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alt.self-improve FAQ
Version 2.5 (1-15-1997)
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Introduction to alt.self-improve
This document is constantly being revised and improved. Most of the materials
collected so far has been summarized based on past postings to the newsgroup.
Therefore, there may be errors due to the source or the deletion of certain
information. Also, some of the information presented may be biased toward the
interests and perspectives of the editors. Hopefully both of these errors and
bias can be eliminated with your feedback. Please help to expand and perfect
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
A/ Self-Improvement Methods
1. Career
- Information Management
- Sales and Negotiation
- Time Management
2. Emotional
- Morris Acting / Method Acting
- NLP
3. Financial
- Savings and Investment
- Real Estate
- Get-Rich-Quick Scams
- Success Vs Money
4. Mental
- Accelerated Learning
- Creativity Enhancement
- Hypnosis
- Meditation
- Memory Systems
- Mind Machines
- Speed Reading
- Virus of the Mind
5. Physical
- Baldness Cures and Consequences
- Body Work
- Eye Sight Improvement
- Health Food
- Voice Work
6. Relationship / Social
- Men and Women
7. Spiritual
- Religion and Self-Esteem
- Magic and Pseudo-Paranormal Phenomena
B/ Established Disciplines
1. Anti-Cult Movements
2. Est
3. Landmark (The Forum)
4. Life-Long Learning Association
5. Lifespring
6. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
7. The People's Network
8. Scientology / Dianetics
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FAQ CONTENTS
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A/ Self-Improvement Methods
1. Career
- Information Management (reprinted from Sharing Ideas)
The world is moving fast into the "Information Age." Part of the
communication that we do every day will be involved in exchanging information.
Those who are in business will need to be able to gather and
provide information on consumer trends, economic data, legal issues, financial
sources, networking opportunities, and many other things to succeed in your
venture.
Lack of a piece of important information can cost you time and money.
The ability to manage information is equally important to an engineer,
a musician, a real estate agent, a nurse, or a teacher. Just think back on your
own experiences and on those of people you know. How often have you erred or
made a poor decision because you didn't have the right information in advance?
Perhaps you've wasted time driving in the wrong direction because you thought
you could find the destination. Perhaps you're being passed over for a
promotion because you don't seem to "know much," according to your boss.
While many have little awareness of information's vital role, they often
simultaneously suffer from a feeling of information overload. Reports, books,
mailings, and memos seem overwhelming. Implementation of the "Information
Superhighway" further adds massive information data.
Some may think that this is a problem of too much information, but in reality,
it is due a lack of information consciousness and of the ability to find and
manage the appropriate information effectively. The solution is to increase
information awareness. Ask specific questions to identify and find the most
useful and relevant information.
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- Time Management
You really don't need anything else except your own motivation.
Happy Reading!
(From: hughes@atlanta.emna.slb.com (Jeff Hughes))
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2. Emotional
Have you ever wondered how you can manage your emotions from this minute to
the next? I have, and I think the answer is a combination of Method Acting/
Morris Acting and NLP techniques.
Bill Moyers describes the benefits of Method Acting in his book and public
television series: "Healing and the Mind." A more comprehensive
work is done by Dale Anderson, the President of Medical Speakers
Association. He describes the concepts and benefits of Method Acting and
acting in general in his 1995 book, "Act Now." Unfortunately, he doesn't
teach you how to practice Method Acting.
What Eric Morris did to Method Acting was what Richard Bandler did to
Erickson Hypnosis. He found/created a structure to practice Method Acting
and then expanded on it. I first witnessed his most impressive work at his
5-day acting Jamboree in 1994. It was the most exhilarating and meaningful
experience I've ever had, not to mention the high quality of his students.
All of them are warm and caring and have learned to be self-accepting
and non-judgemental about others. A few of his former students are
Jack Nicholson, Melanie Griffith, Terri Garr, and Arnold Schwarzenegger.
Morris Acting can be divided into two parts: (1) Instrumental work and
(2) Craft work. Instrumental work is about dealing with yourself. He has
developed hundreds of exercises to eliminate your emotional blocks and
conditioned responses to achieve an authentic being state. I've heard a lot
of advice on "be yourself" but no one except Eric Morris really teaches you
how to "be your authentic self" by removing excessive social obligations and
family conditioning. Craft work is about managing your emotional
states, and there are twenty-seven choice approaches.
