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Patronizers Whiners Negatives
Sniper Backstabbe
Clams
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Clams
Clams Controlle
Walking
Wounded rs
Sluffers Brown Exploders
Nosers
Changing
Environment
“The only person who always
likes change is a wet baby”
CHANGE . . .
◆ Challenges our
paradigms
◆ Alters the way we think
◆ Makes life more difficult
for a while
◆ Causes Stress
◆ Is an ongoing fact of life
Past
Ouch! Experiences
Ouch!
Ouch! Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch! Ouch!
Negative
World View
Media
Frenzy
A recent Statistic:
Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%,
Look at what you are looking at !!!
Determinism
Theory
“Are some
“Are some peoplepeople just just born
born positive
positive
thinkers
thinkers
.. .. .. or
or is
is itit their
their CHOICE?”
CHOICE?”
Choose the Right Luggage
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Do ts
e Be
Bull Bulletproo
f
The Problem With Dodging
Bullets
You’re going to get hit!
Choice #2
Wear Bulletproof Armor
Bulletproof
Bulletproof Armor
Armor
Comes
Comes from
from
SELF CHANGE
Putting
Putting on
on
the
the Armor
Armor
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Cha gs!
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How to Change Your
Attitude
ATTITUDE
Changes happen
personally
from the
INSIDE OUT!
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
So . . . Accept
Responsibility
I am responsible . . .
. . . for who I am
. . . for what I have
. . . for what I do
I T U
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DEE
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ATT
A I T
Step #2 Take Control
Negative
YOU
world view
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT!
How to Change Your
Thinking
THINKING
Changes come
from observing
logically in
every situation
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INKKIN
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Observe Your Thinking
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THINKING
THINKING
Manage Your Self-Talk
If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t…
YOU’RE RIGHT! Henry Ford
THINKING
THINKING
How to Change Your
Behavior
BEHAVIOR
Changes take
true assessment,
determination &
discipline
BEHAVIOR
BEHAVIOR
Choose Your Behavior
REACTIVE
Stimulus Response
RESPONSIBLE
My My
Stimulus Choice Respons
e
BEHAVIOR
BEHAVIOR
Steps Toward Changing
Behavior
The
TheNew
New YOU!
YOU!
BEHAVIOR
BEHAVIOR
4. Unconscious Competence
3. Conscience Competence
2. Conscience Incompetence
1. Unconscious Incompetence
INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!
Add POSI +IVE Behavior
Replace the BAD HABITS!
• Spread a SMILE around
• Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives
• Focus on the good of each day
• Stay out of the “feeding frenzies”
• Say “please” and “thank you”
• Practice EMPATHY
• Evaluate YOUR behavior
• Never miss an opportunity to complement
BEHAVIOR
BEHAVIOR
More POSI IVE +
Contributions
• Before you say anything to anyone, ask
yourself three things
1. Is it true?
2. Is it harmful?
3. Is it necessary?
• Keep promises
• Have a forgiving view of people
• Keep an open mind with changes
• Count to 1000 if necessary
• See criticism as opportunity to improve
• Cultivate your sense of humor
Remember to . . .
Watch
Watch your
your definitions
definitions --
they
they become
become thoughts
thoughts
Watch
Watch your
your thoughts
thoughts --
they
they become
become words
words
Watch
Watch your
your words
words --
they
they become
become actions
actions
Watch
Watch your
your actions
actions --
they
they become
become your
your destiny
destiny
The Choice is YOURS
With a Bad attitude