Diamond Feng Shui and Romance

Attracting Romance In order to get new things in your life you have to release old things. Look around in your home. If you are single, old things from past romances have to go. Put them all in a box and store it somewhere to tell the universe there is space for new romance. Let go of everything, even old images. Release it all. Another task is to look at the images hanging on the walls in your home, especially in your bedroom. Are they boring, almost platonic, or saintly? Hang something hotter like people holding each other or dancing. It needs to show something sparkly, not like two old people walking hand in hand on the beach. Images of people walking by water do not create sparks. Instead find something with two people cuddling in front of a fire, watching fireworks, or by candlelight. Or at least an image where fire is involved or theres red in the picture. Use any images with sparkles, red, or fire. If you dont have any images like this, look for something similar and put it in a red frame. Wooden images, such as a man offering flowers, are not hot enough. Have no water images at all. Put a symbol of fire in your relationship corner to spark up your relationships. You can also place the double happiness symbol in a red frame or the Chinese element for fire. Look at what hangs on the wall above your headboard? If nothing hangs over the headboard then nothing will happen in your bed. Is it a picture that represents romance? If youre married, is it a picture of the two of you doing something romantic? It can be an image that reflects what you want. If you want more intimacy, more sexuality, you need to hang an image of that. In the movies, youll often see a man giving red flowers to a woman. By doing this theyre showing more passionate love, more sparks. If you want to have a relationship that will culminate in marriage you use rose flowers. For a hot date use red flowers. Women should wear a red dress for a hot date. If fire is not your fortune element, wear red underwear or at least some item in red. Create a vision board for relationship luck Start with one of your Activation Cards and focus it on relationships. This can be for attracting somebody new into your life or enhancing existing relationships. Write very specifically about what you are looking for. What kind of person do you want? What qualities do they need to have on all levels: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual? Think about cultural aspects you might want to attract in the person: someone from work, your age, religion? Write in all the specifics.

Place the card with your intentions in the center of your board and put images that represent them all around it. Place an image of the right person or the right circumstance: sports fan, has money, invests in the stock market, business owner, motorcycle rider, big car, house in the country, travels, stays at home, music fan, etc. The more you specify, the more likely youll get it. The vision board needs to hang in your personal relationship direction. On the vision board women should place an image of peonies. Men should place an image of the God of Wealth. East people place the image in the South (top center of the board); West people place it in the Southwest (top right). You also need to add your allies and secret friend (see your Level One manual if you do not know these). Place the images in the Northwest of the vision board (bottom right). Making a good match There are lots of ways to try to find Mr. or Ms. Right. One possibility is to find someone that is one of your Chinese astrology allies. That is generally a good match. Or try to find someone whose fortune element supports yours a wood person if yours is fire or a metal person if yours is water, etc. You can work with Personal Energy Numbers as well. To find energy numbers, click link at the end of this article. Here are the best combinations: 1 and 3 4 and 9 2 and 7 6 and female 5 7 and male 5 8 and 6

Use items in pairs to send a message about your relationship. Its important that you do not hang images of people alone. You also need to place items in pairs. Do this everywhere in your home if youre single; if you have a family, then just in your bedroom. Have two candles, two flowers, or two statues looking at each other. Any pictures of people should have them looking at each other. Another activation is to look for your own Chinese astrology animal in a stuffed version and a rose quartz heart. In your relationship corner, place the stuffed animal with the heart under the legs so that it is kind of wrapped up with the animal. If you cant do that, find a pair of female and male stuffed animals and put them together, leaning on each other. Sparkle up a date For your next date or hot night out, be sure you know the birthday of your partner so you can determine their Relationship direction. Try to do something that connects with the other persons personal relationship corner. You can find several suggestions in the Love facet chapter of the Diamond Feng Shui home study courses. Here are a few other ideas to make sure the date sparks:

 A South person will love to go dancing. A Northwest person will love to go stargazing. For a Southeast person make sure you pay the bill. For an East person bring beautiful flowers or make sure you walk in the park after dinner so he or she can enjoy the sights and smells of nature. If your date is a Southwest woman be very elegant with her; open the door, pull out her chair. To win the heart of a Southwest man, ask him about his mother. For a Northeast person, ask about their religious or spiritual background and definitely do a little prayer before you start eating, perhaps joining hands to give thanks for the food. Ask a West person about their childhood stories or about their first date when they were younger. For a North person, ask about how their job is going. If you can, make sure you go to a restaurant that has a fountain or is near water, like at the beach or on a lake.

Copyright Marie Diamond, USA, 2006 For information about Marie Diamond' s Diamond Feng Shui for Romance and other Diamond Feng Shui seminars, click the link below: http://www.mariediamond.com/dqu/curriculum-fengshui.htm

To find your Kua energy number and four best Feng Shui directions, click the link below: http://www.mariediamond.com/energynumber.htm