UPDATE: Victor Warring just lost everything he owns in the Oregon Wildfires, and he and his 2 cats are homeless. If you can help, please do. Donate at: https://www.gofundme.com/f/victors-home-amp-belongings-lost-in-fire   Are there enough towels in the Universe to sop up this much pleasure? Erotic Activist & anti-racism community educator Victor Warring used to believe that being a man was about the ‘doing’ until the met Vanessa. When she lays back on the bed and becomes his teacher, he learns to look, to wait, and to love her up. Oh my, what big paws you have! #Hubris #Trickle #Pleasurefied #Rebirth What does Victor mean when he says he’s a Bonobo? http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20160317-do-bonobos-really-spend-all-their-time-having-sex Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large Song: ‘Across the Universe’ (Fiona Apple)   Bawdy is the Official Folsom Street Fair AfterParty for 2020, and it’s THIS Sunday, September 27th show (7 PM PDT/10 PM EDT). Tickets at http://bit.ly/BawdyFolsomAfterParty Performers include Amp the Pup, Alotta Boutté, Marla Renee Stewart, Justin Hall and Jefferson Bergey! Last year’s show was a sold out blast and our capacity is limited, so don’t delay. Join us for this legendary celebration of Kink Culture and Community!   Announcing Storytelling for Self-Discovery: So many people have asked, so I’m now offering up my coaching to YOU. Let’s see if I can help; Book a call with me and let’s see if I can help. My brand new coaching calendar at https://calendly.com/dixiedelatour   Episode Links Uberlube: Uberlube is a luxurious, high-grade silicone lubricant made from clean, body-friendly ingredients; it’s just silicone with a little Vitamin E. Überlube offers long-lasting performance when you want it  - like all the way through a double feature long lasting! There’s no flavor or scent. And if you’re solo, take Uberlube and your favorite toy on a date to the drive-in, and amplify The latest Purge epic with a little highly vibrational edging. & Right now, they’re offering **Bawdy Storytelling** listeners a special offer – 10% off and free shipping when you use my code “D-I-X-I-E” at UberLube.com. That’s 10% off and free shipping! Just use code “Dixie” at U-B-E-R-LUBE.com. Pour Moi: Hey vulva-owners, do you want stronger orgasms? Intensity by Pour Moi is a device that every woman needs. It’s a sexual health and stimulation device; It is scientifically proven that a stronger pelvic floor can lead to stronger orgasms. Intensity by Pour Moi from InControl Medical gives you that strength.  Right now, Pour Moi is offering Bawdy Storytelling podcast listeners $25 off of Intensity when you go to https://www.pourmoi.com/ and enter code DIXIE at checkout. Intensity’s PourMoi from InControl Medical : It’s the one device every woman needs: It’s Kegels with a kick!   Patreon: New Patreon rewards are on the way! I just recorded an interview about Polyamory, Consent, and the Ethical Slut’s future with it’s notorious co-author Dossie Easton - and it’s for my Patreon supporters first. Bawdy would not exist right now without our Patreon members because Patreon is my everything during COVID. When you join Bawdy’s Patreon, you’re ensuring that Bawdy will make it through this difficult time. A global pandemic, quarantine and economic devastation all at the same time means that the live events that once kept Bawdy Storytelling afloat are long gone. As a Thank you, our $10/month Patreon supporters receive Free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream replay, ad-free episodes of the podcast, our behind-the-scenes story coaching series, story videos from the live show & more. Join our Patreon and you’ll get GREAT rewards in exchange for your support. Thank you so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue.  Want to ensure that Bawdy make it through the Apocalypse? Become a Member at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy   Or you can support Bawdy by sendi