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Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 14

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 14

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88999-3-3

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) My meditations help us achieve and maintain a happy marriage. Read, analyze and apply those that you accept. Good luck. 2) My meditations help us achieve and maintain true love. Read, analyze and apply those that you accept. Good luck. 3) My meditations impulse us, push us to achieve and maintain a happy marriage. Read, analyze and apply those that you accept. Good luck. 4) My meditations impulse us and push us to achieve and maintain true love. Read, analyze and apply those that you accept. Good luck. 5) My meditations impulse us, push us to succeed in life. Read, analyze and apply those that you accept. Good luck.
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6) When a man complements his wife with lies he harms his marriage very much. 7) Incorrect behavior of the husband towards the wife leads to decreased confidence in her husband. 8) Correct behavior of the wife towards the husband leads to increased confidence in her husband. 9) When a woman complements a man with lies she is treacherous. 10) Abnormalities in relations between friends lead to the disintegration of friendship. 11) When you are depressed it does us good if we are in relationships with optimistic people. 12) Continuous failures unite people to help them get through their depression. 13) He who can be cheerful in any situation, however difficult it is, has a very
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strong balance inside. 14) Cheerfulness creates energy. 15) Good humor prevents stress. 16) Good humor of the spouses maintains the marriage. 17) Good humor makes us not be cranky. 18) Cheerfulness creates joy. 19) Laughing plays a part in our consumed energy. 20) Increasing the motivation we increase our performance. 21) The desire to become better helps and contributes a lot to being happy in life. 22) The person who has an active life will be even more satisfied. 23) Perseverant people are honorable. 24) Those who are ordered have fewer failures. 25) Those who are careful have fewer failures.
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35) Young people are more receptive to creative ideas. 36) The easier we can produce more ideas the more quickly we become more productive. 37) The more we succeed in producing more useful ideas faster, the more quickly we can organize better. 38) It is necessary to have as a personal objective continually, day by day, for as long as we live the ability to produce as many useful ideas as we can. 39) Increasing the ability to produce as many useful ideas as we can, continually, day by day, for as long as we live should be one of our personal goals. 40) As we have a greater ability to produce more useful ideas more quickly and more easily, the more we can achieve our personal goals. 41) The more we expand the capacity to
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produce more useful ideas, the more likely we are to achieve more, bigger or smaller successes. 42) Sociable individuals have much greater opportunities to achieve a beautiful life. 43) Thinking for cooperation helps us get rid of loneliness. 44) Good humor helps us in maintaining a happy marriage. 45) Confidence in ourselves, in our forces helps us be optimistic. 46) Constructive ideas help us contribute to becoming effective. 47) Those who are most documented have many more opportunities to find favorable situations. 48) In everything we do we need to document very good to prevent mistakes. 49) Experience helps us solve problems more quickly.
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50) Experience helps us become more organized. 51) Luxury has often led to moral decay. 52) Many in pursuit of riches destroy even their health, which they can not buy back even with all the riches gained. At first sight it seems that they have been successful, but in reality they are broke. 53) Illegal actions can never be perfectly covered so as not to be discovered. So attention, you would better not do it. 54) Illegal actions can destroy mature, true love. Is it worth it? No. So be careful. 55) Be careful in life at what is worth and not worth doing. 56) Think of yourselves when you do something legal or illegal even if the guilty one can go to prison. You had better pay extra attention; it does not require
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great efforts and is not worth doing many years in prisons. 57) Discovered illegal actions create very large damages often to those who have done them. So, pay much attention, better think it over a hundred times than face the negative effects of an illegal action that you rushed to make. What do you think? 58) Is it worth not doing illegal acts. 59) The favorable effects of illegal actions will often be scattered with money for lawyers, for roads and visits to prisons, health degradation in prison, etc... 60) Negative actions always harm us in one way or another. 61) Life is too beautiful for a part of it to be spent in prison for negligence or lack of attention. 62) Those who are irresponsible fast drivers almost always go to jail.
