Penetrate The Soul With A Kiss

Penetrate the soul
with a kiss
How to use your 5 senses
to make anyone
fall in love with you

By Tracy Montgomery 1
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Penetrate the soul
with a kiss
How to use your 5 senses
to make anyone fall in love with you
Contents
Introduction: What It Takes to Achieve Real Seduction...............................4
Part 1: Seeing and Being Seen.................................................................10
Part 2: From Being Heard to Listening.....................................................25
Part 3: Building Scented Memories......................................................... 37
Part 4: The Taste of Love........................................................................43
Part 5: The Ultimate Power of Touch.......................................................52
Summary: Coming to Your Senses.............................................................63

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Introduction:
What it Takes to Achieve Real Seduction
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Finding true love is hard work.
But how do you get the one you really want? How do you find a
dream lover to come into your life? How do you find them? And once
you do find them, how do you keep them?
In short, how do you achieve real seduction, the kind that
penetrates the soul?
This book is a quick summary of how to achieve real seduction.
I’ll be using a simple thematic “map” to show you how it’s done: your
five senses! I’ll teach you how to penetrate the soul of the one you
want, via sight, hearing, touch, taste and smell. You can use the five
senses as a starting point in understanding how to find, get and keep

your dream mate.
What’s real seduction?
You see, it’s not enough to simply imagine your dream mate. You
need to take action to ensure they come straight to you. You need to
imagine you have all the tools to penetrate the soul of the one you
want. You must make a favorable impression through your dream
mate’s own five senses, an impression so deeply entrenched in that

person’s mind that it is almost impossible for him or her to get you
out. Talk about getting under his or her skin—and eyes, nose, mouth,
and ears!
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Yes, it’s a sensual game of seduction. I know some of you are
thinking, “I am done with game playing. I just want to settle down with
someone who I can love and will love me back—no more games!”
But you should realize this now: whether you like it or not,
finding and keeping love is a game. And yet, unlike other games, the
object of the real seduction is for both you and your dream mate to
become winners. In the game of real seduction, nobody should
emerge the loser. You seduce your potential life mate, not to
dominate or control him or her, but to free both of you to truly love
one another. It’s not enough that you employ all the five senses to
seduce. You have to be sincere about loving each other for the real
seduction to occur!
And the game never ends. Even when you get married, you are
still playing the game—in fact, when you’re married, you need to get a
lot more creative to make sure the seduction game stays fun.
Typically, men like to be the ones to pursue, and women like to
be pursued. But there are no hard rules to the game of real
seduction, except one: make your dream mate feel that your
relationship is growing in an interesting way. If you don’t, both your

minds and hearts will be tempted to wander off to other things…and
eventually, to other people.
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Being personally ready
Before you embark on the game of seducing anyone through the
five senses, make sure you’re prepared.
Like any player of a game of sport, you must keep yourself
physically, psychologically and spiritually ready to play this game.
For real seduction, this means being ready to receive and give true
love.
It’s not enough to simply internalize your readiness for love
(eg. simply saying or thinking, “I am ready!”) You must constantly give
tangible evidence that you are indeed capable of seducing someone in
the name of true love. People in general—and your dream mate in
particular—must literally see, hear, touch, smell and taste how
willing and ready you are for love!

It’s not easy to prepare yourself for real seduction. Go ahead
and imagine yourself as an athlete and warrior, training hard for the
first prize—true love—because preparing for real seduction will be
hard. You can think of yourself as a perpetual student of seduction,
constantly in training, constantly trying to learn how to play the
game for the benefit of you and your dream mate.
For you to properly seduce someone in the name of love, you’ve
got to be a self-confident, sexy person. You must work on having
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your own poise and charisma. You should cultivate these until it
comes naturally to you, so when you walk down the street heads will
naturally turn to you. It also helps if you make sure your poise and
charisma stems from intelligence, and a deep understanding of other
people. Knowing how to deal with people confidently and
intelligently will have a stunning effect on others. You will have a
calm yet mysterious way about you. No one can “figure you out”, yet
you’ll know how to get into people’s minds. And if they become
enamored with you, they will have problems focusing on anything else
other than your presence.
But you won’t always be successful in the seduction game. To
continue playing this game until you find your one true love, you will
need to have inner strength and fortitude. You need to be a person
of good, strong character.
If you fail in love, you’ll have the strength to pick yourself up,
dust off and try again. There’s someone good out there, meant for
you and you alone!
Choosing a worthy “target”
Don’t waste your time and energy seducing everyone on sight,
just for the fun of it. Your personal mission is to find the one
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worthy of a lasting relationship and a lifetime of seduction. Just
one target!
Here are a few things to remember when envisioning your one
and only dream mate:
1. Make sure you know the sort of dream mate you want. Be very
clear with yourself on which specific traits you want in your dream
lover, and map it out. (If you aren’t journal writing about who your
dream lover will be like, now is a good time to start.)
2. However, make sure the dream mate you have in mind actually
matches who you really are. This person needs to be a complementary
and equal match--or you will never connect. Like attracts like,
always remember that.
3. Even while you continually improve yourself, you also need to
already believe you are good enough for your dream mate. You need
to see yourself as a grand magnet for this sort of person, so
effective that it would be nearly impossible for the two of you to
resist or be pulled apart.
With all that in mind, are you ready to find your one true love?
Good! Let’s get you back to your right (five) senses!
Tracy Montgomery
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Part 1:
Seeing and Being Seen
The first and most obvious sense common to nearly all of us is
sight.
When we want to find true love, our first instinct is to start
looking around for candidates. This is OK. But we forget that, before
we can see such prospective mates, we ourselves must first be seen.
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The ideal mate will only appear to the one who can himself or herself
be seen as an equally ideal mate.
Being seen
We human beings are programmed to scan our surroundings
every day for objects that we want. And whenever we see something
we want, we subconsciously take a photographic image of it and store
it in our minds as a memory. Anything that’s “out of sight” often
means it’s “out of mind”.
As a seeker of true love, you can use this natural human
programming to your advantage. You simply make yourself visible or
“within sight” to all prospective mates. Be striking!
And yet being visible to your prospects isn’t just a matter of
looking good. You also have to be very noticeable to the particular
type of mate you want. Your whole appearance should be so

memorable to the sort of mate you’re looking for that the first vision
of you is forever burned into his or her mind.
This means you have to first be:
1.) confident about who you really are

