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The 8 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make in Bed ...and how YOU can easily avoid them!

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by Samuel Engelen

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Contents:
Introduction Mistake #1: Finding the perfect technique Mistake #2: Distracting yourself to increase stamina Mistake #3: Being too careful Mistake #4: Comparing yourself to porn stars Mistake #5: Worrying about your penis size Mistake #6: Fantasizing during sex Mistake #7: Using foreplay Mistake #8: Listening to mainstream media experts Mistake #9 (Bonus): Being too proud to improve

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Introduction
Let me start off immediately with one of the biggest mistakes guys make when it comes to good sex: Thinking all women are the same.

Every woman is different. Completely different and unique. Thats what makes them so beautiful.

If this were true we would have found the perfect way to bring women to orgasm a long time ago. It would have made my task much easier, and my advice much shorter. Fortunately (yes, fortunately!) this is not the case. Every woman is different. Completely different and unique. Thats what makes them so beautiful. Yet there are obviously similarities. Most women respond to similar stimuli. But if you approach women in terms of their similarities you will quickly become arrogant, mechanical and downright boring. The broad strokes I set out for you in this book are to be used as guidelines for exploration. Exploration and discovery come first. As Don Juan DeMarco said: Every woman is a mystery to be solved. Dont look at it purely analytically either. The mystery of women is never solved in a purely logical way.

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And dont think for one second it will be easy! You will make mistakes. You will anger her, you will hurt her, you will be led astray by egoic pride whenever you think youve succeeded.

Only an honest and open approach to this exploration will have the power to truly transform your life.

In the process of learning how to make a girl orgasm, you will be confronted with your own fears, insecurities and pride. Be prepared, and when you feel hurt or afraid, remember that I told you this would happen. Just watch these feelings. Dont deny them. Dont attempt to change them. Accept them, be aware of them and continue your exploration. Only an honest and open approach to this exploration will have the power to truly transform your life. And that is ultimately what transforming your relationship with sexuality is about: Transforming your relationship with life. Alright, enough of this deep talk. Lets get to the meat and potatoes of this thing.

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Mistake #1: Finding the perfect technique

As I said in the introduction, every woman is different, and so its impossible to master a perfect technique. In fact every guy is different as well, and we come in all shapes and sizes (as do our dicks). What works for one guy, might be disastrous for you. Imagine a guy with a 5 dick proclaiming he found the perfect technique by full, hard penetration at a 45 angle. Now imagine a guy with a 10 dick attempting the same stunt on the same girl. As you can imagine, that could be a painful mistake... Every woman responds differently and has different quirks and preferences. So make sure you take your time and discover what your sexual partner responds to. You might find a technique thats as close to perfect as possible for one girl, but it wont do you much good with another. Actually, it might not do you any good on another occasion with the same girl! She might like it hard and fast on some nights and slowly and softly on others. Finding the perfect technique is a rookie mistake, but a persistent one. It becomes a sort of quest for the holy grail. Because we are so physically oriented in the rest of our lives, we assume that mastering the art of sex entails a bunch of physical techniques.

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And many of you believe that there is one that stands out above the rest. The ultimate sexual technique. This is why I dislike the Kama Sutra. Yeah, I said it, and Ill say it again: The Kama Sutra sucks! But let me clarify that statement: the Kama Sutra has gotten major public attention in the last few decades, but it has been so skewed, rephrased and pulled out of context that what remains is a laughable pile of mainstream media hogwash. Most people in the western world think its the Indian sex manual. They assume its some ancient collection of sexual positions and techniques, and while some explanations of sexual positions can be found therein, its more like a religious rulebook for the Hindu faith. And if there is one thing I absolutely cant stand its the glorification of sexual positions as a means to attain sexual bliss. Im all for variety in sexual positions, but its a lot more fun to see where you naturally end up. Not because it was written in some ancient scriptures. Would you consult the bible for sex advice? Didnt think so. Look, no amount of physical technique will ever yield the transformative power of mental and emotional stimulation, period. Consciously employing physical techniques to aid and guide that mental and emotional stimulation, however, is an acceptable use for them.

Would you consult the bible for sex advice? Didnt think so.

