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Special Thanks
I would like to personally thank the following people for helping me put together this book. Faviola Thank you for being so patient with me. I really cant thank you enough for being so understanding through all the late nights. Raymond I wouldnt be able to do this without you. You are the smartest personal I have ever met! James Thanks for listening to my ideas and helping me as much as you did. Phillip Thanks for helping me with the technical stuff. The Asian Playboy of ABCofAttraction.com Thanks for all your support and the opportunity to work on your team! Rey and Jay from Fast Seduction.com You guys are awesome and always very helpful! Patrick Dude youre the man! Im going to take good care of you! Thanks for all that you have done. Raphael You are the most driven and determined guy I know. Thanks for all that you have done.
Last but Not Least. I would like to thank all the women that I have seduced. You all really helped me the most in developing the techniques in this book. It was completely my pleasure seducing you. Thank you for all the great memories and experiences!
Table of Contents
THE ART OF SEDUCTION: SEDUCE YOUR WAY TO THE FIRST KISS...................................................... 1 WHAT IS SEDUCTION? ............................................................................................................................................... 1 MISUNDERSTANDINGS ABOUT SEDUCTION ................................................................................................................ 2 DO I HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO SEDUCE WOMEN? ...................................................................................................... 3 THE SEDUCERS CREDO ............................................................................................................................................. 5 THE SEDUCERS BELIEFS TO SUCCEED WITH WOMEN ............................................................................................... 5 CHAPTER 1: THE SECRETS TO GETTING ANY WOMEN YOU DESIRE ................................................... 6 GIVE THEM WHAT THEY REALLY WANT ................................................................................................................. 6 THE #1 MISTAKE GUYS MAKE THAT RUIN THEIR CHANCES WITH THE GIRL ............................................................ 7 GIVE WOMEN THE SEDUCTION EXPERIENCE .............................................................................................................. 8 CHAPTER 2: THE 3 WAYS TO CREATE INSTANT ATTRACTION .............................................................. 9 WHAT TO DO IF SHES NOT INTERESTED?............................................................................................................... 10 BANTERING AND TEASING HER ............................................................................................................................... 10 BEING COCKY FUNNY ............................................................................................................................................. 12 THE CONCEPT OF PUSH PULL: NOT BEING TOO EASY ............................................................................................ 13 CHAPTER 3: HOW TO KICK YOUR FEARS TO THE CURB FOR GOOD .................................................. 15 WHY AM I FEELING THIS WAY? .............................................................................................................................. 15 FIGHT, FLIGHT OR JUST PLAIN ROLL OVER ............................................................................................................... 15 EGO-PROTECTION MECHANISM ................................................................................................................................ 16 THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WINNERS AND LOSERS ................................................................................................. 16 YOU HAVE NOTHING TO FEAR, WOMEN LOVE TO BE SEDUCED ................................................................................ 17 WOMEN WANT CONFIDENCE................................................................................................................................... 18 CHAPTER 4: NO MORE REJECTION EVER!!! ............................................................................................. 20 SERIOUSLY NEVER GET REJECTED AGAIN! ....................................................................................................... 20 THE SEDUCERS CRUCIAL CHECKLIST TO AVOID BEING TURNED DOWN OR REJECTED WHEN GOING IN FOR THE FIRST KISS. .............................................................................................................................................................. 20 PREREQUISITE #1: WHAT IS HER INTEREST AND ATTRACTION LEVEL? .................................................................. 21 PREREQUISITE #2: IS SHE COMFORTABLE GETTING CLOSE TO YOU? ..................................................................... 21 How to Get Her Comfortable Getting Close to You ........................................................................................... 22 PREREQUISITE #3: IS SHE COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR TOUCH? ............................................................................. 24 How to Get Her Comfortable with Your Touch ................................................................................................. 24 CHAPTER 5: THE 4 SEDUCERS TESTS TO KNOW WHEN SHES READY .............................................. 25 THE SEDUCERS SECRET: COMPLIANCE TESTING .................................................................................................... 25 GENERAL COMPLIANCE TESTING ............................................................................................................................ 28 Why would she not acknowledge me? ................................................................................................................ 29 General Compliance Test Examples .................................................................................................................. 31 Deciphering the General Compliance Indicators .............................................................................................. 32 INTEREST COMPLIANCE TESTING ............................................................................................................................ 33 Interest Compliance Test Examples ................................................................................................................... 34 Deciphering the Interest Compliance Results .................................................................................................... 36 ATTRACTION COMPLIANCE TESTING ....................................................................................................................... 37 Attraction Compliance Test Examples ............................................................................................................... 39 Deciphering Attraction Compliance Results ...................................................................................................... 40 SEXUAL COMPLIANCE TESTING ............................................................................................................................... 42 Sexual Compliance Test Examples..................................................................................................................... 44
SeduceHer Kissing Secrets: What Every Man Should Know About Women, Kissing and Seduction
Deciphering Sexual Compliance Results ........................................................................................................... 45 WHAT IF SHE DOESNT COMPLY? .............................................................................................................................45 PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER ...................................................................................................................................... 47 Examples of Compliance Testing In Action ....................................................................................................... 48 CHAPTER 6: THE SECRETS TO AN UNFORGETTABLE FIRST KISS ....................................................... 55 Discover the Secrets to an Unforgettable First Kiss .......................................................................................... 55 MAKE HER COMFORTABLE WITH YOU AND YOUR TOUCH ......................................................................................... 55 MAKE THE FIRST KISS A WHOLE EXPERIENCE........................................................................................................... 55 FOCUS ON THE EXPERIENCE ..................................................................................................................................... 55 WHAT IS SEXUAL TENSION? .................................................................................................................................... 56 HOW TO CREATE SEXUAL TENSION ......................................................................................................................... 56 AN EXAMPLE OF SEXUAL TENSION ......................................................................................................................... 57 SEDUCERS SECRET TO MAKING THE FIRST KISS SO MEMORABLE .......................................................................... 58 CHAPTER 7: THE FIRST KISS HOW TO MAKE YOUR MOVE ............................................................... 59 THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN AN ATTRACTION KISS AND A SEDUCTION KISS ............................................................ 59 MORE MISTAKES THAT MOST GUYS MAKE ............................................................................................................ 60 TRANSITIONING TO THE FIRST KISS .......................................................................................................................... 61 THE 5 CS TO GOING FOR THE FIRST KISS ............................................................................................................ 