2.) clear about what sort of person you want to pair yourself with.
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Being confident
Getting yourself seen in a positive light starts from working on
yourself from within. Imagine your mind as a hidden jewel or oasis
you must cherish. Filling your mind with healthy images and thoughts
is one way of nurturing this treasure. You must strive to banish from
your mind all negative thoughts you’ve programmed yourself to
carry. Learning from past mistakes or making amends for any wrong
you’ve done is one thing. But psychologically berating yourself for
being a failure, long after everyone else has moved on, is a terrible
thing to do—don’t do this, for life is too short and precious to
waste time on such destructive thinking!
You must also strive to reflect how you think and feel about
yourself, in your appearance, actions and lifetime habits. Remember
that other people have to see that you have positive thinking.
Pay close attention to your physical health, personal grooming
and hygiene, fashion sense and habits. Do these reflect your
personality and character? Does your grooming and the clothes you
wear flatter and enhance how attractive you are to people? Does
how happy or content you are, with yourself and with life, show up on
your face and body?
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Conversely, how you take care of your health and
attractiveness also has a positive psychological effect on your
personality and character. Liking what you see in the mirror, and
being liked by the people you want to attract to you, helps reaffirm
your own worth as a human being.
And don’t stop at your physical appearance alone! Appearance
needs to be backed up by inner sincerity. If you want to be seen by
your dream mate, you will also need to reflect your inner positive
thinking in your outward actions. What sort of positive character
traits must your dream mate want to see in you, which you must
demonstrate? Think about depth of your character and the quality
of your heart. How would you demonstrate the goodness of who you
are, with every breath and move you make? How will such actions
attract the attention of a potential dream mate, and keep his or her
gaze riveted to you?

While first impressions are important, it’s consistency between
your inner thinking, actions and physical appearance that makes the
people you attract stay with you. Don’t dress and act like a
promiscuous sophisticate or a loud mouth punk if, deep inside, you
realize you aren’t one. Be consistent with who you really are, and
make this consistency visible to everyone.
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And when you take the trouble to maintain this kind of
consistency, you will develop self-confidence. This is the secret to
nurturing your own confidence.
Knowing who you want
Once you develop consistency and self-confidence, you will
become clearer and more confident about knowing what you want out
of life.
You’ll know what’s specifically good for you! You will know
what career to pursue, who your real friends and allies must be, and
what situations to avoid. Through your eyes, you can observe and
“read” every situation you come into. You should value your own
time, and put yourself only in places or with people that offer you
the most benefits.
It then follows that you will know what your dream mate should
be like.
Take the time and energy to reflect on the type of character you
want your dream mate to have. Be realistic, but don’t short-change
yourself either. Remember that it’s your dream mate’s character you
ought to be envisioning most of the time—and not so much the size of
his or her wallet or car.
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The reason for making the image of your dream mate clear in
your mind is for you to control yourself from becoming too
desperate in your search for true love. With such an image in mind,
you will clearly remind yourself that your “fantasy partner” should
be good enough for you—your dream mate has to have everything to
go the distance with you, for a long-term relationship! Don’t even
waste your time considering anyone whose character falls short of
this image.
When you know who you want, you can begin preparing yourself.
You can make yourself as attractive and likeable as possible to the
very sort of dream mate you want to have. You know who you want to
target. So make yourself visible to the sort of mate you want!
Ask yourself specific questions about how you ought to appear
before your dream mate. What would make an arresting,
unforgettable impression on your dream mate? What sort of fashion
sense or behavior would attract and keep such a mate—and what
would drive him or her away?
Remember, birds of the same feather flock together, so dress,
groom and conduct yourself according to the type of person you
want to attract. For example, look and dress the part of an
intelligent, sophisticated, artistic, generous, healthy, and wise man
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or woman. You will attract people who aren’t intimidated by
attractiveness and wisdom in one package. Don’t look or behave like
a hooker or gigolo if you don’t want the sort of people who actually
prefer mindless hookers or gigolos.
Seeing
Once you’ve prepared yourself to be seen by a prospective mate,
it’s time to know how to see which particular prospect you want to
draw in.
This is the part where you practice the skill of seeing the truth.
People’s real motives and characters are often hidden behind flashy
personalities and “décor”. Learn to be patient and observant when it
comes to people, and you will begin to discern who’s good or bad for
you.
Look with your eyes, but look closely! Not every single
prospective date or physically attractive person you see is a good
choice. You need to pay attention to the little behavioral cues or
words that people say or do which give away their true nature. You
can use these little clues to discern who your best dream mate
prospect will be. Again, be patient, for you will learn discernment
through trial and error.
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And when you finally realize who your dream mate is, you can
zero in your efforts on one particular person at a time—instead of
chasing after every single good-looking man or woman who comes
your way.
If you’re still searching for Mr. or Ms. Right, go look in the
right situations and places. I doubt if you’ll see him or her in places
like a singles bar—if you’ve been practicing discernment, you’ll know
what I mean when you see how bars like these are filled with too many
desperate individuals who may or may not be “single” at all.
Instead, try looking for him or her in venues or situations where
people are more inclined to show their true selves to you. For
example: charity events, community volunteer projects, coffee-and-
book clubs, art clubs, comedy clubs, sports teams or events, fitness
or martial arts clubs, religious gatherings, etc. You can even try
walking your dog along a beautiful pathway in a park or nature
reserve, and watch out for physically-fit individuals who clearly
value themselves, their health, and the beauty of the world around
them.
Though most people would try to be on their best behavior in
these events or situations, and not show their negative side, at least
they won’t be in a “hunt for a date” behavior mode.
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Casting a spell
Let’s say you finally spied your particular dream mate, and he
or she has noticed you in turn. So how do you burn a memory of you
into their minds and snag their heart forever?
Forever? Gulp. But I’m not joking! If you’re serious about