Eric's work is summarized in his four books: (1) Being and Doing, (2) No
Acting Please, (3) Irreverent Acting, and (4) Acting from the Ultimate
Consciousness. You can get these books from your local bookstore.
- NLP
The phobia cure pattern is the trademark of NLP. The principle behind this
pattern is to detach yourself from a fearful experience by using multiple
dissociations. A simple dissociate state is when you can see yourself or
a just-like-you person in your experience. In other words, you take an
"observer" position as if you're watching a movie of yourself. The next
step might involve playing with the submodalities of your experience.
For example, you can move the picture of your fear 20 feet from where it used
to be, turn it upside down, tune it into black and white,
put sweet music into it, and etc.
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3. Financial Management
The most well known source of information about personal finance information
is probably Charles Givens. He gives seminars around the country and is the
author of the best-selling books, "Wealth Without Risk" and "Financial Self-
Defense." He is also the founder of the "Charles J. Givens Organization"
which is supposedly the largest organization of its type in the world, that
is dissiminator of personal finance information and advice. His organization
was recently sued in Iowa for giving misleading financial advice. See
Newsweek (May 17, 1993) for more details. The whole thing was later settled
out of court for a large amount of money.
Charles Givens has also reportedly lied about the story he often tells of losing
and regaining his millionaire fortune three times. He also claims that he made
his riches in real estates. Some critics argue that he made more money by
selling his organization memberships ($500 and $1,000) and from his get-rich-
quick real estate and business investment programs. <tom@transcore.com>
has taken his real estate seminar and feels that it's worth the money. However,
he feels that everything else is overpriced and oversold. The comprehensive
real estate investor program, for example, is priced at $10,000.
(b) A good book to read is called "Your Money Or Your Life" by Joseph
Dominguez and Vicki Robin. This book takes a "holistic" approach to financial
success, meaning that it treats finances as an integral part of your entire
life, not one separable part that can be talked about separately. It discusses
attitudes toward money, spiritual feelings about money, whether how you are
making money is consistent with your values, etc.
Robert Allen gives a lot of street-smart advice in his book, "Nothing Down."
Basically, it's about how to buy properties by negotiating with the buyers
for everything except cash payment (unless you can buy the properties at a
wholesale price). The key is to find a "motivated seller."
In real estate, the key to a good buy is its location. It's much better to
buy the worst property in a good neighborhood than to buy the best property
in a poor neighborhood. The value of a property depends on its neighborhood.
In short, Robert has some solid advice for seasoned investors as well as
first-time home buyers. Good use of his book can save you lots of $$$.
- Get-Rich-Quick Scams
Just send all your possessions to the first person on this list then add
your name to the bottom and move each other name up one place. Then just
wait by your mailbox TO BECOME RICH!!!
- Success Vs Money
[The First Law is "Money will come when you are doing the
right thing". Marsha Sinetar later rephrased this in her book "Do
What You Love, The Money Will Follow". Note the underlying
assumption that "what you love" is actually "the right thing".
This comes from the Zen concept of "right livelihood", which is
discussed in a number of popular "career" books.]
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4. Mental
- Accelerated Learning
In the first stage of a session, pupils are seated (or sit on cushions) in a
comfortable room and are encouraged to relax, get themselves into a positive
frame of mind and visualize a time when they experienced real joy at
successfully learning something.
Once everyone is relaxed, the teacher will start some music. The best music
has been found to be Baroque music, by composers like Bach, Handel and
Vivaldi, at a tempo of about sixty beats per minute (60bpm). The students are
asked to breath in time to the music to increase their relaxation - a common
method is to breath in for four seconds, hold it for four seconds, breathe out
for four seconds and pause, in time with the music.
The teacher then reads the material to be learned, again in time with the
music, and varying the tone and volume of his/her voice. If the material is,
for example, the basic vocabulary of German, the teacher will read an English
word, followed four seconds later by the German equivalent. The idea is the
material will "imprint" itself on the minds of the students, with little
conscious effort by them.
The second stage involves revising the material through play, the idea again
is to make the session as relaxed and enjoyable as possible.
The only audio material being produced at the moment (as far as we know) is
by Colin Rose, who has also written a book on the subject (called, strangely
enough, "Accelerated Learning"). You also might want to dig out a copy of
"Superlearning" by Maria Ostrand, which describes the history of Accelerated
Learning in detail and gives a complete guide to doing it yourself.