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63) Those who are greedy to have what is not theirs can end up at any time in prison. 64) If we are distracted in what we do at any time one or more unpleasant surprises may occur. So pay much attention. 65) Most of the times the unpleasant surprises we get are due to us. 66) Thinking long term makes us more effective on the long term. 67) Young people feel better in a community, a group than alone. 68) Young people are eager for action because they have much enthusiasm. 69) Most young people can be trusted. 70) All young people need and must learn to defend their rights. 71) The young, when they have unobserved rights, must unite and act for their rights to be respected. 72) Patience with the self helps
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maintain a happy marriage. 73) Patience with the self helps and contributes greatly to the achievement of genuine friendships. 74) Patience with the self helps and contributes greatly to achieving many successes. 75) The man who has legal principles must be respected. 76) Being positive helps us become more effective. 77) Being positive helps us contribute greatly to be more respected. 78) If you have superstitions it is necessary and required to get rid of them because they are very harmful. 79) If you have any superstitions it is good for you to get rid of them as soon as possible. 80) Sometimes some superstitions are taken by instigation without analyzing
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their logic, their truth. 81) The man who is sick is extremely dangerous. 82) The uneducated man is harmful because of a lot of ignorance. 83) Hypocrisy is extremely dangerous. 84) It is required and necessary to have national fights against vices. 85) Those who have vices need and must have personal goals in order to eliminate the vices that they have. 86) We must prevent family violence as often as we can. 87) Happiness in a family is not achieved by family violence. 88) Through work of persuasion we can get much more than through family violence. 89) In case you practice violence in your family it is best to reflect more before the practice of family violence.
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90) Family violence harms very often, directly and indirectly those that do it. 91) Arguments often lead to the destruction of many happy marriages. 92) The harmony between spouses can prevent family violence. 93) Each spouse is required and must aim to achieve as a personal goal harmony with the other family members. 94) We must be happy with the qualities that we have and develop them continuously, day by day, and use them effectively so that we are effective. 95) The consumption of alcohol can not justify in any way family violence. 96) The excessive consumption of alcohol makes the people concerned have problems in achieving personal goals. 97) Any act of family aggression, made by a family member against another member of the family can not be reasoned
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and legally bound to be accepted under any circumstances. 98) Mature love also contains relationships of mutual interdependence. 99) The more realistic and more intimate self- awareness helps and contributes greatly to the achievement of mature love. 100) Love helps us mature and contributes greatly to achieving more fulfillments. 101) The increased ability to focus our attention helps us contribute greatly to achieving more fulfillments. 102) Each of us is necessary to discover the qualities and to grow them as much as possible in order to increase our chances of achieving our personal goals. 103) The more qualities needed to achieve personal goals we have the more chances and opportunities we have to
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make fewer mistakes. 104) Every person has the world needed to act as much as possible to prevent as much harm as they can. 105) In any case it is necessary not to be nervous but controlled. 106) Irritations happen whether we are bad or good, but they do not solve any problem, but instead some can greatly complicate and even create other problems. 107) Regardless of how we live, it is not worth it to be alone which makes our life less beautiful. 108) Continuously, day by day, for as long as we live we need to more effectively manage our time. 109) A more effective management of our time, continuously, day by day, for as long as we live helps and contributes greatly to achieving a happy marriage.
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110) Respect for human rights must be one of the objectives of each state. 111) Each of us is required to have as a personal goal the respect of human rights of the other, continuously, day by day, for as long as we live. 112) Those who are superficial in what they do, do not know how to achieve personal goals. 113) The one who is superficial in what he does is not accepted and employed by many employers. 114) Employees who are lazy are the first on the list of dismissals. 115) Conceit is a defect of the education that we are given. 116) Ignorance is a factor of many misfortunes. 117) Aggression is a result of ignorance. 118) Aggression is a survival of primitive times.
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119) Swear words are the effects of debris of primitive times. 120) Intellectual qualities are also an effect of education. 121) Intellectual qualities can be developed continuously, day by day, for as long as we live. 122) Intellectual qualities are more important to succeed in life. 123) Intellectual qualities help us the most to achieve many personal goals. 124) The development of intellectual skills continuously, day by day, for as long as we live should be a personal goal for each of us. 125) Intellectual qualities help us achieve effective co operations. 126) Dedication in everything we do helps us and contributes greatly to achieve many successes. 127) Without dedication we can not
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maintain a happy marriage. 128) Without dedication we can not achieve effective actions. 129) Preventive actions help prevent many mistakes. 130) Without patience many happy marriages would no longer exist. 131) Without patience many true friends would no longer exist. 132) Life has been given to us not to fight with it but to live it beautifully. 133) Our temper helps us keep our marriage happy. 134) Positive ideas help us become more effective in our actions. 135) Pride must not be found between spouses. 136) Pride must not be found between those who cooperate. 137) Hypocrisy alienates others from the hypocritical one.