achieving real seduction of a particular person, forever is the only
level you can aim for.
We all are born with a sexual drive that pushes us to fantasize
about the person we want but don’t have yet. Such fantasies
sometimes take over us, making even the simplest tasks in life difficult
because our minds are distracted. The same is true of your
particular dream mate. If you can implant the most compelling vision
of you in their mind, you will have no trouble reaching their heart
and staying there for good!
Here are a few tips on how to cast that spell in your dream
mate’s eyes.
1. Look deeply into your dream mate’s eyes.
The way to a person’s soul is through the eyes, or so the old
saying goes, and it’s true.
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When someone looks deep into your eyes, your heart starts
beating a little faster, and you become less in control of yourself.
The same is true when you maintain eye contact with your dream mate.
But please, don’t mistake this for a silly teenaged staring
contest. When I say you should look deeply into your dream mate’s
eyes, I mean do it to discern his or her feelings, and to signal sincere
interest in what he or she is saying.
Yes, this also means that you will let yourself be vulnerable.
For as you look intently into your dream mate’s beautiful eyes, he or
she can easily look back into yours and see your true feelings about
them.
Be careful: you don’t want to “scare people off” by staring too
hard at them. In the wild, prolonged eye contact with some animals
prompts confrontation. People are no different; they’ll feel
uncomfortable if you stare at them like a maniac.
If you know when and how to use eye contact at the proper time,
and what sort of emotion should be expressed in your eyes, you can
use eye contact as a means of arresting someone’s attention—and
eventually seducing him or her.
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So what’s the “right” sort of gaze? One that’s warm, kind, and
sparkling—and sometimes smoldering! Imagine that your gaze alone
had the power to caress your dream mate’s body and soul!
2. Allow your happiness to sparkle through your eyes!
Since we’re talking about the right kind of gaze, remember that
a key component to it is happiness.
You have to show how sincerely happy you are when you are with
your dream mate. Let your eyes lovingly “drink” in the sight of your
dream mate! It will make him or her feel appreciated.
3. Let your eyes pay attention to details.
You have to let your dream mate know you’re a very observant
person when it comes to his or her life. Don’t ogle at your dream
mate—instead, pay attention to little details, and let him or her know
that you’ve noticed the “important stuff”.
You can pay attention to how beautiful her hair and lips are, or
how neatly he keeps his clothes or his fingernails clean. Keep
paying close attention to your dream mate every time you meet him or
her, and pretty soon you’ll easily see when he or she is troubled with
something even without you being told about it.
Then you can actually tell your dream mate what little details
you’ve noticed. It signals that you really care. “How beautiful your
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eyes are, they’re like the color of mahogany,” you can say. Or, “Are
you OK? Do you need anything? I noticed you look a little tired.
What can I do to help you?”
4. Don’t forget to be visually appealing!
You should pay the same level of attention to how attractive
you appear to a dream mate. Be neat and clean, well-dressed and
well-groomed. Wear something stylish and interesting, to complement
your looks. Wear a brilliant smile and have a relaxed, kind, and
light-hearted attitude. Keep yourself physically fit at all times.
5. Don’t forget to be interesting!
You should also be acting like the truly interesting person you
are.
Don’t go acting or looking like an immoveable and
unapproachable Ken or Barbie doll. Nobody is truly seduced by a
person who seem to be constantly “posing”—if you act like a ramp
model in a club or James Dean, you will come across as two-
dimensional, no matter how physically attractive you might be. (Yes,
vacuous but gorgeous models get ogled at and approached by many
people, but I doubt you would actually enjoy the sort of people who
pay attention only to physical beauty.)
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Instead, be a person of depth! A person with depth has great
imagination, with a varied range of interests and activities. Just
imagine how arresting a vision you’d be if, together with your good
looks, the first glance people get of you will most likely be when you
are in the middle of doing something intriguing or interesting.
In fact, you should orchestrate how people see you for the
first time, in every situation—especially when it comes to your dream
mate.
It all depends on the particular situation. For instance, if
you’ve arranged for your dream mate to meet you somewhere in a
restaurant, make sure you’re seated comfortably at a table under
ideal lighting conditions that flatter your appearance. Or you can be
“caught” doing something interesting or arresting by the time your
dream mate arrives to see you—you could be picking colorful
flowers, flying a kite with neighborhood children. You could be seen
sketching what’s in front of you into your little sketch pad, while
waiting for your dream date. You could even be seen playing a
musical instrument.
Orchestrating things includes choreographing how you “make an
entrance” into any room or venue. How you’re dressed, how you’ve
visually put yourself “together”, down to how you carry yourself
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and walk towards your dream date, should be done in a way that
captures his or her imagination.
No, this isn’t posing. You aren’t there to orchestrate things

and pretend to be who you’re not. It means taking what’s already
interesting about your true and fabulous self, and properly
presenting it to your dream mate in a way you know will impress.
You should be an overall “easy on the eyes” package, so your
dream mate becomes absolutely fascinated with you! Just imagine how
far you’ll go with that sort of visual impression!
Extra visual associations
Once you’ve snagged someone through visual appeal, the two of
you will naturally want to start dating.
Creating visual appeal doesn’t stop at making yourself “easy on
the eyes”. You also need to choose the right ambience or venue
whenever you and your dream mate meet. Much like an art director or
cinematographer, you must pick the best “backdrop” or “scene” where
the two of you can meet, talk, and have romantic moments together.
Picking the right venue is important. Remember, if your dream
mate eventually becomes your spouse, the places you walk through or
visit together become part of your treasured lifetime memories. These
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places start to mean something to you. You will associate them with
the love you have for one another.
So get creative with your “scenes”! Don’t be lazy and just tell
your dream mate that you’ll meet at the most convenient corner
coffee shop or mall. (You might as well tell your date to meet you at
McDonald’s!) Try your best to pick out a place so quaint, beautiful
or singularly memorable that will have your dream mate instantly
“imprint” the memory of it deep into his or her mind, associating it
with you.
It also helps if the place is interesting enough for the two of
you to do an activity that’s romantic and equally as interesting. So
go ahead—go out of your way to pick a special tree to carve your
names onto. Go find a waterfall or beach to stare at or swim in. Or,
if you can afford it, find the next best thing to a Venetian palace or
Shangri-La for the two of you to experience.
For it’s the combination of an attractive vision of you, and the
context of a charming place, that creates a vivid image, forever tying
you to your dream mate’s mind.
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Part 2:
From Being Heard to Listening
When it comes to creating a seductive first impression, hearing is
just as important as seeing. In fact, after you make that good first
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impression, it’s the proper use of the sense of hearing that actually
hooks and reels your dream date in!
Right from the beginning, your dream mate has to hear all the
right things about you and all the right words from you. This means
making sure that you are both: 1.) a completely attractive auditory
experience, and 2.) a wise and generous ear.
Listening
You must learn the skill of listening to others before you can
become someone your dream mate would love to listen to. People
won’t be willing to hang onto every word you say, if you don’t know
how to listen to them first.
Every person wants to feel understood. Whenever someone
takes the courage to speak about what they feel or know, he or she
will always need to feel that other people hear them, and that what
they have to say is valued by others.
Of course, being listened to and understood by others is an
experience you can’t always have 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
This is why a listening ear is such a precious commodity. Just imagine
what an attractive, precious jewel you’d be to any potential mate, if
you become that listening ear!
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Your dream mate will always want to feel that you believe and
understand every word that comes out of their mouth. He or she will
want to feel you are open to hearing who he or she is at the core
level. It means understanding your dream mate. It means making sure
you “get” everything he or she stands for.
And you need to make sure your “target” dream mate knows that
it’s so, right from the start! Here are a few important tips on how to
do so:
1. Do not judge or ridicule.
Whether you’re talking or listening to your dream mate, avoid
making fun or contesting whatever opinion he or she has about

