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D'var Torah - Exploring Forgiveness Last Shabbat 5767 GIVE CREDIT TO MELISSA FOR HER WORK ON THIS ISSUE IN RJ. A. Is it withholding punishment? that's how the Abrahamic religions often depict God's forgiveness. B. Is it ending the wish that the person who harmed you be punished for their actions?
D'var Torah - Exploring Forgiveness Last Shabbat 5767 GIVE CREDIT TO MELISSA FOR HER WORK ON THIS ISSUE IN RJ. A. Is it withholding punishment? that's how the Abrahamic religions often depict God's forgiveness. B. Is it ending the wish that the person who harmed you be punished for their actions?
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D'var Torah - Exploring Forgiveness Last Shabbat 5767 GIVE CREDIT TO MELISSA FOR HER WORK ON THIS ISSUE IN RJ. A. Is it withholding punishment? that's how the Abrahamic religions often depict God's forgiveness. B. Is it ending the wish that the person who harmed you be punished for their actions?
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GIVE CREDIT TO MELISSA FOR HER WORK ON THIS ISSUE IN RJ, AND FOR TEACHING ME AND SHARING IN CONVERSATIONS THAT STIMULATED IT FOR ME.
1. Season of Forgiveness – What exactly is forgiveness?
a. Is it withholding punishment? That’s how the Abrahamic
religions often depict God’s forgiveness. Judgment is passed and deserved punishment decided, but certain actions on our part can “avert the severe decree.” i. U-tshuvah, u-tfilah, u-tzedakah ma-avirin et roa ha- g’zayrah. Repentence, prayer and righteous actions annul God’s severe decree. ii. Example: after the golden calf, God pardons the people and that = God not destroying them. “The Eternal said to Moses, ‘I see that this is a stiffnecked people. Now, let Me be, that my anger may blaze forth against them and that I may destroy them, and make of you a great nation in their place.’” … [Moses pleads.] “And the Eternal renounced the punishment that God had planned to bring upon God’s people.” b. Is it ending the wish that the person who harmed you be punished for their actions? Example from the bedtime Shema: “let no one suffer punishment on my account.” c. Is it choosing not to be angry anymore? d. Is it something we don’t choose, but rather something that emerges upon us or within us, and that we realize has happened? e. Is it deciding that we release someone who has harmed us from owing us anything? A cancellation of a debt?
2. What are some examples from Torah of forgiveness
between people?
a. Jacob and Esau’s reconciliation. Can you forgive and choose
to avoid being in relationship for your own safety? b. Joseph forgives his brothers. Can you arrive at forgiveness ethically by manipulating the ones who harmed you into a test to see if they’ve changed? 3. During the Yamim Noraim, we not only ask God to forgive us our wrongs, but we pledge to try to avoid committing future wrongs. Is it our fault that we were created as morally mixed beings? What kind of world is it that God wants from us? How good does God expect us to be?
a. Midrash – Genesis Rabbah:
i. Abraham said to God, Ribbono Shel Olam, if you wish to maintain the world, strict justice is impossible; and if you want strict justice, the world cannot be maintained. You cannot hold the cord at both ends at once. You desire the world – and You desire justice. Take one or the other. Unless you compromise, the world cannot endure. ii. This season culminates in Yom Kippur, Yom Din, the Day of Judgment. Can we argue our case before God as Abraham did in the Midrash? Can we ask God to forgive us to some degree because the world that God created is a world whose moral physics doesn’t permit strict justice? To what extent do we need to cultivate acceptance – and perhaps ask God to cultivate acceptance – of our moral imperfection? At what point does cultivating acceptance of our moral imperfection cross the line into becoming moral laziness and an excuse for not striving to be morally better than we are?
4. Returning to the initial question: what is forgiveness,
especially the kind that we are asked to give one another? Melissa’s work with RJ.
a. Describe her work a little bit.
b. Hannah Arendt: “Forgiveness is the key to action and freedom.” Is forgiveness about freeing ourselves from staying preoccupied with a wound or loss we received, so that we can move forward with life and be open to new goodness? Is forgiveness primarily something we do for ourselves, or at least as much for ourselves as for the party who harmed us? c. Melissa did a presentation at OSP with a group of inmates taking a class on RJ. The presentation included various exercises exploring this complex question of forgiveness. (Read the questions). d. CLOSE BY INVITING THE COMMUNITY TO SPEND TIME REFLECTING ON THESE QUESTIONS & DISTRIBUTE HANDOUT.