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A Ladys 7 Secrets
By: Lynda Margaret
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TheECourse.com PO Box 1667, Surfers Paradise QLD 4217 http://theecourse.com support@theecourse.com Copyright Notice: Copyright 2011 by Lynda Margaret. No part of this work may be reproduced or distributed in any form or distributed in any form or by any means (including photocopying, recording, online or email) without the written permission of the author. Important Disclaimer: While every effort has been made to ensure this guide is free from errors, this publication is distributed with the understanding that the author, editor and publisher are not responsible for the results of any action taken on the basis of information in this work, nor for any errors or omissions. The publishers, and the author and editor, expressly disclaim all and any liability to any person, whether a purchaser of this publication or not, in respect of anything and of the consequences of anything done or omitted to be done by any such person in reliance, whether whole or partial, upon the whole or any part of the contents of this publication. If expert advice is required, services of a competent professional person should be sought.
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Wondering whether this book is worth reading from cover to cover? Weve asked the experts, and here are their replies.. Walethia Aquil Grace and Charm
Im so appreciative of Lynda Margaret. Her passion and devotion to helping women discover their inner beauty is to be admired. As women we sometimes dont realize or understand the power we have. We underestimate ourselves. We allow self defeating thoughts and behaviors to sabotage our potential and therefore we dont release our gifts onto the world. A Ladys 7 Secrets is a book I would recommend to any women no matter her status in life. As women we should be the journey of life education and refinement. Take the secrets that are shared freely in this book, use them, make them a part of who you are and watch how those around you will respect and admire you.
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A Ladys 7 Secrets brings to the forefront an engaging reminder of how important it is for women to be ladies when the norm is anything goes. Lynda Margaret has captured our attention by creatively developing a global opportunity to learn how to be a lady and set the example for generations to come. Bravo!
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Table of Contents
Introduction ................................................................................... 7 Secret #1 - You Are Who You Think You Are ................................... 9 Secret #2 - If You Dont Care,No One Else Will ............................. 12 Secret #3 - That Girls got Style ..................................................... 15 Secret #4 - What is Different About You Today? ........................ 18 Secret #5 - Stand Up and Stand Out ............................................. 21 Secret #6 - A Voice That Would Melt Butter ................................. 24 Secret #7 - Play Nice ..................................................................... 27 Moving Onward and Upward ....................................................... 30
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Introduction
Be the best that you can be All women should have access to the highest quality information to enable them to make the very best of their lives. It is in this spirit that I have written A Ladys 7 Secrets. This special edition copy is made available to you in the hope that it may unveil some of the mysteries of being an elegant lady. I have personally devoted my life to create real and lasting change in my life. It has been a never-ceasing work for me, and I have reaped the fruits of my toil. Now, I am just as passionately devoted to being a guide for other women. My clients learn about image, etiquette, and self-development in an interactive online environment. I am privileged to witness dramatic changes on a daily basis. This makes working with them extremely rewarding. It also increases my ever-growing passion to reach out to women on a larger scale. While there is no fairy godmother to perform a magical transformation for you, you can choose to embark on a path of self-development that will not only put you in harmony with yourself, but also in harmony with the world at large. With this special edition of A Ladys 7 Secrets will come a connection with you by email. Together, we can move mountains and set you on a path of self-discovery.
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entire process is made more complicated by you not being up front in the first place. You know that if you have a can of food without any label, there are a lot of people who wont even open the can, let alone taste it. This is because no one has told them what is inside. By putting a label on the can that is true to its contents, we can tell people what to expect without them having to find out for themselves. Whether the offered food is to their taste or not, is then up to them. Being a lady is about making other people feel comfortable around you. We can make life a lot easier for them and for us, by confidently wearing a badge of self-esteem which is true to our nature. Ask yourself this:
Do you value your individuality? Do you show your value to others? How can you attain a more positive appreciation of your value?
