What blows apart our all restraint; craving that deceptively comes in as a Creeper .

Who would not like to be in ones own command at all times? Each one of us always loves to be absolute charge of the self. According to ancient wisdom; the one in absolute command upon self is the emperor upon this planet. As one of the great est seers of all times Guru Nanak Dev mentioned that those who win over self; are winner of the entire world. Whereas in actual, we all within ourselves experienc e a different factual state that exists within our lives. Admittedly it is strongly affirmed that restraint is the only procedure and manner of manifesting anything and everything in our lives. Whether it goes to succeed in academics, reduce weight, anger management, time management, emotional balan ce or else they all allow access to any incumbent when it (incumbent) sincerely o bserves respective kind of restraint corresponding to the ability under ones pursui t; mandated to qualify as continual eligibility to succeed. Now let us see what actually happens with most of us who vigorously give a kick start to any such campaign that whether eliminates any deficiency or develops ou r ability. Initially with all silent vehemence within one the restraint is impos ed upon self without any room left for making any error or jumping with any scop e of impunity. But as the days pass; unnoticeably the unchecked boxes prescribed for all donts b ecome automatically checked as our consent. The pertinent question is that who a ctually does it? How does it happen? Why do we notice it only when our deep reso lve is broken into pieces? Questions like these and many more questions that are alike need their respectiv e answers The ancient wisdom emphasises that all craving that insist and shatter our resolve of any kind primarily exist as hidden within our own existence. Hidd en yes all those enemies that need their elimination within us in order to allow our inner growth; intelligently hide themselves within our own existence and sit silently as an opportunist awaiting for their opportune moment to arise and att ack at our most vulnerable point so that the structure of our resolve fall as an y pack of play cards. Since during those initial stages when we initiate or unde rtake any kind of resolve that shall produce a favourable change to our abilitie s; generally, those moments are full of euphoric vehemence therefore the dust of its irrelevant celebration gives adequate hideouts to the warring enemies withi n our own self. Any kind of craving that attempts to burst the embryo of our resolve shall initi ally try to embark through a sudden attack but when it shall find us standing wi th all vigil to ward off its attack then it shrewdly sneak to some corner in con ceal and then initiate for its second attack in an unusual manner as a creeper. For instance you have been yearning since several months to put a check upon you r craving for sweets be it chocolates, candies, ice creams or smoothers of all ki nd; the moment you sight any of the above named an irresistibility shall arise a s a volcanic eruption and fructify its urge. You may or may not enjoy that defea t but the moments to follow shall fill your understanding with some weak regret. A dialogue within shall always transpire somewhat like this Enough is enough, str ange I have no say to my own self now I shall not become allured and fall prey to this craving towards the sweets. But the force of volcanic eruption ignited by s ome old craving shall see to it that all your attempts in order to stall its mov e stand well thwarted. The best clandestine strategy for any enemy in garb of a craving shall mount a s ilent attack as a creeper; you on a visit to some friend whose wife is a known n ame in entire friend circle for making excellent walnut cake covered with a thin k honey layer. And soon after the supper the hot fuming cake is placed amidst al

l dinners. The aroma is deadly and without even looking towards it it (cake) find s its absolute access within your nose and thereby directly targeting your brain . The brain immediately registers the aroma and executes the general command of having the smelled one but there is some resistance projected to that urge by the resolve to abstain from its consumption. You make a denial for the offer of hav ing a pie of that irresistible piece of sweetly dressed flour. The wife of your friend wants to know through a burst of fire of questions one after another; you dont like walnut cakes or do you believe that I do not make a good one are you on some strict doctor advice are you on diet. Obviously your answer to all these que stions shall be NO. You shy initially but then immediately you voice your restrain t as a mode to gather some self control. Your words are ridiculed with all decency and few more join to pressurize you to have some this time and maintain the restrain for some other occasions you resis t but then finding an attack from two ends namely; the mutiny by the brain chemi stry and the external attack by formalism or etiquette. Meanwhile a piece of tha t inimical stuff (cake) is placed right before you and then with all probability you fall its prey without making even a single meaningful fire. You may validate your defeat on various reasons such as it looks very bad when ev eryone is insisting to that extent I somehow could not voice my resolve I dont know but but none of your excuse shall drag you in the conviction box why? Because it is very difficult to colour ones own self exclusively responsible for the defeat. The victory is merely the realm for those who can vigorously reprimand their own self for any flaw consciously committed for any reason. Those who can meet the indecent one face or face mirror indecent in light of insulting the dignity of th eir respective resolve shall be the ones that shall arise and come out as ultima te winners. Those who do not leave self with any fault that goes without being p unished. Those who adjudicate self without any bias and pass its appropriate ver dict; whereby they indict self and conclude with some punishment as a penance of some wise manner. Those who run away from such attribution and claim to take se lf through easy and comforting accommodation can certainly win on many pseudo hu mane grounds established by ice cream soldiers but victory shall always elude th eir comprehension. Desire2will.com. dinesh kumar. Learning under discipline.