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I had friends that used to ask me for sexual advice. They were invariably looking for techniques. And I would invariably start off by encouraging them to try dirty talk.

If youre too timid to call a girl your dirty little slut, then Im afraid you wont get very far.

Most of them refused because they were of the opinion that talking during sex ruins everything. Sure, if you start talking about the weather or the latest episode of Jersey Shore or your opinion on some African dictator, then youll surely kill the mood. But if youre too timid to call a girl your dirty little slut, then Im afraid you wont get very far. Always keep this in mind: for women, sex is all about mental and emotional stimulation. That might not be entirely true, but use it as a guideline, and your skills will skyrocket.

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Mistake #2: Distracting yourself to increase stamina

A room completely filled with wooden chairs. And I would try counting them. Whats your way of distracting yourself when you know ejaculation is edging closer? Perhaps its sports games, remembering scores or mathematical equations, perhaps images of your grandmother? Someone once suggested I try imagining my mother lying beneath me. I dont care what Freud said, that killed my sex drive for days. Every guy has done this, and a lot of them still do. Its a tip youll find in magazines and on blogs everywhere. Its horrible advice, really. Why the hell would you imagine anything else while youre engaged in such a wonderful experience?! No thanks, Id rather be right there, enjoying myself. I like to savor every little detail. The sounds, the smells, the touches, the sensations. The further you take this, the better. Presence (being in the moment or in the now, as some say) is incredibly attractive to women. How do you think she feels when youre off somewhere else, scanning your memory banks for pictures of your grandmother?

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Its a myth that you can distract yourself in order to prolong your lovemaking session. I believe ejaculation is triggered by physical stimulation and a subconscious, egoic need for emotional/energetic release and validation. Note the word subconscious, that means you cant do much about it.

Distracting your conscious mind clears the way for the subconscious to take over.

And if youre going to attempt to fool your subconscious and your biology by distracting your conscious mind, well, good luck! I think youll find youre actually shooting yourself in the foot. Distracting your conscious mind clears the way for the subconscious to take over. I find that relaxing into the pleasure is a much more effective way of dealing with premature ejaculation. Sure, itll take some time to change your habit, but this time youre getting better by enjoying yourself, instead of getting out of the experience altogether. The key here is awareness. Practice tuning in to all the subtle sensations, feel the energy rushing through you. But catch those thoughts that say: Wow! That feels SOOOO good! I just want to... You know what follows after that. You make your own point of no return (even if it is subconsciously).

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Le petit mort as the French say. The little death is that sweet release your subconscious yearns for. Perhaps a sort of little suicide? A release from all its accumulated trauma, embarrassment, shame, guilt and whatever else is stuck there. And there is nothing wrong with that release, remember that. In fact, as long as you dont know how to direct the energy and integrate the stuck emotions, that release is healthy. But if you want to learn how to increase your stamina, youll have to start relaxing through your little urges. Not only will it increase your stamina, itll increase your enjoyment of sex. If practiced long enough and with total surrender, itll open up a whole new world of sexual pleasure that you werent aware of before.

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Mistake #3: Being too careful

Women are delicate, sensitive and fragile creatures. But they also have very strong sexual desires. Truly, a womans sexuality is a very powerful force. So powerful in fact that it can make the strongest men crumble and break.

Its perfectly fine to be dominant. No woman will accuse you of misogyny in the bedroom.

In the fascinating realm of spirituality and sexuality, there are many references to, and stories about, the Goddess, this refers to the very essence of female energy. You will find plenty of examples of women biting mens heads off or swallowing them whole. They are a force to be reckoned with. And if youve ever pissed off a woman, youll know what Im talking about. In fact, anyone who remembers their mother probably has an idea of what Im talking about. Guys, dont be fooled by her fragile appearance. Ive seen the most innocent- looking women turn into furious monsters - or preferably sex-crazed maniacs - at the drop of a hat. Dominance is a very important concept in sexuality. If there is one thing I want you to take away from this book, its this: its perfectly fine to be dominant. Most guys are afraid of asserting dominance, because they think its disrespectful or chauvinistic. It isnt. No woman will accuse you of misogyny in the bedroom (if they do, youre doing something wrong, or choosing the wrong women).