61 Close to Her ....................................................................................................................................................... 61 Comfort with Getting Close to Her .................................................................................................................... 62 Calibrate When to Kiss ...................................................................................................................................... 62 Commit to the Kiss ............................................................................................................................................. 62 Contact of the Lips ............................................................................................................................................. 63 TOUCHING ZONES: KISSING COMPLIANCE TEST THAT WILL LEAD YOU TO HER LIPS FOR THE KISS ......................... 63 Zone A: Cheek to Cheek, Cheek Kisses ............................................................................................................. 63 Zone B: Forehead to Forehead, Nose to Nose .................................................................................................. 64 Zone C: Lips to Lips .......................................................................................................................................... 65 THE TRICK TO BEING A GOOD KISSER ....................................................................................................................... 65 SEDUCERS KISSING TIPS TO AN EASIER FIRST KISS................................................................................................ 66 TROUBLESHOOTING ................................................................................................................................................. 67 If She doesnt kiss on the first date ..................................................................................................................... 67 If shes too far away ........................................................................................................................................... 67 If she wont shut up ............................................................................................................................................ 68 If she turns away ................................................................................................................................................ 68 CHAPTER 8: THE SEDUCERS SECRETS TO KISSING, BITING AND EVERYTHING ELSE ........... 69 HOW TO AVOID THE COMMON MISTAKES MOST GUYS MAKE WITH KISSING ......................................................... 69 THE LIST OF COMMON MISTAKES MOST GUYS MAKE ............................................................................................. 71 Eye Contact ........................................................................................................................................................ 71 Use of hand placement ....................................................................................................................................... 72 Lips..................................................................................................................................................................... 73 Tongue................................................................................................................................................................ 74 Biting .................................................................................................................................................................. 74 SEDUCERS NOTES ON KISSING ............................................................................................................................... 75 Body Contact rather than Leaning Forward ...................................................................................................... 75 Total Silence....................................................................................................................................................... 75 French Kissing ................................................................................................................................................... 75 Leave Her Wanting More ................................................................................................................................... 76 Highly Erogenous Zones .................................................................................................................................... 76 MORE SEDUCERS KISSING SECRETS ....................................................................................................................... 77 NOW LETS GET STARTED! ................................................................................................................................ 78 RECOMMENDED RESOURCES 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SeduceHer Kissing Secrets: What Every Man Should Know About Women, Kissing and Seduction
Ok, so you might be asking yourself, why is the first chapter in the SeduceHer Kissing Secrets book about seduction? Good question I could share with you just the bare minimum of how to get that first kiss. I could even show you how to escalate that first kiss to a sexual encounter and call my work done. But I think just doing that would be a mistake. I want to teach you more than just how to get it and that means teaching you some basics of seduction that you can use beyond kissing. This book is not meant to teach you how to be a master seducer, but how to use powerful seduction techniques from real seducers to take your current or future relationships to the next level. I am going to teach you how to get that first kiss (without getting rejected), how to make the first kiss magical, and even how to escalate the relationship to more. When we are done here you will have the basic foundation of what all master seducers must know Who knows, maybe after learning these techniques and how to apply them, you just might be interested in taking your game to the next level to becoming a master seducer. So lets cover the foundation of seduction and how you are going to use it to get the first kiss.
What is Seduction?
Seduction is the art and science of influencing the actions, emotions and responses of others at the subconscious level. Yes, believe it or not, seduction is not only a science, but an art. It is a science in that it is a set of practical defined principals applied to common situations its how its actually accomplished that makes it an art!
Okay, enough of the technical jargon; in short, seduction is about getting people to do what you want. Its not just about getting the woman, or kissing a woman, or even making love to a woman. Its about getting a woman, any woman you desire, to desire you. Its about making her want to be with you, making her want desperately want, that first kiss. Its about making her want and need to be with you. Its about creating desire and fulfilling desire. Seduction is the stuff of romance. Without it, unforgettable loves never happen and life is nothing more than a really boring after school special. I am going to share with you my secret seducers tips and techniques developed through hundreds of hours of personal one-on-one coaching. Im talking about stuff that people have paid hundreds and thousands of dollars to learn. From the simple to the super complex, Im going to cover it all Field-tested, proven over and over again, I will reveal to you the seduction skills that the master seducers use, that will change your love life forever.
People like Bill Clinton, Casanova, and Donald Trump are all master seducers. These guys seduce the world; they get what they want, and get people to WANT to give them what they want every day. So its no surprise that theyre also some of the most successful people. It is my own personal goal to show you the positive side of seduction. There will always be bad people in the world that use these powerful tools for evil and give seduction a bad reputation. Thats why Im here to be your guiding light and show you the ways of seduction and how it is positive and beneficial for both parties, namely you and your woman.
Casanova is the ideal seducer. What made him a master seducer is that for each and every woman he seduced, he didnt just bed them for his own pleasure; he bedded them for their pleasure. He loved to make them feel special and gave them an experience they wont ever forget. The women truly felt that being seduced by Casanova was the greatest pleasure they have ever experienced. He left them better than he found them and added great pleasure to their lives. Real seducers add value to peoples lives. They have charisma and make people feel good about themselves. They give positive energy to whoever they encounter. In return, they get what they want. Let me break this down for you. Casanova takes his time with a women, his goal is to leave a woman better than he found her creating a positive self-image, giving her positive energy, and in the end, a wholly remarkable experience for the woman. Casanovas critics say he took advantage of women, but in truth, his legacy is that of a great lover, giving women the experience of a lifetime. Hundreds of women cant be wrong they want to be with him because of how he makes them feel, how they feel when they are WITH HIM so naturally they want to be with him at every opportunity. Thats the power of seduction. Women want you. Guys want to be like you. The whole world is seduced by you. I think you are starting to see how powerful seduction is and why I feel it is so important to teach you the basics. I am going to go one step further and share with you the Seducers Credo. I promise you, if you can grasp this concept, it will all become clear that making the first move is about planting the seeds of desire and simply watching it grow.
Then I realized something extremely important. Capturing a womens heart is not obvious and often counter intuitive. I realized that what I knew about women was wrong. The truth of the matter is women dont even know what they want. So can you imagine trying to please someone who doesnt even know what they want?