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We are all guilty of letting ourselves down in this area from one time to another. The secret, however, is to keep these vessels full by being aware of your needs and having a routine in place which ensures that you are always able to give your very best. Just like a vintage car, a womans body needs much more than just fuel to operate at peak efficiency. Sadly, many women dont know how to give themselves a higher level of self-care, and they are working on their mind and bodies, like an amateur mechanic. They are too busy to learn how to truly care for their vehicle, and soon break down. You need to have the knowledge required to give the very best to yourself. An improved sleep routine, private meditation time, and a dedicated skin care routine are just a few of the elements that a woman should consider for her selfcare. Self-care is much more than just a hug. When you show love for yourself in ways that make you feel good, you are showing other people just how you best like to be loved, and you open the doors for them to contribute to the love. Ask yourself this:
Are you waiting until you are out of emotional and physical energy before refueling? Do you have solid routines in place which take care of your needs? How do you monitor your needs to ensure that you are giving your best?
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their emotions over the last six months. Knowing your style as an extension of your personality helps to bring your wardrobe into a cohesive whole. A stylish woman is like a breath of fresh air. Before speaking to her, her style has told you what type of woman she is. She makes no secret of who she is and the world is a better place for having her in it. Ask yourself this:
Do you open your wardrobe and ask yourself, What do I feel like wearing today? What messages are your clothes giving about you? How do you find your personal style?
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to have a consistency in your style, and yet another not to express your unique style in a variety of ways. There is no better way for you to demonstrate that you are at one with the changing nature of the world, than to go with the flow and be varied in your appearance. Showing your oneness with change shows that you still have a passion for life, and people pick up on that. It is a gift to you as much as it is a gift to others, as it adds much needed color to a life which can otherwise be bland. Ask yourself:
Do you tend to look the same in every photograph? Is there no surprise in your appearance anymore? How do you stay passionate about expressing yourself?
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Elegant poise oozes sensuality and femininity. It is so much more than just good posture. Poise is a lifestyle choice of displaying yourself in the best possible light. Gaining poise is one of the more difficult secrets. You will likely be reading this and agreeing with its benefits, and be determined to put it into practice in your life. Fifteen minutes later, when your mind has become focused on something else, you will be slouching and lounging about in the same way that you always have. That is because poise requires more than just an understanding of its importance in your life. It requires that you are mentally conditioned in such a way to automatically correct yourself when you find that your poise is beginning to slip. No teacher can be with you every moment of the day so this requires that you are fully trained in the practicalities of correct poise. Ask yourself this:
Is walking just a way for you to get from one place to another? Do you regularly monitor your posture? How can you best involve yourself in regular deportment training?
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We live in an age of information overload, and this places a higher demand on us to communicate in a way that is clear and concise, as well as being enriching and uplifting. Ask yourself:
Do you struggle when speaking with new people? Do you have a small talk repertoire? How can you improve your communication?
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#7 Play Nice
Its not nice when other people dont play by the rules. It makes it horrible for everyone. Etiquette is yet another victim of our modern age and deserves its place as the seventh secret of a lady. So many people think that all the rules of etiquette are controlling. They feel that it is restrictive to be told how to behave in certain situations. At the core of etiquette is the desire to make other people feel comfortable in your presence. It helps to create an environment where we can all relax. It you look behind any etiquette rule, you will see a lot of common sense. For example, why do we put our napkins on our lap, folded in two, with the fold towards our stomach? Well, the fold stops it from falling off our lap and the resulting two layers offer you one layer to wipe your hands and another underneath to protect your clothing. We all have to live together in this big world and that is why a woman versed in etiquette is a treasured friend and welcomed guest. You can know that she will reply promptly to your invitation, arrive on time (or at least fashionably late) and even send her thanks after the event. A lady does not create anxiety for those around her. She is able to use social convention to her benefit and the ease of others. A waiter can look at her cutlery and know instantly if she has finished with her meal. Etiquette is more than just parties and restaurants. It is the fabric that holds are society together in the most basic sense. How do you feel if you send someone a gift and they dont even acknowledge it, let alone express their thanks? What if you had new white carpet
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laid and someone trudged through your home in muddy shoes? We need an over-riding set of behavioral standards to make life more pleasurable for all of us. Ask yourself:
Do you often feel anxious about being in new situations? Do you know have to act appropriately in different situations? How can you continue your development in social etiquette?