things—no matter how strange or odd thy may be.
I mean, what’s the point? If you find your “dream mate” has
intolerable views about certain aspects of life or morals, then you’ve
simply made a mistake and this person isn’t truly who you want to be
with. You can say goodbye to him or her, and move on.
If, on the other hand, you find nearly everything about your
“dream mate” acceptable or near-perfect, you must ask yourself just
how important is it for you to shoot down or take a shot at your
dream mate’s opinions or feelings about a particular issue. Is it truly
a major issue, or not? If it’s only a minor issue that has nothing to
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do with morals (examples: weird choice of music; off-kilter fashion
sense; a fear of dogs, etc.), it should be easy to accept.
Just imagine what would happen if you fail to show you accept
these little quirks in your dream mate. How would he or she feel, if
every now and then a disparaging comment could be heard coming out
of your mouth? It’s safe to say that your dream mate will eventually
prefer not to be with you.
And so: make sure you let your dream mate hear that you accept
his or her opinions, without every judging or ridiculing them. Don’t
ever let your dream mate hear any negativity aimed in their direction!
2. Remind your dream mate you’re always listening.
Make sure that your dream mate knows at all times you hear him
or her.
In fact, rather than verbally reminding your target mate of your
willingness to listen, demonstrate that do you listen. Your dream
date should never feel the need to amplify his or her voice with you.
You should make him or her feel so comfortable that he or she want
to share all their deepest secrets with you, and you should elicit
this comfortable feeling consistently. Try your best to highlight
your ability to hear and understand everything, in this manner.
3. Encourage—and protect—the spilling of secrets.
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When you master the art of listening, your dream mate will start
trusting you within a short span of time. Don’t push for this trust
to develop; be patient. Along with sharing information about
everyday stuff, slowly but surely encourage your dream mate to tell
you his or her deepest desires. If you’ve earned the trust you
deserve, he or she will start divulging even the most sensual,
intimate details.
Once you have your dream mate’s secrets, take care to keep
them. You should tell no one else about these secrets. Make him or
her feel like you’re the exclusive confidante.
4. Remember spoken details.
Pay attention to the stuff your dream mate says—and doesn’t
say. Listen well and read between the lines he or she spills out, in
order to have a deeper understanding of who your dream mate truly
is.
Try to remember all the stories, names, places, events and other
anecdotal details that your dream mate shares with you. It will help
you gain a better picture of his or her whole life.
Being heard
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By listening effectively to what your dream mate says, you will
subsequently arm yourself with the wisdom to make him or her listen
to you as well.
Getting someone to trust and listen to you is the cornerstone
of real seduction. This is how you get into someone’s head and
heart, and stay there. Here are a few tips to make sure your dream
mate listens to you:
1. Become the voice of warmth.
Make your voice sound like an auditory version of warm chicken
soup, a warm bed, a soothing stream, or comforting wine.
It’s more than just dripping honey in your dream mate’s ear. The
warmth and comfort in your voice has to come straight from your
heart. In fact, be warm to the point of being sensual (note: this
means being sensitive and sexy, not crass or crude).
Merge deep kindness with sexual passion or sensuality. It’s the
best way to give depth to the seduction.
2. Have a sense of humor.
Having a sense of humor is one of the sexiest charms you could
ever have.
The kind of wit and humor I’m talking about here is one that your
dream mate should appreciate greatly. You must be funny by being
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intelligent, not snooty. You should be down-to-earth, not crass or
crude. And your humor should be less disparaging of others
(including your dream mate!), and more self-deprecating.
If you don’t believe me, think about why a few women still find
Woody Allen amusing enough to pay attention to him (longer than
they would with a male ramp model). Think about why they placed
Tina Fey on the cover of a magazine (even when some real-life fashion
police make negative comments about her personal taste in clothes).
It’s because their sense of humor makes them so appealing.
Laughter is always a good thing, and it’s especially true when
trying to seduce your dream mate.
There’s too much sadness around. When you bring laughter to
your dream mate, he or she will begin seeing you as a spiritual and
sensual oasis in life.
3. Practice tact.
Tact means knowing what to speak, when to speak, and where the
right place to speak would be.

Here you realize why sharpening your listening skills is key to
getting yourself heard. People listen and believe in you if you
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practice tact when you speak with others. But you won’t know what’s
tactful unless you spend time observing people in general, and the
people you want to entice in particular.
You’ll know, either by instinct or by heart, what to say that will
further endear yourself to the dream mate whose attention you’ve
caught. You will know how to make him or her smile or laugh, or
which kind words will comfort his or her aching heart. You’ll know
what sort of approach to take that will turn your dream mate’s heart
into putty in your hands!
You’ll know the precise time to say the right words. For
instance, a time may come when your dream mate seems upset over
something, you can put him or her at ease by guaranteeing you
understand why they’re upset, and sympathize greatly. And you’ll
know the precise moment when your dream mate’s ears and mind are
open to positive suggestions from you.
4. Maintain a good reputation.
Unless you’ve purposefully been living as a cranky hermit in
some remote corner of the world, word does get around within your
immediate community (eg. your obvious dating grounds) about what
sort of person you are.
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You should act like your own personal public relations
manager. No matter how small or wide your dating grounds are, make
sure you develop and maintain a reputation for being a kind,
trustworthy and interesting person to talk and listen to. Nothing
ruins your chances or a potential relationship with a dream mate than
a bad rep!
Extra associations
Beyond tips on listening and being heard, there are other ways
to achieve real seduction by ear.
1. Music
You need to have music in your life. Every relationship has its
appropriate “theme song” or soundtrack. There’s just something
that music can express which mere sounds and words can’t. Usually
it’s emotions that are too strong or wide for either one of you to
articulate properly, without resorting to embarrassingly florid
words.
But music can also create the proper ambience for the two of
you to be in. This is especially useful at times when you can’t find the
proper, visually-arresting place where you can spend time together.
Simply set a picnic in the park, or park your car at a scenic view, and
play the right music in the background. You don’t have to stick to
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one music genre—just be sure that it’s something that both of you
will like and can derive meaning and pleasure from. You can then
talk about the music—then segue into how you feel about one
another. Just imagine what vivid auditory memories you’ll be making in
your dream mate’s mind with this!
Tip: if you can play a musical instrument and/or sing, you
already have a lethal seduction weapon right there! Go use it!
2. Natural ambient sounds
Zen is about peace and order. You can also employ a Zen-like
approach to arranging which places you and your dream mate will
spend time in.
Order isn’t just about visuals; it’s about being surrounded by
appropriate sounds as well. You must pick a place that naturally has
sounds that appeal to both you and your dream mate. The sounds
must also be appropriate to the mood that both of you will most
likely be in for the time you’ll be there.
For example, if both you and your dream date like children, a
pleasant park where the sounds of birds and children in the distance
would be a relaxing meeting place.
Another easy example would be any place with the sight and
sound of water, like a fountain in a town square, running brook,
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garden pond, or beach. Even the sound of blowing wind can be
romantic, reminiscent of any English novel—so go find the top of a
building or cliff overlooking the city, a hill- or mountain- top.
Or if you both love the sound of a historic old quarter of the
city you’re in, go there and soak in the sounds of talented street
musicians and other performers busking for change.
3. Silence
Silence is golden, especially when it’s part of the seduction
process.
When I talk of “silence”, I don’t mean giving someone the coy,
silent treatment! I am talking about a golden calm or quietness
inside you and around you. You should strive to achieve this state.
Like birds to a peaceful sanctuary, people are drawn to persons who
have that peace or inner silence—and who cause their own
surroundings to acquire the same kind of peacefulness.
The same will be true of your dream mate. Create an experience
of inner and outer calm whenever the two of you meet. You will find
that it will help foster a silent, inner joy between you, one that your
dream mate can’t help but return to time and again.
Becoming “the voice” of encouragement
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It’s in the sense of hearing that your efforts to properly
seduce your dream mate turns into a mutual seduction.
If you’ve been trying your best to listen and be heard, after a
few meetings both you and dream mate will become each other’s one-
man cheering squads. You’ll know when you’ve effectively caught the
ear of your dream mate: both of you start looking at one another for
verbal encouragement in times of doubt. That’s what you should
expect from your dream mate. It’s also what you should practice
yourself.
It’s at this point when you seek each other’s warm friendly
voices first, above all others, whenever you seek encouragement.
You can easily give each one another gentle, friendly reminders when
one of you is “out of line”.
Pretty soon, after a few encounters with one another, neither
of you will hesitate to use that most intimate sound of all: that
steamy, sexual voice that gets you thinking only of your dream mate,
and everything they are saying they will do to you!
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Part 3:
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Building Scented Memories
The sense of smell should never be overlooked when trying to
penetrate the soul of the one you want. Sight and sound are what
get you into your dream mate’s mind. But scents, tastes, and touch
complete the sensual side of real seduction.
But first, you’ll need to reach your dream mate’ sense of smell.
The basic goal of seduction here is to have your dream mate’s

