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NESS
FOUR COMMUNICATION AND
PERSONALITY STYLES
PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR
Individuals appear passive on the surface but are
really acting out anger in a subtle, indirect, or
behind-the-scenes way.
Takes many forms but can generally be described
as a non-verbal aggression that manifests in
negative behavior.
It is where you are angry with someone but do not
or cannot tell them.
Feel powerless, stuck, and resentful – in other
words, they feel incapable of dealing directly with
the object of their resentments.
It may also involve indirectly resisting requests
from others by evading or creating confusion
around the issue.
Mutter to themselves rather than confront the
person or issue
Have difficulty acknowledging their anger
Respect others
DEVELOP
ASSERTIVENE
SS
Speak honestly
Develop a Strong self-image
Admit mistakes
Take a stand
Solve problems
ASSERTIVE
STEPS
Step#1: Choose the right time and place
Step#2: Get the listeners’ attention
Step#3: State what you want honestly and openly
Step#4: Speak in specifics and not generalities
Step#5: Ask questions to foster understanding
Step#6: Seek feedback
Step#7: Listen and acknowledge others
Step#8: Pay attention to your tone and voice
Step#9: Reach your goal
HOW TO ASK SOMETHING?
Use an “I” statement that contains the word
“need” or “want” or its equivalent. For
example:
I need to be alone for a while.