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So you can: Claim your position as a lady of grace and charm Command the attention you deserve while still remaining genuine Maintain your integrity through assertiveness Love yourself in a way that makes others want to love you too Find your unique style and express your individuality Use your charm to relax and delight others You CAN have all that and more with our
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From Lynda Margaret Surfers Paradise, Australia Dear Friend, When is the last time that you met a woman who was struggling perhaps with her poise or looking like she doesnt care about herself or not knowing how to behave appropriately Only to find that she wasnt even aware of it? What did you do? You may have made a comment to help her, but most probably you let her continue in her ignorance. Why? Because you cant give someone charm and elegance. It is for each individual to desire for themselves. But, imagine the hours that they spend wondering why they dont get the job, the relationship, or the respect that they feel they deserve. Opportunities pass them by every day and they dont know why. Thats the last thing you want to happen to your life. But why should you be treated any different? Were all so bombarded with pretty women with potential every day, each one clamoring for us to appreciate her special charms. So, people have become unimpressed and dont bother looking for hidden charms. You cant blame anyone. We dont have the time in our busy lives to go in search of something that people have kept hidden.
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BUT Thats not how you want people to respond to you, to your uniqueness, your emotions, and your dreams all packaged within you, in the hope that people will see through the external front to find the treasure within you. Because you do have something valuable to offer. You have an inner charm and beauty that is in great demand in an increasingly ugly world. So. how do you prevent from being unappreciated? How do you stand out?
How Do You Get Through those Mixed Messages and Let People See the Real YOU?
Its All in How You Choose to Present Yourself Thats right how you choose to present yourself. You can choose to present yourself in a way that shows that you value yourself that you love yourself and set the standard of how you are viewed by others. Thats how you stand out from the crowd. You harmonize your outer presentation with your inner self, so that it gets through the noise of Look at me! Im special Pick me So, lets slow down for a minute and look at the first question you have to answer. How do you harmonize your outer presentation with your inner self? Through knowing and caring for yourself through being genuine, conscious of your behavior on other people, and through continual self-growth. You rouse the viewers imagination to see the power and the promise of what you as a human being have to offer.
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And move them to form correct opinions of you. the opinions that you want them to form the ones that are in line with the truth of who you really are.
The course .. is amazing! A couple of chapters into this course, I see myself develop, mature and is well on the road of being transformed from being a woman into a 'graceful and elegant' lady who is strong in person yet loving at heart. The carefully planned course has enabled me, who is still young (<25) to enjoy the course the same as an older person (>40) would. This simply shows how much effort and work Lynda has put into the course and very clearly illustrating her love for humanity and her determination for us, as women to live a better life, to enjoy each moment of our lives with 'elegance', to be able to spread love and radiate joy to others and helping others to live a better life. This course of not only an online course that teaches, it is also a course that allows Lynda to personally communicate with us as students, questions and other concerns are responded to within a very short time, and thus helping changes to occur faster and results to become much more significant. Thank you Lynda, no words could describe my gratitude towards you. You have changed my life at the present and in the future! Tina, NZ
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I am thoroughly enjoying the course! The layout is very clever. Being able to dip in and out at leisure is so important to us busy ladies! Lynda Margaret also has a wicked sense of humour which I find very appealing as I wrongly assumed 'ladies' didn't necessarily have that asset! Alice, UK
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The 8-module curriculum is: Module 1 : The Mindset of a Lady This module lays out the foundation for the rest of your course. You will learn about yourself from a new angle, confront your current, singular situation and social persona, and single out your needs and expectations about yourself. Module 2 : Self-Care The best person who can take care of yourself is, precisely, you. An obvious truth, yet so elusive to most of us at the moment of putting it into practice. This module not only includes information, tips and hints. Here you will raise your awareness when it comes to self-care and incorporate healthy routines to your daily life Module 3: Dress like a Lady As women, we are seemingly hard wired as fashion-aware beings, but your clothes also express your identity and mood as well. In short, your clothes send a message of who you are. In this module you will examine in detail each aspect of what you wear and, more important, what it says about you and what you want it to say about you. Module 4: Look like a Lady We modern (and post modern) humans are the only species where it is the female the one who shows off her beauty, enhancing her appearance in a myriad of ways. Here, you will learn how to polish your style so that you can reach beyond looking attractive, letting every detail reveal something else about you. Module 5: Lady-like Poise Poise is all about balance of mind and body. Knowing how to irradiate a refined sense of balance is key to not only how you feel about yourself, but the impression that you give to others.