best, positive olfactory experiences in life to be associated with you.
You want the best smells in life to be connected to you, so anytime
your dream mate smells something, they think of you.
Seducing by way of the sense of smell is a simple and
straightforward affair, but it’s frequently overlooked. Don’t
neglect this area, as it will help you earn “points” with your dream
mate!
Be a true “scent-sation”
Your first job is to make sure that you are a positive scent
experience. Don’t assume you smell good—make sure you are!
Observe good hygiene by bathing or showering at least once a
day or after every time you sweat a lot. Be meticulous when it comes
to personal cleanliness and odor. (In other words, do as your

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mother used to say and make sure to clean behind your ears,
underneath toe- and fingernails, in your nose and navel!) Real
seduction deserves nothing less than this.
I’ve met physically attractive men and women who assume they’re
gorgeous but have lousy personal hygiene—a definite “turn-off”!
Another thing: if you don’t have this level of scrupulousness
when it comes to odor and cleanliness, start raising your standards.
If you don’t, your own olfactory nerves won’t do you the favor of
telling you that you stink—you’ll be so used to your usual
standards that your nose won’t be able to detect how you really
smell to other people.
Now, I am not asking you to become neurotically obsessed with
how you smell. Instead, aim to be pleasant and pleasing to the nose,
without being overpowering.
Therefore, even as you keep scrupulously clean, don’t go
overboard with the perfumed products and cologne. Aside from
causing probable allergic reactions for yourself and others, having
an overpowering fragrance or scent on your body can be an extremely
annoying experience for your dream mate. You’ll come across as
cheap and desperate, or as an expensive “high-maintenance”
personality.
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This is also why less is more when it comes to personal scents.
You should wear just enough to keep some interest, and that’s
it. If you wonder how much, it should never be more than one spray—
and always on the skin, not on the clothes. Try to use a scent-free
fabric softener, as you don’t want to start developing conflicting
scents. By limiting your own personal scent, you can use the power
of all other scents more effectively.
The best personal scent is one that is subtle, pleasant,
memorable and unique. If you can somehow achieve this by using a
little-known perfume or cologne that goes well with your body
chemistry and personality, do so. It’s part of what will make your
presence unforgettable!
Positive scent memories
Aside from smelling good yourself, you also need to create
other positive scent-experiences for your dream mate as well.
To illustrate what I’m talking about, imagine meeting your dream
mate at a quaint coffee shop. Whenever you sit down with this person
and start drinking your respective favorite coffee beverages, the
scent of this particular shop and its drinks will somehow remind you
of your dream mate later on.
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An even better, more sexually-charged example is a good dinner
with good wine. Make sure you and your dream mate take the time to
smell the food and wine properly, before taking a sip. You can
prompt your dream mate to do this by talking about the subtle notes
in the food and wine. (Yes, this takes study and practice.) I’m not
asking you to be a snooty foodie or gourmand (if you’re not into that
sort of thing). I merely want you and your dream mate to pay close
attention to the components of every good scent you encounter, as
part of creating a good sensory memory of your times together.
Paying attention to scents—and making your dream mate pay
attention to them—helps create positive “smell memories” that your
dream mate will inevitably associate with you. In the examples given
above, if you plan your activities carefully, your dream mate will
think of you every time they smell a particular style of coffee or a
that glass of red wine—and the wonderful sensory experience you
created just for that occasion.
Flowers are another way to get your dream mate interested.
Aside from coming in different colors and beautiful shapes, many of
them have wonderful scents. It is a great way of creating a “smell
memory” your dream mate will remember.
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You can create the same “feeling” that flowers bring if you
create a unique experience connected to smell. (You can try giving a
small basket of fresh fragrant fruits, for instance. They’re a more
delicious and unexpected gift, and can be more personal without
being too “forward”.)
Don’t overlook some tools right at your finger tips that are
often free. If you live by an ocean, try inviting your dream mate for a
walk along the beach. If you live near a mountain, try a hike on some
unknown terrain. If you are in a small town, try walking down the
road where the finest homes are. If you are in a metropolitan city,
try walking up and down a busy street that allows you to “window
shop”. Regardless of the location, as long as you take a deep breath
followed by a “Wow, what a beautiful day”, it will prompt your dream
mate to do the same, you will help create that “smell memory”. Make
sure to have extra emphasis on breathing through your nose. Try to
remember to do this during any meaningful date you have with your
dream mate. You want them to think of you when they smell just
about everything, from coffee to fresh air.
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Part 4:
The Taste of Love
The old saying that the “way to a man’s heart is through his
stomach” is actually applicable to both men and women. Or rather,
make that “through his/her sense of taste.”
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It’s in the use of the sense of taste that real seduction starts
becoming overtly sensual and sexual. This is because of two simple
reasons:
1.) Taste always works in tandem with the sense of smell for a
“double-whammy” impression;
2.) Your tongue needs to come in physical contact with something in
order to taste it.
You can use these two (rather obvious) reasons to help you
think about how to seduce your dream mate to stay by your side!
Aphrodisiacs
When trying to seduce your dream mate, you will inevitably use a
few aphrodisiacs. It’s part of the age-old seduction game.
It’s literally hard-wired into our heads and bodies. The
reasons I listed above are why particular types of food and drink
have been labeled as aphrodisiacs or aids in seducing a desired
partner. These particular foods somehow call to mind the pleasant
taste and feeling of physical love and sexual contact.
But you must know what can be used as aphrodisiacs, how to use
them, and—most importantly—when to use them.
Examples of aphrodisiacs you can taste
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There are no hard rules as to which types of food, drink or
other substances imbibed are to be considered libido-enhancing or
awakening. Some scientists have even studied some foods and
concluded that, yes, there are trace amounts of sexually-stimulating
substances—but again, these don’t exactly make a human being
instantly enamored with you.
For this particular chapter, I will focus on food aphrodisiacs.
This isn’t an exact science. Rather, there are traditionally recognized
foods that seem to make people of a particular culture think of love
or sex. Examples from around the world include:
Olive oil or olives Oysters or mussels

