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Five
LOVE LANGUAGES
How to Express Heartfelt
Commitment to Your Mate
Gary Chapman
1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
Giving someone your undivided attention.
Sharing an activity in which we are giving
our full attention to the other person.
Quality conversation, focusing on what we
are hearing - listening sympathetically.
3. Receiving Gifts
Every good and perfect gift is from
above, coming down from the Father of
the heavenly lights
James 1:17
For it is by grace you have been saved,
through faithand this not from
yourselves, it is the gift of God
Ephesians 2:8
4. Acts of Service
You call me 'Teacher' and 'Lord,' and
rightly so, for that is what I am.
Now that I, your Lord and Teacher,
have washed your feet, you also
should wash one another's feet. I
have set you an example that you
should do as I have done for you.
John 13:13-15
4. Acts of Service
You, my brothers, were called to be
free. But do not use your freedom
to indulge the sinful nature; rather,
serve one another in love. The
entire law is summed up in a single
command: "Love your neighbor as
yourself.
Galatians 5:12-14
Principles of Service
1. Love is a choice; it cannot be
coerced.
2. Service can be done out of love,
or it can be done out of fear,
guilt, and resentment.
Overcoming Stereotypes
A willingness to examine and change
stereotypes is necessary in order to
express love more effectively.
Remember, there are no rewards for
maintaining stereotypes, but there
are tremendous benefits to meeting
the emotional needs of your spouse.
5. Physical Touch
Jesus recognized the importance of
showing love through physical touch.
Filled with compassion, Jesus reached
out his hand and touched the man.
Mark 1:41
Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Receiving Gifts
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
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