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Module 6: Speak Like a Lady Small attentions given to how you speak and what you say, will produce large results in your relationship with others. It is always a pleasure to hear a lady speak, as she sends love and compassion with every word. Module 7: The Social Lady This module focuses on how to act and manage in public. You will get in touch with the wide variety of ways in which you represent yourself and convey the message of who you are (that is, a Lady). Tune up your social skills, and be prepared. Module 8: Self-Development Every and each lady is a particular and dynamic individual who has an important influence on shaping the world around her, and not only needs to establish her own personal goals and find ways to achieve them, but also keep an eye on her personal ongoing evolution. In this module we take a glance -and a grip- on these dynamics for you to adapt them to your life. How When you purchase our Charm and Elegance Home Study Course, you will have a log-in name and password in which you can then access all of the material for this course direct on the internet. It is there for you no matter where you are and at any time of the day.
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Each module contains an average of two assignments, designed to help you to apply the information that you have learned to your current situation. These assignments are usually quite brief and pleasurable, but if for any reason you don't want to complete the assignments, they are totally optional. We recommend that you at least attempt the assignments in order to benefit from the feedback from your personal coach. 2. Personalized coaching: Personal mentoring from Image and Etiquette Expert, Lynda Margaret, through feedback to your assignments and ongoing discussions. You will have twelve months of personal message access to Lynda Margaret.
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Self-paced learning
As you complete one lesson page within a module, the next lesson page becomes available to you. Each module contains an average of 14 lesson pages. It is recommended that the student study at a rate of one module per week, totally eight weeks to completion. However, students are free to study at their own pace, and enrolment in the course will remain active for a full twelve months.
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We know how busy your life is. This course should be something that you enjoy and view as something that you do for yourself as and when you are inclined. If you want to have a rest for a few months, there is no problem. This allows you to truly explore the implications of every module and apply them in your life.
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Certificate of Completion
Upon successful completion of all assignment submissions, students will quality for a Certificate of Completion. This course is really helpful for the women who want to transform themselves into a lady. I have learnt so much through this course and am still learning. Hina, UGANDA
Is it a Cost or an Investment?
If you are serious about developing yourself so that you can be the very best that you can be to express your inner beauty as outer beauty and to develop your social skills Then the last thing you need to do is think in terms of cost. Cost is something that you buy once, use up, and its over. There is no ongoing benefit. Transport.. costs. Chocolate... costs. Electricity costs. Becoming aware of your needs as a woman and learning the skills to improve yourself and your life, thats an investment. An investment in today and in your future, something that will produce benefits in an ongoing fashion, an investment that is actually not spent because it comes back to you again and again with increased opportunities. When you purchase the Charm and Elegance Interactive Home Study Course, youll get the techniques you can convert into treasured skills, and, with guidance
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and practice, you will see your investment in yourself flourish as you prove the wisdom of your commitment. And the investment Only-$796 CURRENTLY ONLY $240 US 8 Modules of immediately accessible personal development techniques Assignments to chart your progress and receive feedback on Personal access to Lynda Margaret Image and Etiquette Coach Self-paced learning no class timetables to meet 12 months access Certificate upon completion
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We look forward to joining you in the journey of self-development. Because you should be the best that you can be,
PS: Did you enjoy this Special Edition of A Ladys 7 Secrets? Why not tell your friends about it? Simply send them to http://theecourse.com where they can register for their own copy. Theyll be grateful for your support.
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