Dr. Roger Sperry was awarded the Nobel Prize for his work on the "split-brain
theory" in 1981. According to his study, the brain has two hemispheres
with different but overlapping qualitative functions. The left and right
hemispheres share and communicate their information through a nerve bundle
called the corpus callosum. According to this theory, the left hemisphere
digitizes the content and organizes the logic while the right hemisphere
handles emotional impressions and responses. The left hemisphere is basically
"fact friendly," while the right hemisphere is more "idea friendly." This
distribution of mental functions brings about some qualities that are
specifically associated with each hemisphere.
Your hands are only one of your body parts that you can use to help
stimulate a fresh perspective. Exercising other nondominant parts of
your body will greatly enhance the whole experience. Next time, when
you're watching a movie, sit on the side of the theater that you
would normally avoid. If you like to wink with your right eye, try
using your left eye. Dr. Robert-Michael Kaplan, an eye vision fitness
trainer and author of Seeing Beyond 20/20, has also suggested wearing
an eye patch over your dominant eye. Do this for a few hours a day to
improve your overall vision. It will teach you about seeing instead
of just looking at things.
- Creativity Enhancement
The best books to start in creativity enhancement are "A Kick in the Seat of
the Pants" by Roger von Oech and "What A Great Idea!" by Charles Thompson.
Roger will introduce you to the four stages of creativity, namely EXPLORER,
ARTIST, JUDGE, and WARRIOR. Charles will teach you techniques used by the
world's most creative people, such as Dr. Yoshiro NakaMats. Yoshiro is the
inventor of the digital watch, the floppy disk, and the CD. Known as the
Edison of Japan, he has over 2,300 patents, more than double the 1093 held
by Thomas Edison.
* For those in science, you'll love "Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!" and
"What Do You Care What Other People Think?" by Richard Feynman. Richard was
the most wacky character in physics: he cracked the safe containing atomic
bomb secrets in the 40s, got his Nobel prize because of his PLAYFUL CURIOSITY
in calculating the relationship between the rotation and up-and-down wobbling
of a plate, and identified the cause for Challenger space shuttle explosion
by dropping a rubber bend into a glass of ice water.
* Another well-known speaker in this area is Edward deBono, who has coined the
term "lateral thinking" and written half a dozen of books on it. The basic
idea of lateral thinking is that instead of moving directly and automatically
from a goal to a solution, the mind searches in many different directions to
find a solution. It involves avoiding solving problems in the most familiar
or obvious way. His books are quite readable and enjoyable. Personally, the
editor finds that there are too many exercises and not enough substance for
real world applications.
- Hypnosis
Hypnosis can be used in many ways for self-improvement. It can allow the
mind to utilize its resources in new ways and to change behavior and create
new desired behaviors. To learn more about hypnosis, read the newsgroup
"alt.hypnosis," which has a very good FAQ. There is a web site describing
hypnosis training by Tad James as well (See References and Resources).
Tad has recently been elected to be the President of the American Board of
Hypnotherapy (ABH).
- Meditation
Many people in this group have had some experience with meditation. Some
reported very good results, while others didn't. The topic is not often
discussed in detail in alt.self-improve although it does seem relevant.
A better place might be "alt.meditation."
- Memory Systems
Quite often the question comes up regarding memory systems. One has either
read a book, or has seen an infomercial concerning it. Do they work and are
they worth the money?
In modern times we have books, audio cassettes, and video recordings all
teaching memory systems. One cannot really compare one system to another.
All have some good features to them. All are taught by people who have been
in the business or have studied it. Most of the systems utilize a principle
called mnemonics. Simply stated, this means assisting the human memory
by artificially adding mental pictures or images attached to the item to be
retained in our mind.
These systems do work, but you have to put in some time and effort to learn
the basics. Once you do this, you will find the systems learned will be
invaluable to you for the rest of your life.
Books on the retail market by Harry Lorayne and Tony Buzan are among the best
available, although others are equally effective.
One of the best background texts I have ever run across is by Kenneth Higbee
of Brigham Young University. He is the only one that has done the homework
in this business although others are now coming on line with more current
study findings. His book is titled "Your Memory - How it Works and How to
Improve it."