By learning from the top seducers for many years and by putting my skills to the test, I discovered what women really want, and uncovered the secrets to getting any women I desire. Whats the secret? Give them what they really want and not what they think they want.
Women want to feel special and unique; they live by the astrology concept. They need to feel they are important.
If you plan a whole romantic experience with little things like candlelight dinners and slow dancing in the moonlight with a kiss at the perfect moment, she will completely surrender herself to you by the end of the night. Its all called romance.
Not the cheesy type of romance where you buy her flowers and chocolates and sing her classical love songs in the moon light. Sure, some women love that stuff but try to look at whats actually going on there. Its not the long walks on the beach or the love poems;, its the feeling that she is a special being. And most importantly, that she is special to you.
She needs to feel that she is a significant shining star of the universe. She needs to feel special and important. Now I dont mean put her on the pedestal by all means. In fact, thats probably the worst thing you could do. What I mean is, put in the energy and make her feel that she is worth the effort, BUT only after she has worked for it.
Do not make the crucial mistake of giving her something when she doesnt deserve it, like buying her drinks just because she is willing to talk to you, or offering her dinner when she hasnt shown that she is worthy of your time. Ill explain what I mean a little later in this book. Women want to feel special only when they have earned it. A powerful way to make her feel special is to give her an experience to remember. Give her the seducers experience and let her feel how wonderful it is to be seduced.
The #1 Mistake Guys Make that Ruin Their Chances with the Girl
The biggest mistake most guys make is they rush to accomplish their goal or objective. Be it the first kiss or sex, most women will find rushing to the finish line a totally lackluster experience.
Instead of making her feel like a piece of meat and going after what she knows every man wants, turn the experience into a story. Have you ever wondered why women love reading romance novels? Women LOVE stories. Its all about the story for them, how the story unfolds, the 7 Copyright 2008 | Seduce Her Secrets.com
tension, the struggle and the drama. They want the experience of being romanced and being part of the story.
So dont just focus on eating, focus on the experience around eating. Apply that same concept to courting a woman. Dont just focus on getting the kiss. Focus on adding the extra details to the first kiss to make it an experience she wont ever forget and she will be the one seducing you!
Give her a great kiss and she will probably remember your kiss. Give her a seduction experience and she will always remember you.
Remember, its all about the journey, and not the destination. Most guys, being logical and goaloriented, focus on the destination. But to be good with women and do what seducers do, you have to really create an experience out of the journey. Turn it into a great story and by the time the destination comes, she will be ready to melt into your arms.
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You must be a wimpy drinker arent you? Her: Me: Uh? What?! No I am not! (Giggling)
friend.(Giggling) Me: OMG thats even worse! Real friends dont let
friends drink wimpy drinks! What kind of friend are you?! Her: Me: Haaa.Haa.... You know what, I dont think we can be friends, I
cant hang out with girls who drink wimpy drinks All the girls I know who drink wimpy drinks dont know how to have fun!!! Her: Trust me. I know how to have fun! Im a Tequila
girl!!! Me: Thats even worse! Her: Haaa.Haaa Tequila girls are Craaaaazy!? Whats your name?!
Youre fun!
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Notice how I set her up by teasing her when she was buying a wimpy drink. I also kept the tread going and continued to tease her and generate more attraction. I have managed to create attraction by getting her to try to qualify herself when I said I cant be her friend. Her interest level has increased. Thats why she asked for my name. Its a sign she wants to get to know me. I applied several other attraction tactics here and will break it down in the next few sections. But you can see that by effectively teasing her, I created a positive response and received some solid interest from her.
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The trick to getting this to work depends mainly on the delivery. The content also needs to be more funny than cocky. Delivering a line such as, Youre such a bad girl! No dessert for you!! at the right time, with the right tone and nonverbal communication will invoke a playful sexuality out of her. You can also demonstrate cocky funny by your actions. For example, just as you are walking with her to the door, rush ahead of her to make it seem as if you are going to open the door for her. But instead of opening it for her, you rush through the door first and close the door behind you. It will throw her off guard and separate you from the rest of the guys that have desperately tried to impress her. You essentially want to convey that you are someone who doesnt take life too seriously. You know how to have fun and are sure of yourself. You can find more of my playful cocky funny techniques a little later in the book.
to get it. But if you give the cat the string, the cat may be happy at first but it will shortly get bored with it, and then the game is over. Be the string that is difficult to get. This concept is long and extensive so here are some quick tips you can use immediately to practice push pull. Remember the idea is not to be too easy and to make her work to win you over. When she asks you to do something for her make her work for it. For instance, if she asks you to pass her a drink, grab the drink and before you give it to her, point to your cheek as if you require a kiss on the cheek before you hand her the drink. Or you can tell her I think I love you! You know what I want to do? I want to take you to Vegas tomorrow and get married, then break up with you and take half your money! Do this with a smile. Its a combination of role playing, cocky funny and push pull. As long as you do it with a smile, the routine is so outrageous and crazy that she will know you are joking. Its a great way to tease her and make her work to win you over.
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have been trained to fight, thats probably what you are going to do. Without any training, most people are going to try to get the hell out of there. Lets apply this to our first kiss example. You start thinking about moving in for that kiss, what are you gonna do when the fear hits? There is a little more time to think here, the impending doom is not real, what are you going to do? For most people, it becomes a fight between the conscious and sub-conscious. The conscious mind starts rationalizing the fear and creating all sorts of possible negative outcomes The very basis of fear is protection from something bad, remember? This internal fight of what do to do next most often results in doing nothing, or worse yet, bungling the whole thing with an awkward nervous moment everyone involved would love to forget. Sound familiar?