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138) Sometimes ignorance makes our life very complicated. 139) Rudeness is a hidden cause of many mistakes. 140) Rudeness is an unacceptable defect. 141) Rudeness removes us from the others. 142) Although rudeness is unacceptable in the XXI century, it is still too widespread. 143) Rudeness between spouses can destroy the marriage. 144) The infidelity of the spouses makes mutual trust between spouses disappear. 145) Achieving a happy marriage is not done by itself, but through many efforts, much dedication, a lot of tolerance, more rational compromises, mutual trust between spouses, a lot of communication, much mutual respect, a lot of knowledge, a lot of wisdom on both sides, much
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fairness, etc. 146) Those who have or will have children, love your children, take care of them, and always help them when they need your help, even if you are more or less worried. Do not ever forget that you have children. 147) Do not ever take revenge on your children. 148) Children should never take revenge on parents. 149) Parents have no right to take revenge on their children. 150) Children have no right to take revenge on their parents. 151) Revenge is a preposterous behavior. 152) Revenge removes others from the vengeful one. 153) Revenge is a behavior of primitive debris. 154) Revenge is a primitive behavior.
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155) Envy is a preposterous behavior. 156) Envy is a primitive behavior. 157) Meanness is a result of primitive debris. 158) Meanness causes others to depart from the mean one. 159) Meanness is a result of ignorance. 160) Ignorance produces much evil. 161) Courage is also created by knowledge. 162) Courage is also created by a particular field and by the experience in that area and other areas. 163) Courage is also created by qualities that you have as a person. 164) Courage is also created by the skills that you have as a person. 165) Courage is also created by the values that you have as a person. 166) Courage depends very much on what opposes us.
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167) Meanness has no positive effect no matter how small. 168) Envy has no positive effect. 169) Envy that tortures us brings nothing. 170) Anger has only negative effects. 171) Anger is a primitive behavior. 172) Hypocrisy only creates problems and nothing positive. 173) Cruelty is a primitive behavior. 174) Cruelty behavior is that of a man without a soul. 175) Cruelty surely removes others from those who are cruel. 176) Cruelty only has very large negative effects and never positive ones. 177) It is needed to prevent cruelty by as many effective measures as we can and especially through education since kindergarten. 178) Irrespective of the situation we are in, no matter how hard it is, we must not
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lose our hope. 179) The optimistic ones are appreciated. 180) Inefficiency can become effectiveness through work, dedication in everything we do, through education of what is needed to become effective through effective co operations with people, through perseverance, with tact, etc. 181) In any action, if we expand the effectiveness with which we act, we organize better. 182) By developing positive thinking we continually think less and less negative. 183) Positive thinking is required to take place in everything we do. 184) Positive thinking is required to immediately take the place of negative thinking where negative thinking exists. 185) Positive thinking is a fundamental engine of progress in all fields.
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186) Positive thinking should be formed and developed in humans even since the first years of life. 187) Successes are only achieved through positive thinking. 188) Negative thinking is the creative of many human misfortunes. 189) Positive thinking should be promoted non-stop for all of us. 190) Only positive thinking can create positive creative ideas. 191) Effective thinking is part of positive thinking. 192) Effective thinking is a positive factor of a more efficient use of each persons time. 193) Conceit is a behavior harmful to the conceited one. 194) Conceit has led to many failures for the conceited one. 195) Conceit removes others from the
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conceited one. 196) Conceit in a family harms the concerned family very much. 197) Conceit of a friend towards other friends enormously harms that friendship. 198) Conceit is never fully appreciated. 199) Conceit creates many failures. 200) Unity is needed in solving many human problems. 201) Unity increases the chances of solving many human problems. 202) Unity is a factor of many large human projects. 203) The harmonious development of the personality of children should be a personal goal for each parent. 204) The harmonious development of the personality of children is a main factor of human progress and human society. 205) The harmonious development of the personality of children should be a
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primary objective of each state. 206) The states investments in the harmonious development of the childrens personality is a necessary and mandatory priority. 207) By will, perseverance and a full documentation of happiness we can achieve our happiness. 208) If you have little theoretical knowledge your life is very difficult. 209) To make us more easily and quickly achieve our personal goals is to accumulate as much knowledge as possible about how to build the future in what concerns our personal goals. 210) Each of us needs to pay attention to the development thinking in the long term. 211) Social thinking is necessary and required for the creation of a social system that ensures the harmonious development of the personality of each person.
