share the
conviction that humanity is the victim of a tragic case of mistaken
identity. There is a “self” and a Self, and our fatal mistake lies in
confusing the two. The egoic self . . . is in virtually every spiritual
tradition immediately dispatched to the realm of the illusory, or at
best, transitory. It is the imposter who claims to be the whole. This imposter
can become a good servant, but it is a dangerous master. Awakening—which in
Jesus’ teaching really boils down to the capacity to perceive and act in
accordance with the higher laws of the Kingdom of Heaven—is a matter of
piercing through the charade of the smaller self to develop a stable connection
with the greater Self . . . becoming intimate with our spiritual identity, the sense
of selfhood carried in our spiritual awareness. . . .
Gateway to Action & Contemplation:
What word or phrase resonates with or challenges me? What sensations do I
notice in my body? What is mine to do?
Cynthia Bourgeault, Centering Prayer and Inner Awakening (Cowley Publications: 2004),
81, 82-83.
Wounded Healers
If I were to name the Christian religion, I would probably call it “The Way of the
Wound.” Jesus agrees to be the Wounded One, and we Christians are these
strange believers in a wounded healer. We come to God not through our
strength but through our weakness. We learn wisdom and come to God not by
doing it all right but through doing it all wrong.
If you were going to create a religion, would you think of creating, as your
religious image, a naked, bleeding, wounded man? It is the most unlikely image
for God, the most illogical image for Omnipotence. None of us in our wildest
imagination would have come up with it. It must expose a central problem of
human existence, for God to come into the world in this form and in this way.
Sadly, we Christians have become accustomed to the cross—perhaps
we have domesticated it—and we no longer receive the shock and the
scandal of all that this image of failure is saying. Being wounded,
suffering, and dying are the quickest and most sure paths to truly
living.
Only the Great Self, the True Self, the Godself, can carry the anxiety
within us. The little self can’t do it. People who don’t pray can’t live
the Gospel because the self is not strong enough to hold the anxiety
and the fear. If we do not transform our pain, we will always
transmit it. Always someone else has to suffer because we don’t
know how to suffer; that’s what it comes down to.
Most people are like electric wires: what comes in is what goes out. Someone
calls us a name, and we call them a name back. That is, most people pass on the
same energy that is given to them. Now compare an electric wire to those big,
grey transformers that you see on utility poles. Dangerous current or voltage
comes in, but something happens inside that grey box and what comes out is, in
fact, now helpful and productive. That is exactly what Jesus does with suffering.
That is what Jesus did: he did not return the negative energy
directed at him—not during his life nor when he hung on the cross.
He held it inside and made it into something much better. That is
how “he took away the sin of the world.” He refused to pass it on!
Until the world understands that, there will be no new world.
Adapted from Richard Rohr, Dancing Standing Still: Healing the World from a Place of
Prayer (Paulist Press: 2014), 78–80.
A Mutual Vulnerability
Wednesday, September 16, 2020
Earlier this year, my colleague and dear friend Jim Finley gave an
unpublished talk to Illuman, an organization that supports men in authentic
spiritual development. Jim shared some stories from his own life, including
how he began to heal from his own childhood abuse and trauma with the help
of Thomas Merton, who was his novice master and spiritual director at the
Abbey of Gethsemani.
When I went in to see Merton for direction, I was eighteen years old, I was just
out of high school. Because of my trauma history I had this issue with authority
figures. So when I went in to try to talk to him, I hyperventilated; I had a hard
time breathing. And he said to me, “What's going on?” I told him, my voice was
shaking, and I said, “I'm scared because you're Thomas Merton.”
Adapted from James Finley, “An Illuman Watering Hole Zoom Event,” (June 18, 2020),
unpublished presentation. To learn more about this organization and its work, see
www.illuman.org/about/.
Wounded Healers
It seems that everybody wants to take easy sides. It’s so consoling for the ego to
have an answer; to be sure that my position is the final and only true answer.
Yet, as Paul says, on the cross Jesus becomes the sin and the problem. He
identifies with the wound, the pain, and the suffering (2 Corinthians 5:21). He
does not stand apart from it but enters into it. What a paradox, what a mystery!
Jesus tells Peter, “Peter, you must be sifted like wheat. And once you have
recovered, then you, in your turn, can strengthen your companions” (Luke
22:31–32). Until there has been a journey through suffering, I don’t believe that
we have true healing authority. We don’t have the ability to lead anybody
anyplace new unless we have walked it ourselves to some degree. In general,
we can only lead people on the spiritual journey as far as we
ourselves have gone. We simply can’t talk about it beyond that.
That’s why the best thing we can do for people is to stay on the
journey ourselves. We transform people to the degree we have been
transformed. When we can somehow be compassion, not just talk
about compassion; when we can be healed and not just talk about
healing, then we are, as Henri Nouwen said so well, “wounded
healers,” but not before.
