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Some of us are new to the Christian walk, still working through the
heart-change the Holy Spirit has begun in us. We need some basic
gospel instruction in Christian hospitality, to remind us how Christ has
done this for us and He was the ultimate example of hospitality. We
need to be shown that this is a lifestyle and being hospitable is
synonymous with being a follower of the Lord Jesus Christ.
In the New Testament, the words “hospitable” and “hospitality” flow from the Greek
word philoxenos, (pronounced fil-ox'-en-os), itself formed from the words philos,
which means “friend”, and xenos, which quite literally means “alien”. So to be
hospitable was to make a friend of or extend friendship to an alien.
Scripture gives us several clear pictures of what hospitality looks like from the
Father’s viewpoint. In Genesis 14:18-19, we see Melchizedek, king of Salem (later
Jerusalem) and priest of the most high God, bringing out bread and wine to Abram, a
relative stranger in the land, and blessing him. Later, both Abraham and his nephew
Lot, in turn, showed hospitality to strangers that later were revealed to be
messengers from heaven, and in Abraham’s case, the Lord himself. When the angels
appeared to Lot, he was willing to sacrifice the safety of his own daughters,
misguided though the gesture was, to ensure the safety of his guests.
Hospitality is illustrated in several more places in the Old Testament by Manoah with
the angels (Jdg 13:15-19), by Samuel with Saul (1 Sam 9:22-24), by King David
toward Barzillai (2 Sam 19:32-29), by the widow of Zarephath to Elijah (1 Ki 17:10-
24), and by the Shunammite woman toward Elisha (2 Ki 4:8-11).
The Gospel is good news for all people, and practicing hospitality instead of the
insularity of tribalism demonstrates God’s intention to unite out of every nation, tribe
and tongue, a people who will be called by his name and who will glorify him.
Rev. 7:9-10 9After this I looked and there before me was a great multitude that no
one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the
throne and in front of the Lamb. They were wearing white robes and were holding
palm branches in their hands. 10And they cried out in a loud voice:
Rev 21:2-7 2I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from
God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. 3And I heard a loud
voice from the throne saying, "Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live
with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their
God. 4He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or
mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
5He who was seated on the throne said, "I am making everything new!" Then he
said, "Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true."
6He said to me: "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the
End. To him who is thirsty I will give to drink without cost from the spring of the water
of life. 7He who overcomes will inherit all this, and I will be his God and he will be my
son.
When we practice hospitality, we show that God’s breaks through our old human
categories of us vs. them and invites us into a new family.
Hospitality is an extension of the reality of God’s kingdom breaking into the world
and demonstration of who he is as the one who generously provides.
Luke 9:10-17
10When the apostles returned, they reported to Jesus what they had done. Then he
took them with him and they withdrew by themselves to a town called Bethsaida,
11but the crowds learned about it and followed him. He welcomed them and spoke to
them about the kingdom of God, and healed those who needed healing.
12Late in the afternoon the Twelve came to him and said, "Send the crowd away so
they can go to the surrounding villages and countryside and find food and lodging,
because we are in a remote place here."
They answered, "We have only five loaves of bread and two fish—unless we go and
buy food for all this crowd." 14(About five thousand men were there.)
But he said to his disciples, "Have them sit down in groups of about fifty each."
15The disciples did so, and everybody sat down. 16Taking the five loaves and the two
fish and looking up to heaven, he gave thanks and broke them. Then he gave them to
the disciples to set before the people. 17They all ate and were satisfied, and the
disciples picked up twelve basketfuls of broken pieces that were left over.
Psalm 68:5-6
21 "Do not mistreat an alien or oppress him, for you were aliens in Egypt.
22 "Do not take advantage of a widow or an orphan. 23 If you do and they cry out to
me, I will certainly hear their cry. 24 My anger will be aroused, and I will kill you with
the sword; your wives will become widows and your children fatherless.
Leviticus 19:33-34
33 " 'When an alien lives with you in your land, do not mistreat him. 34 The alien
living with you must be treated as one of your native-born. Love him as yourself, for
you were aliens in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.
Luke 14: 12-24 12Then Jesus said to his host, "When you give a luncheon or dinner,
do not invite your friends, your brothers or relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do,
they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. 13But when you give a banquet,
invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, 14and you will be blessed. Although
they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."
15When one of those at the table with him heard this, he said to Jesus, "Blessed is
the man who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God."
16Jesus replied: "A certain man was preparing a great banquet and invited many
guests. 17At the time of the banquet he sent his servant to tell those who had been
invited, 'Come, for everything is now ready.'
18"But they all alike began to make excuses. The first said, 'I have just bought a
field, and I must go and see it. Please excuse me.'
19"Another said, 'I have just bought five yoke of oxen, and I'm on my way to try
them out. Please excuse me.'
21"The servant came back and reported this to his master. Then the owner of the
house became angry and ordered his servant, 'Go out quickly into the streets and
alleys of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.'
22" 'Sir,' the servant said, 'what you ordered has been done, but there is still room.'
23"Then the master told his servant, 'Go out to the roads and country lanes and
make them come in, so that my house will be full. 24I tell you, not one of those men
who were invited will get a taste of my banquet.' "
I Peter 4:8-11
8Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.
9Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. 10Each one should use whatever
gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various
forms. 11If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If
anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things
God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever
and ever. Amen.