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Guys, this front you try to put up of being a nice guy isnt fooling anyone but yourself. Nice guys are untrustworthy, because they hide their true feelings and desires. Sure, youre nice, youre safe, but nice and safe are not going to give her screaming orgasms. Dangerous and unpredictable are more likely to work. Now, please dont misinterpret what I say. Im not suggesting you put up the front of being a jerk. What Im trying to say is that its more important to assert your dominance than to get everyone to like you. Being dominant is really nothing more than knowing what you want or what you believe in and expressing that very clearly. But I digress. Look at dominance in the bedroom as a game. Youre taking on the role of the dominant person. Shes taking on the role of the submissive one. And youre both going to play these roles for the fun of it. And fun it will be. If youre not used to it (or your partner isnt), then it might seem ridiculous at first. Dont worry, thatll change. Enjoy the laughter and the mishaps. Humor is a great way of destroying barriers.

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You see, the nice and safe are present somewhere. But most guys are acting nice and safe. The acting is the problem, not the qualities themselves. If you want women to think of you as a good guy, make trustworthiness and authenticity your core values. That way, women will trust you without you having to act a certain way. If these are your core values, then using dominance as a tool in the bedroom wont be a problem. In fact, itll come natural. To give you a concrete example: Ill tell almost every woman I fuck during sex your pussy belongs to me. Its not true, obviously. I dont own any women or any of their body parts. But trust me when I say itll get her hotter than a heatwave in hell.

Most guys are acting nice and safe. The acting is the problem, not the qualities themselves.

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Mistake #4: Comparing yourself to porn stars

Most male porn stars get cast for their physical appearance (excluding the face). In the real world, physical appearance isnt half as important as skills, personality or attitude. Sure, many women like muscular men (some hate them). Yeah, they like certain facial features (quite often contradictory ones). Indeed, they all have a thing for a certain type of guy. Its true. Partially. But were focusing on the core, universal elements here. And the most important one I can teach you is attitude. Stop giving a fuck what you look like. I doubt I look like any girls image of the perfect man. Men like big tits, tight pussies, blond hair, asian chicks, and whatever percentage of fat the magazines are currently telling us is in fashion. True. Partially. But that means very little once were in the bedroom with a girl we like who knows how to please us. And knowing that we are way more visually focused than women, what does that tell you? Exactly, that shit dont matter half as much as you think it does. Oh, you mean performance-wise? Good question.

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Heres the deal: yes, some porn stars know how to fuck. But, most of them still act like fucking jackrabbits. Women enjoy getting fucked hard and manhandled, but no woman wants to get fucked by a rabbit. Catch my drift?

Women enjoy getting fucked hard and manhandled, but no woman wants to get fucked by a rabbit.

Look, Im not gonna lie to you and tell you that all women want you to slowly dip the tip in for hours on end (although its worth a try as an experiment), talking about melting souls or whatever you like to imagine is going on. A big part of womens psyche wants to get fucked hard. Cant keep that going for long? Fine, slow down when youre about to come, find your rhythm and alternate. Use your voice and attitude to fuck her the way she wants to be fucked. The experience of getting fucked hard is mostly mental. The rest of it is just practice (for you). But also remember that there is enormous potential in slowing the whole thing down that most women have forgotten about. What? You think youre the only one whos been watching porn? Porn gets blamed for a lot of things these days. Most of all for the objectification of women. Guess what? Porn never claimed to be selling anything but a little externalized fantasy for your enjoyment.

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The people who claim that porn changed the way men view women really need to learn to stop taking visual cues from the media so seriously. And they also need to stop propagating the claim that all women who enjoy sex are dirty sluts. Grow up, please, there is nothing attractive about jealousy. There are plenty of women that enjoy porn (including the professional actresses and models that grace the world of audiovisual sexual fantasies). Ask your girl what kind of porn she really likes, or who her favorite porn star is, youll learn a lot about her. And youll learn how she would like to get fucked. That doesnt mean your woman has all the answers! Many women havent experimented enough to realize their full sexual potential. Many women even claim they cant have an orgasm. Ill give you an extra tip: often when women claim they cant orgasm, its not because youre doing something wrong, its because, deep down, she is afraid. Its because she has trust issues, traumas or limiting beliefs. Or because you cant be trusted... But were working on that, right? Dont take this as a cue to start blaming women. Encourage her to explore. Help her work through her issues. If she is worth it, that is. Please dont try to be that hero that will gently coax all women to sexual liberation. Youll end up feeling exhausted, disappointed and unfulfilled.

