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But what about real life, where things don't always work out
so well? Arranged marriages occur in a number of countries,
such as Iran, Iraq, Afghanistan, Japan and India. They're
more common than you'd think even in North America,
where cultural diversity is cherished and encouraged.
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But what about real life, where things don't always work out
so well? Arranged marriages are commonplace in a number
of countries, such as Iran, Iraq, Afghanistan, Japan and
India. They're more common than you'd think even in North
America, where cultural diversity is cherished and
encouraged.
Arranging marriages is an insult to the very nature of
marriage, which should be about creating a loving and
lasting partnership and family. It reduces a central part of
what is fundamentally a religious ceremony (and every
religion, including Islam, guarantees choice) to a
commercial transaction and therefore undermines family
values. This is even more an issue where people come into a
country where marriage is seen as a central value that
should be free, where it is a specific challenge to any moral
code.
To allow arranged marriages leads to unacceptable pressure
on those involved. They are often reliant on the parents who
wish them to take part in arranged marriages for their futures
as well as their current welfare. Moreover, the line between
what constitutes an arranged and what constitutes a forced
marriage is so hazy it can·t be seen, as is the line between
legitimate and illegitimate influence. The law can help
children who are often seeking bargaining chips to help
them evade the pressure to marry from their family and
community.
Over to you.