Tomatoes Eggs (any preparation, incl. raw or aged.
Exotic examples: “century eggs”, “balut”
eggs)
Apples Wine (red, white, rose, fortified)
Cherries Chocolate (esp. dark or spiced
Mangoes chocolate)
Meats: beef, venison, veal, lamb
Passion fruit Bird’s nest soup
Pomegranates Bull testicle soup
Peaches Ginseng root / herb
Durian fruit Saffron
Strawberries Warm mead
Plums Truffles and other mushrooms / fungi
Celery Caviar
Arugula Champagne
Bananas Honey
Cucumbers Any alcoholic cocktail drink (incl.
Melons or honeydew snake’s blood)seeds (Chinese ingredient)
Gingko biloba
Asparagus Whipped cream
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Figs Soft cheeses: cream cheese, Brie or
Camembert, Mascarpone cheese, or
mozzarella
Zucchini Chili peppers
Artichokes French candies, desserts or pastries
Grapes Ginger
You see, to different cultures, there is “something” to the way these
foods taste and feel in the mouth that is sensual and sexual.
While plying your dream mate with these foods can make your
dream mate feel wonderfully seduced, you don’t have to rush off and
arrange to have him or her eat only these foods in your presence.
The whole point is to be caring and sensitive enough to provide your
dream mate with a wonderful taste experience, one that he or she will
remember forever, each time the two of you meet.
How and when to use aphrodisiacs
Unless your dream mate has been living under a rock for some
time, he or she will definitely recognize the implicit sexual seduction
you’re attempting when you arrange for the two of you to eat these
foods. I mean, just imagine a menu of champagne, caviar, oysters, a
mussels-in-saffron entrée, plus chocolate, cherries and whipped
cream for dessert. Doesn’t that menu alone scream “sex” to you?
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And unless you get an explicit request from your dream mate to
arrange for such an explicitly sexual gustatory experience—that is, if
you don’t want to come across as too forward—you’re better off
applying aphrodisiacs sparingly, and in good taste!
A few simple rules govern the tactful use of aphrodisiacs:
1. Start using them only when you and your dream mate truly
trust one another, and are interested in one another. When you
start eating or serving up aphrodisiacs, it’s a noticeable mark that
your “relationship” with your dream mate is moving towards intimacy.
It’s that unmistakable green light that says: I’m deeply attracted to
you; you’re deeply attracted to me as well. Let’s go and explore
this.
But be sure your current situation does merit that green light!
Nothing grates on the nerves quite like a would-be seducer who
presumes too much and serves up the oysters immediately, so to
speak. Do that and your dream mate may get annoyed, or think you’re
being “pushy”—ergo, seduction failure.
Instead, be patient and bide your time. Observe and listen
carefully for the right time to invite your dream mate to that intimate
“dinner for two”.
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2. Presentation is just as important as substance. Whether you’re
cooking and preparing the food, or choosing the right restaurant /
venue for your gustatory experience, make sure to show how much you
value your dream mate by presenting the food exquisitely or neatly.
Now, I’m not asking that you become a chef or food stylist overnight.
All I’m saying is that you should appear to have given much thought
and planning to your dream mate and his or her taste experience.
Try not to make things look carelessly arranged on the last
minute. Do this often, and it gives the impression that you don’t have
the time and energy for love and real seduction. No aphrodisiac is
going to help you cancel out that impression!
3. Be subtle, or vary your use of aphrodisiacs. Show subtlety and
imagination by mixing other dishes into the menu—it’s sexier and
shows more intelligence. If you overload your dream mate with
recognizable aphrodisiacs every single time you eat out (or in), you’re
going to wear out the novelty. You may even come across as one-
dimensional, trying too hard, or too focused on sex and sex alone.
One way of being subtle is to use just one powerful aphrodisiac,
in just one aspect of the meal. For instance, you can have a simple
starter and dessert, but a delicious veal and truffle main dish that
you and your dream mate can savor and talk about.
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Or, you can have a heart-warming chicken soup, bread and salad
as a light meal—and then suddenly for dessert, give champagne and a
bowl of really dark chocolate-dipped strawberries or cherries, for
both of you to eat with your hands.
By highlighting one aphrodisiac this way, the taste memory of
that moment will forever be associated with you—and an overpowering
sexual attraction.
Becoming a taste experience