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Mistake #5: Worrying about your penis size

Oh, but I dont worry about my penis size, haha! Perhaps not anymore. But we all have at some point, and Ill bet most of you still are. Its perfectly understandable, guys. Society likes to focus on the physical representation of things, so when it comes to male sexuality, our dicks become the main point of focus. Mostly because getting good at sex is such a taboo subject. No one likes to admit theyre not that good at it. Its one of those things where everyone claims you have to be born with the talent. You either have it, or you dont. Bullshit. Dont believe the hype, please. If you want to get better, you can. Much better. Humanity at large just doesnt know how. But we all have reproductive organs, so we rely on those. Its logical, heres what society tells you women want: tall, powerful, rich, muscular. So logically, a big dick should follow. But let me tell you a story. I met this girl one day. Gorgeous face with the strong but innocent eyes. Amazing body, you know, not the model kind, but those perfect curves that seem to be the ultimate physical representation of female energy. I was enchanted and started talking to her. We hit it off. We ended up in bed together. We continued seeing each other and having mind-blowing sex.

Society likes to focus on the physical representation of things, so when it comes to male sexuality, our dicks become the main point of focus.

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One time, after sex, she started giggling. I smiled and asked what was so funny. Oh, I just thought of that thing people say: Once you go black, youll never go back. Its not true! I burst out laughing.

If you want to get better, you can. Much better.

(No offense to black guys, if he did things right, she probably wouldnt have made this statement.) She went on to explain that every well-endowed guy she had ever been with (not just black guys) thought that having a big dick was enough to satisfy women. They were sorely mistaken (pun intended). (Again, no offense to well-endowed guys, some of you probably do know what youre doing.) The point Im trying to make is this: there are guys with big dicks, medium dicks and small dicks who are shit in bed. There are also guys out there with big dicks, medium dicks and small dicks that have made the effort to improve and find out how to work with what they have. None of the guys in that second group got good by worrying about the size of their dick. The lesson to take away from this: dont worry about the size of your dick.

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But does size matter or not? Sigh. This question does not have one, conclusive, satisfying answer. No matter what anyone tells you.

Being comfortable and confident about the size of your dick is much more important than actually having a big dick.

Heres my take on it: Most women like the idea of a big dick. They like talking about big dicks. But heres the thing: most women wouldnt know a big dick if it hit them in the face... Sorry, I couldnt resist. Its all in their heads. And that makes it easier for you. Have her believe that you have a big dick, and this problem is solved. Being comfortable and confident about the size of your dick is much more important than actually having a big dick. Every single woman Ive been with after I started improving my skills has overestimated my size by about 2 inches. There you go, fellas: perfectly safe and natural penis enlargement! I read somewhere once that women think the perfect size is 8x6 inches. Thats one of those ideas. Youll be hard-pressed to find a women that can judge the size of a cock with the naked eye. Do you want to know what every womans perfect penis size is? Its the perceived size of the cock that belongs to whoever is satisfying her most in bed. That perceived size depends entirely on your personality, confidence and skills.

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Mistake #6: Fantasizing during sex

I dont care how much youd rather be fucking your friends mom, Megan Fox or the girl next door, fantasizing about someone else during sex is not cool. And trust me, if youre doing this, youd probably do a terrible job fucking any of the women youre fantasizing about.

The more you rely on fantasy to get you off, the more you lose touch with your own and with womens real sexuality.

This is basically the equivalent of masturbating inside a womans vagina. Unless she explicitly asked you to, or youre somehow involving her in some mutual masturbation sort of thing (or its a shared perversion) this is extremely disrespectful. If there is one surefire way to land on a womans list of bad lovers, this is it! And unfortunately, its something a lot of guys are guilty of. The more you rely on fantasy to get you off, the more you lose touch with your own and with womens real sexuality. Think about this: if fantasy becomes more arousing than the reality of sex, why did you even start fantasizing? Youre fantasizing about sex because actual sex just doesnt do it for you anymore? Seriously, if you have to think of someone other than the girl youre fucking, youre either evil, retarded or youve obviously picked the wrong girl. So stop being a pussy, man up and take responsibility for your choice in sexual partners. (Perhaps too much alcohol might be a viable excuse, but then it might be time for a reconsideration of your current lifestyle.)