- Mind Machines
Mind machines are devices used for relaxation or to attempt to alter brain
states. These devices are usually worn on the head and use light or sound
effects. The scientific validity of their effectiveness has been debated
in the group with no conclusive answers.
Another popular supplier is Zygon which ads have appeared in Airline magazines
and TV infomercials. Their machines and tapes are fun to use, but their claims
are way out of line. They don't match up to their promises.
* Editors' Note: The best reference on this subject is "Mega Brain Power"
by Michael Hutchison. It has a complete review on just about every device on
the market. Some of these devices are:
(1) Biofeedback: Mind Pyramid, EEG Devices, Mind Mirror III,
NeuroSearch 24, Brain Tracer, GSR Systems, Antense EMG System.
(2) Light Power: Ott Full Spectrum Light System, Color Receptivity Trainer,
Relaxmate.
(3) Light & Sound: David Paradise, Photosonix Galaxy, Mastermind DLS.
(4) Electric Power: Alpha Stim 100, Nustar.
(5) Motion: Integrated Motion System, Symmetron Chair.
(6) Senses: Vibrasound, Genesis, Prosonic Induction, Discovery Sound Bed.
(7) Many more, including Richard Bandler's Neurosonic Tapes.
- Speed Reading
The most famous speed reading method is called "Evelyn Wood's Reading Dynamics".
You can learn this method through a number mediums including seminars, books,
cassette tapes, or computer software (1-800-447-READ). A book is also
available called "The Evelyn Wood 7 Day Reading & Learning Program",
ISBN 0380 715775, $4.99.
Most speed reading courses focus on a number of similar principles. One major
impediment to speed reading is subvocalizing (saying words to yourself while
reading). The motion of the eye is another key factor. Instead of reading just
one word at a time, you are taught to pick up phrases, sentences, lines, or
groups of lines in a single glance (depending on the method being taught).
In order to increase comprehension, some methods try to make the user more
active in the reading process by having the user take notes in a specific way,
ask questions before and after reading, etc.
There are more techniques for speed than just these. I used to crank along at
30K WPM. This 10 step plan is good for about 3K WPM or sometimes a little more.
The fantastic rates come from learning to scan in text essentially out of
order, grabbing entire paragraphs as your eyes pop around them almost at random.
As you read, try to ask questions to yourself about what is going on, or who
the material is suitable for, or something to allow you to "correlate" it.
If you are not reading with need or potential purpose in mind, your brain
won't remember it. In fact, your brain will not even process it. It will just
see words flying by. The purpose of studying for an exam just doesn't cut it.
You have to try to imagine using the material in the real world, or sifting
it for "junk" or planning something to do with it, and considering what effect
what you are reading will have on your plan or your needs. In short, your brain
will slowly get in the habit of "asking questions" at lightning speeds. It
won't even bother to sound these questions out or formulate them--just
instantly come up with them and compare them relative to the material being
read.
* Photo-Reading
Most of the class time was spent on standard speed reading techniques, such as
preview, skimming, review (they use other terms to describe it).
One student (fluke@netcom.com, Fred Fluke) suggested that the "Photo" part is
more a gimmick than a real technique. After doing the "Photo" process you still
have to go back and apply standard reading and/or speed reading techniques
(preview, summarize, find an application, correlate similar ideas, etc.) to
"activate" the information. Without the "activation" step they assert that
your "subconscious" knows the information but you don't have conscious access
to it.
A virus of the mind is something out in the world that infects people with
memes. Those memes, in turn, influence the infected people's behavior so that
they help perpetuate and spread the virus.
(1) Penetration
- Repetition
Hearing a similar message repeatedly on television.
Being in a group where something is read constantly.
Hearing a point of view repeatedly, e.g. gun control.
- Cognitive Dissonance
Going through an initiation or test.
Taking a confrontational or uncomfortable seminar that gives
a sense of relief at the end.
Reaching some goal or reward after a struggle or being told that you
are not good enough.
- Trojan Horse
Listening to a concept that mostly seems right, but has a few components
that kind of rub you the wrong way.
Hearing appeals to help children, resolve a crisis, feed hunger.
Being presented opportunities to get more sex or money by adopting
new beliefs.
Richard suggests that you practice Zen to disinfect yourself from mind viruses.
Zen practitioners learn to take in what their senses perceive and dissolve
the artificial distinction-memes of human ideas and concepts.
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