One of the first things for us to realize is that we will not all practice or participate in
the ministry of hospitality in the same way. As Paul points out in his first letter to the
church at Corinth, not everybody is given the same suite of gifts by the Spirit, but
every person’s gift is crucial to the proper functioning of the Body of Christ.
The military, and particularly the United States Army, generally divides its soldiers
into one of three categories: combat arms, combat support and service support.
Combat arms units are the ones on the front lines, engaging directly in the battle.
Combat support units provide immediate operation assistance, such as
communications, to combat soldiers. Service support units provide primarily logistical
support such as supply, maintenance, transportation, health services, and other
services required by the soldiers of combat units to continue their missions in
combat.
The point of this analogy is to illustrate the fact that not every member of the Body
will be called to interact directly with those in need, but every believer’s gift will be
important to the Body if it is to pursue hospitality to the pleasure and glory of the
Father and of Christ. As we look at some of the ways hospitality might be practiced,
see if you can identify where your own unique giftedness might fit in.
Focusing on our guests is a good antidote for that problem. After all, will our guests
not enjoy themselves unless the ceiling is painted and the carpet matches the
wallpaper? Will their meal be ruined if it's served on paper plates? Your guests will
remember your conversation and fellowship long after the plates and furniture are
forgotten.
We can think outside the box a bit, too, by remembering that having people over for
dinner is not the only way to be hospitable. A single father I know sometimes invites
a few men over for an evening of conversation and board games. The men bring their
own snack foods and drinks, and have a wonderful time together. A college student
can invite a visitor to the campus ministry to meet him or her at a coffee shop for
lunch. A mother with small children can invite a few other moms over to bake
Christmas cookies together. A person without transportation can be invited to come
along on your shopping trips.
In all of these situations a person new to the faith or new to your church may feel
freer to ask questions he or she might be uncomfortable asking in a Sunday school
class or other big meeting. And the better people know each other, the less likely
they are to misinterpret or mistrust one another--which adds to the harmony in
churches and families.
First, reconnect the idea of hospitality with the Host. Just as we experience Christ's
welcome through the Eucharist, we can welcome others into fellowship with God.
Second, notice how hospitality is gospel, good news, both for those who receive it
and those who offer it. "Some Christians feel crushed by the idea of having to do yet
one more thing for the kingdom. But making a place for others can make room for
God to be present with us. It puts us on holy ground and connects us with an ancient
tradition," Pohl says.
Finally, reconsider your focus. "Entertainment focuses on the host. Hospitality focuses
on the guest. We know we've lost touch when our satisfaction in worship becomes
most important. Worship is most hospitable in congregations that eagerly include
people in shared traditions. For example, congregational prayers and liturgies could
mention more about the elderly or frail," she says.
Congregations practice hospitality and commit to it. They are intentional about it,
until it becomes the norm for the way in which they live as the people of God, and
the way in which they do ministry. To do something inhospitable would be
unthinkable to them. Where hospitality is a virtue in a congregation, you will find
other virtues such as mercy, love, compassion and forgiveness. These then become
Let’s look at a few practical examples of how a church might practice hospitality in
worship:
1. One church did not have an immediate need for an elevator in their building.
They also knew that if someone had a need for it, they would not be able to use their
building. So in anticipation of welcoming and in preparation of someone coming who
might need an elevator, they remodeled their building.
2. Several deacons who regularly came forward to receive the offering of the
people, dressed more casually so that someone who might not wear a suit, either
male or female, would feel comfortable in this church.
3. One church decided to examine all of its assumptions about Christian community.
How did their worship help them to "be church" as Marva Dawn says. What factors
might make them appear to be a friendly church, and yet not be warm and
embracing. Perhaps a stranger might attend for a year, become known to some
people, and still remain friendless, without being intentionally drawn into the body.
What did they need to do to extend deeper hospitality so that it was more closely
linked to grace, and so that it was not a technique or a task.
4. One church made a practice of welcoming new members with the children
present in the front of the church. The children, along with the rest of the
congregation, learned the new members’ names and the pastor prayed for the new
members. The children and everyone else learned that each person is important in
this faith community. They are known by name and they are prayed for.
5. Anxious about how to seat latecomers, one church shut the glass doors to the
sanctuary before the service began. They realized they needed to make their practice
of seating latecomers more gracious and hospitable.
6. People who had different views and interests in worship came to the worship
committee with their concerns: The worship committee prayed together for the
Spirit’s wisdom and discernment in their discussion as a committee and with the
members of the congregation. The committee committed to withholding judgment as
they met with these people. They realized that prejudging would pre-empt
understanding. They could still listen with discernment. Hospitality means suspending
judgment so that you can hear and understand another perspective.
When there is a river of grace and restoration that flows through a congregation, the
hospitable congregation is committed to the needs of people, especially those who
are vulnerable and in need of hospitality. Israel was committed to and commanded by
God to offer hospitality first of all to those who were widowed, the poor, the orphans,
and the stranger. There are many others that we could add to this list. In the New
Testament we are commanded to practice hospitality to each other.
Who is the “other,” the aliens in my life? Who is God calling my attention to?
In what ways do I already practice hospitality, perhaps without being aware of it?
(Ask those who know you for help with this one)
How can I support and encourage those who are practicing the spiritual gift of
hospitality?