Imitate the Prophet in Bury Pilgrimage

A. Introduction

In Islamic tradition, the grave pilgrimage is part of religious rituals. All Muslims around the world have done. At the time of the beginning of the growing Islamic Prophet Muhammad forbade the Muslims religious visit to the cemetery. The ban is due to concerns occur kesyirikan and the cult of tombs. Moreover, when the dead are among the righteous. In addition, the companions of faith is still weak and need guidance from the Prophet. The warning not only to the companions of the time, but also to humanity today as the next generation. Apparently if we look at what Prophet feared does happen today. At this time many Muslims are wrong in applying the grave pilgrimage. They made pilgrimages tomb merely follow local customs and traditions. So the Islamic tradition mixed perverse. It is a habit in the people of Indonesia during the month of Ramadan or the `Eid grave pilgrimage in droves (nyekar) that seems to act at that time was more mainstream but the grave pilgrimages can be done anytime, because the essence of pilgrimage is a grave to remember death so that each humans prepare lunch with good deeds, and not when and where we're going to die but what have we prepared to face death if it had come then no one would be able to advance or even backed a moment.

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ARTI pilgrimage GRAVE The words of pilgrimage according to the meaning of language is to look at. Pilgrimage grave means see the tomb. Pilgrimage to the tomb of the parents looked to the grave meaning parents, pilgrimage to the tomb guardian means look into the tomb guardian, the pilgrimage to the tomb of a hero means to look into the tomb of heroes.

According to Islamic Shari'a, the tomb was a pilgrimage not only see the tomb, not just look to the grave parents, not just look at the tomb guardian, not just look at the tomb of a hero, nor to simply know and understand where someone is buried, or not just know state of grave or tomb, but the arrival of a person into the grave or the grave with the intention of pilgrimage is pray to the buried or buried and send prayers for him with the reward of reading Quran verses and sentences Thoyibah, like reading tahlil, Tahmid, Tasbih, Sholawat etc. And keep in mind not to grave pilgrimages to the tombs, but rather we who pray and send the reward of the readings thoyibah to those who have been buried. Thus, it is clear that grave pilgrimage according to Islamic Shari'a is included charitable good deeds. Things that need to be in grave pilgrimage: 1. When entering, sunnah greetings to those who have died. 2. Not sitting on a grave, and not step on it. 3. The prohibition to worship the graves. Among the customs of Muslims who considered it a part of worship and the way in closer to

Allah is with tawassul that makes an intermediary between himself and God, but they tawasul with the graves of pious people, this is the wrong action because it has been difference Prophet PBUH. The scholars explain how to tawassul syar'i, namely: tawassul with Asmaul Husna, tawassul by asking the help of people who still live pious, and tawassul with pious deeds we have done. 4. Keeping adab in grave pilgrimage Prophet strictly prohibits people who exaggerated the grave pilgrimage, thrashed weep over the grave (usually done by women so the Prophet forbade women to the graveyard), walked around the cemetery by trampling and defecating in surrounding areas. 5. Not doing thawaf around the grave with the intention had taqarrub (worship). Because thawaf was carried out around the temple 6. Not reading the Quran at the grave. 7.Tidak be seeking help and assistance to the deceased, although he is a prophet or a saint, because it includes major shirk 8. No lay flowers on graves or sow deceased. Because it acts like the Christians, as well as wasting treasure on things that are not useful. The history that says that the Prophet had passed him one of the graves and hear the experts grave is being tortured because they do not clean thoharoh in hadats the Prophet took the existing trunk water and sprinkle into the grave. History is not generally accepted unless it is a privilege only for the Prophet peace be upon him and not applicable to us such as the primacy of the Prophet have more than four wives so we can not follow the Prophet. 9. Forbidden to build on graves or write something from the Quran or verses on it. Simply putting a one inch-tall stone to mark the graves, as is done by the Prophet r when laying a stone

on the grave of Uthman ibn Mazh'un. So some clarification around issues of grave pilgrimages, the prohibitions are not taught by the Prophet r going but most people consider it part of Islamic teachings.

Adab In a pilgrimage to the burial place of the Good and True According to Islam:

1. Behave politely and friendly when it came to the area of the cemetery. 2. With sincere intentions and sincere because they want to get Ridho from Allah, not to ask for something in people who have died or such like to a place of recreation or family recreation. 3. No sitting, trampling, lying, etc. over the graves of the dead 4. Not doing indecent acts such as defecating, urinating, spitting, doing conjugal relationship, throw litter, and others. 5. Saying hello to the inhabitants of Hades! 6. Pray for those souls who have died for a happy and quiet in the grave there with sincerity.

Pilgrimage PROCEDURES TO GRAVE Some guidance / ordinances adab pilgrimage to the grave according to Islamic Religion: Let berwudlu before pilgrimage. 2. Having arrived at the gate of the tomb, in order to greet: "Assalaam ahladdiyaari minal mu'miniina insyaa-Allaahu wa inna nas-alullahalanaa bikum laahiquun walakumul 'aafiyata". Or with the greeting: "Assalaam daara qaumin mu'minin fa-Allaahu-innaa insyaa bikum laahiquun". Welfare experts hope for you, O grave of the people Mu'min, Hopefully we will meet with you. 3. Arriving in front of the tomb of the target (eg kemakam parents) and then facing toward the

face of the corpse (lapel facing east) while saying a special greeting to the bodies, namely: Assalamu'alaikum yes ... ... ... ... .. (Specify name diziarahi). 4.Read ayat-ayat from the Quran, such as reading a letter Yasin, Section Chair or read Tahlil, etc.. 5. Done that, move on Qiblat facing (towards the west), towards the back of the body by reading the prayer (fervently). Pray that referred to above, is not ask to the grave, but beg to Allah SWT. for which the Ziarahi and residents throughout the cemetery are safe and happy in the "there", please also pray to Allah SWT for himself later incorporated into Heaven. 6. In making that pilgrimage, should be done with great respect and solemn and khusyu '(quiet). 7. Should be in there hearts memories that I would have like him (dead). 8. After a pilgrimage should good deeds multiply and add obedient devotion to God Almighty. 9. Should not occupy the grave headstones and crosses above it, because it includes acts Idza '(painful) to the deceased and who had a grave, his family.

Are women allowed to pilgrimage to the grave? The scholars and fuqaha 'have two opinions. First, who believes women should not be a pilgrimage to the tomb, and the second one, says can. The first basing their opinion on a hadits which prohibits women also accompanied the corpse to the cemetery, with a variety of considerations / reasons such as that generally women are easily swayed emotions and feelings of pity, sadness, so that their souls are not strong concern to see graves that lie and feelings deep grief can arise again and cause excessive hysteria. While mourning or crying and screaming that excessive will harm the spirits of the deceased who was

in the grave. While the scholars who allow women to make pilgrimages based on understanding the hadits of the Prophet who advocate for pilgrimage, the pilgrimage was general in nature, may be done by men and women, while there are many other hadits-hadits which reinforces the notion that women should pilgrimage to the cemetery.

CONCLUSION

So grave pilgrimages sunnah but better done.Can do but pray for the experts with the aim of the grave was not asked for prayer from the expertsgrave. And know how to make a beeline for good governance and know-ban.For ban women also should make a beeline for the grave but it is done not continuously or within a long.For women should also be able to keep the talk and dress code .

CLOSING

Pilgrimage of the grave is to remind us of the death.So, as Moslems we better make a beeline for the grave with a good purpose and that we will remember of death. Meanimg of this pilgrimage is so that we can remember the dead and that we should do better.