Ego-protection mechanism
There is this weird thing that some guys do - they con themselves into believing theyre not so bad with women. They also make excuses like, It was meant to be, shell show up, or I dont need help with that. Lets face it, being known as someone who has a problem with women is a big blow to our ego. In defense of the ego, sometimes guys lie to themselves and those around them to feel better. Over long periods of reinforcement, this little white lie can deeply affect your self-esteem. You have to be a man and face the truth as the first step. If you dont make a conscious effort to take control of your love life, you may end up being with someone you didnt really want, or even worse, risk being lonely for the rest of your life. Everyone has to pay their dues. Humility is the first phase of growth.
experience the subconscious draws on next time it encounters fear. The rational goes something like this Last time I felt like this, I didnt do anything, and Im still alive. This reaction to fear becomes the standard response and thats why losers keep losing. But lets say you actually went for the kiss and made the first move. Im willing to bet you are not going to die, so you end up training yourself to take the action instead of doing nothing. Winners keep winning because they take action. Instead of saying that it cant be done, ask How CAN it be done. And thats what separates the winners from the losers. The good news is that the training can start all over today. Gain experience and push yourself out of your comfort zone, nothing is going to kill you. You may experience some struggle and pain at the beginning but its just a sign of weakness leaving the body. You must stop that internal fighting, the mental masturbation, and go for it. Trust me, it gets a little easier as your confidence builds and you learn how to use that waterfall of adrenaline to take action.
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Society forces women to suppress their sexuality. Throughout history, men have crucified, exiled or even killed women who were sexually expressive. Since women are so sexual, and because society makes them suppress their sexual urges, they are extremely sexually repressed. You will be doing her a great deed (no pun intended) if you get her comfortable with her sexuality and allow her to express her sexual desires. She will be so pleased if you can seduce her and make her feel comfortable with the whole process. If you can put the whole sexual encounter into a process that puts no pressure or blame on her and makes it seem as though it just naturally happened, she will be inclined to fulfill her deepest sexual desires with you.
comfort zone is the key to growing. Growth is a sign that you are alive and living whereas the opposite of growth is death. I will help guide you through that growth and make the change less painful. Remember, pain is weakness leaving the body. If its painful or you dont enjoying doing it, its because youre weak in that area. The ones that are most willing to endure pain are the ones that will become the champions, rather than the chumps. Like the saying goes, no pain, no gain. By making the commitment to read this book and apply the techniques, you will be able to become a champion and kiss as many beautiful women as you desire.
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The Seducers Crucial Checklist to Avoid being turned Down or Rejected When Going In For The First Kiss.
There are 3 crucial first kiss prerequisites that you must know to avoid the embarrassment of being turned down or rejected. Prerequisite #1: Is Her Interest and Attraction Level high enough? Prerequisite #2: Is She Comfortable Getting Close To You? Prerequisite #3: Is She Comfortable With Your Touch? If you dont know the answer to any one of these questions, and I mean know without a doubt its a no. You are in the danger zone and risk rejection, or even worse, screwing up the relationship because you moved too soon. Below, I will explain each prerequisite in detail. I will give you several examples in the following chapter that will provide you with tools to test each prerequisite to ensure you wont get turned down for the first kiss.
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hardly expect her to give you a hug. Most of these tests are done intentionally. But there are many situational tests that will give you just as useful feedback to gauge her kissability level. For instance, you tell her that youre going to the bar to get a drink as you start walking away, she grabs your hand and follows you towards the bar. Thats a high indication of interest and it came from a situational test that was somewhat unintentional. As you get familiar with these tests, you will gather feedback from these situations to measure her kissability in addition to the standard intentional compliance testing. It sounds complicated but once we get to the examples, itll be pretty easy to understand. After I show you all the compliance tests, I will show you a real life example of how all these tests are applied throughout the whole interaction from start to kiss. It is pretty easy to know her intentions when she blatantly tells you that she likes you or she wants to go home with you. Those signs are signs are obvious. But for the most part, women are very subtle with their signs and communication. The beauty of these compliance tests is that they allow you to understand the subtle female language. Understanding these compliance tests will make her subtle signs as obvious to you as if she were to directly ask you to go back to her place. It will give you the green light goggles so that you can see your opportunities to move forward. I sam pretty sure you get the picture and the importance of these compliance tests. But to ensure you to truly understand the power of these tests and the amazing benefits, I am going to drill it in your head some more by relating it to flying an airplane. There is this pilot test called Instrument Rated. Its a certification that verifies you know how to fly a plane when there is zero visibility, relying solely on the instruments. A lot of plane crashes happen in bad visability situations because the pilot gets disoriented or confused and makes the wrong move. If he fully understood the flying instruments and what they were telling him there would be no confusion or disorientation and the right steps could be taken to avoid disaster. This inability to understand what his instruments or tests are saying will lead injuries and death, and in the case of your relationship you get the picture. 25 Copyright 2008 | Seduce Her Secrets.com
In relation to women, we have been brainwashed by society and the media. Its no wonder the inexperienced have no direction or idea on where to go or even where to start. Think of compliance testing as your flying instruments to courting women. They will tell you when you are going too fast, going too slow or even if you are going backwards. Each compliance test that you use will be like one of your many instruments. The results of the test will allow you to gauge whether or not she is interested, she wants to kiss you, or even if she wants to go home with you or more. Each test will give you results and you can then interpret those results for a better understanding of whats going on. Once you have an understanding of whats happening, it will tell you what you need to do to win the womens heart even when you cant see where you stand. Thats the true power of compliance testing. Guided trial and error will be the best way for you to internalize these tests. This book will be your guide, but you do have to make an effort to learn through trial and error. It is only with experience that you will internalize the meaning behind each compliance test. All of these tests are done subconsciously between two people as a part of regular interaction. Knowing whats happening will give you a heightened sense of awareness of when to kiss the girl or where you went wrong. It may take some time to master, but once you understand how to interpret her responses to the tests, and how these tests relate to each other, you will know exactly when to navigate her lips directly to yours and never fear being turned down for a kiss again!
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And as an added note and you know I shouldnt be telling you this because its quite obvious appearances do matter a lot. Again, you dont have to have good looks or lots of money to be successful with women. But, being well-groomed and well-dressed will create instant interest and present yourself as man of confidence. You can hardly expect a woman to give you the time of the day if you look shabby or you smell bad, just as youd hardly notice a bum off of the street asking you for some change. If you cant take care of yourself, how are you going to treat a woman? Oh, and since you do plan on getting physically intimate, clean teeth, fresh-smelling breath and neatly-trimmed fingernails would be good too. If you need help with fashion go to a mens clothing store in the mall, find a cute friendly girl you wouldnt mind getting to know and tell her that you are doing a fashion makeover and want some help finding some new clothes. Women love fashion and shopping for other people. Who knows, by the time she is done helping you play dress up, you might get a date out of it. Oh, by the way, if you get a date out of this, I charge a finders fee!