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How would you feel if you found your girl was actually pretending you were Ryan Gosling or Robert Pattinson (God forbid) or whomever your girl is into? If you find yourself relying on fantasy to get off, try this exercise: Next time you have some private time, instead of reaching for the porn, try to relax. Were gonna do a meditative exploration of our sexuality. I admit it might sound a bit quirky, but bear with me, you might learn something about yourself. Get naked. Make the room as soothing as possible (mood lighting, comfortable bed, perhaps a nice scent). If you want, you can put on some of your favorite relaxing, sensual music. Now lie down and relax. Fully relax your body first. T ake some deep breaths (into the lower stomach). S tart touching yourself. But, instead of using fantasy or rigorous stimulation to enhance your arousal, just focus on becoming aware of your sexual energy. Where does it start? When you touch yourself in certain places, does it move? Where does it go? How does it feel when it gets stronger? Dont touch yourself continuously. Pause and focus on the energy. Let go of the thoughts and images. You may choose to make sounds or move around. If the sexual energy compels you to do so, do it. This exercise will help you distinguish between the nervous energy that fantasy generates, and the real energy generated by your genuine sexuality.

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That being said, theres other ways in which fantasizing might actually help you, but not as long as you dont express it. So go right ahead and tell her that thing youve been fantasizing about telling her. Do that thing youve been fantasizing about doing to her. And ask her about her fantasies as well.

Exploring sexual fantasies together is a very intimate and revealing activity.

Be prepared, though! Exploring sexual fantasies together is a very intimate and revealing activity. Youll have to keep an open mind and an open heart, both of you. Dont be surprised if your girl is the one to suggest adding another female in the mix. (Yes, it happens, and its much more common than you think.) But dont freak out if that same girl asks you how you would feel about teaming up with another guy and possibly doing some double penetration. (No, you cant pretend to be two guys.)

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Mistake #7: Using foreplay

What?! Using foreplay is a mistake? Blasphemy!

When we use foreplay as nothing but a lead-in to real sex, were missing the point entirely.

Relax. Take a breath. Allow me to elaborate. For a long time, everything from television to radio, magazines and your local preacher were telling you that using foreplay is the key to good sex. But who came up with the term foreplay? That implies that its some sort of intro to the real deal. Which is a completely fucked up way of looking at it. What we call foreplay is actually any part of sex that isnt penetrating her with your penis. Its using your hands, lips, fingertips, tongue, toys, breath and whatever else you can think of. Its using your voice, your energy, presence, sexual tension. Its role-playing, carrying out fantasies and doing tantric exercises together. Its the little things you do during the day to let her know you love her. Its experimenting with spiritual ideas and playing with energy. Its sex magick. When we use foreplay as nothing but a lead-in to real sex, were missing the point entirely. It becomes nothing more than a way of getting her lubricated and receptive for the act of procreation.

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Sex is not about procreation, despite what your religion might claim. Its about the purest expression of love, through recreation. During sex, people will often proclaim they wish they could stay in that feeling of bliss eternally (myself included), and for good reason. Its probably the closest most of us will ever get to the feeling of unity by merging with another. Foreplay isnt something you should be using. Get rid of the term altogether and start enjoying every part of sex. In fact, lets take it a step further: live like every moment is a sex act. See what happens then. Imagine yourself penetrating the world, as it were. Or imagine being penetrated by life itself, if you dare. See what it does to your feminine side. You might gain a deeper understanding of what sex is like for women. How they experience it, and what feels good (divine even) to them.

Live like every moment is a sex act.

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Mistake #8: Listening to mainstream media experts

Just dont. Theyre full of shit. For every sensible thing they say, they spew at least 50 pieces of utter nonsense.

Dont shave your balls. (Really, this was among the Top 10 Sex Tips in a major publication.)