It always comes through the wounding. What we do when faced with our
deepest wounds determines whether there is authentic spirituality at work or
not. If we seek to blame other people, accuse, attack, or even explain
and make perfect, logical sense out of our wounds, there will be no
further spiritual journey. But if, when the wounding happens, we
find the grace and the freedom to somehow see that it’s not just a
wound, but a sacred wound, then the journey progresses. Then we
set out to find ourselves, to find the truth, and to find God.
It’s all about what each of us does with the wound. If we ourselves
have never walked through some kind of suffering, whether betrayal,
abandonment, rejection, divorce, loss of job, struggles with
sexuality, we probably will give people “head” answers. We don’t
touch or heal their hearts because our own have not been
transformed. I don’t think it’s any accident that in most of Jesus’ healings, he
physically touches people. He’s showing that healing cannot be done through
the head, through explanations, theories and theologies, or quick, “logical”
conclusions. It must somehow be a communication of life and love energy, held
even at the cellular level.
Ministry can indeed be a witness to the living truth that the wound,
which causes us to suffer now, will be revealed to us later as the
place where God intimated [God’s] new creation. —Henri J. M.
Nouwen (1932–1996)
In the work I have done with men’s spirituality, we call that suffering
in its transformed state “the sacred wound.” The sacred wound is a
concept drawn from classical mythology, but also from the Christ
story. In mythology, the would-be hero is always wounded. The word
innocent (innocens, “not yet wounded”) is not a complimentary term
in mythology. The puer is the young boy (puella for the young girl)
who refuses to be wounded. More precisely, he refuses to recognize
and suffer the wounds that are already there. He’s just going to
remain nice and normal so everybody will accept him. In our
culture, he might smugly remain white and middle class, healthy,
“sinless,” Catholic, good-looking, and happy. Maybe he will drive a
fancy car or wear the latest clothing. He refuses to let things fall
apart. He refuses to be wounded, much less to allow the humiliating
wound to become sacred and sanctifying. Yet, I personally believe
that the Gospels are saying there is no other way to know something
essential. Allowing our always-unjust wounds to, in fact, become
sacred wounds is the unique Christian name for salvation. We
always learn our mystery at the price of our innocence.
We must trust the pain and not get rid of it until we have learned its
lessons. The suffering can be seen as a part of the great pattern of
how God is transforming all things. If there is one consistent and
clear revelation in the Bible, it is that the God of Israel is the one who
turns death into life (see Isaiah 26:19; Romans 4:17; 2 Corinthians
1:9). When we can trust the transformative pattern, and that God is
in the suffering, our wounds become sacred wounds. The actual and
ordinary life journey becomes itself the godly journey. We trust God
to be in all things, even in sin and suffering.
Healing Is a Process
Thursday, September 17, 2020
I have been recently introduced to the work of Lama Rod Owens, a Black,
queer, American-born, Tibetan Buddhist teacher, who was raised in the
Christian church and graduated from Harvard Divinity School. Perhaps it is
because of his many identities that his teachings on love, self-compassion, and
justice seem to be drawn from the perennial wisdom of Reality itself. He
writes here of the needed work of healing our own wounds so that the healing
can be passed on:
Healing is being situated in love. Healing is not just the courage to love, but to
be loved. It is the courage to want to be happy not just for others, but for
ourselves as well. It is interrogating our bodies as an artifact of accumulated
traumas and doing the work of processing that trauma by developing the
capacity to notice and be with our pain. If we are to heal, then we must allow our
awareness to settle into and integrate with the pain and discomfort that has
been habitually avoided. We cannot medicate the pain away. We embrace it, and
in so doing establish a new relationship with the experience. We must see that
there is something that must be befriended. This is the true nature of our
experience, and in finally approaching this experience we contact basic sanity. . .
.
Healing means we are holding the space for our woundedness and allowing it to
open our hearts to the reality that we are not the only people who are hurt,
lonely, angry, or frustrated. We must also release the habitual aggression that
characterizes our avoidance of trauma or any discomfort. My goal is to befriend
my pain, to relate to it intimately as a means to end the suffering of desperately
trying to avoid it. Opening our hearts to woundedness helps us to understand
that everyone else around us carries around the same woundedness. . . .
Perhaps what I have come to understand, finally, is that somehow I have
become the one I have always wanted. This is why I do the things that I do.
There is a fierce love that wakes me up every morning, that makes me tell my
stories, refuses to let me apologize for my being here, blesses me with the
capacity to be silent, alone, and grieving when I most need to be. You have to
understand that this is what I mean when I say healing.
May all beings be seen, held kindly, and loved. May we all one day surrender to
the weight of being healed.