General compliance tests will also help you pre-screen the girls that are too much into themselves or who are social retards. I personally feel that if a girl cant be friendly and at a minimum have a level of social etiquette, I dont want anything to do with her. She might be having a bad day or have been hit on by a 100 guys already and wants to be left alone but shes still here and is looking for something. Reluctance is understandable and I usually plow through to ensure her that Im just there to make her feel better. If your approach is done properly, she will never blow you off or be rude. But if you feel that your approach wasnt done properly, then it might be a good idea to move on and approach someone else. My experience has led me to believe that the girls who cant be friendly have serious self-esteem issues and will drain you of your energy and emotions if you let them. I also want to add my personal rule to meeting not only women but people in general; I am someone of value and am a value giver. I bring positive energy and leave everyone better than I found them. If someone does not recognize and see that, then it will be their loss. And if they cant be friendly, positive and have a sense of humor, I dont want them in my life. It will take experience and micro-calibration to see if she is having a bad day or if she is an overall negative person. But once you understand this, you will know how to deal with the situation accordingly and not be fazed if she blows you off. These general compliance tests are great for gauging the interest level of someone you want to meet. If you are already on a date with a girl youve met, then you have more than just a general level of compliance with her. You have at least piqued her interest since she is willing to spend time with you, and thats an indicator of interest which will be discussed later on.
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There are many resources on approaching women and if you are having trouble in this area I encourage you to visit my resources website on approaching and attracting women at http://www.SeduceHerSecrects/attraction
Explanation of Tests See if she responds and smile back. If she ignores you even if you know that she heard you, its usually a bad sign. She might be distracted or just doesnt want to meet you.
If she replies, it shows that she has at least complied with your minimal request. If she doesnt comply with this minimum social etiquette request, you are in trouble.
If she responds, then it shows she is receptive to meeting you. Follow that up by asking slightly personal questions from her like where she came from, etc.
If she takes it and shakes your hand after you greet her, you have minimum general compliance with her so you can proceed to the next test.
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CHAPTER 5: THE 4 SEDUCERS TESTS TO KNOW WHEN SHES READY Touch her often
Be one of those touchy guys. Touch her accidentally and make it short. Dont take your hand and leave it on her shoulders. Just lightly touch and let go as if you are trying to make a point. Also, no stroking!
And hold her close for a little bit and see if she is comfortable with getting close to you and your touch. Be the first to let go.
Sit down on the couch and take your hand and pat it on the seat next to you. If she complies and sits where you pat, then it is a positive indicator.
Put her hand on your lap and see if she leaves it there Ask her to play a game or dance and see if she does it. If you just met her, ask her to introduce you to her friends and see if she does it. Get her to give you her number or agree to meet up with you for future plans.
After holding her hand or put her hand on your lap and see if she leaves it there or pulls it away. Ask her to play a drinking game or go out to dance and see if she complies. Ask her to introduce you to her friends. By getting her to do this, you are no longer and stranger and it also builds instant rapport. This is a major one. If you get her phone number and get her to make plans with you, then shes definitely interested.
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The tests in this section will measure her attraction compliance level. A lot of interest compliance and attraction compliance tests overlap so its important to pay special attention and correctly interpret what the results mean.
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CHAPTER 5: THE 4 SEDUCERS TESTS TO KNOW WHEN SHES READY time. If she is being extra friendly and flirty.
with you, but she is going back to your place. Women dont flirt with those they dont have interest to. Some women are highly flirty but even still, they wouldnt flirt if they didnt have interest potential.
That means she wants to kiss. When you see her do that several times, just pull her in for a kiss.
When a woman asks for your schedule, where you live etc, its a sign that she is thinking logistics. She wants to know how she can fit in your life. Take this as a huge sign of interest.
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to completely ignore these sexual signs and not only will you miss the opportunity, but you can risk creating an impression of carelessness or apathy and she will lose interest.. You have probably been on the receiving end of these indicators more often than you think and made the wrong impression. Fortunately for you, this section will show you how to recognize these indicators and give her what she wants, a man of action. When a fish bites, dont loose it because you didnt reel it in. For more information on flirting, escalating relationships and turning things sexual check out the Recommended Resources Section at the end of the book or at: http://www.SeduceHersecrets.com/sexual http://www.SeduceHerSecrets.com/flirting
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People dont appreciate what they havent earned. Before you offer her anything from drinks to dinners, make sure that she has worked for and deserves it. Buying her dinner is not the prize. Spending time with you is the prize. You just so happen to be having dinner but the reward is spending time with you not a free dinner. This concept is so simple yet so often overlooked. Talk about common sense being not so common. Its the same as when a kid cries or misbehaves and you give them candy or dessert. What you are teaching is, if they misbehave, they get dessert and sweets. If you reward bad behavior I guarantee you will get more of and if you reward the kind of behavior you want, you will get more of that too. So what do you do when she doesnt comply? You punish her! No no spanking involved. Even though I know you would love to! I mean first off, dont reward her for her bad behavior. If she doesnt comply, dont reward her. Secondly, punish her by doing a take away. Do a playful push by teasing her and saying in a playful tone, I hate you!! It is over! I want a divorce!!! And take away your attention and positive energy for a while by turning away slightly and/or engage conversation with someone else. The take away will make her feel how cold it is without your positive warmth and presence shining upon her. If she does comply make sure to reward her. If she follows you to the bar or gives you a compliment, you want to reward her for good behavior. You should never buy a woman a drink to coax her into coming with you to the bar. Dont use gifts like drinks as bait. If you want a drink for yourself and she escorts you, then you should offer her a drink and reward her for her good behavior. What I mean is dont say Come with me to the bar and I will buy you a drink. Instead, say I want a drink. Come with me. If she does, when you order your drink, take charge and get something for her as well. When she pays you a compliment, thank her, acknowledge it and reward her. Something as simple as Aww thats sweet! Come here and lean in and kiss her on the cheek or give her a 45 Copyright 2008 | Seduce Her Secrets.com
hug or a squeeze of the arm. Your affection is very powerful at rewarding to her. Give her affection when she is good. Take away your affection when she misbehaves.
"Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless like water. Now you put water in a cup, it becomes the cup; You put water into a bottle it becomes the bottle; You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend."
The flexibility to mold and shape into whatever situation you are in will allow you to break through every resistance and solidify your seduction of any women with consistent results. It will allow your interactions to flow like water rather than crash against the rocks and create great surge of rejection. It's not just one technique but many, which, simplified and combined together, are added tools for you to effectively and efficiently kiss any girl you desire.
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Blonde: Nice to meet you Accepts handshake (Passed GC Test) Michael: 3 second awkward Pause on Purpose (Situational GC Test) She does pass my compliance test by thanking me for the compliment, answering my request for her name, accepting my handshake and responding to my nice to meet you. So because she accepted my interest level compliance test, I used the situation to test her interest level by adding an awkward pause to see if she asks me for my name. If she did it would be a good indication she is interested in getting to know me. After pausing for 3 seconds, I realized that she is not going to ask me for my name. So based on this interaction so far this is where I stand: She passed my general compliance test and interest compliance test but didnt pass my second interest compliance test which was a situational based test. That means she may consider me as a friend but not interest in relationship because if she were interested in me, she would have wanted to find out my name. I knew that she was not initially attracted to me (probably because I was shorter than her) and I needed to create some attraction in her to be able to go any further. Just an FYI, she told much later that I was initially not her type and she would have normally have been brief and blew me off. Because of my bold confidence when I approached her and how I didnt make her feel awkward or uncomfortable, she was intrigued and wanted to see what I would say next.
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Interest/Attraction) Blonde: What?! Michael: Yeah I would totally pull your hair and tease you while you run and tell mom.(Creating Interest/Attraction) Blonde: Yeah, I probably would run and told mom!!! Michael: I knew you are tattle teller!! You know what I would do, I would tattle tell back and tell her how you havent been eating your veggies and playing dress up with her clothes while trying on her make up! (More teasing) Blonde: Haaa!! Haaa! Youre so mean! Haa! I hate you brother! She playfully hits me in my arm. (Created Interest/Attraction) Michael: Ouch!! I always knew you were violent!! Im telling mom!!! (More Teasing) Blonde: Haaa!! Haaa!! You are so funny!!! Whats your name?! (Created Solid Interest) Noticed how I effectively created interest and attraction (they usually go hand in hand) by applying the attraction building concepts that I mentioned in this book. She is getting interested by responding to my comments, teasing, and plays along with my role play. She also playful hits me which shows signs of interest. Then she gave me a solid indicator of interest by asking me for my name. Do you see how she had no attraction or interest for me when I approached her but it changed the moment I started to build her interest in me by teasing her? Its like a light switch you turn on and then all of the sudden, theres interest. She didnt ask for my name before I teased her but after several rounds of teasing, she wanted to know who I was. Its very empowering.
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So since I am getting some signs of interest and possibility attraction, I throw out a few more interest compliance test by seeing if she is willing to respond to some personal questions. I also threw another interest compliance test by not giving her my name and to see if she really does want to know who I am. Michael: Before I tell you my name, answer this... What did you want to be when you were 7 years old? (IC Test) Blonde: Definitely a dancer. I always loved to dance!! (Complied to my IC Test) Michael: What is it about dancing that you love so much? (IC Test) Blonde: blablablablah (Complied to my IC Test) Michael: Cool I really respect that about you! Now I see you in a different light. (Reward her for complying) Blonde: Thanks. How about you? What did you want to be when you were 7? Wait You never told me your name. What is your name?! (Solid Interest) Notice how I didnt give her what she wanted right away which was my name. I made her wait a little bit to show that I am not that interested in her and wont jump in right away to please her. I made her wait and complied some more before I rewarded her. And only if she was a good girl by answering my question properly is when I will reward her by giving her my name. So at this point, I know that she is definitely interested in getting to know me since she wants to find out the same personal information that I asked about her. Furthermore, since I didnt give her my name (another IC Test) she brought it up later wanting to know what it is. One thing I want to point out is that it is a series of IC tests that I derived that she was interested in me and not just one IC test. The result from one IC test is not enough to indicate whether she is interested or attracted. It is the results of several test combined that will give you solid factual data to know if she is interested and/or attracted. So back to the blonde, the interaction unfolded as follows. Try to be aware of what I was trying to do and what IC test I was using. 50 Copyright 2008 | Seduce Her Secrets.com
Michael: Sure But first, lets sit down over here for a little bit. My feet are tired. Then I will answer all your questions. (IC/AC Test) Blond: Okay But I got to get back to my friends so I can only sit for a little bit. (Complied with tests) There are several things I did here along with the interest and attraction compliance test. A compliance test I used to gauge her interest level is to ask her to sit down with me. Take a minute and really analyze what I told her. I still didnt answer her question regarding my name, and I also made her pass another compliance test before I give her what she wants. I also didnt ask or beg her. I told her in a form of a command that I will tell her what she wants to know but I want to sit down because by feet hurt and she should join me. I also put a time constraint by saying that its only for a little bit so it wont trigger any safety indicators since she just met me. Those are very subtle communications at a very micro level but are important to sub communicate. So I picked an available seat on the bench and tapped on the seat right next to me. Michael: Sit here. (IC/AC Test) Blonde: Okay Mr. Mystery Man. So whats your name? (Signs of interest) Michael: Mystery man?! Haa!! You really love role playing dont you?! Haa!! My name is Michael (Rewarding her for sitting down next to me) Blonde: No way!!! Are you serious?! I always loved that name Michael!! What sign are you?! (Solid signs of interest and attraction) Michael: That sounds like a trick question. Im not sure if I should tell you (Making her work for it which builds attraction a little more) Blonde: Hee Hee! Youre so silly! Tell me mystery man!! (More signs of interest. She is teasing me back by calling me names) Michael: Okay Ill tell you if you tell me a secret that no one knows about you when you were little. (AC Testing) Blonde: What?! I dont think I know you well enough for that yet (non compliance)
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Michael: Okay you got me! I admit it! I am going to selling your secret to the national enquirer. OMG!? How did you know?! (Made her distrust sound ridiculous by using sarcasm) Blonde: Haa!! Okay fine! How about you tell me a secret of yours first and I will do the same? (I/A Compliance) Michael: Whoa, Whoa, Whoa. Are we negotiating here?! You know that if I go first, its going to cost two secrets from you right?!(More attraction building) This went on for several more minutes of light banter and building rapport between each other. I did several physical compliance test during this time. After she passed several of my attraction compliance tests I decided to make my move. Here are the signs that I knew she was attracted. 1. I noticed she was leaning in closer and closer to me. I even tested her even more by leaning back as she kept leaning in. 2. I then noticed that she put her hands on my knees a couple times. 3. She asked several personal questions and brought my ex girlfriends. 4. She said she had to go back to her friends but she was sitting there talking to me for a good 30 minutes with her friends drink in her hands. If you play your cards right, she will lose track of time. So dont fret when she gives you a time constraint. With all of this evidence stacking up, if you were in my shoes, who you feel confident to pull the trigger and go in for the kiss?
