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EMOTIONAL AWARENESS
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ROLE OF EMOTIONS IN
INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
EMOTIONs
Emotions are physiological, behavioral, and/or
communicative reactions to stimuli that are cognitively
processed and experienced as emotional (Planlap, Fitness,
& Fehr, 2006)
• Psychological Arousal
• Expressive Behaviors
• Conscious Experience
Debatable Statement
Peeling an onion
THEORIES OF EMOTION
You can be fearful of a the dark but feel guilty about an unkind
comment made to your mother or embarrassed at the thought of
doing poorly on a presentation in front of an audience
Anger
Anxiety
Content
Disgust
Fear
Gratitude
Guilt
TYPICAL EMOTIONS
Happiness
Jealousy
Joy
Pleasure
Relief
Sadness
Surprise
ROLE OF EMOTIONS
TYPES OFIN
EMOTIONS
INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
EFFECT OF EMOTIONS
Physiological Effects
• Emotional suppression increases risk of physical problems such as,
cancer, asthma, heart disease (DeAngelis, 1992)
• Emotional inhibition also causes a increased risk for psychological
problems, such as, anxiety or depression (Krause et al., 2003)
• Overly aggressive expression can lead to high blood pressure and
increased stress (Mayne, 1993)
Relational Effects
• Pent-up emotions are harder to control and more likely to be expressed
violently
• Lack of expression leads to relationship stagnation
• Healthy emotional expression increases intimacy, promotes relationship
growth, and allows problems to be fixed before they escalate
HEALTHY EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION
Be Specific
Fallacy of Perfection
• A communicator should handle all situations well
• Very inspiring, but unrealistic
Fallacy of Approval
Fallacy of Should
Fallacy of Overgeneralization
• A communicator doesn’t distinguish between what is & what should be
• Communicator often wants others to behave differently
Fallacy of Causation
• A communicator feels they shouldn’t do anything to hurt or
inconvenience others
• Often communicator’s needs are overlooked
Fallacy of Helplessness
• Forces beyond a communicators control determine their satisfaction
• Causes the communicator to feel like a victim
Fallacy of Catastrophic Expectations
• A communicator believes if something bad can happen, it will
• Causes ruminations of thoughts and feelings
MANAGING DEBILITATIVE EMOTIONS
• Specific people
• Specific events
Self Regard
• Respecting oneself
• Strengths & weaknesses
• Inner strength & Confidence
Self Actualization
• Life purpose
• Quest to improve oneself
Interpersonal Relationships
Empathy
• Recognizing, understanding, & appreciating other’s
feelings
• Articulate understanding & behave respectfully
Social Responsibility
• Contributing to society
• Acting responsible, social consciousness, concern
DECISION MAKING
Problem solving
Solutions to situations that involve emotions
Impact of emotions on decision making
Reality Testing
Being objective
Recognizing emotions & personal bias
Impulse Control
Managing impulses
Ability to avoid rash decisions & behaviors
STRESS MANAGEMENT
Flexibility
Adapting emotions, thoughts, & behaviors to new
surroundings/situations’
Stress Tolerance
Coping with stressful/different situations
Managing & influencing situations positively
Optimism
Remaining hopeful & resilient-despite setbacks
Positive attitude