A Healing Community
While all Christians are called to follow Jesus, some communities have been
brought deeper into the Paschal Mystery of death and resurrection through
unjust and unrelenting collective suffering. Dr. Diana L. Hayes, an African
American Catholic theologian and scholar, describes the “wounding” of the
African American community and their faithful courage which has brought
forth so many sacred gifts in the United States and beyond. She writes:
African American spirituality was forged in the fiery furnace of slavery in the
United States. The ore was African in origin, in worldview, in culture, and in
traditions. The coals were laid in the bowels of ships named, ironically, after
Jesus and the Christian virtues, which carried untold numbers of Africans to the
Americas. The fire was stoked on the “seasoning” islands of the Caribbean or the
“breeding” plantations of the South where men, women, and children of Africa
were systematically and efficiently reduced to beasts of burden and items of
private property. Yet those who came forth from these fires were not what they
seemed. Despite the oppressive and ungodly forces applied against them, they
forged a spirituality that encouraged hope and sustained faith, which enabled
them to build communities of love and trust and to persevere in their persistent
efforts to be the free men and women they had been created to be. . . .
The African American spiritual story is one of hope in the face of despair, of
quiet determination in the face of myriad obstacles, of a quiet yet fierce dignity
over against the denial of their very humanity. Theirs is a spiritual history
literally written in the blood, sweat, and tears of countless foremothers and
forefathers who died under the lash, were sold as commodities, were treated as
less than human beings, but who struggled and survived despite and in spite of
all the forces arrayed against them. It is the story of their encounter with Jesus
Christ who enabled them to find a “way out of no way,” who justified their self-
understanding as children of God, and who enabled them to persist in the belief
that one day they would be free.
Wounded Healers
When we can trust that God is in the suffering, our wounds become sacred
wounds and the actual and ordinary life journey becomes itself the godly
journey. (Sunday)
Until there has been a journey through suffering, I don’t believe that we have
true healing authority, or the ability to lead anybody anyplace new. (Monday)
Despite the oppressive and ungodly forces applied against them, African
Americans forged a spirituality that encouraged hope and sustained faith,
which enabled them to build communities of love and trust. —Diana L. Hayes
(Tuesday)
When you risk sharing what hurts the most in the presence of someone who
will not invade you or abandon you, you can discover within yourself what
Jesus called the pearl of great price, your invincible preciousness in the midst
of your fragility. —James Finley (Wednesday)
Healing is learning to love the wound because love draws us into relationship
with it instead of avoiding feeling the discomfort. —Lama Rod Owens
(Thursday)
Being wounded, suffering, and dying are the quickest and most sure paths to
truly living. (Friday)
On the margins of the Roman Empire, Ireland and Scotland helped hand
down the Christian contemplative lineage. The Romans had conquered much
of Europe by the time of Jesus’ birth; though they ruled Britain, the Romans
never occupied Ireland or parts of Scotland. This allowed the Celtic culture
and Christian monks the freedom to thrive independently. They weren’t
controlled by Roman practicality or Greek thinking. When Christian
missionaries arrived by the third century, the Celts blended their pagan or
creation-based spirituality with Christian liturgy, practice, and structure. As a
result, Celtic Christianity was still grounded in the natural world, and they
had much easier access to a cosmic notion of the Christ.
Like the Desert Fathers and Mothers who influenced them, Celtic mystics
focused on rather different things than the mainstream church. The Celts drew
on their own cultural symbols and experience to emphasize other values than
the symbols of “Roman” Catholicism. For example, Celtic Christianity
encouraged the practice of confession to an anam cara (soul friend) more than
to an ordained priest.
They also saw God as a deep kind of listening and speaking presence, as in
“The Deer’s Cry.” I invite you to read this excerpt of St. Patrick’s traditional
prayer slowly, and to allow yourself, like the ancient Celts, to become aware of
the presence of Christ surrounding you through all things.
I arise to-day:
vast might, invocation of the Trinity,—
belief in a Threeness
confession of Oneness
meeting in the Creator. . . .
I arise to-day:
might of Heaven
brightness of Sun
whiteness of Snow
splendour of Fire
speed of Light
swiftness of Wind
depth of Sea
stability of Earth
firmness of Rock.
I arise to-day:
Might of God for my piloting
Wisdom of God for my guidance
Eye of God for my foresight
Ear of God for my hearing
Word of God for my utterance
Hand of God for my guardianship
Path of God for my precedence
Shield of God for my protection
Host of God for my salvation . . .