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212) The formation and development of the creative thinking of every person by the state is a necessity and an obligation of each state. 213) Thinking creatively contributes greatly to the achievement of personal goals. 214) Creative thinking helps us have more opportunities to meet more favorable situations in life. 215) Constructive thinking is part of positive thinking. 216) Constructive thinking is needed to take the place of destructive thinking where there is any. 217) Destructive thinking only brings us harm. 218) Thinking constructively contributes greatly to achieving personal goals. 219) Constructive thinking helps us and contributes greatly to the increasing
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number of opportunities to meet more favorable circumstances. 220) For each parent it is necessary and required to form and develop creative thinking in children when they are small. 221) Constructive thinking is a factor that contributes greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 222) Humanist thinking contributes greatly to maintaining a humane behavior in society. 223) Humanist thinking prevents many misdoings in society. 224) Creative thinking will help us greatly increase the efficiency of the use of our time. 225) Skill helps us and contributes greatly to increase the efficiency of the use of our time. 226) Skill helps us and contributes greatly to the achievement of personal
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goals. 227) We can form skills. 228) We can develop and increase our skills. 229) Skill helps us achieve more success. 230) Skill helps us and contributes greatly to expand the number of chances and opportunities to meet more favorable circumstances. 231) The effects of aid given when one needs it mean much more than the aid itself. 232) Determination is a quality that helps us and contributes greatly to the achievement of our personal goals. 233) Determination is a quality that helps us and contributes greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 234) Repeated and extended anger harms our health very much. 235) Repeated and extended anger
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creates more stress. 236) Anger creates stress to that who is angry. 237) Anger harms our health. 238) Anger harms a happy marriage. 239) Anger is an incorrect behavior with multiple negative effects. 240) Self- control is a very valuable quality which must not lack in any person. 241) Self- control can be formed. 242) Self- control is an essential quality that contributes greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 243) Self- control prevents many conflicts 244) Self- control prevents many misfortunes. 245) Self- control prevents many arguments. 246) Self- control is a quality very necessary and much appreciated for shared
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living. 247) Thoughtfulness is very necessary as it contributes greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 248) Thoughtfulness is an efficient human quality. 249) As we become more wary the more we have more opportunities to meet more favorable circumstances. 250) Aid, if we can give it, we must give it when a man needs it and not afterwards when he has no need for it anymore. 251) Those who are not dedicated are not appreciated. 252) Those who are not determined do not receive certain jobs. 253) Sincerity is a highly appreciated quality. 254) Sincerity is a quality that maintains a real marriage. 255) Those who do not properly
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appreciate honesty are not humane. 256) Sincerity needs to be repaid with sincerity. 257) What is built on honesty is very solid. 258) Sincerity contributes greatly to the achievement of our personal goals. 259) Sincerity contributes greatly to the achievement of mature love. 260) Sincerity contributes greatly to maintaining true friends. 261) Fairness also contributes to maintaining a happy marriage. 262) Fairness between friends contributes greatly to maintaining that friendship. 263) Fairness between lovers helps a lot to keep a mature love. 264) The desire to succeed in life helps us a lot to achieve our personal objectives. 265) Life is a lot more pleasant when we are optimistic.
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266) Responsibility must always be promoted. 267) Our responsibility makes us be supported. 268) A man who has self-control has greater chances to achieve a happy marriage. 269) Polite people must be appreciated. 270) Selfish people harm themselves. 271) Mutual love makes life more beautiful. 272) A greater desire to succeed helps us a lot to become more efficient. 273) An efficient human communication helps us a lot to achieve more successes. 274) All positive actions must be supported. 275) Positive actions contribute to achieving personal goals. 276) Positive actions make our life a lot more beautiful.
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277) Positive actions help us achieve more friendships. 278) Self-imposed discipline helps us a lot to achieve our personal goals. 279) When you are in love you feel differently. 280) No one can live the true happiness lived by that person who loves and who is loved by the person he loves. 281) We each love in our own way. 282) Some of us love deeply and some more superficially. 283) A man who loves and who is loved by the person he loves has much more chances to maintain a happy marriage. 284) Nobody will ever have the ability to put on paper the happiness lived by that person who loves and who is loved by the person he loves. 285) When you are in loved and loved by the woman you love you live more
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intensely. 286) There is an incredible number of people who do incredibly little to maintain their love. 287) Ineffective behaviors can be changed with efficient behaviors if we act towards changing them. 288) Positive thinking helps us maintain a happy marriage. 289) Unconsidered behaviors have created enormously many troubles for many people. 290) Spiritual values help us a lot to achieve more successes.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88999-3-3

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