But food isn’t the only taste experience your dream mate will
have. You should always make sure that you are someone your dream
mate wants to taste, a.k.a. kiss!
Obviously, you ought to make sure that your teeth are always
brushed and flossed. Keep chewing gum or mints with you at all times
to ensure that kissing you is an enjoyable experience.
But creating a tasteful kiss experience goes way, way beyond
having good teeth and breath! We’re talking about depth of soul
here.
A kiss is one of the best ways to penetrate the soul of your
dream mate. Though knowing how to kiss is important, it’s not as
important as being ready and able to handle the meaning behind the
kiss when it does occur.
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Remember, kissing means going to first base with someone. Don’t
make out with everyone on the dance floor, just to see if you feel “a
spark” with any one particular person. This is a very shallow misuse
of the power of a kiss. (When you remove meaning, preparation and
restraint from a first kiss, you either won’t feel any real sparks from
anyone or you’ll misjudge whatever sexual excitement you feel as a
real spiritual spark.) There’s a reason why religious people
recommend restraint before marriage. To harness the penetrative
power of the kiss, we’re better off giving ourselves and our
respective dream mates some time to get a feel of the situation first,
before getting a full taste.
You need to investigate who your dream mate really is, and what
being physically intimate with that person would be like. Take the time
to form a relatively accurate impression of the character of the
dream mate you’re currently scoping out or dating, before you grab
him or her to kiss. You need time to get to know more details about
your dream mate, making sure he or she really is the person you want
to be with. The longer you wait, the better it will be.
When the first kiss between you and your dream mate does
happen, having mapped everything out in your mind beforehand will
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turn it into an explosive, unbelievably soul-penetrating taste
experience you will both want to have again and again.
Such a kiss can be an energy-generating experience you’ve never
had before—it will involve a “love energy” that empowers both of you
to accomplish great things in life.
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Part 5:
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The Ultimate Power of Touch
We now come to the fifth and final sense: touch.
Touch is the most powerful of all tools. Touch your dream mate
in the right way, and he or she will start desiring you, wanting to be
completely attached to you—physically, spiritually, mentally, and
emotionally. It’s literally the “final touch” to your plan of
seduction.
But as with the other senses, for the “final touch” to work, you
have to provide your dream mate with strong and meaningful tactile
experiences.
Take a minute to think about what a strong and meaningful
tactile experience means. You’ll realize that part of making such an

experience means: 1.) giving your dream mate plenty of highly pleasant
things to touch or feel, and 2.) touching your dream mate tenderly
and passionately, at the right time.
Start with tactile details
Giving your dream mate lots of pleasant tactile sensations
starts with your own body and clothes. You’ll need to pay attention
to details, and have a little imagination to see how you can extend
the joy of such experiences.
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Is your hair interesting to behold and touch—not greasy to the
touch, but something clean and smooth that your dream mate would
love to ruffle with his or her fingers? What about your face, hands
and skin, do they look clean and clear enough to invite someone’s
fingers (or lips!) to dwell there? (Hopefully you do your best to make
the answers to all these questions a “yes”.)
What about your clothes? Or the upholstery of your car,
furniture, and other personal items? Does the cleanliness and
texture of the fabrics you use subconsciously invite your dream mate
to look and touch them? Perhaps, even snuggle a little closer to
you?
Don’t overlook such details, because the pleasure of touching
comfortable or luxurious fabrics is a subconscious memory we all
have from childhood.
For example: Children—both male and female—are powerfully
reminded of their mother’s love whenever they touch satin or any
other fabric they associate with their mother’s lingerie. Or, the
warmth and feel of beautifully-worn leather is often associated with
calm, kind but strong masculinity.
We still carry such touch associations into adulthood. If you
wear something that your dream mate might possibly associate
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strongly with the positive or lovable figures in their own lives, you
can be sure that their mind will therefore associate the same
pleasant or happy feeling they generate, with you!
The same goes for the venues you and your dream mate go to for
dates. There are an infinite beautiful and pleasurable touch
experiences out there! Everything from beach sand, water, grass,
snow and wind, to sunlight, sun-warmed wood, fireplaces, pillows,
carpets, dry autumn leaves, lovable pets’ furs, silks, or air-dried
cotton laundry. Just imagine how so many pleasant sensations, when
associated with you, can help make your dream mate smile and fall
deeply in love with you.
Touching your dream mate
We now come to the most important aspect of seduction:
actually touching your dream mate.
Physically touching your perfect mate is the most direct way of
penetrating his or her soul. But you need to know when and how to
do it.
Knowing your dream mate first
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The art of touching is based on knowing who your dream mate is.
Knowing who your dream mate means you’ve taken the time to observe
him or her—using the rest of your four senses.
Who is your dream mate, and what is he or her like? What does
she or he like? What will he or she consider OK and not OK, too
conservative or very exciting, when it comes to physical intimacy?
Have you been observing your dream mate’s every move? Have you
identified the simple signs or actions that tell you who your dream
mate really is?
If you still can’t give straight and clear answers to the
questions above, be patient. Give it a bit more time, and try your best
to observe and understand your dream mate.
Once you think you know what he or she is like, try to analyze in
your mind what sort of “touch” he or she would enjoy from you, and
in which situation.
Excited yet comfortable
People can fall in love with someone outside their comfort zone
who excites them and makes them deliriously in love. On the other
hand, they can also fall in love with someone who just makes them
feel comfortable, the way a familiar face or old sweater does.
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But if you want to achieve a really deep seduction, you will have
to make your dream mate feel both excited and comfortable with you.
To achieve this, you need to 1.) create an atmosphere of trust
and comfort for your dream mate, and 2.) put the promise of
unbridled passion and deep meaning to every touch you make.
Comfort and trust
Some people need a friendly, warm hug to feel safe and secure.
If you handle this right and allow a person to get completely
comfortable with you, you can later on unleash a passionate lion
when the proper time comes! If you’re too hasty and rush your dream
mate to physical intimacy, you will surely lose him or her.
First, your dream mate needs to feel comfortable. This always
starts with a gentle, respectful hug. The more you make your
potential mate comfortable at first, the more they are going to want
to do a lot more with you later. The right kind of touch is what will
get your dream mate coming back for more. And when you finally get
into your first sensual, sexual experience with your dream mate,
touch means everything.
Create a feeling of a security blanket around you and your
dream mate. Make sure he or she feels comfortable, to the point of
not wanting to leave your arms. Your dream mate should feel like
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you are everything he or she needs to keep safe; and with your arms
around them, nothing can get to them. By doing this, you will create
a comfortable setting that your dream mate will soon want to explore
with you.
Be careful about putting initial boundaries or invisible touching
“rules” between you. It’s not just about courtesy and safety. It’s
also a way of “psyching up” or exciting your potential mate!
Deep down, every person, young or old, are like innocent little
children for whom you initially define boundaries between what’s
“safe” and “not so safe” or dangerous. When a small child begins to
be aware that there are safety boundaries, they often try to explore
what’s beyond the baby gates you’ve put up at the threshold of a
flight of stairs. Eventually they try to crawl over or pull them
down. Only when you feel the child is ready and strong enough to
explore without danger do you remove the gates. The same logic
applies to your adult dream mate. Simply hug your dream mate and
make him or her feel safe and secure, and soon they’ll want to do a
lot more than hug.
When someone feels you can be trusted—because you respected
their personal space, schedule and their sensibilities—and didn’t
press or rush them into what you want, you will soon be in for a
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wonderful long-term relationship with them. You will connect at new,
previously unknown levels with that person. Soon, the way you
physically touch one another will be a sensual experience that
penetrates both your souls.
A promise of excitement with every touch
While matching whatever mood you are trying to create with one
another, touching your dream mate should also always be done
respectfully. Only if you’re sure you both feel like tearing your
clothes off can touching one another be more bold or assertive. You
need to make sure that when you touch your dream mate, you not only
keep his or her interest at all times but penetrate his or her soul.
This is true at whatever level of physical intimacy you might be at,
whether you’re merely hugging or holding hands, or having sex.
Sex is easy for anyone to do at any time, but to move someone in
the deepest part of his or her soul, you’ll need to make sure to
change the way you think before you touch your dream mate. This way
every move, every touch means something: a sincere gesture of
intimate, passionate love.
If you pay attention to the way you touch, and how touch should
reflect your passion and sincerity, you will see your entire life
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change before your eyes. Love will come naturally into your life, and
life becomes a lot easier, and far more enjoyable.
When you and your dream mate start becoming physically more
intimate, try to be creative in how you touch him or her. What I mean
by this is you need to find ways to express your passion through
touch. I don’t mean acting like a crass sex maniac every time you and
your dream mate meet—I am talking about depth and finesse here!
The way you touch someone should spring from truly knowing
and accepting what will make that person happy. It’s not about what
will bring you (and only you) pleasure or happiness. So instead of
simply being all over your dream mate like crazy from the word go,
check yourself first to see if every move you make—literally—is
motivated by your desire to give your dream mate pleasure or
happiness. Because if not, you’re probably thinking more of your own
definition of pleasure and happiness—which may not by in sync or
even suit your dream mate.
Ask yourself: how do I make the experience of being with me a
wonderful touch experience for my dream mate? How do I make sure
he or she stays, and won’t run away? How does touching come into
play?
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You need to base all your actions on this kind of thinking. It’s
the simplest way of knowing how to touch your dream mate. It’s even
better than precisely mapping out seductive moves in your head. If

