Institute of Petroleum Technology Gandhinagar Lesson Plan In this presentation, I will describe different personalities that we can easily identify in any work place. Some of them have a very irritating behaviour. We have to negotiate successful communication with them. I leave negotiating strategies to you. Try to think how you can successfully communicate with these people. Beware: If you are one of these, try to change your behaviour soon. In any workplace we find different types of people. The famous psychologist Wundt identified people based on their ‘humours’. Although, many people today, don’t agree with the theory of humours, it is beyond doubt that human psychology is very complex and difficult to comprehend. Our success or failure in a work place and our sense of job satisfaction would depend greatly on how we deal with these people. 1. The Locomotive Type. The locomotive type are generally the superiors. They are aggressive by nature. They easily get frustrated and easily get angry. They believe in bullying subordinates. They are many a times – autocrat and dictatorial. They believe and insist that their point of view is the only valid solution. They rely a lot on ‘dead lines’. They are never sympathetic listeners. A situation Locomotive: (standing over a staff member with one hand in a fist and finger pointing with the other) Do it now. No discussion. It better happen by 2 o'clock! (walks away) Colleague: But... Locomotive: No buts here. Just get to it. Colleague: (mouth is wide open in disbelief) Question - 1 You will always find such people in a position of high authority. For survival, you cant describe your feelings for such people, and at the same time such behaviour persistently can make you feel humiliated. How would you tackle these situations. Whom would you contact? how would you describe your feelings? 2. The Perfectionist Type No one would deny that work has to be perfect, but ‘human factors’ do sometimes affect the performance. Perfectionists would never accept ‘good’ or ‘better’. They would insist on that ideal ‘best’ which only they can explain. They will never praise or appreciate your good work. They would always say, ‘It could have been better’. They don’t shout, but their indifference can frustrate people. A Situation Perfectionist supervisor: It's now taking us an average of 50 seconds to serve each customer who comes to one of our windows. I want to bring that time down. Brave teller: The average time at the other branches is 70 seconds. We're doing extremely well. The national average is 75. Perfectionist supervisor: I'll never be satisfied with our service time unless it gets down to zero. Question -2 With this type, you feel that your work will never be appreciated. You don’t understand what they want from you. Your enthusiasm evaporates. How would you communicate your concern? Would you let your pessimism overcome you? How would you tackle these people? 3. The Iceman They are good intentioned people, but they resist any change, even for the better. They love ‘status quo’. They will listen to your proposals patiently but will never act. They may say outwardly that ‘change and innovativeness is good’ but they will never take that risk. A Situation Employee:- We should install new sales strategies. Dynamic strategies would bring us more profit. Ice man:- But our present strategies are good enough. We are doing a good business. Employee:- If we take the initiative, we can surpass our competitors ‘x’ and ‘y’. Ice man:- See! Even ‘x’ and ‘y’ also are not going for drastic changes. We should stick to our policies… Question - 3 You know that ____, _____ and ____ changes are the prime requirements. You also know that your strategies will not fail. How would you convince such people that changes that you are proposing would be better for the company? 4. Not- My- Job Type Such people are never a part of team. You want any advice or help from them, they will bluntly say ‘no’. They would carry their job profile in their pocket and would immediately say, ‘it’s not the part of my job.’ They sometimes use this weapon to show their way of getting back at the company. A Situation Overworked Colleague: *****, could you drop this package off for me? Not-My-Job-er: That's not my job. Overworked Colleague: I'll drop off the package if you answer my calls. Not-My-Job-er: Well, that's not what I'm supposed to do either. Overworked Colleague: *****, just what exactly is your job description? Not-My-Job-er: I was hired to take inventory, check shipment dates, do status reports and trace lost packages. Question 4 You sometimes have no option but to work with such people. In spite of your frequent requests, they would not help you. How do you tackle these people? Would you complain your superiors about their behaviour? Would you suggest some strategies to your company in dealing with such people? 5. ‘Do- you – know Type’ These people are very interested in spreading rumors. They feel that by sharing such rumors , they would appear important. They come to you and talk with you for a long time while you are working. For work place relations, you cant say blunt ‘no’ to such people. Their favorite saying is, "Let me tell you what is really happening." A Situation ‘Do you Know’ type is gossiping with you on one or some of the following topics: Senior managers Reorganizations or job cuts Other people's salaries The fast-trackers What competing companies offer their employees Who is dating whom at the company Question:-5 What communication strategies would you suggest to silent these people.
You are the chief officer of a company.
Some body had complained about such a person to you. How would you solve the problem? 6. The Melancholy Jacques Shakespeare has portrayed this type in ‘As You Like It’. These people are pessimistic. They will spread a wave of negativity in the office. They always have ‘bad news’. They expect the unexpected. They take away the energy from the environment. A Situation Employee:- Congratulations, you have won promotion. MJ – Yes… but I will be posted in a rural area… Employee:- Still, there would be a handsome rise in your pay. MJ – So what my workload at present is already intimidating. I have been burdened with additional assignments. It always happens to me. Question:- 6 You have such a person working in your team who can affect the sentiments of your group. Would you persuade this person to drop negativity? How? What positive signals you would send to yourself and others in your group to guard against this wave of negativity? 7. Uncommitted. An Uncommitted does not take his / her job seriously, making his / her teammates' work more difficult. Work is a very low priority for him /her. For such people focus at work is trying to do as little as possible so as to find time to take care of personal matters or other interests. They sense no urgency in getting the work done. Their favorite saying is "It can wait." A Situation Teammate: ******, did you get the team report up to Mr. Davis in time? The Uncommitted: Oh, let me see. No, I didn't. I have it right here. Teammate: The team had all agreed that we would meet the deadline. The Uncommitted : I didn't think it was that important. I had other things to do. Teammate: It was very important. The Uncommitted : Do you want me to do everything? Question - 7 You are a manager / superior of some company. You have received complaints regarding behaviour of such a person. What communication strategies would you adopt to persuade them to work? 8. The Criticizer Have a creative approach? Do you have a different way of doing something or a new suggestion? If you do, the Criticizer will knock it down. His mission is to disagree with anything that is said. He likes to be right, no matter what. He finds problems wherever he goes, never opportunities. The Criticizer will never give you positive feedback but will always jump on your mistake. His favorite saying is "Bad idea." A Situation Colleague: Let's drive instead of flying. We'll get there faster. Criticizer: What, are you crazy? Colleague: Why do you say that? Criticizer: It's just a bad idea. Colleague: OK. Let's fly up tonight so we can be fresh for tomorrow afternoon's presentation. Criticizer: Where are you coming from? Bad idea. Colleague: Why? Criticizer: Trust me on it. You have less experience. Your thinking is illogical. Colleague: Please be specific and explain yourself. Criticizer: What? Now you can't understand me? What's wrong with you? Question - 8 You have to work with such a person. You need his support / facilitation. How would you make him change his mind? 9. The Cry Baby A Crybaby behaves like a child who doesn't get his own way. Not getting his way causes negativity. He frowns, withdraws or goes off on a tirade. The favorite saying of the Crybaby is "Nobody loves me." A Crybaby contractor, for instance, would complain something like this: "The pressure is getting to be too much. I'm not getting your full cooperation. I'm getting all stressed out. I want to do a great job for you. It's really hard doing this work." Question:- 9 You are the superior of such an employee. What motivational strategies would you adopt? How would you encourage this person?