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CHAPTER 6: THE SECRETS TO AN UNFORGETTABLE SeduceHer Kissing Secrets| FIRST KISS know for sure shes going to kiss you. But most importantly, you want to take your time and let her desires marinate. Draw out the experience to build up as much sexual tension as possible. And then, when she just cant take it any longer, move in for the kiss and she will explode when your lips touches hers. The more intense you make the experience, the more she will remember it and want more. Involve all 5 senses and mentally stimulate her by adding some sexual tension.
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Seduction Kiss
To arouse her and turn her on, getting her ready for sex. Any kiss that will physically arouse her; be it French kissing, biting or sucking, should be saved for later. A lot of guys make the mistake of making out with her too soon or before they even reach the seduction location. Doing this will change her mind and she will decide to not go back to your place. It may also cause her to never want to see you again. In addition, making out with her in a public place - and especially in front of her friends - will give her serious regrets and throw you in a make out with a random guy category which basically means that will be the last time you will see her.
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Make sure that when you seduce her, its in an intimate area and not a public setting with a lot of onlookers. Also, dont start the heavy make-out session until you are at a place where you can easily escalate the session into sex. All of these mistakes make her feel like she is easy. And the last thing women want is to be judged as a slut. So respect her discretion when you escalate sexually. The more natural you make the escalation, the more she is willing to go forward with you. And dont be like most guys and make the mistake of forcing her to continue kissing you. Dont be needy by showing her how horny you are. Practice self-control and be the first to pull away. Remember, always leave her wanting more. Too much is almost never a good thing.
CHAPTER 7: THE FIRST KISS HOW TO MAKE YOUR MOVE with my eyes closed looking like an ostrich trying to feed.
embarrassing story to a minimum by saying that the stare she gave me when I opened my eyes after I didnt feel anything on my lips is something I always use to keep me humble with this seduction knowledge.
Close to Her
The first step into transitioning for the kiss is to get close to her. You have to be within kissing proximity with her. Since she has passed some of your compliance tests that tested her comfort level in terms of getting close to you, this step should be pretty easy. 60 Copyright 2008 | Seduce Her Secrets.com
An important factor to ensure that the transition to the kiss is smooth and easy is the proximity between the two of you. If you have to lean in over the table to kiss her, it will make the kiss very awkward. Bring her in close to you or sit close next to her. The idea is to be close enough to her that all you and her have to do is lean in just a bit, and with a slight turn of your head, you are able to make lip contact comfortably. So get close to her so that you can be within kissing proximity.
for a home run hit. So once her indicators are there, fully commit yourself and move in with confidence and purpose. It will drive her desires wild!
Touching Zones: Kissing Compliance Test that will lead you to her lips for the kiss
Touching zones is a series of attraction compliance tests that allow you to build sexual tension and prepare her. The basic idea is to escalate slowly from a lower attraction compliance test into a higher attraction compliance test. If you escalate properly, the escalation and transition will be very smooth. The touching zones system that I developed, also known as T-Zones, consists of 3 zones. It starts off with innocent cheek contact which escalates quickly into the first kiss.
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comfortable with your touch. Contact with the face is a very touch sensitive area so you want to take some extra time to get her face comfortable with your touch. Kissing her on the forehead is also a great way to get her comfortable with your touch. It gives an almost endearing sentiment to it and shows that you care. At the right time, it could also be very powerful. It is a great follow-up after the first kiss. You can also give her kisses on her cheek as a form of reward for her good behavior. For instance, if she gives you a compliment, pull her in and say, You are such a sweet heart, and say, mwah, while kissing her on her cheek. The more you do these zones, the more comfortable she will be with your contact with her face.
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This maneuver also works great when you are slow dancing with her, with her arms wrapped around your neck and you are holding her close by the hips. Or even while youre just holding hands, hold her close to you. The main point is proximity. Keeping her close to you is whats important. You can always break away and redo the escalation again to build more sexual tension. Just dont do this too many times or else shell really get frustrated.
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Again, this is an attraction kiss, not a seduction kiss. Make sure you are at home or in a comfortable place before you do a full-blown make out session; if not, she will feel remorseful and not want to proceed.
Seducers Kissing Tip #2: Bring her towards you. Make her come to you. Dont lean in
too much. Make her lean in more or at least meet her halfway. Pull her in if you have to so that she can meet you halfway. But dont use force. She needs to WANT to guide herself to you. You are just leading her to where she wants to go. Dont trigger her defenses.
Seducers Kissing Tip #3: Whisper in her ear to gauge how comfortable she is with being
intimately close to you.
Seducers Kissing Tip #4: Stand or sit at a 45-degree angle or right next to her when you
whisper in her ear or pull her in. If you stand right in front of her and move in, its a lot more threatening and will trigger her defenses.
Seducers Kissing Tip #5: When you whisper in her ear, allow your cheek to contact hers
and see if she pulls away. If she doesnt, its an indicator shes getting comfortable with your touch.
Seducers Kissing Tip #6: When dining at the restaurant, make sure you sit right next to
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Seducers Kissing Tip #7: Suggest that you share dessert or an appetizer. It helps build
rapport and comfort a lot quicker with her if you are sharing. Its also fun to feed each other as well since it builds additional rapport.
smell you, and sniff her neck. These are good reasons for her to get close to you rather than you randomly triggering her defenses by getting close to her to smell her and, instead, freak her out.