I arise to-day:
vast might, invocation of the Trinity
belief in a Threeness
confession of Oneness
meeting in the Creator. [1]
When we are content and satisfied on the inside of any group, we seem to suffer
from a structural indifference. We do not realize that it is largely a belonging
system that we have created for ourselves. It is not until we are excluded from a
system that we are able to recognize its idolatries, lies, or shadow side. It is the
privileged “knowledge of the outsider” that opens up the playing field. People
can be personally well-intentioned and sincere, but structurally they cannot
comprehend certain things. In his ministry, Jesus quotes the call of Isaiah to
describe this collective social disregard: “You will hear and hear again, and not
understand, see and see again and not perceive . . .” (Isaiah 6:9; Mark 8:18).
Insiders are by nature dualistic because they divide themselves from the so-
called outsiders.
I believe it is for that reason that so many saints and mystics and even everyday
people have chosen to live their entire lives at the edges of most systems. They
take their small and sufficient place in the great and grand scheme of God by
“living on the edge of the inside.” They build on the solid tradition (“from the
inside”) but from a new and dynamic stance (“on the edge”) where they cannot
be co-opted by a need for security, possessions, or the illusions of power.
People such as Francis and Clare of Assisi try to live on the margins so they will
not become enamored by the illusions and payoffs of prevailing systems. They
know this is the only position that ensures continued wisdom, ever-broadening
perspective, and even deeper compassion. Such choices may be seen in the lives
of monks, nuns, hermits, or Amish communities. There are softer forms, too,
like people who do not watch TV, people who live under the level of a taxable
income, people who make prayer a major part of their day, people who
deliberately place themselves in risky situations for the greater good. It is ironic
that we must go to the edge to find the center, but that is what prophets,
hermits, and mystics invariably do.
Benedictine Sister Laura Swan has written about the spirituality of the Desert
Mothers, and describes the quest for wholeness and salvation for which these
seekers thirsted and could find only outside the mainstream society:
The desert ascetics’ relationships were nonpossessive: They cared for others
while leaving them free. Concern for reputation was discarded. Feelings were
acknowledged and listened to for their wisdom but were subjected to the
discipline of the heart’s goal to seek God. The desert ascetics sought to mortify
disordered passions that distracted them from their deepening relationship with
God and actively to cultivate a burning love for God.
Although the journey began with giving away possessions, desert ascetics
understood that what possessed them was greater than the sum of goods owned.
All that owned them, all that possessed their minds and hearts, their
attachments and compulsions, must be healed and reconciled. Desert ascetics
called this process of moving toward inner freedom detachment. Detachment
allows for greater direct experience of the Divine Presence as the seeker is
attached to fewer distractions.
Desert ascetics understood that the cultivation of inner freedom was vital to the
deepening of their experience of God. As they deepened their interior freedom,
all aspects of their false self were removed and a clearer understanding of their
truest self emerged. It is this true self that dwells deeply with God. In the
abundant simplicity of our true self, we experience deepest joy. [2]
We have a lot to learn from communities like the beguines, or later, the
Quakers and Mennonites. These movements are made up of little groups, often
on the margins of society, sharing the Word of God and their lives together.
We might recognize this spirit at work today in the “base communities” of
Latin America, in small Bible study groups, or new monastic “intentional
communities.” They reveal to us the freedom of the Gospel. Author Laura
Swan, a Benedictine nun, has studied Christian women’s spirituality
movements and writes about the alternative lifestyle of the medieval beguines:
The beguines began to form in various parts of Europe over eight hundred years
ago—around the year 1200. Beguines were laywomen, not nuns, and thus did
not take solemn vows and did not live in monasteries. The beguines were a
phenomenal way of life that swept across Europe, yet they were never a religious
order or a formalized movement. And they did not have one specific founder or
rule to live by. But there were common elements that rendered these women
distinctive and familiar, including their common way of life, chastity and
simplicity, their unusual business acumen, and their commitment to God and to
the poor and marginalized. These women were essentially self-defined, in
opposition to the many attempts to control and define them. They lived by
themselves or together in so-called beguinages, which could be single houses for
as few as a handful of beguines or, as in Brugge, walled-in rows of houses
enclosing a central court with a chapel where over a thousand beguines might
live . . .
The inner spiritual world of the beguines was rich in imagination. These women,
and some of their monastic contemporaries, instigated a seismic shift in the
province of the imagination, bringing their embodied experience of God and
their spiritual journey into a broadened and deepened inner realm. Beguine
mystics experienced a fiercely intimate encounter with the Divine—whom they
called both “God” and “the One”. . .
For these women, prayer was being in the presence of God, seeking to unite
their minds and hearts with the One they loved (and whom they frequently
referred to as their “Beloved”). A central goal in life for beguines was unity of
will—that their personal will would become so united with the will of God that
they essentially functioned as a unified whole. God’s heart would be the seeker’s
heart; the seeker’s heart would find a home in God and God alone. This unity of
will would be evidenced by joy, mercy and compassion, and love. . . .