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Sister in great grief after suicide

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

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WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 21, 2011 Provided you do not spread your forces too thin, your probabilities for success in the next year look strong. Focus on areas of your greatest potential, and use them as a springboard to success in everything else that you do. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- Even if you cant totally pay off a financial obligation, its to your advantage to try to ameliorate a portion of it. Each time you put down a little, it adds up. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -Go ahead and assert yourself for everybodys collective benefit, not just for your interests alone. Its to everyones advantage to exert a group effort rather than making points with merely one voice. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Nobody is likely to be lucky in getting others to hear only one voice today, but getting others to speak out collectively could be to everyones advantage. Gather your forces and plan in advance. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- If you encounter a person whom you were once very close to but have been somewhat estranged lately, act friendly. It would be to your advantage to get together again. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Be careful not to become demanding in a delicate development that requires the cooperation of everybody. If you are arrogant, youll have to fend for yourself. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- It would be asking for trouble to demand cooperation of others if you find their behavior to be arrogant. You cant control how they comport themselves, but you can set an example with your conduct. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -Move extremely cautiously with your financial affairs. Dont take any risk, or encourage others to do so. Losses could be greater than usual at this point in time. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- If you feel compelled to make a decision under pressure, be careful, because your judgment might not be up to its usual standards. Dont let others usurp your independent thinking. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- Use your common sense and dont attempt to do something on your own that takes two pairs of mitts to handle. Dont put yourself in jeopardy trying to prove how strong you are. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -Guard against inclinations to take any comments seriously that you know should be treated as jokes. If you are the butt of a harmless tease, laugh harder than your friends. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- People in general, including you, could have low flash points. Nobody expects you to be perfect at all times, but even if you cant control someone elses behavior, rein in your own. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- If something annoys you, instead of bringing it out in the open you might choose to grumble and growl under your breath, causing others to wonder whats wrong. Loudly laugh it off.
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HI AND LOIS

By Bernice Bede Osol

Dear Annie: Recently, with his daughter and grandmy 49-year-old sister com- children. I noticed a receipt mitted suicide. She lived for another person (a senior). with my partner and me for Its not for me because I the last 18 months. I find it have to work. I believe this harder each day to under- ticket is for his ex-wife. I stand why this happened. I asked if she would be there, am upset, angry, troubled and he said he didnt think and confused. so. He claims he cant stand My sister was bipolar her. and on medication. She had I am considering divorce attempted suicide before, because the trust is gone. I but tried to fight the self- get along with my ex, but destructive thoughts, admit- would not jeopardize my ting herself to the hospital marriage by going on an outwhen necessary. We assured of-town trip with him. Am I her that she could jumping the gun? live with us forIs this just a famever and that we ily outing? -- Not loved having her Worlds of Fun for with us. She was Me so good with our Dear Fun: You dogs and they are jumping the seemed to be a gun. You dont comfort to her. know that the exWe never had a wife is going or clue what she was who invited her. planning and she And if shes there, had it all planned it doesnt mean he out two weeks Annies Mailbox is cheating. Get the ahead. She bought details from your a gun, cleaned her room, did husband, and explain your her wash and left a letter concerns. If his responses explaining that this was the arent satisfactory, tell him only way to ease her pain. your marriage is at risk and She waited until after mid- ask him to come with you for night and went to a nearby counseling. nature preserve. She was Dear Annie: I read the found within two hours. letter from Sherman Oaks, My sister often said that Calif., who dropped her she hated her life and had friend Jill because she no friends and thought when wouldnt stop gossiping. she died there would be few She should have told Jill, people at her funeral. But the I have told you I dont like funeral home was so crowd- the way you gossip about ed that there wasnt even your friends and I dont want standing room. Do people to hear it. Please change the who commit suicide know subject. Repeat as needed. how much pain they leave She might change her behavbehind and how much we ior if she is interrupted at struggle to accept it? I will the moment of offense every always wonder what I could single time. -- St. Maarten have done differently. Please help. -- Miss My Sister Annies Mailbox is writDear Sister: We can tell ten by Kathy Mitchell and how anguished you are, and Marcy Sugar, longtime ediour hearts are breaking for tors of the Ann Landers you. Your sister was men- column. Please e-mail your tally ill and obviously in questions to anniesmailgreat pain. She could see no box@comcast.net, or write end to it and believed sui- to: Annies Mailbox, c/o cide was her only way out. Creators Syndicate, 5777 W. You sound like a loving sis- Century Blvd., Ste. 700, Los ter, and you created a warm Angeles, CA 90045. and supportive home. Now you could use some support, too. Please try Survivors of Suicide at survivorsofsuicide.com. Dear Annie: Mike and I are in our 60s and have been married seven years. We each have children from previous marriages, all of whom are grown and out of the house. Recently, I noticed that Mike friended his ex-wife on Facebook. They correspond occasionally and play an online game together. I always suspected that she still had a thing for him, even though she was the one who initiated the divorce. Mike was divorced for eight years when we met, but I have always felt that his children resent me. Today, I saw a receipt for tickets to an out-of-state amusement park where he is planning to go

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