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2. Permissive
3. Democratic
The autocratic style of parenting is
characterized by the parent over-controlling
the teen. This parent is a dictator and creates
limits without freedom.
2. Preoperational (2-6)
Polite Requests
I Messages
Firm Directions
FLAC Method
State the Problem
Get Agreement
Discipline that is logically connected to a
misbehavior and is applied by an authority to
influence a teen to behave within the limits of
the situation.
1. Ask teen to help decide
2. Put consequence in form of choice
3. Make sure consequence is logically connected
to the behavior
4. Give choices you can live with
5. Keep tone firm and friendly
6. Give choice one time and then enforce the
consequence
7. Expect testing
8. Allow teen to try again
Feelings: Acknowledging shows you are working
together to solve the problem
10. Being a know-it-all: To show the teen that the parent is a resource
11. Focusing on mistakes: To get the teen to see what they did
wrong.
4. Offer Encouragement
5. Follow Up Later
1. Give full attention
R = C+C
Punishment
Arbitrary retaliation for misbehavior
Intended to teach obedience
Often delivered with anger and resentment
Disrespectful
Dictated by authority
Based on four Principles:
1. Positive Reinforcement
2. Negative Reinforcement
3. Positive Punishment
4. Negative Punishment
Reinforcement = Increasing a behavior
Positive = Giving
Negative = Taking
Behavioral Theory
Teen Behavior and Problem Solving
Courage: The confidence to take a known risk
for a known purpose.
To succeed, teens must have the courage to risk
failure.
-Winston Churchill
Courage comes from the French word, couer,
which means heart.
The Think Feel Do Cycle
Event-Think-Feel-Do
Focusing on Mistakes
Overprotecting
Showing Confidence
Building on Strengths
Stimulating Independence
Contact/Belonging: Undue Attention Seeking
Power: Rebellion
Protection: Revenge
Challenge: Thrill-Seeking
Contact/Belonging: Contribution
Protection: Forgiveness/Appropriate
Interaction
Withdrawal: Centering
Family Talks:
Thrill Seeking
Prevention Strategy #10: Calmly manage a
crisis, should one occur
Compliments
Reading the Minutes
Old Business/New Business
Chores and Allowance
Treat/Family Activity
1) Anger has no place in parenting the difficult
teen.
1) Oral
2) Anal
3) Phallic
4) Latent
5) Genital
Babies are focused on gaining pleasure through
the mouth by biting or sucking.
KAREN HORNEY
The latent stage is the stage in which children
repress sexual feelings and push them into the
background.