Here are some gems (with my subtle replies): 1. Have sex in a new place. If you cant fuck her right in the bedroom, you wont fuck her right anywhere else. 2. Use a cock ring. Be my guest, wont make a damn fucking difference. Youre probably better off popping some Viagra or Cialis. 3. Dont shave your balls. Of course! Thats it! Now Ill surely make her cum like a Victorian fountain! 4. 75% of women dont have vaginal orgasms, so use sex toys! Seriously?! Thats how youre going to interpret those numbers? How about this: 75% of women dont have vaginal orgasms because they are subconsciously preventing themselves from having them! (And most men arent exactly helping them either...)

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This problem has to do mostly with the way our society works and how weve suppressed women. And the womens liberation movement hasnt helped in that respect. They rebelled (who can blame them?), wanting to prove a point. They made their point, but in the process suppressed parts of themselves even more. I will talk more about how this movement has suppressed the secret to sexual liberation (and therefore the key to vaginal orgasms) in later publications. Look, these mainstream experts are not experts at all. First off, most of them are just writers for magazines. These days anyone can make a quick buck contributing an article to a magazine or online publication. Then theres the ones with a medical background. Theyre very smart and come up with interesting data, but they always approach everything very one-sidedly. They assume theres physical/biological explanations for everything. Its no wonder the term sin of the flesh is not yet extinct. It aint just about the flesh. If anything, these days, its all fantasy, a lot of it plastic or silicone. And of course, theres the psychologists, who like to propose even more bizarre theories.

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The problem with all of them is that they are stuck in their frame of reference. They look at sexuality through the lens society has provided them with. They observe it from their dusty offices, second-hand stories and sterile labs. But sex is about intimacy, its about experimentation, discovery and enjoyment!

Sex is about intimacy, its about experimentation, discovery and enjoyment.

Real sex cannot be found in the pages of a book, under a microscope or on the psychiatrists couch. (Ok, that last one gets the benefit of the doubt.) Any magazine can tell you how amazing chocolate tastes, how it stimulates certain chemical reactions in your body and your brain, and how it makes you feel satisfied and loved. But unless theyve actually tried that chocolate, their words are empty.

And unless you try it yourself, you will never truly know what chocolate tastes like.

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Mistake #9 (Bonus): Being too proud to improve

But thats not you, right? Because youre here, and youve read this guide all the way to the end, being confronted with some harsh realities. And youve come here determined to improve.

These days, even selfproclaimed sluts laugh at the idea of improving sexually.

Youre here because youre different. You admit you dont know everything, because no-one ever taught you. Because society at large told you other things were important. They told you it was all about money, a fancy new car, looking good, having high social status, and so on. Ive heard so many women complain about mens performance during sex, but heres a thought: what about you, ladies? How many of you actually take the time or make the effort to improve? (And forget about Cosmos silly blowjob tricks, that might have been exciting in the fifties, but it doesnt impress us anymore...) Im finding more and more women acting the same way most men do. Laughing at the idea of improving sexually. Even the ones that profess theyre sluts. You would think that somewhere along the line, some guy would have told them to get better or get out, no? Improving yourself is only part of the equation, and it leads directly into the other part. When you start helping these women experience mind-blowing orgasms, its perfectly legitimate to get something in return.

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Of course, I completely understand the joy of watching a satisfied woman look at you with puppy dog eyes. Its one of the most beautiful things I have had the pleasure of enjoying in my life. But if I got lazy, would she not find another lover? I rest my case.

The single biggest mistake other men make is being too proud to look for guidance or to experiment and improve.

Back to the point, which was about men being too proud to improve. I have some great news for you guys reading this guide: the single biggest mistake other men make is being too proud to look for guidance or to experiment and improve. That puts you way ahead of the curve. Youve started today, by expanding your awareness of the sexual domain. Now youre ready to proceed and learn how you can improve your skills in a practical way. That includes on a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level. Stay tuned for my emails and join me at makegirlorgasm.net. Expect a lack of bullshit. Incidentally, invite your girlfriends to check it out. Yes, I promote a few products through some of my reviews. But I only recommend the ones that actually work. Some of them provide massive value. I recommend them because Ive tried them, with incredible success. So check out the articles and prepare to have your mind blown ;-)

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Thank you for reading!

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