you focus on what your attitude and thinking should be, how you
physically touch your dream mate will be more in tune with the other
person’s psyche, and be more spontaneous rather than planned. A
dream mate can tell if you’ve been planning your physical moves in
detail (e.g. Week 1 – dating; Week 2 – kissing; Week 3 – “first base”).
While some form of imaginative planning is needed, seductive over-
planning can backfire because you may come across as a person filled
with guile, rather than love or sincerity.
Be sincere! Be in tune with your dream mate! Allow some
spontaneity when it comes to touching your dream mate. You can
afford to relax and let go of any sexual insecurities, if you meet your
dream mate well-prepared and focused on understanding his or her
character.
And don’t worry too much about how “seductive” or
sophisticated you ought to be when you seduce your dream mate. It’s
not about knowing a slew of sexy moves or touches. It’s all about
understanding who your dream mate is. Once you have this depth of
understanding, you’ll automatically have the right instinct and
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confidence to touch your dream mate in the right way, at the right
time.
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Summary:
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Coming to Your Senses
If you’ve succeeded in keeping your dream mate increasingly
interested in you for days—or months—on end, your relationship will
inevitably lead to that first moment in bed.
You should never, ever rush one another towards that first
time. If you’ve been paying attention to who your dream mate is and
what he or she is happy with, you’ll know precisely the moment when a
deeper physical intimacy is what both of you want.
Once you do start making love to one another, you should
continue being as imaginative and creative in creating a wonderful,
full five-sensory experience for your dream mate. As I’ve said in the
beginning, just because you’ve gone this far doesn’t mean you should
stop the seduction game. To keep someone happily seduced means you
keep on seducing him or her, no matter what happens tomorrow.
People do grow and change as time goes by, and each passing day
brings some new aspect of your dream mate to discover and seduce.
Achieving real seduction, therefore, is a never-ending process.
As your relationship with your dream mate progresses, you should
continue to explore new ways of delighting him or her. Seduction
isn’t the end goal! Love is.
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In fact, real seduction is complete lovemaking, in and out of
bed.
If this all sounds like hard work, yes, it can be. If you want to
achieve real seduction, you have to come to your senses and accept
the hard work it takes to be attuned to your dream mate.
If you believe your dream mate is the one, you’ll believe in the
rewards you’ll reap from all that hard work!
Just remember how wonderful it’ll be: your entire way of living
will change when you have this dream mate in your life. You will find
all tasks are easier, and no problem ever seems quite as bad. You
will take more pride in your health and appearance, as you want your
dream mate to know you care about how you look in their eyes. All
these benefits are more-than-good-enough-reasons for you to aim for
real seduction!
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Part 1: Seeing and Being Seen.................................................................10

Part 2: From Being Heard to Listening.....................................................25

Part 3: Building Scented Memories......................................................... 37

Part 4: The Taste of Love........................................................................43

Part 5: The Ultimate Power of Touch.......................................................52

Summary: Coming to Your Senses.............................................................63

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What it Takes to Achieve Real Seduction

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you do find them, how do you keep them?

In short, how do you achieve real seduction, the kind that

penetrates the soul?

This book is a quick summary of how to achieve real seduction.

senses as a starting point in understanding how to find, get and keep

What’s real seduction?

want. You must make a favorable impression through your dream

mate’s own five senses, an impression so deeply entrenched in that

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become winners. In the game of real seduction, nobody should

Typically, men like to be the ones to pursue, and women like to

be pursued. But there are no hard rules to the game of real

relationship is growing in an interesting way. If you don’t, both your

eventually, to other people.

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Before you embark on the game of seducing anyone through the

five senses, make sure you’re prepared.

Like any player of a game of sport, you must keep yourself

physically, psychologically and spiritually ready to play this game.

(eg. simply saying or thinking, “I am ready!”) You must constantly give

tangible evidence that you are indeed capable of seducing someone in

the name of true love. People in general—and your dream mate in

particular—must literally see, hear, touch, smell and taste how

willing and ready you are for love!

first prize—true love—because preparing for real seduction will be

hard. You can think of yourself as a perpetual student of seduction,

constantly in training, constantly trying to learn how to play the

game for the benefit of you and your dream mate.

For you to properly seduce someone in the name of love, you’ve

got to be a self-confident, sexy person. You must work on having

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charisma stems from intelligence, and a deep understanding of other

people. Knowing how to deal with people confidently and

intelligently will have a stunning effect on others. You will have a

other than your presence.

But you won’t always be successful in the seduction game. To

need to have inner strength and fortitude. You need to be a person

of good, strong character.

you and you alone!

Choosing a worthy “target”

Don’t waste your time and energy seducing everyone on sight,

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Here are a few things to remember when envisioning your one

and only dream mate:

dream lover will be like, now is a good time to start.)

matches who you really are. This person needs to be a complementary

3. Even while you continually improve yourself, you also need to

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