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How to avoid the common mistakes most guys make with kissing
One of the biggest mistakes that guys make when they kiss is that they dont escalate properly. They either rush in to kiss her, or they try to get physical too quickly by touching her intimate areas, or they force their tongue down a girls throat too soon into the kiss. Dont just focus on the physical elements of kissing; take advantage of the mental elements as well. Involve all her senses to stimulate her subconscious mind, allowing your kissing experience with her to be more vivid and memorable. A general rule of escalation is that when in doubt, always start off slow and only escalate the situation when she is ready. What that means is that you dont go from making lip contact to inserting your tongue right away. Take your time and slowly probe her lips with the tip of your tongue and see if she opens it. If she doesnt, pull your tongue back and enjoy the lip locking 68 Copyright 2008 | Seduce Her Secrets.com
more. There are scenarios where you can escalate quickly but that will be discussed later in this chapter. Remember, its always the guys responsibility to lead and make the move. So when its time to make the move, follow the escalation progression below: 1. Tease her by breathing warm air onto her skin and let her feel the warmth and anticipation of your lips about to touch her skin. I said breathe, not blow. Let the warm air from your body slowly caress her skin. Anticipation is an important step to get her ready. 2. Connect your lips with hers and take some time to enjoy the transition. Let it settle a bit before you escalate. 3. The next step is to add a little bit of tongue to enhance the kissing experience. She wants to remember the kiss, not your tongue. The tongue should add to the kiss and not vice versa. 4. Do some gentle sucking of her lips or any other body part and prepare that area to for biting. 5. Bite her gently by slowly sinking your teeth in her skin. If shes bleeding after you do this, youre definitely doing something wrong. Be gentle and take your time. If you are hungry, eat something beforehand and dont pull a Mike Tyson on her! 6. Repeat the process, and this time, make it more intense if you want to arouse her. If not, you can pull away and let her marinate for later.
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Have one hand around her hips and the other hand around the back of her neck or jaw line for kissing control. This position is the most dominant and will give you the maximum control of her kissing and body positions. You can also use both hands to hold her face by the jaw line, have both hands around her waist or use both your hands to hold hers and pull her in but these hand positions will give you less control.
Lips
Wrong way #1: Too much slobber Wrong way #2: Lips too dry Wrong way #3: Too much or not enough pressure Okay, most of these wrong ways should be common sense, but I am going to touch on this just a little. Moisten your lips slightly before you go in for the kiss. Use some lip balm if your lips are dry and cracking. Feeling like sand paper is not the effect your lips want to produce. What you want is a soft, moist feeling that is firm but gentle to the touch. And slobbering is never, EVER acceptable! Keep your saliva in your mouth! If you get some on her, use your thumb and gently wipe it off her face. And last, but not least, is lip pressure. Make sure you dont apply too much pressure when you kiss her. But make sure she can at least feel your lips. This will take experience and practice to master. Lip pressure varies from person to person and from situation to situation. Some like it soft, some like it passionate. And there maybe some moments where you want each other so bad that you just devour each others lips. So get out there and start going in for the kiss as much as you can! Thats the only way you will get good at kissing.
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Tongue
Wrong Way #1: Tongue is introduced too much too soon Dont make the mistake of introducing the tongue too soon or use too much of it. I know I have said it earlier, but I will say it again because it is such a huge mistake that almost all guys make. With the tongue, a little goes a long way. Only insert your tongue as she welcomes it when she opens her mouth or when she sticks her tongue into your mouth. The tongue is like a double edged sword; it can be used to make the kiss passionate but if you dont use it correctly, it will do more harm than good. Focus on mainly the tip of the tongue to enhance the kissing experience. Use more lips and less tongue. When she is done kissing you, she should remember the kissing experience, not the tongue experience. Also, remember when you think of a kiss, you think of the lips not the tongue. When you think of the tongue, what comes to mind?!? Okay, so dont over use the tongue!
Biting
Wrong Way #1: Most guys bite down too hard and at the wrong places Biting can be so arousing if done properly, and will send goose bumps throughout her body if done right. But there is an art to biting. You have to bite at the right time and in the right areas. Everyones biting preferences are a little different so do some exploration with her. Some like it soft, some like it hard. With every new person you bite, you have to slowly increase the intensity to see how she responds and reacts. When in doubt, escalating slowly will always be your best bet to making your kiss memorable. Great areas to bite are the neck and shoulders, lower ears and lips. You can also lick and suck those areas for added effect. But remember the proper escalation order; breathe, kiss, tongue, suck, bite then repeat.
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Total Silence
Take advantage of the auditory senses. Lets refer back to the dining experience. When you are dining at a restaurant and you order some wine, do you know why people clink their glasses when they toast? Its because the auditory sense is the only sense that is left out of the dining experience. The clink is an auditory confirmation of the experience. If thats the case with food, wouldnt it make sense for us to do the same to kissing? Making soft moans and groans while youre kissing her will do the trick. Also, the sounds of lips smacking and heavy breathing will increase the passion as well. When you are done kissing her, make a Mmm, sound as if the kiss was so delicious and satisfying. Do it at the right moment and it will be sure to push her over the edge. Dont forget to use this highly neglected element of pleasure.
French Kissing
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same time, its also quite effective at turning her on. Since French kissing is based on the tongues involvement, dont get carried away by thinking that youre going to explore her teeth, gum line and hidden crevices with your tongue. Use the tongue as a stimulator and not as a probing device. Use it to lightly stimulate her tongue. Lightly suck on her tongue and encourage her to do the same. Using only the tip of the tongue is extremely sensual and arousing. Remember to use to the tongue to enhance the kiss; dont ruin the experience by letting the tongue dominate. In fact, the kiss should be so amazing, she forgot you even used your tongue.
see how intense the pleasure is. That tip alone is worth the price of this book! And the ones who got this book for free, you owe me double the price!
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RECOMMENDED RESOURCES
Recommended Resources
Below are some additional resources to help you become successful with women. My personal site: Michael SeduceHer http://www.michaelseduceher.com Learn how to build attraction: Michael SeduceHer http://www.seducehersecrets.com/attraction Learn how to approach: Michael SeduceHer - http://www.seducehersecrtes.com/approach Learn how to seduce: SeduceHer Secrets http://www.seducehersecrets.com/seduce
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